I believe that there is a big difference between a
guy or a girl for that matter stalking and just being aggressive in their
wishes.
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Sent: Sunday, September 28, 2003 11:36
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Subject: Re: [Sndbox] Pick one
(immorality glamorized)
Yes... she should let the other woman know she is not happy
about it. That would accomplish letting the other woman know that she
better find someone else to hit on and let the man know that his woman
wants to keep him around.... even if he is a "complete and utter idiot and
moron."
Your example about the other night is not representative IMO.
When you are out with other women it is understandable that men would hit
on you. (After all you are hot... <G> ) Tom knows this.... If,
however, one of the men wouldn't take no for an answer and called you at
home or stalked you.... or a man from work repeatedly calls you at home
etc... Then I would *hope* that Tom would at least be concerned. I don't
believe that being concerned would mean that Tom doesn't trust you... If I
were you, in this instance, and Tom showed *no* concern.... I would be
like... "man... doesn't he even care?" Now you might not think that, but I
think that if you reverse the genders a lot of men would.... and rightly
so... IMO.
Whether
or not a woman gives a heck *is* a factor in a relationship.
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so
what should a woman do if she thinks another woman is after her
husband? not trust him and go yell at the other woman? what would this
accomplish? Dont you think its better to have trust in the husband
that hes not a complete and utter idiot and moron? to trust in his love and
vow?
i went out with some gals from work friday night. I had
probally 3 diffrent guys hit on me. I told them i was married. I came
home and told tom about it. he didnt care. the only way he wouldve cared is
if i had flirted back with these men. what good would it do him to get mad
at them? doesnt change the fact i still said no. and it wouldnt change the
fact if i said yes either because ultimately its up to me to choose to be
faithful or
not.
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