Re: It's about time some parents started acting like parents

2008-01-09 Thread Crow T. Robot
I agree with her actions too. We never may know the whole story, but what if this kid was a little shit that never listened to his Mom, and this was her way of trying to *get* him to listen? Living in the world we do today, with the kids being the way they are today, I will *never* scold a parent

Re: It's about time some parents started acting like parents

2008-01-09 Thread Erika L. Walker
Doubt you will either. That's not sensational enough news. "Teen learns valuable life lesson" ... nope, no blood or decapitation there. And since many want to play devil's advocate, allow me: What makes you think the woman wanted "15 minutes of fame anyway"? Did she report it as a news item, or

Re: It's about time some parents started acting like parents

2008-01-09 Thread Ian Skinner
Jerry Johnson wrote: > It was the public embarrassment that made such an impact, followed by > a good talking to. If you say so. I did not read anything about what the young man learned and when. ~| Adobe® ColdFusion® 8 software

Re: It's about time some parents started acting like parents

2008-01-09 Thread Jerry Johnson
It was the public embarrassment that made such an impact, followed by a good talking to. Bring back the public stocks! On Jan 9, 2008 4:14 PM, Ian Skinner <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > Jerry Johnson wrote: > > I still get chills. > I think the only disagreement voiced here is, would your life less

Re: It's about time some parents started acting like parents

2008-01-09 Thread Ian Skinner
Jerry Johnson wrote: > I still get chills. I think the only disagreement voiced here is, would your life lesson have been enhanced if your father had also published in the local newspaper your transgression and his actions? I have yet to read anybody disagree with the mother taking back and sel

RE: It's about time some parents started acting like parents

2008-01-09 Thread Adam Churvis
a citizen with the > rights of > one, or you aren't. > > -Original Message- > From: Todd [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] > Sent: Wednesday, January 09, 2008 3:38 PM > To: CF-Community > Subject: Re: It's about time some parents started acting like parents >

Re: It's about time some parents started acting like parents

2008-01-09 Thread J W
On Jan 9, 2008 3:37 PM, Todd <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > > To put is very simply, yes, in this case. It is shown that 'adults' aged > 18 - 21 are much more likely to go off on a bender and potentially mow > down > someone with their vehicle in their drunken state than someone over 21. I > don't

RE: It's about time some parents started acting like parents

2008-01-09 Thread Loathe
y, January 09, 2008 3:38 PM To: CF-Community Subject: Re: It's about time some parents started acting like parents > Back on topic: Is it me or are the kids (man I really don't want to age > myself here) now a days as bad as it seems. 19 is an ADULT. If you can > smoke, vote an

Re: It's about time some parents started acting like parents

2008-01-09 Thread Jerry Johnson
When I was 10, my father saw me with a pack if Bubble Yum. Knowing I had not been paid my allowance yet, he asked how I got it. I eventually admitted it was from a "local" restaurant, and had not been paid for. (about 3 miles from home) He told me to go back the store, tell the owner what had hap

Re: It's about time some parents started acting like parents

2008-01-09 Thread Todd
> Back on topic: Is it me or are the kids (man I really don't want to age > myself here) now a days as bad as it seems. 19 is an ADULT. If you can > smoke, vote and fight for this country, you should be able to drink. > Conversely, you should also be completely responsible and accountable for > you

Re: It's about time some parents started acting like parents

2008-01-09 Thread Erika L. Walker
a) that is a different argument all together and not fit here. Stop threadjackinig :P :) b) Dont care whether it was open or not, driver is underage and shouldnt be in possession. Again though, IANAL and definitely wouldnt have a clue what the law states about UNDERAGE people having alcohol closed

Re: It's about time some parents started acting like parents

2008-01-09 Thread J W
Some things I see. The son: You make the deal, you get to "deal" with the consquences of breaking that deal. Although I doubt public humiliation was in the deal. Oh well. You get what you get. Maybe if this kid was more "productive" at 19 he could have saved up for his own car and insurance. Hell,

Re: It's about time some parents started acting like parents

2008-01-09 Thread Erika L. Walker
His 'parent' bought him the car paid for by her hard earned money. I assume he still lives under her roof. I'm even willing to bet she paid the insurance policy, and that the car is titled in her name. Therefore, sorry - but parent's 'laws' are in effect here. If you want to argue REAL law, then s

RE: It's about time some parents started acting like parents

2008-01-09 Thread Jim Davis
> -Original Message- > From: Erika L. Walker [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] > Sent: Wednesday, January 09, 2008 10:59 AM > To: CF-Community > Subject: Re: It's about time some parents started acting like parents > > Oh bah! He's an adult. 19. Face the consequ

Re: It's about time some parents started acting like parents

2008-01-09 Thread G Money
On Jan 9, 2008 9:59 AM, Erika L. Walker <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > Oh bah! He's an adult. 19. Face the consequences. For heaven's sake, he's > old enough to shoot for his country, he's old enough to vote and he's old > enough to know right from wrong. He's being punished like a child. An adul

Re: It's about time some parents started acting like parents

2008-01-09 Thread G Money
I doubt he would have anyway. I had a teacher use an embarrassing public punishment for me back when I was in 8th grade. Granted I was much younger than 19 and more unsure of myself at that age, but it was absolutely devastating to me...and that feeling lasted for a LONG time afterwards. Even at 1

Re: It's about time some parents started acting like parents

2008-01-09 Thread Erika L. Walker
Oh bah! He's an adult. 19. Face the consequences. For heaven's sake, he's old enough to shoot for his country, he's old enough to vote and he's old enough to know right from wrong. Had he been pulled over for ANYTHING during the time the alcohol was in the car, it would of been public in every wa

Re: It's about time some parents started acting like parents

2008-01-09 Thread Crow T. Robot
16 > (919) 874-6229 (home) > (703) 220-2835 (cell) > > -Original Message- > From: G Money [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] > Sent: Wednesday, January 09, 2008 10:04 AM > To: CF-Community > Subject: Re: It's about time some parents started acting like parents > > I&

RE: It's about time some parents started acting like parents

2008-01-09 Thread Scott Stewart
nuary 09, 2008 10:04 AM To: CF-Community Subject: Re: It's about time some parents started acting like parents I'm torn man. Seriously. I don't have any problem with her being strict. If she made it clear that there was to be NO alcohol in the car, and that breaking this rule w

Re: It's about time some parents started acting like parents

2008-01-09 Thread Crow T. Robot
I doubt he'll do it again tho. On Jan 9, 2008 9:03 AM, G Money <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > I'm torn man. Seriously. > > I don't have any problem with her being strict. If she made it clear that > there was to be NO alcohol in the car, and that breaking this rule would > result in stiff consequen

Re: It's about time some parents started acting like parents

2008-01-09 Thread G Money
I'm torn man. Seriously. I don't have any problem with her being strict. If she made it clear that there was to be NO alcohol in the car, and that breaking this rule would result in stiff consequences, then I applaud her for following through. What bugs me is making this a public thing. I'm not r