[FairfieldLife] Re: Conversation with Mr. Chivukula

2010-05-23 Thread nablusoss1008


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, TurquoiseB no_re...@... wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, wayback71 wayback71@ wrote:
 
  But if Ravi is plain old seriously manic, and then gets good 
  treatment and maintains it, then all this guru stuff will seem 
  wild to him, too.  In fact, if he gets well, he will understand 
  why he felt that way but also recognize that it was totally 
  unreal and part of the illness.  He will hope that people can 
  forget or forgive his wildness and wish that he had not broadcast 
  his instability so far and wide.  He won't be insisting on being 
  a guru anymore and he won't feel like one, either, dull as that 
  may be.  Let's hope he gets good treatment .
 
 Which is precisely why treatment will be so difficult,
 even if he willingly undergoes it. I for one do not 
 believe a word of him checking himself into a mental
 health care facility.
 
 There is a case to be made here for an Indian guy, tired
 of the responsibilities of wife and children, trying to
 find an acceptable way of dumping them. In his culture,
 one of those ways is to declare yourself enlightened. If
 you do, you now get judged by an entirely different set
 of standards than anyone else. You get to not only dump
 your wife and kids without being considered an irrespon-
 sible asshole for doing so, you get *praised* for doing
 so, because you're now following your inner voice and
 dedicating yourself to gurudom and spreading the light.
 
 I'm not sure what exactly *is* going on here in the Ravi
 Incident. All I'm sure of is that the *myth* of enlight-
 enment and what it means plays a big part in it.
 
 Rick -- and he's still never told us how he came to hear
 about Ravi and choose him for one of his interviews --
 gave him a platform from which to announce his awakening.
 Rick's -- and others' -- first impulse was to *defend*
 his supposed normal enlightened status rather than be
 concerned, which they almost certainly would have been
 given anyone else spouting such craziness. The *secondary*
 impulse we've been seeing here, in my opinion, is a bout
 of protect the guru, with any responsibility being
 not only shifted away from Amma and her organization,
 but taking it as an opportunity to write bhaktied-out
 love poems for her. And now Ravi's interview has quietly
 been disappeared from the list, so as not to somehow
 cast questions upon the other interviews, and on the
 whole concept of ordinary enlightenment.

I was thinking along these lines also. 
It also reveals how easily many people are impressed by the experiences of 
others, in this case Rick. It's in some quarters almost an hysterical awe. As 
personal experiences grow this naturally fades away.
In the home of Maharishi this hysteria would never gain foothold ofcourse 
as Maharishi would put things into perspectice relatively quickly. 
Remember the british guy who for years had alsmost 24/7 visions of Krisha ? For 
days on end he was so raptured in bliss that he had to be fed by his buddy. 
When he told Maharishi about his visions He laughed and jokingly said B 
is dreaming again. I don't think Maharishi disapprooved of the expriences or 
saw them as unreal, only that the fellow should take it easy and spend many 
more years to stabilize his experiences. Which he eventually certainly did.



Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Conversation with Mr. Chivukula

2010-05-23 Thread ditzyklanmail
This guys experience, impressed by the experience of others? lol

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pcc3Y642Cv8feature=related





From: nablusoss1008 no_re...@yahoogroups.com
To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com
Sent: Sun, 23 May, 2010 5:39:36 AM
Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: Conversation with Mr. Chivukula

  


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, TurquoiseB no_re...@... wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, wayback71 wayback71@ wrote:
 
  But if Ravi is plain old seriously manic, and then gets good 
  treatment and maintains it, then all this guru stuff will seem 
  wild to him, too.  In fact, if he gets well, he will understand 
  why he felt that way but also recognize that it was totally 
  unreal and part of the illness.  He will hope that people can 
  forget or forgive his wildness and wish that he had not broadcast 
  his instability so far and wide.  He won't be insisting on being 
  a guru anymore and he won't feel like one, either, dull as that 
  may be.  Let's hope he gets good treatment .
 
 Which is precisely why treatment will be so difficult,
 even if he willingly undergoes it. I for one do not 
 believe a word of him checking himself into a mental
 health care facility.
 
 There is a case to be made here for an Indian guy, tired
 of the responsibilities of wife and children, trying to
 find an acceptable way of dumping them. In his culture,
 one of those ways is to declare yourself enlightened. If
 you do, you now get judged by an entirely different set
 of standards than anyone else. You get to not only dump
 your wife and kids without being considered an irrespon-
 sible asshole for doing so, you get *praised* for doing
 so, because you're now following your inner voice and
 dedicating yourself to gurudom and spreading the light.
 
 I'm not sure what exactly *is* going on here in the Ravi
 Incident. All I'm sure of is that the *myth* of enlight-
 enment and what it means plays a big part in it.
 
 Rick -- and he's still never told us how he came to hear
 about Ravi and choose him for one of his interviews --
 gave him a platform from which to announce his awakening.
 Rick's -- and others' -- first impulse was to *defend*
 his supposed normal enlightened status rather than be
 concerned, which they almost certainly would have been
 given anyone else spouting such craziness. The *secondary*
 impulse we've been seeing here, in my opinion, is a bout
 of protect the guru, with any responsibility being
 not only shifted away from Amma and her organization,
 but taking it as an opportunity to write bhaktied-out
 love poems for her. And now Ravi's interview has quietly
 been disappeared from the list, so as not to somehow
 cast questions upon the other interviews, and on the
 whole concept of ordinary enlightenment.

I was thinking along these lines also. 
It also reveals how easily many people are impressed by the experiences of 
others, in this case Rick. It's in some quarters almost an hysterical awe. As 
personal experiences grow this naturally fades away.
In the home of Maharishi this hysteria would never gain foothold ofcourse 
as Maharishi would put things into perspectice relatively quickly. 
Remember the british guy who for years had alsmost 24/7 visions of Krisha ? For 
days on end he was so raptured in bliss that he had to be fed by his buddy. 
When he told Maharishi about his visions He laughed and jokingly said B 
is dreaming again. I don't think Maharishi disapprooved of the expriences or 
saw them as unreal, only that the fellow should take it easy and spend many 
more years to stabilize his experiences. Which he eventually certainly did.


 



[FairfieldLife] Re: Conversation with Mr. Chivukula

2010-05-23 Thread lurkernomore20002000

--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, TurquoiseB no_re...@... wrote:


 There is a case to be made here for an Indian guy, tired
 of the responsibilities of wife and children, trying to
 find an acceptable way of dumping them. In his culture,
 one of those ways is to declare yourself enlightened. If
 you do, you now get judged by an entirely different set
 of standards than anyone else. You get to not only dump
 your wife and kids without being considered an irrespon-
 sible asshole for doing so, you get *praised* for doing
 so, because you're now following your inner voice and
 dedicating yourself to gurudom and spreading the light.


Yes, I think this is it.  The long, short and middle of it.



RE: [FairfieldLife] Re: Conversation with Mr. Chivukula

2010-05-23 Thread Rick Archer
From: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com [mailto:fairfieldl...@yahoogroups.com]
On Behalf Of TurquoiseB
Sent: Sunday, May 23, 2010 12:25 AM
To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com
Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: Conversation with Mr. Chivukula
 
Rick -- and he's still never told us how he came to hear
about Ravi and choose him for one of his interviews --
He's been an intermittent contributor to the Amma chat group (which, like
FFL and the TMO, is not affiliated with her organization), and he always
seemed reasonable and sane to me. When I started the BatGap chat group, I
mentioned it there and he joined. He wasn't an obsessive poster, but he
occasionally mentioned an awakening he had had, or was in the process of
having, and he seemed genuine and articulate, so I decided to interview him.
Keep in mind that from my perspective, there are many stages or degrees of
awakening, and I don't consider anyone I've interviewed to have undergone
them all, if that's even possible.

gave him a platform from which to announce his awakening.
Rick's -- and others' -- first impulse was to *defend*
his supposed normal enlightened status rather than be
concerned, which they almost certainly would have been
given anyone else spouting such craziness. 
I did? I seldom use the word enlightened. Implies too final an
attainment.
The *secondary*
impulse we've been seeing here, in my opinion, is a bout
of protect the guru, with any responsibility being
not only shifted away from Amma and her organization,
but taking it as an opportunity to write bhaktied-out
love poems for her. 
Do you think Amma and her organization should be held responsible for
someone like Ravi. If so, explain to me the logistics of how that would work
- how the mental health of hundreds of thousands of people could be
monitored. As it was, Anatol and I both emailed the head of Amma's US
organization, and he said he'd tell Amma. What more should or could have
been done?
And now Ravi's interview has quietly
been disappeared from the list, so as not to somehow
cast questions upon the other interviews, and on the
whole concept of ordinary enlightenment. 
I removed it. I think each interview stands on it's own, but if I were one
of the people interviewed, I might feel uncomfortable about being associated
with someone who was acting as Ravi has been. In light of Ravi's behavior, I
didn't think it appropriate to post his interview, both for the BatGap's
reputation and for Ravi's well-being. I don't think it's healthy for him to
get any more attention or to have anything reinforce his notion that he is a
guru. 
By my definition, a spiritual awakening does not preclude a subsequent
mental breakdown. In fact, it may precipitate one if one is unprepared for
it. Ravi had done little or no spiritual practice. If this was a Kundalini
awakening, and not just a bi-polar episode, he was unprepared for it. His
ego appropriated it and went hog-wild.



RE: [FairfieldLife] Re: Conversation with Mr. Chivukula

2010-05-23 Thread Rick Archer
From: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com [mailto:fairfieldl...@yahoogroups.com]
On Behalf Of TurquoiseB
Sent: Sunday, May 23, 2010 12:32 AM
To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com
Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: Conversation with Mr. Chivukula
 
  
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com
mailto:FairfieldLife%40yahoogroups.com , Rick Archer r...@... wrote:

  On Behalf Of Joe
  
  Yep, you wonder just how much of the whole story is bullshit 
  and what isn't. Could it be some kind of over-the-top weird 
  devotional to Amma? A very poor advertisement if so.
 
 Hardly one she would appreciate. 

Why? 

Really. I don't think you quite understand the 
import of what you are saying, Rick.

Are you really suggesting that it's *right* for
a guru to *keep* their students devoted to them?
No. I was implying that I don't think any public figure would appreciate a
nut case claiming to be a representative or follower. Amma is very tolerant
of such people. She refuses to expel really obnoxious people from her
ashram, despite protestations from the majority, but she never reinforces
anyone's delusions of grandeur.

  Many of his posts, including 
  in the Amma chat, proclaim his independence from her and his 
  new status as guru in his own right.

As did Maharishi, rejecting and divorcing himself
from essentially the entire tradition he had been
part of, which would never have allowed him to be
a teacher. Seems to me that there is a bit of a 
double standard going on here...
He did? I thought he always emphasized his allegiance to his tradition.


RE: [FairfieldLife] Re: Conversation with Mr. Chivukula

2010-05-23 Thread Rick Archer
From: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com [mailto:fairfieldl...@yahoogroups.com]
On Behalf Of TurquoiseB
Sent: Sunday, May 23, 2010 12:46 AM
To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com
Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: Conversation with Mr. Chivukula
 
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com
mailto:FairfieldLife%40yahoogroups.com , Joe geezerfr...@... wrote:

 Yes...now that you mention it, there was that one post from 
 him saying he would eat Amma for lunch and Maharishi for dinner, 
 or words to that effect.
 
 But you know, the whole episode brings up a topic that has 
 long fascinated me; and that is the very fine line that 
 separates so-called enlightenment from borderline behavioral 
 disorders such as paranoid schizophrenia.
 
 I'm open to the possibility that enlightenment is just a 
 stamp of authenticity on certain behavioral disorders. When 
 I spent time around MMY I certainly saw behaviors that would 
 have sent most folks in for some mental retread time.

Bingo.

That is *exactly* the point I've been trying to make.

The much larger issue here is the seeming inability
of many people to perceive the claim of enlightenment
as in the same ballpark as any other claim made by 
any other crazy person. 

*It's all going on in their heads*. ALL of it. But 
for some people, because they have invested so much
of their belief and so much money and so many years
of their lives *into* believing that enlightenment is
the highest goal, they have to divorce their reaction
to Ravi as a fairly obvious crazy person from having
any wider implications, and resist taking a critical 
look at the claims of *other* persons who have made 
similarly solisistic statements and similar claims 
in the past.

How many of *them* (people revered in the past or the
present as enlightened gurus) walked away from the 
responsibilities of wife and family and got *praised* 
for it, not badrapped? How many of *them* became as 
dismissive of those who didn't revere them as Ravi has, 
and treated them the way he does? How many of *them* 
had a similar inability to appreciate anyone else's 
point of view than their own, and consider it valid?

My point is that people seem to be stopping at the 
surface of this whole tempest in a pisspot, and not
looking beneath the surface at its implications. I'm 
merely looking at them, and bringing them up for 
consideration. Not that I think any of these things
will actually be considered. In my experience, the
allegiance to a long-held set of beliefs is almost
always stronger than the allegiance to reality.
So are you saying that no one is or has been genuinely enlightened, and that
all supposedly enlightened people have been or are guilty of the delusions
you mention, or are you saying that many have been, and that it may be hard
for many people to sort out the genuine ones from the bogus ones? I ascribe
to the latter perspective.


[FairfieldLife] Re: Conversation with Mr. Chivukula

2010-05-23 Thread authfriend
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Rick Archer r...@... wrote:

 On Behalf Of TurquoiseB
snip
 My point is that people seem to be stopping at the 
 surface of this whole tempest in a pisspot, and not
 looking beneath the surface at its implications. I'm 
 merely looking at them, and bringing them up for 
 consideration. Not that I think any of these things
 will actually be considered. In my experience, the
 allegiance to a long-held set of beliefs is almost
 always stronger than the allegiance to reality.

 So are you saying that no one is or has been genuinely
 enlightened, and that all supposedly enlightened people
 have been or are guilty of the delusions you mention,
 or are you saying that many have been, and that it may
 be hard for many people to sort out the genuine ones
 from the bogus ones? I ascribe to the latter perspective.

Me too, with the caveat that it's not that hard to
make the distinction when you're talking about the
extreme ends of the spectrum, e.g., Ravi versus Rama
Maharshi. It's the ones in the middle who can be
difficult to sort out (and there you may well be
dealing as much with philosophy and semantics as with
clinical distinctions).




RE: [FairfieldLife] Re: Conversation with Mr. Chivukula

2010-05-23 Thread Peter

--- On Sun, 5/23/10, Rick Archer r...@searchsummit.com wrote:

From: Rick Archer r...@searchsummit.com
Subject: RE: [FairfieldLife] Re: Conversation with Mr. Chivukula
To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com
Date: Sunday, May 23, 2010, 1:49 PM














 
 
 
 
 







 



















From: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com
[mailto:fairfieldl...@yahoogroups.com] On Behalf Of TurquoiseB


As did Maharishi, rejecting and divorcing himself

from essentially the entire tradition he had been

part of, which would never have allowed him to be

a teacher. Seems to me that there is a bit of a 

double standard going on here... 

He did? I thought he
always emphasized his allegiance to his tradition.

I think you could argue that the orthodox tradition of Shankaracharyas felt MMY 
was doing something wrong. They, perhaps, rejected him, but he never rejected 
them. Similar to how Maharishi superficially rejected Sri Sri Ravi Shankar 
(i.e., Meditators should watch out for sweet poison) yet the two remained in 
close contact and SSRS adores MMY. SSRS said MMY was a Lion of Consciousness. 
Amen to that!
 



























 





  



RE: [FairfieldLife] Re: Conversation with Mr. Chivukula

2010-05-23 Thread gullible fool

 
I'm really out of the loop here, what with my last time in ff being only ten or 
eleven days and exactly ten years ago this month, so one question...
 
Who's Ravi?
 
Love will swallow you, eat you up completely, until there is no `you,' only 
love. 
 
- Amma  

--- On Sun, 5/23/10, Rick Archer r...@searchsummit.com wrote:


From: Rick Archer r...@searchsummit.com
Subject: RE: [FairfieldLife] Re: Conversation with Mr. Chivukula
To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com
Date: Sunday, May 23, 2010, 1:44 PM















From: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com [mailto:fairfieldl...@yahoogroups.com] On 
Behalf Of TurquoiseB
Sent: Sunday, May 23, 2010 12:25 AM
To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com
Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: Conversation with Mr. Chivukula
 



Rick -- and he's still never told us how he came to hear
about Ravi and choose him for one of his interviews --
He's been an intermittent contributor to the Amma chat group (which, like FFL 
and the TMO, is not affiliated with her organization), and he always seemed 
reasonable and sane to me. When I started the BatGap chat group, I mentioned it 
there and he joined. He wasn't an obsessive poster, but he occasionally 
mentioned an awakening he had had, or was in the process of having, and he 
seemed genuine and articulate, so I decided to interview him. Keep in mind that 
from my perspective, there are many stages or degrees of awakening, and I don't 
consider anyone I've interviewed to have undergone them all, if that's even 
possible.

gave him a platform from which to announce his awakening.
Rick's -- and others' -- first impulse was to *defend*
his supposed normal enlightened status rather than be
concerned, which they almost certainly would have been
given anyone else spouting such craziness. 
I did? I seldom use the word enlightened. Implies too final an attainment. 
The *secondary*
impulse we've been seeing here, in my opinion, is a bout
of protect the guru, with any responsibility being
not only shifted away from Amma and her organization,
but taking it as an opportunity to write bhaktied-out
love poems for her. 
Do you think Amma and her organization should be held responsible for someone 
like Ravi. If so, explain to me the logistics of how that would work - how the 
mental health of hundreds of thousands of people could be monitored. As it was, 
Anatol and I both emailed the head of Amma's US organization, and he said he'd 
tell Amma. What more should or could have been done? 
And now Ravi's interview has quietly
been disappeared from the list, so as not to somehow
cast questions upon the other interviews, and on the
whole concept of ordinary enlightenment. 
I removed it. I think each interview stands on it's own, but if I were one of 
the people interviewed, I might feel uncomfortable about being associated with 
someone who was acting as Ravi has been. In light of Ravi's behavior, I didn't 
think it appropriate to post his interview, both for the BatGap's reputation 
and for Ravi's well-being. I don't think it's healthy for him to get any more 
attention or to have anything reinforce his notion that he is a guru. 
By my definition, a spiritual awakening does not preclude a subsequent mental 
breakdown. In fact, it may precipitate one if one is unprepared for it. Ravi 
had done little or no spiritual practice. If this was a Kundalini awakening, 
and not just a bi-polar episode, he was unprepared for it. His ego appropriated 
it and went hog-wild. 







  

RE: [FairfieldLife] Re: Conversation with Mr. Chivukula

2010-05-23 Thread Rick Archer
From: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com [mailto:fairfieldl...@yahoogroups.com]
On Behalf Of authfriend
Sent: Sunday, May 23, 2010 1:21 PM
To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com
Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: Conversation with Mr. Chivukula
 
  
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com
mailto:FairfieldLife%40yahoogroups.com , Rick Archer r...@... wrote:

 On Behalf Of TurquoiseB
snip
 My point is that people seem to be stopping at the 
 surface of this whole tempest in a pisspot, and not
 looking beneath the surface at its implications. I'm 
 merely looking at them, and bringing them up for 
 consideration. Not that I think any of these things
 will actually be considered. In my experience, the
 allegiance to a long-held set of beliefs is almost
 always stronger than the allegiance to reality.

 So are you saying that no one is or has been genuinely
 enlightened, and that all supposedly enlightened people
 have been or are guilty of the delusions you mention,
 or are you saying that many have been, and that it may
 be hard for many people to sort out the genuine ones
 from the bogus ones? I ascribe to the latter perspective.

Me too, with the caveat that it's not that hard to
make the distinction when you're talking about the
extreme ends of the spectrum, e.g., Ravi versus Rama
Maharshi. It's the ones in the middle who can be
difficult to sort out (and there you may well be
dealing as much with philosophy and semantics as with
clinical distinctions).
Good caveat. 



RE: [FairfieldLife] Re: Conversation with Mr. Chivukula

2010-05-23 Thread Rick Archer
From: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com [mailto:fairfieldl...@yahoogroups.com]
On Behalf Of gullible fool
Sent: Sunday, May 23, 2010 1:39 PM
To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com
Subject: RE: [FairfieldLife] Re: Conversation with Mr. Chivukula
 
  

 
I'm really out of the loop here, what with my last time in ff being only ten
or eleven days and exactly ten years ago this month, so one question...
 
Who's Ravi?
 
He's a guy who lives in Fremont California. Amma devotee among other things.
I interviewed him for BatGap recently. After that he kind of went nuts,
proclaiming himself a guru and over posting here so that he's on no-post
status now. If you look through the archives you'll see tons of stuff, but a
hike in the woods would do you more good.
 


Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Conversation with Mr. Chivukula

2010-05-23 Thread Bhairitu
Rick Archer wrote:
 From: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com [mailto:fairfieldl...@yahoogroups.com]
 On Behalf Of gullible fool
 Sent: Sunday, May 23, 2010 1:39 PM
 To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com
 Subject: RE: [FairfieldLife] Re: Conversation with Mr. Chivukula
  
   

  
 I'm really out of the loop here, what with my last time in ff being only ten
 or eleven days and exactly ten years ago this month, so one question...
  
 Who's Ravi?
  
 He's a guy who lives in Fremont California. Amma devotee among other things.
 I interviewed him for BatGap recently. After that he kind of went nuts,
 proclaiming himself a guru and over posting here so that he's on no-post
 status now. If you look through the archives you'll see tons of stuff, but a
 hike in the woods would do you more good.
   

gully can go to his Twitter account:
https://twitter.com/chivukularavi

He's also posted a video you can download (it went over 10 minutes 
couldn't upload it to YouTube).

I don't find him much different from any other Indians I've met.




[FairfieldLife] Re: Conversation with Mr. Chivukula

2010-05-23 Thread lurkernomore20002000

Turq:

And now Ravi's interview has quietly
 been disappeared from the list, so as not to somehow
 cast questions upon the other interviews, and on the
 whole concept of ordinary enlightenment.


  Rick:

I removed it. I think each interview stands on it's own, but if I were
one
 of the people interviewed, I might feel uncomfortable about being
associated
 with someone who was acting as Ravi has been. In light of Ravi's
behavior, I
 didn't think it appropriate to post his interview, both for the
BatGap's
 reputation and for Ravi's well-being. I don't think it's healthy for
him to
 get any more attention or to have anything reinforce his notion that
he is a
 guru.

I didn't listen to the interview, so I have no idea of the content. 
But, removing it for the reasons stated sounds a little coddling, if
that's the right word.  Coddling to Ravi, and coddling to those who
visit the site.  So, what is the reputation of Batgap. And I say that
respectfully, because you have spent a lot of time and energy, and
probably money (although I am aware of your wife's requirement about
that).  But how is the interview going to tarnish the reputation. 
Thanks.







Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Conversation with Mr. Chivukula

2010-05-23 Thread Bhairitu
lurkernomore20002000 wrote:
 Turq:

 And now Ravi's interview has quietly
   
 been disappeared from the list, so as not to somehow
 cast questions upon the other interviews, and on the
 whole concept of ordinary enlightenment.
 


   Rick:

 I removed it. I think each interview stands on it's own, but if I were
 one
   
 of the people interviewed, I might feel uncomfortable about being
 
 associated
   
 with someone who was acting as Ravi has been. In light of Ravi's
 
 behavior, I
   
 didn't think it appropriate to post his interview, both for the
 
 BatGap's
   
 reputation and for Ravi's well-being. I don't think it's healthy for
 
 him to
   
 get any more attention or to have anything reinforce his notion that
 
 he is a
   
 guru.
 

 I didn't listen to the interview, so I have no idea of the content. 
 But, removing it for the reasons stated sounds a little coddling, if
 that's the right word.  Coddling to Ravi, and coddling to those who
 visit the site.  So, what is the reputation of Batgap. And I say that
 respectfully, because you have spent a lot of time and energy, and
 probably money (although I am aware of your wife's requirement about
 that).  But how is the interview going to tarnish the reputation. 
 Thanks.

And especially now after the brouhaha more people probably want to see 
it.  I know I do.



RE: [FairfieldLife] Re: Conversation with Mr. Chivukula

2010-05-23 Thread Rick Archer
From: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com [mailto:fairfieldl...@yahoogroups.com]
On Behalf Of lurkernomore20002000
Sent: Sunday, May 23, 2010 3:25 PM
To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com
Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: Conversation with Mr. Chivukula
 
Turq:   
And now Ravi's interview has quietly
 been disappeared from the list, so as not to somehow
 cast questions upon the other interviews, and on the
 whole concept of ordinary enlightenment. 

 Rick: 
I removed it. I think each interview stands on it's own, but if I were one
 of the people interviewed, I might feel uncomfortable about being
associated
 with someone who was acting as Ravi has been. In light of Ravi's behavior,
I
 didn't think it appropriate to post his interview, both for the BatGap's
 reputation and for Ravi's well-being. I don't think it's healthy for him
to
 get any more attention or to have anything reinforce his notion that he is
a
 guru.  
I didn't listen to the interview, so I have no idea of the content.  But,
removing it for the reasons stated sounds a little coddling, if that's the
right word.  Coddling to Ravi, and coddling to those who visit the site.
So, what is the reputation of Batgap. And I say that respectfully, because
you have spent a lot of time and energy, and probably money (although I am
aware of your wife's requirement about that).  
None, really. I got some donations, which I'm keeping in a PayPal account,
to defray expenses. 
But how is the interview going to tarnish the reputation.  Thanks.
It's just that I want to maintain a certain quality standard, such that
people can listen at random to any of the interviews and find it worth their
while. I'm no judge of anyone's level of consciousness, so I don't expect to
bat 1000 in choosing my guests, but so far I'd say I'm batting about 900.
Once I've taped an interview, I feel somewhat obligated to the guest to air
it. I thought Ravi's interview went reasonably well, and this whole brouhaha
didn't erupt until a few days or a week after I recorded it. If others
really want to watch it, I may put it up, at least for a while. I was
thinking that if what happened to Ravi was the result of a kundalini
awakening he wasn't able to handle, and was not just the result of bi-polar
disorder, it might be interesting to interview an expert in kundalini, such
as Joan Harrington: http://www.kundalinicare.com/
 


[FairfieldLife] Re: Conversation with Mr. Chivukula

2010-05-22 Thread TurquoiseB
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, lurkernomore20002000 steve.sun...@... 
wrote:

 I had a conversation with Ravi this evening.  I wish him the 
 best in his endeavours. His awakening is such that it seems 
 he is embarking on a new career, that of Raviguru. This is 
 nothing other than what he has been saying of course, but I 
 wanted to hear it straight from him. I remained skeptical 
 that he was really leaving behind family and work life. But 
 this seems to be the case. 
 
 Pretty much, the answer to any question distlled down to, 
 this is the divine working through Ravi. So, what else is 
 there to say.
 
 Ex: Ravi, it sounds like you are going to live the life of 
 wandering mendicant
 
 Answer:  Yes, the divine will work through Ravi, and let 
 him know what plan the divine has  Or something to this effect.
 
 Bottom Line: I believe Ravi believes that his awakening will 
 bestow upon him the credibiliy to assume the role of a guru to 
 many seekers. And I think that because he has great saturation 
 with American culture, with all it's nuances that he is uniquely 
 fashioned for this role.
 
 This is my report.

As counterpart, based on my recent skims of the BATGAP
forum, t'would seem that many there felt something off
about Ravi, from Day One. The only person who in my
reading of the posts seemed impressed by him, and *still*
seems to believe that there is not only nothing wrong 
with him but that he really *is* experiencing a profound
awakening was -- wait for it -- Jim Flanegin. Those who
have read every post over there can correct me if they
feel my skim reading is inaccurate; it very well 
could be. Some expressed downright concern for Ravi,
while Jim pooh-poohed their concerns.

And these are people who are *conditioned* to see enlight-
enment where others see merely confusion and solipsism.

While I thank you for your report, based on my experience
of seeing people have a minor awakening and set them-
selves up as gurus without the wherewithall to be one,
I'm predicting Ravi's eventual suicide.

That seems to be what *happens* to such people. When their
fantasies of who they really are and how they should be
really treated by people around them don't work out, 
they take the I'll show them route and leave them -- and
the world that just doesn't understand how special they
are -- behind. 

I'm not *hoping* for such an outcome, but I for one would
not be surprised by it. And if it happens, I think I can
safely predict Jim coming up with a hearty It's all good
about *that*, too.





[FairfieldLife] Re: Conversation with Mr. Chivukula - Minor, Important Adjustment

2010-05-22 Thread shukra69
you didnt think it best to advise him to seek the help of a mental health 
professional?

--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, lurkernomore20002000 steve.sun...@... 
wrote:

 
 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, lurkernomore20002000
 steve.sundur@ wrote:
 
  I had a conversation with Ravi this evening. I wish him the best in
 his endeavours. His awakening is such that it seems he is embarking on a
 new career, that of Raviguru. This is nothing other than what he has
 been saying of course, but I wanted to hear it straight from him. I
 remained skeptical that he was really leaving behind family and work
 life. But this seems to be the case.
 
  Pretty much, the answer to any question distlled down to, this is the
 divine working through Ravi. So, what else is there to say.
 
  Ex: Ravi, it sounds like you are going to live the life of wandering
 mendicant
 
  Answer: Yes, the divine will work through Ravi, and let him know what
 plan the divine has Or something to this effect.
 
  Bottom Line: I believe Ravi believes that his awakening will bestow
 upon him the credibiliy to assume the role of a guru to many seekers.
 And I think he feels that because he has great saturation with American
 culture, with all it's nuances that he is uniquely fashioned for this
 role.
 
  This is my report.
 





[FairfieldLife] Re: Conversation with Mr. Chivukula - Minor, Important Adjustment

2010-05-22 Thread lurkernomore20002000
Well, you can imagine that it was pretty lopsided conversation with one party 
doing most of the talking, and the other party doing most of the listeneing.  
My main advice to him was that if he calls himself a simple brahman, to live 
the life of a simple brahman.

--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, shukra69 shukr...@... wrote:

 you didnt think it best to advise him to seek the help of a mental health 
 professional?
 
 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, lurkernomore20002000 steve.sundur@ 
 wrote:
 
  
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, lurkernomore20002000
  steve.sundur@ wrote:
  
   I had a conversation with Ravi this evening. I wish him the best in
  his endeavours. His awakening is such that it seems he is embarking on a
  new career, that of Raviguru. This is nothing other than what he has
  been saying of course, but I wanted to hear it straight from him. I
  remained skeptical that he was really leaving behind family and work
  life. But this seems to be the case.
  
   Pretty much, the answer to any question distlled down to, this is the
  divine working through Ravi. So, what else is there to say.
  
   Ex: Ravi, it sounds like you are going to live the life of wandering
  mendicant
  
   Answer: Yes, the divine will work through Ravi, and let him know what
  plan the divine has Or something to this effect.
  
   Bottom Line: I believe Ravi believes that his awakening will bestow
  upon him the credibiliy to assume the role of a guru to many seekers.
  And I think he feels that because he has great saturation with American
  culture, with all it's nuances that he is uniquely fashioned for this
  role.
  
   This is my report.
  
 





[FairfieldLife] Re: Conversation with Mr. Chivukula

2010-05-22 Thread Jason
 
Jim always had a perverse rationale about such events and situations.  
Remember, Jim also wanted the same Reverence and exalted GuruStatus as Ravi.

    I also wouldn't be surprised at all, if Jim said It's all good if 
Ravi met with a disaster.

--- On Sat, 5/22/10, TurquoiseB no_re...@yahoogroups.com wrote:
Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: Conversation with Mr. Chivukula
Date: Saturday, May 22, 2010, 12:24 AM

 
As counterpart, based on my recent skims of the BATGAP
forum, t'would seem that many there felt something off
about Ravi, from Day One. The only person who in my
reading of the posts seemed impressed by him, and *still*
seems to believe that there is not only nothing wrong 
with him but that he really *is* experiencing a profound
awakening was -- wait for it -- Jim Flanegin. Those who
have read every post over there can correct me if they
feel my skim reading is inaccurate; it very well 
could be. Some expressed downright concern for Ravi,
while Jim pooh-poohed their concerns.

And these are people who are *conditioned* to see enlight-
enment where others see merely confusion and solipsism.

While I thank you for your report, based on my experience
of seeing people have a minor awakening and set them-
selves up as gurus without the wherewithall to be one,
I'm predicting Ravi's eventual suicide.

That seems to be what *happens* to such people. When their
fantasies of who they really are and how they should be
really treated by people around them don't work out, 
they take the I'll show them route and leave them -- and
the world that just doesn't understand how special they
are -- behind. 

I'm not *hoping* for such an outcome, but I for one would
not be surprised by it. And if it happens, I think I can
safely predict Jim coming up with a hearty It's all good
about *that*, too.


 


  

[FairfieldLife] Re: Conversation with Mr. Chivukula

2010-05-22 Thread wayback71


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Jason jedi_sp...@... wrote:

  
 Jim always had a perverse rationale about such events and 
 situations.  Remember, Jim also wanted the same Reverence and exalted 
 GuruStatus as Ravi.
 
     I also wouldn't be surprised at all, if Jim said It's all good if 
 Ravi met with a disaster.
 
 --- On Sat, 5/22/10, TurquoiseB no_re...@yahoogroups.com wrote:
 Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: Conversation with Mr. Chivukula
 Date: Saturday, May 22, 2010, 12:24 AM
 
  
 As counterpart, based on my recent skims of the BATGAP
 forum, t'would seem that many there felt something off
 about Ravi, from Day One. The only person who in my
 reading of the posts seemed impressed by him, and *still*
 seems to believe that there is not only nothing wrong 
 with him but that he really *is* experiencing a profound
 awakening was -- wait for it -- Jim Flanegin. Those who
 have read every post over there can correct me if they
 feel my skim reading is inaccurate; it very well 
 could be. Some expressed downright concern for Ravi,
 while Jim pooh-poohed their concerns.
 
 And these are people who are *conditioned* to see enlight-
 enment where others see merely confusion and solipsism.
 
 While I thank you for your report, based on my experience
 of seeing people have a minor awakening and set them-
 selves up as gurus without the wherewithall to be one,
 I'm predicting Ravi's eventual suicide.
 
 That seems to be what *happens* to such people. When their
 fantasies of who they really are and how they should be
 really treated by people around them don't work out, 
 they take the I'll show them route and leave them -- and
 the world that just doesn't understand how special they
 are -- behind. 
 
 I'm not *hoping* for such an outcome, but I for one would
 not be surprised by it. And if it happens, I think I can
 safely predict Jim coming up with a hearty It's all good
 about *that*, too.

But if Ravi is plain old seriously manic, and then gets good treatment and 
maintains it, then all this guru stuff will seem wild to him, too.  In fact, if 
he gets well, he will understand why he felt that way but also recognize that 
it was totally unreal and part of the illness.  He will hope that people can 
forget or forgive his wildness and wish that he had not broadcast his 
instability so far and wide.  He won't be insisting on being a guru anymore and 
he won't feel like one, either, dull as that may be.  Let's hope he gets good 
treatment .
 
 
  





RE: [FairfieldLife] Re: Conversation with Mr. Chivukula

2010-05-22 Thread Rick Archer
From: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com [mailto:fairfieldl...@yahoogroups.com]
On Behalf Of wayback71
Sent: Saturday, May 22, 2010 4:30 PM
To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com
Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: Conversation with Mr. Chivukula
 
 But if Ravi is plain old seriously manic, and then gets good treatment and
maintains it, then all this guru stuff will seem wild to him, too. In fact,
if he gets well, he will understand why he felt that way but also recognize
that it was totally unreal and part of the illness. He will hope that people
can forget or forgive his wildness and wish that he had not broadcast his
instability so far and wide. He won't be insisting on being a guru anymore
and he won't feel like one, either, dull as that may be. Let's hope he gets
good treatment .
 
That's what I was thinking. But it turns out Ravi isn't in a hospital in
Missouri. He's still in Massachusetts and was BSing everyone about the
hospital. 


[FairfieldLife] Re: Conversation with Mr. Chivukula

2010-05-22 Thread anatol_zinc
i got a nice email from him just now;
seems like Amma is Blessing him and Guiding him back to health;
lets keep praying hoping intending, whatever your way is,
that that is the case

amarnath
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RVr6TIIlOQU
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RVr6TIIlOQU


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Rick Archer r...@... wrote:

 From: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com
[mailto:fairfieldl...@yahoogroups.com]
 On Behalf Of wayback71
 Sent: Saturday, May 22, 2010 4:30 PM
 To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com
 Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: Conversation with Mr. Chivukula

  But if Ravi is plain old seriously manic, and then gets good
treatment and
 maintains it, then all this guru stuff will seem wild to him, too. In
fact,
 if he gets well, he will understand why he felt that way but also
recognize
 that it was totally unreal and part of the illness. He will hope that
people
 can forget or forgive his wildness and wish that he had not broadcast
his
 instability so far and wide. He won't be insisting on being a guru
anymore
 and he won't feel like one, either, dull as that may be. Let's hope he
gets
 good treatment .

 That's what I was thinking. But it turns out Ravi isn't in a hospital
in
 Missouri. He's still in Massachusetts and was BSing everyone about the
 hospital.




[FairfieldLife] Re: Conversation with Mr. Chivukula

2010-05-22 Thread wayback71


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Rick Archer r...@... wrote:

 From: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com [mailto:fairfieldl...@yahoogroups.com]
 On Behalf Of wayback71
 Sent: Saturday, May 22, 2010 4:30 PM
 To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com
 Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: Conversation with Mr. Chivukula
  
  But if Ravi is plain old seriously manic, and then gets good treatment and
 maintains it, then all this guru stuff will seem wild to him, too. In fact,
 if he gets well, he will understand why he felt that way but also recognize
 that it was totally unreal and part of the illness. He will hope that people
 can forget or forgive his wildness and wish that he had not broadcast his
 instability so far and wide. He won't be insisting on being a guru anymore
 and he won't feel like one, either, dull as that may be. Let's hope he gets
 good treatment .
  
 That's what I was thinking. But it turns out Ravi isn't in a hospital in
 Missouri. He's still in Massachusetts and was BSing everyone about the
 hospital.


oh.  that kind of puts a damper on the whole treatment idea




[FairfieldLife] Re: Conversation with Mr. Chivukula

2010-05-22 Thread Joe

Yep, you wonder just how much of the whole story is bullshit and what isn't.
Could it be some kind of over-the-top weird devotional to Amma?
A very poor advertisement if so.


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, wayback71 waybac...@... wrote:

 
 
 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Rick Archer rick@ wrote:
 
  From: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com [mailto:fairfieldl...@yahoogroups.com]
  On Behalf Of wayback71
  Sent: Saturday, May 22, 2010 4:30 PM
  To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com
  Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: Conversation with Mr. Chivukula
   
   But if Ravi is plain old seriously manic, and then gets good treatment and
  maintains it, then all this guru stuff will seem wild to him, too. In fact,
  if he gets well, he will understand why he felt that way but also recognize
  that it was totally unreal and part of the illness. He will hope that people
  can forget or forgive his wildness and wish that he had not broadcast his
  instability so far and wide. He won't be insisting on being a guru anymore
  and he won't feel like one, either, dull as that may be. Let's hope he gets
  good treatment .
   
  That's what I was thinking. But it turns out Ravi isn't in a hospital in
  Missouri. He's still in Massachusetts and was BSing everyone about the
  hospital.
 
 
 oh.  that kind of puts a damper on the whole treatment idea





RE: [FairfieldLife] Re: Conversation with Mr. Chivukula

2010-05-22 Thread Rick Archer
From: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com [mailto:fairfieldl...@yahoogroups.com]
On Behalf Of Joe
Sent: Saturday, May 22, 2010 7:03 PM
To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com
Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: Conversation with Mr. Chivukula
 
  

Yep, you wonder just how much of the whole story is bullshit and what isn't.
Could it be some kind of over-the-top weird devotional to Amma?
A very poor advertisement if so.
Hardly one she would appreciate. Many of his posts, including in the Amma
chat, proclaim his independence from her and his new status as guru in his
own right.
 


[FairfieldLife] Re: Conversation with Mr. Chivukula

2010-05-22 Thread Joe
Yes...now that you mention it, there was that one post from him saying he would 
eat Amma for lunch and Maharishi for dinner, or words to that effect.

But you know, the whole episode brings up a topic that has long fascinated me; 
and that is the very fine line that separates so-called enlightenment from 
borderline behavioral disorders such as  paranoid schizophrenia.

I'm open to the possibility that enlightenment is just a stamp of 
authenticity on certain behavioral disorders. When I spent time around MMY I 
certainly saw behaviors that would have sent most folks in for some mental 
retread time.

--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Rick Archer r...@... wrote:

 From: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com [mailto:fairfieldl...@yahoogroups.com]
 On Behalf Of Joe
 Sent: Saturday, May 22, 2010 7:03 PM
 To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com
 Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: Conversation with Mr. Chivukula
  
   
 
 Yep, you wonder just how much of the whole story is bullshit and what isn't.
 Could it be some kind of over-the-top weird devotional to Amma?
 A very poor advertisement if so.
 Hardly one she would appreciate. Many of his posts, including in the Amma
 chat, proclaim his independence from her and his new status as guru in his
 own right.





[FairfieldLife] Re: Conversation with Mr. Chivukula

2010-05-22 Thread anatol_zinc

--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Rick Archer r...@... wrote:

 From: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com
[mailto:fairfieldl...@yahoogroups.com]
On Behalf Of Joe
 Sent: Saturday, May 22, 2010 7:03 PM
 To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com
 Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: Conversation with Mr. Chivukula
 
 Yep, you wonder just how much of the whole story is bullshit and what
isn't.
 Could it be some kind of over-the-top weird devotional to Amma?
 A very poor advertisement if so.

 Rick:
 Hardly one she would appreciate. Many of his posts, including in the
Amma
 chat, proclaim his independence from her and his new status as guru in
his
 own right.
 

in an earlier post authfriend make this observation:
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend jst...@... wrote:


 Something to bear in mind is that certain kinds of
 psychosis can generate mystical experiences on their
 own. Ravi's plight may or may not have anything
 directly to do with Amma's shakti. If he's bipolar,
 as some of us suspect, this would likely have happened
 anyway.

 I could be very wrong, but I doubt he's just fragile.
 I'd be willing to bet he's been struggling with it for
 years and has refused to get treatment. Manic episodes
 are usually temporary, and the person can appear quite
 normal in between. But if they're not treated, the
 episodes tend to get progressively worse.
  
Authfriend  makes some excellent points above and most likely more or
less correct concerning  Ravi's situation.
And it would be good if someone in a position to do so could help him
get treatment.






RE: [FairfieldLife] Re: Conversation with Mr. Chivukula

2010-05-22 Thread Rick Archer
From: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com [mailto:fairfieldl...@yahoogroups.com]
On Behalf Of anatol_zinc
Sent: Saturday, May 22, 2010 7:42 PM
To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com
Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: Conversation with Mr. Chivukula
 
Authfriend makes some excellent points above and most likely more or less
correct concerning Ravi's situation.
And it would be good if someone in a position to do so could help him get
treatment.
Family and friends are probably trying to get him some, but as long as he
thinks he's superior to everyone else, it's unlikely they'll be able to.
Unless he gets so bad that he can be forced into treatment. Dr. Pete could
tell us how bad that has to be.


[FairfieldLife] Re: Conversation with Mr. Chivukula

2010-05-22 Thread authfriend
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, anatol_zinc anatol_z...@... wrote:
snip
 in an earlier post authfriend make this observation:
 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend jstein@ wrote:
 
 
  Something to bear in mind is that certain kinds of
  psychosis can generate mystical experiences on their
  own. Ravi's plight may or may not have anything
  directly to do with Amma's shakti. If he's bipolar,
  as some of us suspect, this would likely have happened
  anyway.
 
  I could be very wrong, but I doubt he's just fragile.
  I'd be willing to bet he's been struggling with it for
  years and has refused to get treatment. Manic episodes
  are usually temporary, and the person can appear quite
  normal in between. But if they're not treated, the
  episodes tend to get progressively worse.
 
 Authfriend  makes some excellent points above and most
 likely more or less correct concerning  Ravi's situation.

Bear in mind that Peter has said he thinks it's paranoid
schizophrenia, not bipolar disorder, and he's the
professional.




[FairfieldLife] Re: Conversation with Mr. Chivukula

2010-05-22 Thread authfriend
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Joe geezerfr...@... wrote:
snip 
 But you know, the whole episode brings up a topic that has
 long fascinated me; and that is the very fine line that 
 separates so-called enlightenment from borderline 
 behavioral disorders such as  paranoid schizophrenia.

Paranoid schizophrenia is a psychosis, not a borderline
behavioral disorder. Still can be a fine line, though.




[FairfieldLife] Re: Conversation with Mr. Chivukula

2010-05-22 Thread Joe

Right, my wife is a licensed behavioral therapist, not me, so my terms might 
not be quite right.

However, I really do wonder about this fine line. Could it be that 
enlightenment is nothing more than sanctioned and approved paranoid 
schizophrenia?

If so, did we pay a lot of money and spend a lot of time rounding in hopes of 
programming ourselves into a permanent state of paranoid schizophrenia?

--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend jst...@... wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Joe geezerfreak@ wrote:
 snip 
  But you know, the whole episode brings up a topic that has
  long fascinated me; and that is the very fine line that 
  separates so-called enlightenment from borderline 
  behavioral disorders such as  paranoid schizophrenia.
 
 Paranoid schizophrenia is a psychosis, not a borderline
 behavioral disorder. Still can be a fine line, though.





[FairfieldLife] Re: Conversation with Mr. Chivukula

2010-05-22 Thread authfriend
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Joe geezerfr...@... wrote:

 Right, my wife is a licensed behavioral therapist, not me,
 so my terms might not be quite right.
 
 However, I really do wonder about this fine line. Could
 it be that enlightenment is nothing more than sanctioned
 and approved paranoid schizophrenia?
 
 If so, did we pay a lot of money and spend a lot of time
 rounding in hopes of programming ourselves into a
 permanent state of paranoid schizophrenia?

Naah. Although if one were predisposed to it, I suspect
it could be triggered by long rounding. On the other
hand, it would probably develop at some point anyway.
(Check with Peter on that--he's the professional.)

But when you say sanctioned and approved, that gets to
an important issue--to what degree is what we call mental
illness simply a different way of experiencing and
responding to the world? To what degree is the dysfunction
of individuals diagnosed with mental illness simply a
matter of this difference in experience and response?

Are people who experience the world differently but who
function very well the ones we think of as enlightened?
Should people who are perfectly happy wth the way they
experience the world, even if it's starkly different from
the way most people do, even if it appears dysfunctional,
be considered mentally ill? Or are they mentally ill only
if they're in distress?

It gets all tangled up with philosophy and semantics
and a person's subjective experience versus how the
person appears to others.


 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend jstein@ wrote:
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Joe geezerfreak@ wrote:
  snip 
   But you know, the whole episode brings up a topic that has
   long fascinated me; and that is the very fine line that 
   separates so-called enlightenment from borderline 
   behavioral disorders such as  paranoid schizophrenia.
  
  Paranoid schizophrenia is a psychosis, not a borderline
  behavioral disorder. Still can be a fine line, though.




[FairfieldLife] Re: Conversation with Mr. Chivukula

2010-05-22 Thread TurquoiseB
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, wayback71 waybac...@... wrote:

 But if Ravi is plain old seriously manic, and then gets good 
 treatment and maintains it, then all this guru stuff will seem 
 wild to him, too.  In fact, if he gets well, he will understand 
 why he felt that way but also recognize that it was totally 
 unreal and part of the illness.  He will hope that people can 
 forget or forgive his wildness and wish that he had not broadcast 
 his instability so far and wide.  He won't be insisting on being 
 a guru anymore and he won't feel like one, either, dull as that 
 may be.  Let's hope he gets good treatment .

Which is precisely why treatment will be so difficult,
even if he willingly undergoes it. I for one do not 
believe a word of him checking himself into a mental
health care facility.

There is a case to be made here for an Indian guy, tired
of the responsibilities of wife and children, trying to
find an acceptable way of dumping them. In his culture,
one of those ways is to declare yourself enlightened. If
you do, you now get judged by an entirely different set
of standards than anyone else. You get to not only dump
your wife and kids without being considered an irrespon-
sible asshole for doing so, you get *praised* for doing
so, because you're now following your inner voice and
dedicating yourself to gurudom and spreading the light.

I'm not sure what exactly *is* going on here in the Ravi
Incident. All I'm sure of is that the *myth* of enlight-
enment and what it means plays a big part in it.

Rick -- and he's still never told us how he came to hear
about Ravi and choose him for one of his interviews --
gave him a platform from which to announce his awakening.
Rick's -- and others' -- first impulse was to *defend*
his supposed normal enlightened status rather than be
concerned, which they almost certainly would have been
given anyone else spouting such craziness. The *secondary*
impulse we've been seeing here, in my opinion, is a bout
of protect the guru, with any responsibility being
not only shifted away from Amma and her organization,
but taking it as an opportunity to write bhaktied-out
love poems for her. And now Ravi's interview has quietly
been disappeared from the list, so as not to somehow
cast questions upon the other interviews, and on the
whole concept of ordinary enlightenment.

I'm pointing these things out because no one else is.
I think this whole Ravi thing is very, very sad. But
I think that what it's bringing out in some of the 
believers in enlightenment as the highest goal at
the end of the highest path is in ways sadder.

Where is the point at which people sit back and say,
Now wait a minute...if *this* guy could convince so
many of his supposed 'enlightenment,' how many *others*
in the long history of spirituality have done exactly
the same thing? Could they *all* have been nothing
but charismatic manic depressives?

A critical view of such things is not IMO out of line.
It provides a *balance* between unthinking belief and 
unthinking dismissal. I still believe that such a thing 
as enlightenment exists. But I don't believe that it 
either 1) confers any innate instant respectability
as a guru on those claiming it, or 2) is important
enough to pay very much attention to. Those who feel
that #2 is wrong and that it *should* be paid attention
to as the remarkable achievement it is seen to be the
ones getting their buttons pushed in all of this. 

Just as if Ravi got help and was able to see that much
of his raving was *just* raving and not something holy,
anyone watching that happen from the sidelines would
see the same thing. And a lot of people have IMO so
much *invested* in the traditional descriptions of
enlightenment and what it means that they don't 
want that to happen.

Just my opinion...




[FairfieldLife] Re: Conversation with Mr. Chivukula

2010-05-22 Thread TurquoiseB
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Rick Archer r...@... wrote:

  On Behalf Of Joe
  
  Yep, you wonder just how much of the whole story is bullshit 
  and what isn't. Could it be some kind of over-the-top weird 
  devotional to Amma? A very poor advertisement if so.
 
 Hardly one she would appreciate. 

Why? 

Really. I don't think you quite understand the 
import of what you are saying, Rick.

Are you really suggesting that it's *right* for
a guru to *keep* their students devoted to them?

  Many of his posts, including 
  in the Amma chat, proclaim his independence from her and his 
  new status as guru in his own right.

As did Maharishi, rejecting and divorcing himself
from essentially the entire tradition he had been
part of, which would never have allowed him to be
a teacher. Seems to me that there is a bit of a 
double standard going on here...




[FairfieldLife] Re: Conversation with Mr. Chivukula

2010-05-22 Thread TurquoiseB
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Joe geezerfr...@... wrote:

 Yes...now that you mention it, there was that one post from 
 him saying he would eat Amma for lunch and Maharishi for dinner, 
 or words to that effect.
 
 But you know, the whole episode brings up a topic that has 
 long fascinated me; and that is the very fine line that 
 separates so-called enlightenment from borderline behavioral 
 disorders such as  paranoid schizophrenia.
 
 I'm open to the possibility that enlightenment is just a 
 stamp of authenticity on certain behavioral disorders. When 
 I spent time around MMY I certainly saw behaviors that would 
 have sent most folks in for some mental retread time.

Bingo.

That is *exactly* the point I've been trying to make.

The much larger issue here is the seeming inability
of many people to perceive the claim of enlightenment
as in the same ballpark as any other claim made by 
any other crazy person. 

*It's all going on in their heads*. ALL of it. But 
for some people, because they have invested so much
of their belief and so much money and so many years
of their lives *into* believing that enlightenment is
the highest goal, they have to divorce their reaction
to Ravi as a fairly obvious crazy person from having
any wider implications, and resist taking a critical 
look at the claims of *other* persons who have made 
similarly solisistic statements and similar claims 
in the past.

How many of *them* (people revered in the past or the
present as enlightened gurus) walked away from the 
responsibilities of wife and family and got *praised* 
for it, not badrapped? How many of *them* became as 
dismissive of those who didn't revere them as Ravi has, 
and treated them the way he does? How many of *them* 
had a similar inability to appreciate anyone else's 
point of view than their own, and consider it valid?

My point is that people seem to be stopping at the 
surface of this whole tempest in a pisspot, and not
looking beneath the surface at its implications. I'm 
merely looking at them, and bringing them up for 
consideration. Not that I think any of these things
will actually be considered. In my experience, the
allegiance to a long-held set of beliefs is almost
always stronger than the allegiance to reality.


 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Rick Archer rick@ wrote:
 
  From: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com [mailto:fairfieldl...@yahoogroups.com]
  On Behalf Of Joe
  Sent: Saturday, May 22, 2010 7:03 PM
  To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com
  Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: Conversation with Mr. Chivukula
   

  
  Yep, you wonder just how much of the whole story is bullshit and what isn't.
  Could it be some kind of over-the-top weird devotional to Amma?
  A very poor advertisement if so.
  Hardly one she would appreciate. Many of his posts, including in the Amma
  chat, proclaim his independence from her and his new status as guru in his
  own right.
 





[FairfieldLife] Re: Conversation with Mr. Chivukula - Minor, Important Adjustment

2010-05-21 Thread lurkernomore20002000

--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, lurkernomore20002000
steve.sun...@... wrote:

 I had a conversation with Ravi this evening. I wish him the best in
his endeavours. His awakening is such that it seems he is embarking on a
new career, that of Raviguru. This is nothing other than what he has
been saying of course, but I wanted to hear it straight from him. I
remained skeptical that he was really leaving behind family and work
life. But this seems to be the case.

 Pretty much, the answer to any question distlled down to, this is the
divine working through Ravi. So, what else is there to say.

 Ex: Ravi, it sounds like you are going to live the life of wandering
mendicant

 Answer: Yes, the divine will work through Ravi, and let him know what
plan the divine has Or something to this effect.

 Bottom Line: I believe Ravi believes that his awakening will bestow
upon him the credibiliy to assume the role of a guru to many seekers.
And I think he feels that because he has great saturation with American
culture, with all it's nuances that he is uniquely fashioned for this
role.

 This is my report.