[FairfieldLife] Re: Witnessing, was: Steve Martin of Wilmington

2008-02-27 Thread Larry
Let's take the question: Who are you and what do you really do?  The
domain in which the question is asked, is the same domain in which it
is answered.   That domain does not go away, it is not diminished,
that domain does not become dishonest.

Only in the context of an ever-expanding self does that domain shrink
- in WS, that domain is all we've got, in CC that domain appears as
though it's painted on (something?), in BC that domain exists only in
the boundaries, it allows one to distinguish this from that, to point
out Tom, Dick and Harry.

Again, let's take the question: Who are you and what do you really
do? Intellectually we know that the answer lies tenuously in our
memory, what we've experienced, what we've been told and how we've
been programmed to think, and, etc.   I was born here, grew up here,
went to this school, met this person, had some kids, moved here . . .
and so on  In WS our identity is bound this narrative and
instinctively we know how shaky this narrative is and so we spend a
disproportionate amount of time propping it up, we embellish it, feed
it and rehash it, rehash it, rehash it over and over because if we
lose it, it's back to square one.

In CC, if we lose our memory, we also lose that narrative - but we
don't lose our identity, our Self - - - and so, if the prospect of
losing that narrative leaves a wicked transcendental smile on your
face - that's CC 



Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Witnessing, was: Steve Martin of Wilmington

2008-02-26 Thread Angela Mailander
Sandi Ego wrote (snipped):

witnessing is nothing more 
than the first glimpses of ceding the individual ego
to the cosmic 
ego. after awhile the cosmic ego predominates and the
individual ego 
disappears. just as you said, it is all a matter of
integration. The 
companion of silence which initially seems foreign is
later found to 
be true identity. 

Me (truncated):  That is my experience exactly, Sandy.
 And it also seems to me to be the case that language
becomes somewhat of an a priori lie at that point. 
When I am truly my Self, language that was habitual
when I was self is not adequate at all.  On the other
hand, if I write as Self dictates, the results are
often strange.  

And when I first began witnessing deep sleep, I hated
it big time because I was witness to a tired and badly
managed physiology in all it's debilitated glory that
I still identified with to a degree to great for
comfort.  

However, the individual ego doesn't exactly disappear.
 It's there as a tool or a mouthpiece when needed.  a

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[FairfieldLife] Re: Witnessing, was: Steve Martin of Wilmington

2008-02-26 Thread sparaig
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, ruthsimplicity [EMAIL PROTECTED] 
wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, sparaig LEnglish5@ wrote:
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, TurquoiseB no_reply@ wrote:
  
   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Rick Archer rick@ wrote:
   
Witnessing is not a dissassociative state in which different 
aspects of the personality are fragmented from one another. 
It's a natural experience that arises when the silent aspect 
of life is open to awareness along with the active aspects. 
   
   While I'd like to make that same assumption, I find
   that if I'm honest with myself, I cannot. It may feel
   that way at the time, but the bottom line is that 
   witnessing is Just Another Subjective Experience. We
   have all been carefully taught how to interpret those
   subjective experience, in the TMO and/or in other
   spiritual traditions. But there is no surety that 
   their interpretation is the correct one IMO.
   
  
  There's a distinct patter of EEG for witnessing ala TM. Its
 associated with non-sensory-
  related brain activity --an idling state, as it were. By
 non-sensory I mean activity that 
  isn't driven/influenced by input from the thalamus. Its just ongoing
 optimization activity, 
  or so I suspect since any time neurons are alive, they're attempting
 to optimize their 
  connections with their neighbors--thats why isolated neurons in
 petri dishes look like 
  amoebae: they're desperately seeking input to optimize. At the most
 fundamental level, 
  thats all neurons EVER do (besides eat and excrete) but the
 independent optimization 
  process gets overwhelmed at times by reactions to inputs from
 sensory centers.
  
  
  Lawson
 
   How distinct is this really?  
 
   Arguably, spending too much time in alpha leads to the brain
 desperately seeking imput.  So, get up, get going, and do something.


Ruth. Look at that EEG pattern of Alpha activity on my website. Notice the 
lines that have 
been drawn vertically across all leads. Find any other EEG trace anywhere in 
the world 
where you can do that, please. Is that distinct enough for you?

Lawson



[FairfieldLife] Re: Witnessing, was: Steve Martin of Wilmington

2008-02-26 Thread curtisdeltablues
snip

Answer to Rick's post:

Me:  I think your example illustrates that
 the usefulness of these states is context dependent. In a situation
 like you mentioned, a detached silence is a real asset. But I
believe  that this state is not useful for making love. 
 

Rick:  Our difference is that you regard these states as relative
perspectives,  whereas I regard them as openings to universal
realities. That makes sense,  since you doubt the existence of
subtler realities.

Me:  I had to give this some thought.  Although I am not sure about
the terms universal, or subtler realties, I do recognize the
limits of our senses and cognitive abilities to appreciate the full
range of possible reality. We are guaranteed to be only catching a
slice of life. Both objective reality and the capabilities of our
minds are filled with mystery and untapped potential.

What I am skeptical about is that ancient cultures have already
figured all this out given their religious biases.  I believe we need
to add the insights from the ancient texts into the pot of modern
thought and not take any of them as automatically authoritative.  It
is a given for me that ancient cultures were as full of nonsense as
wisdom and that we might be in a better position to sort the two out
today.  

Rick:  You also imply in your
 last sentence above that higher states make one emotionally numb.
I think  there is evidence for that in the TMO, but there is also
evidence throughout  the larger spiritual community that greater
emotional richness accompanies  development of consciousness. I don't
know much about tantra, but I gather  that tantrics regard the
ability to maintain inner silence as a great aid to  love making.

Me: I believe that any sex involves altered states and great sex is
full of trance enhancement.  But I believe that too much buzz of any
kind becomes an end in itself rather than an enhancement to the
communication of sex and full engagement with it emotionally and
physically.  I am completely against (for me) any tradition that is
anti male orgasm. (approaching the ick zone, moving on...)

 
snip

Me:Where I differ with traditional yogic
 theory is that they seem to feel that you can't have too much silence
 along with activity. I think you can depending on what you are doing.
 

Rick:
 I agree with you, but I think that too much would only be a
temporary state, due to inadequate integration. Also, the people I
know who seem to be speaking from experience say that the whole
witnessing/silence thing is a stage, and that silence is eventually
perceived to be full of dynamism. I'm a little out of my league
discussing this,

Me:  I believe that your experiences are on a par with any of the
people claiming full awakening.  The difference I suspect is that some
people have a more imaginative and flamboyant and frankly less
rigorously honest self perception.  They feel comfortable describing
themselves in ways that you do not.  But by now, I seriously doubt
they are experiencing anything you are not also.  With the exception
of those people whose mental make up is inherently unstable and prone
to wild states of departures from reality.  We both know some people
who are just out there, for real for real. Since so far I have not
seen anyone do anything that indicates they have magical abilities it
all comes down to self reported reality and self perception.  And even
on courses I never felt like the people with the best experiences
were the most stable people.

Rick:  but the point I'm trying to make
 is that there may be some undesirable aspects to certain stages in
the development of consciousness, but these stages are transitional,
and as one moves on, the undesirable aspects drop off and one is
grateful to have persisted in the journey.

Me: Here we would have to have a lot of faith in cultures that
produced this system of belief.  I don't see anything in the records
of how their societies ran that make me believe they were that
special.  In fact they seem somewhat barbaric in specific ways that
our present culture has attempted to balance. 

I am a fan of enhanced states of consciousness.  I have a healthy
respect for meditation techniques to accomplish them.  I just think we
need to take a collective deep breath about all the assumptions that
have come along with the religious value laden spiritual traditions. 
We have learned some stuff about how our mind's work since ancient
times and I would like to see the knowledge fields less insulated from
each other.  Until we know more about the possible states of mind that
we can experience, it seem premature to have the kind of confidence I
see in many spiritual traditions about the content generated by those
experiences.  

I believe that we are both approaching a level of honesty and
integrity about what we can be confident with concerning our world
view as best we can.  That's why I'm here brother.


 
 
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RE: [FairfieldLife] Re: Witnessing, was: Steve Martin of Wilmington

2008-02-26 Thread Rick Archer
 

From: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]
On Behalf Of curtisdeltablues
Sent: Tuesday, February 26, 2008 8:17 PM
To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com
Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: Witnessing, was: Steve Martin of Wilmington

 

snip

Answer to Rick's post:

Me:  I think your example illustrates that
 the usefulness of these states is context dependent. In a situation
 like you mentioned, a detached silence is a real asset. But I
believe  that this state is not useful for making love. 
 

Rick:  Our difference is that you regard these states as relative
perspectives,  whereas I regard them as openings to universal
realities. That makes sense,  since you doubt the existence of
subtler realities.

Me: I had to give this some thought. Although I am not sure about
the terms universal, or subtler realties, I do recognize the
limits of our senses and cognitive abilities to appreciate the full
range of possible reality. We are guaranteed to be only catching a
slice of life. Both objective reality and the capabilities of our
minds are filled with mystery and untapped potential.

What I am skeptical about is that ancient cultures have already
figured all this out given their religious biases. I believe we need
to add the insights from the ancient texts into the pot of modern
thought and not take any of them as automatically authoritative. It
is a given for me that ancient cultures were as full of nonsense as
wisdom and that we might be in a better position to sort the two out
today. 

I agree with most everything you wrote. And the above paragraph encapsulates
it. Andrew Cohen talks a lot about breaking fresh ground – respecting the
ancient cultures but not regarding them as utopias to which we must return…
taking the best they have to offer and blending it with modern
understandings. Sorry I can’t come up with an adequate response just now.
I’m getting sleepy and have been up since before 5 this morning. Gotta turn
it.


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[FairfieldLife] Re: Witnessing, was: Steve Martin of Wilmington

2008-02-25 Thread TurquoiseB
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Rick Archer [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 Witnessing is not a dissassociative state in which different 
 aspects of the personality are fragmented from one another. 
 It's a natural experience that arises when the silent aspect 
 of life is open to awareness along with the active aspects. 

While I'd like to make that same assumption, I find
that if I'm honest with myself, I cannot. It may feel
that way at the time, but the bottom line is that 
witnessing is Just Another Subjective Experience. We
have all been carefully taught how to interpret those
subjective experience, in the TMO and/or in other
spiritual traditions. But there is no surety that 
their interpretation is the correct one IMO.

Thus I will continue to value the witnessing experiences
I have had and favor the non-dissociative interpretation
of them, but I don't completely rule out the alternative.

 It doesn't diminish ones functionality, but enhances it. 

Tell that to the people in Fiuggi who had to be placed
under a special watch when they started witnessing 
24/7. They tended to embarrass themselves and the TMO 
in public, and we all know that isn't allowed.

Again, while I will admit that what you say above seems
to be true for the vast majority of people who exper-
ience witnessing as a result of meditative practices,
I have encountered enough exceptions to know that it
isn't a hard-and-fast rule.

I'm just finding myself more like Curtis these days,
open to *many* different interpretations of experiences
that I once saw only one interpretation of -- the one
I had been taught to consider the only interpretation.





[FairfieldLife] Re: Witnessing, was: Steve Martin of Wilmington

2008-02-25 Thread curtisdeltablues
 It was as though I were in deep meditation throughout the whole dynamic,
 noisy experience. Not withdrawn or passive in the least – just
 imperturbable. 


I'm glad you weighed in Rick.  I think your example illustrates that
the usefulness of these states is context dependent.  In a situation
like you mentioned, a detached silence is a real asset.  But I believe
that this state is not useful for making love.  Neuro-linquistic
programming (NLP) looks at these different states in relationship to
the usefulness in a specific context.  Their goal is to be able to
shift fluidly between the options.  I think they are related to the
states produced by meditation.  Where I differ with traditional yogic
theory is that they seem to feel that you can't have too much silence
along with activity.  I think you can depending on what you are doing.



--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Rick Archer [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 From: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com
[mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]
 On Behalf Of lurkernomore20002000
 Sent: Sunday, February 24, 2008 11:38 PM
 To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com
 Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: Steve Martin of Wilmington
 
  
 
 On Feb 24, 2008, at 6:30 PM, curtisdeltablues wrote:
  
 This is where I disagree with Maharishi's traditional interpretation
 of the value of this experience. I think he takes these useful states
 too far. For example witnessing sleep in a nap seems very restful and
 efficient. Witnessing sleep at night doesn't seem as restful.
 Witnessing in activity is not my preferred state to interact with the
 world. It isn't even my preferred style of functioning with my own
 mind and emotions. This is a fundamental difference of opinion I have
 with Maharishi concerning its value for a person's life. It comes at
 a cost. You kind of have to buy into his whole perspective on life to
 think of it as a step of higher consciousness, which is a step I am
 not taking.
 
 Witnessing is not a dissassociative state in which different aspects
of the
 personality are fragmented from one another. It's a natural
experience that
 arises when the silent aspect of life is open to awareness along
with the
 active aspects. It doesn't diminish ones functionality, but enhances
it. For
 instance, recently I had to break up a serious dog fight. I was
walking an
 unneutered chow/husky mix off a leash and he ran ahead and began
sniffing
 around an unneutered, leashed German Shepherd. Soon they were
fighting. I
 had to run 50 yards, then reach in and grab the chow with teeth flashing
 everywhere, blood flowing, and the Shepherd's owner swearing at the
top of
 his lungs. The same silence that always underlies my activities was even
 more evident, by contrast, and enabled me to react swiftly and
decisively
 and keep my head while the other dog owner (and my wife) were losing
theirs.
 It was as though I were in deep meditation throughout the whole dynamic,
 noisy experience. Not withdrawn or passive in the least – just
 imperturbable. 
 
 
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[FairfieldLife] Re: Witnessing, was: Steve Martin of Wilmington

2008-02-25 Thread sparaig
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, TurquoiseB [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Rick Archer rick@ wrote:
 
  Witnessing is not a dissassociative state in which different 
  aspects of the personality are fragmented from one another. 
  It's a natural experience that arises when the silent aspect 
  of life is open to awareness along with the active aspects. 
 
 While I'd like to make that same assumption, I find
 that if I'm honest with myself, I cannot. It may feel
 that way at the time, but the bottom line is that 
 witnessing is Just Another Subjective Experience. We
 have all been carefully taught how to interpret those
 subjective experience, in the TMO and/or in other
 spiritual traditions. But there is no surety that 
 their interpretation is the correct one IMO.
 

There's a distinct patter of EEG for witnessing ala TM. Its associated with 
non-sensory-
related brain activity --an idling state, as it were. By non-sensory I mean 
activity that 
isn't driven/influenced by input from the thalamus. Its just ongoing 
optimization activity, 
or so I suspect since any time neurons are alive, they're attempting to 
optimize their 
connections with their neighbors--thats why isolated neurons in petri dishes 
look like 
amoebae: they're desperately seeking input to optimize. At the most fundamental 
level, 
thats all neurons EVER do (besides eat and excrete) but the independent 
optimization 
process gets overwhelmed at times by reactions to inputs from sensory centers.


Lawson



[FairfieldLife] Re: Witnessing, was: Steve Martin of Wilmington

2008-02-25 Thread Stu

--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, TurquoiseB [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Rick Archer rick@ wrote:
 
  Witnessing is not a dissassociative state in which different
  aspects of the personality are fragmented from one another.
  It's a natural experience that arises when the silent aspect
  of life is open to awareness along with the active aspects.


Hi Rick,

Thanks for the reminder of the virtue of witnessing as a
non-dissassociative state.  However as I have taken part in these
newsgroups it is evident that long time meditators do experience
dissassociative sleep.  I began TM in part because of trouble getting to
sleep at night.  This problem ended shortly after starting the practice.
However some 20 years later I find myself awakening late at night in my
sleep, sometimes in dream state other times in blackness.  In general
this leads to me becoming fully awake and not getting sleep I need.  Its
a pain in the ass.

I consider this dysfunctional sleep.  When I consulted a sleep
specialist this sort of late night insomnia is not common in the general
population. I am not sure I can fully correlate it with TM but I have
noticed TMers report this experience often.


 While I'd like to make that same assumption, I find
 that if I'm honest with myself, I cannot. It may feel
 that way at the time, but the bottom line is that
 witnessing is Just Another Subjective Experience. We
 have all been carefully taught how to interpret those
 subjective experience, in the TMO and/or in other
 spiritual traditions. But there is no surety that
 their interpretation is the correct one IMO.

(snip for space)

 I'm just finding myself more like Curtis these days,
 open to *many* different interpretations of experiences
 that I once saw only one interpretation of -- the one
 I had been taught to consider the only interpretation.

Unfortunately we necessarily are in the realm of many different
interpretations.

With empirical observations, say for example the earth is round.  We can
set up experiments, see if they are repeatable, report them to society
and weight the evidence.  Enough weight and we can promote this crazy
observation to an accepted theory.

With inner work we are condemned to use the same form of measurement as
to what is actual.  So, I notice how in a high stress situation time
slows down and I can bring my awareness out of the situation to act
quickly (I am thinking of traffic situations and crazy work deadlines). 
To test this experience I may talk to the non-meditators around me and
note they are caught up in these experiences and panic.  I go to my yoga
friends and might find common ground.  I might even read Patajali and
find he reports a similar sort of experience.

This is where the trouble lies.  In order to understand exterior
experience we rely on language - there is a tendency these days to give
math great credibility.  Thus, the world is round because the math
worked that way, and we could support that with real word experience
like not falling off the world in ships.

However in the world of the inner search we are only left with myths. 
We can subscribe cause to unseen supreme consciousness, or silence, or
what Kant called noomenology.  And we can only test these myths against
other's experiences.  If a group of people accept a common myth they
achieve a cult status.  If its a larger group they can be deemed a
religion.

Alas the alternative is solipsism.  Which is lonely and has its
drawbacks.

I guess what I am saying here, is that we have to reach out.  Prolly
best to respect other's opinions even though their myths sometimes are
clearly sick. (Though we do have an obligation to point out the
sickness) Because no matter how independent you think you are on this
path, others are going to be needed to compare notes.  And necessarily
that is going to be the source of myth.  And our job is going to be
deciphering which myths are better than the others.

s.
Really skeptical but friendly.




[FairfieldLife] Re: Witnessing, was: Steve Martin of Wilmington

2008-02-25 Thread ruthsimplicity
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, sparaig [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, TurquoiseB no_reply@ wrote:
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Rick Archer rick@ wrote:
  
   Witnessing is not a dissassociative state in which different 
   aspects of the personality are fragmented from one another. 
   It's a natural experience that arises when the silent aspect 
   of life is open to awareness along with the active aspects. 
  
  While I'd like to make that same assumption, I find
  that if I'm honest with myself, I cannot. It may feel
  that way at the time, but the bottom line is that 
  witnessing is Just Another Subjective Experience. We
  have all been carefully taught how to interpret those
  subjective experience, in the TMO and/or in other
  spiritual traditions. But there is no surety that 
  their interpretation is the correct one IMO.
  
 
 There's a distinct patter of EEG for witnessing ala TM. Its
associated with non-sensory-
 related brain activity --an idling state, as it were. By
non-sensory I mean activity that 
 isn't driven/influenced by input from the thalamus. Its just ongoing
optimization activity, 
 or so I suspect since any time neurons are alive, they're attempting
to optimize their 
 connections with their neighbors--thats why isolated neurons in
petri dishes look like 
 amoebae: they're desperately seeking input to optimize. At the most
fundamental level, 
 thats all neurons EVER do (besides eat and excrete) but the
independent optimization 
 process gets overwhelmed at times by reactions to inputs from
sensory centers.
 
 
 Lawson

  How distinct is this really?  

  Arguably, spending too much time in alpha leads to the brain
desperately seeking imput.  So, get up, get going, and do something. 



[FairfieldLife] Re: Witnessing, was: Steve Martin of Wilmington

2008-02-25 Thread abutilon108
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, TurquoiseB [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:



 I'm just finding myself more like Curtis these days,
 open to *many* different interpretations of experiences
 that I once saw only one interpretation of -- the one
 I had been taught to consider the only interpretation.

I've also been finding myself open to many possible interpretations of
things, and it somehow seems possible to entertain more than one
possibility, with each possibility contributing something of value to
my understanding.  



RE: [FairfieldLife] Re: Witnessing, was: Steve Martin of Wilmington

2008-02-25 Thread Rick Archer
From: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]
On Behalf Of curtisdeltablues
Sent: Monday, February 25, 2008 10:40 AM
To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com
Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: Witnessing, was: Steve Martin of Wilmington

 

 It was as though I were in deep meditation throughout the whole dynamic,
 noisy experience. Not withdrawn or passive in the least – just
 imperturbable. 

I'm glad you weighed in Rick. 

Sorry I don’t have time to follow the discussion more closely.

I think your example illustrates that
the usefulness of these states is context dependent. In a situation
like you mentioned, a detached silence is a real asset. But I believe
that this state is not useful for making love. 

Our difference is that you regard these states as relative perspectives,
whereas I regard them as openings to universal realities. That makes sense,
since you doubt the existence of subtler realities. You also imply in your
last sentence above that “higher” states make one emotionally numb. I think
there is evidence for that in the TMO, but there is also evidence throughout
the larger spiritual community that greater emotional richness accompanies
development of consciousness. I don’t know much about tantra, but I gather
that tantrics regard the ability to maintain inner silence as a great aid to
love making.

Neuro-linquistic
programming (NLP) looks at these different states in relationship to
the usefulness in a specific context. Their goal is to be able to
shift fluidly between the options. I think they are related to the
states produced by meditation. Where I differ with traditional yogic
theory is that they seem to feel that you can't have too much silence
along with activity. I think you can depending on what you are doing.

I agree with you, but I think that “too much” would only be a temporary
state, due to inadequate integration. Also, the people I know who seem to be
speaking from experience say that the whole witnessing/silence thing is a
stage, and that silence is eventually perceived to be full of dynamism. I’m
a little out of my league discussing this, but the point I’m trying to make
is that there may be some undesirable aspects to certain stages in the
development of consciousness, but these stages are transitional, and as one
moves on, the undesirable aspects drop off and one is grateful to have
persisted in the journey.


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[FairfieldLife] Re: Witnessing, was: Steve Martin of Wilmington

2008-02-25 Thread sandiego108
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Rick Archer [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 From: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
[mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]
 On Behalf Of curtisdeltablues
 Sent: Monday, February 25, 2008 10:40 AM
 To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com
 Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: Witnessing, was: Steve Martin of 
Wilmington
 
  
 
  It was as though I were in deep meditation throughout the whole 
dynamic,
  noisy experience. Not withdrawn or passive in the least – just
  imperturbable. 
 
 I'm glad you weighed in Rick. 
 
 Sorry I don't have time to follow the discussion more closely.
 
 I think your example illustrates that
 the usefulness of these states is context dependent. In a situation
 like you mentioned, a detached silence is a real asset. But I 
believe
 that this state is not useful for making love. 
 
 Our difference is that you regard these states as relative 
perspectives,
 whereas I regard them as openings to universal realities. That 
makes sense,
 since you doubt the existence of subtler realities. You also imply 
in your
 last sentence above that higher states make one emotionally 
numb. I think
 there is evidence for that in the TMO, but there is also evidence 
throughout
 the larger spiritual community that greater emotional richness 
accompanies
 development of consciousness. I don't know much about tantra, but 
I gather
 that tantrics regard the ability to maintain inner silence as a 
great aid to
 love making.
 
 Neuro-linquistic
 programming (NLP) looks at these different states in relationship 
to
 the usefulness in a specific context. Their goal is to be able to
 shift fluidly between the options. I think they are related to the
 states produced by meditation. Where I differ with traditional 
yogic
 theory is that they seem to feel that you can't have too much 
silence
 along with activity. I think you can depending on what you are 
doing.
 
 I agree with you, but I think that too much would only be a 
temporary
 state, due to inadequate integration. Also, the people I know who 
seem to be
 speaking from experience say that the whole witnessing/silence 
thing is a
 stage, and that silence is eventually perceived to be full of 
dynamism. I'm
 a little out of my league discussing this, but the point I'm 
trying to make
 is that there may be some undesirable aspects to certain stages in 
the
 development of consciousness, but these stages are transitional, 
and as one
 moves on, the undesirable aspects drop off and one is grateful to 
have
 persisted in the journey.
 

exactly right Rick, in my experience. witnessing is nothing more 
than the first glimpses of ceding the individual ego to the cosmic 
ego. after awhile the cosmic ego predominates and the individual ego 
disappears. just as you said, it is all a matter of integration. The 
companion of silence which initially seems foreign is later found to 
be true identity. 

seeing these experiences of growing awareness as discrete and 
unrelated is similar to taking a car ride from Boston to San 
Francisco, exiting the vehicle in upstate New York, and declaring 
the path fragmented.



RE: [FairfieldLife] Re: Witnessing, was: Steve Martin of Wilmington

2008-02-25 Thread Angela Mailander
Bull's eye again, Mr. Archer, in my humble opinion.

--- Rick Archer [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

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 Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: Witnessing, was: Steve
 Martin of Wilmington
 
  
 
  It was as though I were in deep meditation
 throughout the whole dynamic,
  noisy experience. Not withdrawn or passive in the
 least – just
  imperturbable. 
 
 I'm glad you weighed in Rick. 
 
 Sorry I don’t have time to follow the discussion
 more closely.
 
 I think your example illustrates that
 the usefulness of these states is context dependent.
 In a situation
 like you mentioned, a detached silence is a real
 asset. But I believe
 that this state is not useful for making love. 
 
 Our difference is that you regard these states as
 relative perspectives,
 whereas I regard them as openings to universal
 realities. That makes sense,
 since you doubt the existence of subtler realities.
 You also imply in your
 last sentence above that “higher” states make one
 emotionally numb. I think
 there is evidence for that in the TMO, but there is
 also evidence throughout
 the larger spiritual community that greater
 emotional richness accompanies
 development of consciousness. I don’t know much
 about tantra, but I gather
 that tantrics regard the ability to maintain inner
 silence as a great aid to
 love making.
 
 Neuro-linquistic
 programming (NLP) looks at these different states in
 relationship to
 the usefulness in a specific context. Their goal is
 to be able to
 shift fluidly between the options. I think they are
 related to the
 states produced by meditation. Where I differ with
 traditional yogic
 theory is that they seem to feel that you can't have
 too much silence
 along with activity. I think you can depending on
 what you are doing.
 
 I agree with you, but I think that “too much” would
 only be a temporary
 state, due to inadequate integration. Also, the
 people I know who seem to be
 speaking from experience say that the whole
 witnessing/silence thing is a
 stage, and that silence is eventually perceived to
 be full of dynamism. I’m
 a little out of my league discussing this, but the
 point I’m trying to make
 is that there may be some undesirable aspects to
 certain stages in the
 development of consciousness, but these stages are
 transitional, and as one
 moves on, the undesirable aspects drop off and one
 is grateful to have
 persisted in the journey.
 
 
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RE: [FairfieldLife] Re: Witnessing, was: Steve Martin of Wilmington

2008-02-25 Thread Angela Mailander
Turq's gonna get pissed again and say that what I
claim as being my life is not believable.  Well, damn,
a Chinese monk did teach me that what Rick says is
right.  Silence is dynamic and silence isn't an aid in
tantric lovemaking, it's indispensable.  

  
--- Rick Archer [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 From: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com
 [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]
 On Behalf Of curtisdeltablues
 Sent: Monday, February 25, 2008 10:40 AM
 To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com
 Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: Witnessing, was: Steve
 Martin of Wilmington
 
  
 
  It was as though I were in deep meditation
 throughout the whole dynamic,
  noisy experience. Not withdrawn or passive in the
 least – just
  imperturbable. 
 
 I'm glad you weighed in Rick. 
 
 Sorry I don’t have time to follow the discussion
 more closely.
 
 I think your example illustrates that
 the usefulness of these states is context dependent.
 In a situation
 like you mentioned, a detached silence is a real
 asset. But I believe
 that this state is not useful for making love. 
 
 Our difference is that you regard these states as
 relative perspectives,
 whereas I regard them as openings to universal
 realities. That makes sense,
 since you doubt the existence of subtler realities.
 You also imply in your
 last sentence above that “higher” states make one
 emotionally numb. I think
 there is evidence for that in the TMO, but there is
 also evidence throughout
 the larger spiritual community that greater
 emotional richness accompanies
 development of consciousness. I don’t know much
 about tantra, but I gather
 that tantrics regard the ability to maintain inner
 silence as a great aid to
 love making.
 
 Neuro-linquistic
 programming (NLP) looks at these different states in
 relationship to
 the usefulness in a specific context. Their goal is
 to be able to
 shift fluidly between the options. I think they are
 related to the
 states produced by meditation. Where I differ with
 traditional yogic
 theory is that they seem to feel that you can't have
 too much silence
 along with activity. I think you can depending on
 what you are doing.
 
 I agree with you, but I think that “too much” would
 only be a temporary
 state, due to inadequate integration. Also, the
 people I know who seem to be
 speaking from experience say that the whole
 witnessing/silence thing is a
 stage, and that silence is eventually perceived to
 be full of dynamism. I’m
 a little out of my league discussing this, but the
 point I’m trying to make
 is that there may be some undesirable aspects to
 certain stages in the
 development of consciousness, but these stages are
 transitional, and as one
 moves on, the undesirable aspects drop off and one
 is grateful to have
 persisted in the journey.
 
 
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