[FairfieldLife] Re: Internet freedom converning Ravi's posts

2012-01-10 Thread zarzari_786

--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, obbajeeba no_reply@... wrote:

 Hey, Emily, Judy, Raunchy,
 It appears all the dudes have gone away this evening. hahaha
 Look, no post from dudes. See? Check the time and lets count. 
 We rule!  We own them!  God loves us!
 Yay for Venus transiting Aquarius!  Yay!  
 We won!  
 Let's meet for tea sometime soon, okay?
 Oh, yeah, Susan too. 


Funny Obba! But maybe in all this, you should consider, that we didn't leave 
because we are cowards (oh the aggressiveness of it!), but because some of us 
simply live in different time zones. IOW, when Judy is just about to warm up, 
it's already past midnight here!

Also Obba, I found your words last week very encouraging, but 10 min per day 
don't work for me, unfortunately I am a slow typer, and foreigner at that, so 
some of the more juicy words (usually signifying emotion, or moralistic POV's) 
I have to look up.

And regarding some of the people here, it's not enough to just post in a 
straight forward way, you have to study a whole metaphysical system to even be 
able to converse with them! (and that's not a put down!)

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, obbajeeba no_reply@ wrote:
 
  Great rules!  Maybe if these go across the board, everything will be 
  alright!  
  I once had the pissing submarines! You put them in the toilet and sink 
  them. 
  Potty target. Good link.
  Could work. 
  For some reason, I think we need some adult diapers here too. Ultra 
  protection. 
  Us women stay out of it ; ) http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MIaORknS1Dk
  
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, raunchydog raunchydog@ wrote:
  
   Obbajeeba, you're quite right. Indiscriminate pissing on FFLife needs to 
   be more accurate. Let's give the dudes something to aim for. How about a 
   pissing contest?
   
   Pissing contest rules: 
   1. Dudes only.
   2. Submit qualifying scores: time, distance, marksmanship.
   3. Unacceptable targets: women and children. 
   4. Acceptable targets: trees, fire hydrants and each other.
   
   Training equipment:
   http://pottytarget.com/products/
   
   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, obbajeeba no_reply@ wrote:
   
She is awesome even if she does not like Ron Paul. ; )
That does not stop me from seeing her value and reason and respect.
 : )
Raunchy too. : )
Not like some dudes on this forum who piss the spot with complete teeth 
grinding bark, protection for their red fire hydrant in multiple layers 
of consciousness available if only to break through their awareness as 
something more that tangible, all muddled together 75 foot lead wall 
with dancing football cheerleaders in cowboy lingerie. 
Nabby not included. He has some morals about morals.

--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, raunchydog raunchydog@ wrote:

 Impeccable timeline, Judy. How *do* you do it?
 
 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend jstein@ wrote:
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, zarzari_786 no_reply@ wrote:
   
   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend jstein@ 
   wrote:
   
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, zarzari_786 no_reply@ 
wrote:
snip
 In fact, you should know, that Ravi takes clues from you
 whom to abuse, and whom to spare. As long as you had
 backed me up, he never mentioned me in an abusive way.
 The moment you started to become critical at me, and
 switched to your 'get-Barry' mode,(which actually
 started first in our off-board exchange after two posts),
 he started abusing me

Yes, this is the Troika's party line whenever someone
other than me begins to criticize any of them; we've
seen it many, many times. I believe Barry originated
it some time ago. How nice to see you've picked up on
as well. I'm sure you'll get a lot of use out of it.

Implicit in it is the premise that nobody would *ever*
come independently to any negative conclusions about
any of the Troika and their allies; it wouldn't ever
even occur to anybody that there was anything to be
criticized about them if I hadn't spoken up.

In this case, Ravi could *never* have read your
exchange with Barry speculating about Robin's mental
health and thought ill of you for it unless he'd
gotten it from me.

Right?
   
   Yes, right. It's a simple observation, Judy can't help it.
   My accusations to masked zebra where much before, Ravi only
   started when you gave the signal.
  
  Ravi had been here only intermittently and didn't
  necessarily plow through all the posts when he *was*
  here, so he may well not have seen whatever you're
  referring to.
  
  In any case, if he had really just been taking cues
  from others, he might well have taken 

[FairfieldLife] Re: Internet freedom converning Ravi's posts

2012-01-10 Thread zarzari_786

--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend jstein@... wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, raunchydog raunchydog@ wrote:
 
  Impeccable timeline, Judy. How *do* you do it?
 
 Well, when Yahoo Advanced Search is working, it isn't that
 difficult. Sure couldn't do it just from memory. Does take
 a bit of back and forth, and it does require familiarity
 with the search options.
 

Well, I do it from memory. I will naturally notice more my inclusion in any of 
his lists then others here, and Ravi was also absent (overposting) for more 
than a week. AFAIK he started being degaratory to me only when putting my video 
in the subject line. And that was long, long time after Emily had posted her 
rant.

 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend jstein@ wrote:
  
   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, zarzari_786 no_reply@ wrote:

--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend jstein@ wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, zarzari_786 no_reply@ wrote:
 snip
  In fact, you should know, that Ravi takes clues from you
  whom to abuse, and whom to spare. As long as you had
  backed me up, he never mentioned me in an abusive way.
  The moment you started to become critical at me, and
  switched to your 'get-Barry' mode,(which actually
  started first in our off-board exchange after two posts),
  he started abusing me
 
 Yes, this is the Troika's party line whenever someone
 other than me begins to criticize any of them; we've
 seen it many, many times. I believe Barry originated
 it some time ago. How nice to see you've picked up on
 as well. I'm sure you'll get a lot of use out of it.
 
 Implicit in it is the premise that nobody would *ever*
 come independently to any negative conclusions about
 any of the Troika and their allies; it wouldn't ever
 even occur to anybody that there was anything to be
 criticized about them if I hadn't spoken up.
 
 In this case, Ravi could *never* have read your
 exchange with Barry speculating about Robin's mental
 health and thought ill of you for it unless he'd
 gotten it from me.
 
 Right?

Yes, right. It's a simple observation, Judy can't help it.
My accusations to masked zebra where much before, Ravi only
started when you gave the signal.
   
   Ravi had been here only intermittently and didn't
   necessarily plow through all the posts when he *was*
   here, so he may well not have seen whatever you're
   referring to.
   
   In any case, if he had really just been taking cues
   from others, he might well have taken his anti-zarzari
   cue from *Emily's* post.
   
   Oh, but Emily took her cue from me, right?

Well, that's not what I said, you are making it up now.

   Ooops, no, wait. My first response to your exchange
   with Barry was very mild, hardly denunciatory.

Correct. 

   It
   wasn't until Robin took after you big-time that I used
   the term slimy to refer to your post to Barry. And
   by that time Emily had already given the two of you a
   very thorough tongue-lashing, completely of her own
   accord.

At the time I had to take an announced break, but the basis of this was your 
very unfortunate snipping of my original post, you know the one, where you 
started to lash out after my two word 'of course' with the rest of the quote 
being Barry's, and being entirely out of context, and also being misinterpreted 
by you and consequently by Emily, and which resulted into a series of 
mis-attributions of quotes by Barry.


   And Ravi didn't start going after you until you'd
   come back after your little vacation. That was *after*
   you'd already made several posts attacking me, but
   before I'd had a chance to respond.

Well, I am not aware of those attacks, but I may have missed them. The ones I 
remember, where after you had gone ballistic.

But, anyway he is gone, he also took cues from you in his whole line of 
argumentation, like you saying, that enlightened ones can't be judged by their 
behavior, a very unwholesome argument for him to use.

   So I'm afraid your theory just doesn't fit the timeline.
   Too bad.
   
No clues
   
   The term you want here is cues, not clues.
   
to take from Barry here. This is a a again your insidious 
insinuation.
   
   It's a reasonable assumption, given how many times Barry's
   used it (you responded Bingo to one such post); and
   Curtis has also used it quite recently.
  
 





[FairfieldLife] You'll Be Dying to Get?

2012-01-10 Thread cardemaister

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As a stupidly honest chap, I wouldn't recommend that crap,
if it's anything like my Lumia 800... :/



[FairfieldLife] Living Without Money

2012-01-10 Thread shainm307
Anyone else compelled to try this?

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=djzitB1xyocfeature=share



[FairfieldLife] Re: Freedom and virtue

2012-01-10 Thread raunchydog


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Yifu yifuxero@... wrote:

 very good!but people in the TMO are the worst offenders. Do you know what 
 Jesus called such people?  HINT:  starts HY
 
 Lake Fairy, by Xian Lu
 http://features.cgsociety.org/newgallerycrits/g37/380437/380437_1309790469_large.jpg
 
 
 
 
 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Buck dhamiltony2k5@ wrote:
 
  Raunchy, this is really a beautiful and practical spiritual teaching you 
  posted here which deserves a bow. Namaste Thanks,  -Buck 
  

Thanks, Buck. By the way, do you agree with Yifu that people in the TMO are the 
worst offenders? Offenders of what, I wondered. He doesn't give any specific 
examples of which or how often an entire group of individuals offend behavioral 
rasayans but proclaims that they do. Isn't that like saying all Muslims are 
terrorists who hide bombs in their underwear? Now I don't have anything against 
Muslims, some of my best friends are Muslims...but underwear, really?

  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, raunchydog raunchydog@ wrote:
  
   
   
   
   Speaking the sweet truth is a behavioral rasayana. By following the 
   traditional values, of one's cultural heritage, Maharishi believed one's 
   path in life presented fewer roadblocks to well being, good health and 
   enlightenment. Behavioral rasyanas are universally fundamental to all 
   human beings in all cultures. The behavioral rasyana map of a well 
   traveled road describes the territory, not the consciousness of the 
   traveler. 
   
   Behaviors and attitudes to maximize:
   
   Love
   Compassion
   Speech that uplifts people
   Cleanliness
   Charity and regular donation
   Religious observance
   Respect toward teachers and elders
   Being positive
   Moderation and self-control, especially with regard to alcohol and 
   sex
   Simplicity
   
   Behaviors and attitudes to be avoided:
   
   Anger
   Violence
   Harsh or hurtful speech
   Conceit
   Speaking ill of others behind their backs
   Egotism * Dishonesty
   Coveting another's spouse or wealth
   
   http://www.mapi.com/ayurveda_health_care/newsletters/behavioral_rasayana.html
   
   Behavioral rasyanas describe the basic rules of how we treat each other 
   as human beings. A society devoid of such behaviors descends into chaos. 
   FFLife is a chaotic antimatter smashing machine of behavioral rasyanas, 
   cynically obliterating, ridiculing, any sacred cow daring to lift its 
   head from grazing in the pastures of social convention. Other than no 
   porn, you are free to be as abusive and as childish as you like on one 
   day and a warrior for truth, justice and sacred cows the next day. 
   
   I'm not holding myself up as a model of always treating everyone with 
   absolute fairness. I don't, nobody does. I prefer less chaos and more 
   fairness in how in how we treat each other on FFLife, I just don't expect 
   it. 
   
   IMO the folks who have a longer check list in the positive column of 
   behavioral rasyanas are more capable of speaking the sweet truth. They 
   consistently treat others fairly. Just as reliably, self-centered abusive 
   assholes with a long list of behaviors in the negative column don't give 
   a fuck about treating others respectfully and are incapable of speaking 
   the sweet truth. So sayeth raunchydog, not so sweetly.
  
 





[FairfieldLife] Re: Portals to Inner Landscapes

2012-01-10 Thread cardemaister


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, obbajeeba no_reply@... wrote:

 
 
 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend jstein@ wrote:
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Yifu yifuxero@ wrote:
  snip
   Likewise, to be one of the cccooolll, upscale TMO members,
   we delete the middle i in Maharishi, getting Maharshi.
  
  Actually it's the difference in which syllable is
  stressed. Americans say MahaRIshi; Indians (or Brits?)
  say MaHArishi. But if you listen closely, the i is
  still there; it just doesn't get pronounced distinctly
  in that configuration.

Previously I thought the only possible sandhi for 'mahaa' + 'RSi' (in Sanskrit) 
would be 'maharSi (mahárshi)', that is, the long a-sound of 'mahaa' is 
shortened and the vocalic/syllabic R-sound changes
to its consonantal counterpart, the normal r-sound. 
Recently learnt that an alternative sandhi (maha[-]RSi: mahaR´[í]shi) is also 
possible. In either case, the i-sound after the R is not
phonemic, I believe; that is, it's there only because the pronunciation of the 
*vocalic/syllabic* R-sound is almost impossible without some i/ee -like sound 
after it, or stuff...



  
  And then there are the folks who mush it all together
  and get Marshy.
 
 
 Marshy. hahaha. 
 
 Some call him Mahesh?  : )
 When I was a kid, I thought this song   
 http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CzB5eRu6HOk   was the same word. lol





[FairfieldLife] Re: Freedom and virtue

2012-01-10 Thread Buck


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Yifu yifuxero@... wrote:

 very good!but people in the TMO are the worst offenders. Do you know what 
 Jesus called such people?  HINT:  starts HY


It's true,  things should go so much better for the TM-Rajas if they would 
repent their sinful rasyana-ic ways.  There would be support of natural law.  
They  have had a lot of chance to say to everyone since the movement reformed 
after Maharishi that Whatever that was we are not that, and that going forward 
we will be thus, virtuous only..  

There was a long time silence from them about this as people waited for that 
sign of reconciliation.  These short dome numbers seem to be showing how it is 
gone for the Rajas.  Actions often speak louder than words, the Rajas don't 
seem to even have the tongue of repentence.  The omission of just silence or 
hypocr...?  Raunchydog lays it out right here underneath.  Spiritually virtuous 
activities to maximize, spiritually sinful activities to minimize.  The TM 
Rajas could take some lesson from their own teachings here on FFL.

JGD,
-Buck in FF 
A primitive hardshell old meditator 

 
 
 
 
 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Buck wrote:
 
  Raunchy, this is really a beautiful and practical spiritual teaching you 
  posted here which deserves a bow. Namaste Thanks,  -Buck 
  
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, raunchydog raunchydog@ wrote:
  
   
   
   
   Speaking the sweet truth is a behavioral rasayana. By following the 
   traditional values, of one's cultural heritage, Maharishi believed one's 
   path in life presented fewer roadblocks to well being, good health and 
   enlightenment. Behavioral rasyanas are universally fundamental to all 
   human beings in all cultures. The behavioral rasyana map of a well 
   traveled road describes the territory, not the consciousness of the 
   traveler. 
   
   Behaviors and attitudes to maximize:
   
   Love
   Compassion
   Speech that uplifts people
   Cleanliness
   Charity and regular donation
   Religious observance
   Respect toward teachers and elders
   Being positive
   Moderation and self-control, especially with regard to alcohol and 
   sex
   Simplicity
   
   Behaviors and attitudes to be avoided:
   
   Anger
   Violence
   Harsh or hurtful speech
   Conceit
   Speaking ill of others behind their backs
   Egotism * Dishonesty
   Coveting another's spouse or wealth
   
   http://www.mapi.com/ayurveda_health_care/newsletters/behavioral_rasayana.html
   
   Behavioral rasyanas describe the basic rules of how we treat each other 
   as human beings. A society devoid of such behaviors descends into chaos. 
   FFLife is a chaotic antimatter smashing machine of behavioral rasyanas, 
   cynically obliterating, ridiculing, any sacred cow daring to lift its 
   head from grazing in the pastures of social convention. Other than no 
   porn, you are free to be as abusive and as childish as you like on one 
   day and a warrior for truth, justice and sacred cows the next day. 
   
   I'm not holding myself up as a model of always treating everyone with 
   absolute fairness. I don't, nobody does. I prefer less chaos and more 
   fairness in how in how we treat each other on FFLife, I just don't expect 
   it. 
   
   IMO the folks who have a longer check list in the positive column of 
   behavioral rasyanas are more capable of speaking the sweet truth. They 
   consistently treat others fairly. Just as reliably, self-centered abusive 
   assholes with a long list of behaviors in the negative column don't give 
   a fuck about treating others respectfully and are incapable of speaking 
   the sweet truth. So sayeth raunchydog, not so sweetly.
  
 





[FairfieldLife] Re: Internet freedom converning Ravi's posts

2012-01-10 Thread raunchydog


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, zarzari_786 no_reply@... wrote:

 
 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, obbajeeba no_reply@ wrote:
 
  Hey, Emily, Judy, Raunchy,
  It appears all the dudes have gone away this evening. hahaha
  Look, no post from dudes. See? Check the time and lets count. 
  We rule!  We own them!  God loves us!
  Yay for Venus transiting Aquarius!  Yay!  
  We won!  
  Let's meet for tea sometime soon, okay?
  Oh, yeah, Susan too. 
 
 
 Funny Obba! But maybe in all this, you should consider, that we didn't leave 
 because we are cowards (oh the aggressiveness of it!), but because some of us 
 simply live in different time zones. IOW, when Judy is just about to warm up, 
 it's already past midnight here!
 
 Also Obba, I found your words last week very encouraging, but 10 min per day 
 don't work for me, unfortunately I am a slow typer, and foreigner at that, so 
 some of the more juicy words (usually signifying emotion, or moralistic 
 POV's) I have to look up.
 
 And regarding some of the people here, it's not enough to just post in a 
 straight forward way, you have to study a whole metaphysical system to even 
 be able to converse with them! (and that's not a put down!)
 

Yeah, obbajeeba. Cut zarzari some slack. He has a timezone disability. Is there 
an icon for that? 
http://signsanddisplays.files.wordpress.com/2011/03/disability-sign-symbol-vectors.jpg
 

  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, obbajeeba no_reply@ wrote:
  
   Great rules!  Maybe if these go across the board, everything will be 
   alright!  
   I once had the pissing submarines! You put them in the toilet and sink 
   them. 
   Potty target. Good link.
   Could work. 
   For some reason, I think we need some adult diapers here too. Ultra 
   protection. 
   Us women stay out of it ; ) http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MIaORknS1Dk
   
   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, raunchydog raunchydog@ wrote:
   
Obbajeeba, you're quite right. Indiscriminate pissing on FFLife needs 
to be more accurate. Let's give the dudes something to aim for. How 
about a pissing contest?

Pissing contest rules: 
1. Dudes only.
2. Submit qualifying scores: time, distance, marksmanship.
3. Unacceptable targets: women and children. 
4. Acceptable targets: trees, fire hydrants and each other.

Training equipment:
http://pottytarget.com/products/





[FairfieldLife] Re: Freedom and virtue

2012-01-10 Thread raunchydog
the tongue of repentance Hmmm...sounds sexy.

--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Buck dhamiltony2k5@... wrote:

 
 
 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Yifu yifuxero@ wrote:
 
  very good!but people in the TMO are the worst offenders. Do you know 
  what Jesus called such people?  HINT:  starts HY
 
 
 It's true,  things should go so much better for the TM-Rajas if they would 
 repent their sinful rasyana-ic ways.  There would be support of natural law.  
 They  have had a lot of chance to say to everyone since the movement reformed 
 after Maharishi that Whatever that was we are not that, and that going 
 forward we will be thus, virtuous only..  
 
 There was a long time silence from them about this as people waited for that 
 sign of reconciliation.  These short dome numbers seem to be showing how it 
 is gone for the Rajas.  Actions often speak louder than words, the Rajas 
 don't seem to even have the tongue of repentence.  The omission of just 
 silence or hypocr...?  Raunchydog lays it out right here underneath.  
 Spiritually virtuous activities to maximize, spiritually sinful activities to 
 minimize.  The TM Rajas could take some lesson from their own teachings here 
 on FFL.
 
 JGD,
 -Buck in FF 
 A primitive hardshell old meditator 
 
  
  
  
  
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Buck wrote:
  
   Raunchy, this is really a beautiful and practical spiritual teaching you 
   posted here which deserves a bow. Namaste Thanks,  -Buck 
   
   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, raunchydog raunchydog@ wrote:
   



Speaking the sweet truth is a behavioral rasayana. By following the 
traditional values, of one's cultural heritage, Maharishi believed 
one's path in life presented fewer roadblocks to well being, good 
health and enlightenment. Behavioral rasyanas are universally 
fundamental to all human beings in all cultures. The behavioral rasyana 
map of a well traveled road describes the territory, not the 
consciousness of the traveler. 

Behaviors and attitudes to maximize:

Love
Compassion
Speech that uplifts people
Cleanliness
Charity and regular donation
Religious observance
Respect toward teachers and elders
Being positive
Moderation and self-control, especially with regard to alcohol and 
sex
Simplicity

Behaviors and attitudes to be avoided:

Anger
Violence
Harsh or hurtful speech
Conceit
Speaking ill of others behind their backs
Egotism * Dishonesty
Coveting another's spouse or wealth

http://www.mapi.com/ayurveda_health_care/newsletters/behavioral_rasayana.html

Behavioral rasyanas describe the basic rules of how we treat each other 
as human beings. A society devoid of such behaviors descends into 
chaos. FFLife is a chaotic antimatter smashing machine of behavioral 
rasyanas, cynically obliterating, ridiculing, any sacred cow daring to 
lift its head from grazing in the pastures of social convention. Other 
than no porn, you are free to be as abusive and as childish as you like 
on one day and a warrior for truth, justice and sacred cows the next 
day. 

I'm not holding myself up as a model of always treating everyone with 
absolute fairness. I don't, nobody does. I prefer less chaos and more 
fairness in how in how we treat each other on FFLife, I just don't 
expect it. 

IMO the folks who have a longer check list in the positive column of 
behavioral rasyanas are more capable of speaking the sweet truth. They 
consistently treat others fairly. Just as reliably, self-centered 
abusive assholes with a long list of behaviors in the negative column 
don't give a fuck about treating others respectfully and are incapable 
of speaking the sweet truth. So sayeth raunchydog, not so sweetly.
   
  
 





[FairfieldLife] Re: Freedom and virtue

2012-01-10 Thread zarzari_786

--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, raunchydog raunchydog@... wrote:

 the tongue of repentance Hmmm...sounds sexy.

Not for you :p

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Buck dhamiltony2k5@ wrote:
 
  
  
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Yifu yifuxero@ wrote:
  
   very good!but people in the TMO are the worst offenders. Do you know 
   what Jesus called such people?  HINT:  starts HY
  
  
  It's true,  things should go so much better for the TM-Rajas if they would 
  repent their sinful rasyana-ic ways.  There would be support of natural 
  law.  They  have had a lot of chance to say to everyone since the movement 
  reformed after Maharishi that Whatever that was we are not that, and that 
  going forward we will be thus, virtuous only..  
  
  There was a long time silence from them about this as people waited for 
  that sign of reconciliation.  These short dome numbers seem to be showing 
  how it is gone for the Rajas.  Actions often speak louder than words, the 
  Rajas don't seem to even have the tongue of repentence.  The omission of 
  just silence or hypocr...?  Raunchydog lays it out right here underneath.  
  Spiritually virtuous activities to maximize, spiritually sinful activities 
  to minimize.  The TM Rajas could take some lesson from their own teachings 
  here on FFL.
  
  JGD,
  -Buck in FF 
  A primitive hardshell old meditator 
  
   
   
   
   
   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Buck wrote:
   
Raunchy, this is really a beautiful and practical spiritual teaching 
you posted here which deserves a bow. Namaste Thanks,  -Buck 

--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, raunchydog raunchydog@ wrote:

 
 
 
 Speaking the sweet truth is a behavioral rasayana. By following the 
 traditional values, of one's cultural heritage, Maharishi believed 
 one's path in life presented fewer roadblocks to well being, good 
 health and enlightenment. Behavioral rasyanas are universally 
 fundamental to all human beings in all cultures. The behavioral 
 rasyana map of a well traveled road describes the territory, not the 
 consciousness of the traveler. 
 
 Behaviors and attitudes to maximize:
 
 Love
 Compassion
 Speech that uplifts people
 Cleanliness
 Charity and regular donation
 Religious observance
 Respect toward teachers and elders
 Being positive
 Moderation and self-control, especially with regard to alcohol 
 and sex
 Simplicity
 
 Behaviors and attitudes to be avoided:
 
 Anger
 Violence
 Harsh or hurtful speech
 Conceit
 Speaking ill of others behind their backs
 Egotism * Dishonesty
 Coveting another's spouse or wealth
 
 http://www.mapi.com/ayurveda_health_care/newsletters/behavioral_rasayana.html
 
 Behavioral rasyanas describe the basic rules of how we treat each 
 other as human beings. A society devoid of such behaviors descends 
 into chaos. FFLife is a chaotic antimatter smashing machine of 
 behavioral rasyanas, cynically obliterating, ridiculing, any sacred 
 cow daring to lift its head from grazing in the pastures of social 
 convention. Other than no porn, you are free to be as abusive and as 
 childish as you like on one day and a warrior for truth, justice and 
 sacred cows the next day. 
 
 I'm not holding myself up as a model of always treating everyone with 
 absolute fairness. I don't, nobody does. I prefer less chaos and more 
 fairness in how in how we treat each other on FFLife, I just don't 
 expect it. 
 
 IMO the folks who have a longer check list in the positive column of 
 behavioral rasyanas are more capable of speaking the sweet truth. 
 They consistently treat others fairly. Just as reliably, 
 self-centered abusive assholes with a long list of behaviors in the 
 negative column don't give a fuck about treating others respectfully 
 and are incapable of speaking the sweet truth. So sayeth raunchydog, 
 not so sweetly.

   
  
 





[FairfieldLife] Anyone tried this?

2012-01-10 Thread cardemaister

From Cyril Henry Hoskin's a.k.a. Tuesday Lobsang Rampa's book Wisdom of
the Ancients:

Here is an exercise that enables one to keep warm in cold weather.
It is something much practiced in Tibet where a lama can sit unclothed
on ice, and even melt ice around him and dry off wet blankets draped
around his shoulders.

Here's how you do it. Sit comfortably ... and make sure that you
really ARE sitting with your spine upright. You must have no
tensions or pressing worries for the moment. Close your eyes, and
think of yourself saying, 'OM, OM, OM', telepathically.

Close your left nostril, and take us much air as you can through
the right nostril. Then close the right (your thumb is the best
for this because it is the most convenient), and retain the breath
by pressing your chin hard against your chest, bring your chin up
close to your neck.

Hold your breath for a time, and then gradually exhale through
the left nostril by closing the right nostril (again the thumb is
easiest here).

Careful note -- in this particular exercise one always breathes in
through the right
nostril, and always breathes out through the left nostril.

You should do this from a start of ten breathings, during which you
gradually increase
the time of breath retention, up to some fifty times, but you must
increase your breath
retention very gradually, there is no need to rush, and while on the
subject here is
a little note which may free you from worry: when you have been doing it
for some
time, and you are doing it with deep breath retention, you may find that
you perspire
from the roots of the hair. That is perfectly safe, perfectly normal,
and really does
increase the health and cleanliness of the body.



[FairfieldLife] Re: Internet freedom converning Ravi's posts

2012-01-10 Thread turquoiseb
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, obbajeeba no_reply@... wrote:

 Not like some dudes on this forum who piss the spot with 
 complete teeth grinding bark, protection for their red 
 fire hydrant in multiple layers of consciousness available 
 if only to break through their awareness as something more 
 that tangible, all muddled together 75 foot lead wall with 
 dancing football cheerleaders in cowboy lingerie. 
 Nabby not included. He has some morals about morals.

Let me guess. You've been taking the same How To
Write Completely Incoherent English correspondence
course that MZ, Ravi, and Bob Price took, right?

:-)




Re: [FairfieldLife] Anyone tried this?

2012-01-10 Thread Vaj


On Jan 10, 2012, at 7:50 AM, cardemaister wrote:

From Cyril Henry Hoskin's a.k.a. Tuesday Lobsang Rampa's book  
Wisdom of the Ancients:


Here is an exercise that enables one to keep warm in cold weather.
It is something much practiced in Tibet where a lama can sit unclothed
on ice, and even melt ice around him and dry off wet blankets draped
around his shoulders.

Here's how you do it. Sit comfortably ... and make sure that you
really ARE sitting with your spine upright. You must have no
tensions or pressing worries for the moment. Close your eyes, and
think of yourself saying, 'OM, OM, OM', telepathically.

Close your left nostril, and take us much air as you can through
the right nostril. Then close the right (your thumb is the best
for this because it is the most convenient), and retain the breath
by pressing your chin hard against your chest, bring your chin up
close to your neck.

Hold your breath for a time, and then gradually exhale through
the left nostril by closing the right nostril (again the thumb is
easiest here).

Careful note -- in this particular exercise one always breathes in  
through the right

nostril, and always breathes out through the left nostril.

You should do this from a start of ten breathings, during which you  
gradually increase
the time of breath retention, up to some fifty times, but you must  
increase your breath
retention very gradually, there is no need to rush, and while on  
the subject here is
a little note which may free you from worry: when you have been  
doing it for some
time, and you are doing it with deep breath retention, you may find  
that you perspire
from the roots of the hair. That is perfectly safe, perfectly  
normal, and really does

increase the health and cleanliness of the body.



Lobsang Rampa was a phony fiction writer. These are not instructions  
for heat yoga (caNDAlI-yoga).

[FairfieldLife] Re: Internet freedom converning Ravi's posts

2012-01-10 Thread obbajeeba



Zarzar, 
haha, yes, the time zones and precisely why I posted the challenge. 
: ) Have to simulate activity on a board that may dwindle to 15 posts a day, 
total between all the members and what better way to push a button or two to 
avoid that. ; )
Although, in your case since 10 minutes a day is a bit too short of time, the 
posts dwindling could make it easier for you to participate in reading all of 
the posts! 
The metaphysical system it is!
The words of emotion, you may have to look up, well that may explain some of 
the misunderstanding on the FFL board. Someone with a foreign background reads 
the meaning with different feelings. This may explain any misunderstanding you 
or Judy had with some goings back and forth. 
I have translated for a translator in the past, and it helped a lot in bringing 
a better understanding to the words spoken, to the feelings behind the words of 
emotion. 
A case in point is Ravi has a very strong intellect and a heart of an Indian, a 
different culture. If one could maybe hear what he wrote with his voice, no one 
would have wished to out him. If he had done an email search on google or any 
other search engine, anyone can find a name behind a username, if one uses an 
email other than for FFL and that is not his fault to point out what someone 
may wish to change, because he was showing that security flaw in people's 
perception of their privacy. Shooting the messenger is what happened to him. 
Maybe some words are considered foul, but why not make a rule against using 
some words? Right now, all we have is what is up to the administrator and if 
any members get their balls in a knot, then any rule could out anyone of us. It 
makes me afraid to post.  All he was doing was pointing that out. He did not 
know a person's name using the secret anonymous username and called them out on 
it to harm them, he found it just like anyone can do on a search. 
Now if Ravi had purposely decided to ask people off of the board, what is his 
name, then I could see a breach in trust on FFL. 
It would have been best if the rules of the board, said  no real names used, 
associated with anonymous handles, but I read people calling people all the 
time by their real name as the anonymous handle becomes wayside, regularly.  
This is something many have forgotten in the past 10 years on the Internet. He 
was definitely pushing buttons to make a point. Does one see Bob Price here or 
the Zebra man? I do not think they were afraid of Ravi. Some of the best 
writers, gone. I am not afraid of Ravi and I don't even know him. I would trust 
him with my kids, regardless of all the uproar trying to make him appear 
mentally ill on a message board.  
If the excitement is removed from FFL, I guess it will still be a good place to 
plug in to find past friends and chat with them about their experiences with 
dealing with life and what comes afterward. 

Welcome back!  


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, zarzari_786 no_reply@... wrote:

 
 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, obbajeeba no_reply@ wrote:
 
  Hey, Emily, Judy, Raunchy,
  It appears all the dudes have gone away this evening. hahaha
  Look, no post from dudes. See? Check the time and lets count. 
  We rule!  We own them!  God loves us!
  Yay for Venus transiting Aquarius!  Yay!  
  We won!  
  Let's meet for tea sometime soon, okay?
  Oh, yeah, Susan too. 
 
 
 Funny Obba! But maybe in all this, you should consider, that we didn't leave 
 because we are cowards (oh the aggressiveness of it!), but because some of us 
 simply live in different time zones. IOW, when Judy is just about to warm up, 
 it's already past midnight here!
 
 Also Obba, I found your words last week very encouraging, but 10 min per day 
 don't work for me, unfortunately I am a slow typer, and foreigner at that, so 
 some of the more juicy words (usually signifying emotion, or moralistic 
 POV's) I have to look up.
 
 And regarding some of the people here, it's not enough to just post in a 
 straight forward way, you have to study a whole metaphysical system to even 
 be able to converse with them! (and that's not a put down!)
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, obbajeeba no_reply@ wrote:
  
   Great rules!  Maybe if these go across the board, everything will be 
   alright!  
   I once had the pissing submarines! You put them in the toilet and sink 
   them. 
   Potty target. Good link.
   Could work. 
   For some reason, I think we need some adult diapers here too. Ultra 
   protection. 
   Us women stay out of it ; ) http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MIaORknS1Dk
   
   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, raunchydog raunchydog@ wrote:
   
Obbajeeba, you're quite right. Indiscriminate pissing on FFLife needs 
to be more accurate. Let's give the dudes something to aim for. How 
about a pissing contest?

Pissing contest rules: 
1. Dudes only.
2. Submit qualifying scores: time, distance, marksmanship.
3. Unacceptable targets: 

[FairfieldLife] Re: Internet freedom converning Ravi's posts

2012-01-10 Thread obbajeeba


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb no_reply@... wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, obbajeeba no_reply@ wrote:
 
  Not like some dudes on this forum who piss the spot with 
  complete teeth grinding bark, protection for their red 
  fire hydrant in multiple layers of consciousness available 
  if only to break through their awareness as something more 
  that tangible, all muddled together 75 foot lead wall with 
  dancing football cheerleaders in cowboy lingerie. 
  Nabby not included. He has some morals about morals.
 
 Let me guess. You've been taking the same How To
 Write Completely Incoherent English correspondence
 course that MZ, Ravi, and Bob Price took, right?
 
 :-)

Replace the that, with than, just before tangible.
I was lowering my standards to get to the group of very unaware seekers who 
think they know everything that is under the Ravi (Sun). 
LMAO.
: )
Let me translate the above for you, since you appear to wish to understand:
There are men who type on this FFL forum, who act like dogs and mark their 
location and their looking for other opposite sex dogs by peeing on a red fire 
hydrant http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WvjVO_n0XFg
all the while their minds are thinking about 
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7dgpsI1MdQI and say, Huh? Why can I not see 
past my own hand? http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Pw0B4C__b-M 
 and http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GKg8G9sMWUY  
You are not out of that category as you mention above, Turq. Add your name in 
there too. Always peeing on Judy's fire hydrant like a dog in heat. 
: )




[FairfieldLife] Re: Internet freedom converning Ravi's posts

2012-01-10 Thread Susan


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb no_reply@... wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, obbajeeba no_reply@ wrote:
 
  Not like some dudes on this forum who piss the spot with 
  complete teeth grinding bark, protection for their red 
  fire hydrant in multiple layers of consciousness available 
  if only to break through their awareness as something more 
  that tangible, all muddled together 75 foot lead wall with 
  dancing football cheerleaders in cowboy lingerie. 
  Nabby not included. He has some morals about morals.
 
 Let me guess. You've been taking the same How To
 Write Completely Incoherent English correspondence
 course that MZ, Ravi, and Bob Price took, right?
 
 :-)

For me, the thought/concern/problem was the the writing just might be an 
accurate reflection of the thinking process!  But hey, they all had an amazing 
vocabulary and lots of esoteric info.





[FairfieldLife] Re: Internet freedom converning Ravi's posts

2012-01-10 Thread obbajeeba


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Susan wayback71@... wrote:

 
 
 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb no_reply@ wrote:
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, obbajeeba no_reply@ wrote:
  
   Not like some dudes on this forum who piss the spot with 
   complete teeth grinding bark, protection for their red 
   fire hydrant in multiple layers of consciousness available 
   if only to break through their awareness as something more 
   that tangible, all muddled together 75 foot lead wall with 
   dancing football cheerleaders in cowboy lingerie. 
   Nabby not included. He has some morals about morals.
  
  Let me guess. You've been taking the same How To
  Write Completely Incoherent English correspondence
  course that MZ, Ravi, and Bob Price took, right?
  
  :-)
 
 For me, the thought/concern/problem was the the writing just might be an 
 accurate reflection of the thinking process!  But hey, they all had an 
 amazing vocabulary and lots of esoteric info.
 

I do not know what you are talking about.  
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=W5ih1IRIRxI
The mind, the thinking process
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bCKe65vjN58
could be no more than the very ill's interpretation of how others think is 
wrong  http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=luhvLYcLv7A
Right, Ms. Ratchet? : )



[FairfieldLife] Re: Internet freedom converning Ravi's posts

2012-01-10 Thread turquoiseb
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Susan wayback71@... wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb no_reply@ wrote:
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, obbajeeba no_reply@ wrote:
  
   Not like some dudes on this forum who piss the spot with 
   complete teeth grinding bark, protection for their red 
   fire hydrant in multiple layers of consciousness available 
   if only to break through their awareness as something more 
   that tangible, all muddled together 75 foot lead wall with 
   dancing football cheerleaders in cowboy lingerie. 
   Nabby not included. He has some morals about morals.
  
  Let me guess. You've been taking the same How To
  Write Completely Incoherent English correspondence
  course that MZ, Ravi, and Bob Price took, right?
  
  :-)
 
 For me, the thought/concern/problem was the the writing 
 just might be an accurate reflection of the thinking process!  

My point exactly. 





[FairfieldLife] Re: Anyone tried this?

2012-01-10 Thread richardatrwilliamsdotus


  Here is an exercise that enables one to keep 
  warm in cold weather...
 
Vaj: 
 Lobsang Rampa was a phony fiction writer. These 
 are not instructions for heat yoga (caNDAlI-yoga).

Candali (kundalini) is a Sanskrit translation of a 
Tibetan word - Tummo. 

But, in fact, 'Heat Yoga' was popularized by Bikram 
Choudhury. Bikram Yoga's goal is to obtain general 
health through hatha yoga poses and pranyama.

Bikram Choudhury believes that the heated studio 
helps with deeper stretching, while reducing stress 
and tension. You can find the detailed instructions 
in Bikram's 'Pranayama Series' of Hatha Yoga poses, 
which are very similar to the instructions of T. 
Lobsang Rampa! Go figure.

However, the practice of Tibetan 'Tummo', is the 
yoga of generating 'inner' heat. This practice has 
been described in detail by W.Y. Evans-Wentz in his 
book 'Tibetan Yoga and Secret Doctrines'.

Tummo is a siddha meditation technique, similar to 
the practice of TM.

According to MMY, this yoga technique, pranyama, 
when followed by deep meditation, accompanied by a 
non-semantic mnemonic, such as a bija mantra, 
produces an intensely blissful feeling.

According to the Kagyu tradition of Tibetan Buddhism, 
Tummo was developed by the Mahasiddha Naropa, as a 
set of practices in the 'Six Yogas of Naropa', to be 
used in order to recognize the true nature of the 
mind. 

Read more:

'Foundations of Tibetan Mysticism'
According to the Esoteric Teachings of the Great Mantra 
Om Mani Padme Hum
By Lama Anagarika Govinda
E.P. Dutton  Co, 1960  



Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Anyone tried this?

2012-01-10 Thread Vaj


On Jan 10, 2012, at 11:01 AM, richardatrwilliamsdotus wrote:




  Here is an exercise that enables one to keep
  warm in cold weather...
 
Vaj:
 Lobsang Rampa was a phony fiction writer. These
 are not instructions for heat yoga (caNDAlI-yoga).

Candali (kundalini) is a Sanskrit translation of a
Tibetan word - Tummo.


Actually gtum mo is a Tibetan translation of the Sanskrit.




But, in fact, 'Heat Yoga' was popularized by Bikram
Choudhury. Bikram Yoga's goal is to obtain general
health through hatha yoga poses and pranyama.


Different type of heat yoga Willy.




Bikram Choudhury believes that the heated studio
helps with deeper stretching, while reducing stress
and tension. You can find the detailed instructions
in Bikram's 'Pranayama Series' of Hatha Yoga poses,
which are very similar to the instructions of T.
Lobsang Rampa! Go figure.

However, the practice of Tibetan 'Tummo', is the
yoga of generating 'inner' heat. This practice has
been described in detail by W.Y. Evans-Wentz in his
book 'Tibetan Yoga and Secret Doctrines'.

Tummo is a siddha meditation technique, similar to
the practice of TM.


Were you ever instructed in TM? I've been instructed in both TM and  
chandali-yoga and they're actually nothing alike.




[FairfieldLife] A Fourth and Final Open Letter to Ravi Chivukula

2012-01-10 Thread maskedzebra
Dear Ravi Chivukula,

Although it will be argued that you were silenced at FFL because of the 
specific things you said about certain people, the real reason why you have 
been sanctioned is because, just in general, you do not show any awareness of 
the subtle norms of Western Civilization discourse and debate and interpersonal 
interaction. You see, your transgressive mode (RTM) is intrinsic to your whole 
way of being in your life; it is not something that you construct artificially 
as a method of ambushing and violating and provoking those people with whom you 
disagree, or who you feel, according to you, are hypocrites, liars, or 
ignoramuses. You either refuse to insert this element of self-perspective and 
self-discipline into your writing, or else you are incapable, presently, of 
even attuning yourself to the 'good manners' of an adult who conducts 
'business' (in this case posting and arguing at FFL) in the world.

It is all very well to say: Well, I was just being honest; I was just calling 
it as I see it; I was inspired to expose dishonesty, disingenuousness, 
insincerity, wilful stupidity and so on. But you did this like some genius 
child, a child who lacks the maturity and reflective objectivity to have any 
idea whatsoever as to *how you were being perceived at FFL*. There was, then, 
Ravi, something oblivious, self-centered, impossibly impulsive about your 
posts. It is one thing to flout convention, but when someone, even inside 
perhaps a certain spontaneity and inspiration, criticizes, confronts, and 
excoriates other human beings, the reader (and not just the victim of your 
unabashed remarks) must sense that you have control over yourself*, you know 
what you are doing*, *you are aware of how this is playing inside the 
consciousness of others*.

And this, Ravi, is what I think your most serious fault or limitation or flaw; 
and I believe in the end it is what brought you down. Even now I doubt you have 
any sense of shock or trauma or sadness that your posting privileges have been 
revoked—I assume permanently. For you, it is all part of this unstoppable dance 
of perfect audacity, this  cosmic transgressive destiny. Fine. Let's say this 
indeed is your mission, your calling: to go after various persons at FFL, and 
presumably in the world, who you feel deserve to be exposed and humiliated. 
But, Ravi, you are executing this inwardly felt compulsion without regard to 
the most basic graces that underpin and make possible the conventions of 
dialogue and debate in Western Civilization. Among adult human beings, that is.

It isn't then just your refusal to acknowledge or conform to these implicit 
standards of discourse between mature human persons; it is your apparent 
obliviousness that such standards and conventions even exist. This, I believe, 
is what appalls, shocks, astonishes, and finally outrages people at FFL. This 
person, Ravi Chivukula, he may in some profound sense be innocent, but his 
innocence does not hold within itself the requisite maturity, self-knowingness, 
interpersonal awareness which would in some sense justify what he is saying. 
Ravi Chivukula is performing in front of us, and sometimes with a certain 
brilliance and virtuosity, but even at his best, he is still demonstrating to 
us that he is somehow arrested at a level of a child—and we demand that in 
order to listen to him, to become his willing audience, we would ask him to 
exercise the self-control, the discretion, the prudence of an adult. Your 
unwillingness to do this starts to seem as if your *inability* to do this, and 
this is not normal; not normal, that is, in this culture.

So, even among those of us who find you amusing, even insightful—and often 
hilarious—there is the recognition that you are always very near to crossing 
the line. And to repeat: the sense one gets in reading your posts is you don't 
know what is being asked or demanded of you in order to even legitimize your 
behaviour*. You pride yourself on your infinite independence and autonomy. But 
this comes off as not just healthy rebelliousness and nonconformity; it comes 
off as dangerously and hopelessly indiscreet. So that, no matter what you say 
about someone, positive or negative, the impression is: this guy is assuming 
the right and prerogative of epater les bourgeois—shocking and 
offending—*without really taking any responsibility for doing this*. That is, 
without experiencing the impact of your actions within yourself.

You are not, then, Ravi, passing through what is necessary within yourself in 
order to say these things. Your descriptions and analyses of certain posters at 
FFL lack any evidence of a certain moral responsibility and sophistication of 
self-knowledge which would in some sense entitle you to take these chances. To 
be this bold. To be this judgmental.

For me, this is a great limitation, which you must seek to understand and 
overcome. Else your life will end in failure and ignominy. You are 

[FairfieldLife] Gayatri

2012-01-10 Thread gita
Greetings,

Gayatri (Gail) has come to the surface to share her personal experiences with 
Ammachi and the Ashram in India.

She has put together her memoirs and will be publishing a book soon.
If you want to read some of her experiences go to examma yahoo group.



[FairfieldLife] Re: Anyone tried this?

2012-01-10 Thread Lorenzo
If Gingrich or Ron Paul find out about this - they'll want DHSS to teach 
pranyama to the homeless.

--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, cardemaister no_reply@... wrote:

 
 From Cyril Henry Hoskin's a.k.a. Tuesday Lobsang Rampa's book Wisdom of
 the Ancients:
 
 Here is an exercise that enables one to keep warm in cold weather.
 It is something much practiced in Tibet where a lama can sit unclothed
 on ice, and even melt ice around him and dry off wet blankets draped
 around his shoulders.
 
 Here's how you do it. Sit comfortably ... and make sure that you
 really ARE sitting with your spine upright. You must have no
 tensions or pressing worries for the moment. Close your eyes, and
 think of yourself saying, 'OM, OM, OM', telepathically.
 
 Close your left nostril, and take us much air as you can through
 the right nostril. Then close the right (your thumb is the best
 for this because it is the most convenient), and retain the breath
 by pressing your chin hard against your chest, bring your chin up
 close to your neck.
 
 Hold your breath for a time, and then gradually exhale through
 the left nostril by closing the right nostril (again the thumb is
 easiest here).
 
 Careful note -- in this particular exercise one always breathes in
 through the right
 nostril, and always breathes out through the left nostril.
 
 You should do this from a start of ten breathings, during which you
 gradually increase
 the time of breath retention, up to some fifty times, but you must
 increase your breath
 retention very gradually, there is no need to rush, and while on the
 subject here is
 a little note which may free you from worry: when you have been doing it
 for some
 time, and you are doing it with deep breath retention, you may find that
 you perspire
 from the roots of the hair. That is perfectly safe, perfectly normal,
 and really does
 increase the health and cleanliness of the body.





[FairfieldLife] Re: Internet freedom converning Ravi's posts

2012-01-10 Thread authfriend
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, zarzari_786 no_reply@... wrote:
 
 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend jstein@ wrote:
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, raunchydog raunchydog@ wrote:
  
   Impeccable timeline, Judy. How *do* you do it?
  
  Well, when Yahoo Advanced Search is working, it isn't that
  difficult. Sure couldn't do it just from memory. Does take
  a bit of back and forth, and it does require familiarity
  with the search options.
 
 Well, I do it from memory. I will naturally notice more
 my inclusion in any of his lists then others here, and
 Ravi was also absent (overposting) for more than a week.
 AFAIK he started being degaratory to me only when putting
 my video in the subject line. And that was long, long time
 after Emily had posted her rant.

That's right. But *before* I'd responded to any of your
attacks on me that you made after your break.

   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend jstein@ wrote:
   
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, zarzari_786 no_reply@ wrote:
snip
In any case, if he had really just been taking cues
from others, he might well have taken his anti-zarzari
cue from *Emily's* post.

Oh, but Emily took her cue from me, right?
 
 Well, that's not what I said, you are making it up now.

That's why I said, Right? I was anticipating, 
sarcastically, that that's what you'd say. What
I was doing in this post was eliminating every
possibility that Ravi had attacked you because he
was taking cues from me. The timeline of the
posts just doesn't support that notion.

Ooops, no, wait. My first response to your exchange
with Barry was very mild, hardly denunciatory.
 
 Correct. 
 
It
wasn't until Robin took after you big-time that I used
the term slimy to refer to your post to Barry. And
by that time Emily had already given the two of you a
very thorough tongue-lashing, completely of her own
accord.
 
 At the time I had to take an announced break, but the basis
 of this was your very unfortunate snipping of my original
 post, you know the one, where you started to lash out after
 my two word 'of course' with the rest of the quote being
 Barry's, and being entirely out of context, and also being
 misinterpreted by you and consequently by Emily, and which
 resulted into a series of mis-attributions of quotes by
 Barry.

Emily didn't misinterpret, and that's not why Robin
misattributed the quotes. Plus which, you just agreed
that that post of mine was very mild. If it was
lashing out, it was very restrained in that regard.

You misunderstood the basis for my response to your
Of course. I tried to explain it to you when you
emailed me privately to object, but you didn't get it.
I was calling your attention to the absurdity of
*Barry's* statement, of its logical structure, not
the content. Then I addressed the content by
pointing out that his premise was inaccurate as well.

Emily was responding to both you and Barry, and what
she was objecting to was your *labeling*, whether
with NPD or BPD. She used NPD--which Barry had used--
as an example, but she found both labels unacceptable.
It was the fact of the labeling, not the specific
label, that she was objecting to.

The part I snipped from your post would not have
made any difference to her objection (or to mine).
Again, I tried to explain this to you privately,
but you didn't understand.

And Ravi didn't start going after you until you'd
come back after your little vacation. That was *after*
you'd already made several posts attacking me, but
before I'd had a chance to respond.
 
 Well, I am not aware of those attacks, but I may have missed
 them.

Which attacks? Ravi's? You just cited them above,
the ones about your video. And obviously you didn't
miss your own attacks on me. So you aren't making
any sense here.

 The ones I remember, where after you had gone ballistic.

I went ballistic in our *private exchange*, so
obviously that couldn't have influenced Ravi. I
didn't go after you in public until *after* Ravi
did, after your break, in response to the attacks
you'd made on me.

The single harsh post I made about you before your
break was my post to Robin correcting his attributions,
the one in which I called what you'd said in your
exchange with Barry slimy. And that was *after*
Emily had posted her rant.

 But, anyway he is gone, he also took cues from you in
 his whole line of argumentation, like you saying, that
 enlightened ones can't be judged by their behavior,

He had been making that point all along by
contrasting his behavior with what he claimed
about his inner state. It didn't come from me.

 a very unwholesome argument for him to use.

Maybe, maybe not. We have no way of knowing whether
it was unwholesome. In any case, it's idiotic for
you to blame it on me.

You just made the point *yourself* in another post
that MMY had said enlightenment can't be determined
from behavior, so why are you even objecting to 

[FairfieldLife] Re: A Fourth and Final Open Letter to Ravi Chivukula

2012-01-10 Thread authfriend
I think this is a brilliant analysis, Robin, and a
beautiful, loving approach to Ravi. Kudos. I hope he
reads it and takes it to heart. I hope everyone else
here reads it as well and comes away with a clearer
understanding of both Ravi and the often ragged,
sometimes brutal interpersonal dynamics of FFL. We
could all use a healthy dose of this kind of empathy,
the recognition that there's more to a person, any
person, than what we see on the surface via their
posts.


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, maskedzebra no_reply@... wrote:

 Dear Ravi Chivukula,
 
 Although it will be argued that you were silenced at FFL because of the 
 specific things you said about certain people, the real reason why you have 
 been sanctioned is because, just in general, you do not show any awareness of 
 the subtle norms of Western Civilization discourse and debate and 
 interpersonal interaction. You see, your transgressive mode (RTM) is 
 intrinsic to your whole way of being in your life; it is not something that 
 you construct artificially as a method of ambushing and violating and 
 provoking those people with whom you disagree, or who you feel, according to 
 you, are hypocrites, liars, or ignoramuses. You either refuse to insert this 
 element of self-perspective and self-discipline into your writing, or else 
 you are incapable, presently, of even attuning yourself to the 'good manners' 
 of an adult who conducts 'business' (in this case posting and arguing at FFL) 
 in the world.
 
 It is all very well to say: Well, I was just being honest; I was just calling 
 it as I see it; I was inspired to expose dishonesty, disingenuousness, 
 insincerity, wilful stupidity and so on. But you did this like some genius 
 child, a child who lacks the maturity and reflective objectivity to have any 
 idea whatsoever as to *how you were being perceived at FFL*. There was, then, 
 Ravi, something oblivious, self-centered, impossibly impulsive about your 
 posts. It is one thing to flout convention, but when someone, even inside 
 perhaps a certain spontaneity and inspiration, criticizes, confronts, and 
 excoriates other human beings, the reader (and not just the victim of your 
 unabashed remarks) must sense that you have control over yourself*, you 
 know what you are doing*, *you are aware of how this is playing inside the 
 consciousness of others*.
 
 And this, Ravi, is what I think your most serious fault or limitation or 
 flaw; and I believe in the end it is what brought you down. Even now I doubt 
 you have any sense of shock or trauma or sadness that your posting privileges 
 have been revoked—I assume permanently. For you, it is all part of this 
 unstoppable dance of perfect audacity, this  cosmic transgressive destiny. 
 Fine. Let's say this indeed is your mission, your calling: to go after 
 various persons at FFL, and presumably in the world, who you feel deserve to 
 be exposed and humiliated. But, Ravi, you are executing this inwardly felt 
 compulsion without regard to the most basic graces that underpin and make 
 possible the conventions of dialogue and debate in Western Civilization. 
 Among adult human beings, that is.
 
 It isn't then just your refusal to acknowledge or conform to these implicit 
 standards of discourse between mature human persons; it is your apparent 
 obliviousness that such standards and conventions even exist. This, I 
 believe, is what appalls, shocks, astonishes, and finally outrages people at 
 FFL. This person, Ravi Chivukula, he may in some profound sense be innocent, 
 but his innocence does not hold within itself the requisite maturity, 
 self-knowingness, interpersonal awareness which would in some sense justify 
 what he is saying. Ravi Chivukula is performing in front of us, and sometimes 
 with a certain brilliance and virtuosity, but even at his best, he is still 
 demonstrating to us that he is somehow arrested at a level of a child—and we 
 demand that in order to listen to him, to become his willing audience, we 
 would ask him to exercise the self-control, the discretion, the prudence of 
 an adult. Your unwillingness to do this starts to seem as if your *inability* 
 to do this, and this is not normal; not normal, that is, in this culture.
 
 So, even among those of us who find you amusing, even insightful—and often 
 hilarious—there is the recognition that you are always very near to crossing 
 the line. And to repeat: the sense one gets in reading your posts is you 
 don't know what is being asked or demanded of you in order to even legitimize 
 your behaviour*. You pride yourself on your infinite independence and 
 autonomy. But this comes off as not just healthy rebelliousness and 
 nonconformity; it comes off as dangerously and hopelessly indiscreet. So 
 that, no matter what you say about someone, positive or negative, the 
 impression is: this guy is assuming the right and prerogative of epater les 
 bourgeois—shocking and offending—*without really taking any 

Re: [FairfieldLife] Anyone tried this?

2012-01-10 Thread Bhairitu
On 01/10/2012 04:50 AM, cardemaister wrote:
  From Cyril Henry Hoskin's a.k.a. Tuesday Lobsang Rampa's book Wisdom of
 the Ancients:

 Here is an exercise that enables one to keep warm in cold weather.
 It is something much practiced in Tibet where a lama can sit unclothed
 on ice, and even melt ice around him and dry off wet blankets draped
 around his shoulders.

 Here's how you do it. Sit comfortably ... and make sure that you
 really ARE sitting with your spine upright. You must have no
 tensions or pressing worries for the moment. Close your eyes, and
 think of yourself saying, 'OM, OM, OM', telepathically.

 Close your left nostril, and take us much air as you can through
 the right nostril. Then close the right (your thumb is the best
 for this because it is the most convenient), and retain the breath
 by pressing your chin hard against your chest, bring your chin up
 close to your neck.

 Hold your breath for a time, and then gradually exhale through
 the left nostril by closing the right nostril (again the thumb is
 easiest here).

 Careful note -- in this particular exercise one always breathes in
 through the right
 nostril, and always breathes out through the left nostril.

 You should do this from a start of ten breathings, during which you
 gradually increase
 the time of breath retention, up to some fifty times, but you must
 increase your breath
 retention very gradually, there is no need to rush, and while on the
 subject here is
 a little note which may free you from worry: when you have been doing it
 for some
 time, and you are doing it with deep breath retention, you may find that
 you perspire
 from the roots of the hair. That is perfectly safe, perfectly normal,
 and really does
 increase the health and cleanliness of the body.

If TM'ers actually knew yoga then they would understand how this might work.



[FairfieldLife] Re: Wallander

2012-01-10 Thread PaliGap


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb no_reply@... wrote:

 I've been watching both versions of Wallander 
 lately, having missed them first time around. I
 thoroughly enjoy both, but tend to prefer the
 Swedish version. 

Yes me too - in fact I have enjoyed both Swedish versions 
(Krister Henriksson  Rolf Lassgård as Wallander). Fine
actor he may be, but I think Branagh does Henry V types
better than flawed, non-charismatic 'everymen'.

I was just so shocked when I learnt that the actress
Johanna Sällström, who played opposite Krister Henriksson's
Wallander as his daughter, had topped herself. Even more so
given that she had a miraculous escape from the 2004 tsunami
(and saved her young daughter too). Oddly it seems that her
survival of the tsunami aggravated her tendency to depression,
which led ultimately to suicide.

...this was only the final, devastating precipitous
psychological decline she suffered in a life-long battle with
depression. She had stated in an interview in 2006 with the
editor of the magazine Tove, I always thought I would be dead
at the age of thirty. Already battered and weakened by years
of mental illness, the tsunami shattered her fragile psyche,
culminating in her overdose on sleeping pills at the age of 32.
She had made it past 30, but it could be said that her death
was a self-fulfilling prophecy.





[FairfieldLife] Re: A Fourth and Final Open Letter to Ravi Chivukula

2012-01-10 Thread obbajeeba
Yes, I agree that it is a brilliant analysis.  I am sure dear Ravi is enjoying 
this read. Maybe repenting in a corner. lol

MaskedZ's quote:
The interpersonal context within Western Civilization, within adult 
intercourse in this society, can be even more intricate and subtle than the 
requirements of your present high-paying job as a software programmer.

Tell it like it is, Robin!
Amazon dot com (Tantric sex, disc 1, illustration B.) lol


Oh another quote by the MaskedZ:
Among adult human beings.

LOL! Brilliant punch the the kisser of stone idols! 


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend jstein@... wrote:

 I think this is a brilliant analysis, Robin, and a
 beautiful, loving approach to Ravi. Kudos. I hope he
 reads it and takes it to heart. I hope everyone else
 here reads it as well and comes away with a clearer
 understanding of both Ravi and the often ragged,
 sometimes brutal interpersonal dynamics of FFL. We
 could all use a healthy dose of this kind of empathy,
 the recognition that there's more to a person, any
 person, than what we see on the surface via their
 posts.
 
 
 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, maskedzebra no_reply@ wrote:
 
  Dear Ravi Chivukula,
  
  Although it will be argued that you were silenced at FFL because of the 
  specific things you said about certain people, the real reason why you have 
  been sanctioned is because, just in general, you do not show any awareness 
  of the subtle norms of Western Civilization discourse and debate and 
  interpersonal interaction. You see, your transgressive mode (RTM) is 
  intrinsic to your whole way of being in your life; it is not something that 
  you construct artificially as a method of ambushing and violating and 
  provoking those people with whom you disagree, or who you feel, according 
  to you, are hypocrites, liars, or ignoramuses. You either refuse to insert 
  this element of self-perspective and self-discipline into your writing, or 
  else you are incapable, presently, of even attuning yourself to the 'good 
  manners' of an adult who conducts 'business' (in this case posting and 
  arguing at FFL) in the world.
  
  It is all very well to say: Well, I was just being honest; I was just 
  calling it as I see it; I was inspired to expose dishonesty, 
  disingenuousness, insincerity, wilful stupidity and so on. But you did this 
  like some genius child, a child who lacks the maturity and reflective 
  objectivity to have any idea whatsoever as to *how you were being perceived 
  at FFL*. There was, then, Ravi, something oblivious, self-centered, 
  impossibly impulsive about your posts. It is one thing to flout convention, 
  but when someone, even inside perhaps a certain spontaneity and 
  inspiration, criticizes, confronts, and excoriates other human beings, the 
  reader (and not just the victim of your unabashed remarks) must sense that 
  you have control over yourself*, you know what you are doing*, *you are 
  aware of how this is playing inside the consciousness of others*.
  
  And this, Ravi, is what I think your most serious fault or limitation or 
  flaw; and I believe in the end it is what brought you down. Even now I 
  doubt you have any sense of shock or trauma or sadness that your posting 
  privileges have been revoked—I assume permanently. For you, it is all part 
  of this unstoppable dance of perfect audacity, this  cosmic transgressive 
  destiny. Fine. Let's say this indeed is your mission, your calling: to go 
  after various persons at FFL, and presumably in the world, who you feel 
  deserve to be exposed and humiliated. But, Ravi, you are executing this 
  inwardly felt compulsion without regard to the most basic graces that 
  underpin and make possible the conventions of dialogue and debate in 
  Western Civilization. Among adult human beings, that is.
  
  It isn't then just your refusal to acknowledge or conform to these implicit 
  standards of discourse between mature human persons; it is your apparent 
  obliviousness that such standards and conventions even exist. This, I 
  believe, is what appalls, shocks, astonishes, and finally outrages people 
  at FFL. This person, Ravi Chivukula, he may in some profound sense be 
  innocent, but his innocence does not hold within itself the requisite 
  maturity, self-knowingness, interpersonal awareness which would in some 
  sense justify what he is saying. Ravi Chivukula is performing in front of 
  us, and sometimes with a certain brilliance and virtuosity, but even at his 
  best, he is still demonstrating to us that he is somehow arrested at a 
  level of a child—and we demand that in order to listen to him, to become 
  his willing audience, we would ask him to exercise the self-control, the 
  discretion, the prudence of an adult. Your unwillingness to do this starts 
  to seem as if your *inability* to do this, and this is not normal; not 
  normal, that is, in this culture.
  
  So, even among those of us who find 

[FairfieldLife] Re: Collapse of the Wave Function

2012-01-10 Thread PaliGap


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Ravi Chivukula chivukula.ravi@... wrote:

WTF - What a wonderful juxtaposition of posts. LOL

(Sorry to be so far behind)

 WTF..here I am talking about my beloved, love, sex, hate, pain, bliss,
 longing, separation, oneness and you are talking about this garbage. You
 must be suffering from irrevocable, irreparable, irretrievable brain
 damage, am I correct in assuming this shaim307?
 
 
 On Sat, Jan 7, 2012 at 7:37 PM, shainm307 shainm307@... wrote:
 
  **
 
 
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend jstein@ wrote:
  
   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, shainm307 shainm307@ wrote:
   
Is anyone else interested in how this works?
  
   It sure interests me. I don't have a clue how it
   works.
  
Anyone else curious on how reality manifests itself
and what determines differnt outcomes? This is what
John Hagelin told us
  
   What's what John Hagelin told us?
  John told our physics class this when we asked him a few years back.
but he made it clear that he isn't 100% certain
  
   That's intriguing. I've never heard him say that
   about anything (but then I haven't been listening
   to whatever he's said lately).
  He said something like You have no idea just how complicated this really
  is and you're not letting me off the hook here.  Then he also said It
  honest to God is random.
   and
it's more comlicated than you can imagine. He said
that it is an unnatural question but reality will
provide you with an answer.
  
   That's pretty cryptic. Any idea what he means?
  
He also said it could be an entity on the other side.
  
   Whoa. What kind of entity? On the other side of what?
   And what's it referring to?
  He's probally refering to the Hidden Sector Matter part of the universe or
  the other side of the equation in Hectoratic E8xE8
also he said it's just the will of God. Anyone else
have their speculations on how this works. I have
my own speculation but I'm probably wrong on something.
  
   Why don't you post your speculation, give us something
   to bounce off of?
  I think how your reality manifests itself is based off random
  probabilities with the exception of Maxwell's Daemon which manifests things
  in an unrandom way. This is all due to the potentiality waves based off
  probabilities with the height of the wave the most likely outcome; Maxwells
  Demon just influences the probabilities( John made this clear in his
  physics class if you ever took it). So you live your day through the
  probabilities with the collapse of the wave function being determined in a
  random way(Randomness is my specualtation as scientists aren't sure). Now
  here comes the unrandom part: your thoughts determine what Maxwell's Demon
  determines in an unrandom fashion. The random part is the confusing part as
  it is hard to think how can something be random and what the sequence is in
  the whole process.  This once again would be my speculation, as I think it
  is all determined by you.  This is what I think matters in the whole
  randomness part: freewill, love, what matters, intelligence of the
  universe, creativity of the universe and of course God, plus probably a
  lot more.  I havn't captured the whole random process but I imagine it's
  based off your freewill.
 
   Do not keep saying to yourself, if you can possibly avoid it, 'But how
  can it be like that?' because you will get 'down the drain,' into a blind
  alley from which nobody has yet escaped. Nobody knows how it can be like
  that.--Richard Feynman on the apparent absurdities of quantum behavior
  
   The chance is high that the truth lies in the fashionable direction.
  But, on the off chance that it is in another direction †a direction
  obvious from an unfashionable view of field theory †who will find it? 
  Only
  someone who has sacrificed himself by teaching himself quantum
  electrodynamics from a peculiar and unfashionable point of view; one that
  he may have to invent for himself.--Richard Feynman, Nobel lecture, 1965
  
 
   
 





[FairfieldLife] The Mystery of Rick, Part II

2012-01-10 Thread John
And so it came to pass.  Amen?



[FairfieldLife] Re: Collapse of the Wave Function

2012-01-10 Thread PaliGap
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Ravi Chivukula chivukula.ravi@... wrote:

 I actually created this world. I thought I planned it pretty good but I made 
 a big mistake, I included myself in my creation subject to the same rules 
 which I obviously can't remember. But I know this game has an end so I just 
 ride along. So I know this is all mine, I own everyone's ass, but people 
 think I'm mad and crazy, why?

You stole my donkey - I want it back!



[FairfieldLife] Re: Collapse of the Wave Function

2012-01-10 Thread PaliGap
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Ravi Chivukula chivukula.ravi@... wrote:

 But then I get incredibly blissed because I know I'm the emperor that owns 
 this fucking existence, 'cause I fucking created it !!!

Fuck off. I did. I created you you twat. 



[FairfieldLife] Re: Internet freedom converning Ravi's posts

2012-01-10 Thread turquoiseb
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, obbajeeba no_reply@... wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb no_reply@ wrote:
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, obbajeeba no_reply@ wrote:
  
   Not like some dudes on this forum who piss the spot with 
   complete teeth grinding bark, protection for their red 
   fire hydrant in multiple layers of consciousness available 
   if only to break through their awareness as something more 
   that tangible, all muddled together 75 foot lead wall with 
   dancing football cheerleaders in cowboy lingerie. 
   Nabby not included. He has some morals about morals.
  
  Let me guess. You've been taking the same How To
  Write Completely Incoherent English correspondence
  course that MZ, Ravi, and Bob Price took, right?
  
  :-)
 
 Replace the that, with than, just before tangible.
 I was lowering my standards to get to the group of very 
 unaware seekers who think they know everything that is 
 under the Ravi (Sun). 
 LMAO.
 : )
 Let me translate the above for you, since you appear to 
 wish to understand:

No thanks. 

I was trying, in a humorous way, to express concern
for you. I was hoping that last night's posts from
you were the result of some kind of intoxicant, and
that by morning you'd have sobered up or come down 
enough to realize that the things you posted made 
little sense. Instead you double down. This makes 
me even more concerned, suspecting that you actually 
believe that your original rant makes perfect sense 
if you just replace that with than. I for one
am not convinced it does, or that the new rant helps 
it *to* make sense. 

 There are men who type on this FFL forum, who act like 
 dogs and mark their location and their looking for other 
 opposite sex dogs by peeing on a red fire hydrant 
 http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WvjVO_n0XFg
 all the while their minds are thinking about 
 http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7dgpsI1MdQI and say, Huh? 
 Why can I not see past my own hand? 
 http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Pw0B4C__b-M 
 and http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GKg8G9sMWUY  
 You are not out of that category as you mention above, Turq. 
 Add your name in there too. Always peeing on Judy's fire 
 hydrant like a dog in heat. 
 : )





RE: [FairfieldLife] The Mystery of Rick, Part II

2012-01-10 Thread Rick Archer
From: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com [mailto:FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com]
On Behalf Of John
Sent: Tuesday, January 10, 2012 12:40 PM
To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com
Subject: [FairfieldLife] The Mystery of Rick, Part II

 

  

And so it came to pass. Amen?

I didn't realize there had been a Part I until I saw this. Apparently not
much progress has been made in solving it.

 



[FairfieldLife] Strange Bedfellows

2012-01-10 Thread Bhairitu
Like most liberals I have no use for Senator Paul Ryan but he recently 
spoke out against the SOPA bill in congress saying it would lead to 
censorship on the Internet.  I'll applaud him for that and also Rep 
Darryl Issa for also speaking out against it.  Let's hope this bill 
becomes stillborn.

And also I applaud Orin Hatch for blocking a lot of the pull the ladder 
up vitamin supplement bills that have been introduced in congress.  
Occasionally conservatives are good for something.



RE: [FairfieldLife] Re: Internet freedom converning Ravi's posts

2012-01-10 Thread Rick Archer
From: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com [mailto:FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com]
On Behalf Of Buck
Sent: Sunday, January 08, 2012 8:18 AM
To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com
Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: Internet freedom converning Ravi's posts

 

  

Yep, I agree with Curtis here. What RaviC is doing here is sinful by
resolution and no good for the community here. He is not contributing to the
conversation but fishing it with this kind of spiritual abuse. As much as
anything he is mocking Rick with this stuff. This is needless over the top
abuse. The FFL list Moderators should unsubscribe this guy Ravi from FFL.
The guy has fouled out, so to speak. Unsubscribe him now.
-Buck 

I guess you all realize by now that Ravi has been unsubscribed. I don't have
the time to follow these antics, but several people whom I respect emailed
me, unbeknownst to each other, and expressed their concern not only for his
violation of FFL guidelines, but for his sanity. So we nuked him.

 



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Re: [FairfieldLife] Strange Bedfellows

2012-01-10 Thread Bhairitu
On 01/10/2012 12:20 PM, Bhairitu wrote:
 Like most liberals I have no use for Senator Paul Ryan but he recently
 spoke out against the SOPA bill in congress saying it would lead to
 censorship on the Internet.  I'll applaud him for that and also Rep
 Darryl Issa for also speaking out against it.  Let's hope this bill
 becomes stillborn.

 And also I applaud Orin Hatch for blocking a lot of the pull the ladder
 up vitamin supplement bills that have been introduced in congress.
 Occasionally conservatives are good for something.


Great report by Max Keiser about the SOPA law and how Hollywood is 
conning Congress:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_detailpagev=GX-gYrTxz9U 
http://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=player_detailpagev=GX-gYrTxz9U

Max ought to know.  He is a former computer programmer who developed the 
Hollywood Stock Exchange.  Only in America can you default on a mortgage 
and not go to jail but go to jail for 5 years for downloading a movie 
illegally.






[FairfieldLife] Re: Internet freedom converning Ravi's posts

2012-01-10 Thread pranamoocher
Ravi 4 Prez!!!


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Rick Archer rick@... wrote:

 From: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com
[mailto:FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com]
 On Behalf Of Buck
 Sent: Sunday, January 08, 2012 8:18 AM
 To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com
 Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: Internet freedom converning Ravi's posts





 Yep, I agree with Curtis here. What RaviC is doing here is sinful by
 resolution and no good for the community here. He is not contributing
to the
 conversation but fishing it with this kind of spiritual abuse. As much
as
 anything he is mocking Rick with this stuff. This is needless over the
top
 abuse. The FFL list Moderators should unsubscribe this guy Ravi from
FFL.
 The guy has fouled out, so to speak. Unsubscribe him now.
 -Buck

 I guess you all realize by now that Ravi has been unsubscribed. I
don't have
 the time to follow these antics, but several people whom I respect
emailed
 me, unbeknownst to each other, and expressed their concern not only
for his
 violation of FFL guidelines, but for his sanity. So we nuked him.




[FairfieldLife] Re: A Fourth and Final Open Letter to Ravi Chivukula

2012-01-10 Thread Xenophaneros Anartaxius
This was really well written Robin. While I think a much shorter exposition 
could contain the same basic idea, in this case the extensive detail is 
justified and called for. Ravi would benefit from digesting this and grasping 
all its implications.

--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, maskedzebra no_reply@... wrote:

 Dear Ravi Chivukula,
 
 Although it will be argued that you were silenced at FFL because of the 
 specific things you said about certain people, the real reason why you have 
 been sanctioned is because, just in general, you do not show any awareness of 
 the subtle norms of Western Civilization discourse and debate and 
 interpersonal interaction. You see, your transgressive mode (RTM) is 
 intrinsic to your whole way of being in your life; it is not something that 
 you construct artificially as a method of ambushing and violating and 
 provoking those people with whom you disagree, or who you feel, according to 
 you, are hypocrites, liars, or ignoramuses. You either refuse to insert this 
 element of self-perspective and self-discipline into your writing, or else 
 you are incapable, presently, of even attuning yourself to the 'good manners' 
 of an adult who conducts 'business' (in this case posting and arguing at FFL) 
 in the world.
 
 It is all very well to say: Well, I was just being honest; I was just calling 
 it as I see it; I was inspired to expose dishonesty, disingenuousness, 
 insincerity, wilful stupidity and so on. But you did this like some genius 
 child, a child who lacks the maturity and reflective objectivity to have any 
 idea whatsoever as to *how you were being perceived at FFL*. There was, then, 
 Ravi, something oblivious, self-centered, impossibly impulsive about your 
 posts. It is one thing to flout convention, but when someone, even inside 
 perhaps a certain spontaneity and inspiration, criticizes, confronts, and 
 excoriates other human beings, the reader (and not just the victim of your 
 unabashed remarks) must sense that you have control over yourself*, you 
 know what you are doing*, *you are aware of how this is playing inside the 
 consciousness of others*.
 
 And this, Ravi, is what I think your most serious fault or limitation or 
 flaw; and I believe in the end it is what brought you down. Even now I doubt 
 you have any sense of shock or trauma or sadness that your posting privileges 
 have been revoked�I assume permanently. For you, it is all part of this 
 unstoppable dance of perfect audacity, this  cosmic transgressive destiny. 
 Fine. Let's say this indeed is your mission, your calling: to go after 
 various persons at FFL, and presumably in the world, who you feel deserve to 
 be exposed and humiliated. But, Ravi, you are executing this inwardly felt 
 compulsion without regard to the most basic graces that underpin and make 
 possible the conventions of dialogue and debate in Western Civilization. 
 Among adult human beings, that is.
 
 It isn't then just your refusal to acknowledge or conform to these implicit 
 standards of discourse between mature human persons; it is your apparent 
 obliviousness that such standards and conventions even exist. This, I 
 believe, is what appalls, shocks, astonishes, and finally outrages people at 
 FFL. This person, Ravi Chivukula, he may in some profound sense be innocent, 
 but his innocence does not hold within itself the requisite maturity, 
 self-knowingness, interpersonal awareness which would in some sense justify 
 what he is saying. Ravi Chivukula is performing in front of us, and sometimes 
 with a certain brilliance and virtuosity, but even at his best, he is still 
 demonstrating to us that he is somehow arrested at a level of a child�and 
 we demand that in order to listen to him, to become his willing audience, we 
 would ask him to exercise the self-control, the discretion, the prudence of 
 an adult. Your unwillingness to do this starts to seem as if your *inability* 
 to do this, and this is not normal; not normal, that is, in this culture.
 
 So, even among those of us who find you amusing, even insightful�and often 
 hilarious�there is the recognition that you are always very near to 
 crossing the line. And to repeat: the sense one gets in reading your posts is 
 you don't know what is being asked or demanded of you in order to even 
 legitimize your behaviour*. You pride yourself on your infinite independence 
 and autonomy. But this comes off as not just healthy rebelliousness and 
 nonconformity; it comes off as dangerously and hopelessly indiscreet. So 
 that, no matter what you say about someone, positive or negative, the 
 impression is: this guy is assuming the right and prerogative of epater les 
 bourgeois�shocking and offending�*without really taking any 
 responsibility for doing this*. That is, without experiencing the impact of 
 your actions within yourself.
 
 You are not, then, Ravi, passing through what is necessary within yourself in 
 order to say 

Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: A Fourth and Final Open Letter to Ravi Chivukula

2012-01-10 Thread Vaj

On Jan 10, 2012, at 5:39 PM, Xenophaneros Anartaxius wrote:

 This was really well written Robin. While I think a much shorter exposition 
 could contain the same basic idea, in this case the extensive detail is 
 justified and called for. Ravi would benefit from digesting this and grasping 
 all its implications.

He certainly has not lost his writing panache.



[FairfieldLife] Re: A Fourth and Final Open Letter to Ravi Chivukula

2012-01-10 Thread feste37


Superb stuff, MZ. Beautifully written. 

--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, maskedzebra no_reply@... wrote:

 Dear Ravi Chivukula,
 
 Although it will be argued that you were silenced at FFL because of the 
 specific things you said about certain people, the real reason why you have 
 been sanctioned is because, just in general, you do not show any awareness of 
 the subtle norms of Western Civilization discourse and debate and 
 interpersonal interaction. You see, your transgressive mode (RTM) is 
 intrinsic to your whole way of being in your life; it is not something that 
 you construct artificially as a method of ambushing and violating and 
 provoking those people with whom you disagree, or who you feel, according to 
 you, are hypocrites, liars, or ignoramuses. You either refuse to insert this 
 element of self-perspective and self-discipline into your writing, or else 
 you are incapable, presently, of even attuning yourself to the 'good manners' 
 of an adult who conducts 'business' (in this case posting and arguing at FFL) 
 in the world.
 
 It is all very well to say: Well, I was just being honest; I was just calling 
 it as I see it; I was inspired to expose dishonesty, disingenuousness, 
 insincerity, wilful stupidity and so on. But you did this like some genius 
 child, a child who lacks the maturity and reflective objectivity to have any 
 idea whatsoever as to *how you were being perceived at FFL*. There was, then, 
 Ravi, something oblivious, self-centered, impossibly impulsive about your 
 posts. It is one thing to flout convention, but when someone, even inside 
 perhaps a certain spontaneity and inspiration, criticizes, confronts, and 
 excoriates other human beings, the reader (and not just the victim of your 
 unabashed remarks) must sense that you have control over yourself*, you 
 know what you are doing*, *you are aware of how this is playing inside the 
 consciousness of others*.
 
 And this, Ravi, is what I think your most serious fault or limitation or 
 flaw; and I believe in the end it is what brought you down. Even now I doubt 
 you have any sense of shock or trauma or sadness that your posting privileges 
 have been revoked—I assume permanently. For you, it is all part of this 
 unstoppable dance of perfect audacity, this  cosmic transgressive destiny. 
 Fine. Let's say this indeed is your mission, your calling: to go after 
 various persons at FFL, and presumably in the world, who you feel deserve to 
 be exposed and humiliated. But, Ravi, you are executing this inwardly felt 
 compulsion without regard to the most basic graces that underpin and make 
 possible the conventions of dialogue and debate in Western Civilization. 
 Among adult human beings, that is.
 
 It isn't then just your refusal to acknowledge or conform to these implicit 
 standards of discourse between mature human persons; it is your apparent 
 obliviousness that such standards and conventions even exist. This, I 
 believe, is what appalls, shocks, astonishes, and finally outrages people at 
 FFL. This person, Ravi Chivukula, he may in some profound sense be innocent, 
 but his innocence does not hold within itself the requisite maturity, 
 self-knowingness, interpersonal awareness which would in some sense justify 
 what he is saying. Ravi Chivukula is performing in front of us, and sometimes 
 with a certain brilliance and virtuosity, but even at his best, he is still 
 demonstrating to us that he is somehow arrested at a level of a child—and we 
 demand that in order to listen to him, to become his willing audience, we 
 would ask him to exercise the self-control, the discretion, the prudence of 
 an adult. Your unwillingness to do this starts to seem as if your *inability* 
 to do this, and this is not normal; not normal, that is, in this culture.
 
 So, even among those of us who find you amusing, even insightful—and often 
 hilarious—there is the recognition that you are always very near to crossing 
 the line. And to repeat: the sense one gets in reading your posts is you 
 don't know what is being asked or demanded of you in order to even legitimize 
 your behaviour*. You pride yourself on your infinite independence and 
 autonomy. But this comes off as not just healthy rebelliousness and 
 nonconformity; it comes off as dangerously and hopelessly indiscreet. So 
 that, no matter what you say about someone, positive or negative, the 
 impression is: this guy is assuming the right and prerogative of epater les 
 bourgeois—shocking and offending—*without really taking any responsibility 
 for doing this*. That is, without experiencing the impact of your actions 
 within yourself.
 
 You are not, then, Ravi, passing through what is necessary within yourself in 
 order to say these things. Your descriptions and analyses of certain posters 
 at FFL lack any evidence of a certain moral responsibility and sophistication 
 of self-knowledge which would in some sense entitle you to take these 
 

[FairfieldLife] Re: Internet freedom converning Ravi's posts

2012-01-10 Thread zarzari_786
Actually, I am glad to learn, that I was not the only person who didn't 
understand, and that it wasn't really my missing English capabilities. You see, 
the girls were actually piling onto Judy's reaction to me, in the illusion she 
had just finished me.


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb no_reply@... wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, obbajeeba no_reply@ wrote:
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb no_reply@ wrote:
  
   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, obbajeeba no_reply@ wrote:
   
Not like some dudes on this forum who piss the spot with 
complete teeth grinding bark, protection for their red 
fire hydrant in multiple layers of consciousness available 
if only to break through their awareness as something more 
that tangible, all muddled together 75 foot lead wall with 
dancing football cheerleaders in cowboy lingerie. 
Nabby not included. He has some morals about morals.
   
   Let me guess. You've been taking the same How To
   Write Completely Incoherent English correspondence
   course that MZ, Ravi, and Bob Price took, right?
   
   :-)
  
  Replace the that, with than, just before tangible.
  I was lowering my standards to get to the group of very 
  unaware seekers who think they know everything that is 
  under the Ravi (Sun). 
  LMAO.
  : )
  Let me translate the above for you, since you appear to 
  wish to understand:
 
 No thanks. 
 
 I was trying, in a humorous way, to express concern
 for you. I was hoping that last night's posts from
 you were the result of some kind of intoxicant, and
 that by morning you'd have sobered up or come down 
 enough to realize that the things you posted made 
 little sense. Instead you double down. This makes 
 me even more concerned, suspecting that you actually 
 believe that your original rant makes perfect sense 
 if you just replace that with than. I for one
 am not convinced it does, or that the new rant helps 
 it *to* make sense. 
 
  There are men who type on this FFL forum, who act like 
  dogs and mark their location and their looking for other 
  opposite sex dogs by peeing on a red fire hydrant 
  http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WvjVO_n0XFg
  all the while their minds are thinking about 
  http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7dgpsI1MdQI and say, Huh? 
  Why can I not see past my own hand? 
  http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Pw0B4C__b-M 
  and http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GKg8G9sMWUY  
  You are not out of that category as you mention above, Turq. 
  Add your name in there too. Always peeing on Judy's fire 
  hydrant like a dog in heat. 
  : )
 





[FairfieldLife] Re: Internet freedom converning Ravi's posts

2012-01-10 Thread obbajeeba


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb no_reply@... wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, obbajeeba no_reply@ wrote:
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb no_reply@ wrote:
  
   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, obbajeeba no_reply@ wrote:
   
Not like some dudes on this forum who piss the spot with 
complete teeth grinding bark, protection for their red 
fire hydrant in multiple layers of consciousness available 
if only to break through their awareness as something more 
that tangible, all muddled together 75 foot lead wall with 
dancing football cheerleaders in cowboy lingerie. 
Nabby not included. He has some morals about morals.
   
   Let me guess. You've been taking the same How To
   Write Completely Incoherent English correspondence
   course that MZ, Ravi, and Bob Price took, right?
   
   :-)
  
  Replace the that, with than, just before tangible.
  I was lowering my standards to get to the group of very 
  unaware seekers who think they know everything that is 
  under the Ravi (Sun). 
  LMAO.
  : )
  Let me translate the above for you, since you appear to 
  wish to understand:
 
 No thanks. 
 
 I was trying, in a humorous way, to express concern
 for you. 
I was hoping that last night's posts from
 you were the result of some kind of intoxicant, and
 that by morning you'd have sobered up or come down 
 enough to realize that the things you posted made 
 little sense. Instead you double down. This makes 
 me even more concerned, suspecting that you actually 
 believe that your original rant makes perfect sense 
 if you just replace that with than. I for one
 am not convinced it does, or that the new rant helps 
 it *to* make sense. 
 

Do you not like Christian posts, Turq?
This group IS titled under, Spirituality.
Jesus told me to do it, in a rather odd way. 
See ya next week or so!





  There are men who type on this FFL forum, who act like 
  dogs and mark their location and their looking for other 
  opposite sex dogs by peeing on a red fire hydrant 
  http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WvjVO_n0XFg
  all the while their minds are thinking about 
  http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7dgpsI1MdQI and say, Huh? 
  Why can I not see past my own hand? 
  http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Pw0B4C__b-M 
  and http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GKg8G9sMWUY  
  You are not out of that category as you mention above, Turq. 
  Add your name in there too. Always peeing on Judy's fire 
  hydrant like a dog in heat. 
  : )
 





[FairfieldLife] Re: Internet freedom converning Ravi's posts

2012-01-10 Thread obbajeeba
Oh wait, one more reply!
I was sharing Christianity with you, the way the countrymen around me feel it. 
The bible is strong here.  That was all. No understanding necessary. Just 
accept Jesus Christ as your lord and savior and everything will be fine!

Zar zar, I like you.  I did not think Judy finished you. Judy and I stand 
alone, from each other, with respect. The girls may not all be girls, you silly 
girl. ; )

Okay, bye bye. Love you all. 



--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, zarzari_786 no_reply@... wrote:

 Actually, I am glad to learn, that I was not the only person who didn't 
 understand, and that it wasn't really my missing English capabilities. You 
 see, the girls were actually piling onto Judy's reaction to me, in the 
 illusion she had just finished me.
 
 
 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb no_reply@ wrote:
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, obbajeeba no_reply@ wrote:
  
   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb no_reply@ wrote:
   
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, obbajeeba no_reply@ wrote:

 Not like some dudes on this forum who piss the spot with 
 complete teeth grinding bark, protection for their red 
 fire hydrant in multiple layers of consciousness available 
 if only to break through their awareness as something more 
 that tangible, all muddled together 75 foot lead wall with 
 dancing football cheerleaders in cowboy lingerie. 
 Nabby not included. He has some morals about morals.

Let me guess. You've been taking the same How To
Write Completely Incoherent English correspondence
course that MZ, Ravi, and Bob Price took, right?

:-)
   
   Replace the that, with than, just before tangible.
   I was lowering my standards to get to the group of very 
   unaware seekers who think they know everything that is 
   under the Ravi (Sun). 
   LMAO.
   : )
   Let me translate the above for you, since you appear to 
   wish to understand:
  
  No thanks. 
  
  I was trying, in a humorous way, to express concern
  for you. I was hoping that last night's posts from
  you were the result of some kind of intoxicant, and
  that by morning you'd have sobered up or come down 
  enough to realize that the things you posted made 
  little sense. Instead you double down. This makes 
  me even more concerned, suspecting that you actually 
  believe that your original rant makes perfect sense 
  if you just replace that with than. I for one
  am not convinced it does, or that the new rant helps 
  it *to* make sense. 
  
   There are men who type on this FFL forum, who act like 
   dogs and mark their location and their looking for other 
   opposite sex dogs by peeing on a red fire hydrant 
   http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WvjVO_n0XFg
   all the while their minds are thinking about 
   http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7dgpsI1MdQI and say, Huh? 
   Why can I not see past my own hand? 
   http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Pw0B4C__b-M 
   and http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GKg8G9sMWUY  
   You are not out of that category as you mention above, Turq. 
   Add your name in there too. Always peeing on Judy's fire 
   hydrant like a dog in heat. 
   : )
  
 





[FairfieldLife] Re: A Fourth and Final Open Letter to Ravi Chivukula

2012-01-10 Thread maskedzebra
Xenophaneros,

I appreciate these sentiments, Xenophaneros. Although it is easy to be 
convinced of the truth of what someone is saying when that person compliments 
you. But in this case, it just felt real and straightforward. I am grateful for 
your judgment of my letter to Ravi.

Robin

--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Xenophaneros Anartaxius 
anartaxius@... wrote:

 This was really well written Robin. While I think a much shorter exposition 
 could contain the same basic idea, in this case the extensive detail is 
 justified and called for. Ravi would benefit from digesting this and grasping 
 all its implications.
 
 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, maskedzebra no_reply@ wrote:
 
  Dear Ravi Chivukula,
  
  Although it will be argued that you were silenced at FFL because of the 
  specific things you said about certain people, the real reason why you have 
  been sanctioned is because, just in general, you do not show any awareness 
  of the subtle norms of Western Civilization discourse and debate and 
  interpersonal interaction. You see, your transgressive mode (RTM) is 
  intrinsic to your whole way of being in your life; it is not something that 
  you construct artificially as a method of ambushing and violating and 
  provoking those people with whom you disagree, or who you feel, according 
  to you, are hypocrites, liars, or ignoramuses. You either refuse to insert 
  this element of self-perspective and self-discipline into your writing, or 
  else you are incapable, presently, of even attuning yourself to the 'good 
  manners' of an adult who conducts 'business' (in this case posting and 
  arguing at FFL) in the world.
  
  It is all very well to say: Well, I was just being honest; I was just 
  calling it as I see it; I was inspired to expose dishonesty, 
  disingenuousness, insincerity, wilful stupidity and so on. But you did this 
  like some genius child, a child who lacks the maturity and reflective 
  objectivity to have any idea whatsoever as to *how you were being perceived 
  at FFL*. There was, then, Ravi, something oblivious, self-centered, 
  impossibly impulsive about your posts. It is one thing to flout convention, 
  but when someone, even inside perhaps a certain spontaneity and 
  inspiration, criticizes, confronts, and excoriates other human beings, the 
  reader (and not just the victim of your unabashed remarks) must sense that 
  you have control over yourself*, you know what you are doing*, *you are 
  aware of how this is playing inside the consciousness of others*.
  
  And this, Ravi, is what I think your most serious fault or limitation or 
  flaw; and I believe in the end it is what brought you down. Even now I 
  doubt you have any sense of shock or trauma or sadness that your posting 
  privileges have been revoked�I assume permanently. For you, it is all 
  part of this unstoppable dance of perfect audacity, this  cosmic 
  transgressive destiny. Fine. Let's say this indeed is your mission, your 
  calling: to go after various persons at FFL, and presumably in the world, 
  who you feel deserve to be exposed and humiliated. But, Ravi, you are 
  executing this inwardly felt compulsion without regard to the most basic 
  graces that underpin and make possible the conventions of dialogue and 
  debate in Western Civilization. Among adult human beings, that is.
  
  It isn't then just your refusal to acknowledge or conform to these implicit 
  standards of discourse between mature human persons; it is your apparent 
  obliviousness that such standards and conventions even exist. This, I 
  believe, is what appalls, shocks, astonishes, and finally outrages people 
  at FFL. This person, Ravi Chivukula, he may in some profound sense be 
  innocent, but his innocence does not hold within itself the requisite 
  maturity, self-knowingness, interpersonal awareness which would in some 
  sense justify what he is saying. Ravi Chivukula is performing in front of 
  us, and sometimes with a certain brilliance and virtuosity, but even at his 
  best, he is still demonstrating to us that he is somehow arrested at a 
  level of a child�and we demand that in order to listen to him, to become 
  his willing audience, we would ask him to exercise the self-control, the 
  discretion, the prudence of an adult. Your unwillingness to do this starts 
  to seem as if your *inability* to do this, and this is not normal; not 
  normal, that is, in this culture.
  
  So, even among those of us who find you amusing, even insightful�and 
  often hilarious�there is the recognition that you are always very near to 
  crossing the line. And to repeat: the sense one gets in reading your posts 
  is you don't know what is being asked or demanded of you in order to even 
  legitimize your behaviour*. You pride yourself on your infinite 
  independence and autonomy. But this comes off as not just healthy 
  rebelliousness and nonconformity; it comes off as dangerously and 
  

[FairfieldLife] Re: A Fourth and Final Open Letter to Ravi Chivukula

2012-01-10 Thread maskedzebra
Thank you for this, feste37. Your comment here went right into me.

Robin

--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, feste37 feste37@... wrote:

 
 
 Superb stuff, MZ. Beautifully written. 
 
 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, maskedzebra no_reply@ wrote:
 
  Dear Ravi Chivukula,
  
  Although it will be argued that you were silenced at FFL because of the 
  specific things you said about certain people, the real reason why you have 
  been sanctioned is because, just in general, you do not show any awareness 
  of the subtle norms of Western Civilization discourse and debate and 
  interpersonal interaction. You see, your transgressive mode (RTM) is 
  intrinsic to your whole way of being in your life; it is not something that 
  you construct artificially as a method of ambushing and violating and 
  provoking those people with whom you disagree, or who you feel, according 
  to you, are hypocrites, liars, or ignoramuses. You either refuse to insert 
  this element of self-perspective and self-discipline into your writing, or 
  else you are incapable, presently, of even attuning yourself to the 'good 
  manners' of an adult who conducts 'business' (in this case posting and 
  arguing at FFL) in the world.
  
  It is all very well to say: Well, I was just being honest; I was just 
  calling it as I see it; I was inspired to expose dishonesty, 
  disingenuousness, insincerity, wilful stupidity and so on. But you did this 
  like some genius child, a child who lacks the maturity and reflective 
  objectivity to have any idea whatsoever as to *how you were being perceived 
  at FFL*. There was, then, Ravi, something oblivious, self-centered, 
  impossibly impulsive about your posts. It is one thing to flout convention, 
  but when someone, even inside perhaps a certain spontaneity and 
  inspiration, criticizes, confronts, and excoriates other human beings, the 
  reader (and not just the victim of your unabashed remarks) must sense that 
  you have control over yourself*, you know what you are doing*, *you are 
  aware of how this is playing inside the consciousness of others*.
  
  And this, Ravi, is what I think your most serious fault or limitation or 
  flaw; and I believe in the end it is what brought you down. Even now I 
  doubt you have any sense of shock or trauma or sadness that your posting 
  privileges have been revoked—I assume permanently. For you, it is all part 
  of this unstoppable dance of perfect audacity, this  cosmic transgressive 
  destiny. Fine. Let's say this indeed is your mission, your calling: to go 
  after various persons at FFL, and presumably in the world, who you feel 
  deserve to be exposed and humiliated. But, Ravi, you are executing this 
  inwardly felt compulsion without regard to the most basic graces that 
  underpin and make possible the conventions of dialogue and debate in 
  Western Civilization. Among adult human beings, that is.
  
  It isn't then just your refusal to acknowledge or conform to these implicit 
  standards of discourse between mature human persons; it is your apparent 
  obliviousness that such standards and conventions even exist. This, I 
  believe, is what appalls, shocks, astonishes, and finally outrages people 
  at FFL. This person, Ravi Chivukula, he may in some profound sense be 
  innocent, but his innocence does not hold within itself the requisite 
  maturity, self-knowingness, interpersonal awareness which would in some 
  sense justify what he is saying. Ravi Chivukula is performing in front of 
  us, and sometimes with a certain brilliance and virtuosity, but even at his 
  best, he is still demonstrating to us that he is somehow arrested at a 
  level of a child—and we demand that in order to listen to him, to become 
  his willing audience, we would ask him to exercise the self-control, the 
  discretion, the prudence of an adult. Your unwillingness to do this starts 
  to seem as if your *inability* to do this, and this is not normal; not 
  normal, that is, in this culture.
  
  So, even among those of us who find you amusing, even insightful—and often 
  hilarious—there is the recognition that you are always very near to 
  crossing the line. And to repeat: the sense one gets in reading your posts 
  is you don't know what is being asked or demanded of you in order to even 
  legitimize your behaviour*. You pride yourself on your infinite 
  independence and autonomy. But this comes off as not just healthy 
  rebelliousness and nonconformity; it comes off as dangerously and 
  hopelessly indiscreet. So that, no matter what you say about someone, 
  positive or negative, the impression is: this guy is assuming the right and 
  prerogative of epater les bourgeois—shocking and offending—*without really 
  taking any responsibility for doing this*. That is, without experiencing 
  the impact of your actions within yourself.
  
  You are not, then, Ravi, passing through what is necessary within yourself 
  in order to say these 

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[FairfieldLife] Response to Robin

2012-01-10 Thread Rick Archer
Hey guys,

I don't care about others but I have much love and respect for Robin so it 
would be nice if you can post this.

 

Reply to Robin's post and change the subject to say Ravi's response to A 
Fourth and Final Open Letter to Ravi Chivukula

 

Robin, thank you for your excellent analysis. That you are so accurate in your 
analysis is an understatement. But you missed one thing from my FFL posts that 
explains my behavior. I'm actually quite aware of my behavior, it's limitations 
and if you would read my posts carefully it's quite clear that I am a wounded 
lover, my personal self yearns for a woman, for my beloved who I believe will 
help heal my personal wounds and bring the necessary balance to improve my 
behavior and make me a complete well-rounded, balanced person. In the absence 
of that, you are quite right, I'm doomed to be a failure, I understand and 
accept that.

 

Love,

Ravi


Thank you,
Ravi

 



[FairfieldLife] Re: Ravi's response to A Fourth and Final Open Letter to Ravi Chivukula

2012-01-10 Thread obbajeeba
Robin, thank you for your excellent analysis. That you are so accurate in your 
analysis is an understatement. But you missed one thing from my FFL posts that 
explains my behavior. I'm actually quite aware of my behavior, it's limitations 
and if you would read my posts carefully it's quite clear that I am a wounded 
lover, my personal self yearns for a woman, for my beloved who I believe will 
help heal my personal wounds and bring the necessary balance to improve my 
behavior and make me a complete well-rounded, balanced person. In the absence 
of that, you are quite right, I'm doomed to be a failure, I understand and 
accept that.

 

Love,

Ravi

--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, maskedzebra no_reply@... wrote:

 Dear Ravi Chivukula,
 
 Although it will be argued that you were silenced at FFL because of the 
 specific things you said about certain people, the real reason why you have 
 been sanctioned is because, just in general, you do not show any awareness of 
 the subtle norms of Western Civilization discourse and debate and 
 interpersonal interaction. You see, your transgressive mode (RTM) is 
 intrinsic to your whole way of being in your life; it is not something that 
 you construct artificially as a method of ambushing and violating and 
 provoking those people with whom you disagree, or who you feel, according to 
 you, are hypocrites, liars, or ignoramuses. You either refuse to insert this 
 element of self-perspective and self-discipline into your writing, or else 
 you are incapable, presently, of even attuning yourself to the 'good manners' 
 of an adult who conducts 'business' (in this case posting and arguing at FFL) 
 in the world.
 
 It is all very well to say: Well, I was just being honest; I was just calling 
 it as I see it; I was inspired to expose dishonesty, disingenuousness, 
 insincerity, wilful stupidity and so on. But you did this like some genius 
 child, a child who lacks the maturity and reflective objectivity to have any 
 idea whatsoever as to *how you were being perceived at FFL*. There was, then, 
 Ravi, something oblivious, self-centered, impossibly impulsive about your 
 posts. It is one thing to flout convention, but when someone, even inside 
 perhaps a certain spontaneity and inspiration, criticizes, confronts, and 
 excoriates other human beings, the reader (and not just the victim of your 
 unabashed remarks) must sense that you have control over yourself*, you 
 know what you are doing*, *you are aware of how this is playing inside the 
 consciousness of others*.
 
 And this, Ravi, is what I think your most serious fault or limitation or 
 flaw; and I believe in the end it is what brought you down. Even now I doubt 
 you have any sense of shock or trauma or sadness that your posting privileges 
 have been revoked—I assume permanently. For you, it is all part of this 
 unstoppable dance of perfect audacity, this  cosmic transgressive destiny. 
 Fine. Let's say this indeed is your mission, your calling: to go after 
 various persons at FFL, and presumably in the world, who you feel deserve to 
 be exposed and humiliated. But, Ravi, you are executing this inwardly felt 
 compulsion without regard to the most basic graces that underpin and make 
 possible the conventions of dialogue and debate in Western Civilization. 
 Among adult human beings, that is.
 
 It isn't then just your refusal to acknowledge or conform to these implicit 
 standards of discourse between mature human persons; it is your apparent 
 obliviousness that such standards and conventions even exist. This, I 
 believe, is what appalls, shocks, astonishes, and finally outrages people at 
 FFL. This person, Ravi Chivukula, he may in some profound sense be innocent, 
 but his innocence does not hold within itself the requisite maturity, 
 self-knowingness, interpersonal awareness which would in some sense justify 
 what he is saying. Ravi Chivukula is performing in front of us, and sometimes 
 with a certain brilliance and virtuosity, but even at his best, he is still 
 demonstrating to us that he is somehow arrested at a level of a child—and we 
 demand that in order to listen to him, to become his willing audience, we 
 would ask him to exercise the self-control, the discretion, the prudence of 
 an adult. Your unwillingness to do this starts to seem as if your *inability* 
 to do this, and this is not normal; not normal, that is, in this culture.
 
 So, even among those of us who find you amusing, even insightful—and often 
 hilarious—there is the recognition that you are always very near to crossing 
 the line. And to repeat: the sense one gets in reading your posts is you 
 don't know what is being asked or demanded of you in order to even legitimize 
 your behaviour*. You pride yourself on your infinite independence and 
 autonomy. But this comes off as not just healthy rebelliousness and 
 nonconformity; it comes off as dangerously and hopelessly indiscreet. So 
 that, no matter what 

[FairfieldLife] Featuring Jake Baddeley

2012-01-10 Thread Yifu
http://jakebaddeley.com/index_painting.html



Re: [FairfieldLife] Response to Robin

2012-01-10 Thread Vaj

On Jan 10, 2012, at 7:20 PM, Rick Archer wrote:

 Robin, thank you for your excellent analysis. That you are so accurate in 
 your analysis is an understatement. But you missed one thing from my FFL 
 posts that explains my behavior. I'm actually quite aware of my behavior, 
 it's limitations and if you would read my posts carefully it's quite clear 
 that I am a wounded lover, my personal self yearns for a woman, for my 
 beloved who I believe will help heal my personal wounds and bring the 
 necessary balance to improve my behavior and make me a complete well-rounded, 
 balanced person. In the absence of that, you are quite right, I'm doomed to 
 be a failure, I understand and accept that.


Well, you could at least apologize to the people you've hurt using digital 
media. Isn't really the minimum spec on all software engineers, don'tcha think?

Don't be a mega-pimp Ravi.

[FairfieldLife] Re: Ravi's response to A Fourth and Final Open Letter to Ravi Chivukula

2012-01-10 Thread obbajeeba


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, obbajeeba no_reply@... wrote:

 Robin, thank you for your excellent analysis. That you are so accurate in 
 your analysis is an understatement. But you missed one thing from my FFL 
 posts that explains my behavior. I'm actually quite aware of my behavior, 
 it's limitations and if you would read my posts carefully it's quite clear 
 that I am a wounded lover, my personal self yearns for a woman, for my 
 beloved who I believe will help heal my personal wounds and bring the 
 necessary balance to improve my behavior and make me a complete well-rounded, 
 balanced person. In the absence of that, you are quite right, I'm doomed to 
 be a failure, I understand and accept that.
 
  
 
 Love,
 
 Ravi
 

Disclaimer: The above post as posted by obbajeeba as from instructions to, Hey 
guys, (even though I may or may not be one) from  
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/message/301523 by Ravi c/o Rick for 
Maskedzebra.
I have no affiliation with any of these men or usernames, except for the 
occasional post reply. 
Good night. 


 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, maskedzebra no_reply@ wrote:
 
  Dear Ravi Chivukula,
  
  Although it will be argued that you were silenced at FFL because of the 
  specific things you said about certain people, the real reason why you have 
  been sanctioned is because, just in general, you do not show any awareness 
  of the subtle norms of Western Civilization discourse and debate and 
  interpersonal interaction. You see, your transgressive mode (RTM) is 
  intrinsic to your whole way of being in your life; it is not something that 
  you construct artificially as a method of ambushing and violating and 
  provoking those people with whom you disagree, or who you feel, according 
  to you, are hypocrites, liars, or ignoramuses. You either refuse to insert 
  this element of self-perspective and self-discipline into your writing, or 
  else you are incapable, presently, of even attuning yourself to the 'good 
  manners' of an adult who conducts 'business' (in this case posting and 
  arguing at FFL) in the world.
  
  It is all very well to say: Well, I was just being honest; I was just 
  calling it as I see it; I was inspired to expose dishonesty, 
  disingenuousness, insincerity, wilful stupidity and so on. But you did this 
  like some genius child, a child who lacks the maturity and reflective 
  objectivity to have any idea whatsoever as to *how you were being perceived 
  at FFL*. There was, then, Ravi, something oblivious, self-centered, 
  impossibly impulsive about your posts. It is one thing to flout convention, 
  but when someone, even inside perhaps a certain spontaneity and 
  inspiration, criticizes, confronts, and excoriates other human beings, the 
  reader (and not just the victim of your unabashed remarks) must sense that 
  you have control over yourself*, you know what you are doing*, *you are 
  aware of how this is playing inside the consciousness of others*.
  
  And this, Ravi, is what I think your most serious fault or limitation or 
  flaw; and I believe in the end it is what brought you down. Even now I 
  doubt you have any sense of shock or trauma or sadness that your posting 
  privileges have been revoked—I assume permanently. For you, it is all part 
  of this unstoppable dance of perfect audacity, this  cosmic transgressive 
  destiny. Fine. Let's say this indeed is your mission, your calling: to go 
  after various persons at FFL, and presumably in the world, who you feel 
  deserve to be exposed and humiliated. But, Ravi, you are executing this 
  inwardly felt compulsion without regard to the most basic graces that 
  underpin and make possible the conventions of dialogue and debate in 
  Western Civilization. Among adult human beings, that is.
  
  It isn't then just your refusal to acknowledge or conform to these implicit 
  standards of discourse between mature human persons; it is your apparent 
  obliviousness that such standards and conventions even exist. This, I 
  believe, is what appalls, shocks, astonishes, and finally outrages people 
  at FFL. This person, Ravi Chivukula, he may in some profound sense be 
  innocent, but his innocence does not hold within itself the requisite 
  maturity, self-knowingness, interpersonal awareness which would in some 
  sense justify what he is saying. Ravi Chivukula is performing in front of 
  us, and sometimes with a certain brilliance and virtuosity, but even at his 
  best, he is still demonstrating to us that he is somehow arrested at a 
  level of a child—and we demand that in order to listen to him, to become 
  his willing audience, we would ask him to exercise the self-control, the 
  discretion, the prudence of an adult. Your unwillingness to do this starts 
  to seem as if your *inability* to do this, and this is not normal; not 
  normal, that is, in this culture.
  
  So, even among those of us who find you amusing, even 

[FairfieldLife] Re: Internet freedom converning Ravi's posts

2012-01-10 Thread zarzari_786

--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend jstein@... wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, zarzari_786 no_reply@ wrote:
  
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend jstein@ wrote:
  
   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, raunchydog raunchydog@ wrote:
   
Impeccable timeline, Judy. How *do* you do it?
   
   Well, when Yahoo Advanced Search is working, it isn't that
   difficult. Sure couldn't do it just from memory. Does take
   a bit of back and forth, and it does require familiarity
   with the search options.
  
  Well, I do it from memory. I will naturally notice more
  my inclusion in any of his lists then others here, and
  Ravi was also absent (overposting) for more than a week.
  AFAIK he started being degaratory to me only when putting
  my video in the subject line. And that was long, long time
  after Emily had posted her rant.
 
 That's right. But *before* I'd responded to any of your
 attacks on me that you made after your break.

Nope, after. You came back first, and you also responded first.

--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend jstein@ wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, zarzari_786 no_reply@ wrote:
 snip
 In any case, if he had really just been taking cues
 from others, he might well have taken his anti-zarzari
 cue from *Emily's* post.
 
 Oh, but Emily took her cue from me, right?
  
  Well, that's not what I said, you are making it up now.
 
 That's why I said, Right? I was anticipating, 
 sarcastically, that that's what you'd say. 

I get the sarcastic tone, but if I make a sarcastic remark, you demand an 
answer, like in the case when I said  I find it funny you cite me. It is quite 
obvious that I say this because we are at odds, so, if you need me as a giver 
of arguments, and take an argument of mine (that I had explicitly given as a 
background information, with the note that it is not applicaple, then it is 
funny, right? You don't have arguments of your own)

 What
 I was doing in this post was eliminating every
 possibility that Ravi had attacked you because he
 was taking cues from me. The timeline of the
 posts just doesn't support that notion.

That's not how I remember it and you haven't shown.

 Ooops, no, wait. My first response to your exchange
 with Barry was very mild, hardly denunciatory.
  
  Correct. 
  
 It
 wasn't until Robin took after you big-time that I used
 the term slimy to refer to your post to Barry. And
 by that time Emily had already given the two of you a
 very thorough tongue-lashing, completely of her own
 accord.
  
  At the time I had to take an announced break, but the basis
  of this was your very unfortunate snipping of my original
  post, you know the one, where you started to lash out after
  my two word 'of course' with the rest of the quote being
  Barry's, and being entirely out of context, and also being
  misinterpreted by you and consequently by Emily, and which
  resulted into a series of mis-attributions of quotes by
  Barry.
 
 Emily didn't misinterpret, 

She did, as I did not even mention NPD.

 and that's not why Robin
 misattributed the quotes. 

No, that was because of the way you had snipped the posts. You are the first 
one to complain if people snip stuff away from your posts, right, you do it all 
the time. Therefore it was hard for me to believe what I saw. I claim that the 
snipping was deliberate and mean.

 Plus which, you just agreed
 that that post of mine was very mild. If it was
 lashing out, it was very restrained in that regard.

It wasn't directly aggressive yet. But the snipping was not justified, it was 
misleading, and you justify it as something irrelevant, which is again total 
rubbish.

 You misunderstood the basis for my response to your
 Of course. I tried to explain it to you when you
 emailed me privately to object, but you didn't get it.

It's not that I didn't get it. You email was from the start aggressive, which 
surprised me. You admitted being very angry (which you don't do here on board) 
It's not that I 'didn't get' it, it is just that we disagree about its 
validity. The whole mis-attribution started because of it, you just were 
winding with extremely sophistic arguments, that were no explanations at all.

It should be self evident, that in any dialoque the correct quoting matters. So 
if people get to thing that I said something that I didn't say this way, than 
this is obviously wrong, dishonest if you want. Your only arguments, which are 
extremely sophistic were, that what I had said before would amount to the same, 
but that is already your judgment which you mistake for evidence.

I couldn't believe you make such insidious argumentation. When people 
attributed wrong quotes to me, addressed ME about it and started to judge ME 
about it, you thought you could get away with it by claiming that their 
arguments where only about the subject, and would therefore relate in this 

[FairfieldLife] King and Fool

2012-01-10 Thread Yifu
by Jake Baddeley
http://www.jakebaddeley.com/paintings/2007/2007_09_king_fool.html



[FairfieldLife] Re: A Fourth and Final Open Letter to Ravi Chivukula

2012-01-10 Thread emptybill
But did Jesus (and Him crucified) go right into you?

Which was it ... the blood-stained  body or the resurrected
re-appearance?
Are you cheating your way into heaven or paying lash by lash?


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, maskedzebra no_reply@... wrote:

 Thank you for this, feste37. Your comment here went right into me.

 Robin

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, feste37 feste37@ wrote:
 
 
 
  Superb stuff, MZ. Beautifully written.
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, maskedzebra no_reply@ wrote:
  
   Dear Ravi Chivukula,
  
   Although it will be argued that you were silenced at FFL because
of the specific things you said about certain people, the real reason
why you have been sanctioned is because, just in general, you do not
show any awareness of the subtle norms of Western Civilization discourse
and debate and interpersonal interaction. You see, your transgressive
mode (RTM) is intrinsic to your whole way of being in your life; it is
not something that you construct artificially as a method of ambushing
and violating and provoking those people with whom you disagree, or who
you feel, according to you, are hypocrites, liars, or ignoramuses. You
either refuse to insert this element of self-perspective and
self-discipline into your writing, or else you are incapable, presently,
of even attuning yourself to the 'good manners' of an adult who conducts
'business' (in this case posting and arguing at FFL) in the world.
  
   It is all very well to say: Well, I was just being honest; I was
just calling it as I see it; I was inspired to expose dishonesty,
disingenuousness, insincerity, wilful stupidity and so on. But you did
this like some genius child, a child who lacks the maturity and
reflective objectivity to have any idea whatsoever as to *how you were
being perceived at FFL*. There was, then, Ravi, something oblivious,
self-centered, impossibly impulsive about your posts. It is one thing to
flout convention, but when someone, even inside perhaps a certain
spontaneity and inspiration, criticizes, confronts, and excoriates other
human beings, the reader (and not just the victim of your unabashed
remarks) must sense that you have control over yourself*, you know
what you are doing*, *you are aware of how this is playing inside the
consciousness of others*.
  
   And this, Ravi, is what I think your most serious fault or
limitation or flaw; and I believe in the end it is what brought you
down. Even now I doubt you have any sense of shock or trauma or sadness
that your posting privileges have been revoked—I assume permanently.
For you, it is all part of this unstoppable dance of perfect audacity,
this  cosmic transgressive destiny. Fine. Let's say this indeed is your
mission, your calling: to go after various persons at FFL, and
presumably in the world, who you feel deserve to be exposed and
humiliated. But, Ravi, you are executing this inwardly felt compulsion
without regard to the most basic graces that underpin and make possible
the conventions of dialogue and debate in Western Civilization. Among
adult human beings, that is.
  
   It isn't then just your refusal to acknowledge or conform to these
implicit standards of discourse between mature human persons; it is your
apparent obliviousness that such standards and conventions even exist.
This, I believe, is what appalls, shocks, astonishes, and finally
outrages people at FFL. This person, Ravi Chivukula, he may in some
profound sense be innocent, but his innocence does not hold within
itself the requisite maturity, self-knowingness, interpersonal awareness
which would in some sense justify what he is saying. Ravi Chivukula is
performing in front of us, and sometimes with a certain brilliance and
virtuosity, but even at his best, he is still demonstrating to us that
he is somehow arrested at a level of a child—and we demand that in
order to listen to him, to become his willing audience, we would ask him
to exercise the self-control, the discretion, the prudence of an adult.
Your unwillingness to do this starts to seem as if your *inability* to
do this, and this is not normal; not normal, that is, in this culture.
  
   So, even among those of us who find you amusing, even
insightful—and often hilarious—there is the recognition that you
are always very near to crossing the line. And to repeat: the sense one
gets in reading your posts is you don't know what is being asked or
demanded of you in order to even legitimize your behaviour*. You pride
yourself on your infinite independence and autonomy. But this comes off
as not just healthy rebelliousness and nonconformity; it comes off as
dangerously and hopelessly indiscreet. So that, no matter what you say
about someone, positive or negative, the impression is: this guy is
assuming the right and prerogative of epater les bourgeois—shocking
and offending—*without really taking any responsibility for doing
this*. That is, without experiencing the impact of your actions within
yourself.
  
   

[FairfieldLife] Re: Review: The Girls With The Dragon Tattoos

2012-01-10 Thread David
Noomi was excellent as Salander. Very memorable. In the Sherlock film
she was much the same so I wonder if she was simply well cast as Salander and 
can only play herself. A lot of actors are like this they act as themselves and 
if that suits the film wonderful. eg John Malkovich seems always the same to 
me. Woody Allen, Larry David etc




[FairfieldLife] Re: Anyone tried this?

2012-01-10 Thread richardatrwilliamsdotus


Here is an exercise that enables one to keep
warm in cold weather...
   
  Vaj:
   Lobsang Rampa was a phony fiction writer. These
   are not instructions for heat yoga (caNDAlI-yoga).
  
  Candali (kundalini) is a Sanskrit translation of a
  Tibetan word - Tummo.
 
 Actually gtum mo is a Tibetan translation of the 
 Sanskrit.
 
Tummo is a Tibetan word.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Tummo

  But, in fact, 'Heat Yoga' was popularized by Bikram
  Choudhury. Bikram Yoga's goal is to obtain general
  health through hatha yoga poses and pranyama.
 
 Different type of heat yoga Willy.

Hatha Yoga with 'pranyama' is heat yoga. All the 
tantric hatha yogis practiced a form of pranyama and 
meditation. That's what Hatha Yoga is - producing the
inner heat in order to burn off the accumulated karma. 

  Bikram Choudhury believes that the heated studio
  helps with deeper stretching, while reducing stress
  and tension. You can find the detailed instructions
  in Bikram's 'Pranayama Series' of Hatha Yoga poses,
  which are very similar to the instructions of T.
  Lobsang Rampa! Go figure.
 
  However, the practice of Tibetan 'Tummo', is the
  yoga of generating 'inner' heat. This practice has
  been described in detail by W.Y. Evans-Wentz in his
  book 'Tibetan Yoga and Secret Doctrines'.
 
  Tummo is a siddha meditation technique, similar to
  the practice of TM.
 
 Were you ever instructed in TM? 

Yes, I was taught how to meditate by the Maharishi 
himself.

 I've been instructed in both TM and chandali-yoga 
 and they're actually nothing alike.

It has not beem established that you know TM or any 
other yoga practice. Who was your guru?

In fact, TM is Kundalini Yoga. 

The pranyama exercises and meditation leading up to 
'tummo' or the generating of the inner heat, are 
described by Evans-Wentz in his book 'Tibet's Great 
Yogi Milarepa'. 

Other western witnesses of this practice include the 
adventurer Alexandra David-Néel and Lama Anagarika 
Govinda, whom I cited in a previous post.

Several scientific studies have been conducted that 
show the physiological effects of Tummo and it has 
been shown that this practice is very similar to TM 
practice - rounding with hatha yoga and deep 
meditation utilizing bija mantras.

Read more:

'The Six Yogas of Naropa'
Tsongkhapa's Commentary 
By Glenn H. Mullin (Translator) 
Snow Lion, 2005

Work cited:

'Body temperature changes during the practice of 
g Tum-mo yoga'
By Herbert Benson and Jeffrey Hopkins et al.
Nature Magazine, January 21, 1982. Nature 295. 
Pages 234 - 236.



Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Review: The Girls With The Dragon Tattoos

2012-01-10 Thread Bhairitu
On 01/10/2012 06:03 PM, David wrote:
 Noomi was excellent as Salander. Very memorable. In the Sherlock film
 she was much the same so I wonder if she was simply well cast as Salander and 
 can only play herself. A lot of actors are like this they act as themselves 
 and if that suits the film wonderful. eg John Malkovich seems always the same 
 to me. Woody Allen, Larry David etc

I often watch movies with the commentary track and actors are mentioned 
who really just play themselves.  Jack Nicholson is another such actor.  
Nice shtick but the real skill of acting is being able to play a number 
of different characters.  One particular actress who does this well is 
Robin Weigert who played Calamity Jane in Deadwood and pops up as 
different characters in a number of films and TV and is not always 
recognizable.

Another thing is that Harvard did a study a few years ago that said that 
Hollywood is wasting money on paying big fees for name actors.  It fell 
on deaf ears of course but then the top grossing film this past weekend 
Devil Inside was made for less than $1 million, has no recognizable 
names and yet made over $34 million last weekend.   A lot of stage 
actors look down on film acting and some film actors like to do summer 
stock etc to keep real acting chops up.  Friends who were in an episode 
of the original Star Trek talked about how easy TV acting is or was 
back in the day because most of the time it was just tight head shots 
and the actor only needed to speak lines.  This has changed a bit since 
HDTV where tight head shots can look cheap.



[FairfieldLife] Re: Internet freedom converning Ravi's posts

2012-01-10 Thread seventhray1


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, obbajeeba no_reply@... wrote:
 Shooting the messenger is what happened to him. Maybe some words are 
considered foul, but why not make a rule against using some words?

Really, I am sorry to see him go. For me, all I asked was that he refrain from 
slander.  And I think he got the point.  But the place is nothing without 
insults.  And short of slander why not get challenged to the core?  He was good 
at that.  Not that his challenges were particularly challenging.  Mostly a lot 
of name calling, which alienated many here, except those who were on his 
approved list, which itself was subject to revision by the moment.  And figure 
in that he was only good for 50 posts and likely would go over that number with 
a little provocation, I don't see where it was necessary to boot him.  

And figure in that he needed us (which of course he would not admit), even 
though we paid somewhat a price for that, I sort of felt it was worth it.


Right now, all we have is what is up to the administrator and if any members 
get their balls in a knot, then any rule could out anyone of us. It makes me 
afraid to post.  All he was doing was pointing that out. He did not know a 
person's name using the secret anonymous username and called them out on it to 
harm them, he found it just like anyone can do on a search. 
 Now if Ravi had purposely decided to ask people off of the board, what is his 
 name, then I could see a breach in trust on FFL. 
 It would have been best if the rules of the board, said  no real names used, 
 associated with anonymous handles, but I read people calling people all the 
 time by their real name as the anonymous handle becomes wayside, regularly.  
 This is something many have forgotten in the past 10 years on the Internet. 
 He was definitely pushing buttons to make a point. Does one see Bob Price 
 here or the Zebra man? I do not think they were afraid of Ravi. Some of the 
 best writers, gone. I am not afraid of Ravi and I don't even know him. I 
 would trust him with my kids, regardless of all the uproar trying to make him 
 appear mentally ill on a message board.  
 If the excitement is removed from FFL, I guess it will still be a good place 
 to plug in to find past friends and chat with them about their experiences 
 with dealing with life and what comes afterward. 
 
 Welcome back!  
 
 
 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, zarzari_786 no_reply@ wrote:
 
  
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, obbajeeba no_reply@ wrote:
  
   Hey, Emily, Judy, Raunchy,
   It appears all the dudes have gone away this evening. hahaha
   Look, no post from dudes. See? Check the time and lets count. 
   We rule!  We own them!  God loves us!
   Yay for Venus transiting Aquarius!  Yay!  
   We won!  
   Let's meet for tea sometime soon, okay?
   Oh, yeah, Susan too. 
  
  
  Funny Obba! But maybe in all this, you should consider, that we didn't 
  leave because we are cowards (oh the aggressiveness of it!), but because 
  some of us simply live in different time zones. IOW, when Judy is just 
  about to warm up, it's already past midnight here!
  
  Also Obba, I found your words last week very encouraging, but 10 min per 
  day don't work for me, unfortunately I am a slow typer, and foreigner at 
  that, so some of the more juicy words (usually signifying emotion, or 
  moralistic POV's) I have to look up.
  
  And regarding some of the people here, it's not enough to just post in a 
  straight forward way, you have to study a whole metaphysical system to even 
  be able to converse with them! (and that's not a put down!)
  
   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, obbajeeba no_reply@ wrote:
   
Great rules!  Maybe if these go across the board, everything will be 
alright!  
I once had the pissing submarines! You put them in the toilet and sink 
them. 
Potty target. Good link.
Could work. 
For some reason, I think we need some adult diapers here too. Ultra 
protection. 
Us women stay out of it ; ) http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MIaORknS1Dk

--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, raunchydog raunchydog@ wrote:

 Obbajeeba, you're quite right. Indiscriminate pissing on FFLife needs 
 to be more accurate. Let's give the dudes something to aim for. How 
 about a pissing contest?
 
 Pissing contest rules: 
 1. Dudes only.
 2. Submit qualifying scores: time, distance, marksmanship.
 3. Unacceptable targets: women and children. 
 4. Acceptable targets: trees, fire hydrants and each other.
 
 Training equipment:
 http://pottytarget.com/products/
 
 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, obbajeeba no_reply@ wrote:
 
  She is awesome even if she does not like Ron Paul. ; )
  That does not stop me from seeing her value and reason and respect.
   : )
  Raunchy too. : )
  Not like some dudes on this forum who piss the spot with complete 
  teeth 

[FairfieldLife] Re: Internet freedom converning Ravi's posts

2012-01-10 Thread seventhray1


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Rick Archer rick@... wrote:
 I guess you all realize by now that Ravi has been unsubscribed. I
don't have
 the time to follow these antics, but several people whom I respect
emailed
 me, unbeknownst to each other, and expressed their concern not only
for his
 violation of FFL guidelines, but for his sanity.

  So we nuked him.

So do we now all pat ourselves on the back?  Not a very compassionate
phrase- we nuked him.  I admit, I don't mind not coming under his
constant attacks, but short of continued slander, I can't really see a
grounds for booting someone off.



[FairfieldLife] Re: Internet freedom converning Ravi's posts

2012-01-10 Thread raunchydog


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, seventhray1 steve.sundur@... wrote:

 
 
 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, obbajeeba no_reply@ wrote:
  Shooting the messenger is what happened to him. Maybe some words are 
 considered foul, but why not make a rule against using some words?
 
 Really, I am sorry to see him go. For me, all I asked was that he refrain 
 from slander.  And I think he got the point.  But the place is nothing 
 without insults.  And short of slander why not get challenged to the core?  
 He was good at that.  Not that his challenges were particularly challenging.  
 Mostly a lot of name calling, which alienated many here, except those who 
 were on his approved list, which itself was subject to revision by the 
 moment.  And figure in that he was only good for 50 posts and likely would go 
 over that number with a little provocation, I don't see where it was 
 necessary to boot him.  
 
 And figure in that he needed us (which of course he would not admit), even 
 though we paid somewhat a price for that, I sort of felt it was worth it.
 
 
 Right now, all we have is what is up to the administrator and if any members 
 get their balls in a knot, then any rule could out anyone of us. It makes me 
 afraid to post.  All he was doing was pointing that out. He did not know a 
 person's name using the secret anonymous username and called them out on it 
 to harm them, he found it just like anyone can do on a search.

Steve, no matter what Rick does he isn't going to please everyone. It's 
probably why he stays out of our business as much as possible. I recall that 
you advocated for a timeout for Ravi's foul over the top rant at me. By the 
way, thanks for standing up for me. IMO you got more flack for that than you 
deserved, so thank you. 

At the time I thought only porn could get you the boot so I said Ravi shouldn't 
be censored. I figured he would still launch rants from time to time, so I 
decided I'd just stay out of his way. I'm sorry that Rick nuked him. At this 
juncture, I think a timeout, as you previously suggested, would have been a 
more appropriate action. 

After Ravi launched a full bore rant at me for jerking his chain, Bob jump on 
me for stuff I said to Robin about Ravi, then I had to deal with feelings of 
confusion and betrayal about whether Ravi's melt down was a fake, then a bunch 
of apologies and recriminations ensued. I gotta say, I have never felt so 
emotionally drained on FFLife. 

It makes me afraid to post is a bit hyperbolic. We have plenty of button 
pushers who could use a time out, but you aren't one of them. Ravi was in a 
class by himself. I believe he took Robin's beautiful post to heart. Maybe he 
could have learned something from his mistakes if Rick had had a three strikes 
[timeouts] and you're out policy, perhaps a warning prohibiting gratuitous 
abuse. Now we'll never know. I'll miss the motherfucker.
 
  Now if Ravi had purposely decided to ask people off of the board, what is 
  his name, then I could see a breach in trust on FFL. 
  It would have been best if the rules of the board, said  no real names 
  used, associated with anonymous handles, but I read people calling people 
  all the time by their real name as the anonymous handle becomes wayside, 
  regularly.  This is something many have forgotten in the past 10 years on 
  the Internet. He was definitely pushing buttons to make a point. Does one 
  see Bob Price here or the Zebra man? I do not think they were afraid of 
  Ravi. Some of the best writers, gone. I am not afraid of Ravi and I don't 
  even know him. I would trust him with my kids, regardless of all the uproar 
  trying to make him appear mentally ill on a message board.  
  If the excitement is removed from FFL, I guess it will still be a good 
  place to plug in to find past friends and chat with them about their 
  experiences with dealing with life and what comes afterward. 
  
  Welcome back!  
  
  
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, zarzari_786 no_reply@ wrote:
  
   
   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, obbajeeba no_reply@ wrote:
   
Hey, Emily, Judy, Raunchy,
It appears all the dudes have gone away this evening. hahaha
Look, no post from dudes. See? Check the time and lets count. 
We rule!  We own them!  God loves us!
Yay for Venus transiting Aquarius!  Yay!  
We won!  
Let's meet for tea sometime soon, okay?
Oh, yeah, Susan too. 
   
   
   Funny Obba! But maybe in all this, you should consider, that we didn't 
   leave because we are cowards (oh the aggressiveness of it!), but because 
   some of us simply live in different time zones. IOW, when Judy is just 
   about to warm up, it's already past midnight here!
   
   Also Obba, I found your words last week very encouraging, but 10 min per 
   day don't work for me, unfortunately I am a slow typer, and foreigner at 
   that, so some of the more juicy words (usually signifying emotion, or 
   moralistic POV's) I have 

[FairfieldLife] Re: Review: The Girls With The Dragon Tattoos

2012-01-10 Thread turquoiseb
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, David fiskedavid@... wrote:

 Noomi was excellent as Salander. Very memorable. In the Sherlock film
 she was much the same so I wonder if she was simply well cast as 
 Salander and can only play herself. A lot of actors are like this 
 they act as themselves and if that suits the film wonderful. eg 
 John Malkovich seems always the same to me. Woody Allen, Larry 
 David etc

Noomi Rapace was wasted in the Sherlock Holmes film,
but I assumed that the reason for this is that Guy
Ritchie is an idiot. You don't cast a talented 
actress for her cheekbones and then make use of
her as if cheekbones are all she's got to give. :-)

It's possible she won't turn out to be as versatile
an actress as some hoped, but I wouldn't judge based
on how she was utilized by Guy Ritchie. He has problems
getting decent performances from people like Jude Law
and Robert Downey Jr., much less her.





[FairfieldLife] Re: Anyone tried this?

2012-01-10 Thread cardemaister


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Vaj vajradhatu@... wrote:

 mahaa-snepa
 
 Lobsang Rampa was a phony fiction writer. These are not instructions  
 for heat yoga (caNDAlI-yoga).


That word 'caNDAlI' (caNDaalii; ~~chun-duh-lee) is interesting.

Its root seems to be 'caNDa', which according to Monier-Williams
*probably* comes from 'candra' (shining, bright, lovely; moon; so, a bit 
playfully, it can be thought of as having a connection with 'soma' which also 
means, amongst other stuff, 'moon'[sic!]). According to Macdonell, 'caNDa' 
means for instance 'burning, violent'.

According to M-W, caNDaala is 'man of the lowest stratum of society',
and furthermore, offspring of a shuudra man and a braahman woman.

The form 'caNDaalii' is a feminine gender form (nom. sing.) of the word 
'caNDaala', meaning 'a caNDaala woman'.

In the context of yoga, 'caNDaalii' fairly probably refers to heat,
but that meaning we couldn't find in any of the dictionaries
online...

PS. Let's let the fancy flow: so, in Sanskrit 'candra' means
'lovely' and 'moon', etc;  'soma' means 'moon', etc; in Finnish
'soma' means 'cute, lovely'. The only difference between
Finnish 'soma' and Sanskrit 'soma' is that in the latter
the o-sound is long: ~ saw-muh, because in Sanskrit, the o-sound
represents the former diphthong 'au' (~ as in 'how'; cf. om, aum).
LoL!