--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "seventhray27" <steve.sundur@...> wrote: > > > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "Robin Carlsen" <maskedzebra@> > wrote: > > > Don't mind me, laughinggull: I compensate for my congenital mediocrity > by trying to be much more interesting and provocative than I have a > right to be. > > > > My life is just very dull. > > > > Forgive me. > > Hey everybody, give it up for Robin C! > You know Robin, studies have been done that show that those people > typically categorized as "blue collar" have sex more often than those > who have achieved a higher level of education. I suspect they also > laugh more, and do not take things as seriously. > I do worry that the element of fun seems to be missing in your life. > Let me know if there is anything I can do to help out in this regard. > Sincerely, > Steve
I am going to take you at your word, Steve. I feel you are, in your own way, showing me some real love here. It is true: If I have one regret in my life, it is "the element of fun seems to be missing in [my] life"--however, the ironic thing is that by confessing that, I tried to GIVE THE OPPOSITE IMPRESSION. But your post here does go where there is this mysterious and inappropriate seriousness--Perhaps you have some solution? It is one thing to sympathize, Steve--but in your last sentence you actually suggest you might have a remedy? Or am I reading too much into what you have said? If there is some way that I can get in on the fun that you have (maybe that is a little too much to hope for--but even just to experience a fraction of what you enjoy; at least that would be an improvement), perhaps you can begin to lead me in that direction. I feel you have penetrated to a secret which I have attempted to keep to myself, but with this post, Steve, this one post, I feel you have begun to break me open, and I would ask you to follow through here with the next level of my initiation into The Way to Have Better Sex and More Fun. I am dead serious about this, Steve. You have shown yourself remarkably immune from having life bring you to a point of internal crisis. This, I believe, is a kind of unconscious metaphysical virtue--I need to unlearn what has turned me into a Soren without the humour. This is a start, Steve--and only you and I know it is said sans irony. Love, Robin