I need advice
I need advice Hi all!I tried to download something from blind help and i seem to got infected with a virus, kaspersky astarted reporting infected dlls all over the place and then i couldn't open any program at all, after that my comp blue screend, but then when i rebooted my kaspersky started disinfecting stuff and it also disinfected everything sucsesfully and rebooted again, also the windows troubleshooter opened and said they will fix malware problems on m computer, then it said it did it and i should reboot. i did reboot and it seems to be o k and i did one more full scann, and it found eeven more, but after that, i don't think there is anything on the system, can you give me advice if i should do anything else, and what should i do? URL: https://forum.audiogames.net/post/528216/#p528216 -- Audiogames-reflector mailing list Audiogames-reflector@sabahattin-gucukoglu.com https://sabahattin-gucukoglu.com/cgi-bin/mailman/listinfo/audiogames-reflector
Re: I need advice
Re: I need advice I just found out i was infected with win32 pioneer.cz or also known as floxiv virus. if something happens i will let you guys know. URL: https://forum.audiogames.net/post/528447/#p528447 -- Audiogames-reflector mailing list Audiogames-reflector@sabahattin-gucukoglu.com https://sabahattin-gucukoglu.com/cgi-bin/mailman/listinfo/audiogames-reflector
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Re: I need advice apperently this floxif virus can infect apps and make more viruses, that is why when i still got that virus one of my executables turned into a ransomware, because kaspersky found it but before i had it and it did not do anything, very strange. URL: https://forum.audiogames.net/post/528568/#p528568 -- Audiogames-reflector mailing list Audiogames-reflector@sabahattin-gucukoglu.com https://sabahattin-gucukoglu.com/cgi-bin/mailman/listinfo/audiogames-reflector
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Re: I need advice I have downloaded a few things from that sight as well, however I always scan things before running that and I have a windows vm so not much chance of my main os mac to get inficted at least not with windows stuff. Still, when I download stuff for windows I always have my antivirus check just in case. URL: https://forum.audiogames.net/post/528622/#p528622 -- Audiogames-reflector mailing list Audiogames-reflector@sabahattin-gucukoglu.com https://sabahattin-gucukoglu.com/cgi-bin/mailman/listinfo/audiogames-reflector
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Re: I need advice I have downloaded a few things from that sight as well, however I always scan things before running that and I have a windows vm so not much chance of my main os mac to get inficted at least not with windows stuff. Still, when I download stuff for windows I always have my antivirus check just in case. As others have said, be very careful with that sight. Downloaded a file out of curiosity once to see if it had a virus and sure enough, before I as soon as soon as I downloaded the file, my mac's antivirus scanned and... virus found, multy extra or media extra, one of those two, antivirus deleated the entire file, so yeah, careful when downloading things from ***. Before opening stuff from... well, anyware really, scan them with antivirus. URL: https://forum.audiogames.net/post/528622/#p528622 -- Audiogames-reflector mailing list Audiogames-reflector@sabahattin-gucukoglu.com https://sabahattin-gucukoglu.com/cgi-bin/mailman/listinfo/audiogames-reflector
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Re: I need advice Here is the thing, the kaspersky security cloud did not delete, but disinfect the file, and i thought, oh well then the crack wont work, disabled protection, unzipped the thing again and ran, and after installing and enabling protection, boom, it started giving me so so much warnings so yeah. URL: https://forum.audiogames.net/post/528635/#p528635 -- Audiogames-reflector mailing list Audiogames-reflector@sabahattin-gucukoglu.com https://sabahattin-gucukoglu.com/cgi-bin/mailman/listinfo/audiogames-reflector
Re: I need advice
Re: I need advice I would recommend you back up all your data, do virus scans on your back up with multiple antivirus applications, then reformat and reinstall Windows completely. URL: https://forum.audiogames.net/post/528641/#p528641 -- Audiogames-reflector mailing list Audiogames-reflector@sabahattin-gucukoglu.com https://sabahattin-gucukoglu.com/cgi-bin/mailman/listinfo/audiogames-reflector
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Re: I need advice hmm i will see, but the fact i now don't have a single file infected is promising... will see how this goes. URL: https://forum.audiogames.net/post/528646/#p528646 -- Audiogames-reflector mailing list Audiogames-reflector@sabahattin-gucukoglu.com https://sabahattin-gucukoglu.com/cgi-bin/mailman/listinfo/audiogames-reflector
Re: I need advice
Re: I need advice a thing worth mentioning is that this thing had a file in comon files that is known for the virus and kaspersky renamed it from .dll to .dll.000 and then i was just able to remove it. URL: https://forum.audiogames.net/post/528670/#p528670 -- Audiogames-reflector mailing list Audiogames-reflector@sabahattin-gucukoglu.com https://sabahattin-gucukoglu.com/cgi-bin/mailman/listinfo/audiogames-reflector
Re: I need advice
Re: I need advice This is what you get when you download cracked software and that I is the reason why I would never do that in the first place URL: https://forum.audiogames.net/post/528735/#p528735 -- Audiogames-reflector mailing list Audiogames-reflector@sabahattin-gucukoglu.com https://sabahattin-gucukoglu.com/cgi-bin/mailman/listinfo/audiogames-reflector
Re: I need advice
Re: I need advice @20, well, I didint downloaded something from this website although I got the vyrus, I scanned it and it removed it from the computer completelyalthough, I reformated the computer and reinstalled windos and did everything so no pease of data is left, i'm not sure if only antivyruses will work, you should be glad you didint got the remnit vyrus because, well... URL: https://forum.audiogames.net/post/528739/#p528739 -- Audiogames-reflector mailing list Audiogames-reflector@sabahattin-gucukoglu.com https://sabahattin-gucukoglu.com/cgi-bin/mailman/listinfo/audiogames-reflector
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Re: I need advice oh yes, I had my days with vyrus back with the windows vista days. I was not the only one who used the computer, and someone else got some on the system and the admin of the system had to remove the vyrus to get the system going again. URL: https://forum.audiogames.net/post/528748/#p528748 -- Audiogames-reflector mailing list Audiogames-reflector@sabahattin-gucukoglu.com https://sabahattin-gucukoglu.com/cgi-bin/mailman/listinfo/audiogames-reflector
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Re: I need advice Oh yeah that virus is fucking nasty. URL: https://forum.audiogames.net/post/528751/#p528751 -- Audiogames-reflector mailing list Audiogames-reflector@sabahattin-gucukoglu.com https://sabahattin-gucukoglu.com/cgi-bin/mailman/listinfo/audiogames-reflector
Re: I need advice
Re: I need advice Hi.Well for starters, if you download something from a site that is known for hosting illegal material and resources it's sorta you own fault and you could be classified as a Dau, dumbest assumable user.For reals though, i would, in this case go and completely reinstall Windows. If your AV finds even more stuff that would be the most safe bet.Greetings Moritz. URL: https://forum.audiogames.net/post/528221/#p528221 -- Audiogames-reflector mailing list Audiogames-reflector@sabahattin-gucukoglu.com https://sabahattin-gucukoglu.com/cgi-bin/mailman/listinfo/audiogames-reflector
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Re: I need advice Now it stopped finding stuff actually and i ran second opinion scanns and they did not show anything, now i am not really sure on what to do. URL: https://forum.audiogames.net/post/528224/#p528224 -- Audiogames-reflector mailing list Audiogames-reflector@sabahattin-gucukoglu.com https://sabahattin-gucukoglu.com/cgi-bin/mailman/listinfo/audiogames-reflector
Re: I need advice
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Re: I need advice i think you still have to cleaninstal windows URL: https://forum.audiogames.net/post/528234/#p528234 -- Audiogames-reflector mailing list Audiogames-reflector@sabahattin-gucukoglu.com https://sabahattin-gucukoglu.com/cgi-bin/mailman/listinfo/audiogames-reflector
Re: I need advice
Re: I need advice Yeah. Don't visit that website. God knows what viruses they have there, (Media extra or whatever the fuck they call it) URL: https://forum.audiogames.net/post/528236/#p528236 -- Audiogames-reflector mailing list Audiogames-reflector@sabahattin-gucukoglu.com https://sabahattin-gucukoglu.com/cgi-bin/mailman/listinfo/audiogames-reflector
Re: I need advice
Re: I need advice no, it was not that thing, a completely different thing, also when this happened i could not open any programs but now i can do everything and at least it is not detecting stuff, but i don't know. URL: https://forum.audiogames.net/post/528237/#p528237 -- Audiogames-reflector mailing list Audiogames-reflector@sabahattin-gucukoglu.com https://sabahattin-gucukoglu.com/cgi-bin/mailman/listinfo/audiogames-reflector
Re: I need advice
Re: I need advice we'll see how this goes, if you have any more suggestions put them here. URL: https://forum.audiogames.net/post/528263/#p528263 -- Audiogames-reflector mailing list Audiogames-reflector@sabahattin-gucukoglu.com https://sabahattin-gucukoglu.com/cgi-bin/mailman/listinfo/audiogames-reflector
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Re: I need advice Hi.@mikes0916, what exactly did you install? URL: https://forum.audiogames.net/post/528265/#p528265 -- Audiogames-reflector mailing list Audiogames-reflector@sabahattin-gucukoglu.com https://sabahattin-gucukoglu.com/cgi-bin/mailman/listinfo/audiogames-reflector
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Re: I need advice Well, as dum as i am i tried avira phantom vpn pro because i thought it works i cannot afoard any vpn at the moment. URL: https://forum.audiogames.net/post/528315/#p528315 -- Audiogames-reflector mailing list Audiogames-reflector@sabahattin-gucukoglu.com https://sabahattin-gucukoglu.com/cgi-bin/mailman/listinfo/audiogames-reflector
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Re: I need advice Hi.I've only downloaded eloquence from there, I'd be very careful with that site.I'd recommend waiting for a couple days and if nothing happens then you're ok, if not, reinstal windows but I don't think you'll have to do that. URL: https://forum.audiogames.net/post/528319/#p528319 -- Audiogames-reflector mailing list Audiogames-reflector@sabahattin-gucukoglu.com https://sabahattin-gucukoglu.com/cgi-bin/mailman/listinfo/audiogames-reflector
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Re: I need advice well, serves ya right for trying to use pirated content. URL: https://forum.audiogames.net/post/528332/#p528332 -- Audiogames-reflector mailing list Audiogames-reflector@sabahattin-gucukoglu.com https://sabahattin-gucukoglu.com/cgi-bin/mailman/listinfo/audiogames-reflector
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Re: I need advice I have downloaded a few things from blindhelp myself and never run into a virus, but it's never been cracked, either. Just android games and apps and the like. As others have said, wait a few days, have everything backed up just in case, and if you still have issues in a few days, reinstall windows. URL: https://forum.audiogames.net/post/528367/#p528367 -- Audiogames-reflector mailing list Audiogames-reflector@sabahattin-gucukoglu.com https://sabahattin-gucukoglu.com/cgi-bin/mailman/listinfo/audiogames-reflector
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Re: I need advice Also, posts like @11 rankly serve no point. Yes he shouldn't have been using cracked software but I think getting a virus might have helped him learn his lesson. So in stead of throwing it back in his face and replying with a simple post saying, ha, ha, ha, ha, ha, ha, that's what you get, and no advice such as re-install windows, or back up everything, please, just leave the topic alone URL: https://forum.audiogames.net/post/528369/#p528369 -- Audiogames-reflector mailing list Audiogames-reflector@sabahattin-gucukoglu.com https://sabahattin-gucukoglu.com/cgi-bin/mailman/listinfo/audiogames-reflector
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Re: I need advice interesting... you should reinstall windows, or do a system restore URL: https://forum.audiogames.net/post/528397/#p528397 -- Audiogames-reflector mailing list Audiogames-reflector@sabahattin-gucukoglu.com https://sabahattin-gucukoglu.com/cgi-bin/mailman/listinfo/audiogames-reflector
I like the girl next door but I need advice
I like the girl next door but I need advice Hello everyone. So before I begin telling you whats going, let me tell you a few important things first. I'm 14, and I turn 15 on december 17th. Ok, here we go.So, about a month ago, I moved into my new house, but never got to meet the next door neighbors till about a week ago. I met the girls and there brother yesterday. theres an 11 year old, a 14 year old, and a 16 year old. I like the 16 year old. I've hung out with thim, and them with me, for about a day now. I even went to have chili with them this afternoon. My problem: What if the girl finds it creepy that I like her? I mean, her birthday is on may 14th so she's not fully 2 years older than me, but still. She's the only one who's really really talked to me. I mean I talk to the other girls, but I almost listened to this girls favorite song today. I'm really confused. And also, I'm nervous I'll get friend-zoned. I don't want that again. Any advice would be welcome. THanks.< /p> URL: http://forum.audiogames.net/viewtopic.php?pid=192562#p192562 ___ Audiogames-reflector mailing list Audiogames-reflector@sabahattin-gucukoglu.com https://sabahattin-gucukoglu.com/cgi-bin/mailman/listinfo/audiogames-reflector
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Re: I like the girl next door but I need advice Hi ghost rider.What I would say is, go with your heart. Meaning, you feel like you like her. Ask her weather she likes you in return.The thing is, you're young, if she says no, not that I'm saying she will but if she does, there's plenty more women out there and honestly at your age, I'd not worry about that kind of thing. Just be friends and if things go anywhere, then let them. I'm not saying don't dream about her, don't enjoy having ideas about her when you're alone. no way! Do that, and enjoy every second of doing that. Heck, masturbate to the idea of her doing things and you doing things to one another if that's what you want to do. Don't be afraid of feelings, sexual or otherwise. Feelings are what make us, us. They won't go away no matter what people tell us.When I was around your age, I didn't have "the talk." my family didn't like and still don't like talking about t he... s... word. Stupid really, when you think about it.So I had feelings for women I met, older or the same age as me, it didn't matter. I still masturbated to the thought of those women. And enjoyed every second of it.So what I'm saying is, enjoy life, cause sometimes adults are right, but mostly they're wrong when it comes to this kind of thing. Ans if you're family aren't like mine and talk about sex openly, then congrats, you've got a good family there.I hope this helps. URL: http://forum.audiogames.net/viewtopic.php?pid=192565#p192565 ___ Audiogames-reflector mailing list Audiogames-reflector@sabahattin-gucukoglu.com https://sabahattin-gucukoglu.com/cgi-bin/mailman/listinfo/audiogames-reflector
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Re: I like the girl next door but I need advice I would say talk and be friends. Get to know her and then ask her if she truly likes you. URL: http://forum.audiogames.net/viewtopic.php?pid=192568#p192568 ___ Audiogames-reflector mailing list Audiogames-reflector@sabahattin-gucukoglu.com https://sabahattin-gucukoglu.com/cgi-bin/mailman/listinfo/audiogames-reflector
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Re: I like the girl next door but I need advice hi.brad I totally agree with you. I was in the same situation as you when I was younger, my family didn't give me the talk too and this had some repercussions such as making me feel guilty for liking a girl. this had to do also with religion but this is an other matter.ghost rider I suggest you try to be her best friend and get to know her better, if you go too fast she might refuse you. and don't forget that being her best friend and listening to her troubles helps a lot. I wish you good luck man... URL: http://forum.audiogames.net/viewtopic.php?pid=192576#p192576 ___ Audiogames-reflector mailing list Audiogames-reflector@sabahattin-gucukoglu.com https://sabahattin-gucukoglu.com/cgi-bin/mailman/listinfo/audiogames-reflector
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Re: I like the girl next door but I need advice I agree. Try to be her friend and then se what happens. URL: http://forum.audiogames.net/viewtopic.php?pid=192581#p192581 ___ Audiogames-reflector mailing list Audiogames-reflector@sabahattin-gucukoglu.com https://sabahattin-gucukoglu.com/cgi-bin/mailman/listinfo/audiogames-reflector
Re: I like the girl next door but I need advice
Re: I like the girl next door but I need advice I've posted this in another forum but I think it'll help. It'd a dating/general advice podcast that gives all sorts of information on this kinda stuff. Here's the link:http://theartofcharmpodcast.com/As for what I've eperienced with the friend zone, I'd say the best thing you can do is to not rush things too quickly, but try to spend time with her, and make it somewhat obvious that you're into her. If she isn't you'll know. If that's the case, no problem. It'll suck, sure, but if you're able to move on, chances are she's friends with other girls who are just as attractive. In that case, the friend zone doesn't always have to be a bad thing. URL: http://forum.audiogames.net/viewtopic.php?pid=192609#p192609 ___ Audiogames-reflector mailing list Audiogames-reflector@sabahattin-gucukoglu.com https://sabahattin-gucukoglu.com/cgi-bin/mailman/listinfo/audiogames-reflector
Re: I like the girl next door but I need advice
Re: I like the girl next door but I need advice Hello. Thanks for the advice. She went back to Chicago for the week and I was texting her today and offered to take her and her sisters and friends to a new movie thats coming out. I hope, HOPE, I can get her to sit next to me at the place without being too obvious about it. I couldn't stop thinking about her today. When I got the text saying hi from her, my day was made. Corny, I know, but... Yeah. URL: http://forum.audiogames.net/viewtopic.php?pid=192620#p192620 ___ Audiogames-reflector mailing list Audiogames-reflector@sabahattin-gucukoglu.com https://sabahattin-gucukoglu.com/cgi-bin/mailman/listinfo/audiogames-reflector
Re: I like the girl next door but I need advice
Re: I like the girl next door but I need advice I like the girl next desk, obviously not like a friend, but something more. If both boy, and girl feel something for each other, they don't hesitate to say it to each other. This is true and is supposed always to be. URL: http://forum.audiogames.net/viewtopic.php?pid=192663#p192663 ___ Audiogames-reflector mailing list Audiogames-reflector@sabahattin-gucukoglu.com https://sabahattin-gucukoglu.com/cgi-bin/mailman/listinfo/audiogames-reflector
Re: I like the girl next door but I need advice
Re: I like the girl next door but I need advice It sounds like a crush or some form of young love. Trust me, I've been down that road. But if you truly believe you have feelings for this girl, take it slow. Develop a stable relationship with her. And if you find that you can't handle rejection, then you have to settle the issue of asking her to be your girlfriend in the first place.When it comes down t it, you have to tell her how you feel. If you ever wish to progress forward with a person, whether it'd be an intimate relationship or a strong brotherhood, let them know. Express it. They won't know until you tell them.Best Regards,Luke URL: http://forum.audiogames.net/viewtopic.php?pid=192770#p192770 ___ Audiogames-reflector mailing list Audiogames-reflector@sabahattin-gucukoglu.com https://sabahattin-gucukoglu.com/cgi-bin/mailman/listinfo/audiogames-reflector
I like the girl three desks backwards but I need advice
I like the girl three desks backwards but I need advice first, lets clarify something. I'm fifteen, and I know what love is, emotions and such things so it'd wouldn't be a problemso I like the girl four desks backwards. Her name's Michelle Changoluisa, a last name pretty ecuadorian.we're good friends. We chat, we talk, and well we sometimes are fisically close one to the other.I just wanna question, how should I know it's the adequate moment to say her I love her, because I feel the same sensation from her?hmm but I'm not the unike that loves her. There's another, called Xabier mendes. but he's not smart, he's not inteligent. He has like 16 and he's still in 9'th grade.so, well he's lazy.I'm just trying to make the situation in my mind. I'm infront her.so, how do I say her I love her? all the class say she's very cute. and I love her voice, her personality, her form of being in the real life. I fall inlove on her!thanks?signature: URL: http://forum.audiogames.net/viewtopic.php?pid=194668#p194668 ___ Audiogames-reflector mailing list Audiogames-reflector@sabahattin-gucukoglu.com https://sabahattin-gucukoglu.com/cgi-bin/mailman/listinfo/audiogames-reflector
Re: I like the girl three desks backwards but I need advice
Re: I like the girl three desks backwards but I need advice First even though you say you know what love is I really wouldn't call it being in love. You no doubt have a lot of affection for her and may even love her but you're probably not in love with her.Even if you were in love starting with that would be a bit extreme and likely to cause a shock reaction from how sudden it is. I'd probably start out when you're together but there's no time pressure or risk of interruption and it's all casual, then tell her you've spent some time together with her and briefly tell her one or two things you like about her personality and stress there's no pressure but you find yourself attracted to her and you'd very much like to be more than friends and date her. Just take it carefully and slowly, saying you love her is really jumping in with both feet.None of this is a criticism, it's perfectly easy for even adults to mistake love for being in love and I've done this myself while arou nd ten years older than you are now. One kind of love also doesn't preclude the other, in fact loving her as a friend is a perfectly sound basis for a relationship so long as you both feel a mutual attraction. URL: http://forum.audiogames.net/viewtopic.php?pid=194669#p194669 ___ Audiogames-reflector mailing list Audiogames-reflector@sabahattin-gucukoglu.com https://sabahattin-gucukoglu.com/cgi-bin/mailman/listinfo/audiogames-reflector
Re: I like the girl three desks backwards but I need advice
Re: I like the girl three desks backwards but I need advice First even though you say you know what love is I really wouldn't call it being in love. You no doubt have a lot of affection for her and may even love her but you're probably not in love with her.Even if you were in love starting with that would be a bit extreme and likely to cause a shock reaction from how sudden it is. I'd probably start out when you're together but there's no time pressure or risk of interruption and it's all casual, then tell her you've spent some time together with her and briefly tell her one or two things you like about her personality and stress there's no pressure but you find yourself attracted to her and you'd very much like to be more than friends and date her. Just take it carefully and slowly, saying you love her is really jumping in with both feet.None of this is a criticism, it's perfectly easy for even adults to mistake love for being in love and I've done this myself while arou nd ten years older than you are now. One kind of love also doesn't preclude the other, in fact loving her as a friend is a perfectly sound basis for a relationship so long as you both feel a mutual attraction.There's also no way to necessarily know if she feels the same without telling her. There may be hints but when you feel like that I know you often don't know if they're real or if you're just exaggerating them in your mind from wanting them to be true, equally there may be hints you're missing. Throw in the fact that if she does feel the same way she may be bottling it up from the same fear of rejection as you. All I can say is if she's a real friend and you don't pressure her or suddenly shock her by professing your undying love chances are even if she does turn you down she won't tear your nuts off while she does it. URL: http://forum.audiogames.net/viewtopic.php?pid=194669#p194669 ___ Audiogames-reflector mailing list Audiogames-reflector@sabahattin-gucukoglu.com https://sabahattin-gucukoglu.com/cgi-bin/mailman/listinfo/audiogames-reflector
Re: I like the girl three desks backwards but I need advice
Re: I like the girl three desks backwards but I need advice I cna totally agree with CX2's advice. I had the opposite experience as you did, Terminator. When I met my girflriend, I was 18 and she was 16. God did I have a crush on her, and I know now that she felt the same toward me. She tried to hint me, as did I, that we had a crush on each other, but neither of us wanted to openly admit it of course. We just simply drew to each other like magnets but didn't want to admit to the other that it was happening. We took it really slow after that, partly because we only see each other 3 or 4 times a year. There are times I do miss her and have, well, fantasies. But that's for another topic entirely. Though it's not completely irrelevant, as fantasy about an attractive mate is very common at a young age, so long as it's not inappropriate or disturbing fantasies that could get you into serious trouble should you act on them. URL: http://forum.audiogames.net/viewtopic.php?pid=194673#p194673 ___ Audiogames-reflector mailing list Audiogames-reflector@sabahattin-gucukoglu.com https://sabahattin-gucukoglu.com/cgi-bin/mailman/listinfo/audiogames-reflector
Re: I like the girl three desks backwards but I need advice
Re: I like the girl three desks backwards but I need advice I can totally agree with CX2's advice. Take it slow and be open with her, tell you what you like about her and nothing more. Don't say "I love you," that's jumping to conclusions. Jumping to a conclusion like that will turn her off or may scare her out of a possible relationship.I had the opposite experience as you did, Terminator. When I met my girlfriend, I was 18 and she was 16. God did I have a crush on her, and I know now that she felt the same toward me. She tried to hint at me, as did I, that we had a crush on each other, but neither of us wanted to openly admit it of course. We just simply drew to each other like magnets but didn't want to admit to the other that it was happening. We took it really slow after that, partly because we only see each other 3 or 4 times a year. That does slow things down. There are times I do miss her and have, well, fantasies. But that's for another topic entirely. Though it's not completely irrele vant, as fantasy about an attractive mate is very common at a young age, so long as it's not inappropriate or disturbing fantasies that could get you into serious trouble should you act on them. Nor should they completely take over your concentration when something vitally important is at hand, like passing on a final exam, for example. URL: http://forum.audiogames.net/viewtopic.php?pid=194673#p194673 ___ Audiogames-reflector mailing list Audiogames-reflector@sabahattin-gucukoglu.com https://sabahattin-gucukoglu.com/cgi-bin/mailman/listinfo/audiogames-reflector
Re: I like the girl three desks backwards but I need advice
Re: I like the girl three desks backwards but I need advice I can totally agree with CX2's advice. Take it slow and be open with her, tell her what you like about her and don't jump to a conclusion. Ask her if she would like to be more than just friends. That's all the further you have to go for now, otherwise you'll be coming on too fast. Don't say "I love you," that's jumping to conclusions. Jumping to a conclusion like that will turn her off or may scare her out of a possible relationship. Just take it one step at a time, and when one of you becomes uncomfortable, be honest about it. Maybe you can move past it, maybe you can't, but don't pretend pr jode anything as it will only lead to extra stress. Even healthy relatnioships can be very stressful, you don't need any unnecessary stress put on it.I had the opposite experience as you did, Terminator. When I met my girlfriend, I was 18 and she was 16. God did I have a crush on her, and I know now that she felt the same toward me. She tried to hint at me, as did I, that we had a crush on each other, but neither of us wanted to openly admit it of course. We just simply drew to each other like magnets but didn't want to admit to the other that it was happening. We took it really slow after that, partly because we only see each other 3 or 4 times a year. That does slow things down. There are times I do miss her and have, well, fantasies. But that's for another topic entirely. Though it's not completely irrelevant, as fantasy about an attractive mate is very common at a young age, so long as it's not inappropriate or disturbing fantasies that could get you into serious trouble should you act on them. Nor should they completely take over your concentration when something vitally important is at hand, like passing on a final exam, for example. URL: http://forum.audiogames.net/viewtopic.php?pid=194673#p194673 ___ Audiogames-reflector mailing list Audiogames-reflector@sabahattin-gucukoglu.com https://sabahattin-gucukoglu.com/cgi-bin/mailman/listinfo/audiogames-reflector
Re: I like the girl three desks backwards but I need advice
Re: I like the girl three desks backwards but I need advice I can totally agree with CX2's advice. Take it slow and be open with her, tell her what you like about her and don't jump to a conclusion. Ask her if she would like to be more than just friends. That's all the further you have to go, otherwise you'll be coming on too fast. If she says no, just try to let it go, at least she was honest with you and honesty is the best thing you can ask for in any relationship. If she feels uncertain, let her know that you want her to be honest and not tell you what she thinks you want to hear. Definitely don't just come out and say "I love you," that's jumping to conclusions which I doubt either of you are prepared to make. Jumping to a conclusion like that will turn her off or may scare her out of a possible relationship. You shouldn't really be saying I love you until you've been in a really serious relationship and know almost everything there is to know about the other person. Just take it one s tep at a time.Here are a few tips I've found for myself in my own relationships, take them however you like.Let's say you're beginning to get uncomfortable with something. Stepping out of your comfort zone isn't always a bad thing, but you know your limit. Don't try something you know will give you a complete panic attack until you know you are ready to handle the nerves. If it's a really huge deal and you can't seem to get past it, let her know... don't pretend otherwise. Don't hide anything as it will only lead to mistrust and extra stress. Even healthy relationships can be very stressful, you don't need any unnecessary stress put on it. I had the opposite experience as you did, Terminator. When I met my girlfriend, I was 18 and she was 16. God did I have a crush on her, and I know now that she felt the same toward me. She tried to hint at me, as did I, that we had a crush on each other, but neither of us wanted t o openly admit it of course. We just simply drew to each other like magnets but didn't want to admit to the other that it was happening. We took it really slow after that, partly because we only see each other 3 or 4 times a year. That does slow things down. There are times I do miss her and have, well, fantasies. But that's for another topic entirely. Though it's not completely irrelevant, as fantasy about an attractive mate is very common at a young age, so long as it's not inappropriate or disturbing fantasies that could get you into serious trouble should you act on them. Nor should they completely take over your concentration when something vitally important is at hand, like passing on a final exam, for example. URL: http://forum.audiogames.net/viewtopic.php?pid=194673#p194673 ___ Audiogames-reflector mailing list Audiogames-reflector@sabahattin-gucukoglu.com https://sabahattin-gucukoglu.com/cgi-bin/mailman/listinfo/audiogames-reflector
Re: I like the girl three desks backwards but I need advice
Re: I like the girl three desks backwards but I need advice hmm? well thanks.Ive been trying that with another girl in another college.her name was Marizza tsimaluisa. we were like more then friends, we're cool.at least for both of us.ahem, I know she feels something at me because she wants to talk about the topic, but I always change the topic because I'm too nerbous to continue.she is saying:terminator: hy michelle!michelle: hay mike(term)terminator: herm, how are you doing? how was your grade?michelle:it was fine. I got a 9 in grade, and the exam was pretty easy.terminator: good! that's what I apreciate of you. You're smart, and inteligent.michelle:i just don't know how or what to say...terminator: huh?michelle: do you want our friendship to be more, you know, accented?then, I don't know what to say. It's kinda like confusing.help!signature: URL: http://forum.audiogames.net/viewtopic.php?pid=194684#p194684 ___ Audiogames-reflector mailing list Audiogames-reflector@sabahattin-gucukoglu.com https://sabahattin-gucukoglu.com/cgi-bin/mailman/listinfo/audiogames-reflector
Re: I like the girl three desks backwards but I need advice
Re: I like the girl three desks backwards but I need advice Well, posting the full private conversation into the public forum I think this doesn't sound good. URL: http://forum.audiogames.net/viewtopic.php?pid=194685#p194685 ___ Audiogames-reflector mailing list Audiogames-reflector@sabahattin-gucukoglu.com https://sabahattin-gucukoglu.com/cgi-bin/mailman/listinfo/audiogames-reflector
Re: I like the girl three desks backwards but I need advice
Re: I like the girl three desks backwards but I need advice I'd strongly suggest you limit your revelation of names in order to protect them from internet searches and such.That said how you handle the other girl is down to you. Do you want to ask the other girl about dating first? If the first girl turns you down I'd wait a little while before you'd consider dating the second girl, it may offend both of them if they found out the moment the first turned you down you started dating the second. If the second girl's putting you on the spot like that and you're not interested just say I really like you and you're a great girl but I'd rather just be friends. If you would be interested but want to see how it goes with the first girl instead just adapt that, you're a great girl and I really like you but I'm crushing really hard on someone else at the moment and it wouldn't be fair on either of us to look for more right now. URL: http://forum.audiogames.net/viewtopic.php?pid=194690#p194690 ___ Audiogames-reflector mailing list Audiogames-reflector@sabahattin-gucukoglu.com https://sabahattin-gucukoglu.com/cgi-bin/mailman/listinfo/audiogames-reflector
Re: I like the girl three desks backwards but I need advice
Re: I like the girl three desks backwards but I need advice Agreed... sharing names on the forum is really not a good idea at all. Names can be traced, you'd be surprised how far just a name and the little information you've provided us can go. I'd recommend editing your last post and removing some of the personal details. While the chances that someone will find them here are slim, they are very real. Just take the number of spammers that come here at random. While most are bots, a bot can be used to get a human on a web site to post stupid advertisements or whatever else they want to post here. It wouldn't, then, be too far of a stretch for a random person or bot to come across this topic and use personal information you have posted on a public forum. Not saying it will happen, but it could. Just trying to look out for the safety of those involved here.That aside, I can't really help you too much here, because for me, what ended up happening was that I finally got tired of hiding my feelings, but like you, I didn't know how to say them. But I trusted that if I told her, she would probably understand and respond in as passionate of a way as she could, given the circumstances. In other words, she wouldn't just say, hell no, and slam the door of friendship in my face. The way I saw it, we were really close friends no matter what.She was the one to bring it up, basically she started the conversation with, "I think we should make it official that we're boyfriend and girlfriend, don't you?" And I say, "I guess, though I don't like having that label yet... but... hwy not? We act like boyfriend and girlfriend so we might as well."And that was that.I'm also a little confused about how many girls we are talking about here, if it is only one, then it would be easy enogh to be honest with her and tell her how you feel when you feel you can. If it's more, then it will get a little tricky. I can't help you with that one.< /p> URL: http://forum.audiogames.net/viewtopic.php?pid=194703#p194703 ___ Audiogames-reflector mailing list Audiogames-reflector@sabahattin-gucukoglu.com https://sabahattin-gucukoglu.com/cgi-bin/mailman/listinfo/audiogames-reflector
Re: I like the girl three desks backwards but I need advice
Re: I like the girl three desks backwards but I need advice Don't cheat on curls, cheat on girls CX2 is right, I would say, take it slow, don't pretend to go to a final conclusion so fast, just talk and talk, say some lovely words, and then when your relation is a little stronger, you can perceed with your intention. Hope you succeed manGood luck! URL: http://forum.audiogames.net/viewtopic.php?pid=194708#p194708 ___ Audiogames-reflector mailing list Audiogames-reflector@sabahattin-gucukoglu.com https://sabahattin-gucukoglu.com/cgi-bin/mailman/listinfo/audiogames-reflector
Re: I like the girl three desks backwards but I need advice
Re: I like the girl three desks backwards but I need advice Regarding the names thing I wasn't thinking of spammers and such so much as the potential for classmates or even the girls in question to google their own names and find this thread. Remember everything you say here is essentially on public record so try to do others the courtesy of obfuscating their identity.While I'm cautious about revealing my real world identity on the internet it is your choice to do so or not, however when you're referencing other people please bear in mind that you haven't asked them whether you may use their real names on the internet so it is better not to. You can probably get away with just first names but if you wish to be especially cautious then no one will object. URL: http://forum.audiogames.net/viewtopic.php?pid=194732#p194732 ___ Audiogames-reflector mailing list Audiogames-reflector@sabahattin-gucukoglu.com https://sabahattin-gucukoglu.com/cgi-bin/mailman/listinfo/audiogames-reflector