[Hornlist] disrespect in the section

2005-10-11 Thread Mara Cushion
Hehe, I was waiting for someone to ask me why I haven't mentioned the applied professor... We have adjunct faculty and it so happens that there are only two of us studying horn and both with different teachers. I think in this instance, it is necessary to talk to the conductor and after readin

[Hornlist] Disrespect in the section

2005-10-11 Thread Eldon Matlick
Correct and professional deportment in an ensemble is paramount in any serious music student's training. Even in the professional world, even though a person may be a good player, if the winner turns out to be a consumate jerk, more than likely that person will be fired. This is why most orchestr

RE: [Hornlist] disrespect in the section

2005-10-07 Thread Walter E. Lewis
[EMAIL PROTECTED] Behalf Of [EMAIL PROTECTED] Sent: Friday, October 07, 2005 1:11 AM To: horn@music.memphis.edu Subject: Re: [Hornlist] disrespect in the section In a message dated 10/6/2005 9:30:13 P.M. Central Daylight Time, [EMAIL PROTECTED] writes: We had a superb method, used once in every si

[Hornlist] disrespect in the section

2005-10-07 Thread Ralph Mazza
I'm going to suggest yet another interpretation: The troublemaker is male, Mara is a female who has superior experience and playing ability. So maybe his problem is the bruised ego of a guy who feels dimished when he can't compete successfully with a female. It happens. The suggestion that

RE: [Hornlist] disrespect in the section

2005-10-07 Thread David Goldberg
On Fri, 7 Oct 2005, Trey Johnson wrote: ...I certainly wouldn't want any negative stigma associated with playing 4th horn. ... I sometimes worry about "tone of voice" in email, and hope that David or anyone else on the list doesn't think I'm being unfair to them -- just voicing my opinion.

RE: [Hornlist] disrespect in the section

2005-10-07 Thread Hans
n playing 2nd. == -Original Message- From: [EMAIL PROTECTED] [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] On Behalf Of Trey Johnson Sent: Friday, October 07, 2005 5:20 PM To: horn@music.memphis.edu Subject: RE: [Hornlist] disrespect in the sec

RE: [Hornlist] disrespect in the section

2005-10-07 Thread Trey Johnson
27;t think I'm being unfair to them -- just voicing my opinion. Trey From: David Goldberg <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> Reply-To: The Horn List To: The Horn List Subject: RE: [Hornlist] disrespect in the section Date: Fri, 7 Oct 2005 11:05:44 -0400 (EDT) Influence the conductor to reassign

RE: [Hornlist] disrespect in the section

2005-10-07 Thread David Goldberg
Influence the conductor to reassign #2 to switch with 4th horn. { David Goldberg: [EMAIL PROTECTED] } { Math Dept, Washtenaw Community College } { Ann Arbor Michigan } ___ post: horn@music.memphis.edu unsubscribe or

RE: [Hornlist] disrespect in the section

2005-10-07 Thread Hans
CTED] On Behalf Of Pandolfi, Orlando Sent: Friday, October 07, 2005 1:36 PM To: The Horn List Subject: RE: [Hornlist] disrespect in the section Believe it or not, If college students actually did what you suggest, they would, at least in my state, be sent to prison, as "hazing" as we call

RE: [Hornlist] disrespect in the section

2005-10-07 Thread Pandolfi, Orlando
D] [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] Behalf Of Hans Sent: Thursday, October 06, 2005 10:31 PM To: 'The Horn List' Subject: RE: [Hornlist] disrespect in the section In your country, Orlando, they may carry a gun or so, which is not possible here except for some immigrants or refugees from Balkan, bu

RE: [Hornlist] disrespect in the section

2005-10-07 Thread Pandolfi, Orlando
D] Sent: Friday, October 07, 2005 1:11 AM To: horn@music.memphis.edu Subject: Re: [Hornlist] disrespect in the section In a message dated 10/6/2005 9:30:13 P.M. Central Daylight Time, [EMAIL PROTECTED] writes: We had a superb method, used once in every single case. Catch the boy, pants dow

RE: [Hornlist] disrespect in the section

2005-10-06 Thread Hans
notes come out distuned. == -Original Message- From: [EMAIL PROTECTED] [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] On Behalf Of [EMAIL PROTECTED] Sent: Friday, October 07, 2005 6:11 AM To: horn@music.memphis.edu Subject: Re: [Hornlist] disrespect in the secti

Re: [Hornlist] disrespect in the section

2005-10-06 Thread Weshatch
In a message dated 10/6/2005 9:30:13 P.M. Central Daylight Time, [EMAIL PROTECTED] writes: We had a superb method, used once in every single case. Catch the boy, pants down & polish his ass with black shoe polish, really polishing by a brush. But do not forget, putting a (potatoe) sack over

RE: [Hornlist] disrespect in the section

2005-10-06 Thread Bill Gross
x27;m your problem." -Original Message- From: [EMAIL PROTECTED] [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] On Behalf Of Pandolfi, Orlando Sent: Thursday, October 06, 2005 8:00 PM To: The Horn List Subject: RE: [Hornlist] disrespect in the section Good idea. And then when he comes to the next rehearsal wi

RE: [Hornlist] disrespect in the section

2005-10-06 Thread Hans
TED] On Behalf Of Pandolfi, Orlando Sent: Friday, October 07, 2005 2:00 AM To: The Horn List Subject: RE: [Hornlist] disrespect in the section Good idea. And then when he comes to the next rehearsal with his father's sawed off shot gun, be sure to duck. Is Marcus Bona making Kevlar horn cases

RE: [Hornlist] disrespect in the section

2005-10-06 Thread Carlberg Jones
At 9:30 PM +0200 10/6/05, Hans wrote: >Play a wild clam here & there & look at him, but very convincing that HE >was the one with the clam. Actually, I think woopie cushions might be a lot more effective, and cause much more pleasure. Be sure to get the model for real pros, not the imitations, o

RE: [Hornlist] disrespect in the section

2005-10-06 Thread Pandolfi, Orlando
beat. -Original Message- From: [EMAIL PROTECTED] [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] Behalf Of Hans Sent: Thursday, October 06, 2005 3:30 PM To: 'The Horn List' Subject: RE: [Hornlist] disrespect in the section Hello Mara, with this kind of disrespectful individuals there is just ONE cur

RE: [Hornlist] disrespect in the section

2005-10-06 Thread Hans
On Behalf Of Mara Cushion Sent: Thursday, October 06, 2005 5:01 PM To: horn@music.memphis.edu Subject: [Hornlist] disrespect in the section Hey all, I was wondering if anyone might give me suggestions as to how to deal with a disrespectful section member. I am section leader for both the top ban

RE: [Hornlist] disrespect in the section

2005-10-06 Thread Baucom.Fred
-Original Message- From: [EMAIL PROTECTED] [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] On Behalf Of Mara Cushion Sent: Thursday, October 06, 2005 9:01 AM To: horn@music.memphis.edu Subject: [Hornlist] disrespect in the section Hey all, I was wondering if anyone might give me suggestions as to how to deal wi

RE: [Hornlist] disrespect in the section

2005-10-06 Thread Jonathan West
Hi Mara, What you do depends what kind of orchestra you are in. I'm guessing that it is a youth or school orchestra. If that is the case, then your options are limited. You can quietly take him to one side and point out that it is the job of the rest of the section to blend together as well as po

RE: [Hornlist] disrespect in the section

2005-10-06 Thread Bill Gross
e I'll admit, but it may have an idea or two that will help. If the behavior doesn't change -Original Message- From: [EMAIL PROTECTED] [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] On Behalf Of Mara Cushion Sent: Thursday, October 06, 2005 11:01 AM To: horn@music.memphis.edu Subject: [Hornlist] disresp

Re: [Hornlist] disrespect in the section

2005-10-06 Thread Carlberg Jones
At 9:01 AM -0700 10/6/05, Mara Cushion wrote: >Can anyone offer me any suggestions of things I might say to him or at >least gain some control? There's two parts to being a successful player. One is the playing part and the other is the social part. If this player is failing in the social area, e

Re: [Hornlist] disrespect in the section

2005-10-06 Thread Jasoncat
Where is the conductor in all this? ___ post: horn@music.memphis.edu unsubscribe or set options at http://music2.memphis.edu/mailman/options/horn/archive%40jab.org

[Hornlist] disrespect in the section

2005-10-06 Thread Mara Cushion
Hey all, I was wondering if anyone might give me suggestions as to how to deal with a disrespectful section member. I am section leader for both the top band and orchestra at my school and there's one kid in particular who keeps giving me attitude. I have much more experience than he does in