Re: [lace-chat] Names Titles

2006-08-28 Thread Carol Adkinson
] To: lace-chat@arachne.com Sent: Monday, August 28, 2006 1:30 AM Subject: Re: [lace-chat] Names Titles My pet hate is when someone who is young enough to be my granddaughter calls me Luv. Ugh!! Told one young thing of about 16 that I was not her Luv and what's more, I never would

Re: [lace-chat] Names Titles

2006-08-27 Thread Alice Howell
But now I'm curious: the tendency in the US of children addressing elders by their first name;. You brought to mind the small child of our friends who was just learning to talk. He could pronouce DH's name of Chuck but not mine. He solved it by calling both of us 'Chuck'. He knew we

[lace-chat] Names Titles

2006-08-27 Thread Jane Partridge
In message [EMAIL PROTECTED], Thurlow Weed [EMAIL PROTECTED] writes But now I'm curious: the tendency in the US of children addressing elders by their first name; while I abhor it, I am curious to know if this is the case in other countries as well. Is this a US phenomenon, or does it exist

Re: [lace-chat] Names Titles

2006-08-27 Thread Lorri Ferguson
That is much better than the ones who call you 'Honey' or something similar! Our former dentist had a Southern middle-aged woman for a receptionist who constantly used Honey or something similar. At home I called her 'Rotten Magnolia'. I was really glad when she left. At least when they call

Re: [lace-chat] Names Titles

2006-08-27 Thread Brenda Paternoster
In theory the title Ms refers to any female and is the equivalent of Mr. In practice, (here in England) nearly all women who choose to use the title Ms are divorced, or at least separated from their husband and so it actually says a lot more about the personal circumstances than Mr does. If

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2006-08-27 Thread Helen Ward
My pet hate is when someone who is young enough to be my granddaughter calls me Luv. Ugh!! Told one young thing of about 16 that I was not her Luv and what's more, I never would be. Helen. That is much better than the ones who call you 'Honey' or something similar! Lorri To

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2006-08-27 Thread Joy Beeson
Alice Howell wrote: He could pronouce DH's name of Chuck but not mine. He solved it by calling both of us 'Chuck'. He knew we always came together Our nickname for uncle Frank was Franken -- because we were always talking about Frank 'n Lena -- Joy Beeson http://joybeeson.home.comcast.net/

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2006-08-26 Thread H. Muth
Hello all, Like Mr. Weed, (or perhaps I should call him 'young Thurlow' as I am 3 years older) I too, deplore the use of first names of adults by children. However, it is sometimes difficult to insist that my children call others by their titles. We had some friends who insisted that they

RE: [lace-chat] Names Titles

2006-08-26 Thread liz thackray
I find it quite interesting how strong our feelings are about names and titles (there is an almost identical discussion going on at the moment in another group I am involved with). I am in that camp which abhors titles and has no problems with children addressing adults by their first names. I

[lace-chat] Names Titles

2006-08-26 Thread Elizabeth Ligeti
My father had 3 Christian names, and they were such a pain to write out in full on any Official form, that he insisted I only have one - to spare me that problem! One title' I hate is Ms. - However I do use it when I don't know if the person is a Miss or Mrs! But everyone knows I am a Mrs,

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2006-08-26 Thread Helen Ward
Since I've been divorced since 1977, I don't consider myself a Mrs, nor am I a Miss. Unless I'm forced to use a 'title' I don't use one - I'm just 'Helen Ward'. If I'm forced to use one I use Ms. I don't see why in this day and age, that when men don't need to use a title, that women have to.

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2006-08-25 Thread Thurlow Weed
Rosemary's post got me thinking a bit about my upbringing. I was discussing this thread with my mother by phone this morning, and she too, despised being addressed as Mrs Thurlow Weed. She had her own name, thank you very much. Shortly after she was married, she encountered Mrs Thurlow Weed,