g_b Re: : [Gays for LTR] Mr. Right?

2006-02-23 Thread utkarsh
Mr. Right has a different meaning for all of us. So I guess 'subjective' is the right word to describe the concept. In reality, the person you chose to give your heart to might be miles away from the picture you sketched of your Mr. Right. All of us know what we want but very few know what we need

g_b Re: can't we make this sacrifice, to make our parents happy?

2006-03-13 Thread utkarsh
Just want to add something to this discussion - Do not make assumptions on behalf of your parents. The key to any healthy relationship is communication and this holds true for every kind of relationship. Our parents assume that we will be happy married to a nice girl and they act on this assumptio

g_b In reiteration of Aditya's "Gist of the long brawl on married gits"

2006-03-16 Thread utkarsh
First of all, Aditya that was a hell of a good read!... and very much true. I love your writing style! Now to the point... I have come across many messages from the group by people that have a lesser understanding of the english language - this is for them; i.e. a simplification of what Aditya wro

g_b Re: can't we make this sacrifice, to make our parents happy?

2006-03-17 Thread utkarsh
But I know that I am happy. can you say that about yourself? I guess not. Think about it. Regards, --- In gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com, Sumeet Mehra <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > > Hi Utkarsh! > > Well said. But hey buddy, can you tell me definition of strength and courage.

g_b Re: Give a suitable subject.

2006-03-21 Thread utkarsh
Dear Sumeet, Couldn't help but quote you here "We all have right to live our life, the way we want." I hope your wife is enjoying this right. Regards, --- In gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com, "Neil" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > > Hi Sumeet, > > I think you need to really go deeper in search of the

g_b Re: ""there is no steady relation between gays"

2006-03-22 Thread utkarsh
Dear Sumeet, I have never responded to anybody's mail with the frequency I am responding to yours. Reading your mails give me a perverted sort of glee. This thread started when someone suggested to a hapless youth to go on and get married (I don't remember exactly who, but my best guess would be

g_b My very first Gay Party - A story

2006-04-08 Thread utkarsh
Hi there, Here's another small story I wrote some time back. Feedback is most welcome. "I had never been to a private gay gathering ever. My friend Rajit invited me to his birthday bash at his boyfriend's 24th floor apartment in Mahalaxmi. "There will be quite a few interesting guys", he'd promis

g_b The story of Ohsobeautiful & others

2006-04-08 Thread utkarsh
Hi there, following is an old story told in a new way...let me know what you think of it... "Once upon a time there lived a guy called Methehelpless. He had a wife who was feared by all. Her name was Youhavehadit. She was a woman of a cruel disposition. She bore two daughters and a son to Methehe

Re: g_b Coming out to my parents

2006-04-17 Thread utkarsh
Dear All, I want to share my coming out experience with everyone. I came out to my close friends in the final year of my PG, that is 3 years ago. They and their spouses have accepted me and my partner whole heartedly and we often spend our weekends together. I came out to my brother last year a

g_b Re: What am i ?

2005-01-27 Thread utkarsh
sustains the relationship. Don't you think so? Utkarsh. --- In gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com, Zeus Titan <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > > "LongTerm Relationship" > > "Searching for Friend" > > "Soulmate required" > > "Love"……

g_b Prakash & Sid

2005-08-07 Thread utkarsh
Rahul, Aditya and Abhay and others who have responded to Prakash's mail - I know this guy Prakash and i have talked to the other fella as well. Prakash is a very nice, well read, decent and defenitely one of the best looking guys i have come across. I don't know anything about this sid fellow exce

g_b This is what dreams are made of...

2005-10-05 Thread utkarsh
Hi guys, Following is a story written by me. Do let me know what you think about it. Regards, Utkarsh. I have never been a winner. Always on the outskirts, never there, never on spot. Throughout my school years, I used to be in the top few; college was not much different. So, when my room

g_b I almost fell off my chair after reading "how to leave gayhood"

2005-10-05 Thread utkarsh
I don't know how it feels to wake up one fine morning and realize that one is gay. I can't even imagine how people can go on living their life and all of the sudden realize that they are gay. I was attracted to guys even when I was a kid. The earliest crush was when I was in 2nd standard. So, I can

g_b It can come down in a day - a work of fiction

2005-10-16 Thread utkarsh
I was woken up by the familiar ring tone. I got up and started looking for the phone. I followed the ringing and found my phone under the book I was reading earlier that night. I looked up at the clock, it was almost three in the night. I had been waiting for Kalp; my calls to him went unanswered

g_b Re: Why doesn't it snow in Bangalore ?

2005-11-08 Thread utkarsh
Hey Rij, do yo blog? What's ur url? lemme know, Ut. --- In gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com, ridgeet roy <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: I just love chocolate fantasy! Now before anybody starts imagining the application of the cake elsewhere, or associating its colour with a similar object (quite preval

g_b Re: Once upon a time ...

2005-11-09 Thread utkarsh
Everything in it's own good time... --- In gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com, ridgeet roy <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > > Once upon a time, in a land with lots of guys, lived a young boy. The boy was fast growing into a man. But in his heart he still held the child within... and hoped that one day he