Re: [ozmidwifery] Morning sickness

2004-09-30 Thread M T Holroyd



Hi, 

I used the sea bands with my 3rd  4th 
pregnancies  think they are wonderful. By the time I was pregnant 
with the fourth I couldn't stand the smell, taste, or thought of ginger... I did 
use the tablets though to try  get me over the worst of it. 


Good Luck... hope you find some relief.

Regards, Tina H (Brisbane)



  - Original Message - 
  From: 
  Sally Westbury 
  To: [EMAIL PROTECTED] 
  
  Sent: Wednesday, September 29, 2004 11:11 
  AM
  Subject: RE: [ozmidwifery] Morning 
  sickness
  
  
  Some women have had 
  success with sea sickness bands. If you don’t like ginger what about taking 
  ginger tablets? 
  
  Poor 
  darling
  
  
  Sally 
  Westbury
  Homebirth 
  Midwife
  
  "It 
  takes courage to remain a true advocate for women, challenging authority and 
  sacrificing social and professional acceptance. It takes courage for a woman 
  to choose a caregiver who will truly advocate for and empower 
  her." -Judy Slome Cohain
  -Original 
  Message-From: 
  owner-[EMAIL PROTECTED] 
  [mailto:owner-[EMAIL PROTECTED]] 
  On Behalf Of Megan and 
  SeanSent: Wednesday, 29 
  September 2004 8:12 AMTo: 
  [EMAIL PROTECTED]Subject: Re: [ozmidwifery] Morning 
  sickness
  
  
  Jo,
  
  you have all my 
  sympathy, I know just how you feel. I have in the past and with this pregnancy 
  tried everything I have heard of without much success. I have come to the 
  stage where I think that there is very little you can do 
  but:
  
  
  
  1. REST- I take that 
  desire to hybernate as a good message. The more tired you are the worse you 
  feel so try to get early nights and nap as often as you 
  can.
  
  
  
  2. EAT- small amounts 
  of food frequently, I mean at least every 2 hours. I find that the nausea 
  increases on an empty stomach. and try to eat before going to bed, makes the 
  night and morning more bearable.
  
  
  
  3. DRINK- sip small 
  amounts frequently, flavour water with a dash of citrus like lemon or lime, or 
  other flavour. try icecubes of various flavours. 
  
  
  
  
  4. BE KIND TO 
  YOURSELF- You might not feel better, but some days you will cope better! Do 
  what you can on your good days, and don't be hard on yourself on the days that 
  you feel like crap and don't get as much done. After all tomorrow could be a 
  good day!
  
  
  
  Let us know how you 
  go,
  
  Megan (23 weeks to go 
  till no spew day!!!)
  

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Message - 

From: Mary 
Murphy 

To: [EMAIL PROTECTED] 


Sent: 
Tuesday, September 28, 2004 9:46 PM

Subject: 
[ozmidwifery] Morning sickness



Jo wrote Also, I was 
wondering if anyone had any bright ideas to fix morning sickness 
please!! I feel nauseous all the time - constantly... I don't actually 
vomit very often, but all I want to do is stay in bed and sleep through the 
nausea, because that is the only time I feel 
ok.--

Jjo, I would suggest you 
talk to a homoeopath or accupuncturist. If you email me off list I can 
give you the names of some local practitioners. Poor you!!! 
M


Re: [ozmidwifery] Fw: News

2004-06-27 Thread M T Holroyd



Congratulations Jo. How exciting... hope 
all goes to plan.

Regards Tina H. (Brisbane)

  - Original Message - 
  From: 
  JoFromOz 
  To: [EMAIL PROTECTED] 
  
  Sent: Monday, June 28, 2004 12:00 
PM
  Subject: [ozmidwifery] Fw: News
  
  
  
  
  Hi all :)
  
  I've been offline for the last 2 weeks as I was in Melbourne and then we 
  moved into our new home! 
  
  Not only that, but my partner of almost 7 years, Matthew, proposed to me 
  very romantically when I opened the front door to our new home with the key. 
  :)
  
  So I am all a bit excited now! We will get married sometime in the 
  summer either in our backyard or in our living area, depending on the weather 
  :) Babies nottoo long after that, I hope!
  
  Just had to share :)
  
  Great news about the Victorian Midwifery scheme, too.
  
  Love,
  Jo
  
  --
  Babies are Born... Pizzas are Delivered.
  
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[ozmidwifery] my baby is 1 today

2004-03-14 Thread M T Holroyd



Hi all, Just letting you all know my little 
one is 1 today. How this past year has flown by. Also Lieve, I 
remember that baby Lars was born within days of Jay. If you are still in 
contact with his family can you please let them know that I am thinking of them 
all. I am sure Lars  his family will be in my thoughts at this time 
of year for many years to come. Thankyou.

Tina H. Brisbane.

PS. Congratulations on your good news 
Maureen.


Re: [ozmidwifery] Quote of the Week - traumatic twin birth

2004-03-05 Thread M T Holroyd
Congratulations to you  your family Justine.  I hope all went well.

Best wishes,  Tina H.

- Original Message - 
From: Justine Caines [EMAIL PROTECTED]
To: [EMAIL PROTECTED]
Sent: Sunday, March 07, 2004 9:14 AM
Subject: Re: [ozmidwifery] Quote of the Week - traumatic twin birth


 Here Here Andrea

 I love that strategy and use it as a consumer. I would be most interested
 to see the evidence that backs your claim

 Geesje I hope you will be part of the MC National Day of Action (Saturday
 May 8).  The NSW day is to be held at Camden/Campbelltown to give Mr
Latham
 a very clear message that the federal government need to be more active in
 the promotion of best practice maternity care as the states are doing a
 pretty lousy job, and particularly that Latham needs to walk his talk re
 community and personal responsibility and family and all the rest!!!

 Justine

 PS:  New babe (Feb 28 9.15 am, another boy, Tobias Michael, 3.6kg and so
far
 a gentle soul)

 - Original Message -
 From: Andrea Robertson [EMAIL PROTECTED]
 To: [EMAIL PROTECTED]
 Sent: Friday, March 05, 2004 12:48 PM
 Subject: Re: [ozmidwifery] Quote of the Week - traumatic twin birth


  Hello Geesje,
 
  When doctors start quoting the research like this, they are often
talking
  through their hat.
  Since he is apparently up to date with the research, why not ask him to
  produce the evidence he is using as the basis for his practice? It
  shouldn't be up to you to find something to refute his claims, but his
  responsibility to provide the research he is using.
 
  Doctors will get away with making these kinds of wild claims unless we
  start questioning them. I was contacted recently by an obstetrician who
  wanted to challenge something I have written in Preparing for Birth:
  Mothers. He claimed that there was research that showed one of my
  statements was wrong and he said I should change what I have written so
  that I am not scaring the women. I wrote a friendly reply, asking that
he
  give me the reference he was quoting, so I could be sure to have my
  information correct. I pointed out that I would gladly make changes but
  would only do so if I had reliable research evidence. Until then, my
book
  would remain unchanged.  I am still waiting to hear back from him!
My
  suspicion is that he didn't think I would call his bluff, but take his
  word for it.
 
  How about trying this tack with this obstetrician. You could quite
easily
  say that you want to make sure your practice is evidence based, and
would
  welcome an update on this research that you must have missed. it
would
  be interesting to see how he handles this! Challenging him in this way
  might also help you to feel a bit better about this awful outcome and
  perhaps make him think twice before trying it again.
 
  Best wishes,
 
  Andrea
 
 
  At 11:53 PM 5/03/2004, Geesje and Steve wrote:
  Hi,
  Why do obstetrcians not see this?
  I'm hoping someone can help me. I'm sorry if I don't make much sense
but
  I'm very upset and full of emotions after witnessing a horrific twins
  birth last night. It was the worst birth I've ever seen in the 20 years
  that I have been in midwifery. My grandfather's vet did a gentler job
 with
  the cows! And to make it worse the obstetrician thought he had done a
  brilliant job! He got both twins out within 8 minutes. On questioning
  prior to the birth, on how long he would wait for the second twin to
  engage he said that he aims to get the second twin out 5-10 minutes
after
  the first because this is what all the research advises. If you wait
  you're only waiting for trouble . Silly me thought he was going to
wait
  at least one contraction to see what happened. How wrong I was.. .
  Now if anyone keeps up with research, it's me! But I have not read that
 it
  is advisable to act, instead of wait to see if the second twin engages,
  especially if they are both cephalic - like these twins were.
  Can anyone tell me where I can find the research that states that an
  epidural in a twin labour is best practice and the research  that
states
  that the second twin should be born (with of without force) as soon as
  possible after the first. As well as any resaerch that disputes this.
  Being Dutch and having worked as a homebirth midwife in Holland I have
  always had reservations on supporting high risk births at home but
after
  seeing what happened last night I can fully understand why some women
 seek
  homebirths for high risk births.
  Geesje
  
  
  From: mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]Mary Murphy
  To: mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED]list
  Sent: Wednesday, March 03, 2004 7:51 PM
  Subject: [ozmidwifery] Quote of the Week
  
   From Midwifery Today: H. Deutsch, a psychologist active in the 1940s,
   knew that at the time of birth, it is not just a vagina that is
opening,
   the woman's entire psyche is open and vulnerable.
 
 
  -
  Andrea Robertson
  Birth International * ACE Graphics * Associates in Childbirth 

Re: [ozmidwifery] Some exciting news! :-)

2004-02-06 Thread M T Holroyd



Good Luck. What an exciting 
opportunity. Take care  travel safe when it comes time. (Is 
your whole family going  how long is the course?)

Best wishes,

Tina H. (Brisbane)

  - Original Message - 
  From: 
  Victoria Couldwell 
  To: [EMAIL PROTECTED] 
  
  Sent: Friday, January 30, 2004 11:45 
  PM
  Subject: [ozmidwifery] Some exciting 
  news! :-)
  
  
  Hi all!
  
  I have sat back, 
  quietly, for some time, on this list and enjoyed the interesting topics, 
  debates and discussions. I'm sure I introduced myself earlier when I first 
  joined. Just in case, I am in Sydney, 27 years old, mother of 2, doula and 
  hoping to do BMid when it starts in Sydney.ANYWAY, to cut a long story 
  short, it looks like I won't have to wait for Sydney!I have just 
  received an offer to study BMid in Scotland at the University of Stirling! I 
  am so excited! I cannot wait! I start this September, 2004.Wish me 
  luck!
  Victoria 
  
  
  
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Re: [ozmidwifery] New Arrival

2003-11-30 Thread M T Holroyd
Congratulations Barb  family.  What a special gift.  I hope all goes well
for you  your family.  Love Tina H.  (Brisbane).
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From: Barbara Glare  Chris Bright [EMAIL PROTECTED]
To: [EMAIL PROTECTED]
Sent: Sunday, November 23, 2003 1:59 PM
Subject: [ozmidwifery] New Arrival


 Hi,

 Just wanted to introduce our newest family member.  Barb, Chris, Zac,
Daniel
 and Cassie welcome  our daughter and sister, Guan Jasmine Bright.  Guan is
 11mnths old, and we have adopted her from China.

 We did not give you life, but life has given us the gift of you

 Love,
 Barb Glare
 Mum of Zac, 10, Daniel, 8, Cassie, 5 and Guan 11mnths.
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 www.abavic.asn.au


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Re: [ozmidwifery] first catch at home...

2003-10-20 Thread M T Holroyd



Dear Tania,

All I can say is WOW. How 
wonderfull.

Tina H. (Brisbane)

  - Original Message - 
  From: 
  Tom, Tania and Sam 
  Smallwood 
  To: [EMAIL PROTECTED] 
  
  Sent: Monday, October 20, 2003 5:14 
  PM
  Subject: [ozmidwifery] first catch at 
  home...
  
  Well I'm quite elated and a little bit tired, after being 
  called out at 3am this morning, and then my Midwife colleague being called 
  away for another birth (isn't that something that never happens...?), I caught 
  my first baby as a RM, at home, and this baby decided to come into the world 
  feet first. WOW!! Can't tell you how many things were going around 
  in my head during the birth, but I think I remained calm on the exterior, or 
  so I'm told! Result - 3.4kg baby girl, 2 3/4 hourestablished 
  labour, SROM in water with some fresh thin mec, and then out came the feet, 
  stood up, body, arms, and then after one little push, a gorgeous 
  round36cm head, all caught on video by a wonderful friend of the 
  woman. And I was wonderfully supported by a midwife friend who came to 
  act as a spare pair of hands/photographer, water carrier.what a joy and 
  comfort it was to share it with her!
  
  Gotta sleep, but wanted to share, what an amazing experience 
  for us all!!
  
  Tania


Re: [ozmidwifery] Nathaniel's birth story...Warning Long.

2003-10-19 Thread M T Holroyd
Sonia,

Your story had me crying, but I could not stop reading.  Thankyou for
sharing with us.  I believe I have learnt a few things from you for my life
as both a mother  a midwife.  Thankyou again  god bless your family.

Tina H.  (Brisbane).

- Original Message - 
From: *G and S* [EMAIL PROTECTED]
To: [EMAIL PROTECTED]
Sent: Tuesday, October 14, 2003 11:14 PM
Subject: [ozmidwifery] Nathaniel's birth story...Warning Long.


 NATHANIEL'S BIRTH


 Nine short months have passed since Nathaniel's birth. He is a
sweet-natured
 baby, very placid and incredibly patient. Just like his father. There is
no
 hint in his nature of his traumatic birth.

 As we are natural family planners, and my cycle was very predictable, I
knew
 at only three weeks that I needed a pregnancy test. My husband (Gh) and I
 were overjoyed when that faint pink line appeared on the test. This would
be
 our fifth child; two in nappies and all under ten.  I began to brace
myself
 for another long sojourn through pregnancy. My due date was 7th January,
 2003.

 At sixteen weeks, I took those first few official  pregnancy steps and
 visited an obstetrician recommended by a couple of close friends. They did
 tell me that he was a little 'laid back', but all the same, they thought
he
 would suit me.

 Boy were they wrong! Yes, he was very pleasant and  relaxed. He, however,
 required me to strip down to nothing for the initial examination. I
clutched
 anxiously at my bra hoping to keep some semblance of dignity but alas that
 was to go with the rest of my attire. Some women might feel fine about
this
 form of 'thoroughness', but for me, having nursed people and respected
their
 vulnerability, I was not at all impressed. So, after consulting a midwife
 friend, I transferred to another obstetrician (Pob). He seemed just fine.

 Apart from my routine discomforts and sleeplessness, my pregnancy had
 coasted along nicely. There was no sign of the blood pressure  problems I
 had in previous pregnancies. I recall more than once saying to Pob
'There's
 got to be a catch'. And there was.

 At thirty-eight weeks, Pob remarked that I was carrying high, as usual.
But
 he seemed to stop and rethink. A quick ultrasound confirmed that my baby
was
 breech. I knew immediately that this would mean my first caesarian
section.
 I cried from shock, from fear and anxiety. Pob meanwhile found the
necessary
 paperwork. I filled out the forms and even went straight to the
 anaesthetists' rooms, all the while in a state of disbelief. I had not
 counted on major abdominal surgery being a part of my baby's birth.

 The c.section was booked for the end of that week. I went into hospital
the
 evening before, as I was quite anxious.  I knew that a caesarian section
 wasn't to be undertaken light-heartedly and it pains me now to hear of
women
 requesting this proceedure for convenience or to avoid the pain of
birthing.

 That night, a final ultrasound estimated my baby's weight (wrongly as it
 turned out) at 11 lbs 1 oz. And of course he had turned! After some
 discussion with Pob, we decided to go ahead with the c.section as planned,
 because of the unstable lie factor. The alternative was to wait a week or
 more in hospital.

 The next morning I woke at 6.30 and was promptly seen by a rather
 bleary-eyed anaesthetist. Pob came in soon after and felt my abdomen. He
now
 thought that baby was transverse. I was becoming more and more uptight by
 the minute. Gh was with me the whole time and was quietly reassuring.

 Down in theatre I was pleased to meet the assisting doctor, who was a
 semi-retired obstetrician. His name was always mentioned with great
 reverence and affection. I felt some comfort knowing he was there but I
 still had a great sense of unease.

 As the spinal anaesthetic was administered, I was able to look out a
window.
 I remember seeing a woman walking her dog over vacant land. I longed to
 change places with that woman.   I was soon brought back to reality when
my
 blood pressure suddenly went up. It was brought down with some
 pharmaceutical intervention and I immediately vomited.

 Gh arrived soon after, dressed in his glamorous theatre gear, and was
seated
 beside me. The procedure began. You make me feel like a natural woman (ha
 ha) was playing in the background. Pob was telling us what he was doing
step
 by step. Suddenly there was nothing. No music, talking - nothing. The only
 thing I remember was the occasional mumble from the obstetricians. I
really
 have no idea how long it was until my baby was born.

 They didn't give me my baby right away. A pediatrician whisked him aside.
 Pob popped his head over the still-raised screen to explain what had
 happened. Apparently as he cut transversely through the wall of my uterus,
 he had severed an unseen venous sinus. It was about the size of two thumbs
 put together.

 I had suddenly started to haemorrhage. The older obstetrician assisting
 later told me that in all his years of practice, he had 

Re: [ozmidwifery] who is really there for women ? long

2003-10-11 Thread M T Holroyd



Jan,

This brought tears to my eyes.How dare this 
woman  her partner (baby) be treated this way.

Tina H.

  - Original Message - 
  From: 
  [EMAIL PROTECTED] 
  To: [EMAIL PROTECTED] 
  
  Cc: [EMAIL PROTECTED] 
  
  Sent: Saturday, October 11, 2003 7:46 
  PM
  Subject: [ozmidwifery] who is really 
  there for women ? long 
  
  THEY ARE A HEALTHY HAPPY, WELL PREPARED AND 
  CONFIDENT COUPLE BOOKED INTO BIRTH CENTRE AN TAKING MW ALONG 
  
  1ST BABE TERM PLUS 5 DAYS srom SMIDGEN OF 
  MEC CTG PERFECT 2hrs later and she is in good labour standing with 
  monitor on working happily adjusted well with transfer and then the 
  grand pooh barr arrives 
  minimal intro of self no intro of others [4 
  others in total] up on bed umm get the portable U/S and see what the PP part 
  is.
  Oh its head first she says he glares at her they 
  rush to his command TO GET THE U/S MACHINE 
  
  I introduce myself he nods I ask if he knows I am 
  an independent midwife he tells me he knows EVERY THINGignores me and 
  turns to woman glumly he says 
  
  I am sorryu have meconium do u know what 
  that means?
  
  yes she said that is why I am here the baby has 
  done a pooh and thetas probablynormal but I will need to adjust my 
  birthing plans to include the monitor 
  
  meconium is serious HE SAYS yesterday a baby died 
  because of meconium all nod 
  
  the young dad to be bravely said but our baby 
  looks great on monitor 
  
  nothing to do with it this baby was on monitor 
  and by the time we got to theatreit was dead sigh meconium
  
  we could do a c/Ds now and hope for best 
  
  
  she looked defeated he cried in fear 
  
  and
  
  they all stood behind him looking grave 
  and nodding and I thought wow is this for real?
  
  This is why one to one midwifery care from a 
  known midwife must happen to stop this abuse
  Jan 
  


Re: [ozmidwifery] Sensuously Special Pre-natal session

2003-09-08 Thread M T Holroyd



Hi Julie,

Do you know of anywhere in Brisbane that runs 
pre-natal sessions such as yours. This sounds so amazing... makes me 
envious that I found nothing like that during any of my pregnancies. Keep 
up the wonderful work.

Tina H.

  - Original Message - 
  From: 
  Julie 
  Clarke 
  To: Ozmidwifery Mailing List 
  
  Sent: Thursday, September 04, 2003 1:23 
  PM
  Subject: [ozmidwifery] Sensuously Special 
  Pre-natal session
  
  
  Hi fellow 
  listers,
  I had a pre-natal session last night which was such a pleasure I thought I’d 
  share it with you… it was one of those very memorable magical nights… This 
  “class” is a little different in that it is an open group and 
  unstructured. The couple’s who choose to attend do not have to book in, they 
  can come and go on a weekly basis, and only pay for the night they attend. It 
  is totally unstructured except for commencing with a 
  breath awareness relaxation and finishing with a 
  relaxation/visualisation. The 
  theme alternates from one week to the next between “Birth” and “Babies”, so 
  it’s kept very broad and caters to the group’s 
  needs.
  We commenced with a 20-minute 
  breath awareness relaxation – music by Enya – 
  Watermark. Aromatherapy oil vaporising was mandarin, which is light fresh and 
  uplifting. They enjoyed it and 
  relaxed well in the darkness with just a touch of light streaming in from the 
  hallway. Towards the end of the relaxation, I asked the women to place their 2 
  hands on their belly and send a message of love to their baby – then I asked 
  the partners to place a hand also on the belly and send a message of love to 
  the baby too. They all did it easily and some smiled lightly. Then I 
  encouraged a long stretch before slowly sitting back 
  up.
  After the relaxation, I put on 
  only one set of lights to try to maintain the mood of peacefulness. 
  
  Next an 
  ice-breaker: a quick go around of the group with each person introducing their 
  partner saying how many weeks pregnant or for the women how many weeks to go 
  before their partner becomes a Dad, and then what positive quality / character 
  trait they possess now that you believe they will bring to 
  parenting.
  Their responses were beautiful… 
  “Love, gentleness, patience, kindness, sense of humour, 
  warmth”…
  Then I guided them into the 
  “siting back to back” exercise and guided them through an awareness of each 
  other, the other person’s breathing, their movement, their warmth, through a 
  brief exercise of gently leaning on each other I talked to them about working 
  as a team throughout labour and parenting, trusting, supporting, caring… I 
  then asked them to stay in that position, taking hold of their partner’s hands 
  and resting for a moment… then giving a gentle squeeze as a gesture of thanks 
  for the support.
  I then asked them to move (still 
  only in their couples) face to face, closely and to give feedback about how 
  that exercise felt for them – privately, not sharing to the group – they 
  giggled and held each other, arms and legs entwined, rubbed noses Maori style, 
  kissed, smiled and hugged. They 
  talked very quietly, leaning on each other, quite intimately for several 
  minutes. They were quite joyous, lots of smiling. 

  Afterwards I got the women to 
  relax luxuriously back onto their beanbags and I gave each of the partners a 
  towel and lots of lavender massage oil to set them up for foot massage – I 
  didn’t give them instructions – these couples were connected enough; they knew 
  how to touch each other.
  Whilst the partners were massaging 
  I showed them the video “A Timeless Way” a history of birth – they laughed out 
  loud at the part where the old 1950’s footage has a doctor speaking saying 
  “There is a variety of medications available from gas to caudal etc however 
  you will leave the decision to the doctor as to which medication will be 
  required for you”
  In the debrief period after the 
  video they brought it up again and laughed again saying things like – wow 
  wasn’t it different in the old days!!
  Then we had a quick cuppa break – 
  they received the chocy bickies that my Tuesday 
  nights class had left behind – they devoured 
them!
  We finished with a long relaxation 
  visualisation – I let them choose which one they wanted – they came up with a 
  “giving birth visualisation” 
  I think they were feeling 
  confident, empowered, and ready to face the challenge of visualising going 
  through labour and birth. 
  
  Afterwards – they gave lots of 
  positive feedback about different aspects of the visualisation – “powerful, 
  helpful, liked the words, feel ready now”.
  One of the women is due in only 5 
  days, so we finished with me saying to her on behalf of the rest of the group 
  please take our warmest wishes with you … they all then murmured some 
  supportive comments to her too, and I invited them to return to show us their 
  

Re: [ozmidwifery] biting baby and breast pain.

2003-08-30 Thread M T Holroyd
--
Hi Cheryl,

I remember my second child used to bite more than my first  third (fourth
is cutting his first tiny sharp teeth at the moment). I can't remember any
specific thing that I did to stop it other than taking them off the breast
for a few minutes each time. The biting never lasted long though in each
case. With my second I could often tell when he was going to do it  if
required I would say, no biting  take him off the breast. With my third I
found that he actually tended to do it more when falling asleep  comfort
sucking (I think he was about 2.5yo when this was at it's worst). I could
just slip him off at that time. I always had a rusk (or something hard to
chew) handy during teething also. I can't actually remember biting to be
worse during teething though.

I feel what Pinky said about overtiredness etc to be true. With my 1st I had
mastitis once, with my second no mastitis, with my third I had mastitis at
least 3 times that I remember (most tired, sole parenting at the time  most
stressed).  I had it when this baby was 1 week old (I put it down to rapid
weight loss post birth  overtiredness among other things). I too suffer
breast pain although not as frequently as you. When it starts I think that I
have another bout of mastitis coming on... so I take it easy  slow down if
possible, take better care of myself for a few days, make sure I keep that
breast empty  watch what bra I wear. It is becoming less frequent as my
baby gets older (he is now 5.5mths).  I hope your pain gets better quickly
for you.

Good Luck. Tina H.

--- Original Message - 
From: Cheryl LHK [EMAIL PROTECTED]
To: [EMAIL PROTECTED]
Sent: Thursday, August 28, 2003 6:26 PM
Subject: [ozmidwifery] biting baby and breast pain.


 Two questons:

 1.  For all those wonderful women who feed long-term with baby's with
teeth
 - how did you stop them repeatedly biting?  Especially when cutting more
 teeth?

 2.  Had 3 doses of mastitis with second baby in (L) breast.  No mastitis
 with Kate, she is approaching 8 months, although get really bad breast
 tenderness and pain at times (every 2-3 weeks or so for 24 hours) in this
 breast.  She prefers the (R) side, always feeds first from that side.
Will
 I continue to get this pain until I finish feeding - hopefully not for
 months yet?

 Cheryl

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Re: [ozmidwifery] new baby

2003-08-28 Thread M T Holroyd
Title: National Caesarean Awareness Day 2003.



Congratulations Lyn ( too your husband 
also),
I bet she is beautiful. Here's to a wonderful 
life for baby Alexandra (after a wonderful start).
Tina H.

  - Original Message - 
  From: 
  Lyn 
  Cottee 
  To: [EMAIL PROTECTED] 
  
  Sent: Thursday, August 28, 2003 12:49 
  PM
  Subject: [ozmidwifery] new baby
  
  
  Dear List,
  
  I’d like to announce 
  the birth of my baby daughter, Alexandra (Sascha) Arwen at 00:02 August 13 at the 
  Birth Centre in Moorabbin. After an intense 4 hour labour, mostly in the 
  water at the centre, I birthed her using a birthing stool with my mother and 
  husband in attendance. She weighed 3620g, HC 37cm, length 49cm and is 
  absolutely beautiful.
  
  She took to the 
  breast right away (and hasn’t moved off it since!) and the placenta was 
  naturally birthed soon afterwards.
  
  I’d like to thank the 
  List for being a source of information and inspiration and a key factor in 
  helping me to have the most 
  natural, enjoyable birthing experience possible.
  
  It is a travesty that 
  the existence of the BC is even in question and now that I’m getting back to 
  work I’ll be much more vocal in the campaign to keep it 
open.
  
  Cheers,
  
  Lyn 
  Cottee


Re: [ozmidwifery] Any ideas for research and mosiac?

2003-08-25 Thread M T Holroyd



Hi Joanne, 

This is not an idea for your question. I was 
just wondering if you were the same person I worked a night shift with once at a 
private hospital in Brisbane. I think I worked with you  Jill  
another agency midwife. I was very pregnant with my fourth baby  it 
would have been my last shift. If you are the person I am thinking of I 
just wanted to let you know that you have been in my thoughts. The Joanne 
I met said some inspirational things to me before I left work about the birth of 
my baby (can't remember what they were exactly but they made my day at the 
time). If it was you Thankyou. 

Tina H. Brisbane.

  - Original Message - 
  From: 
  Mrs 
  Joanne M Fisher 
  To: Ozmidwifery 
  Sent: Saturday, August 02, 2003 11:50 
  AM
  Subject: [ozmidwifery] Any ideas for 
  research and mosiac?
  
  Dear List,
  
  I've just returned to Brisbane and have re-joined 
  the list again after spending time in Perth doing some observations for my 
  studies with the fabulous midwives of the CMP - (Hi all you lovely ladies over 
  there). This is a wonderful list to be on and so educatonal. I've 
  been asked by my tutor to talk to the Grad Dip Mid students at ACU in Oct, so 
  I'll be enthusiastically spreading the word of continuous midwifery 
  care. She (my tutor) is also encouraging me to do my Masters, (not sure 
  if I will yet),so I was wondering if anyone out there had suggestions 
  for me for subjects that I could do a small research on. I've never done 
  anything like this before and know nothing about research, (I'm a hospital 
  midwife and have only recently embarked on university studies). I 
  already have some vague ideas butI'm sure there areplenty of other 
  ideas that I haven't thought of. 
  I also want to mosiac my coffee table and would 
  love to do something that symbolized birth/midwives etc, but being a hopeless 
  artist I haven't been able to think of a simple design to do. Can anyone 
  help???
  
  Cheers, 
  Joanne 
(Fisher)


Re: [ozmidwifery] Internet Links

2003-08-18 Thread M T Holroyd



Thankyou to those who replied. Ta, Tina 
H.

  - Original Message - 
  From: 
  M  T Holroyd 
  To: [EMAIL PROTECTED] 
  
  Sent: Friday, August 15, 2003 9:48 
  PM
  Subject: [ozmidwifery] Internet 
  Links
  
  Hi,
  
  I stupidly removed my links file with all 
  the wonderful links that had been sent to ?Alphia (sorry can't 
  remember). Could some kind person please resend (direct to me if you 
  wish). I was enjoying working my way through the lists.
  
  Thanking you, Tina 
H.


Re: [ozmidwifery] Triumphant, powerful Birth!!

2003-08-15 Thread M T Holroyd



Dear Isis,

Congratulations... I have been thinking of 
you  am so glad to hear all went well. 

With warm wishes, Tina H.

  - Original Message - 
  From: 
  Isis and 
  Andrew Caple 
  To: [EMAIL PROTECTED] 
  
  Sent: Friday, August 15, 2003 3:02 
  PM
  Subject: [ozmidwifery] Triumphant, 
  powerful Birth!!
  
  
  
Hello all,
  
  I just wanted to 
  let you all know that I gave birth to a beautiful, bonny, baby boy on the 
  11th August. Nathan Michael weighed in at 8lb, 8oz/3860g, HC- 
  36cm, length- 54cm. My labour was fast, powerful and so very, very 
  satisfying. It lasted little under 2 hours, I emerged with a neat 
  2nd degree tear and easily birthed the placenta with no 
  man-made help!! My milk has come in and I am looking forward to it 
  settling, but so far this whole experience has made me feel so 
  powerful.
  
  I wanted to thank 
  all of you for being so supportive after my experience with the evil 
  hospital consultant, I wish I could have seen him straight after the 
  birth.. I would have laughed in his face for being so wrong about my body. 
  I had a beautiful experience, with a beautiful midwife (Lynne Pyke) to 
  help me. Not that I needed it really J
  
  I am living proof 
  that a woman who sustains a fourth degree tear can birth another baby (a 
  bigger one by 660g, 2 cm length and 3.5cm HC!!) if she feels she is able 
  to.
  
  Thank you all 
  again for being wonderful people!
  
  Cheers- 
  Isis


[ozmidwifery] Internet Links

2003-08-15 Thread M T Holroyd



Hi,

I stupidly removed my links file with all the 
wonderful links that had been sent to ?Alphia (sorry can't remember). 
Could some kind person please resend (direct to me if you wish). I was 
enjoying working my way through the lists.

Thanking you, Tina 
H.


Re: [ozmidwifery] co sleeping

2003-07-28 Thread M T Holroyd



Hi Kathy, I have co-slept with all of my 
children  on returning to work (I used to work mainly night shift with my 
2nd  third) my husband coped quite well with EBM in the fridge  
freezer. My problem was that none of my previous 3 children ever really 
took to the bottle even with EBM in it. We did find however that they woke 
less when I wasn't there to feed them  would just come to me when I arrived 
home with bursting breasts for a huge feed. When they got older, Marty 
would just take a bottle of water to bed with him (The kids slept with him even 
when I wasn't there)  they would have a small amount of water. I 
haven't returned to work again after my last babe (he's 4.5 mths) but I'm also a 
little worried as he is not interested in having EBM in the bottle... he also 
wants the real thing (actually I think he is suffering from what I call reverse 
nipple confusion.. he has no idea what to do with a bottle teat). Good 
Luck. TIna H.

  - Original Message - 
  From: 
  simsarch 
  To: [EMAIL PROTECTED] 
  
  Sent: Saturday, July 26, 2003 2:35 
  PM
  Subject: [ozmidwifery] co sleeping
  
  I too am co sleeping with my six month old baby and am 
  loving every bit of it. She is my third child and I didn't do it with 
  the other two (don't know why). She tends to feed a lot at night 
  whichhasn't beena problem. However, I don't know what to do 
  now as I am returning to work in a month and don't know how my partner will 
  cope with these night time grazings if I am out with a labouring woman. 
  Can anyone offer me any advice? She probably feeds every 2 hours, but it 
  is more of a snack than a decent feed.we am getting plenty of 
  pressure to do the controlled crying thing in order to get her feeding less 
  frequently at night which we really don't want to do, but on the other hand we 
  need to make the situation more manageable for my husband who doesn't have the 
  boobs if I'm not there overnight. Many thanks, Kathy
  
  


Re: [ozmidwifery] in the paper again!

2003-07-25 Thread M T Holroyd



Would love to read it Tania. Hope you get 
time soon.

Tina H. Brisbane.

  - Original Message - 
  From: 
  Tom, Tania and Sam 
  Smallwood 
  To: [EMAIL PROTECTED] 
  
  Sent: Thursday, July 24, 2003 8:00 
  AM
  Subject: [ozmidwifery] in the paper 
  again!
  
  Well off the back of my letter to the Ed in last week's 
  Adelaide Advertiser, I managed to get just about the whole back page of our 
  local Hills newspaper dedicated to midwifery and women who make the choice to 
  have a midwife. The journo who interviewed me did a great job, talked 
  about the fact that we're really busy despite the insurance crisis, used very 
  woman friendly language (not a delivery or confinement in cooeee) and 
  published a lovely photo of myself looking on as Casey's daughter listened 
  with a Pinard. I'd love to be able to lead you to a link, but they 
  haven't put the article on their website, maybe I'll get a spare minute and 
  type it out in the next few days.
  
  Chipping away slowly but surely.
  
  Tania


Re: [ozmidwifery] sun baths for jundice

2003-07-14 Thread M T Holroyd



Marilyn, I hope it was not taken the wrong 
way that I used your email as an example I thought it was a good way 
to open a topic that I am interested in. I personally still used sunlight 
indirectly with my 3rd baby  especially my most recent (4th) baby 
he was starting to become jaundiced before he was 24 hrs old (he had a very 
puple face/head after birth so expected some form of jaundice), but as I had 
been discharged fromBirth Centrebefore this  he was alert, 
awake often, feeding well (my milk was comming inwhen he was 1.5 days 
old... ample supply), weeing  pooing etc I never returned to hospital  
just went for quick walks outside  found a nice spot inside while he 
slept. Yet, because of the way we were taught as midwifery students I 
don't actually recommend this to women in hospital (there are a few reasons why 
but unable to explain at this moment). Anyway, sorry if it was taken the 
wrong way (just in case). BTW I love reading your posts, along with everyone 
elses... I am learning so much from you all  also learning to 
challenge my ways of thinking  doing things. If it wasn't for this 
list I may never have sought out Birth Centre care, known the joys of water 
birth  having my family involved etc, etc. I owe this list for many 
things (positive). 

Tina H. Brisbane.

  - Original Message - 
  From: 
  Marilyn 
  Kleidon 
  To: [EMAIL PROTECTED] 
  
  Sent: Saturday, July 12, 2003 5:26 
  PM
  Subject: Re: [ozmidwifery] sun baths for 
  jundice
  
  I was talking about Seattle, Washington where the 
  sunlight is very very different than here. A sun bath in Seattle is a very 
  different thing to a sunbath in Townsville, Cairns or probably anywhere except 
  Hobart in Australia. Neverhless i took it for granted it would be indirect 
  sun.
  
  marilyn
  
- Original Message - 
From: 
M  T Holroyd 
To: [EMAIL PROTECTED] 
; [EMAIL PROTECTED] 

Sent: Friday, July 11, 2003 2:51 
AM
Subject: [ozmidwifery] sun baths for 
jundice

Hi, just aquick question after Marilyn talked 
of sun baths for jaundice (below). What is the latest info on 
this? When I had my daughter in Townsville 9+ years ago I was told 
when she developed jaundice to sun her religously in am  pm for a few 
days between SBR's. I was told this again when my second child was 
born (7 years ago), but this time in sunlight filtered by window. Then 
when he was8 months old I started my midwifery education (in 
Townsville)  we were taught that it was no longer safe  we were 
not to advise parents to do this (due to high skin cancer rates in 
N.Q). What is common practice regarding this. I have come across 
midwives still recommeding to sun. 

Tina H. Brisbane

  - Original Message - 
  From: 
  Marilyn Kleidon 
  To: [EMAIL PROTECTED] 
  
  Sent: Saturday, July 12, 2003 1:00 
  AM
  Subject: Re: [ozmidwifery] whats 
  happening ?
  
  Hi Lynne: yes it is weird how transfers can 
  cluster sometimes. Exhausting. Regarding the Mg SO4 and BP, one young 
  woman I worked with in Seattle developed high BP after we made the 
  hospital transfer(we transferred for maternal exhaustion, she had been 
  labouring hard for 2 days and was still 3cm, BP had been stable at home, 
  no other sx except that she had had heartburn/reflux throughout the 
  pregnancy and i have wondered since if this masked any epigastric pain) 
  anyway BP went from 120/70 at home to 138/88 on arrival at hospital, to 
  144/90 to finally 160/100, this was after the epidural but while we were 
  awaiting the stat liver function tests which the ob ordered "just in case" 
  actually apologising for ordering them as we all thought the elevated BP 
  wasdue to the stress of the transfer.She had HELLP syndrome, so Mg SO4 and 
  much careful monitoring, she went to complete in 2hrs and pushed her baby 
  out in between vomitting from the Mg SO4. There was thick to mod mec 
  liquor too, baby was 8lb and vigorous at birth. She stayed in hospital 3 
  days on meds until her bloods were normal and BP stable, baby very 
  jaundiced really should have had phototherapy but parents declined and 
  went home. Mum also somewhat jaundiced (I guess the hemolysis). Baby was 
  under paediatric care, lost 10% in first week, milk took a good 7 days 
  to really come in once it did baby made a slow but steady weight gain. WE, 
  the midwives were somewhat anxious, but paed was ok with it doing 
  homevisits and sun baths for baby (trust me the UV index in Seattle is not 
  to be worried about). Long story, sorry. So yes the milk did come in just 
  later.
  
  marilyn
  
- Original Message - 
From: 
Lynne Staff 
To: [EMAIL PROTECTED] 

Sent: Thursda

Re: [ozmidwifery] Lieves story

2003-07-11 Thread M T Holroyd
Title: Re: [ozmidwifery] Lieves story



I too was wondering about Lars  his family... 
they have been in my thoughts  prayers very often especially since he was 
born the day after my little one. Leive, please pass on to Lars' family 
that they are in my thoughts often. Thankyou. Tina H. 
Brisbane.

  - Original Message - 
  From: 
  Lieve Huybrechts 
  To: [EMAIL PROTECTED] 
  
  Sent: Friday, July 11, 2003 8:12 AM
  Subject: Re: [ozmidwifery] Lieves 
  story
  I didn’t forget you all, as soon as I have 
  some time and the energy to write I will tell you how we are doing. Thanks 
  Rhonda for explaining.If you want you can all see a picture of Lars at www.geboorte-infocentrum.be and 
  go to ‘geboortekaartjes’. The tekst means : Lars swam out of his mothers belly 
  on march 16. After 7 weeks of intens enjoying him there was a little hope that 
  he could stay with us forever. But his heart turned out to be to weak. 
  He died in his mothers arms on may 12 th in Leuven. Son of Frederik and Nele, 
  brother of Jonas.Warm 
  greetingsLieveOn 11-07-2003 08:45, "Marilyn 
  Kleidon" [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:
  I was wondering 
too.marilyn
- Original Message - 
  From: Sheena Johnson mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] 
  To: [EMAIL PROTECTED] Sent: 
  Thursday, July 10, 2003 3:45 AMSubject: [ozmidwifery] Lieves 
  storyWas wondering if anyone had heard from Lieve and what has 
  happened with Nele and Lars, have I missed a posting? 
  Regards Sheena Johnson


[ozmidwifery] sun baths for jundice

2003-07-11 Thread M T Holroyd



Hi, just aquick question after Marilyn talked of 
sun baths for jaundice (below). What is the latest info on this? 
When I had my daughter in Townsville 9+ years ago I was told when she developed 
jaundice to sun her religously in am  pm for a few days between 
SBR's. I was told this again when my second child was born (7 years ago), 
but this time in sunlight filtered by window. Then when he was8 
months old I started my midwifery education (in Townsville)  we were taught 
that it was no longer safe  we were not to advise parents to do this (due 
to high skin cancer rates in N.Q). What is common practice regarding 
this. I have come across midwives still recommeding to sun. 


Tina H. Brisbane

  - Original Message - 
  From: 
  Marilyn 
  Kleidon 
  To: [EMAIL PROTECTED] 
  
  Sent: Saturday, July 12, 2003 1:00 
  AM
  Subject: Re: [ozmidwifery] whats 
  happening ?
  
  Hi Lynne: yes it is weird how transfers can 
  cluster sometimes. Exhausting. Regarding the Mg SO4 and BP, one young 
  woman I worked with in Seattle developed high BP after we made the hospital 
  transfer(we transferred for maternal exhaustion, she had been labouring hard 
  for 2 days and was still 3cm, BP had been stable at home, no other sx except 
  that she had had heartburn/reflux throughout the pregnancy and i have wondered 
  since if this masked any epigastric pain) anyway BP went from 120/70 at home 
  to 138/88 on arrival at hospital, to 144/90 to finally 160/100, this was after 
  the epidural but while we were awaiting the stat liver function tests which 
  the ob ordered "just in case" actually apologising for ordering them as we all 
  thought the elevated BP wasdue to the stress of the transfer.She had HELLP 
  syndrome, so Mg SO4 and much careful monitoring, she went to complete in 2hrs 
  and pushed her baby out in between vomitting from the Mg SO4. There was thick 
  to mod mec liquor too, baby was 8lb and vigorous at birth. She stayed in 
  hospital 3 days on meds until her bloods were normal and BP stable, baby very 
  jaundiced really should have had phototherapy but parents declined and went 
  home. Mum also somewhat jaundiced (I guess the hemolysis). Baby was under 
  paediatric care, lost 10% in first week, milk took a good 7 days to really 
  come in once it did baby made a slow but steady weight gain. WE, the midwives 
  were somewhat anxious, but paed was ok with it doing homevisits and sun baths 
  for baby (trust me the UV index in Seattle is not to be worried about). Long 
  story, sorry. So yes the milk did come in just later.
  
  marilyn
  
- Original Message - 
From: 
Lynne Staff 
To: [EMAIL PROTECTED] 

Sent: Thursday, July 10, 2003 2:14 
PM
Subject: Re: [ozmidwifery] whats 
happening ?

Hi Jan
Must be something in the water - I had3 
t/f to hosp as well in the past 2 months. One - a primigravida - C/B 
after BP shot through the roof antenatally and SROM at 37 weeks. She did 
labour, but for whatever reason, her body did not open, and her BP sneaking 
up higher and higher despite Mg So4 and hydrallazine. Home now but lactation 
did not establish and she has tried everything. Is anyone aware of MgSo4 or 
hydrallazine having an impact on lactation?

Another had the most amazing labour - had been 
labouring for quite some time before she called (as she and partner had been 
happy working together). First baby. After some time I asked if I could 
examine her - something wasn't right - she had the most awful back pain and 
the babe was not OP - the head VERY deep in the pelvis and had been for some 
weeks prior to birth. Head was +2 and covered with lower segment. Looking 
for cervix and finally located it very high and anterior behind the right 
obturator foramen. Pinhole in size and the lower segment/cervix paper thin. 
No wonder she had this dreadful backache. I began to massage the tine hole 
in her cervix very gently - within 5 mins had opened to 3-4. Another 2 hrs 
later, still awful backache (imagine the stretch on her posterior 
ligaments), and still the same. Some more gentle massage and the cervix 
opened to 5-6. Into bath, but backache absolutely unbearable after another 
hour. Penney asked me to massage again, but my short little fingers could 
only coax it to 8 where it stayed for the next hour. She decided to go to 
hosp for some pain relief (!), and when we arrived I organised an epidural 
for her. Asked to check her again before the anaesthetist arrived, because 
it might change what she wanted to do - anterior lip, backache gone and she 
pushed out her baby after I phoned the anaesthetisit to say we wouldn't be 
requiring him after all. All of us crying - one exhausted but oh so 
triumphant woman.

Third primigravida, who laboured beautifully at 
home and the baby just did not come past caput on 

Re: [ozmidwifery] Fw: We had a boy

2003-07-07 Thread M T Holroyd
Good luck Jodie...  hope all goes beautifully for you.  I joined FBC at the
FBC postnatal morning tea when Jay was 8 weeks old.  Since then I have
attended the infant massage morning  had a great get together with some of
the other March birth mums.  What a wonderful organisation.  Looking forward
to becoming more involved (when time permits).

Tina H.  Brissbane


- Original Message - 
From: Jodie Miller [EMAIL PROTECTED]
To: [EMAIL PROTECTED]
Sent: Monday, July 07, 2003 4:07 PM
Subject: Re: [ozmidwifery] Fw: We had a boy


 Congratulations Tina and Marty!  It's so nice to receive such wonderful
 feedback about our beloved birth centre in Brisbane.

 I'm 39wks pregnant myself and eagerly awaiting the birth at our birth
 centre.  Best of health and happiness to you and your family.

 Jodie Miller
 Friends of the Birth Centre Qld Assoc.
 http://www.fbc.org.au


 On Sunday 06 July 2003 19:46, M  T Holroyd wrote:
  - Original Message -
  From: M  T Holroyd
  To: ozmidwifery
  Sent: Sunday, July 06, 2003 7:33 PM
  Subject: We had a boy
 
 
  Hi,
 
  I Just wanted to let you know how the birth of my fourth baby went. We
had
  a beautiful big boy at the Birth Centre here in Brisbane.  It was a
  wonderful experience that I still tell people about even now 4 months
later
  (just leave out some of the more personal details).  When I first rang
my
  midwife I told her I had been having irregilar contractions since 5pm
but
  now regular (approx 9.30pm) at 3min appart  that I was coping well at
  home, but with my history of fast labours she said I had better come in
(I
  think she could hear something in my voice  Marty said he knew it was
time
  to go anyway - I on the other hand was in my own world).  We woke the
kids
   packed them into the car  off we went.  On the way to the hospital my
  contractions got closer  in between contractions my almost 9yo daughter
  (Emilie) dozed,  my 6.5yo (Jeremy)  3.5yo (Ethan) talked to me about
what
  was happening.  Jeremy asked me if the baby was going to come out of my
  belly (he knew where a baby comes from but my sister had recently had a
  c/section)  Ethan piped up babies come out of a mummy's vagina don't
you
  know Jeremy... this set me off laughing  along came another
contraction.
  Soon after another contraction (I would bang my head on the head rest
for
  distraction) Jeremy said to me Mummy how about you take big breaths in

  out with your next pain to help so I made an effort  he breathed along
  with me for the rest of the trip he was a real help.   I arrived at
the
  BC with my husband, 3 children, mother  two sisters in tow at 10pm.  My
  Midwife had the tub full because she new I wanted a water birth,  she
had
  beautiful music playing.  I got into the tub soon after arrival (it was
  like sinking into heaven - what wonderful pain relief), Marty sat on the
  edge of the tub to support me  my three children hopped in and paddled
  around me rubbing my back with a contraction.  Our midwife was wonderful

  encouraged  welcomed my children... they felt so comfortable being
there 
  we were all very excited.  After a few contractions I asked the kids to
get
  out (I was feeling that I needed to focus  have my own space at this
  time... maybe going through transition?).  Not long after I started to
  push, push  push  even though the urge was as strong as it had ever
been
  I didn't feel like I was moving my baby much at all (I'd never worked
this
  hard at pushing before)  I had bad lower back hip pain with each
  contration (which was also new to me).  Anyway, a short time later his
head
  emerged but I was still pushing with all my might  it felt to me like
he
  just wasn't going any further so when I heard our midwife tell Marty to
get
  me up now I knew there was a good reason  was already on my way up 
she
  had to give him a little tug because his shoulders were tight, he was
born
  at 10.51pm on Sat 15th March (11 days before Emilie's birthday).  I had
  minimal blood loss  a physiological third stage on the birth stool.
  Emilie cut the cord prior to third stage being complete but after it had
  stopped pulsating (she normally hates the sight of blood or even hearing
  the word but to be involved  cut the cord didn't bother her).  I
offered
  him a feed whilst waiting for placenta but he was to busy letting the
world
  know that he was here.  He weighed 4540 grams (10lb)  was my biggest
baby
  by almost 500 grams.  I had not even a graze  didn't even feel like I
had
  had a baby (was that the mostly water birth?).  He breastfed well  he
is
  still thriving.  Our midwife showed Emilie  I my placenta  Emilie was
  very interested... midwife explained it all to her.  Emilie made the
  comment it looks yucky mummy but I know it is very important  it's
also
  good to know for when I go to Aunty Leasa's (my sister who was present)
  next birth (she is inviting herself  baby is not even planned yet).
 
  This was my first BC baby, my

[ozmidwifery] Fw: We had a boy

2003-07-06 Thread M T Holroyd




- Original Message - 
From: M 
 T Holroyd 
To: ozmidwifery 
Sent: Sunday, July 06, 2003 7:33 PM
Subject: We had a boy

Hi, 

I Just wanted to let you know how the birth of my 
fourth baby went.We had a beautiful big boy at the Birth Centre here in 
Brisbane. It was a wonderful experience that I still tell people about 
even now4 months later (just leave out some of the more personal 
details). When I first rang my midwifeI told her I had been having 
irregilar contractions since5pmbut now regular (approx 9.30pm) at 
3min appart that I was coping well at home, but with my history of 
fast labours she said I had better come in (I think she could hear something in 
my voice  Marty said he knew it was time to go anyway - I on the other hand 
was in my own world). We woke the kids  packed them into the car 
 off we went. On the way to the hospital my contractions got closer 
 in between contractions my almost 9yo daughter (Emilie) dozed,  my 
6.5yo (Jeremy) 3.5yo (Ethan)talked to me about what was 
happening. Jeremy asked me if the baby was going to come out of my belly 
(he knew where a baby comes from but my sister had recently had a c/section) 
 Ethan piped up "babies come out of a mummy's vagina don't you know 
Jeremy"... this set me off laughing  along came another contraction. 
Soon after another contraction (I would bang my head on the head rest for 
distraction) Jeremy said to me "Mummy how about you take big breaths in  
out with your next pain to help" so I made an effort  he breathed along 
with me for the rest of the trip he was a real help. I arrived 
at the BC with my husband, 3 children, mother  two sisters in tow 
at10pm. My Midwife had the tub full because she new I wanted a water 
birth,  she had beautiful music playing. I got into the tub soon 
after arrival (it was like sinking into heaven - what wonderful pain relief), 
Marty sat on the edge of the tub to support me  my three children hopped in 
and paddled around me rubbing my back with a contraction. Our midwife was 
wonderful  encouraged welcomed my children... they felt so 
comfortable being there  we were all very excited. After a few 
contractions I asked the kids to get out (I was feeling that I needed to focus 
 have my own space at this time... maybe going through transition?). 
Not long after I started to push, push  push  even though the urge was 
as strong as it had ever been I didn't feel like I was moving my baby much at 
all (I'd never worked this hard at pushing before)  I had bad 
lowerbackhip pain with each contration (which was also new to 
me). Anyway, a short time later his head emerged but I was still pushing 
with all my might  it felt to me like he just wasn't going any further so 
when I heard our midwife tell Marty to get me up "now" I knew there was a good 
reason  was already on my way up  she had to give him a little tug 
because his shoulders were tight, he was born at 10.51pm on Sat 15th March (11 
days before Emilie's birthday). I had minimal blood loss  
aphysiological third stage on the birth stool. Emilie cut the cord 
prior to third stage being complete but after it had stopped pulsating(she 
normally hates the sight of blood or even hearing the word but to be involved 
 cut the cord didn't bother her). I offered him a feed whilst waiting 
for placenta but he was to busy letting the world know that he was here. 
He weighed 4540 grams (10lb)  was my biggest baby by almost 500 
grams. I had not even a graze  didn't even feel like I had had a baby 
(was that the mostly water birth?). He breastfed well  he is still 
thriving. Our midwife showed Emilie  I my placenta  Emilie was 
very interested... midwife explained it all to her. Emilie made the 
comment "it looks yucky mummy but I know it is very important  it's also 
good to know for when I go to Aunty Leasa's (my sister who was present) next 
birth (she is inviting herself  baby is not even planned 
yet)".

This was my first BC baby, my first waterbirth, my 
first birth without VE,my first birth without any form of drugs (1st baby 
gas  peth, 2nd  3rd gas only), my first birth in a squating 
position/upright (all others were semi-sitting),my first physiological 
third stage, first birth where the midwife truly trusted me  my 
ability. Also the first time any of my children attended a birth. 
All of my births were amazing  beautiful, but this was that little bit more 
special because I truly got what I wanted  I new exactly what I wanted 
before hand. Also there is alot to be said (as you all know) for knowing 
your midwife.. then you can trust each other.

I have to say that I did end up with the 
excruciating afterbirth pains that were worse than they had ever been (but 
lasted for less days than previously)... hot packs  panadeine helped me 
through but only just. 

Thankyou for listening to my story (wish I had the 
creative writting gift so that I could make it sound as special  truly 
wonderful

Re: [ozmidwifery] Sleep Baby Sleep

2003-06-25 Thread M T Holroyd
Hi Pinky,

Pnky wrote: Any current long term breastfeeders (with a nursing toddler 1
to 2 years old
 right now) willing to be interviewed?

My breastfeeding times grow longer with each child.  I am not currently
feeding an older child, but did feed my third child until 3 years  1 month.
We weaned because I was approx. 4 mths pregnant  suffering with fatigue 
morning sickness.  We weaned in Oct / Nov last year.  If this is recent
enough feel free to contact me.

Tina H.  Brisbane.


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Re: [ozmidwifery] Back again...

2003-06-03 Thread M T Holroyd
Dear Cas,

I loved your photos.  You have beautiful children.  Am looking forward to
reading your story soon.. my 11 week old is has decided he is starving.
Thankyou for sharing.

Tina H. in Brisbane.

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Re: [ozmidwifery] vaginal wall tearing

2003-05-31 Thread M T Holroyd



Dear Jo,

I don't know if this will help, but as a midwifery 
student I cared for a woman who had had a previous 3rd degree tear (I think... 
can't remember all the details as it was 5 years ago). She had to have it 
repared in OT at the time  I think maybe one more op later down the 
track... as you can imagine she was very worried this time around. The 
Dr's notes stated that she was to have an episiotomy at even the slightest 
indication that she might tear. Looking at her perineum the scar was large 
 there was a dint in it like someone had removed a piece. 
Anyway, from memory she stayed mostly active  only just made it back 
onto the bed in time for me to catch the baby (I know better now with regards to 
the bed thing)  I didn't even have time to call the registered midwife 
until the baby was almost all the way out. The woman did not have even a 
graze to her perineum / vulva. She was absoulutly happy ( so was I 
). She followed her own instincts  no coaching from me or her 
husband.Good luck to thiswoman for whatever she 
chooses.

Tina H.

  - Original Message - 
  From: 
  Jo 
   Dean Bainbridge 
  To: [EMAIL PROTECTED] 
  
  Sent: Thursday, May 29, 2003 11:07 
  AM
  Subject: [ozmidwifery] vaginal wall 
  tearing
  
  I know there has been discussion in the past 
  about this but I am in a hurry to get some information for a woman whom had a 
  positive vaginal birth that turned ugly when she "tore badly inside and out" 
  (in quotes because that is what she said and I have no further knowledge of 
  what sort of tearing it was.) She has had incontinence problems and sexual 
  dysfunction for the last 16 months. Her first OB said to have a cs (of 
  course) and then yesterday she was told that she should not have a cs and that 
  a vag birth would be the best option. She is now very confused and 
  scarred as hubby wants her to have cs and her fear is that a vag birth will 
  increase problems they already have.
  She is willing to have a vag birth if she can 
  optimise her chance of reducing the damage if a tear happens 
  again.
  Can anyone offer midwifery woman focused care and 
  positions etc that she could use during a vag birth? She would have a 
  home birth but she can not afford it. I suggested an independent mw to 
  take with her to hospital but that was dismissed without reason. She is 
  an intelligent woman and if she can read evidence to support the chance of her 
  not having further damage caused then she will opt for a vag birth I 
  think. She wants to make her choice in three weeks so I would appreciate 
  some help in gaining information and not waste time surfing 
around
  cheers wonderful women! Hope you can help me help a woman avoid putting herself and her 
  baby through a cs.
  Jo Bainbridgefounding member CARES SAwww.cares-sa.org.au[EMAIL PROTECTED]phone: 08 8388 
  6918birth with trust, faith  
love...