Re: Killing cats who pee on RUGS*****

2007-05-31 Thread Taylor Scobie Humphrey
Way.  Do you use white or apple cider vinegar?  I didn't know you  
could use that!  How do you use it?  (Duh.)


Consciousness is Causal
 and Physicality is its
 Manifestation.


On May 30, 2007, at 8:34 AM, Stray Cat Alliance wrote:

I purchased Feliway, spent a lot of money, and it really didn't  
help. I guess one possible, albeit monetary only, comfort is --  
vinegar is way cheaper!


From: [EMAIL PROTECTED]
Subject: Re: Killing cats who pee on RUGS*
Date: Tue, 29 May 2007 17:47:29 -0500
To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org

Feliway to the rescue!  www.RevivalAnimal.com has a great price on  
all Feliway stuff.


Consciousness is Causal
 and Physicality is its
 Manifestation.


On May 29, 2007, at 10:07 AM, Pam Norman wrote:

Anita, that sounds more like spraying to me  a direct reaction to  
the newcomers. Very common. In time hopefully it will decrease. I  
had to deal with it too for years. My piano was ruined  needs  
total refinishing. But that can be done at some point. I can't  
cuddle my piano  love it  feel its warmth against my back in bed  
on cold winter nights.


Stray Cat Alliance wrote:
Ever since we added 2 kittens to our household last July (they were  
initially fosters but due to illness and other issues we ended up  
keeping them), our cat Stinky (how appropro) has been peeing  
everywhere. Thank goodness we have only one area rug -- which of  
course, he does not pee on. He pees on vertical surfaces such as  
furniture like the stereo stand, walls, in front of the front and  
basement doors. Ugh. Our house smells like vinegar and the  
furniture is ruined. My husband keeps saying, we have to get rid  
of Stinky. I'm like -- I don't think so. We'll just have to deal  
with it. He is at least 7 years old and hopefully if we ever get to  
move to a bigger house, it will stop.

 Anita


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RE: Killing cats who pee on RUGS*****

2007-05-30 Thread Stray Cat Alliance
I purchased Feliway, spent a lot of money, and it really didn't help. I guess 
one possible, albeit monetary only, comfort is -- vinegar is way cheaper!
 


From: [EMAIL PROTECTED]: Re: Killing cats who pee on RUGS*Date: Tue, 29 May 
2007 17:47:29 -0500To: [EMAIL PROTECTED] to the rescue!  www.RevivalAnimal.com 
has a great price on all Feliway stuff. 


Consciousness is Causal 
 and Physicality is its
 Manifestation.

On May 29, 2007, at 10:07 AM, Pam Norman wrote:

Anita, that sounds more like spraying to me  a direct reaction to the 
newcomers. Very common. In time hopefully it will decrease. I had to deal with 
it too for years. My piano was ruined  needs total refinishing.  But that can 
be done at some point. I can't cuddle my piano  love it  feel its warmth 
against my back in bed on cold winter nights.

Stray Cat Alliance wrote:

Ever since we added 2 kittens to our household last July (they were initially 
fosters but due to illness and other issues we ended up keeping them), our cat 
Stinky (how appropro) has been peeing everywhere. Thank goodness we have only 
one area rug -- which of course, he does not pee on. He pees on vertical 
surfaces such as furniture like the stereo stand, walls, in front of the front 
and basement doors. Ugh. Our house smells like vinegar and the furniture is 
ruined. My husband keeps saying, we have to get rid of Stinky. I'm like -- I 
don't think so. We'll just have to deal with it. He is at least 7 years old and 
hopefully if we ever get to move to a bigger house, it will stop.
 Anita
 

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Re: Killing cats who pee on RUGS*****

2007-05-30 Thread Kelley Saveika

On 5/29/07, Melissa Lind [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:


However, now I'm quite frightened about Best Friends. I'm going to write to
my contact there about this.

Melissa


Melissa,

I understand your fear, but I *personally* would not be concerned.
That forum is on the Best Friends Network, which is provided by them
as a service and is not their official stance on anything.  There is
a disclaimer - Content is posted freely by website members and may or
may not reflect the opinions, goals, or mission of BFAS.  It is
largely volunteer run (I know the volunteer who edits the Texas
community) and there may be a rogue moderator.  Certainly I don't
think it has a thing to do with how they take care of their animals.

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RE: Killing cats who pee on RUGS*****

2007-05-30 Thread Melissa Lind
Yes, I agree now. I was concerned last night, but now that I think about it,
one person in such a large organization as BF certainly does not represent
the whole; although, I think they should do their best to obtain moderators
who espouse their beliefs, but it doesn't always work that way! 

Melissa

-Original Message-
From: [EMAIL PROTECTED]
[mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] On Behalf Of Pam Norman
Sent: Wednesday, May 30, 2007 8:47 AM
To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org
Subject: Re: Killing cats who pee on RUGS*

This is a good point  I wouldn't abandon BF just because of some 
moderator's comments. Altho Marion Hale has been there a LONG time. I 
don't know about Gina, but Marion has been there at LEAST 10 years. And 
NEVER been to the sanctuary!  I think to be a moderator that should be 
mandatory!



Kelley Saveika wrote:
 On 5/29/07, Melissa Lind [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 However, now I'm quite frightened about Best Friends. I'm going to 
 write to
 my contact there about this.

 Melissa

 Melissa,

 I understand your fear, but I *personally* would not be concerned.
 That forum is on the Best Friends Network, which is provided by them
 as a service and is not their official stance on anything.  There is
 a disclaimer - Content is posted freely by website members and may or
 may not reflect the opinions, goals, or mission of BFAS.  It is
 largely volunteer run (I know the volunteer who edits the Texas
 community) and there may be a rogue moderator.  Certainly I don't
 think it has a thing to do with how they take care of their animals.








RE: Killing cats who pee on RUGS*****

2007-05-30 Thread Kelly L

At 07:41 AM 5/30/2007, you wrote:


Best Friends does wonderful things!!! Marion said she had attended 
meetings there. many people have left the forum because of Marion.  I 
have their letters...

Kelly



Yes, I agree now. I was concerned last night, but now that I think about it,
one person in such a large organization as BF certainly does not represent
the whole; although, I think they should do their best to obtain moderators
who espouse their beliefs, but it doesn't always work that way!

Melissa

-Original Message-
From: [EMAIL PROTECTED]
[mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] On Behalf Of Pam Norman
Sent: Wednesday, May 30, 2007 8:47 AM
To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org
Subject: Re: Killing cats who pee on RUGS*

This is a good point  I wouldn't abandon BF just because of some
moderator's comments. Altho Marion Hale has been there a LONG time. I
don't know about Gina, but Marion has been there at LEAST 10 years. And
NEVER been to the sanctuary!  I think to be a moderator that should be
mandatory!



Kelley Saveika wrote:
 On 5/29/07, Melissa Lind [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 However, now I'm quite frightened about Best Friends. I'm going to
 write to
 my contact there about this.

 Melissa

 Melissa,

 I understand your fear, but I *personally* would not be concerned.
 That forum is on the Best Friends Network, which is provided by them
 as a service and is not their official stance on anything.  There is
 a disclaimer - Content is posted freely by website members and may or
 may not reflect the opinions, goals, or mission of BFAS.  It is
 largely volunteer run (I know the volunteer who edits the Texas
 community) and there may be a rogue moderator.  Certainly I don't
 think it has a thing to do with how they take care of their animals.








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Re: Killing cats who pee on RUGS*****

2007-05-29 Thread Belinda

Seeing how money is the number one priority there (in my opinion), I agree.


Those moderators didn't want to lose any potential funding, in my opinion.


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Re: Killing cats who pee on RUGS*****

2007-05-29 Thread Jenna
Thats horrible! I hate to hear of people putting down or giving up pets because 
of new wives, girlfriends, boyfriends- whatever- when I was dating it was like- 
no- it is a package deal- me and my furchildren- take me as I am or leave 
meespecially since I fought so hard to keep Satine alive. 
   
  on the other side of things- my husband and I saved a kitty and she is now 
part of the family- I named her Carrie Bradshaw from sex and the city as she 
has wild full hair like the main character- she is a maine coon cat. My dogs 
who I was worried about, love her- they smell her butt and my tibetian terrier 
mix I have found kissing her. We got her from a shelter here- I suspect that 
whoever gave her up before we got her might have been abusive- as she shys away 
from getting touched in the face- and the vet said they found a broken tooth on 
her- but she is having a wonderful time now- she loves my husband and I tease 
him and say that he is mr.big- she insists on getting in his office and into 
his heart. He closed the office door and she put her paw under the door- and 
wiggles it meowing, demanding to be with him- it is very cute.
   Shes not satine, and I do miss satine- but it feels natural to have a kitty 
again ^_^
  

Marylyn [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:
  A friend killed a 17 year old cat (?) he rescued when he was in college 
because he had a new wife, new stepdaughter, new house + and the cat was 
peeing on the carpet. I went home and tore up all the carpet. The only 
saving grace is that Gus would not have had almost 17 years of care had my 
friend not rescued him. I decided then that there would not be anything on 
the floors that was more valuable than my 4-legged friends.






If you have men who will 
exclude any of God's creatures
from the shelter of 
compassion and pity, you will have men who
will deal likewise with 
their fellow man.
St. 
Francis
- Original Message - 
From: Kelly L 
To: 
Sent: Monday, May 28, 2007 3:17 PM
Subject: Killing cats who pee on RUGS*


 At 12:59 PM 5/28/2007, you wrote:


 I find this conversation quite timely...You see I have just withdrawn my 
 long time support of Best Friends because of something similar, I have 
 been member and volunteer with them for almost 10 years.
 they have grown which is good.
 Well on their prayers and healing forum someone posted asking for prayers 
 and support for their co worker because they were sad at deciding to have 
 their cat PTS ,,killed because she keeps peeing on the carpet,..
 I replied that I could not give support to such an act and then other 
 members agreed...our posts were pulled and only the ones comforting this 
 person were left, i received another demeaning letter from the 
 moderator,,,
 this is not the first incident of that kind, but this one was the final 
 STraw
 Best Friends does wonderful things, but I am no longer comfortable with 
 may of theri policies at this time,
 Now I better go mop up pee ...after I get my shoes on of course.(lol)




Sigh. I just got through battling with my pee entrenched dryer again.
Nothing seems to be helping, I feel your pain sister. Nina

Susan Hoffman wrote:
This morning when I headed into the kitchen to feed everyone, I removed 
what I thought was a clean frying pan from the stivetop -- 
I use the stove as a stagingt area to get all the plates of canned 
catfood ready -- and put the frying pan upside down in the dish drainer. 
Someone had peed in the frying pan overnight and I wound up pouring cat 
pee all over the clean dishes in the drainer.

One more morning like this and I'm going to make myself a cup of strong 
coffee before anyone gets a morsel of food.




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RE: Killing cats who pee on RUGS*****

2007-05-29 Thread Stray Cat Alliance
Ever since we added 2 kittens to our household last July (they were initially 
fosters but due to illness and other issues we ended up keeping them), our cat 
Stinky (how appropro) has been peeing everywhere. Thank goodness we have only 
one area rug -- which of course, he does not pee on. He pees on vertical 
surfaces such as furniture like the stereo stand, walls, in front of the front 
and basement doors. Ugh. Our house smells like vinegar and the furniture is 
ruined. My husband keeps saying, we have to get rid of Stinky. I'm like -- I 
don't think so. We'll just have to deal with it. He is at least 7 years old and 
hopefully if we ever get to move to a bigger house, it will stop.
 
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Re: Killing cats who pee on RUGS*****

2007-05-29 Thread wendy
Jenna,

What a wonderful tribute to Satine that you brought
another kitty home to love.  And what a lucky kitty! 
Hoping for many happy and healthy years to come with
your new addition.  And I'm with you...when I was
single, any guy that didn't like my cats was history. 
Package deal, like you said.

:)
Wendy

--- Jenna [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 Thats horrible! I hate to hear of people putting
 down or giving up pets because of new wives,
 girlfriends, boyfriends- whatever- when I was dating
 it was like- no- it is a package deal- me and my
 furchildren- take me as I am or leave
 meespecially since I fought so hard to keep
 Satine alive. 

   on the other side of things- my husband and I
 saved a kitty and she is now part of the family- I
 named her Carrie Bradshaw from sex and the city as
 she has wild full hair like the main character- she
 is a maine coon cat. My dogs who I was worried
 about, love her- they smell her butt and my tibetian
 terrier mix I have found kissing her. We got her
 from a shelter here- I suspect that whoever gave her
 up before we got her might have been abusive- as she
 shys away from getting touched in the face- and the
 vet said they found a broken tooth on her- but she
 is having a wonderful time now- she loves my husband
 and I tease him and say that he is mr.big- she
 insists on getting in his office and into his heart.
 He closed the office door and she put her paw under
 the door- and wiggles it meowing, demanding to be
 with him- it is very cute.
Shes not satine, and I do miss satine- but it
 feels natural to have a kitty again ^_^
   
 
 Marylyn [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:
   A friend killed a 17 year old cat (?) he rescued
 when he was in college 
 because he had a new wife, new stepdaughter, new
 house + and the cat was 
 peeing on the carpet. I went home and tore up all
 the carpet. The only 
 saving grace is that Gus would not have had almost
 17 years of care had my 
 friend not rescued him. I decided then that there
 would not be anything on 
 the floors that was more valuable than my 4-legged
 friends.
 
 
 
 
 
 
 If you have men who will 
 exclude any of God's creatures
 from the shelter of 
 compassion and pity, you will have men who
 will deal likewise with 
 their fellow man.
 St. 
 Francis
 - Original Message - 
 From: Kelly L 
 To: 
 Sent: Monday, May 28, 2007 3:17 PM
 Subject: Killing cats who pee on RUGS*
 
 
  At 12:59 PM 5/28/2007, you wrote:
 
 
  I find this conversation quite timely...You see I
 have just withdrawn my 
  long time support of Best Friends because of
 something similar, I have 
  been member and volunteer with them for almost 10
 years.
  they have grown which is good.
  Well on their prayers and healing forum someone
 posted asking for prayers 
  and support for their co worker because they were
 sad at deciding to have 
  their cat PTS ,,killed because she keeps peeing on
 the carpet,..
  I replied that I could not give support to such an
 act and then other 
  members agreed...our posts were pulled and only
 the ones comforting this 
  person were left, i received another demeaning
 letter from the 
  moderator,,,
  this is not the first incident of that kind, but
 this one was the final 
  STraw
  Best Friends does wonderful things, but I am no
 longer comfortable with 
  may of theri policies at this time,
  Now I better go mop up pee ...after I get my shoes
 on of course.(lol)
 
 
 
 
 Sigh. I just got through battling with my pee
 entrenched dryer again.
 Nothing seems to be helping, I feel your pain
 sister. Nina
 
 Susan Hoffman wrote:
 This morning when I headed into the kitchen to
 feed everyone, I removed 
 what I thought was a clean frying pan from the
 stivetop -- 
 I use the stove as a stagingt area to get all the
 plates of canned 
 catfood ready -- and put the frying pan upside
 down in the dish drainer. 
 Someone had peed in the frying pan overnight and
 I wound up pouring cat 
 pee all over the clean dishes in the drainer.
 
 One more morning like this and I'm going to make
 myself a cup of strong 
 coffee before anyone gets a morsel of food.
 
 
 
 
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Re: Killing cats who pee on RUGS*****

2007-05-29 Thread Pam Norman
Anita, that sounds more like spraying to me  a direct reaction to the 
newcomers. Very common. In time hopefully it will decrease. I had to 
deal with it too for years. My piano was ruined  needs total 
refinishing.  But that can be done at some point. I can't cuddle my 
piano  love it  feel its warmth against my back in bed on cold winter 
nights.


Stray Cat Alliance wrote:
Ever since we added 2 kittens to our household last July (they were 
initially fosters but due to illness and other issues we ended up 
keeping them), our cat Stinky (how appropro) has been peeing 
everywhere. Thank goodness we have only one area rug -- which of 
course, he does not pee on. He pees on vertical surfaces such as 
furniture like the stereo stand, walls, in front of the front and 
basement doors. Ugh. Our house smells like vinegar and the furniture 
is ruined. My husband keeps saying, we have to get rid of Stinky. 
I'm like -- I don't think so. We'll just have to deal with it. He is 
at least 7 years old and hopefully if we ever get to move to a bigger 
house, it will stop.
 
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To Anita: RE: Killing cats who pee on RUGS*****

2007-05-29 Thread wendy
Anita,

Maybe changing his name would help...lol.

;)
Wendy

--- Stray Cat Alliance
[EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 Ever since we added 2 kittens to our household last
 July (they were initially fosters but due to illness
 and other issues we ended up keeping them), our cat
 Stinky (how appropro) has been peeing everywhere.
 Thank goodness we have only one area rug -- which of
 course, he does not pee on. He pees on vertical
 surfaces such as furniture like the stereo stand,
 walls, in front of the front and basement doors.
 Ugh. Our house smells like vinegar and the furniture
 is ruined. My husband keeps saying, we have to get
 rid of Stinky. I'm like -- I don't think so. We'll
 just have to deal with it. He is at least 7 years
 old and hopefully if we ever get to move to a bigger
 house, it will stop.
  
 Anita
  

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Re: To Anita: RE: Killing cats who pee on RUGS*****

2007-05-29 Thread Gloria Lane
Some in our group have had great luck using Elavil for cats that pee  
inappropriately.  I think the way it was done, was to  give it orally  
(or use ear cream) for 2 weeks, then gradually reduce it (like every  
other day) until the behavior showed up again, then administer as  
appropriate (weekly, daily, every two days, etc).


Gloria



On May 29, 2007, at 10:08 AM, wendy wrote:


Anita,

Maybe changing his name would help...lol.

;)
Wendy

--- Stray Cat Alliance
[EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:


Ever since we added 2 kittens to our household last
July (they were initially fosters but due to illness
and other issues we ended up keeping them), our cat
Stinky (how appropro) has been peeing everywhere.
Thank goodness we have only one area rug -- which of
course, he does not pee on. He pees on vertical
surfaces such as furniture like the stereo stand,
walls, in front of the front and basement doors.
Ugh. Our house smells like vinegar and the furniture
is ruined. My husband keeps saying, we have to get
rid of Stinky. I'm like -- I don't think so. We'll
just have to deal with it. He is at least 7 years
old and hopefully if we ever get to move to a bigger
house, it will stop.

Anita



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Re: To Anita: RE: Killing cats who pee on RUGS*****

2007-05-29 Thread Kelley Saveika

I have heard Elavil works well for some.  My Shimmer is on the highest
allowable dose and pees on everything anyway.

On 5/29/07, Gloria Lane [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

Some in our group have had great luck using Elavil for cats that pee
inappropriately.  I think the way it was done, was to  give it orally
(or use ear cream) for 2 weeks, then gradually reduce it (like every
other day) until the behavior showed up again, then administer as
appropriate (weekly, daily, every two days, etc).

Gloria



On May 29, 2007, at 10:08 AM, wendy wrote:

 Anita,

 Maybe changing his name would help...lol.

 ;)
 Wendy

 --- Stray Cat Alliance
 [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 Ever since we added 2 kittens to our household last
 July (they were initially fosters but due to illness
 and other issues we ended up keeping them), our cat
 Stinky (how appropro) has been peeing everywhere.
 Thank goodness we have only one area rug -- which of
 course, he does not pee on. He pees on vertical
 surfaces such as furniture like the stereo stand,
 walls, in front of the front and basement doors.
 Ugh. Our house smells like vinegar and the furniture
 is ruined. My husband keeps saying, we have to get
 rid of Stinky. I'm like -- I don't think so. We'll
 just have to deal with it. He is at least 7 years
 old and hopefully if we ever get to move to a bigger
 house, it will stop.

 Anita


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Re: To Anita: RE: Killing cats who pee on RUGS*****

2007-05-29 Thread Gloria Lane
I've also know some folks use Valium.  One source on the internet  
praised Prosac.  I don't know much about it from personal experience.


Gloria



On May 29, 2007, at 10:28 AM, Kelley Saveika wrote:


I have heard Elavil works well for some.  My Shimmer is on the highest
allowable dose and pees on everything anyway.

On 5/29/07, Gloria Lane [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

Some in our group have had great luck using Elavil for cats that pee
inappropriately.  I think the way it was done, was to  give it orally
(or use ear cream) for 2 weeks, then gradually reduce it (like every
other day) until the behavior showed up again, then administer as
appropriate (weekly, daily, every two days, etc).

Gloria



On May 29, 2007, at 10:08 AM, wendy wrote:

 Anita,

 Maybe changing his name would help...lol.

 ;)
 Wendy

 --- Stray Cat Alliance
 [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 Ever since we added 2 kittens to our household last
 July (they were initially fosters but due to illness
 and other issues we ended up keeping them), our cat
 Stinky (how appropro) has been peeing everywhere.
 Thank goodness we have only one area rug -- which of
 course, he does not pee on. He pees on vertical
 surfaces such as furniture like the stereo stand,
 walls, in front of the front and basement doors.
 Ugh. Our house smells like vinegar and the furniture
 is ruined. My husband keeps saying, we have to get
 rid of Stinky. I'm like -- I don't think so. We'll
 just have to deal with it. He is at least 7 years
 old and hopefully if we ever get to move to a bigger
 house, it will stop.

 Anita


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Re: To Anita: RE: Killing cats who pee on RUGS*****

2007-05-29 Thread Susan Loesch
And also Prozac and Buspar

Gloria Lane [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:  I've also know some folks use Valium. 
One source on the internet 
praised Prosac. I don't know much about it from personal experience.

Gloria



On May 29, 2007, at 10:28 AM, Kelley Saveika wrote:

 I have heard Elavil works well for some. My Shimmer is on the highest
 allowable dose and pees on everything anyway.

 On 5/29/07, Gloria Lane wrote:
 Some in our group have had great luck using Elavil for cats that pee
 inappropriately. I think the way it was done, was to give it orally
 (or use ear cream) for 2 weeks, then gradually reduce it (like every
 other day) until the behavior showed up again, then administer as
 appropriate (weekly, daily, every two days, etc).

 Gloria



 On May 29, 2007, at 10:08 AM, wendy wrote:

  Anita,
 
  Maybe changing his name would help...lol.
 
  ;)
  Wendy
 
  --- Stray Cat Alliance
  wrote:
 
  Ever since we added 2 kittens to our household last
  July (they were initially fosters but due to illness
  and other issues we ended up keeping them), our cat
  Stinky (how appropro) has been peeing everywhere.
  Thank goodness we have only one area rug -- which of
  course, he does not pee on. He pees on vertical
  surfaces such as furniture like the stereo stand,
  walls, in front of the front and basement doors.
  Ugh. Our house smells like vinegar and the furniture
  is ruined. My husband keeps saying, we have to get
  rid of Stinky. I'm like -- I don't think so. We'll
  just have to deal with it. He is at least 7 years
  old and hopefully if we ever get to move to a bigger
  house, it will stop.
 
  Anita
 
 
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RE: Killing cats who pee on RUGS*****

2007-05-29 Thread Melissa Lind
Hi All,

I haven't been able to respond lately since I've been super busy, but I had
to read this pee thread--it hits close to home. Our Bandit started peeing in
the heat vent--only one vent--for no apparent reason. We tried every natural
remedy we could think of to change the behavior. While I agree that they are
doing it on purpose much of the time, I also think that it results from
anxiety oftentimes, not a sense of vengeance or naughtiness or
vindictiveness. Our vet suggested Prozac (fluoxitine). For $6.00 a month,
Bandit receives a half a pill a day, and I'm not kidding--overnight he
stopped peeing in the vent (or on the plastic covering the vent).

I swear by this stuff. It didn't change his attitude or anything that I can
tell--only his reactions to stress. Our vet said we may not ever know what
was stressing him out, but at least now Bandit is back to his old self. Our
vet said that not many people would have kept a cat like him (most would put
him to sleep). That just horrified me.

Then I used some of Bandit's Prozac on Cassidy (the FeLV+ who just went to
Best Friends) to stop his incessant howling at night. He was so sad--crying
all night long--after the Prozac he stopped crying immediately, but it
didn't change his behavior in other ways. He still talked and snuggled and
was just as fun as before.

So, I strongly recommend the Prozac, but I'm not a doctor, and I'm not as
experienced as half of you on this list, but that is my experience so far.
However, now I'm quite frightened about Best Friends. I'm going to write to
my contact there about this.

Melissa

-Original Message-
From: [EMAIL PROTECTED]
[mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] On Behalf Of Gloria Lane
Sent: Tuesday, May 29, 2007 10:31 AM
To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org
Subject: Re: To Anita: RE: Killing cats who pee on RUGS*

I've also know some folks use Valium.  One source on the internet  
praised Prosac.  I don't know much about it from personal experience.

Gloria



On May 29, 2007, at 10:28 AM, Kelley Saveika wrote:

 I have heard Elavil works well for some.  My Shimmer is on the highest
 allowable dose and pees on everything anyway.

 On 5/29/07, Gloria Lane [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:
 Some in our group have had great luck using Elavil for cats that pee
 inappropriately.  I think the way it was done, was to  give it orally
 (or use ear cream) for 2 weeks, then gradually reduce it (like every
 other day) until the behavior showed up again, then administer as
 appropriate (weekly, daily, every two days, etc).

 Gloria



 On May 29, 2007, at 10:08 AM, wendy wrote:

  Anita,
 
  Maybe changing his name would help...lol.
 
  ;)
  Wendy
 
  --- Stray Cat Alliance
  [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:
 
  Ever since we added 2 kittens to our household last
  July (they were initially fosters but due to illness
  and other issues we ended up keeping them), our cat
  Stinky (how appropro) has been peeing everywhere.
  Thank goodness we have only one area rug -- which of
  course, he does not pee on. He pees on vertical
  surfaces such as furniture like the stereo stand,
  walls, in front of the front and basement doors.
  Ugh. Our house smells like vinegar and the furniture
  is ruined. My husband keeps saying, we have to get
  rid of Stinky. I'm like -- I don't think so. We'll
  just have to deal with it. He is at least 7 years
  old and hopefully if we ever get to move to a bigger
  house, it will stop.
 
  Anita
 
 
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Re: Killing cats who pee on RUGS*****

2007-05-29 Thread Pam Norman

Good, I'm glad you are going to write.

Pam

Melissa Lind wrote:

Hi All,

I haven't been able to respond lately since I've been super busy, but I had
to read this pee thread--it hits close to home. Our Bandit started peeing in
the heat vent--only one vent--for no apparent reason. We tried every natural
remedy we could think of to change the behavior. While I agree that they are
doing it on purpose much of the time, I also think that it results from
anxiety oftentimes, not a sense of vengeance or naughtiness or
vindictiveness. Our vet suggested Prozac (fluoxitine). For $6.00 a month,
Bandit receives a half a pill a day, and I'm not kidding--overnight he
stopped peeing in the vent (or on the plastic covering the vent).

I swear by this stuff. It didn't change his attitude or anything that I can
tell--only his reactions to stress. Our vet said we may not ever know what
was stressing him out, but at least now Bandit is back to his old self. Our
vet said that not many people would have kept a cat like him (most would put
him to sleep). That just horrified me.

Then I used some of Bandit's Prozac on Cassidy (the FeLV+ who just went to
Best Friends) to stop his incessant howling at night. He was so sad--crying
all night long--after the Prozac he stopped crying immediately, but it
didn't change his behavior in other ways. He still talked and snuggled and
was just as fun as before.

So, I strongly recommend the Prozac, but I'm not a doctor, and I'm not as
experienced as half of you on this list, but that is my experience so far.
However, now I'm quite frightened about Best Friends. I'm going to write to
my contact there about this.

Melissa

-Original Message-
From: [EMAIL PROTECTED]
[mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] On Behalf Of Gloria Lane
Sent: Tuesday, May 29, 2007 10:31 AM
To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org
Subject: Re: To Anita: RE: Killing cats who pee on RUGS*

I've also know some folks use Valium.  One source on the internet  
praised Prosac.  I don't know much about it from personal experience.


Gloria



On May 29, 2007, at 10:28 AM, Kelley Saveika wrote:

  

I have heard Elavil works well for some.  My Shimmer is on the highest
allowable dose and pees on everything anyway.

On 5/29/07, Gloria Lane [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:


Some in our group have had great luck using Elavil for cats that pee
inappropriately.  I think the way it was done, was to  give it orally
(or use ear cream) for 2 weeks, then gradually reduce it (like every
other day) until the behavior showed up again, then administer as
appropriate (weekly, daily, every two days, etc).

Gloria



On May 29, 2007, at 10:08 AM, wendy wrote:

  

Anita,

Maybe changing his name would help...lol.

;)
Wendy

--- Stray Cat Alliance
[EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:



Ever since we added 2 kittens to our household last
July (they were initially fosters but due to illness
and other issues we ended up keeping them), our cat
Stinky (how appropro) has been peeing everywhere.
Thank goodness we have only one area rug -- which of
course, he does not pee on. He pees on vertical
surfaces such as furniture like the stereo stand,
walls, in front of the front and basement doors.
Ugh. Our house smells like vinegar and the furniture
is ruined. My husband keeps saying, we have to get
rid of Stinky. I'm like -- I don't think so. We'll
just have to deal with it. He is at least 7 years
old and hopefully if we ever get to move to a bigger
house, it will stop.

Anita


  

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Re: Killing cats who pee on RUGS*****

2007-05-29 Thread Kelly L

At 07:09 AM 5/29/2007, you wrote:


Congratulation on your new family member and to the wonderful; butt 
sniffing dogs who have made her welcome,,yeah!!!


Kelly


Thats horrible! I hate to hear of people putting down or giving up 
pets because of new wives, girlfriends, boyfriends- whatever- when I 
was dating it was like- no- it is a package deal- me and my 
furchildren- take me as I am or leave meespecially since I 
fought so hard to keep Satine alive.


on the other side of things- my husband and I saved a kitty and she 
is now part of the family- I named her Carrie Bradshaw from sex and 
the city as she has wild full hair like the main character- she is a 
maine coon cat. My dogs who I was worried about, love her- they 
smell her butt and my tibetian terrier mix I have found kissing her. 
We got her from a shelter here- I suspect that whoever gave her up 
before we got her might have been abusive- as she shys away from 
getting touched in the face- and the vet said they found a broken 
tooth on her- but she is having a wonderful time now- she loves my 
husband and I tease him and say that he is mr.big- she insists on 
getting in his office and into his heart. He closed the office door 
and she put her paw under the door- and wiggles it meowing, 
demanding to be with him- it is very cute.
 Shes not satine, and I do miss satine- but it feels natural to 
have a kitty again ^_^



Marylyn [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:
A friend killed a 17 year old cat (?) he rescued when he was in college
because he had a new wife, new stepdaughter, new house + and the cat was
peeing on the carpet. I went home and tore up all the carpet. The only
saving grace is that Gus would not have had almost 17 years of care had my
friend not rescued him. I decided then that there would not be anything on
the floors that was more valuable than my 4-legged friends.






If you have men who will
exclude any of God's creatures
from the shelter of
compassion and pity, you will have men who
will deal likewise with
their fellow man.
St.
Francis
- Original Message -
From: Kelly L
To:
Sent: Monday, May 28, 2007 3:17 PM
Subject: Killing cats who pee on RUGS*


 At 12:59 PM 5/28/2007, you wrote:


 I find this conversation quite timely...You see I have just withdrawn my
 long time support of Best Friends because of something similar, I have
 been member and volunteer with them for almost 10 years.
 they have grown which is good.
 Well on their prayers and healing forum someone posted asking for prayers
 and support for their co worker because they were sad at deciding to have
 their cat PTS ,,killed because she keeps peeing on the carpet,..
 I replied that I could not give support to such an act and then other
 members agreed...our posts were pulled and only the ones comforting this
 person were left, i received another demeaning letter from the
 moderator,,,
 this is not the first incident of that kind, but this one was the final
 STraw
 Best Friends does wonderful things, but I am no longer comfortable with
 may of theri policies at this time,
 Now I better go mop up pee ...after I get my shoes on of course.(lol)




Sigh. I just got through battling with my pee entrenched dryer again.
Nothing seems to be helping, I feel your pain sister. Nina

Susan Hoffman wrote:
This morning when I headed into the kitchen to feed everyone, I removed
what I thought was a clean frying pan from the stivetop --
I use the stove as a stagingt area to get all the plates of canned
catfood ready -- and put the frying pan upside down in the dish drainer.
Someone had peed in the frying pan overnight and I wound up pouring cat
pee all over the clean dishes in the drainer.

One more morning like this and I'm going to make myself a cup of strong
coffee before anyone gets a morsel of food.




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Re: Killing cats who pee on RUGS*****

2007-05-28 Thread Nina
Well that just wiped the smile from my face.  I was not privy to the 
exchange and have never been to any of the Best Friends forums, but I'm 
assuming that their motive in removing any chastising responses was in 
keeping with an overall effort to maintain the site as a safe place to 
express grief, no matter where the blame of that grief may lie.  I am 
by no means condoning or advocating humans deciding to pts cats because 
of litterbox avoidance, it turns my stomach, the same as it does yours.  
I am just pointing out that perhaps the moderators did not feel that 
this was the proper venue for attempting to educate someone that is 
suffering from their lack of judgement and compassion.  My head too is 
bloody from banging it against the brick walls of those I do my best to 
educate.  I know how frustrating and emotionally devastating it can 
be.  The only way I can continue to reach out to those that, (in my 
eyes), visit atrocities on the helpless is that I know sometimes I do 
get through, sometimes I do make a difference.  Even though they 
sometimes fall short of our expectations, Best Friends is a worthy 
organization that does make a difference.  I hope that when the heat of 
your disappointment dissipates you are able to remain an ally to the 
organization.

Nina

Kelly L wrote:

At 12:59 PM 5/28/2007, you wrote:


I find this conversation quite timely...You see I have just withdrawn 
my long time support of Best Friends because of something similar, I 
have been member and volunteer with them for almost 10 years.

they have grown which is good.
Well on their prayers and healing forum someone posted  asking for 
prayers and support for their co worker  because they were sad at 
deciding to have their cat PTS ,,killed because she keeps peeing on 
the carpet,..
I replied that I could not give support to such an act and then other 
members  agreed...our posts were pulled and only the ones comforting 
this person were left, i received another demeaning letter from the 
moderator,,,
this is not the first incident of that kind, but this one was the 
final STraw
Best Friends does wonderful things, but I am no longer comfortable 
with may of theri policies at this time,

Now I better go mop up pee ...after I get my shoes on of course.(lol)





Sigh.  I just got through battling with my pee entrenched dryer again.
Nothing seems to be helping, I feel your pain sister. Nina

Susan Hoffman wrote:
This morning when I headed into the kitchen to feed everyone, I 
removed what I thought was a clean frying pan from the stivetop -- I 
use the stove as a stagingt area to get all the plates of canned 
catfood ready -- and put the frying pan upside down in the dish 
drainer.  Someone had peed in the frying pan overnight and I wound 
up pouring cat pee all over the clean dishes in the drainer.


One more morning like this and I'm going to make myself a cup of 
strong coffee before anyone gets a morsel of food.





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Re: Killing cats who pee on RUGS*****

2007-05-28 Thread Marylyn
A friend killed a 17 year old cat (?) he rescued when he was in college 
because he had a new wife, new stepdaughter, new house + and the cat was 
peeing on the carpet.  I went home and tore up all the carpet.  The only 
saving grace is that Gus would not have had almost 17 years of care had my 
friend not rescued him.  I decided then that there would not be anything on 
the floors that was more valuable than my 4-legged friends.







If you have men who will 
exclude any of God's creatures
from the shelter of 
compassion and pity, you will have men who
will deal likewise with 
their fellow man.
 St. 
Francis
- Original Message - 
From: Kelly L [EMAIL PROTECTED]

To: felvtalk@felineleukemia.org
Sent: Monday, May 28, 2007 3:17 PM
Subject: Killing cats who pee on RUGS*



At 12:59 PM 5/28/2007, you wrote:


I find this conversation quite timely...You see I have just withdrawn my 
long time support of Best Friends because of something similar, I have 
been member and volunteer with them for almost 10 years.

they have grown which is good.
Well on their prayers and healing forum someone posted  asking for prayers 
and support for their co worker  because they were sad at deciding to have 
their cat PTS ,,killed because she keeps peeing on the carpet,..
I replied that I could not give support to such an act and then other 
members  agreed...our posts were pulled and only the ones comforting this 
person were left, i received another demeaning letter from the 
moderator,,,
this is not the first incident of that kind, but this one was the final 
STraw
Best Friends does wonderful things, but I am no longer comfortable with 
may of theri policies at this time,

Now I better go mop up pee ...after I get my shoes on of course.(lol)





Sigh.  I just got through battling with my pee entrenched dryer again.
Nothing seems to be helping, I feel your pain sister. Nina

Susan Hoffman wrote:
This morning when I headed into the kitchen to feed everyone, I removed 
what I thought was a clean frying pan from the stivetop -- 
I use the stove as a stagingt area to get all the plates of canned 
catfood ready -- and put the frying pan upside down in the dish drainer. 
Someone had peed in the frying pan overnight and I wound up pouring cat 
pee all over the clean dishes in the drainer.


One more morning like this and I'm going to make myself a cup of strong 
coffee before anyone gets a morsel of food.





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Re: Killing cats who pee on RUGS*****

2007-05-28 Thread Kelly L

At 01:51 PM 5/28/2007, you wrote:


Sorry Nina, I am not that generous right now. I  do understand your 
point and I am usually calm and quitely willing to educate..But there 
was no attempt at educating..This has unfortunately not been the 
first issue and as I said i guess I am more in tune with the likes of 
Sea Shepherd...I can't stand by and not voice my displeasure, Someone 
needed to speak up for the doomed cat,
There were many many people there suffering from the loss of an 
animal due to disease, Theri feelings needed to be considered.
There are many wonderful animal groups that can benefit from the tiny 
extra I have to contribute.
Best FIriends does wonderful things,,,I know. But when I can't agree 
with many of theirpolicies it is best i continue on my own,

There are so many in need out there,
Kelly






Well that just wiped the smile from my face.  I was not privy to the 
exchange and have never been to any of the Best Friends forums, but 
I'm assuming that their motive in removing any chastising responses 
was in keeping with an overall effort to maintain the site as a 
safe place to express grief, no matter where the blame of that 
grief may lie.  I am by no means condoning or advocating humans 
deciding to pts cats because of litterbox avoidance, it turns my 
stomach, the same as it does yours.
I am just pointing out that perhaps the moderators did not feel that 
this was the proper venue for attempting to educate someone that is 
suffering from their lack of judgement and compassion.  My head too 
is bloody from banging it against the brick walls of those I do my 
best to educate.  I know how frustrating and emotionally 
devastating it can be.  The only way I can continue to reach out to 
those that, (in my eyes), visit atrocities on the helpless is that I 
know sometimes I do get through, sometimes I do make a 
difference.  Even though they sometimes fall short of our 
expectations, Best Friends is a worthy organization that does make a 
difference.  I hope that when the heat of your disappointment 
dissipates you are able to remain an ally to the organization.

Nina

Kelly L wrote:

At 12:59 PM 5/28/2007, you wrote:


I find this conversation quite timely...You see I have just 
withdrawn my long time support of Best Friends because of something 
similar, I have been member and volunteer with them for almost 10 years.

they have grown which is good.
Well on their prayers and healing forum someone posted  asking for 
prayers and support for their co worker  because they were sad at 
deciding to have their cat PTS ,,killed because she keeps peeing on 
the carpet,..
I replied that I could not give support to such an act and then 
other members  agreed...our posts were pulled and only the ones 
comforting this person were left, i received another demeaning 
letter from the moderator,,,
this is not the first incident of that kind, but this one was the 
final STraw
Best Friends does wonderful things, but I am no longer comfortable 
with may of theri policies at this time,

Now I better go mop up pee ...after I get my shoes on of course.(lol)





Sigh.  I just got through battling with my pee entrenched dryer again.
Nothing seems to be helping, I feel your pain sister. Nina

Susan Hoffman wrote:
This morning when I headed into the kitchen to feed everyone, I 
removed what I thought was a clean frying pan from the stivetop 
-- I use the stove as a stagingt area to get all the plates of 
canned catfood ready -- and put the frying pan upside down in the 
dish drainer.  Someone had peed in the frying pan overnight and I 
wound up pouring cat pee all over the clean dishes in the drainer.


One more morning like this and I'm going to make myself a cup of 
strong coffee before anyone gets a morsel of food.





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Re: Killing cats who pee on RUGS*****

2007-05-28 Thread Taylor Scobie Humphrey

Boy, do I agree with you!

Taylor Scobie Humphrey
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On May 28, 2007, at 3:17 PM, Kelly L wrote:


At 12:59 PM 5/28/2007, you wrote:


I find this conversation quite timely...You see I have just  
withdrawn my long time support of Best Friends because of something  
similar, I have been member and volunteer with them for almost 10  
years.

they have grown which is good.
Well on their prayers and healing forum someone posted  asking for  
prayers and support for their co worker  because they were sad at  
deciding to have their cat PTS ,,killed because she keeps peeing on  
the carpet,..
I replied that I could not give support to such an act and then  
other members  agreed...our posts were pulled and only the ones  
comforting this person were left, i received another demeaning  
letter from the moderator,,,
this is not the first incident of that kind, but this one was the  
final STraw
Best Friends does wonderful things, but I am no longer comfortable  
with may of theri policies at this time,
Now I better go mop up pee ...after I get my shoes on of course. 
(lol)





Sigh.  I just got through battling with my pee entrenched dryer  
again.

Nothing seems to be helping, I feel your pain sister. Nina

Susan Hoffman wrote:
This morning when I headed into the kitchen to feed everyone, I  
removed what I thought was a clean frying pan from the stivetop  
-- I use the stove as a stagingt area to get all the plates of  
canned catfood ready -- and put the frying pan upside down in the  
dish drainer.  Someone had peed in the frying pan overnight and I  
wound up pouring cat pee all over the clean dishes in the drainer.


One more morning like this and I'm going to make myself a cup of  
strong coffee before anyone gets a morsel of food.





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Re: Killing cats who pee on RUGS*****

2007-05-28 Thread Taylor Scobie Humphrey
Those moderators didn't want to lose any potential funding, in my  
opinion.


Taylor Scobie Humphrey
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On May 28, 2007, at 3:51 PM, Nina wrote:

Well that just wiped the smile from my face.  I was not privy to  
the exchange and have never been to any of the Best Friends forums,  
but I'm assuming that their motive in removing any chastising  
responses was in keeping with an overall effort to maintain the  
site as a safe place to express grief, no matter where the  
blame of that grief may lie.  I am by no means condoning or  
advocating humans deciding to pts cats because of litterbox  
avoidance, it turns my stomach, the same as it does yours.  I am  
just pointing out that perhaps the moderators did not feel that  
this was the proper venue for attempting to educate someone that is  
suffering from their lack of judgement and compassion.  My head too  
is bloody from banging it against the brick walls of those I do my  
best to educate.  I know how frustrating and emotionally  
devastating it can be.  The only way I can continue to reach out to  
those that, (in my eyes), visit atrocities on the helpless is that  
I know sometimes I do get through, sometimes I do make a  
difference.  Even though they sometimes fall short of our  
expectations, Best Friends is a worthy organization that does make  
a difference.  I hope that when the heat of your disappointment  
dissipates you are able to remain an ally to the organization.

Nina

Kelly L wrote:

At 12:59 PM 5/28/2007, you wrote:


I find this conversation quite timely...You see I have just  
withdrawn my long time support of Best Friends because of  
something similar, I have been member and volunteer with them for  
almost 10 years.

they have grown which is good.
Well on their prayers and healing forum someone posted  asking for  
prayers and support for their co worker  because they were sad at  
deciding to have their cat PTS ,,killed because she keeps peeing  
on the carpet,..
I replied that I could not give support to such an act and then  
other members  agreed...our posts were pulled and only the ones  
comforting this person were left, i received another demeaning  
letter from the moderator,,,
this is not the first incident of that kind, but this one was the  
final STraw
Best Friends does wonderful things, but I am no longer comfortable  
with may of theri policies at this time,
Now I better go mop up pee ...after I get my shoes on of  
course.(lol)





Sigh.  I just got through battling with my pee entrenched dryer  
again.

Nothing seems to be helping, I feel your pain sister. Nina

Susan Hoffman wrote:
This morning when I headed into the kitchen to feed everyone, I  
removed what I thought was a clean frying pan from the stivetop  
-- I use the stove as a stagingt area to get all the plates of  
canned catfood ready -- and put the frying pan upside down in  
the dish drainer.  Someone had peed in the frying pan overnight  
and I wound up pouring cat pee all over the clean dishes in the  
drainer.


One more morning like this and I'm going to make myself a cup of  
strong coffee before anyone gets a morsel of food.





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