> There's a simple solution to abusive comments: IGNORE THEM! Right , that's what Vesa suggested . > The destructive atmosphere builds up because we tend to react (quite > naturally).
Yes , and some are very , very sensitive too , it seems . > Let's remind ourselves that this list is an exchange of ideas, > resources and assistance. Should someone step beyond this, it's better > (and more effective) to ignore. Allow the atmosphere to dissipate > rather than polarize. So right , with Vesa's suggestion to "Cool it" comes another barrage of attacks . Very odd . > With apologies to Garry, he's been a long-time contributer to this > list, but also has those destructive episodes. So: there is some good, > with bad. As long as we maintain a balance, any excesses can be > absorbed... No apologies required . I have very little in my life to be sensitive about (except for that one time in Samoa ... but that's another story) . > I'm sure Vesa has already contacted Garry about this situation. > Amir Actually no, Vesa took the time to contact all of us at once by posting his sentiments to this list . That was enough for me , but for some it seems it was an invite to flame away , at will . Kind of bizzare , if you ask me . Garry
