true, well put Tim.
aj
----- Original Message -----
Sent: Sunday, September 28, 2003 6:02
PM
Subject: Re: [Sndbox] Pick one
(immorality glamorized)
I believe that there is a big difference between
a guy or a girl for that matter stalking and just being aggressive in their
wishes.
----- Original Message -----
Sent: Sunday, September 28, 2003 11:36
AM
Subject: Re: [Sndbox] Pick one
(immorality glamorized)
Yes... she should let the other woman know she is not
happy about it. That would accomplish letting the other woman know that
she better find someone else to hit on and let the man know that his
woman wants to keep him around.... even if he is a "complete and utter
idiot and moron."
Your example about the other night is not
representative IMO. When you are out with other women it is
understandable that men would hit on you. (After all you are hot...
<G> ) Tom knows this.... If, however, one of the men wouldn't take
no for an answer and called you at home or stalked you.... or a man from
work repeatedly calls you at home etc... Then I would *hope* that Tom
would at least be concerned. I don't believe that being concerned would
mean that Tom doesn't trust you... If I were you, in this instance, and
Tom showed *no* concern.... I would be like... "man... doesn't he even
care?" Now you might not think that, but I think that if you reverse the
genders a lot of men would.... and rightly so... IMO.
Whether
or not a woman gives a heck *is* a factor in a relationship.
IMO /smaller>/color>/fontfamily>
so
what should a woman do if she thinks another woman is after her
husband? not trust him and go yell at the other woman? what would
this accomplish? Dont you think its better to have trust in the
husband that hes not a complete and utter idiot and moron? to trust in his
love and vow?
i went out with some gals from work friday
night. I had probally 3 diffrent guys hit on me. I told them i was
married. I came home and told tom about it. he didnt care. the only
way he wouldve cared is if i had flirted back with these men. what good
would it do him to get mad at them? doesnt change the fact i still said
no. and it wouldnt change the fact if i said yes either because ultimately
its up to me to choose to be faithful or
not.
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