When I wrote this, I was thinking more of a modern day mindset. But as Mags pointed out, things were so different then, we can hardly imagine it. I remember seeing a television program about unmarried women in Ireland whose children were removed from them and given up for adoption. They were speaking out about it for the first time, having kept the baby a secret all these years, even from the men they subsequently married. It made me very sad and angry to think of all the women over the years who have been denied choice - either because they were literally forced to part with children or, as Mags said, the ducks were all lined up. . .

Sarah



At 8:17 PM -0700 02/02/2003, [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:
That's what I meant when I said it ends up being something in your mind. Something caused her to believe she couldn't do it, and maybe she was right about herself, or she made it right, who knows?

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