Re: [Sndbox] Pick one (immorality glamorized)

[AJ]

Yhe other woman might have some blame for doing what she knows better but I still say it is the man decision to decide whether or not to cheat.  He has the option of saying no.   I can just see me saying to Jen, you made me upset so I went out and screwed around because you were not fulfilling your obligation to me.   AJ ----- Original Message ----- From: Charles To: 'The Sandbox Discussion List' Sent: Friday, September 26, 2003 10:25 AM Subject: RE: [Sndbox] Pick one (immorality glamorized) About as much as saying the woman who intentionally set her sights on a man she knew was married bears no responsibility.  That’s what Tim (and Lowell both) were arguing.  That it’s not acceptable to say that it’s going to be the man’s fault no matter what.  It’s not a case of absolving him of responsibility or blame, but simply acknowledging that there are numerous factors in a decision to commit adultery, and the blame can never be placed totally on one person just because he happens to be male.   Charles Mims http://www.the-sandbox.org   From: [EMAIL PROTECTED] [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] On Behalf Of [EMAIL PROTECTED] Sent: Friday, September 26, 2003 1:17 PM To: [EMAIL PROTECTED] Subject: Re: [Sndbox] Pick one (immorality glamorized)   In a message dated 9/26/2003 1:15:21 PM Eastern Daylight Time, [EMAIL PROTECTED] writes: So the wife's vow to "honor and cherish" should have *no* bering on the discussion?   heres a thought tim   say you and maridyth are married and she gives you slack for a few days yelling and such not wanting to consumate   that makes it ok for you to go out and cheat on her cuz shes at fault?   you see how little sense that makes? ________________________________ Changes to your subscription (unsubs, nomail, digest) can be made by going to http://sandboxmail.net/mailman/listinfo/sndbox_sandboxmail.net

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