Share, He trots this little drama out from time to time, when he becomes overwrought by his inability to interact gracefully on FFL. No need to fret, I assure you. He needs this place like a Turquoise Bee needs honey.
However on second read, your reply does sound a bit like, "sorry to see you go, but don't let the door hit you in the butt on the way out." :-) --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long <sharelong60@...> wrote: > > well turq I would miss you if you stopped posting here but OMMV and obviously > you must do whatever floats yer boat (-: > > > > > ________________________________ > From: turquoiseb <no_re...@yahoogroups.com> > To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com > Sent: Tuesday, April 23, 2013 12:40 PM > Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: to azgrey was what a Sunday on FFL > > > >  > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long <sharelong60@> wrote: > > > > dear my turqish delight and Ann who was looking forward > > to this reply. BTW Ann, I have another in the queue 4 u. > > Anyway, turq, thank you because my feelings were hurt > > when you gave all those kudos to Curtis and Steve yesterday. > > That's called 'ego,' otherwise known as 'self-importance.' > You'll get over it. Either that, or you won't. :-) > > > But I think I've learned a thing or two here at the Funny > > Farm Lounge so I simply enjoyed myself, hopefully not being > > mean spirited in the process and Bob's your uncle! Here we are! > > > > If you're saying that I shouldn't let them matter to me in > > an unhealthy way, then I totally agree with you. But turq, > > I gotta let them matter to me, you know, in a healthy way, > > even if I don't like how they're acting. > > If you feel that you have so much time remaining in your > life that you feel OK spending it interacting with people > who are only trying to set you up for the next time they > can vent their own unhappiness on you and yell at you, so > be it. You *know* in advance that this is what is going to > happen. So if you continue to interact with them, some part > of you *enjoys* being yelled at. Cool, I guess. Some people > enjoy being tied up and whipped, or engaging in orgies with > dwarves and small rodents. It's an odd planet, and there > is room for pretty much any kind of kinkiness. :-) > > > I think it might be my biggest life lesson, whatever the > > heck that is! In this project, FFL is a great classroom, > > wicked grin. > > As I said, whatever floats yer boat. Better you wasting > your time with these people than me. > > > Hope your project is on schedule, going well, being fun, etc. > > All of the above. Paris has been an utter delight, both at > work and away from it. The contrast it provides to FFL and > the normal conversations here makes me feel less and less > like being here. To be perfectly honest, the grittiest > banlieus (urban slums) of Paris are often more high-vibe. > > I'm not knocking your decision to keep interacting with > people who you *know* intend you ill, and are only feign- > ing civility in between yelling at you, hoping that *either* > of these tactics will tempt you into continuing to interact > with them. From my point of view, you're fortunate that one > of them isn't (at the current time) Robin, because then -- > like Curtis -- you'd have them writing serial short-story > length diatribes at you and actually expecting you to read > them. The current crop of pissants don't have the attention > span to do that, so you get off relatively easy. :-) > > Whatever floats yer boat... > > > ________________________________ > > From: turquoiseb <no_re...@yahoogroups.com> > > To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com > > Sent: Monday, April 22, 2013 11:37 PM > > Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: to azgrey was what a Sunday on FFL > > > > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long <sharelong60@> wrote: > > > > > > Earth Day is ending, the lawn > > > of my lady-parts is still not green. > > > Has J's curse gone astray, dear grey? > > > > Share, despite AZ's...uh...colorful metaphor, I don't think > > you're in danger of your lady parts turning green any time > > soon. However, I think I detect a distinct tinge of jealousy- > > green coming from the person who has been reduced to sputter- > > ing badly-tranliterated Yiddish insults at you. :-) > > > > What's going on is that she has been counting on you being > > her Ongoing Victim, and in being to get you to rise to the > > bait whenever she taunts you. You have been failing to do > > that, which drives her CRAZY because she considers herself > > so much SMARTER than you are. > > > > ALL of her fantasies (as expressed on this forum, anyway... > > who knows what she fantasizes about privately) revolve > > around *ruining someone's day*, and making them feel bad > > because she's "proved them wrong" or "made them appear to > > look stupid" or devastated them with her oh-so-barbed > > tongue. And NONE Of that has been working on you. > > > > You've been doing to her what Curtis did to Robin and what > > I've done to Judy for some time -- LAUGHING AT HER. And > > this drives her stark raving bonkers. She really can't > > COMPREHEND how anyone can sit back and *not* react to her > > ongoing taunts and insults, so you've essentially confounded > > her and rendered her powerless and sputtering in a language > > she (clearly) doesn't even know. > > > > Read my lips...if this keeps up, and you continue to just > > laugh at her taunts and those of her groupies trying to > > get you to react, they'll eventually move on to some other > > victim. Possibly (and more entertainingly) they'll start > > to turn on each other. The important thing from their > > point of view is that they HAVE a victim, and that they > > are AFFECTING that victim, making them feel bad, being the > > chronic abusers they are against co-dependent victims who > > "play along" by agreeing to feel abused. > > > > If we just LAUGH at them (while pitying them a little for > > the emptiness of a life that renders this their only form > > of entertainment or fulfillment) and go on living our > > lives AS IF THEY SIMPLY DIDN'T MATTER, sooner or later > > one or more of them might catch a clue and realize that > > THEY DON'T. > > > > > ________________________________ > > > From: azgrey <no_re...@yahoogroups.com> > > > To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com > > > Sent: Monday, April 22, 2013 6:14 PM > > > Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: what a Sunday on FFL > > > > > > Dear Share, > > > > > > Google has a full translation function. I'm not sure that > > > the Jerseyese section contains all of the dialects as what > > > I came up with is she either wants to preform sanyama > > > on your lawn or is expressing an unnatural interest in the > > > operation of your lady-parts. > > > > > > Alex might be able to help as he seen to be a native speaker. > > > He might have to first get a refill on his ointment. > > > > > > Hugs, > > > > > > azgrey > > > > > > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "authfriend" <authfriend@> wrote: > > > > > > > > Share, are you familiar with the expression "Blow it > > > > out your ass"? > > > > > > > > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long <sharelong60@> wrote: > > > > > > > > > > Judy, your biases are noted.ÃâàAs is your continuing self > > > > > delusion about the presence of those biases and your ongoing > > > > > inability to see more complete truth much less express it. > > > > (snip) > > > > > > > > > > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long <sharelong60@> wrote: > > > > > (snip) > > > > > > from Judy, best expression of her *hypochondria:ÃÆ'ââ¬Å¡Ãâà> > > > > > I'm allergic > > > > > > to dishonesty. > > > > > (snip) > > > > > > *hypochondria n. The persistent conviction that one is or is > > > > > > likely to become ill, often involving symptoms when illness > > > > > > is neither present nor likely, > > > > > > > > > > Says the person who has to her discredit an *astounding* > > > > > number of examples of the most flagrant dishonesty--most > > > > > recently her combined smear of raunchy and Robin today-- > > > > > including rewriting history as documented by *her own > > > > > posts*, and who has been unable either to explain away > > > > > the dishonesty or acknowledge it. > > > > > > > > > > (And by the way, the symptoms of allergy *are* the illness.) > > > > > > > > > > > > > > >