--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "seventhray1" <steve.sundur@...> wrote: > > What I find unfortunate is that the rancor drives people away. > I suppose Barry might say, "if you can't stand the heat......"
Actually, what Barry might say is, "If someone has told you in no uncertain terms that they don't find either you or the things you say interesting, accept that and walk away." It seems to me that most of the noise on this forum is being made by people who can't do that. They react to being dismissed as uninteresting by acting even more needy and panicky -- and thus uninteresting -- than ever. It's a vicious samskaric circle. Get over it. If you're that needy, find someone who does think you're interesting enough to talk to and talk with them. Not gonna happen with me. This comment is directed towards Robin, Jim, Ravi, and Judy, and to no one else on this forum. Please catch a clue from it and stop acting like such attention vampires, Ok?
