Re: [TMIC] Relationships

2009-06-13 Thread Kevin Wolfthal
Dan, Bless you for your kind words. May you find the strength to get through this difficult time. You and your family remain in my thoughts and prayers. Kevin montzma...@aol.com wrote: oh kevin. i can not think of the words to speak to you. that's terrible. may god bless you to find

Re: [TMIC] Relationships

2009-06-13 Thread Kevin Wolfthal
When TM hit me, I kept working until I no longer could. In fact I pushed myself even harder than before..probably a mistake. My boss said once, what's with all the sick, never asking what was my DX. He subsequently found out what sick was when he lost his only two sons, one to cancer and the

Re: [TMIC] Relationships

2009-06-13 Thread Kevin Wolfthal
Akua, I am sorry that you are going through these difficulties. I had to get my state involved to get a wheelchair curb cut put in front of my condo complex. The building resents me because it cost money, even though they were breaking the law. Kevin Akua wrote: My relationships, most

RE: [TMIC] Relationships

2009-06-13 Thread Patricia Cooley
TM HIT ME ON OUR 45TH WEDDING ANNIVERSARY. THAT IS A DATE NEIGHER OF US WILL FORGET. MY HUSBAND WHO NEVER DID ANY COOKING, LAUNDRY, ETC., HAD TO TAKE OVER ALL THE HOUSE WORK AND THE OUTSIDE WORK. WHEN I FIRST CAME HOME FROM THE HOPITAL AFTER 6 WEEKS, I WAS FORTUNATE THAT MY SISTER, NIECES, AND

Re: [TMIC] ABOUT BANDING

2009-06-13 Thread CJBJWB
Jim noticed the Banding around his upper stomach even before he was diagnosed, and mentioned it to me several times. His discription was a tight belt. I was sitting in his room at Henry Ford hosp. and when the head neuro and several interns were discussing him out in the hall, I picked up on

RE: [TMIC] Relationships

2009-06-13 Thread Jan Hargrove
Frank does so much..he makes certain I don't overdo, he's kinda like my conscience, cause I think I can do more than I'm really capable of.Patti, you mention your walker with a seatI use mine for carrying stuff, i.e. laundry, dishes etc,  Frank says it's been worth much

Re: [TMIC]

2009-06-13 Thread LadyNotes
Dan, I thank you so much for being encouraging to me. It is exactly what Pam would have done. She always had an encouraging word for me. We would talk on the phone, and she would uplift my spirits. It means so much to me to have you do the same thing while still mourning her.

RE: [TMIC] Relationships

2009-06-13 Thread Patricia Cooley
JAN I USE MINE TO CARRY ALSO. BUT, I ALSO HAVE A TRAY THAT I CAN PUT ON MY REGULAR WALKER TO CARRY STUFF. IN THE BEGINNING, I HAD TO SIT ON THE SEAT IF I WANTED TO DO ANY COOKING. NOW SINCE I AM ABLE TO WALK WITHOUT A WALKER OR CANE (I SHOULD SAY WADDLE LIKE A DUCK) I DON’T USE THE SEAT

Re: [TMIC] Relationships

2009-06-13 Thread Kevin Wolfthal
Akua, The laws regarding handicapped parking don't go far enough imo, and there should be state inspections of buidings like mine, (a high-rise condo complex), to make sure they are meeting code. There is exactly ONE handicapped parking space on my street for approx. 200 condominiums. I

Re: [TMIC] Relationships

2009-06-13 Thread kimr1999
Ok not the same issue but here one of my gripes I am in a wheel chair on a business trip in LA, the hotel puts me on the 16th floor in a ‘wheel char accessible room” ok now tell me how am I to get to the ground floor if something were to happen? Can’t use the elevator, hum am I supposed

Re: [TMIC] Relationships

2009-06-13 Thread Janice
Kim, what would happen, if anything, if we all bombarded the senator in your state complaining about that hotel and the probable others that treat handicapped people the same way? That is an awful position to put anyone in - where they do not feel safe. Janice - Original Message -

Re: [TMIC] Relationships

2009-06-13 Thread Akua
To date hotel has yet to make any kind of change in wheel chair accessible rooms I wrote a letter to the corporate office but never heard back from them. This sounds like a good one for the Disablity Coalition or Reeves Foundation to take on... Ok not the same issue but here one of my

Re: [TMIC] Relationships

2009-06-13 Thread Janice
My relationship with my husband is a cross between you two, Jan and Patti. We celebrated our 39th wedding anniversary while I was still in the hospital and now it is 41 years. He is truly my hero. Life-changing illnesses really seem to be able to make or break a marriage/relationship

Re: [TMIC] Relationships

2009-06-13 Thread Janice
Todd, Sounds like you are in a strong relationship. It will help to only make you better to withstand TM's damages. Janice - Original Message - From: Patricia Cooley To: 'Jan Hargrove' ; 'transverse myelitis' Sent: Saturday, June 13, 2009 2:04 PM Subject: RE: [TMIC]

Re: [TMIC] Relationships

2009-06-13 Thread Janice
You are right. Those of us who have not had to fight society and family are extremely fortunate. Couldn't help but notice that the people causing you two so much grief ended up with worse problems. Wonder where that came from?!Janice - Original Message - From: Kevin Wolfthal

Re: [TMIC] Relationships

2009-06-13 Thread kimr1999
Karma, Karma, Karma gets um back! -- Original message from "Janice" jan...@centurytel.net: -- You are right. Those of us who have not had to fight society and family are extremely fortunate. Couldn't help but notice that the people causing you two so much grief