Re: [QUAD-L] About life and length of time as a quad

2006-06-07 Thread DeLiMiTeD4
Bobbie, it's not important how you became a quad, The important part is what you do afterward. You know I respect you. john In a message dated 6/6/2006 7:31:09 PM Eastern Daylight Time, [EMAIL PROTECTED] writes: My Mom told her boss at work what happened to me and she had the nerve to say

Re: [QUAD-L] About life and length of time as a quad

2006-06-07 Thread River Wolfe
Yes, Bobbie I do.  My experience is on the flip side of that though.  When I tell people I had a hiking accident, people tend to feel VERY bad for me, since hiking is seen as rugged and outdoorsy, and I'm not likely to be "rugged and outdoorsy" again ;-)River  When I tell people who ask me "how

Re: [QUAD-L] Suffocation

2006-06-07 Thread DAANOO
I take Tegretol, as I had 4 slight seizures over a year ago. They decided to after all the tests. Dana. They said a lot of people get it after many years of spinal cord injury. I don't know if that's true.

Re: [QUAD-L] Suffocation

2006-06-07 Thread Eric Olson
Did you see anything? I find the whole death/near death experience subject fascinating. Eric RollinOn wrote: Dying, it was actually quite peaceful. Mark ---Original Message---

Re: [QUAD-L] Suffocation

2006-06-07 Thread Eric Olson
No, but I did have a grand mall seizure in rehab. Never had one before sci. Eric [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: Do any of you have epilepsy from your injuries?

Re: [QUAD-L] Suffocation

2006-06-07 Thread RollinOn
No I just remember being very peaceful. Mark ---Original Message--- From: Eric Olson Date: 06/07/06 15:12:08 To: RollinOn Cc: quad-list@eskimo.com; S. Dial Subject: Re: [QUAD-L] Suffocation Did you see anything? I find the whole death/near death experience subject fascinating.

Re: [QUAD-L] About life and length of time as a quad

2006-06-07 Thread RollinOn
That's pretty damnsorry thing to say, next time someone says something to that nature have your Momsay "So true, so what happened to you that turned you into aroaring B..ch?" awwwpriceless. Mark ---Original Message--- From: [EMAIL PROTECTED] Date: 06/06/06 18:38:37 To: [EMAIL

Re: [QUAD-L] heel sore

2006-06-07 Thread RollinOn
Yeah I've had them and it was my shoes so find out what's doing itfirst. Mark ---Original Message--- From: Johnny Date: 06/07/06 15:19:05 To: QUAD-LIST@eskimo.com Subject: [QUAD-L] heel sore has anyone had a sore on the back of thir heel that turned black. My dr gave me

Re: [QUAD-L] I'm kinda new here

2006-06-07 Thread RollinOn
Welcome Barbara, I'm Mark 40 yrs old anda C5/6 going on 7 yrs post now and the first 2-3 years are the hardest. I was in a nursing home for 2 1/2 years and that's no place for a youngster like you so stay clear of that. Find something you liketo do asap andyou'll find a way to do it, it's

Re: [QUAD-L] I'm kinda new here

2006-06-07 Thread Eric Olson
Barb, I was also injured at 19. July 1, 1986. I know this won't be very reassuring but in terms of sci you're still very new. I'm sure everyone on this list has had days or even much longer periods where they asked themselves "what's the point?" It can take time to figure out what to do next.

Re: [QUAD-L] Suffocation

2006-06-07 Thread S. Dial
My bad then, I misunderstood. I apologize. Steph

Re: [QUAD-L] heel sore

2006-06-07 Thread S. Dial
Johnny, I've had that happen to both my heels and they finally had to be surgically debreided in '93(sp?) tried ointment and stuff prior but it did little for mine. Mine was caused from constant chafing due to contracted legsspasming frequentlyhad a tendonotomy done at same time I got

Re: [QUAD-L] Suffocation

2006-06-07 Thread Eric Olson
Whoa! Didn't mean to dispute your experience as not suffocating. Only to explain that the way it happens to sci is usually instantaneous. From normal to nothing in the blink of an eye. Eric S. Dial wrote: I didn't say my experience was like an SCIs only that I knew what it was

Re: [QUAD-L] I'm kinda new here

2006-06-07 Thread Silas
Hello Barbara, Welcome to the quad list, this list of people are great! Just ask anything and someone has been there, I know exactly what your going through. Theres life after sci! Silas - Original Message - From: [EMAIL PROTECTED] To: quad-list@eskimo.com Sent:

Re: [QUAD-L] Suffocation

2006-06-07 Thread Silas
Dam Steph take a chill pill, I don't think he meant anything disputeing your experience. I know first hand what its like not to be able to breathe, I threw a blood clot to my lungs and the gay male nurse said there was nothing wrong with me because my stattes were good. He about let me die

Re: [QUAD-L] About life and length of time as a quad

2006-06-07 Thread Oconnelldb
No you are thinking of needing glasses - the going blind thing. SCI is definitely related to "Mach II, hair on fire", 10 feet tall and bullet proof - and of course the, "that won't happen to me" mentality we all had at 19 ( yes I was 19 as well.) I did some pretty silly things with my

Re: [QUAD-L] heel sore

2006-06-07 Thread Eric Olson
Yes, twice. Heels are boney so it's easy to get one. Luckily, they aren't deep so I just left mine open to the air. Check with your doctor. Find out what he wants to do next. Eric Johnny wrote: has anyone had a sore on the back of thir heel that turned black. My dr gave me ointment to

Re: [QUAD-L] I'm kinda new here

2006-06-07 Thread DAANOO
Hi Barbara, I'm glad you found this list, I did know did not know about it, when I was in new injury as I did not have the computer until 85 and not connected to the Internet until 2003 . I'm not even sure when this was started, maybe someone can tell us. I could never thank Jim Lubin enough

Re: [QUAD-L] I'm kinda new here

2006-06-07 Thread Bill_J
How do we do it? Very simple answer: One day at a time. Before you know it many years will have passed. A funny thing about time: the older you get, the faster time passes. Don't worry, Barb. You'll make it. Bill age 55C6 Incomplete since 7/20/68Leesburg, FLHe had a mind like a Post-It

Re: [QUAD-L] pEER mENTORING

2006-06-07 Thread Lori Michaelson
William, LOL ... I went back and read my post the following day and noticed that I spoke about my peer counselor as though he does not exist anymore. So I figured somebody might ask the question you just did! Yes, he is still around and still resides near Albany, New York. We do not keep

Re: [QUAD-L] I'm kinda new here

2006-06-07 Thread wheelchair
Hiya Barbara, You don't know me and that is not too important at this time, but for the next 2-3 years, you are on a mission to get to know your body all over again. During the last 12 months, the doctors, nurses and therapist have been handling your body like its a piece of meat and you've

FW: Re: [QUAD-L] heel sore

2006-06-07 Thread William Willis
Happened to me too. My entire heel disappeared...just an old bone sticking out. Twas caused by a cast applied for a broken leg and crushed knee. Had to debreed (sp?) it several times, but with wet to dry it took about a year to heal. From: S. Dial [EMAIL PROTECTED] Reply-To: S. Dial [EMAIL

FW: Re: [QUAD-L] heel sore

2006-06-07 Thread William Willis
That salve is probably granulex or something similar. Make sure you don't get it on the healthy flesh. It tends to eat whatever it touches. From: RollinOn [EMAIL PROTECTED] Reply-To: RollinOn [EMAIL PROTECTED] To: QUAD-LIST@eskimo.com, Johnny [EMAIL PROTECTED] Subject: Re: [QUAD-L] heel

Re: [QUAD-L] I'm kinda new here

2006-06-07 Thread Lori Michaelson
Dear Barbara, 'W' seems to know how to say all the right things even though he is not a quad himself. I think he did an excellent job of welcomingyou to this list in his own special way! Us female quads are a special breed of our own. I think the statistics still say that85% of

[QUAD-L] I'm kinda new here

2006-06-07 Thread wheelchair
In a message dated 6/7/2006 8:32:50 PM Central Daylight Time, [EMAIL PROTECTED] writes: Dear Barbara, 'W' seems to know how to say all the right things even though he is not a quad himself. I think he did an excellent job of welcomingyou to this list in his own special way!

Re: [QUAD-L] I'm kinda new here

2006-06-07 Thread Danny Hearn
W" is not a quad ? hmm then what are u W" ? lol Dan[EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:In a message dated 6/7/2006 8:32:50 PM Central Daylight Time, [EMAIL PROTECTED] writes:Dear Barbara,'W' seems to know how to say all the right things even though he is not a quad himself. I think he did an

Re: [QUAD-L] About life and length of time as a quad

2006-06-07 Thread Jim Lubin
Well, I was one of them. Like Stacy, I got sick and the result was me becoming a vent dependent and paralyzed from the neck down when I was 21. I woke up with a sore shoulder, an hour later I had trouble standing, then stopped breathing. I've been paralyzed ever since. When I was in rehab, the

[QUAD-L] About how each of us became quads

2006-06-07 Thread RONALD L PRACHT
Hi, I guess some of us deserve to be a quad more than others, but to the walking world we are all looked at the same basically. People in general know nothing of disability other than they dont want to become disabled. Someone mentioned earlier its what you do after chair that counts now, it

Re: [QUAD-L] About life and length of time as a quad

2006-06-07 Thread Oconnelldb
Wow Jim, Riding in a car puts your life in danger. Eating fast food, breathing our crappy air, drinking our crappy water, going out in public, jumping bikes, kissing, smoking, taking drugs, landing on your feet from jumping.., what exactly would you consider 'safe'? I remember my 1st