Hi Christopher- I’m glad to see your intent wasn’t to act as if you were owed something. That is heartening. However the impact and the affect was perceived as such. You have to reckon with that. It’s important to understand the difference and the ways in which our intent isn’t important when the impact and affect is felt by others. This could be informative: https://everydayfeminism.com/2013/07/intentions-dont-really-matter/
If those truly are your reading and posting conditions and intentions then it is up to you to make sure your posts reflect your intent and it’s not for us to do the emotional legwork of trying to find a way to make an offensive post inoffensive. I think you’ll understand that if you truly weren’t trying to be offensive regarding her absence. -Justin -- You received this message because you are subscribed to the Google Groups "RBW Owners Bunch" group. To unsubscribe from this group and stop receiving emails from it, send an email to rbw-owners-bunch+unsubscr...@googlegroups.com. To post to this group, send email to rbw-owners-bunch@googlegroups.com. Visit this group at https://groups.google.com/group/rbw-owners-bunch. For more options, visit https://groups.google.com/d/optout.
