[AsburyPark] Re: Keady on Kwanza, Christmas and the City Budget

2008-11-12 Thread sharon_b283
Your response begs, what if?  That hasn't occurred yet and please,
name names!  I don't deal in what ifs, just the facts.  I don't use
anonymous sources in my posts, but you're right.  If that imaginary
person protests against the City celebrating Kwanzaa on its' dime, my
answer will come on election day in May.  I will go into the Black
Community on the West Side and ask the voters to speak as they spoke
on Nov. 4th!  The vote speaks volumes!  I'm sure there is someone that
will replace this person easily!  Maybe it'll be ME!

As Columbus Day is important to you, Kwanzaa and its' humble
significance, is important to me.

--- In AsburyPark@yahoogroups.com, justifiedright
[EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 --- In AsburyPark@yahoogroups.com, sharon_b283 sharon_b283@ wrote:
 
  I think you missed the point!  July 4th came BEFORE the bottom fell
  out of our economy!  I'll argue this point though, the snowflakes
that
  light up on the utility poles are up now, 2 weeks!  Christmas, YES,
  Kwanzaa, NO?  I'll bet there'll be a tree lighting, too!  Not a
  problem!  Bradley Beach has a tree, menorah and a Nativity scene.  No
  Kwanzaa anything!  I have no idea what Neptune has beside a lit tree.
  Ocean Township either but in Allenhurst, the same as Bradley Beach.
  
  Kwanzaa for me, is a personal celebration.  Kwanzaa was a creation to
  allow African Americans to celebrate the Black Family, where small
  inexpensive gifts are presented and the 7 principles are focused on. 
  No more, no less! The Kinara sits on my dining room table with 3 red,
  3 green and a black candle in the center.  Liberation colors.  Since
  we don't know the region of Africa, we were taken from, those colors
  celebrate the red for our blood, the green is for hope and the black
  is for our color, created by Marcus Garvey.
 
 
 The Kwanzaa celebration sounds very personal to you Sharon.  So
 important that others should be respectful of it - allow it to you. 
 Allow your community to celebrate with you.  We should be tolerant and
 gentle with that for sure.
 
 Now imagine a councilman who is not.  Imagine him yelling, veins
 bulging with hate from the dais, demonizing and demoralizing what you
 hold dear. Intolerance x 10.
 Imagine him supporting a non-profit that also says, We will take the
 accutrements fo Kwanzaa, but we declare the very name of it damaged
 and damaging, and will not use it.
 
 Honestly, would you feel put upon?
 
 Would you feel better or worse should the response to your complaints
 be to minimize you further?






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[AsburyPark] Re: Keady on Kwanza, Christmas and the City Budget

2008-11-12 Thread sharon_b283
Try Home Goods in Neptune, the Christmas Store in Freehold, Pier One,
Ocean Township, etc.  I bought my blue and white candles from the
Christmas Store in Freehold last year, but Home Goods and Pier One
have carried them in the past.  Call, before you waste gas!

--- In AsburyPark@yahoogroups.com, oakdorf [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 --- 
 
 I just left wegman's.
 
 All those christmas trees in the lobby. All those christmas things for
 sale. 
 
 Nothing for Hanukkah.
 
 We keep it simple.
 
 Easy chicken parm dinner. Weg's chicken, Weg's tomato basil sauce (ap
 related) (.99) and already shredded mozz.






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[AsburyPark] Re: Keady on Kwanza, Christmas and the City Budget

2008-11-12 Thread oakdorf
--- In AsburyPark@yahoogroups.com, sharon_b283 [EMAIL PROTECTED] 
wrote:

  I'm sure there is someone that
 will replace this person easily!  Maybe it'll be ME!
 
 

go for it




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[AsburyPark] Re: Keady on Kwanza, Christmas and the City Budget

2008-11-12 Thread sharon_b283
Your post made me teary, too!  It's a really GREAT group, with a lot
of thoroughly intellectual people, who clue me in to the real Asbury
Park.  I can find something good in anyone!  Everyone is redeemable
and worth listening to, (most of the time).  I don't care if you are a
newbie an oldie, a lurker or God forbid, a TROLL.  This is a very
diverse Yahoo Group and we all bring something to the table.  It IS a
season of giving.  Thank you!

--- In AsburyPark@yahoogroups.com, Gabrielle Obre
[EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 People do love to hate you Tommy, but I think you like it too.  simple
 questions would have avoided the banter, which was pretty funny and
 gave me a great belly laugh. 
 
 I think it would have been more fair for you to address the entire
 council on this at a meeting. You'd never see any of the other
 councilmen responding here. Keady is no messiah to me, but his
 continuous efforts at outreach and his attention to transparency are
 precisely what governments need. As well as the citizens to pay
attention.
 
 For those of you who love to hate Tommy, and I admit he is a baiter,
 Tommy is not way off in this if in fact the word Christmas has been
 somehow banned from city usage. Jews would flip, African Americans
 would flip and Gay people would flip. PC paranoia can make people lean
 toward fascism just as the right does. Watch that the oppressee in you
 is not becoming the oppressor. Get over your tribal self. 
 
 If you have questioned Columbus day you must tolerate questions of
 Kwanzaa. Did that guy really do that? I will look it up. If anyone
 knows this to be untrue please speak.
 
 Tommy, human beings are violent creatures. We are getting better all
 the time and there is no need to deny colonization was ugly. You can
 still celebrate America and tell a little more of the truth about it.
 I know it has ugliness AND beauty, just like everyone of us.
 
 Jim's suggestion for going over items line by line would, I think
 force all this energy into something more productive and free from
 personalizing (which should be called ego baiting). Probably be
 interesting as well. That way we could actually know what is being
 spent on these events, if anything. 
 
 I really did enjoy reading this thread.  Tommy and Jim's intelligence
 and frat boy spats, the gang up on Tommy, Franks funny visuals,
 Sharon's description of Kwanzaa made me teary, Oakdorf's hilarious
 interjections and the grunts from jersy john, mike and jack..BTW Jack,
 Tommy got you on that. Really funny. Much better than anyone else's
story.
 
 I need to express my genuine affection and gratitude for this
 community and it is the thankful season. So thank you!
 
 
 
 
 --- In AsburyPark@yahoogroups.com, Mike Hemeon tvnetdude2000@ wrote:
 
  It is my culture too. It was probably more the booze than
Christianity.
  
  --- On Mon, 11/10/08, Jersey Shore John jerseyshorejohn@ wrote:
  
  From: Jersey Shore John jerseyshorejohn@
  Subject: Re: [AsburyPark] Re: Keady on Kwanza, Christmas and the
 City Budget
  To: AsburyPark@yahoogroups.com
  Date: Monday, November 10, 2008, 6:39 PM
  
  
  
  
  
  
  Christianity destroyed my Irish culture in Ireland, so... whatever.
  
  On Nov 10, 2008, at 6:19 PM, Jersey Shore John wrote:
  
   Christmas is German.
  
   On Nov 10, 2008, at 5:30 PM, justifiedright wrote:
  
--- In [EMAIL PROTECTED] ups.com, Jersey Shore John
jerseyshorejohn@ ... wrote:

 Now this is treatment of you, personally? Oy.

   
As an American taking part in the Columbus Day celebration whom 
   Keady
calls liars, certainly. He was talking about me.
   
As a Christian listening to a non-profit declare the word 
   Christmas as
bad, certainly. It's my identity and culture under attack.
   
   
   
  
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[AsburyPark] Re: Keady on Kwanza, Christmas and the City Budget

2008-11-12 Thread justifiedright
--- In AsburyPark@yahoogroups.com, sharon_b283 [EMAIL PROTECTED] 
wrote:

 Your response begs, what if?  That hasn't occurred yet and please,
 name names!  I don't deal in what ifs, just the facts.  I don't use
 anonymous sources in my posts, but you're right.  If that imaginary
 person protests against the City celebrating Kwanzaa on its' dime, 
my
 answer will come on election day in May.  I will go into the Black
 Community on the West Side and ask the voters to speak as they 
spoke
 on Nov. 4th!  The vote speaks volumes!  I'm sure there is someone 
that
 will replace this person easily!  Maybe it'll be ME!
 
 As Columbus Day is important to you, Kwanzaa and its' humble
 significance, is important to me.

Sharon the name you are askng me for is Jim Keady.

You really clarified the issue with your post above better than I 
have.

He opposes both the Columbus and Kwanzaa celebrations (which you and 
I support).

The reason he so viciously rails against just we who support 
Columbus Day, the reason he gets his name in the paper for it every 
year, is he does not fear a loss of votes from it.

Yet he only objects to Kwanzaa quitely, in the back room.  He does 
not want Nancy Shields to do a story about that.

Why?  For exactly the reason you eloquently stated above.  He does 
not want someone touring the West Side of Asbury Park telling the 
story that Jim Keady is the only one of the 5 Councilmembers who 
objects to the City's Kwanzaa celebration.

His position is therefore culturally insensitive to both us, 
duplicitous, as well as pandering regarding the Black community.






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[AsburyPark] Re: Keady on Kwanza, Christmas and the City Budget

2008-11-10 Thread justifiedright
Thank you for the response, Councilman Keady.

So you don't think the City should expend any money on cultural 
events.

Thank you for clearing that up.

I note it is only the Columbus Day celebration which you publically 
oppose (with great vigor I might ad, including props).


Why not support them all with such vigor?

By the way, you march in the Fourth of July parade.  That is also a 
cultural celebration.  

Why the exception?

Do you also opposed to public resources spent on the Pride Parade?

Finally - where is your stance on the City scubbing all mention of 
the word Christmas from its celebrations? For or opposed?

In that line:

Isn't Christmas a cultural part of America, and has been so for many, 
many years?





--- In AsburyPark@yahoogroups.com, James Keady [EMAIL PROTECTED] 
wrote:

 Mr. Deseno: 
 
  
 
 In a recent post to this list you wrote:
 
  
 
 For the same reason, Keady will bash Columbus Day and rage on (as 
he did
 last month again) about the use of public funds for a cultural 
holiday
 (Columbus Day) but stays silent on Kwanzaa. 
 
  
 
 Once again, you exercise your less than scrupulous tactics, this 
time -
 judgment without query.  Thank God our judicial system does not 
operate in
 the way that you do.  Let me share with you how an adult looking 
for an
 answer to a legitimate question may have framed this.  
 
  
 
 Mr. Deseno: Mr. Keady, in the past you have been outspoken about 
the use of
 public tax dollars for the City's Columbus Day event.  I am curious 
to know
 if you have similar feelings about tax dollars being spent on the 
upcoming
 Kwanza celebration and for that matter the City spending money on 
any
 religious or pseudo-religious events?  
 
  
 
 And I would have responded. 
 
  
 
 First, let me be clear that my concern with the Asbury Park 
Columbus Day
 celebration is that it presents a sanitized version of history at 
best and
 outright lies at worst.  As an educator, my concern was/is that 
public
 dollars were/are being spent to misinform our youth about Columbus'
 discovery of America.  If however a private group would like to 
put on
 this event (ex. Knights of Columbus) I would both support and 
defend their
 right to do that.  
 
  
 
 Second, since you raised the issue about Kwanza, let me share the 
following.
 I had a conversation with the City Manager about two weeks ago 
regarding
 this and expressed my concern that the City should NOT be paying 
for this
 event.  While I do believe that the Kwanza event is a positive one 
for our
 community and our youth, I do not believe that taxpayer dollars 
should be
 spent on events like this.  I also do not believe that taxpayer 
dollars
 should be spent on any Christmas celebrations either.  These are 
religious
 or pseudo-religious holidays and spending tax dollars to support 
them does
 come dangerously close to violating the establishment clause.  To 
keep these
 kinds of events going, and I do think they should be kept going, 
the City
 could/should help the organizers to find private dollars (Churches, 
Business
 Groups, etc.) to fund and promote these events.  
 
  
 
 Now. Since we are talking about spending tax-payer dollars, this is 
an
 excellent time to explore a much broader discussion that this 
community MUST
 have.  In light of the current fiscal crisis in our nation and the 
impact
 that that this crisis will have on municipal governments in both 
the short
 and long-term, we need to ask (and answer) the questions, What 
should we
 spend our tax dollars on?  What should we cut from the budget if 
tax
 revenues decrease by 10%, 20%, etc.?  
 
  
 
 I recommend that the City start with a clean sheet and put very 
directed
 questions to our citizens regarding budget line items and educate 
them on
 what each item will cost.  Then, with this information in hand, the
 community can set spending priorities.
 
  
 
 For example:  Do you want to keep the Police Department at its 
current
 staffing levels?  If so, here is what that will cost (the City 
would
 provide a breakdown for every projected penny spent).  Once there is
 consensus on what to spend, move on to the next item.
 
  
 
 For example: Do you want to keep the Department of Public Works and 
the
 Department of Engineering separate departments or should we merge 
them?  If
 we merged them, here are the potential cost savings, potential 
increases in
 efficiency for delivery of services, etc.  Once there is consensus 
on this,
 move on to the next item.  
 
  
 
 I think you get the idea.  
 
  
 
 I hope everyone is having a great start to the week.  
 
  
 
 Peace, JWK
 
  
 
 Councilman James W. Keady
 
 1 Municipal Plaza
 
 Asbury Park, NJ 07712
 
 TEL: 732.502.5196
 
 EM: [EMAIL PROTECTED]
 
 www.cityofasburypark.com
 
  
 
  
 
 
 
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[AsburyPark] Re: Keady on Kwanza, Christmas and the City Budget

2008-11-10 Thread jwkeady
Mr. Deseno, 

I never ceases to amaze me how someone like yourself, who makes their 
living in a profession that demands factual basis for argument, has 
such a disdain for accurate and truthful statements.  
 
You wrote:

So you don't think the City should expend any money on cultural 
events.

I never said this.  Please go back to my previous email and document 
where I made this statement.  I was clear about religious and pseudo-
religious events.  I also was clear about why I took issue with a 
specific cultural event, Columbus Day.

You wrote: 

I note it is only the Columbus Day celebration which you publically  
oppose (with great vigor I might ad, including props). Why not 
support them all with such vigor?

I think you erred here in your copy, I believe, based the entirety of 
your email, that you meant to say, Why (are you) not opposed them 
all with such vigor?  

Again, I have been clear about my groudning in objecting to the City-
sponsored Columbus Day event with such vigor as you put it.  

You wrote: 

By the way, you march in the Fourth of July parade.  That is also a 
cultural celebration.  

I am not against all cultural celebrations.  I know this is difficult 
for you to handle, given your binary worldview, but an individual can 
actually come to decisions based on the merits of each case (i.e. It 
does not have to be all or nothing.)  

You wrote: 

Do you also opposed to public resources spent on the Pride Parade?

Your grammar is a bit off here, but I get your point.  As far as I 
recall, there were not public resources spent on the Pride Parade, it 
was an event that was financed by a non-profit entity and they 
applied for permits the same as any other outside group would.  Do 
you have facts to the contrary?

You wrote: 

Finally - where is your stance on the City scubbing all mention of 
the word Christmas from its celebrations? For or opposed?

As I shared in my earlier email, I do not support the City's 
expending of any tax-dollars on Christmas, so, your above question to 
me is moot.  

You wrote: 

In that line: Isn't Christmas a cultural part of America, and has 
been so for many, many years?

Christmas has evolved in the mainstream American consciousness into a 
hybrid of the religious and cultural.  But, if we are honest with 
ourselves about the facts, Christmas IS a religous celebration.  To 
deny that is to be disingenous to its origins.  Given that it is a 
religious holiday, I believe that any tax dollars used to celebrate 
Christmas is a violation of the establishment clause.  Finally, just 
because something exists or has happened for many, many years is no 
grounds for its just continuation.  We have enough examples in world 
history that show this to be very faulty logic.  

On a more personal level, as a fellow Christian, I do not think that 
we need the State to edify (by celebrating Christmas) our counter-
cultural commitments to following the Good News of a radical, 
itinerant preacher from Galilee (Jesus).  When it comes to this, I 
think the sage advice of St. Francis of Assisi is worthy of 
consideration.  Francis said, Preach the Gospel at all times and 
when necessary use words.  

This is my final response to this issue Mr. Deseno.  I thought you 
might have learned from this most recent election that the people of 
our great nation want their leaders focusing the majority of their 
energy on issues that really matter and they do not want these 
leaders caught up in the minutiae of the culture wars.  There are 
many more important matters that this community, our state and our 
nation are currently facing that demand attention.  

Peace, Councilman Jim Keady 







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[AsburyPark] Re: Keady on Kwanza, Christmas and the City Budget

2008-11-10 Thread justifiedright
--- In AsburyPark@yahoogroups.com, jwkeady [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 Mr. Deseno, 
 
 I never ceases to amaze me how someone like yourself, who makes 
their 
 living in a profession that demands factual basis for argument, has 
 such a disdain for accurate and truthful statements.  

Mr. Keady, must you start off personalizing?  

Speaking of, I note that twice you remark about my grammar in the 
post below.  I've said many times I post here for leisure.  I have 
jobs where grammar and spelling are important, and this isn't one of 
them.

Also when I come across someone not to my own standard for grammar, 
never would I take him or her to task for it in public.  I treat 
people with dignity and respect.

Since it appears important to you though, should you ever wish to 
engage in a contest where proper grammar in writing is the score, 
just let me know when and where the game begins.

Now on to substance.

You said this:
  
 You wrote:
 
 So you don't think the City should expend any money on cultural 
 events.
 
 I never said this.  Please go back to my previous email and 
document 
 where I made this statement.  I was clear about religious and 
pseudo-
 religious events.  I also was clear about why I took issue with a 
 specific cultural event, Columbus Day.

Oh I see, Mr. Keady.  You hide your objection to Kwanzaa on quasi-
religious.  So you disagree with many on this board (as well as Ron 
Karenga's Kwanzaa website) that it is neither religious nor a 
replacement for religion.

Fear not though - the folks on this board who see you in Messiah-like 
fashion will not score their disagreement against you.  They will 
just use it as an excuse to rail at me at the mere thought of having 
to disagree with you.

Religious vs Cultural aside, I understand you to stand against he 
City's expenditure of funds for Kwanzaa.

As I understand you, the reason you go public on the dais against 
Columbus Day and not Kwanzaa is that you feel the full story about 
Columbus is not told.  You think of him poorly.

Let's put aside that I've alerted you to all the bad information we 
have about Columbus came from his arch-rival, De Bobadilla, whose 
claims were debunked back in his own time (yet resurrected today by 
those who wish American history was bad). We can argue that again 
next October.

Right now I'm interested in your excuse for bashing just my culture 
as opposed to others.

You say it is because we don't teach the bad parts of Columbus.

Well, Ron Karenga the founder of Kwanzaa, was convicted of kidnapping 
and torturing two minority women, beating them with cords, putting 
hot irons in their mouths and making them drink detergent.  A 
shocking display of misogyny, cowardice, power, lack of compassion 
and inhumane action (WWJD?).

If your excuse for railing against Columbus each year is we should 
include his bad story in our Columbus celebration, why do you not 
rail with equal vigor that we include Dr. Karenga's horribleness in 
the Kwanzaa celebration?

Please tell me you have some legitimate excuse to clear up this 
glaringly hypocritical position?



Oh by the way - the Catholic Church financed much of Columbus' trip.  
Did you rail against the church when we were trying to become a 
Deacon?


 
 As I shared in my earlier email, I do not support the City's 
 expending of any tax-dollars on Christmas, so, your above question 
to 
 me is moot.  


Then what about your thoughts on the private entity, the Chamber, 
making a decision to excise the name Christmas from their 
celebration while still using trees with lights, stars, wrapped 
presents and Santa Claus?  

Do you support the co-opting of culture and changing its name?


 On a more personal level, as a fellow Christian, I do not think 
that 
 we need the State to edify (by celebrating Christmas) our counter-
 cultural commitments to following the Good News of a radical, 
 itinerant preacher from Galilee (Jesus).  When it comes to this, I 
 think the sage advice of St. Francis of Assisi is worthy of 
 consideration.  Francis said, Preach the Gospel at all times and 
 when necessary use words.  


I seem to recall denying Jesus 3 times before the cock crows being a 
bad thing too.





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[AsburyPark] Re: Keady on Kwanza, Christmas and the City Budget

2008-11-10 Thread mark07712
JR - You missed the councilman's question. Do you have any facts to 
back up your question

Do you also opposed to public resources spent on the Pride Parade?

Your grammar is a bit off here, but I get your point. As far as I
recall, there were not public resources spent on the Pride Parade, it
was an event that was financed by a non-profit entity and they
applied for permits the same as any other outside group would. Do
you have facts to the contrary?



--- In AsburyPark@yahoogroups.com, justifiedright 
[EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 --- In AsburyPark@yahoogroups.com, jwkeady james.keady@ wrote:
 
  Mr. Deseno, 
  
  I never ceases to amaze me how someone like yourself, who makes 
 their 
  living in a profession that demands factual basis for argument, 
has 
  such a disdain for accurate and truthful statements.  
 
 Mr. Keady, must you start off personalizing?  
 
 Speaking of, I note that twice you remark about my grammar in the 
 post below.  I've said many times I post here for leisure.  I have 
 jobs where grammar and spelling are important, and this isn't one 
of 
 them.
 
 Also when I come across someone not to my own standard for 
grammar, 
 never would I take him or her to task for it in public.  I treat 
 people with dignity and respect.
 
 Since it appears important to you though, should you ever wish to 
 engage in a contest where proper grammar in writing is the score, 
 just let me know when and where the game begins.
 
 Now on to substance.
 
 You said this:
   
  You wrote:
  
  So you don't think the City should expend any money on cultural 
  events.
  
  I never said this.  Please go back to my previous email and 
 document 
  where I made this statement.  I was clear about religious and 
 pseudo-
  religious events.  I also was clear about why I took issue with 
a 
  specific cultural event, Columbus Day.
 
 Oh I see, Mr. Keady.  You hide your objection to Kwanzaa on quasi-
 religious.  So you disagree with many on this board (as well as 
Ron 
 Karenga's Kwanzaa website) that it is neither religious nor a 
 replacement for religion.
 
 Fear not though - the folks on this board who see you in Messiah-
like 
 fashion will not score their disagreement against you.  They will 
 just use it as an excuse to rail at me at the mere thought of 
having 
 to disagree with you.
 
 Religious vs Cultural aside, I understand you to stand against he 
 City's expenditure of funds for Kwanzaa.
 
 As I understand you, the reason you go public on the dais against 
 Columbus Day and not Kwanzaa is that you feel the full story about 
 Columbus is not told.  You think of him poorly.
 
 Let's put aside that I've alerted you to all the bad information 
we 
 have about Columbus came from his arch-rival, De Bobadilla, whose 
 claims were debunked back in his own time (yet resurrected today 
by 
 those who wish American history was bad). We can argue that again 
 next October.
 
 Right now I'm interested in your excuse for bashing just my 
culture 
 as opposed to others.
 
 You say it is because we don't teach the bad parts of Columbus.
 
 Well, Ron Karenga the founder of Kwanzaa, was convicted of 
kidnapping 
 and torturing two minority women, beating them with cords, putting 
 hot irons in their mouths and making them drink detergent.  A 
 shocking display of misogyny, cowardice, power, lack of compassion 
 and inhumane action (WWJD?).
 
 If your excuse for railing against Columbus each year is we should 
 include his bad story in our Columbus celebration, why do you not 
 rail with equal vigor that we include Dr. Karenga's horribleness 
in 
 the Kwanzaa celebration?
 
 Please tell me you have some legitimate excuse to clear up this 
 glaringly hypocritical position?
 
 
 
 Oh by the way - the Catholic Church financed much of Columbus' 
trip.  
 Did you rail against the church when we were trying to become a 
 Deacon?
 
 
  
  As I shared in my earlier email, I do not support the City's 
  expending of any tax-dollars on Christmas, so, your above 
question 
 to 
  me is moot.  
 
 
 Then what about your thoughts on the private entity, the Chamber, 
 making a decision to excise the name Christmas from their 
 celebration while still using trees with lights, stars, wrapped 
 presents and Santa Claus?  
 
 Do you support the co-opting of culture and changing its name?
 
 
  On a more personal level, as a fellow Christian, I do not think 
 that 
  we need the State to edify (by celebrating Christmas) our 
counter-
  cultural commitments to following the Good News of a radical, 
  itinerant preacher from Galilee (Jesus).  When it comes to this, 
I 
  think the sage advice of St. Francis of Assisi is worthy of 
  consideration.  Francis said, Preach the Gospel at all times 
and 
  when necessary use words.  
 
 
 I seem to recall denying Jesus 3 times before the cock crows being 
a 
 bad thing too.






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Re: [AsburyPark] Re: Keady on Kwanza, Christmas and the City Budget

2008-11-10 Thread Jersey Shore John
VICTIM!

On Nov 10, 2008, at 2:41 PM, justifiedright wrote:

 --- In AsburyPark@yahoogroups.com, jwkeady [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

  Mr. Deseno,
 
  I never ceases to amaze me how someone like yourself, who makes
 their
  living in a profession that demands factual basis for argument, has
  such a disdain for accurate and truthful statements.

 Mr. Keady, must you start off personalizing?

 Speaking of, I note that twice you remark about my grammar in the
 post below. I've said many times I post here for leisure. I have
 jobs where grammar and spelling are important, and this isn't one of
 them.

 Also when I come across someone not to my own standard for grammar,
 never would I take him or her to task for it in public. I treat
 people with dignity and respect.

 Since it appears important to you though, should you ever wish to
 engage in a contest where proper grammar in writing is the score,
 just let me know when and where the game begins.

 Now on to substance.

 You said this:

  You wrote:
 
  So you don't think the City should expend any money on cultural
  events.
 
  I never said this. Please go back to my previous email and
 document
  where I made this statement. I was clear about religious and
 pseudo-
  religious events. I also was clear about why I took issue with a
  specific cultural event, Columbus Day.

 Oh I see, Mr. Keady. You hide your objection to Kwanzaa on quasi-
 religious. So you disagree with many on this board (as well as Ron
 Karenga's Kwanzaa website) that it is neither religious nor a
 replacement for religion.

 Fear not though - the folks on this board who see you in Messiah-like
 fashion will not score their disagreement against you. They will
 just use it as an excuse to rail at me at the mere thought of having
 to disagree with you.

 Religious vs Cultural aside, I understand you to stand against he
 City's expenditure of funds for Kwanzaa.

 As I understand you, the reason you go public on the dais against
 Columbus Day and not Kwanzaa is that you feel the full story about
 Columbus is not told. You think of him poorly.

 Let's put aside that I've alerted you to all the bad information we
 have about Columbus came from his arch-rival, De Bobadilla, whose
 claims were debunked back in his own time (yet resurrected today by
 those who wish American history was bad). We can argue that again
 next October.

 Right now I'm interested in your excuse for bashing just my culture
 as opposed to others.

 You say it is because we don't teach the bad parts of Columbus.

 Well, Ron Karenga the founder of Kwanzaa, was convicted of kidnapping
 and torturing two minority women, beating them with cords, putting
 hot irons in their mouths and making them drink detergent. A
 shocking display of misogyny, cowardice, power, lack of compassion
 and inhumane action (WWJD?).

 If your excuse for railing against Columbus each year is we should
 include his bad story in our Columbus celebration, why do you not
 rail with equal vigor that we include Dr. Karenga's horribleness in
 the Kwanzaa celebration?

 Please tell me you have some legitimate excuse to clear up this
 glaringly hypocritical position?

 Oh by the way - the Catholic Church financed much of Columbus' trip.
 Did you rail against the church when we were trying to become a
 Deacon?

  As I shared in my earlier email, I do not support the City's
  expending of any tax-dollars on Christmas, so, your above question
 to
  me is moot.

 Then what about your thoughts on the private entity, the Chamber,
 making a decision to excise the name Christmas from their
 celebration while still using trees with lights, stars, wrapped
 presents and Santa Claus?

 Do you support the co-opting of culture and changing its name?

  On a more personal level, as a fellow Christian, I do not think
 that
  we need the State to edify (by celebrating Christmas) our counter-
  cultural commitments to following the Good News of a radical,
  itinerant preacher from Galilee (Jesus). When it comes to this, I
  think the sage advice of St. Francis of Assisi is worthy of
  consideration. Francis said, Preach the Gospel at all times and
  when necessary use words.

 I seem to recall denying Jesus 3 times before the cock crows being a
 bad thing too.


 



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[AsburyPark] Re: Keady on Kwanza, Christmas and the City Budget

2008-11-10 Thread justifiedright
Mark thanks first for joing the discussion.

I see though as Mr. Keady took the time to highlight my grammatical 
error, you repeat it as well. 

You ask if I have facts to back up my question.   I understand a 
statement to need to be backed up with facts, but isn't a question a 
request for facts?

I'll try anyway to further the discussion.  Upon repair of my 
grammatical error, the question is as follows:

Would you also be opposed to public resources spent on the Pride 
Parade?

I ask the question to further highlight that some cultural events 
are being funded (like Kwanzaa), while others are not (like Pride).

It appears to me Asbury Park, which so emotionally shouts its worth 
through diversity and tolerance is actually making value judgments 
about groups and funding them (or in keady's case, railing against 
them from the dais) based upon judgments made about the group.

How exceedingly intolerant.

Mark I've given you the benefit of discussing your point.  I hope 
you will reciprocate and discuss the varied treatment of Columbus 
Day, Kwanzaa, Pride and Chrsitmas by Mr. Keady and the rest of City 
government.





--- In AsburyPark@yahoogroups.com, mark07712 [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 JR - You missed the councilman's question. Do you have any facts 
to 
 back up your question
 
 Do you also opposed to public resources spent on the Pride 
Parade?
 
 Your grammar is a bit off here, but I get your point. As far as I
 recall, there were not public resources spent on the Pride Parade, 
it
 was an event that was financed by a non-profit entity and they
 applied for permits the same as any other outside group would. Do
 you have facts to the contrary?
 
 
 
 --- In AsburyPark@yahoogroups.com, justifiedright 
 justifiedright@ wrote:
 
  --- In AsburyPark@yahoogroups.com, jwkeady james.keady@ 
wrote:
  
   Mr. Deseno, 
   
   I never ceases to amaze me how someone like yourself, who 
makes 
  their 
   living in a profession that demands factual basis for 
argument, 
 has 
   such a disdain for accurate and truthful statements.  
  
  Mr. Keady, must you start off personalizing?  
  
  Speaking of, I note that twice you remark about my grammar in 
the 
  post below.  I've said many times I post here for leisure.  I 
have 
  jobs where grammar and spelling are important, and this isn't 
one 
 of 
  them.
  
  Also when I come across someone not to my own standard for 
 grammar, 
  never would I take him or her to task for it in public.  I treat 
  people with dignity and respect.
  
  Since it appears important to you though, should you ever wish 
to 
  engage in a contest where proper grammar in writing is the 
score, 
  just let me know when and where the game begins.
  
  Now on to substance.
  
  You said this:

   You wrote:
   
   So you don't think the City should expend any money on 
cultural 
   events.
   
   I never said this.  Please go back to my previous email and 
  document 
   where I made this statement.  I was clear about religious and 
  pseudo-
   religious events.  I also was clear about why I took issue 
with 
 a 
   specific cultural event, Columbus Day.
  
  Oh I see, Mr. Keady.  You hide your objection to Kwanzaa 
on quasi-
  religious.  So you disagree with many on this board (as well as 
 Ron 
  Karenga's Kwanzaa website) that it is neither religious nor a 
  replacement for religion.
  
  Fear not though - the folks on this board who see you in Messiah-
 like 
  fashion will not score their disagreement against you.  They 
will 
  just use it as an excuse to rail at me at the mere thought of 
 having 
  to disagree with you.
  
  Religious vs Cultural aside, I understand you to stand against 
he 
  City's expenditure of funds for Kwanzaa.
  
  As I understand you, the reason you go public on the dais 
against 
  Columbus Day and not Kwanzaa is that you feel the full story 
about 
  Columbus is not told.  You think of him poorly.
  
  Let's put aside that I've alerted you to all the bad 
information 
 we 
  have about Columbus came from his arch-rival, De Bobadilla, 
whose 
  claims were debunked back in his own time (yet resurrected today 
 by 
  those who wish American history was bad). We can argue that 
again 
  next October.
  
  Right now I'm interested in your excuse for bashing just my 
 culture 
  as opposed to others.
  
  You say it is because we don't teach the bad parts of Columbus.
  
  Well, Ron Karenga the founder of Kwanzaa, was convicted of 
 kidnapping 
  and torturing two minority women, beating them with cords, 
putting 
  hot irons in their mouths and making them drink detergent.  A 
  shocking display of misogyny, cowardice, power, lack of 
compassion 
  and inhumane action (WWJD?).
  
  If your excuse for railing against Columbus each year is we 
should 
  include his bad story in our Columbus celebration, why do you 
not 
  rail with equal vigor that we include Dr. Karenga's horribleness 
 in 
  the Kwanzaa celebration?
  
  Please tell me 

[AsburyPark] Re: Keady on Kwanza, Christmas and the City Budget

2008-11-10 Thread mark07712
If everyone celebrates the event and it should be funded (if money 
is available). 4th of July - sure. Kwanza should be grouped with the 
rest of the December holidays for 1 big party. Happy Holidaze, 
Asbury Style! Columbus Day - How much does it really cost? How much 
money are we really talking about??? So far the Kwanza expense seems 
to be 50 pieces of copy paper. Is it really worth spending hours on 
this over $50?

I think it better debate would be: How do we improve the image of 
Asbury Ave from the circle to Main street.


--- In AsburyPark@yahoogroups.com, justifiedright 
[EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 Mark thanks first for joing the discussion.
 
 I see though as Mr. Keady took the time to highlight my 
grammatical 
 error, you repeat it as well. 
 
 You ask if I have facts to back up my question.   I understand a 
 statement to need to be backed up with facts, but isn't a question 
a 
 request for facts?
 
 I'll try anyway to further the discussion.  Upon repair of my 
 grammatical error, the question is as follows:
 
 Would you also be opposed to public resources spent on the Pride 
 Parade?
 
 I ask the question to further highlight that some cultural events 
 are being funded (like Kwanzaa), while others are not (like Pride).
 
 It appears to me Asbury Park, which so emotionally shouts its 
worth 
 through diversity and tolerance is actually making value judgments 
 about groups and funding them (or in keady's case, railing against 
 them from the dais) based upon judgments made about the group.
 
 How exceedingly intolerant.
 
 Mark I've given you the benefit of discussing your point.  I hope 
 you will reciprocate and discuss the varied treatment of Columbus 
 Day, Kwanzaa, Pride and Chrsitmas by Mr. Keady and the rest of 
City 
 government.
 
 
 
 
 
 --- In AsburyPark@yahoogroups.com, mark07712 mark07712@ wrote:
 
  JR - You missed the councilman's question. Do you have any facts 
 to 
  back up your question
  
  Do you also opposed to public resources spent on the Pride 
 Parade?
  
  Your grammar is a bit off here, but I get your point. As far as I
  recall, there were not public resources spent on the Pride 
Parade, 
 it
  was an event that was financed by a non-profit entity and they
  applied for permits the same as any other outside group would. Do
  you have facts to the contrary?
  
  
  
  --- In AsburyPark@yahoogroups.com, justifiedright 
  justifiedright@ wrote:
  
   --- In AsburyPark@yahoogroups.com, jwkeady james.keady@ 
 wrote:
   
Mr. Deseno, 

I never ceases to amaze me how someone like yourself, who 
 makes 
   their 
living in a profession that demands factual basis for 
 argument, 
  has 
such a disdain for accurate and truthful statements.  
   
   Mr. Keady, must you start off personalizing?  
   
   Speaking of, I note that twice you remark about my grammar in 
 the 
   post below.  I've said many times I post here for leisure.  I 
 have 
   jobs where grammar and spelling are important, and this isn't 
 one 
  of 
   them.
   
   Also when I come across someone not to my own standard for 
  grammar, 
   never would I take him or her to task for it in public.  I 
treat 
   people with dignity and respect.
   
   Since it appears important to you though, should you ever wish 
 to 
   engage in a contest where proper grammar in writing is the 
 score, 
   just let me know when and where the game begins.
   
   Now on to substance.
   
   You said this:
 
You wrote:

So you don't think the City should expend any money on 
 cultural 
events.

I never said this.  Please go back to my previous email and 
   document 
where I made this statement.  I was clear about religious 
and 
   pseudo-
religious events.  I also was clear about why I took issue 
 with 
  a 
specific cultural event, Columbus Day.
   
   Oh I see, Mr. Keady.  You hide your objection to Kwanzaa 
 on quasi-
   religious.  So you disagree with many on this board (as well 
as 
  Ron 
   Karenga's Kwanzaa website) that it is neither religious nor a 
   replacement for religion.
   
   Fear not though - the folks on this board who see you in 
Messiah-
  like 
   fashion will not score their disagreement against you.  They 
 will 
   just use it as an excuse to rail at me at the mere thought of 
  having 
   to disagree with you.
   
   Religious vs Cultural aside, I understand you to stand against 
 he 
   City's expenditure of funds for Kwanzaa.
   
   As I understand you, the reason you go public on the dais 
 against 
   Columbus Day and not Kwanzaa is that you feel the full story 
 about 
   Columbus is not told.  You think of him poorly.
   
   Let's put aside that I've alerted you to all the bad 
 information 
  we 
   have about Columbus came from his arch-rival, De Bobadilla, 
 whose 
   claims were debunked back in his own time (yet resurrected 
today 
  by 
   those who wish American history was bad). We can argue that 
 again 
   

[AsburyPark] Re: Keady on Kwanza, Christmas and the City Budget

2008-11-10 Thread asburycheech
--- In AsburyPark@yahoogroups.com, James Keady [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 Mr. Deseno: 
 
  
 
 In a recent post to this list you wrote:
 
  
 
 For the same reason, Keady will bash Columbus Day and rage on (as
he did
 last month again) about the use of public funds for a cultural holiday
 (Columbus Day) but stays silent on Kwanzaa. 
 
  
 
 Once again, you exercise your less than scrupulous tactics, this time -
 judgment without query.  Thank God our judicial system does not
operate in
 the way that you do.  Let me share with you how an adult looking for an
 answer to a legitimate question may have framed this.  
 
  
 
 Mr. Deseno: Mr. Keady, in the past you have been outspoken about
the use of
 public tax dollars for the City's Columbus Day event.  I am curious
to know
 if you have similar feelings about tax dollars being spent on the
upcoming
 Kwanza celebration and for that matter the City spending money on any
 religious or pseudo-religious events?  
 
  
 
 And I would have responded. 
 
  
 
 First, let me be clear that my concern with the Asbury Park Columbus Day
 celebration is that it presents a sanitized version of history at
best and
 outright lies at worst.  As an educator, my concern was/is that public
 dollars were/are being spent to misinform our youth about Columbus'
 discovery of America.  If however a private group would like to put on
 this event (ex. Knights of Columbus) I would both support and defend
their
 right to do that.  
 
  
 
 Second, since you raised the issue about Kwanza, let me share the
following.
 I had a conversation with the City Manager about two weeks ago regarding
 this and expressed my concern that the City should NOT be paying for
this
 event.  While I do believe that the Kwanza event is a positive one
for our
 community and our youth, I do not believe that taxpayer dollars
should be
 spent on events like this.  I also do not believe that taxpayer dollars
 should be spent on any Christmas celebrations either.  These are
religious
 or pseudo-religious holidays and spending tax dollars to support
them does
 come dangerously close to violating the establishment clause.  To
keep these
 kinds of events going, and I do think they should be kept going, the
City
 could/should help the organizers to find private dollars (Churches,
Business
 Groups, etc.) to fund and promote these events.  
 
  
 
 Now. Since we are talking about spending tax-payer dollars, this is an
 excellent time to explore a much broader discussion that this
community MUST
 have.  In light of the current fiscal crisis in our nation and the
impact
 that that this crisis will have on municipal governments in both the
short
 and long-term, we need to ask (and answer) the questions, What
should we
 spend our tax dollars on?  What should we cut from the budget if tax
 revenues decrease by 10%, 20%, etc.?  
 
  
 
 I recommend that the City start with a clean sheet and put very directed
 questions to our citizens regarding budget line items and educate
them on
 what each item will cost.  Then, with this information in hand, the
 community can set spending priorities.
 
  
 
 For example:  Do you want to keep the Police Department at its current
 staffing levels?  If so, here is what that will cost (the City would
 provide a breakdown for every projected penny spent).  Once there is
 consensus on what to spend, move on to the next item.
 
  
 
 For example: Do you want to keep the Department of Public Works and the
 Department of Engineering separate departments or should we merge
them?  If
 we merged them, here are the potential cost savings, potential
increases in
 efficiency for delivery of services, etc.  Once there is consensus
on this,
 move on to the next item.  
 
  
 
 I think you get the idea.  
 
  
 
 I hope everyone is having a great start to the week.  
 
  
 
 Peace, JWK
 
  
 
 Councilman James W. Keady
 
 1 Municipal Plaza
 
 Asbury Park, NJ 07712
 
 TEL: 732.502.5196
 
 EM: [EMAIL PROTECTED]
 
 www.cityofasburypark.com
 
  

 Hi Jim,
 
  Although I greatly appreciate your logical, sound reasoning, it
only sets off rabid posters who obviously are just throwing out
feigned outrage as bait to see if you, too, will wallow in their
masturbatory exercise in auditioning as occasional replacements for
Sean Hannity.   You, Jim, have a productive life.   They have no
productive life or job for that matter.  If they do belong to a
profession, they surely practice it as well as Joe the Plumber plumbs.
 This is like cyber-crack to them.   Just as in actual crackheads,
even a charitable dollar's worth of sense will only add to their
hopped up misery.   And you know what misery loves, don't you Jim?  
Stay on guard lest you, too, feel compelled to pick up that cyber-pipe.
  It is tempting to respond to every ludicrous piece of
spoiled bait they toss out.   Avoid the temptation.   This group has
devolved into what we Catholics called an occasion of sin because,
if not vigilant, one gets 

[AsburyPark] Re: Keady on Kwanza, Christmas and the City Budget

2008-11-10 Thread justifiedright
--- In AsburyPark@yahoogroups.com, mark07712 [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 If everyone celebrates the event 

That's the standard?  EVERYONE has to celebrate it?

I don't thin we would have any.


and it should be funded (if money 
 is available). 4th of July - sure. Kwanza should be grouped with the 
 rest of the December holidays for 1 big party. Happy Holidaze, 
 Asbury Style! Columbus Day - How much does it really cost? How much 
 money are we really talking about??? So far the Kwanza expense seems 
 to be 50 pieces of copy paper. Is it really worth spending hours on 
 this over $50?

Would it kill you to say you disagree with Mr. Keady entirely?







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[AsburyPark] Re: Keady on Kwanza, Christmas and the City Budget

2008-11-10 Thread justifiedright
--- In AsburyPark@yahoogroups.com, asburycheech [EMAIL PROTECTED]
wrote:

  Hi Jim,
  
   Although I greatly appreciate your logical, sound reasoning, it
 only sets off rabid posters who obviously are just throwing out
 feigned outrage as bait to see if you, too, will wallow in their
 masturbatory exercise in auditioning as occasional replacements for
 Sean Hannity.   You, Jim, have a productive life.   They have no
 productive life or job for that matter.  If they do belong to a
 profession, they surely practice it as well as Joe the Plumber plumbs.
  This is like cyber-crack to them.   Just as in actual crackheads,
 even a charitable dollar's worth of sense will only add to their
 hopped up misery.   And you know what misery loves, don't you Jim?  
 Stay on guard lest you, too, feel compelled to pick up that cyber-pipe.
   It is tempting to respond to every ludicrous piece of
 spoiled bait they toss out.   Avoid the temptation.   This group has
 devolved into what we Catholics called an occasion of sin because,
 if not vigilant, one gets entangled in Satanic snares known all too
 well to Fox News devotees.   You, Jim, will never get the last word in
 no matter how comprehensive or well-reasoned your response.  You will
 only have rung a Pavlovian bell for the baiters, masters that they
 are.  Surely they must stare bleary-eyed into their monitors night and
 day ready to pounce at the first sign of attention you show them.  
   Frankly, I am surprised that the sheer volume of saliva
 elicited in them by your reasonable responses does not short circuit
 their computers, since they are ever at the ready to listen for that
 faintest tinkle. 
  I'd like to say to the time-devourers out there: Get a
 life.  But that would only educe in them the chub they so richly
desire.
  
 Frank Keep the Gov't Out of Religion and v.v. D'Alessandro



An Apostle speaks. 

He prayed that his Messiah's drive by answer would work:(Keady says:
Here's my answer Tom and I won't post anymore because I don't want to
face the response that proves me wrong).

The Apostle can't bear reading my response to his Savior bearing fruit
that proves he goes after Italians, the group of lesser votes, but
applies not the same standard to Blacks of greater votes.

The ultimate prejudice and pander exposed.  Unequal treatment of two
groups, under exactly the same situation.

Racial bias from the titular head of Asbury Park's claims of unity and
diversity.  No surprise to me.

The Apostle's entire personalized post about me is not addressed to
me, rather to someone else.  To whom should I address my response?

To you of course, Frank.  

But I won't attack you as a person, as you have done to me.  

To ask you to sound off on the issue, your Messiah's hypocrisy, would
be too much to ask I'm sure, so I won't.








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[AsburyPark] Re: Keady on Kwanza, Christmas and the City Budget

2008-11-10 Thread sharon_b283
I think you missed the point!  July 4th came BEFORE the bottom fell
out of our economy!  I'll argue this point though, the snowflakes that
light up on the utility poles are up now, 2 weeks!  Christmas, YES,
Kwanzaa, NO?  I'll bet there'll be a tree lighting, too!  Not a
problem!  Bradley Beach has a tree, menorah and a Nativity scene.  No
Kwanzaa anything!  I have no idea what Neptune has beside a lit tree.
Ocean Township either but in Allenhurst, the same as Bradley Beach.

Kwanzaa for me, is a personal celebration.  Kwanzaa was a creation to
allow African Americans to celebrate the Black Family, where small
inexpensive gifts are presented and the 7 principles are focused on. 
No more, no less! The Kinara sits on my dining room table with 3 red,
3 green and a black candle in the center.  Liberation colors.  Since
we don't know the region of Africa, we were taken from, those colors
celebrate the red for our blood, the green is for hope and the black
is for our color, created by Marcus Garvey.

--- In AsburyPark@yahoogroups.com, justifiedright
[EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 Thank you for the response, Councilman Keady.
 
 So you don't think the City should expend any money on cultural 
 events.
 
 Thank you for clearing that up.
 
 I note it is only the Columbus Day celebration which you publically 
 oppose (with great vigor I might ad, including props).
 
 
 Why not support them all with such vigor?
 
 By the way, you march in the Fourth of July parade.  That is also a 
 cultural celebration.  
 
 Why the exception?
 
 Do you also opposed to public resources spent on the Pride Parade?
 
 Finally - where is your stance on the City scubbing all mention of 
 the word Christmas from its celebrations? For or opposed?
 
 In that line:
 
 Isn't Christmas a cultural part of America, and has been so for many, 
 many years?
 
 
 
 
 
 --- In AsburyPark@yahoogroups.com, James Keady james.keady@ 
 wrote:
 
  Mr. Deseno: 
  
   
  
  In a recent post to this list you wrote:
  
   
  
  For the same reason, Keady will bash Columbus Day and rage on (as 
 he did
  last month again) about the use of public funds for a cultural 
 holiday
  (Columbus Day) but stays silent on Kwanzaa. 
  
   
  
  Once again, you exercise your less than scrupulous tactics, this 
 time -
  judgment without query.  Thank God our judicial system does not 
 operate in
  the way that you do.  Let me share with you how an adult looking 
 for an
  answer to a legitimate question may have framed this.  
  
   
  
  Mr. Deseno: Mr. Keady, in the past you have been outspoken about 
 the use of
  public tax dollars for the City's Columbus Day event.  I am curious 
 to know
  if you have similar feelings about tax dollars being spent on the 
 upcoming
  Kwanza celebration and for that matter the City spending money on 
 any
  religious or pseudo-religious events?  
  
   
  
  And I would have responded. 
  
   
  
  First, let me be clear that my concern with the Asbury Park 
 Columbus Day
  celebration is that it presents a sanitized version of history at 
 best and
  outright lies at worst.  As an educator, my concern was/is that 
 public
  dollars were/are being spent to misinform our youth about Columbus'
  discovery of America.  If however a private group would like to 
 put on
  this event (ex. Knights of Columbus) I would both support and 
 defend their
  right to do that.  
  
   
  
  Second, since you raised the issue about Kwanza, let me share the 
 following.
  I had a conversation with the City Manager about two weeks ago 
 regarding
  this and expressed my concern that the City should NOT be paying 
 for this
  event.  While I do believe that the Kwanza event is a positive one 
 for our
  community and our youth, I do not believe that taxpayer dollars 
 should be
  spent on events like this.  I also do not believe that taxpayer 
 dollars
  should be spent on any Christmas celebrations either.  These are 
 religious
  or pseudo-religious holidays and spending tax dollars to support 
 them does
  come dangerously close to violating the establishment clause.  To 
 keep these
  kinds of events going, and I do think they should be kept going, 
 the City
  could/should help the organizers to find private dollars (Churches, 
 Business
  Groups, etc.) to fund and promote these events.  
  
   
  
  Now. Since we are talking about spending tax-payer dollars, this is 
 an
  excellent time to explore a much broader discussion that this 
 community MUST
  have.  In light of the current fiscal crisis in our nation and the 
 impact
  that that this crisis will have on municipal governments in both 
 the short
  and long-term, we need to ask (and answer) the questions, What 
 should we
  spend our tax dollars on?  What should we cut from the budget if 
 tax
  revenues decrease by 10%, 20%, etc.?  
  
   
  
  I recommend that the City start with a clean sheet and put very 
 directed
  questions to our citizens regarding budget line items and educate 
 them 

[AsburyPark] Re: Keady on Kwanza, Christmas and the City Budget

2008-11-10 Thread justifiedright
--- In AsburyPark@yahoogroups.com, sharon_b283 [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 I think you missed the point!  July 4th came BEFORE the bottom fell
 out of our economy!  I'll argue this point though, the snowflakes that
 light up on the utility poles are up now, 2 weeks!  Christmas, YES,
 Kwanzaa, NO?  I'll bet there'll be a tree lighting, too!  Not a
 problem!  Bradley Beach has a tree, menorah and a Nativity scene.  No
 Kwanzaa anything!  I have no idea what Neptune has beside a lit tree.
 Ocean Township either but in Allenhurst, the same as Bradley Beach.
 
 Kwanzaa for me, is a personal celebration.  Kwanzaa was a creation to
 allow African Americans to celebrate the Black Family, where small
 inexpensive gifts are presented and the 7 principles are focused on. 
 No more, no less! The Kinara sits on my dining room table with 3 red,
 3 green and a black candle in the center.  Liberation colors.  Since
 we don't know the region of Africa, we were taken from, those colors
 celebrate the red for our blood, the green is for hope and the black
 is for our color, created by Marcus Garvey.


The Kwanzaa celebration sounds very personal to you Sharon.  So
important that others should be respectful of it - allow it to you. 
Allow your community to celebrate with you.  We should be tolerant and
gentle with that for sure.

Now imagine a councilman who is not.  Imagine him yelling, veins
bulging with hate from the dais, demonizing and demoralizing what you
hold dear. Intolerance x 10.
Imagine him supporting a non-profit that also says, We will take the
accutrements fo Kwanzaa, but we declare the very name of it damaged
and damaging, and will not use it.

Honestly, would you feel put upon?

Would you feel better or worse should the response to your complaints
be to minimize you further?




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Re: [AsburyPark] Re: Keady on Kwanza, Christmas and the City Budget

2008-11-10 Thread Jersey Shore John
Now this is treatment of you, personally? Oy.

On Nov 10, 2008, at 5:09 PM, justifiedright wrote:

 --- In AsburyPark@yahoogroups.com, Jack Pitzer [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:
 
  Whaa

 I'll recall these sage words the next time you fell strongly about
 treatment of you by someone.


 



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[AsburyPark] Re: Keady on Kwanza, Christmas and the City Budget

2008-11-10 Thread justifiedright
--- In AsburyPark@yahoogroups.com, Jersey Shore John
[EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 Now this is treatment of you, personally? Oy.
 

As an American taking part in the Columbus Day celebration whom Keady
calls liars, certainly.  He was talking about me.

As a Christian listening to a non-profit declare the word Christmas as
bad, certainly.  It's my identity and culture under attack.




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[AsburyPark] Re: Keady on Kwanza, Christmas and the City Budget

2008-11-10 Thread oakdorf
--- In AsburyPark@yahoogroups.com, sharon_b283 [EMAIL PROTECTED] 
wrote:
...and a Fava bean to
keep in my coin purse. Legend has it that a Catholic woman with a
.Fava bean in her purse will never be broke...

There's the answer. 

What's really amazing is the extent the people kill themselves to give 
to their kids during the holiday season and more or less threaten 
them if you're not good...no presents...





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[AsburyPark] Re: Keady on Kwanza, Christmas and the City Budget

2008-11-10 Thread oakdorf

http://www.amazon.com/Lies-Teacher-About-Christopher-
Columbus/dp/1565840089

my daughter was around 14 when she realized I was the easter bunny. She 
put two and two together and realized the can of coke came from her 
easter basket - that I was drinking the day before easter...

hopefully no kids are reading this...but did you ever notice santa 
comes in all different colors, shapes and sizes and there could be one 
in every mall or street corner in NYC???








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Re: [AsburyPark] Re: Keady on Kwanza, Christmas and the City Budget

2008-11-10 Thread Jersey Shore John
Christmas is German.

On Nov 10, 2008, at 5:30 PM, justifiedright wrote:

 --- In AsburyPark@yahoogroups.com, Jersey Shore John
 [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:
 
  Now this is treatment of you, personally? Oy.
 

 As an American taking part in the Columbus Day celebration whom Keady
 calls liars, certainly. He was talking about me.

 As a Christian listening to a non-profit declare the word Christmas as
 bad, certainly. It's my identity and culture under attack.


 



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[AsburyPark] Re: Keady on Kwanza, Christmas and the City Budget

2008-11-10 Thread oakdorf
--- 

I just left wegman's.

All those christmas trees in the lobby. All those christmas things for
sale. 

Nothing for Hanukkah.

We keep it simple.

Easy chicken parm dinner. Weg's chicken, Weg's tomato basil sauce (ap
related) (.99) and already shredded mozz. 




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Re: [AsburyPark] Re: Keady on Kwanza, Christmas and the City Budget

2008-11-10 Thread Mike Hemeon
It is my culture too. It was probably more the booze than Christianity.

--- On Mon, 11/10/08, Jersey Shore John [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

From: Jersey Shore John [EMAIL PROTECTED]
Subject: Re: [AsburyPark] Re: Keady on Kwanza, Christmas and the City Budget
To: AsburyPark@yahoogroups.com
Date: Monday, November 10, 2008, 6:39 PM






Christianity destroyed my Irish culture in Ireland, so... whatever.

On Nov 10, 2008, at 6:19 PM, Jersey Shore John wrote:

 Christmas is German.

 On Nov 10, 2008, at 5:30 PM, justifiedright wrote:

  --- In [EMAIL PROTECTED] ups.com, Jersey Shore John
  jerseyshorejohn@ ... wrote:
  
   Now this is treatment of you, personally? Oy.
  
 
  As an American taking part in the Columbus Day celebration whom 
 Keady
  calls liars, certainly. He was talking about me.
 
  As a Christian listening to a non-profit declare the word 
 Christmas as
  bad, certainly. It's my identity and culture under attack.
 
 
 

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Re: [AsburyPark] Re: Keady on Kwanza, Christmas and the City Budget

2008-11-10 Thread Jersey Shore John
Christianity destroyed my Irish culture in Ireland, so... whatever.

On Nov 10, 2008, at 6:19 PM, Jersey Shore John wrote:

 Christmas is German.

 On Nov 10, 2008, at 5:30 PM, justifiedright wrote:

  --- In AsburyPark@yahoogroups.com, Jersey Shore John
  [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:
  
   Now this is treatment of you, personally? Oy.
  
 
  As an American taking part in the Columbus Day celebration whom  
 Keady
  calls liars, certainly. He was talking about me.
 
  As a Christian listening to a non-profit declare the word  
 Christmas as
  bad, certainly. It's my identity and culture under attack.
 
 
 

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[AsburyPark] Re: Keady on Kwanza, Christmas and the City Budget

2008-11-10 Thread Gabrielle Obre
People do love to hate you Tommy, but I think you like it too.  simple
questions would have avoided the banter, which was pretty funny and
gave me a great belly laugh. 

I think it would have been more fair for you to address the entire
council on this at a meeting. You'd never see any of the other
councilmen responding here. Keady is no messiah to me, but his
continuous efforts at outreach and his attention to transparency are
precisely what governments need. As well as the citizens to pay attention.

For those of you who love to hate Tommy, and I admit he is a baiter,
Tommy is not way off in this if in fact the word Christmas has been
somehow banned from city usage. Jews would flip, African Americans
would flip and Gay people would flip. PC paranoia can make people lean
toward fascism just as the right does. Watch that the oppressee in you
is not becoming the oppressor. Get over your tribal self. 

If you have questioned Columbus day you must tolerate questions of
Kwanzaa. Did that guy really do that? I will look it up. If anyone
knows this to be untrue please speak.

Tommy, human beings are violent creatures. We are getting better all
the time and there is no need to deny colonization was ugly. You can
still celebrate America and tell a little more of the truth about it.
I know it has ugliness AND beauty, just like everyone of us.

Jim's suggestion for going over items line by line would, I think
force all this energy into something more productive and free from
personalizing (which should be called ego baiting). Probably be
interesting as well. That way we could actually know what is being
spent on these events, if anything. 

I really did enjoy reading this thread.  Tommy and Jim's intelligence
and frat boy spats, the gang up on Tommy, Franks funny visuals,
Sharon's description of Kwanzaa made me teary, Oakdorf's hilarious
interjections and the grunts from jersy john, mike and jack..BTW Jack,
Tommy got you on that. Really funny. Much better than anyone else's story.

I need to express my genuine affection and gratitude for this
community and it is the thankful season. So thank you!




--- In AsburyPark@yahoogroups.com, Mike Hemeon [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 It is my culture too. It was probably more the booze than Christianity.
 
 --- On Mon, 11/10/08, Jersey Shore John [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:
 
 From: Jersey Shore John [EMAIL PROTECTED]
 Subject: Re: [AsburyPark] Re: Keady on Kwanza, Christmas and the
City Budget
 To: AsburyPark@yahoogroups.com
 Date: Monday, November 10, 2008, 6:39 PM
 
 
 
 
 
 
 Christianity destroyed my Irish culture in Ireland, so... whatever.
 
 On Nov 10, 2008, at 6:19 PM, Jersey Shore John wrote:
 
  Christmas is German.
 
  On Nov 10, 2008, at 5:30 PM, justifiedright wrote:
 
   --- In [EMAIL PROTECTED] ups.com, Jersey Shore John
   jerseyshorejohn@ ... wrote:
   
Now this is treatment of you, personally? Oy.
   
  
   As an American taking part in the Columbus Day celebration whom 
  Keady
   calls liars, certainly. He was talking about me.
  
   As a Christian listening to a non-profit declare the word 
  Christmas as
   bad, certainly. It's my identity and culture under attack.
  
  
  
 
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