RE: ruhi in ireland

2005-01-20 Thread James Mock
Your in danger of falling off your high horses. No one is making any judgmental assumptions about anyone (specifically). In fact, this reader would not have known who posted the comment about Paul until others mentioned specific names. This comment was made: Yes, this is one of the

derogatory remarks on institutes (was RE: ruhi in ireland)

2005-01-19 Thread louise mchenry
Dear james you write: internet lists have, at times, raised eyebrows precisely because someone makes a comment that is derrogatory about an institution or individuals on an institution. IMO, to make such a comment is never acceptable. The internet, however, seems to breed it and that, I feel,

RE: Ruhi in Ireland

2005-01-19 Thread louise mchenry
I am very sensitive when people start throwing doubts on other peoples motives publicly. To me it is slander. And I will continue to say so. And I have nothing against this person Steve. But anybody who makes a slanderous remark will hear something in protest from me. Even if that person is my

RE: ruhi in ireland

2005-01-19 Thread louise mchenry
I will only comment that what most Bahais call firesides are not firesides in my view at all. And I have noticed that I become less clear in teaching the more I use my own understanding of the faith, and that my words have more impact if i use in a natural way quotes from the writings when I tell

RE: ruhi in ireland

2005-01-19 Thread Steve Cooney (Steve Cooney)
Janine and James et al, Your in danger of falling off your high horses. I never suggested any actual impropriety, what I asked for was that the Ruhi Institute materials be placed in the public digital domain, in order to avoid/mitigate any semblance of impropriety, any possibility of pecuniary

RE: ruhi in ireland

2005-01-19 Thread Susan Maneck
I never suggested any actual impropriety, what I asked for was that the Ruhi Institute materials be placed in the public digital domain, in order to avoid/mitigate any semblance of impropriety, The problem Steve, is that I don't think anyone saw any semblance of impropriety until you suggested

Re: ruhi in ireland

2005-01-19 Thread Firouz Anaraki
Book 6 gave me a scenario for the subjects which are most important to be brought up in talking to another about the bahai faith (I happen to agree with the importance of the subjects book 6 suggest) and also gave me a manner, a way of speakign and being with a person one wants to tell about the

RE: ruhi in ireland

2005-01-19 Thread Susan Maneck
I thought there is Core in the USA. Is that not considered an alternative? Dear Janine, The Fundamental Verities portion of the Core Curriculum existed prior to the Study Circles and was then modified to meet the House's criteria for a basic sequence of courses. But Ruhi got a head start here

RE: ruhi in ireland

2005-01-19 Thread Susan Maneck
I remember when I did book 6, I had a problem with one of the editorial comments about one of the quotations. Dear Firouz, I've had problems this way as well, though I've never done Book 6. But one Baha'i insisted I wasn't giving firesides right because I wasn't keeping it simple like Book 6

RE: devotionals (was RE: ruhi in ireland)

2005-01-19 Thread louise mchenry
Dear Susan, you are right I have not seen any statistics ;o) I think a devotional meeting is not passing the prayer book around. I think it is creating a devotional atmosphere. I usually print out some quotes and prayers and try to make it as diverse as possible, with prayers from different

RE: ruhi in ireland

2005-01-19 Thread louise mchenry
So, why not ask your NSA directly? Or the UHJ? You see, I think fundamentalism is the last thing the world needs. It has been overemphasis of one aspect which lead religions into acts unworthy of the religion. I am quite viligant that this should not happen in the Bahai faith. So if I was

RE: devotionals (was RE: ruhi in ireland)

2005-01-19 Thread Susan Maneck
I think some people are more interested in a small group than others. It may be that in your area a devotional in a house does not work, but one cannot know that for certain until at least 4 or 5 people have tried it on a regular basis. Dear Janine, We don't have much choice where I live

RE: ruhi in ireland

2005-01-19 Thread Susan Maneck
So, why not ask your NSA directly? Or the UHJ? Dear Janine, I nearly did that recently when I wrote the House regarding another matter. But a Counsellor wisely advised me against dumping all the gripes I had collected over the last five years on them that way. ;-} I stuck to the original

RE: ruhi in ireland

2005-01-18 Thread James Mock
Yes, this is one of the difficulties I find and that is that one of the principal publishers of the Ruhi materials is Palabra Publications which is associated with Paul Lample who is one of the staunchest supporters and promoters of the Study Circle engine on the ITC. I wonder too if there are

RE: ruhi in ireland

2005-01-18 Thread Susan Maneck
Susan, it could be argued that our efforts, in general, have been less effective in urban areasOne cannot be sure that Ruhi, itself, is less effective than any other approach in urban areas. Dear James, Yes, if effectiveness is measured by an increase in human resources or entry by troops,

RE: ruhi in ireland

2005-01-18 Thread Susan Maneck
Both gentlemen support the process and understand its potentialand both are quite open to other materials they have just seen the success that this process can have and, therefore, encourage what is available and useful. Dear James, I have heard Dr. Arbab make remarks to this effect,

RE: ruhi in ireland

2005-01-18 Thread James Mock
The opposite would also be true. Areas where Baha'is are very active in study circles might experience large-scale growth just because they have active Baha'is to begin with, not because of Ruhi. I expect to see high growth, for instance, in the triangle area of North Carolina which is very

Re: ruhi in ireland

2005-01-18 Thread Popeyesays
In a message dated 1/18/2005 11:28:41 AM Central Standard Time, [EMAIL PROTECTED] writes: I think it would be more precise to say that Study Circles are about aProcess. Ruhi represents certain materials designed to further that process I agree. Ruhi is a curriculum. I have done four books so

RE: ruhi in ireland

2005-01-18 Thread Susan Maneck
James wrote: Paul is very aware of the tendency for the American community to become gemicky.he seeks a sustained process. Let's start out by focusing on one set of materials; after we have mastered that, then we move on. Gimicky? Work had been done on the Fundamental Verities program long

Re: ruhi in ireland

2005-01-18 Thread Popeyesays
In a message dated 1/18/2005 5:37:32 PM Central Standard Time, [EMAIL PROTECTED] writes: Also, I've heard Counsellor insist that tobe a homefront pioneer requires that one be prepared to set up studycircles, and in the absence of an alternative curriculum, that means Ruhi. The Southern Regiona

RE: ruhi in ireland

2005-01-18 Thread louise mchenry
suggest to me that even when we are finished we just start the whole thing over again, which again, takes up all our resources. The study circles are first and foremost something to offer to the community. We are talking about multiplying the study circles, and at this moment in Ireland the ruhi

Re: ruhi in ireland

2005-01-18 Thread louise mchenry
:o) I must admit i was in a slightly provocative mood when I made that statement. The thing is, what I often see people call a fireside I don't think is a fireside at all. It is an official talk about what one person thinks the bahai faith is saying about a certain topic. But then, I am a

RE: ruhi in ireland

2005-01-18 Thread louise mchenry
Hi Susan, My take on it is this. Book 2 offered me the idea of introducing Baha'u'llahs words in a natural way in my speech. It gave me the practice and confidence to talk more freely than ever before about the Bahai teachings. Book 6 gave me a scenario for the subjects which are most

RE: ruhi in ireland, Abdu'l-Baha about unity

2005-01-18 Thread louise mchenry
Dear Susan, One does not exclude the other. I also feel that your interpretation of what Abdu'l-Baha is trying to do is too narrow. I think it does apply not only to assembly members, but to all of the community. I will later post some quotes for the reason why I think this, when I am back at a

RE: Ruhi in Ireland

2005-01-18 Thread Khazeh Fananapazir
Can I beg you all most humbly most supplicatingly to leave this sort of discussion about discussion about slander about Ruhi? I have noted such discussions become rapidly very very divisive. It can sunder and divide a most dear friend from a post code in nz from one in Ireland...or one from

RE: ruhi in ireland

2005-01-18 Thread Susan Maneck
What is a fireside? Getting a couple of friends together and talk about the Bahai faith. Dear Janine, When the Guardian said it was the best teaching method he gave as his reason that it allows the seeker to ask all of the questions in their hearts. What did it turn into? official talks about

Re: ruhi in ireland

2005-01-17 Thread Mark A. Foster
Janine, At 10:31 PM 1/16/2005, you wrote: and it is too fundamentalistic in approach. You hit on one of my pet peeves. The Ruhi method, as I have seen it conducted (and as I have heard from most other people), *is*, IMO, fundamentalist, and I am concerned it is being promoted by the

Re: ruhi in ireland

2005-01-17 Thread louise mchenry
Hi Mark, Oh dear. This could easily end in a pro-contra ruhi debate. When I hear objections to things I always want to try to assess how much of these objections are based in truth. The same when I hear glorification of things. how many people OUTSIDE the USA do you know who have gone through

Re: ruhi in ireland

2005-01-17 Thread Smaneck
In a message dated 1/17/2005 10:37:49 A.M. Central Standard Time, [EMAIL PROTECTED] writes: The same when I hear glorification of things. how many people OUTSIDE the USA do you know who have gone through the ruhi books, who have done more than one? Dear Janine, If most people are

Re: ruhi in ireland

2005-01-17 Thread louise mchenry
Hi Susan, well, I am not sure that most people are turned off by book one here in Ireland for a start. I am sure that a lot of people who are bahais for a while initially have a bias against book one, until the method is explained to them. and why the repetition is. That is so in Europe, that is

Re: ruhi in ireland, addition.

2005-01-17 Thread louise mchenry
I forgot one thing. I want to ask you all, both in favour and those not in favour of ruhi, how sure you are you are objective, you follow the tablet of the true seeker in this and how ready you are to throw preconceived ideas and notions overboard. It is a question I invite you to ask yourself.

RE: ruhi in ireland

2005-01-17 Thread louise mchenry
Chuckle! No Ruhi is not academic. I omitted something there. What I intended was: if you live in a culture whihc has a strong subculture of anti-intellectualism and then a method is introduced which is not appealing to the intellect, it can create a strong bias against that method. You say it

RE: ruhi in ireland

2005-01-17 Thread Susan Maneck
What I intended was: if you live in a culture whihc has a strong subculture of anti-intellectualism and then a method is introduced which is not appealing to the intellect, it can create a strong bias against that method. Dear Janine, Ah yes, then we are on the same wave length. In fact I was

Re: ruhi in ireland

2005-01-17 Thread Popeyesays
In a message dated 1/17/2005 12:21:51 PM Central Standard Time, [EMAIL PROTECTED] writes: Maybe it is a good thing that firesides have stopped, The NSA has made cleaqr over and over in the U.S. that the institute process should NOT make firesides and deepenings stop. If it is, then attitudes

RE: ruhi in ireland

2005-01-17 Thread Susan Maneck
The NSA has made cleaqr over and over in the U.S. that the institute process should NOT make firesides and deepenings stop. If it is, then attitudes need adjustment to comply with the guidance on the issue. Dear Scott, I don't think it is a matter of 'attitude' it is a matter of energy. There is

RE: ruhi in ireland

2005-01-17 Thread Susan Maneck
Dear Scott, What Abdu'l-Baha was trying to do was make sure that individual Assembly members did not undermine the authority of the institution as a whole by opposing the decision that body made. For them not to act in unity under these circumstances is rather like parents arguing discipline

RE: ruhi in ireland

2005-01-17 Thread Steve Cooney
In fact, even our NSA seems to have largely been shut out of the process. It mostly came down from the ITC, which as you know, is not an elected institution. Yes, this is one of the difficulties I find and that is that one of the principal publishers of the Ruhi materials is Palabra Publications

ruhi in ireland

2005-01-16 Thread louise mchenry
Dear all, I read some of the posts on ruhi on this list with interest. From what I am getting from the USA Bahais at various places on the internet it seems that in the USA Ruhi is tutored in quite a strict way, with a lot of emphasis on 'how it is supposed to be taught'. In Ireland we