Cynthia Vickery wrote:
the thing that bothers me about all this, is why people even ask the question. When did you last hear anyone ask 'what made you heterosexual?'. The whole premis of this discussion implies there is something wrong with homsexuality. Homosexuality is normal, it is expressed in all communities and in many species.it just seems like we need more *words* out there to describe all the different ways out there that it's possible to *be* so that we aren't left bumbling about in the darkness.cindy
the thing that pisses me off the most is the false logic people use: I am was sexually abused as a child. As were many people. I had a female friend who also was. I am gay She was not. Yet people still think I am gay because of the abuse! If there is any logic in that, my firend would have been too. If it was logical, i woudl have been str8. i didn't like men, I was afraid of them. That feeling hasn't much changed!
The fact that there are groups of siblings who are gay really does indicate that homosexuality does have an inborn cause rather it being environmental.
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colin
oh and tomboys grow up to be str8 a lot and I know of men who are fem who are str8. My john is evry bit the str8 guy except he loves me. His upbringing was totally different to mine. he wasn't at all 'fem', he played rugger and did all the masculine things. He still preferred males when it came to matters of sex and love.
