Re: NJ feral group

2005-12-03 Thread Nina




Renee,
You are so very welcome. How nice to be someone's angel! I'm glad
some of my suggestions made sense to you and that my moral support
helped you feel less alone. This group is full of angels, as you've
now found out. As I said before, I'm betting that Emma, (and probably
her best friend too), will make the transition to house cat pretty
quickly. You guys already have a connection. I understand the
reluctance to "force" the issue, but most cats are not good with change
of any kind and Emma might be inclined to keep the status quo without
some stronger persuasion, (she has no idea how wonderfully her life
will change!). Her short life has been all about simple survival,
getting through the day alive, that's all she'll be thinking about. Ya
gotta be a little pushy so she can see for herself all the benefits of
being with you. You won't be sorry, once she understands that you are
her 'angel', you'll have a devoted friend for life. If you've never
trapped before, I can understand your feelings of discomfort with the
prospect. Look at it this way, yes they're frightened, yes it is
unpleasant for them, but it's a necessary trade off for making their
lives sooo much better. It's like dealing with visits to the dentist.
Pleasant? No. But so much better to endure the momentary discomfort
and keep your teeth! The truly feral cats that you trap will be so
much better off getting neutered/shots. The colony will not only stop
multiplying, but as long as they have food and water provided, they
will stop fighting and live much more harmonious lives, (having food
provided and being neutered eliminates the reasons for fighting, hence
cutting down on the transmission of disease!). Continuing to feed a
feral colony, while well intended, is only half the solution. I have
had the misfortune of seeing the suffering and miserable deaths of
sweet innocent kittens (most kittens born in the wild do not make it to
their 1st birthday). You have the power to stop some of this
suffering! We humans put these poor cats in the position of surviving
on their own, only we humans have the power to stop the cycle. Get
with one of the rescue organizations in your area, (Jenn sent you a
wonderful list of links that will surely turn up some help for you).
Let them know that you are willing to do the work, but you don't have
the funds necessary for such a large undertaking. Hopefully you'll not
only get financial assistance, but find a new friendship in someone who
will help you with the physical tasks as well. Patti is right, you
don't have to handle the ferals at all. You trap them, take them to
the vet still in the trap and bring them home while they are still
asleep in a carrier. Transfer them to a larger pen where they can
recuperate from their surgery in safety and then release them a couple
days later. If you trap someone that's friendly, hopefully the rescue
you've found will be able to foster them and find them a home. You can
do it girl. Sorry this is so long. Can you tell how near and dear to
me every feral in the world is?! Please let us know how you are
doing. Whatever the depth of your undertaking to help these guys is so
very appreciated, esp by any of the cats you help!
Nina

Renee M. Simon wrote:

  
  
  
  
  Oh Nina, Thank you, thank you, thank
you! YOU HAVE BEEN MY ANGEL TODAY. i was feeling so frustrated and your
words really soothed my soul. I completely believe that the angels send
certain kitties my way. Last summer a feral close to death arrived on
my doorstep. After vetting and testing, wetook him in. He is sleeping
next to me now. I found him collapsed on the grave of my beloved Miss
Kitty.
  
  I really loved your ideas about
shelter. I think I will open my crawl space tomorrow. I can't believe I
didn't think of that! And this is farm land, so free pallets are always
around! Maybe my hubby could get some heavy totes from work and we can
use them. See, all I had to do was ask and wonderful help arrived. I
cannot thank you enough! you have just eased my mind tremendously. At
least I have a good start and something constructive to do tommorrow
for Emma and Abby, as well as the others who live in the marsh.
  
  Three days ago, someone who was
feeding one all summer decided to take him to the vet in hopes of
adopting him. He tested positive, but was asymptomatic. I do not know
if they kept him or pts. My boy Jasper was tested twice and was
negative, so we were lucky. I currently have 4 cats and 2 dogs. I have
over 3000sq ft so they all have their own places. My hope was to bring
Emma into the house, but she seems to feral to me and I am not sure she
would make the transition.She is about 2 yrs old I think. I don't know
if she is positive or not and I don't have a room to keep her isolated
safely. I am waiting for divine inspiration on that one!
  I am also going to write to my local
newspapers and see if they can help,maybe an article? I will also post
an ad to see if anyone can donate supplies. It is a start. I 

RE: NJ feral group

2005-12-03 Thread Chris
Title: Message




Renee,
I 
brought Big Boy, aka Romeo, in during a bitter cold snap here in NY last 
year. I had been feeding him outside for 2 years and when I pulled up to 
the feeding area, I could hear him meow all the way across a parking lot--it was 
his way of telling me he was here, don't go! He would rub up against my 
legs but would jump away if he saw my hands coming towards him. I finally 
trapped him and brought him him. As we speak, he is lying on my bed sound 
asleep and has turned out to be the most affectionate of the brood, hence the 
name change to ROmeo. He still won't let me pick him up but absolutely 
craves attention. He was an adult cat when I got him. He turned out 
to be FELV+ (never sick) and I mix with my others (one of them is also 
FELV+). If you bring her in, I know there are a lot of folks here who can 
help you get her acclimated--trick is that once they understand the good life, 
they figure out its OK!

Chris
[EMAIL PROTECTED]

  Renee M. Simon 
  wrote: 
  



Oh Nina, Thank you, thank you, thank you! YOU 
HAVE BEEN MY ANGEL TODAY. i was feeling so frustrated and your words really 
soothed my soul. I completely believe that the angels send certain kitties 
my way. Last summer a feral close to death arrived on my doorstep. After 
vetting and testing, wetook him in. He is sleeping next to me now. I 
found him collapsed on the grave of my beloved Miss Kitty.

I really loved your ideas about shelter. I 
think I will open my crawl space tomorrow. I can't believe I didn't think of 
that! And this is farm land, so free pallets are always around! Maybe my 
hubby could get some heavy totes from work and we can use them. See, all I 
had to do was ask and wonderful help arrived. I cannot thank you enough! you 
have just eased my mind tremendously. At least I have a good start and 
something constructive to do tommorrow for Emma and Abby, as well as the 
others who live in the marsh.

Three days ago, someone who was feeding one all 
summer decided to take him to the vet in hopes of adopting him. He tested 
positive, but was asymptomatic. I do not know if they kept him or pts. My 
boy Jasper was tested twice and was negative, so we were lucky. I currently 
have 4 cats and 2 dogs. I have over 3000sq ft so they all have their own 
places. My hope was to bring Emma into the house, but she seems to feral to 
me and I am not sure she would make the transition.She is about 2 yrs old I 
think. I don't know if she is positive or not and I don't have a room to 
keep her isolated safely. I am waiting for divine inspiration on that 
one!
I am also going to write to my local newspapers 
and see if they can help,maybe an article? I will also post an ad to see if 
anyone can donate supplies. It is a start. I have lived here for 7 yrs. I am 
not sure why I felt compelled to do something now and not earlier. All I can 
do is my best. Emma really stole my heart. I really feel a connection to 
her. I pray for her every night and during the day I try to learn how to 
help and what else I need to learn. Low cost spay here is running about $75 
a cat, which is hard for me to manage for more than a few. And certainly not 
for 30- 40.

Thanks so much for being my angel today. I went 
from tears to really feeling like it is not hopeless. I appreciate the 
kindness you have shown me. Have a wonderful night! 
  Renee


Re: NJ feral group

2005-12-03 Thread Renee M. Simon



Thanks for the info. I learned something new and i 
love that! They only get rice or pasta twice a week and it is equal parts with 
wet food and dry cat food. I will definately begin adding chicken and beef fats. 
That is easy to do. Thanks

  - Original Message - 
  From: 
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  To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org 
  
  Sent: Saturday, December 03, 2005 1:42 
  AM
  Subject: Re: NJ feral group
  
  Lately I have been adding in rice and pasta to 
  help beef up their body weight. 
  
  Actually, by doing that, you are doing exactly the opposite of what you 
  intend to do. Cats are carnivores, and do not get hardly any benefit from 
  carbohydrates, they are built to run on animal derived FAT and PROTEIN. You 
  would be better off adding MORE fat to their food than pasta and rice. Any 
  meat trimmings you might get when you prepare your own food, like the skin off 
  chicken, or the fat trimmed offsteaks would be of benefit to the cats. A 
  little bacon grease stirred into the food would boost the fat content and help 
  too, but don't add too much or they may end up with diarrhea. Make sure that 
  if you give them any kind of pork fat or meat, that it is WELL cooked, because 
  pigs carry tritrichimonsis, and it is highly contagious to cats (and humans). 
  You don't need to cook beef or chicken before feeding that. In addition, 
  feeding pasta and rice to cats will cause taurine deficiency, which leads to 
  blindness in cats. A little is OK, but it's not something you want to 
  regularly use to dilute the cat food to make it go further.
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  must live on a liquid diet for the rest of his life.Bazil's caretaker 
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  free can of formula!PLEASE save your KMR kitten formula labels for 
  Bazil!If you use KMR, even just one can, please email me for the NEW 
  address to send them 
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  cat been loosely diagnosed as IBD? Have you tested for Tritrichomonosis? 
  The test is new, the new drug makes it curable. Ask me today how you can 
  test for Trich!
  
  

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Re: NJ feral group

2005-12-03 Thread Renee M. Simon



Nina, thank you again for your words of 
encouragement and support. I woke up today feeling like a new woman...which 
isn't so easy anymore at 41!

I decided that I must change my perspective for the 
time being. It is very easy for me to become overwhelmed at the enormity of the 
situation and the lack of support both physical help and financial. So, I 
decided to take a deep breath and realize that I do not have to fix everything 
today. I will step up my efforts and be diligent in learning as much as I can, 
while investigating all avenues. If I let myself get overwhelmed, then I am 
afraid I might fizzle out. So, I wll just put one foot in front of the other, 
start thinking creatively and get going.As only 1 person, I certainly cannot 
afford to fix it all myself, so I will do what and can do.I think that is a good 
start.

I very much appreciate you being there with me in 
this. They are all such precious souls and I will do whatever I can to improve 
their health and existance. I promised them that I would do my 
best.

I am going to print out some relevant info and see 
about approaching some people in town. But I hesitate to draw too much attention 
to them, because I fear for their safety. People here are always looking for 
scapegoats and excuses for acting violently. I do not want these babies to pay 
the price because I was naive. So I will read, learn and do my best for 
them.
Thanks again so very much!! 
Renee

  - Original Message - 
  From: 
  Nina 
  
  To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org 
  
  Sent: Saturday, December 03, 2005 12:25 
  PM
  Subject: Re: NJ feral group
  Renee,You are so very welcome. How nice to be 
  someone's angel! I'm glad some of my suggestions made sense to you and 
  that my moral support helped you feel less alone. This group is full of 
  angels, as you've now found out. As I said before, I'm betting that 
  Emma, (and probably her best friend too), will make the transition to house 
  cat pretty quickly. You guys already have a connection. I 
  understand the reluctance to "force" the issue, but most cats are not good 
  with change of any kind and Emma might be inclined to keep the status quo 
  without some stronger persuasion, (she has no idea how wonderfully her life 
  will change!). Her short life has been all about simple survival, 
  getting through the day alive, that's all she'll be thinking about. Ya 
  gotta be a little pushy so she can see for herself all the benefits of being 
  with you. You won't be sorry, once she understands that you are her 
  'angel', you'll have a devoted friend for life. If you've never trapped 
  before, I can understand your feelings of discomfort with the prospect. 
  Look at it this way, yes they're frightened, yes it is unpleasant for them, 
  but it's a necessary trade off for making their lives sooo much better. 
  It's like dealing with visits to the dentist. Pleasant? No. 
  But so much better to endure the momentary discomfort and keep your 
  teeth! The truly feral cats that you trap will be so much better off 
  getting neutered/shots. The colony will not only stop multiplying, but 
  as long as they have food and water provided, they will stop fighting and live 
  much more harmonious lives, (having food provided and being neutered 
  eliminates the reasons for fighting, hence cutting down on the transmission of 
  disease!). Continuing to feed a feral colony, while well intended, is 
  only half the solution. I have had the misfortune of seeing the 
  suffering and miserable deaths of sweet innocent kittens (most kittens born in 
  the wild do not make it to their 1st birthday). You have the power to 
  stop some of this suffering! We humans put these poor cats in the 
  position of surviving on their own, only we humans have the power to stop the 
  cycle. Get with one of the rescue organizations in your area, (Jenn sent 
  you a wonderful list of links that will surely turn up some help for 
  you). Let them know that you are willing to do the work, but you don't 
  have the funds necessary for such a large undertaking. Hopefully you'll 
  not only get financial assistance, but find a new friendship in someone who 
  will help you with the physical tasks as well. Patti is right, you don't 
  have to handle the ferals at all. You trap them, take them to the vet 
  still in the trap and bring them home while they are still asleep in a 
  carrier. Transfer them to a larger pen where they can recuperate from 
  their surgery in safety and then release them a couple days later. If 
  you trap someone that's friendly, hopefully the rescue you've found will be 
  able to foster them and find them a home. You can do it girl. 
  Sorry this is so long. Can you tell how near and dear to me every feral 
  in the world is?! Please let us know how you are doing. Whatever 
  the depth of your undertaking to help these guys is so very appreciated, esp 
  by any of the cats you help!NinaRenee M. S

Re: NJ feral group

2005-12-03 Thread Nina




Renee,
Yep, one day at a time, one task at a time. I'm always beating myself
up for not doing more, but doing ANYTHING is what's important. I know
exactly what you mean about getting easily overwhelmed. We both have
to work on narrowing our focus and just helping as much as we can. A
plan is always good :). The world is such a mess, we can only deal
with what is right in front of us. The trick is to keep moving, keep
doing something positive. I try to keep the Serenity Prayer in mind.
Easier said than done!

I would be very careful about who you approach, for the very reasons
you've stated. Some people have nothing better to do than to make life
miserable for those that can't defend themselves. Sad, but true. I
would go down that list of rescues, make up a form email to send and
look for help from them. Don't give up easily, make yourself a
pleasant, but squeaky wheel. Sometimes I think they wait to see just
how persistent you're going to be! So many people say they want to
help, after the rescue gets involved the contact drops the ball and the
rescue is left dealing with everything on their own. When they know
you are serious about helping and not just someone looking to pass the
buck, they become much more receptive. One of the rescues that I've
worked with pays the full price for spays/neuters, sometimes they pay
for the shots as well. They haven't been able to help me with
adoptions, (hence my overflowing household!), but I'm happy to take
whatever assistance they can give. They'll have traps to lend you,
valuable advice and sometimes can give you food and supplies too.
Don't be discouraged if some of the rescues don't share our love of
ferals. I'll never understand how people can say they love cats, but
are selective in that love. Sigh. Do stick your head in any feed
stores, or pet stores and let them know you could use donations of food
that's about to expire, (you don't have to tell them the location of
the colony). You'll be surprised at what you can get, but you have to
ask!

You better believe I'm with you. I'm right there at your side, I wish
it could be more than in spirit, but you've got lots of unseen help
behind you. I truly believe that. You just wait and see, things will
start falling into place and you're going to make a tremendous
difference in those cats lives! Oh, wait a second, I dropped one of my
pom poms! Seriously, you are earning Heaven points big time. Keep it
up!
Nina

Renee M. Simon wrote:

  
  
  
  Nina, thank you again for your words
of encouragement and support. I woke up today feeling like a new
woman...which isn't so easy anymore at 41!
  
  I decided that I must change my
perspective for the time being. It is very easy for me to become
overwhelmed at the enormity of the situation and the lack of support
both physical help and financial. So, I decided to take a deep breath
and realize that I do not have to fix everything today. I will step up
my efforts and be diligent in learning as much as I can, while
investigating all avenues. If I let myself get overwhelmed, then I am
afraid I might fizzle out. So, I wll just put one foot in front of the
other, start thinking creatively and get going.As only 1 person, I
certainly cannot afford to fix it all myself, so I will do what and can
do.I think that is a good start.
  
  I very much appreciate you being
there with me in this. They are all such precious souls and I will do
whatever I can to improve their health and existance. I promised them
that I would do my best.
  
  I am going to print out some
relevant info and see about approaching some people in town. But I
hesitate to draw too much attention to them, because I fear for their
safety. People here are always looking for scapegoats and excuses for
acting violently. I do not want these babies to pay the price because I
was naive. So I will read, learn and do my best for them.
  Thanks again so very much!! Renee





NJ feral group

2005-12-02 Thread Renee M. Simon



Hello, I am trying to find some help for a feral 
colony in Cumberland County NJ, some of whom have tested positive. I do not have 
any idea how many are ill, but I am not seeing any symptomatic 
cats.

Can you refer me to anyone who might be willing to 
help in NJ? I am simply a homeowner/pet lover who lives here and I can no longer 
pretend that I do not see their suffering. I would like to have someone 
knowledgable about ferals to teach me how to bring attention to their cause and 
find them some help. I have contacted everyone I can think of and have read all 
that I can find on the subject. However, how does one person find funding and 
supplies to begin to help these cats?

Thank you for your time. Most 
Sincerely,
Renee Simon


Re: NJ feral group

2005-12-02 Thread Lernermichelle




I live in NJ (Northern), but since I do not know where Cumberland County is 
I assume it is far from me. Have you contacted Alley Cat Allies in DC? 
They focus exclusively on caring for ferals, and they keep a database network of 
people all over the country and can probably connect you to people near 
you.
Michelle

In a message dated 12/2/2005 4:11:12 P.M. Eastern Standard Time, 
[EMAIL PROTECTED] writes:

  Hello, I am trying to find some help for a feral 
  colony in Cumberland County NJ, some of whom have tested positive. I do not 
  have any idea how many are ill, but I am not seeing any symptomatic 
  cats.
  
  Can you refer me to anyone who might be willing 
  to help in NJ? I am simply a homeowner/pet lover who lives here and I can no 
  longer pretend that I do not see their suffering. I would like to have someone 
  knowledgable about ferals to teach me how to bring attention to their cause 
  and find them some help. I have contacted everyone I can think of and have 
  read all that I can find on the subject. However, how does one person find 
  funding and supplies to begin to help these cats?
  
  Thank you for your time. Most 
  Sincerely,
  Renee Simon




Re: NJ feral group

2005-12-02 Thread Renee M. Simon



Thank you so much for your reply. i will contact them next! Cumberland 
County is at the southernmost part of the state. Look for the Delaware Bay on a 
map, and you will see me! Thanks again, Renee

  - Original Message - 
  From: 
  [EMAIL PROTECTED] 
  To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org 
  
  Sent: Friday, December 02, 2005 4:35 
  PM
  Subject: Re: NJ feral group
  
  
  I live in NJ (Northern), but since I do not know where Cumberland County 
  is I assume it is far from me. Have you contacted Alley Cat Allies in 
  DC? They focus exclusively on caring for ferals, and they keep a database 
  network of people all over the country and can probably connect you to people 
  near you.
  Michelle
  
  In a message dated 12/2/2005 4:11:12 P.M. Eastern Standard Time, 
  [EMAIL PROTECTED] writes:
  
Hello, I am trying to find some help for a 
feral colony in Cumberland County NJ, some of whom have tested positive. I 
do not have any idea how many are ill, but I am not seeing any symptomatic 
cats.

Can you refer me to anyone who might be willing 
to help in NJ? I am simply a homeowner/pet lover who lives here and I can no 
longer pretend that I do not see their suffering. I would like to have 
someone knowledgable about ferals to teach me how to bring attention to 
their cause and find them some help. I have contacted everyone I can think 
of and have read all that I can find on the subject. However, how does one 
person find funding and supplies to begin to help these cats?

Thank you for your time. Most 
Sincerely,
Renee 
Simon
  
  


Re: NJ feral group

2005-12-02 Thread Nina




Hi Renee,
I've lived outside of Princeton, on Long Beach Island and in Rockaway
NJ, (near Morristown), but I live in CA now. Your post nearly brought
me to tears. Knowing there are caring souls that can't turn their back
on the sweet innocents gives me hope that the human race is moving in
the right direction! I too care for ferals in my neighborhood without
any support from neighbors, and very little help from rescue groups.
If you find a network who is able to help you will you please pass on
the info? Anytime you want to talk to someone about ferals, please
feel free to email me directly. I do remember seeing a feral group on
the internet, have you checked that out yet?
Nina

Renee M. Simon wrote:

  
  
  
  Hello, I am trying to find some help
for a feral colony in Cumberland County NJ, some of whom have tested
positive. I do not have any idea how many are ill, but I am not seeing
any symptomatic cats.
  
  Can you refer me to anyone who might
be willing to help in NJ? I am simply a homeowner/pet lover who lives
here and I can no longer pretend that I do not see their suffering. I
would like to have someone knowledgable about ferals to teach me how to
bring attention to their cause and find them some help. I have
contacted everyone I can think of and have read all that I can find on
the subject. However, how does one person find funding and supplies to
begin to help these cats?
  
  Thank you for your time. Most
Sincerely,
  Renee Simon





Re: NJ feral group

2005-12-02 Thread Renee M. Simon



Dear Nina, Thank you so much for your kind email. I 
am just so sad and have been crying like a fool for 2 days now. It just breaks 
my heart about these babies and I have tried so many things to no avail. I have 
even asked for help from people on Petfinder. No one is interested. 


I have 2 girls who come everyday at 11am. Sometimes 
they bring friends. I am just so very sad. It is a small poor beach community, 
so everyone is gone for the winter. I wish I could bring these girls inside and 
adopt them, but they seem to feral to me. I don't have high hopes. There are 
probably 40 more who need help.

Everyone has great suggestions but they all take 
money! I am only one person.I have even simply asked for scrap wood, scrap 
strofoam, straw, old dishes or bowls, never money and still no one will help. I 
even had one person suggest that people wouldn't help because I am not 
affiliated with a rescue group! Well, that is a catch 22, there is no rescue 
group down here. That is the point of my posts, to find help. My reply is 
simply,"If you can donate or help the cats with needed supplies, just put it out 
in the marshland. You don't need me to do it. Just drive down and pitch 
in."

Sorry to vent, but I am so very frustrated at 
people's apathy these days. I just wish someone would care. Thank you for caring 
and for listening.
Most Sincerely,
Renee

  - Original Message - 
  From: 
  Nina 
  
  To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org 
  
  Sent: Friday, December 02, 2005 5:18 
  PM
  Subject: Re: NJ feral group
  Hi Renee,I've lived outside of Princeton, on Long Beach 
  Island and in Rockaway NJ, (near Morristown), but I live in CA now. Your 
  post nearly brought me to tears. Knowing there are caring souls that 
  can't turn their back on the sweet innocents gives me hope that the human race 
  is moving in the right direction! I too care for ferals in my 
  neighborhood without any support from neighbors, and very little help from 
  rescue groups. If you find a network who is able to help you will you 
  please pass on the info? Anytime you want to talk to someone about 
  ferals, please feel free to email me directly. I do remember seeing a 
  feral group on the internet, have you checked that out 
  yet?NinaRenee M. Simon wrote:
  



Hello, I am trying to find some help for a 
feral colony in Cumberland County NJ, some of whom have tested positive. I 
do not have any idea how many are ill, but I am not seeing any symptomatic 
cats.

Can you refer me to anyone who might be willing 
to help in NJ? I am simply a homeowner/pet lover who lives here and I can no 
longer pretend that I do not see their suffering. I would like to have 
someone knowledgable about ferals to teach me how to bring attention to 
their cause and find them some help. I have contacted everyone I can think 
of and have read all that I can find on the subject. However, how does one 
person find funding and supplies to begin to help these cats?

Thank you for your time. Most 
Sincerely,
Renee 
Simon


RE: NJ feral group

2005-12-02 Thread MacKenzie, Kerry N.
Title: Message



I wish 
I lived near you Renee.We all on this list totally relate and 
sympathise.Thank you for caring.

[EMAIL PROTECTED]

You 
could try contacting the group above and see if it's still activeI used to 
post quite a lot on it but haven't done so recently. Stay in touch---you'll 
always find a kind shoulder to cry on in this group when the going gets 
tough.

hugs, 
Kerry



-Original Message-From: 
[EMAIL PROTECTED] [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] 
On Behalf Of Renee M. SimonSent: Friday, December 02, 2005 
4:51 PMTo: felvtalk@felineleukemia.orgSubject: Re: NJ 
feral group
Dear Nina, Thank you so much for your kind email. I 
am just so sad and have been crying like a fool for 2 days now. It just breaks 
my heart about these babies and I have tried so many things to no avail. I have 
even asked for help from people on Petfinder. No one is interested. 


I have 2 girls who come everyday at 11am. Sometimes 
they bring friends. I am just so very sad. It is a small poor beach community, 
so everyone is gone for the winter. I wish I could bring these girls inside and 
adopt them, but they seem to feral to me. I don't have high hopes. There are 
probably 40 more who need help.

Everyone has great suggestions but they all take 
money! I am only one person.I have even simply asked for scrap wood, scrap 
strofoam, straw, old dishes or bowls, never money and still no one will help. I 
even had one person suggest that people wouldn't help because I am not 
affiliated with a rescue group! Well, that is a catch 22, there is no rescue 
group down here. That is the point of my posts, to find help. My reply is 
simply,"If you can donate or help the cats with needed supplies, just put it out 
in the marshland. You don't need me to do it. Just drive down and pitch 
in."

Sorry to vent, but I am so very frustrated at 
people's apathy these days. I just wish someone would care. Thank you for caring 
and for listening.
Most Sincerely,
Renee

  - Original Message - 
  From: 
  Nina 
  
  To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org 
  
  Sent: Friday, December 02, 2005 5:18 
  PM
  Subject: Re: NJ feral group
  Hi Renee,I've lived outside of Princeton, on Long Beach 
  Island and in Rockaway NJ, (near Morristown), but I live in CA now. Your 
  post nearly brought me to tears. Knowing there are caring souls that 
  can't turn their back on the sweet innocents gives me hope that the human race 
  is moving in the right direction! I too care for ferals in my 
  neighborhood without any support from neighbors, and very little help from 
  rescue groups. If you find a network who is able to help you will you 
  please pass on the info? Anytime you want to talk to someone about 
  ferals, please feel free to email me directly. I do remember seeing a 
  feral group on the internet, have you checked that out 
  yet?NinaRenee M. Simon wrote:
  



Hello, I am trying to find some help for a 
feral colony in Cumberland County NJ, some of whom have tested positive. I 
do not have any idea how many are ill, but I am not seeing any symptomatic 
cats.

Can you refer me to anyone who might be willing 
to help in NJ? I am simply a homeowner/pet lover who lives here and I can no 
longer pretend that I do not see their suffering. I would like to have 
someone knowledgable about ferals to teach me how to bring attention to 
their cause and find them some help. I have contacted everyone I can think 
of and have read all that I can find on the subject. However, how does one 
person find funding and supplies to begin to help these cats?

Thank you for your time. Most 
Sincerely,
Renee 
Simon
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Re: NJ feral group

2005-12-02 Thread Renee M. Simon
Title: Message



Thank you so much for your kindness. The going was 
tough the last 2 days and my tears have been many. We are a small beach 
community and today the winds have been 60mph with lots of flooding. I haven't 
seen any of the cats today and I wish they were warm and dry. It makes me sad to 
think that I cannot find help for them anywhere. Your kindness has helped a 
great deal. All my Best, Renee

  - Original Message - 
  From: 
  MacKenzie, Kerry N. 
  To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org 
  
  Sent: Friday, December 02, 2005 6:07 
  PM
  Subject: RE: NJ feral group
  
  I 
  wish I lived near you Renee.We all on this list totally relate and 
  sympathise.Thank you for caring.
  
  [EMAIL PROTECTED]
  
  You 
  could try contacting the group above and see if it's still activeI used to 
  post quite a lot on it but haven't done so recently. Stay in touch---you'll 
  always find a kind shoulder to cry on in this group when the going gets 
  tough.
  
  hugs, Kerry
  
  
  
  -Original Message-From: 
  [EMAIL PROTECTED] 
  [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] On Behalf Of Renee M. 
  SimonSent: Friday, December 02, 2005 4:51 PMTo: 
  felvtalk@felineleukemia.orgSubject: Re: NJ feral 
  group
  Dear Nina, Thank you so much for your kind email. 
  I am just so sad and have been crying like a fool for 2 days now. It just 
  breaks my heart about these babies and I have tried so many things to no 
  avail. I have even asked for help from people on Petfinder. No one is 
  interested. 
  
  I have 2 girls who come everyday at 11am. 
  Sometimes they bring friends. I am just so very sad. It is a small poor beach 
  community, so everyone is gone for the winter. I wish I could bring these 
  girls inside and adopt them, but they seem to feral to me. I don't have high 
  hopes. There are probably 40 more who need help.
  
  Everyone has great suggestions but they all take 
  money! I am only one person.I have even simply asked for scrap wood, scrap 
  strofoam, straw, old dishes or bowls, never money and still no one will help. 
  I even had one person suggest that people wouldn't help because I am not 
  affiliated with a rescue group! Well, that is a catch 22, there is no rescue 
  group down here. That is the point of my posts, to find help. My reply is 
  simply,"If you can donate or help the cats with needed supplies, just put it 
  out in the marshland. You don't need me to do it. Just drive down and pitch 
  in."
  
  Sorry to vent, but I am so very frustrated at 
  people's apathy these days. I just wish someone would care. Thank you for 
  caring and for listening.
  Most Sincerely,
  Renee
  
- Original Message - 
From: 
Nina 

To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org 

Sent: Friday, December 02, 2005 5:18 
PM
Subject: Re: NJ feral group
Hi Renee,I've lived outside of Princeton, on Long Beach 
Island and in Rockaway NJ, (near Morristown), but I live in CA now. 
Your post nearly brought me to tears. Knowing there are caring souls 
that can't turn their back on the sweet innocents gives me hope that the 
human race is moving in the right direction! I too care for ferals in 
my neighborhood without any support from neighbors, and very little help 
from rescue groups. If you find a network who is able to help you will 
you please pass on the info? Anytime you want to talk to someone about 
ferals, please feel free to email me directly. I do remember seeing a 
feral group on the internet, have you checked that out 
yet?NinaRenee M. Simon wrote:

  
  

  Hello, I am trying to find some help for a 
  feral colony in Cumberland County NJ, some of whom have tested positive. I 
  do not have any idea how many are ill, but I am not seeing any symptomatic 
  cats.
  
  Can you refer me to anyone who might be 
  willing to help in NJ? I am simply a homeowner/pet lover who lives here 
  and I can no longer pretend that I do not see their suffering. I would 
  like to have someone knowledgable about ferals to teach me how to bring 
  attention to their cause and find them some help. I have contacted 
  everyone I can think of and have read all that I can find on the subject. 
  However, how does one person find funding and supplies to begin to help 
  these cats?
  
  Thank you for your time. Most 
  Sincerely,
  Renee 
  Simon=00
  
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Re: NJ feral group

2005-12-02 Thread Nina




Renee,
I've sent you a couple of emails off-list. Are you getting them?
Nina

Renee M. Simon wrote:

  Message
  
  
  Thank you so much for your kindness.
The going was tough the last 2 days and my tears have been many. We are
a small beach community and today the winds have been 60mph with lots
of flooding. I haven't seen any of the cats today and I wish they were
warm and dry. It makes me sad to think that I cannot find help for them
anywhere. Your kindness has helped a great deal. All my Best, Renee





Re: NJ feral group

2005-12-02 Thread Renee M. Simon



Oh Nina, Thank you, thank you, thank you! YOU HAVE 
BEEN MY ANGEL TODAY. i was feeling so frustrated and your words really soothed 
my soul. I completely believe that the angels send certain kitties my way. Last 
summer a feral close to death arrived on my doorstep. After vetting and testing, 
wetook him in. He is sleeping next to me now. I found him collapsed on the 
grave of my beloved Miss Kitty.

I really loved your ideas about shelter. I think I 
will open my crawl space tomorrow. I can't believe I didn't think of that! And 
this is farm land, so free pallets are always around! Maybe my hubby could get 
some heavy totes from work and we can use them. See, all I had to do was ask and 
wonderful help arrived. I cannot thank you enough! you have just eased my mind 
tremendously. At least I have a good start and something constructive to do 
tommorrow for Emma and Abby, as well as the others who live in the 
marsh.

Three days ago, someone who was feeding one all 
summer decided to take him to the vet in hopes of adopting him. He tested 
positive, but was asymptomatic. I do not know if they kept him or pts. My boy 
Jasper was tested twice and was negative, so we were lucky. I currently have 4 
cats and 2 dogs. I have over 3000sq ft so they all have their own places. My 
hope was to bring Emma into the house, but she seems to feral to me and I am not 
sure she would make the transition.She is about 2 yrs old I think. I don't know 
if she is positive or not and I don't have a room to keep her isolated safely. I 
am waiting for divine inspiration on that one!
I am also going to write to my local newspapers and 
see if they can help,maybe an article? I will also post an ad to see if anyone 
can donate supplies. It is a start. I have lived here for 7 yrs. I am not sure 
why I felt compelled to do something now and not earlier. All I can do is my 
best. Emma really stole my heart. I really feel a connection to her. I pray for 
her every night and during the day I try to learn how to help and what else I 
need to learn. Low cost spay here is running about $75 a cat, which is hard for 
me to manage for more than a few. And certainly not for 30- 40.

Thanks so much for being my angel today. I went 
from tears to really feeling like it is not hopeless. I appreciate the kindness 
you have shown me. Have a wonderful night! Renee

  - Original Message - 
  From: 
  Nina 
  
  To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org 
  
  Sent: Friday, December 02, 2005 6:58 
  PM
  Subject: Re: NJ feral group
  Renee,I've sent you a couple of emails off-list. Are 
  you getting them?NinaRenee M. Simon wrote:
  

Thank you so much for your kindness. The going 
was tough the last 2 days and my tears have been many. We are a small beach 
community and today the winds have been 60mph with lots of flooding. I 
haven't seen any of the cats today and I wish they were warm and dry. It 
makes me sad to think that I cannot find help for them anywhere. Your 
kindness has helped a great deal. All my Best, 
Renee


RE: NJ feral group

2005-12-02 Thread Hideyo Yamamoto




















From: Hideyo Yamamoto 
Sent: Friday, December 02, 2005
5:03 PM
To: 'felvtalk@felineleukemia.org'
Subject: RE: NJ feral group





Renee, can you research on line to find
any rescue group in NJ (even if you are not close to them physically)?
 if you can hock up with a rescue group with 501C status (non profit),
you can contact Purina and perhaps get a truck load of free food for your
kitties. You dont really need to work with the rescue group, just
explain the rescue group your situation and borrow their status (tax ID) to
contact Purina so that you can be set up as a satellite -



You can call Janet  641-472-4193 in
Iowa  she rescue and feed feral
cats in Iowa
and she gets truck load of cat food from Purina periodically. (tell her that
Lila Williams gave your the number)



Hideyo









From: [EMAIL PROTECTED]
[mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] On
Behalf Of Renee M. Simon
Sent: Friday, December 02, 2005
3:51 PM
To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org
Subject: Re: NJ feral group







Dear Nina, Thank you so much for your kind email. I
am just so sad and have been crying like a fool for 2 days now. It just breaks
my heart about these babies and I have tried so many things to no avail. I have
even asked for help from people on Petfinder. No one is interested. 











I have 2 girls who come everyday at 11am. Sometimes
they bring friends. I am just so very sad. It is a small poor beach community,
so everyone is gone for the winter. I wish I could bring these girls inside and
adopt them, but they seem to feral to me. I don't have high hopes. There are
probably 40 more who need help.











Everyone has great suggestions but they all take
money! I am only one person.I have even simply asked for scrap wood, scrap
strofoam, straw, old dishes or bowls, never money and still no one will help. I
even had one person suggest that people wouldn't help because I am not affiliated
with a rescue group! Well, that is a catch 22, there is no rescue group down
here. That is the point of my posts, to find help. My reply is simply,If
you can donate or help the cats with needed supplies, just put it out in the
marshland. You don't need me to do it. Just drive down and pitch in.











Sorry to vent, but I am so very frustrated at
people's apathy these days. I just wish someone would care. Thank you for
caring and for listening.





Most Sincerely,





Renee







- Original Message - 





From: Nina 





To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org






Sent: Friday,
December 02, 2005 5:18 PM





Subject: Re: NJ
feral group









Hi Renee,
I've lived outside of Princeton, on Long Beach
Island and in Rockaway
NJ, (near Morristown), but I live in CA now. Your
post nearly brought me to tears. Knowing there are caring souls that can't
turn their back on the sweet innocents gives me hope that the human race is
moving in the right direction! I too care for ferals in my neighborhood
without any support from neighbors, and very little help from rescue
groups. If you find a network who is able to help you will you please
pass on the info? Anytime you want to talk to someone about ferals,
please feel free to email me directly. I do remember seeing a feral group
on the internet, have you checked that out yet?
Nina

Renee M. Simon wrote:



Hello, I am trying to find some help for a feral
colony in Cumberland
 County NJ,
some of whom have tested positive. I do not have any idea how many are ill, but
I am not seeing any symptomatic cats.











Can you refer me to anyone who might be willing to
help in NJ? I am simply a homeowner/pet lover who lives here and I can no
longer pretend that I do not see their suffering. I would like to have someone
knowledgable about ferals to teach me how to bring attention to their cause and
find them some help. I have contacted everyone I can think of and have read all
that I can find on the subject. However, how does one person find funding and
supplies to begin to help these cats?











Thank you for your time. Most Sincerely,





Renee Simon












RE: NJ feral group

2005-12-02 Thread Hideyo Yamamoto








Renee, can you research on line to find
any rescue group in NJ (even if you are not close to them physically)? 
if you can hock up with a rescue group with 501C status (non profit), you can
contact Purina and perhaps get a truck load of free food for your kitties.
You dont really need to work with the rescue group, just explain the
rescue group your situation and borrow their status (tax ID) to contact Purina
so that you can be set up as a satellite -



You can call Janet  641-472-4193 in
Iowa  she rescue and feed feral
cats in Iowa
and she gets truck load of cat food from Purina periodically. (tell her that
Lila Williams gave your the number)



Hideyo









From: [EMAIL PROTECTED]
[mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] On
Behalf Of Renee M. Simon
Sent: Friday, December 02, 2005
3:51 PM
To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org
Subject: Re: NJ feral group







Dear Nina, Thank you so much for your kind email. I
am just so sad and have been crying like a fool for 2 days now. It just breaks my
heart about these babies and I have tried so many things to no avail. I have
even asked for help from people on Petfinder. No one is interested. 











I have 2 girls who come everyday at 11am. Sometimes
they bring friends. I am just so very sad. It is a small poor beach community,
so everyone is gone for the winter. I wish I could bring these girls inside and
adopt them, but they seem to feral to me. I don't have high hopes. There are
probably 40 more who need help.











Everyone has great suggestions but they all take
money! I am only one person.I have even simply asked for scrap wood, scrap
strofoam, straw, old dishes or bowls, never money and still no one will help. I
even had one person suggest that people wouldn't help because I am not
affiliated with a rescue group! Well, that is a catch 22, there is no rescue
group down here. That is the point of my posts, to find help. My reply is
simply,If you can donate or help the cats with needed supplies, just put
it out in the marshland. You don't need me to do it. Just drive down and pitch
in.











Sorry to vent, but I am so very frustrated at
people's apathy these days. I just wish someone would care. Thank you for
caring and for listening.





Most Sincerely,





Renee







- Original Message - 





From: Nina 





To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org






Sent: Friday,
December 02, 2005 5:18 PM





Subject: Re: NJ
feral group









Hi Renee,
I've lived outside of Princeton, on Long Beach
Island and in Rockaway
NJ, (near Morristown), but I live in CA now. Your
post nearly brought me to tears. Knowing there are caring souls that
can't turn their back on the sweet innocents gives me hope that the human race
is moving in the right direction! I too care for ferals in my
neighborhood without any support from neighbors, and very little help from
rescue groups. If you find a network who is able to help you will you
please pass on the info? Anytime you want to talk to someone about
ferals, please feel free to email me directly. I do remember seeing a
feral group on the internet, have you checked that out yet?
Nina

Renee M. Simon wrote:





Hello, I am trying to find some help for a feral
colony in Cumberland
 County NJ,
some of whom have tested positive. I do not have any idea how many are ill, but
I am not seeing any symptomatic cats.











Can you refer me to anyone who might be willing to
help in NJ? I am simply a homeowner/pet lover who lives here and I can no
longer pretend that I do not see their suffering. I would like to have someone
knowledgable about ferals to teach me how to bring attention to their cause and
find them some help. I have contacted everyone I can think of and have read all
that I can find on the subject. However, how does one person find funding and
supplies to begin to help these cats?











Thank you for your time. Most Sincerely,





Renee Simon












RE: NJ feral group

2005-12-02 Thread Hideyo Yamamoto








Hi, Renee, if you ever decide to adopt
Emma in let me know  I can show you how to tame Emma  about 90%
of the cats I have are feral, or at least used to be feral cats  and I
have adopted all in my house over the course of years  its
amazing how feral cat can adopted into our lives and adjust well. They all
love being inside and dont show any interests of going outside (and I
have a few dozens of them)  and if you are going to have her spay in
near future, you can have her test at the same time, so that you can decide
whether you can take her in or not (though through my experience, its
hard for me to release back positives because of their conditions. But I feel
like she has a good chance that she is negative for some reason.



Please dont get discouraged 
I know how you feel, besides the ones I have in my house, I also go around feed
about 50 feral in different colonies and I get overwhelmed and depressed very
often, wishing that I could do more for them but I am just taking one
day at a time, and do the best I can for them.. and you are doing the same.



Love,



Hideyo















From: [EMAIL PROTECTED]
[mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] On
Behalf Of Renee M. Simon
Sent: Friday, December 02, 2005
5:27 PM
To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org
Subject: Re: NJ feral group







Oh Nina, Thank you, thank you, thank you! YOU HAVE
BEEN MY ANGEL TODAY. i was feeling so frustrated and your words really soothed
my soul. I completely believe that the angels send certain kitties my way. Last
summer a feral close to death arrived on my doorstep. After vetting and
testing, wetook him in. He is sleeping next to me now. I found him
collapsed on the grave of my beloved Miss Kitty.











I really loved your ideas about shelter. I think I
will open my crawl space tomorrow. I can't believe I didn't think of that! And
this is farm land, so free pallets are always around! Maybe my hubby could get
some heavy totes from work and we can use them. See, all I had to do was ask
and wonderful help arrived. I cannot thank you enough! you have just eased my
mind tremendously. At least I have a good start and something constructive to
do tommorrow for Emma and Abby, as well as the others who live in the marsh.











Three days ago, someone who was feeding one all
summer decided to take him to the vet in hopes of adopting him. He tested
positive, but was asymptomatic. I do not know if they kept him or pts. My boy
Jasper was tested twice and was negative, so we were lucky. I currently have 4
cats and 2 dogs. I have over 3000sq ft so they all have their own places. My
hope was to bring Emma into the house, but she seems to feral to me and I am
not sure she would make the transition.She is about 2 yrs old I think. I don't
know if she is positive or not and I don't have a room to keep her isolated
safely. I am waiting for divine inspiration on that one!





I am also going to write to my local newspapers and
see if they can help,maybe an article? I will also post an ad to see if anyone
can donate supplies. It is a start. I have lived here for 7 yrs. I am not sure
why I felt compelled to do something now and not earlier. All I can do is my
best. Emma really stole my heart. I really feel a connection to her. I pray for
her every night and during the day I try to learn how to help and what else I
need to learn. Low cost spay here is running about $75 a cat, which is hard for
me to manage for more than a few. And certainly not for 30- 40.











Thanks so much for being my angel today. I went from
tears to really feeling like it is not hopeless. I appreciate the kindness you
have shown me. Have a wonderful night! Renee







- Original Message - 





From: Nina 





To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org






Sent: Friday,
December 02, 2005 6:58 PM





Subject: Re: NJ
feral group









Renee,
I've sent you a couple of emails off-list. Are you getting them?
Nina

Renee M. Simon wrote:





Thank you so much for your kindness. The going was
tough the last 2 days and my tears have been many. We are a small beach
community and today the winds have been 60mph with lots of flooding. I haven't
seen any of the cats today and I wish they were warm and dry. It makes me sad
to think that I cannot find help for them anywhere. Your kindness has helped a
great deal. All my Best, Renee












Re: NJ feral group

2005-12-02 Thread Renee M. Simon



Thank you so much! I would love to take in Emma. I 
took in a feral last summer and he was a piece of cake. He was cllose to death, 
so he took well to being in the house. Emma trusts me but is SO afraid. She 
would never come near me. But she sees me in the window, and she eats,grooms and 
suns herself. She has adopted me. I think my heart is bleeding because I care 
for this one so much and she seems so untouchable.

I have 4 cats and 2 dogs. Would she endanger my 
cats if she was positive? She looks so healthy, but who knows. I have read that 
testing twice is good to do and that ELISA can give false positives. Any 
thoughts?

How can I get Emma used to me? I have done all that 
I know: No direct eye contact, blink, head turned, kneel or crouch,lay 
down,speak slowly and softly. move slowly. I had a great suggestion to open my 
crawl space. I will do that tomorrow and see if she will live in there where I 
can get her to trust me. I do not want to trap her, terrify her,spay her and 
force her indoors without her trusting me. That is not my way. I believe in 
respecting what they are showing you.

Sorry so long. I would love any ideas for helping 
me get Emma indoors eventually. As well as any ideas about how to help the many 
others who need a voice.
Thanks again. Renee

  - Original Message - 
  From: 
  Hideyo Yamamoto 
  To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org 
  
  Sent: Friday, December 02, 2005 7:44 
  PM
  Subject: RE: NJ feral group
  
  
  Hi, Renee, if you 
  ever decide to adopt Emma in let me know – I can show you how to tame Emma – 
  about 90% of the cats I have are feral, or at least used to be feral 
  cats – and I have adopted all in my house over the course of years – 
  it’s amazing how feral cat can adopted into our lives and adjust well. 
  They all love being inside and don’t show any interests of going outside (and 
  I have a few dozens of them) – and if you are going to have her spay in 
  near future, you can have her test at the same time, so that you can decide 
  whether you can take her in or not (though through my experience, it’s hard 
  for me to release back positives because of their conditions. But I feel 
  like she has a good chance that she is negative for some 
  reason.
  
  Please don’t get 
  discouraged – I know how you feel, besides the ones I have in my house, I also 
  go around feed about 50 feral in different colonies and I get overwhelmed and 
  depressed very often, wishing that I could do more for them… but I am just 
  taking one day at a time, and do the best I can for them.. and you are doing 
  the same.
  
  Love,
  
  Hideyo
  
  
  
  
  
  
  
  From: 
  [EMAIL PROTECTED] 
  [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] On Behalf Of Renee M. SimonSent: Friday, December 02, 2005 5:27 
  PMTo: felvtalk@felineleukemia.orgSubject: Re: NJ feral 
  group
  
  
  Oh Nina, Thank you, thank you, 
  thank you! YOU HAVE BEEN MY ANGEL TODAY. i was feeling so frustrated and your 
  words really soothed my soul. I completely believe that the angels send 
  certain kitties my way. Last summer a feral close to death arrived on my 
  doorstep. After vetting and testing, wetook him in. He is sleeping next 
  to me now. I found him collapsed on the grave of my beloved Miss 
  Kitty.
  
  
  
  I really loved your ideas about 
  shelter. I think I will open my crawl space tomorrow. I can't believe I didn't 
  think of that! And this is farm land, so free pallets are always around! Maybe 
  my hubby could get some heavy totes from work and we can use them. See, all I 
  had to do was ask and wonderful help arrived. I cannot thank you enough! you 
  have just eased my mind tremendously. At least I have a good start and 
  something constructive to do tommorrow for Emma and Abby, as well as the 
  others who live in the marsh.
  
  
  
  Three days ago, someone who was 
  feeding one all summer decided to take him to the vet in hopes of adopting 
  him. He tested positive, but was asymptomatic. I do not know if they kept him 
  or pts. My boy Jasper was tested twice and was negative, so we were lucky. I 
  currently have 4 cats and 2 dogs. I have over 3000sq ft so they all have their 
  own places. My hope was to bring Emma into the house, but she seems to feral 
  to me and I am not sure she would make the transition.She is about 2 yrs old I 
  think. I don't know if she is positive or not and I don't have a room to keep 
  her isolated safely. I am waiting for divine inspiration on that 
  one!
  
  I am also going to write to my 
  local newspapers and see if they can help,maybe an article? I will also post 
  an ad to see if anyone can donate supplies. It is a start. I have lived here 
  for 7 yrs. I am not sure why I felt compelled to do something now and not 
  earlier. All I can do is my best. Emma really stole my heart. I really feel a 
  connection to her. I pray for her every night and during the day I try to 
  learn how to help and what else I need to learn. Low cost

Re: NJ feral group

2005-12-02 Thread PEC2851



In a message dated 12/2/05 7:28:14 P.M. Eastern Standard Time, 
[EMAIL PROTECTED] writes:



Low cost 
  spay here is running about $75 a cat, which is hard for me to manage for more 
  than a few. And certainly not for 30- 40
I'm in south central Pa., right on Mason Dixon Line.

There are a few options here that will do low cost spay/neuter/ vx., and I 
can only speak from what has been done previously, BUT

Since all this is out-of-pocket, I know that one org. will
also test, and fees are reduced in these type of situations.
Typically, it runs approx. $40/spay, worming+ $5/vx. Testing is 
$10-15.
Another vet is $55/spay - includes vxs. worming. I think he also 
charges $15/test.
Neutering w/ worming $30.
Also, they will "tip" ears to make it easier to identify cats already 
done

Anyway, there are groups that come from Delaware shore every month, they 
work solely with ferals. Come down in a van. Drop cats off, and 
return several hour later, pick up cats  drive back.
It's a very long day, especially since cats need to be trapped evening 
before, but it all works out.
Would something like this be possible?
Patti




Re: NJ feral group

2005-12-02 Thread PEC2851




In a message dated 12/2/05 6:07:44 P.M. Eastern Standard Time, 
[EMAIL PROTECTED] writes:

  
  [EMAIL PROTECTED]
  
  You 
  could try contacting the group above and see if it's still activeI used to 
  post quite a lot on it but haven't done so 
recently

Kerry/Renee~
The above group hasn't had any activity for quite some time.
In fact, my last post was bounced back - moderator (John)never read 
it. Hope everything's ok with him, very nice man.
Anyway, there is also -
[EMAIL PROTECTED]However, 
seems like everyone in New Jersey is trying to help ferals... 
Patti



Re: NJ feral group

2005-12-02 Thread PEC2851



Renee,
www.aceofspays.comLow cost 
-southern N.J.
Is this close to you?
Patti



Re: NJ feral group

2005-12-02 Thread Renee M. Simon



Thanks Patti. Yes it seems like there is feral help in NJ but only up 
north.We are very rural here.We are the poorest county in the state and no 
one even thinks twice about these cats. That Delaware group sounds wonderful but 
who pays for all of this? It takes money and right now basics like food aren't 
even being met. It is a daunting task.

  - Original Message - 
  From: 
  [EMAIL PROTECTED] 
  
  To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org 
  
  Sent: Friday, December 02, 2005 8:29 
  PM
  Subject: Re: NJ feral group
  
  
  In a message dated 12/2/05 6:07:44 P.M. Eastern Standard Time, [EMAIL PROTECTED] 
  writes:
  

[EMAIL PROTECTED]

You could try contacting the group above and see if 
it's still activeI used to post quite a lot on it but haven't done so 
recently
  
  Kerry/Renee~
  The above group hasn't had any activity for quite some time.
  In fact, my last post was bounced back - moderator (John)never read 
  it. Hope everything's ok with him, very nice man.
  Anyway, there is also -
  [EMAIL PROTECTED]However, 
  seems like everyone in New Jersey is trying to help ferals... 
  Patti
  


Re: NJ feral group

2005-12-02 Thread PEC2851



Renee,
Oh. I can imagine! Here I am, feeling a bit overwhelmed 'cause of 
the feral/strays here (I recently moved), but it's nowhere near the numbers you 
are dealing with!
I was just "discussing" my group on another listwith 
food,vetting, etc., it is a financial strain on me, and my numbers are 
less. So far, I have not encountered any Felv/FIV positives, but have 
battled with distemper (2 survivors) and a HBC
And I have a spay (nice straycan't believe she ended up on street! Oh 
yeah, that's right, people here DO DUMP their "pets" 
like trash), and a neuter,BIG, BIG TOM, that 
better get his butt in the trap Monday night!) Going in for the 
"works" Tuesday, fingers crossed that both are negative.
(Thank god money grows on trees here in Pa. NOT!)

The Delaware group is actually two women that have been tending these feral 
colonies for years! They also do all out-of-pocket, low cost program here 
even cuts cost down for them.
I know some clinic nights they seem to arrive on barely more than a wing 
and a prayer.

We are also getting hammered with very cold and windy weather. But, 
it is that time. I am also going to be working this weekend "fixing up" my 
shelters. Just wish I could do more...

I can feel for you concerning Emma. This summer a feral mom and her 
kittens were dumped under a neighbors' bush in a boxMom escaped, I reared 
the 2 boys. I did trap mom, named her Charity, had her spayed, tested and 
then kept her in the barn hoping to be able to socialize her. (I ended up 
in hospital from bites when I trapped her. My fault, not 
her's. I'd bite a human after being stuffed in a box and thrown 
out!)
We made some progress, she let me stroke her with her "plume". But 
she was miserable being confined. And one day, she got out and took 
off. I was going to re-trap her, but clearly, she was very unhappy 
confined.She was gone for many weeks, and she has come back. So, at least 
I know she has a warm, dry place  food. But, I still worry. 
Especially seeing fatalities around herebusy roads.

Hopefully you will have good luck with Emma. And, turn to Hideyo - 
she is the list's expert on ferals, and much more. She is a wonderful, wise and 
compassionate woman. She will help you out any way she can.
She gave you a good tip with the Purina info. Worth a try, huh?

Wishing you all the best,
Patti



Re: NJ feral group

2005-12-02 Thread Renee M. Simon



Hi Patti, yes it's definately worth a try with the Purina. Yeah, we have a 
violent tom cat here and most of us would like to see him pts. He is a wiley 
beast though. I have never met a mean one besides him. Most are too scared and 
hungry to be mean. Oh yeah!! Dumping pets? That's how all of this came to be 
form what I hear. People leave after the summer and they leave these cats 
behind. Or better yet, when they have kittens in nearby towns, they dump them 
here because who would notice right? Well, it stinks,IMO.
I am so happy to have found this group. I have learned more here in 
one day than I have for 8 months on Petfinder. So much attitude, judgment and 
criticism there. It can be counterproductive. Thanks again! Renee

  - Original Message - 
  From: 
  [EMAIL PROTECTED] 
  
  To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org 
  
  Sent: Friday, December 02, 2005 9:07 
  PM
  Subject: Re: NJ feral group
  
  Renee,
  Oh. I can imagine! Here I am, feeling a bit overwhelmed 'cause 
  of the feral/strays here (I recently moved), but it's nowhere near the numbers 
  you are dealing with!
  I was just "discussing" my group on another listwith 
  food,vetting, etc., it is a financial strain on me, and my numbers are 
  less. So far, I have not encountered any Felv/FIV positives, but have 
  battled with distemper (2 survivors) and a HBC
  And I have a spay (nice straycan't believe she ended up on street! Oh 
  yeah, that's right, people here DO DUMP their "pets" 
  like trash), and a neuter,BIG, BIG TOM, that 
  better get his butt in the trap Monday night!) Going in for the 
  "works" Tuesday, fingers crossed that both are negative.
  (Thank god money grows on trees here in Pa. NOT!)
  
  The Delaware group is actually two women that have been tending these 
  feral colonies for years! They also do all out-of-pocket, low cost 
  program here even cuts cost down for them.
  I know some clinic nights they seem to arrive on barely more than a wing 
  and a prayer.
  
  We are also getting hammered with very cold and windy weather. But, 
  it is that time. I am also going to be working this weekend "fixing up" 
  my shelters. Just wish I could do more...
  
  I can feel for you concerning Emma. This summer a feral mom and her 
  kittens were dumped under a neighbors' bush in a boxMom escaped, I reared 
  the 2 boys. I did trap mom, named her Charity, had her spayed, tested 
  and then kept her in the barn hoping to be able to socialize her. (I 
  ended up in hospital from bites when I trapped her. My fault, 
  not her's. I'd bite a human after being stuffed in a 
  box and thrown out!)
  We made some progress, she let me stroke her with her "plume". But 
  she was miserable being confined. And one day, she got out and took 
  off. I was going to re-trap her, but clearly, she was very unhappy 
  confined.She was gone for many weeks, and she has come back. So, at 
  least I know she has a warm, dry place  food. But, I still worry. 
  Especially seeing fatalities around herebusy roads.
  
  Hopefully you will have good luck with Emma. And, turn to Hideyo - 
  she is the list's expert on ferals, and much more. She is a wonderful, wise 
  and compassionate woman. She will help you out any way she can.
  She gave you a good tip with the Purina info. Worth a try, 
  huh?
  
  Wishing you all the best,
  Patti
  


Re: NJ feral group

2005-12-02 Thread PEC2851



This tattered tom is one very "savvy" boy.
First time I trapped him, he just sat back, let me stroke his head thru 
trap. and I am thinking, "He's not bad at all..."
Well, in attempting to transfer from trap to carrier, he showed his stuff! 

He must've knew I was wearing gloves, so he dove right into my stomach - 
bit thru SS and long-johns! Ouch!
This time, he will remain in trap.
I can be savvy too, Big Boy! 
Patti



Re: NJ feral group

2005-12-02 Thread Renee M. Simon



That's why I am afraid of trapping them. I don't know what the heck to do 
and i don't want to hurt them or me in the process! Hey, their survival instinct 
kept them alive this long and now we have done the one thing they have been 
trying to avoid all of their lives! Yup, I'd bite ans claw too! I call this guy 
Cujo. He just is. Huge, nasty and all torn up. Nasty cat. He almost killed my 
feral Jasper before we brought him inside. If I hadn't been there with a broom, 
he would have been dead. Jasper was so weak and sick he couldn't even stand. He 
was literally a skeleton, and this guy wanted his food.

  - Original Message - 
  From: 
  [EMAIL PROTECTED] 
  
  To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org 
  
  Sent: Friday, December 02, 2005 9:54 
  PM
  Subject: Re: NJ feral group
  
  This tattered tom is one very "savvy" boy.
  First time I trapped him, he just sat back, let me stroke his head thru 
  trap. and I am thinking, "He's not bad at all..."
  Well, in attempting to transfer from trap to carrier, he showed his 
  stuff! 
  He must've knew I was wearing gloves, so he dove right into my stomach - 
  bit thru SS and long-johns! Ouch!
  This time, he will remain in trap.
  I can be savvy too, Big Boy! 
  Patti
  


Re: NJ feral group

2005-12-02 Thread PEC2851



Can you just trap Cujo prior to neutering, and then just leave him in 
trap. Vet can anesthesize him in trap, and then place him in carrier while 
he's still under, after surgery?
That's what I am doing this time with "Black Bart" ~ (not too original, but 
they all deserve names.)
Patti



Re: NJ feral group

2005-12-02 Thread Renee M. Simon



I haven't even approached the neutering aspect yet. I am tapped out just 
feeding everyone. I would need some help down here for other things to be done. 
Heck, I need help with feeding them. There are many hungry cold cats here, and I 
am only one person without a trust fund or a rich husband! In fact my hubby 
kindly worked an extra day this week just for feral food. We do what we 
can.Black Bart...that's cute.

  - Original Message - 
  From: 
  [EMAIL PROTECTED] 
  
  To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org 
  
  Sent: Friday, December 02, 2005 10:10 
  PM
  Subject: Re: NJ feral group
  
  Can you just trap Cujo prior to neutering, and then just leave him in 
  trap. Vet can anesthesize him in trap, and then place him in carrier 
  while he's still under, after surgery?
  That's what I am doing this time with "Black Bart" ~ (not too original, 
  but they all deserve names.)
  Patti
  


Re: NJ feral group

2005-12-02 Thread PEC2851




In a message dated 12/2/05 10:21:23 P.M. Eastern Standard Time, 
[EMAIL PROTECTED] writes:
I am 
  only one person without a trust fund or a rich husband! In fact my hubby 
  kindly worked an extra day this week just for feral food. 


Renee~
Yeah, no trust fund or rich husband here either. In fact, no husband, 
period.
Seems to me you are fortunate to have a partner willing to help 
(financially, anyway) take care of the ferals.
It's tough. I spend more money feeding all the critters here, (my 4 
dogs, 5 cats, PLUS 5 "foster" cats  the ferals), than I do on myself!
"Live simply, so others may simply live."
Words I do live by
Patti



Re: NJ feral group

2005-12-02 Thread Renee M. Simon



Live simply, so others may simply live!! I love that! Yes, I believe that 
is something I will put somewhere where I can see it everyday.I am going to have 
to get creative with feeding them. Lately I have been adding in rice and pasta 
to help beef up their body weight. They love the wet food, but sometimes I worry 
that it is too rich/oily for their tender systems. I am also going to list a 
bunch of stuff on ebay, maybe that will help. I have to post flyers to see if 
people will donate food. I will print some up tomorrow, if this fever ever goes 
away and I begin to feel human and mobile again! LOL

  - Original Message - 
  From: 
  [EMAIL PROTECTED] 
  
  To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org 
  
  Sent: Friday, December 02, 2005 10:27 
  PM
  Subject: Re: NJ feral group
  
  
  In a message dated 12/2/05 10:21:23 P.M. Eastern Standard Time, [EMAIL PROTECTED] 
writes:
  I am 
only one person without a trust fund or a rich husband! In fact my hubby 
kindly worked an extra day this week just for feral food. 
  
  
  Renee~
  Yeah, no trust fund or rich husband here either. In fact, no 
  husband, period.
  Seems to me you are fortunate to have a partner willing to help 
  (financially, anyway) take care of the ferals.
  It's tough. I spend more money feeding all the critters here, (my 4 
  dogs, 5 cats, PLUS 5 "foster" cats  the ferals), than I do on 
  myself!
  "Live simply, so others may simply live."
  Words I do live by
  Patti
  


Re: NJ feral group

2005-12-02 Thread felv



Lately I have been adding in rice and pasta to 
help beef up their body weight. 

Actually, by doing that, you are doing exactly the opposite of what you 
intend to do. Cats are carnivores, and do not get hardly any benefit from 
carbohydrates, they are built to run on animal derived FAT and PROTEIN. You 
would be better off adding MORE fat to their food than pasta and rice. Any meat 
trimmings you might get when you prepare your own food, like the skin off 
chicken, or the fat trimmed offsteaks would be of benefit to the cats. A 
little bacon grease stirred into the food would boost the fat content and help 
too, but don't add too much or they may end up with diarrhea. Make sure that if 
you give them any kind of pork fat or meat, that it is WELL cooked, because pigs 
carry tritrichimonsis, and it is highly contagious to cats (and humans). You 
don't need to cook beef or chicken before feeding that. In addition, feeding 
pasta and rice to cats will cause taurine deficiency, which leads to blindness 
in cats. A little is OK, but it's not something you want to regularly use to 
dilute the cat food to make it go further.
Jennhttp://ucat.ushttp://ucat.us/domesticcatlinks.htmlAdopt 
a cat from UCAT rescue:http://ucat.us/adopt.html Adopt a 
FIV+ cat: http://ucat.us/AWrescue/FIV/Adopt a 
FELV+ cat:http://ucat.us/FELVadopt.html~~~I 
collect KMR kitten formula labels for Bazil, a 3 yr old special needs cat who 
must live on a liquid diet for the rest of his life.Bazil's caretaker 
collects labels and sends them to KMR, where they add up until she earns a free 
can of formula!PLEASE save your KMR kitten formula labels for Bazil!If 
you use KMR, even just one can, please email me for the NEW address to send them 
to!~Does 
your cat have chronic diarrhea that does not respond to treatment, or has your 
cat been loosely diagnosed as IBD? Have you tested for Tritrichomonosis? The 
test is new, the new drug makes it curable. Ask me today how you can test 
for Trich!
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Re: NJ feral group (NJ feral groups that might help you)

2005-12-02 Thread felv



http://www.nj-ara.org/ferals/ferals.html(NJ)

http://www.neighborhoodcats.org/(NY)

http://www.alleycat.org/wheretnr.html#nj(NJ 
- alley cat allies working with partners in NJ)

http://www.care4strays.org/index.html(NJ)

http://www.petfinder.org/shelters/NJ187.html(NJ 
- TNR info lower down on page)

http://www.njferals.org/(NJ)

http://www.grdodge.org/woa_main.htm(NJ 
animal welfare funding/grants)

http://www.whiskersrescue.org/(NJ)

http://www.state.nj.us/health/cd/spayneut.htm(NJ 
- low cost spay/neuter for low income people)

http://members.petfinder.org/~NJ44/HOME.html(NJ 
- local spca, no feral help shown on site, but maybe they could refer you to 
someone local)

http://www.nj.com/living/ledger/index.ssf?/base/living-0/113186142498600.xmlcoll=1(write 
to this NJ newspaper, tell them your story, it may help. Write to the other 
feral caretakers listed in it, ask them for advice/help. FYI, I have offered to 
take a number of the cemetery ferals this article refers to)

http://www.petfinder.com/shelters/carolscats.html(NJ)

I could do this all night, and find hundreds for you... try these, if they 
can't help you, go to http://google.com and 
search Feral Cat NJ, and you'll come across all these and more. I'm tired and 
going to bed.
Jennhttp://ucat.ushttp://ucat.us/domesticcatlinks.htmlAdopt 
a cat from UCAT rescue:http://ucat.us/adopt.html Adopt a 
FIV+ cat: http://ucat.us/AWrescue/FIV/Adopt a 
FELV+ cat:http://ucat.us/FELVadopt.html~~~I 
collect KMR kitten formula labels for Bazil, a 3 yr old special needs cat who 
must live on a liquid diet for the rest of his life.Bazil's caretaker 
collects labels and sends them to KMR, where they add up until she earns a free 
can of formula!PLEASE save your KMR kitten formula labels for Bazil!If 
you use KMR, even just one can, please email me for the NEW address to send them 
to!~Does 
your cat have chronic diarrhea that does not respond to treatment, or has your 
cat been loosely diagnosed as IBD? Have you tested for Tritrichomonosis? The 
test is new, the new drug makes it curable. Ask me today how you can test 
for Trich!
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