*I do not have time for this now.* *Negativity is hurtful, and the fear of negativity and repercussions such as gay bashing and extreme prejudice can be one cause of suicide. It makes one's sense of self worth diminish, and some go into such a state of despondence and despair that they take their own lives.* ** *Making a joke of this, as Dick and Gnat did, is unforgivable and offensive.
* On 10/1/10, Mark <[email protected]> wrote: > > Again with the "snarky" !! Why is my English better than yours ?? > > > Further you avoided answering my questions.... Or have you no answers ? > > > > > On Fri, Oct 1, 2010 at 2:36 PM, Tommy News <[email protected]> wrote: > >> *It was a reaction, which Dick deserved to his hateful offensive and >> snarky comment.* >> >> On 10/1/10, Mark <[email protected]> wrote: >> >>> And now you have made it twice. >>> >>> >>> Is "Snarky Dick" a Gay term ?? Or do you simply mean a short tempered >>> prick and are unable to free yourself from the vernacular ? >>> >>> >>> On Fri, Oct 1, 2010 at 2:27 PM, Tommy News <[email protected]> wrote: >>> >>>> *Dick is a snarky dick.* >>>> >>>> >>>> >>>> >>>> On 10/1/10, dick thompson <[email protected]> wrote: >>>>> >>>>> Tommy, Tommy, Tommy, I think you just made Mark's point for him. >>>>> >>>>> >>>>> On 10/01/2010 04:08 PM, Tommy News wrote: >>>>> >>>>> *Ignorant homophobes like you cause these suicides.* >>>>> >>>>> On 10/1/10, Mark <[email protected]> wrote: >>>>>> >>>>>> No Tommy, it is not. The urge to destroy oneself is as ancient as life >>>>>> itself. There are so very many reasons people do this to themselves, both >>>>>> real and unreal reasons. There is however ONE reason ALL suicides do >>>>>> this.... they are too weak to cope and that, Sir, is a personal problem. >>>>>> It >>>>>> is NOT societal, and NOT something that can be legislated that causes me >>>>>> to >>>>>> lose the freedom to ask if someone is Gay or Lesbian (for whatever >>>>>> reason) >>>>>> or to call someone a flaming Queen if they are acting like one. >>>>>> >>>>>> >>>>>> On Fri, Oct 1, 2010 at 1:05 PM, Tommy News <[email protected]>wrote: >>>>>> >>>>>>> *Markie, Markie, Markie.* >>>>>>> ** >>>>>>> *Your ugly negativity and snarky spin is most perverse.* >>>>>>> *One suicide is one too many.* >>>>>>> >>>>>>> *No man is an island* >>>>>>> >>>>>>> No man is an island entire of itself; every man >>>>>>> is a piece of the continent, a part of the main; >>>>>>> if a clod be washed away by the sea, Europe >>>>>>> is the less, as well as if a promontory were, as >>>>>>> well as any manner of thy friends or of thine >>>>>>> own were; any man's death diminishes me, >>>>>>> because I am involved in mankind. >>>>>>> And therefore never send to know for whom >>>>>>> the bell tolls; it tolls for thee. >>>>>>> >>>>>>> -John Donne >>>>>>> >>>>>>> >>>>>>> >>>>>>> On 10/1/10, Mark <[email protected]> wrote: >>>>>>> >>>>>>>> Tommy, Tommy, Tommy, >>>>>>>> >>>>>>>> >>>>>>>> He must have had a really poor self image... short of that nothing >>>>>>>> could "Make" him commit suicide. Suicide IS against the law, isn't it >>>>>>>> ?? >>>>>>>> >>>>>>>> >>>>>>>> So you are basically saying "Mommy, Mommy, he made me do it !!" >>>>>>>> >>>>>>>> >>>>>>>> Not much of a defense when prejudice of one kind or another exists >>>>>>>> in EVERY walk of life. >>>>>>>> >>>>>>>> >>>>>>>> >>>>>>>> >>>>>>>> On Fri, Oct 1, 2010 at 10:33 AM, Tommy News >>>>>>>> <[email protected]>wrote: >>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>> *This is not one isolated incident. The problem of homophobia is >>>>>>>>> societal and must be eradicated. * >>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>> *This week , I heard about 3 – THREE – other young gay men >>>>>>>>> murdered by homophobia in America.* >>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>> http://www.queerty.com/shock-gay-texas-13-year-old-asher-brown-shoots-himself-in-the-head-after-horrific-school-torment-20100928/ >>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>> http://www.lgbtqnation.com/2010/09/gay-teen-dies-after-10-days-on-life-support-following-suicide-attempt-over-anti-gay-bullying/ >>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>> http://abcnews.go.com/US/victim-secret-dorm-sex-tape-commits-suicide/story?id=11758716 >>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>> On 10/1/10, nominal9 <[email protected]> wrote: >>>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>>> I think the issue here is that someone shot and distributed the >>>>>>>>>> images >>>>>>>>>> against the suicide victim's will.... >>>>>>>>>> Plus, the victim was relatively young... eighteen....Gay or >>>>>>>>>> not.... >>>>>>>>>> that's a lot for a young person to handle..... >>>>>>>>>> nominal9 >>>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>>> On Oct 1, 12:09 pm, Mark <[email protected]> wrote: >>>>>>>>>> > *Just exactly what was he ashamed of ??? Being gay ?? How do you >>>>>>>>>> know ?? >>>>>>>>>> > He's certainly not talking.* >>>>>>>>>> > * >>>>>>>>>> > * >>>>>>>>>> > *Further, if one is going to do or be involved in something that >>>>>>>>>> they find >>>>>>>>>> > THAT shameful maybe they should rethink their own position first >>>>>>>>>> rather than >>>>>>>>>> > legislate an entire populace for a personal error.* >>>>>>>>>> > >>>>>>>>>> > >>>>>>>>>> > >>>>>>>>>> > >>>>>>>>>> > >>>>>>>>>> > On Fri, Oct 1, 2010 at 9:50 AM, Tommy News < >>>>>>>>>> [email protected]> wrote: >>>>>>>>>> > > *Your twisted pretzel logic is, as usual, illogical.* >>>>>>>>>> > > ** >>>>>>>>>> > > *This talented young man would still be alive if it were not >>>>>>>>>> for the >>>>>>>>>> > > horrible shame he felt after this secret video was posted on >>>>>>>>>> the internet by >>>>>>>>>> > > his straight roomate.* >>>>>>>>>> > >>>>>>>>>> > > On 10/1/10, dick thompson <[email protected]> wrote: >>>>>>>>>> > >>>>>>>>>> > >> I guess every time a gay guy comits suicide it is always a >>>>>>>>>> societal >>>>>>>>>> > >> homophobia, never anything else. And every time anyone kids >>>>>>>>>> a gay guy then >>>>>>>>>> > >> it is homophobia, never anything else. The people who >>>>>>>>>> filmed him should >>>>>>>>>> > >> pay for this big time but your thoughts on exactly why he >>>>>>>>>> took his own life >>>>>>>>>> > >> are open to question. People do things for reasons other >>>>>>>>>> than homophobia, >>>>>>>>>> > >> you know. The world does not revolve for the reasons you >>>>>>>>>> think it does and >>>>>>>>>> > >> the world does not sit there waiting for Tommy News do >>>>>>>>>> determine if it was >>>>>>>>>> > >> homophobia or not. You seem to think that if a gay guy does >>>>>>>>>> not get a job >>>>>>>>>> > >> he applied for it has to be because of homophobia, not that >>>>>>>>>> someone better >>>>>>>>>> > >> applied also. >>>>>>>>>> > >>>>>>>>>> > >> On 10/01/2010 11:19 AM, Tommy News wrote: >>>>>>>>>> > >>>>>>>>>> > >> *Do you think Tyler Clementi would have taken his own life >>>>>>>>>> if he had >>>>>>>>>> > >> been filmed in a private romantic encounter with a girl?* >>>>>>>>>> > >> *Think about why he took his life, why he did it. * >>>>>>>>>> > >> * In addition, Think about why his straight roommate secretly >>>>>>>>>> filmed the >>>>>>>>>> > >> encounter and broadcast it on the Internet. >>>>>>>>>> > >> * >>>>>>>>>> > >> *The problem is societal homophobia, which causes deep shame, >>>>>>>>>> ridicule, >>>>>>>>>> > >> harm, and persecution of gays.* >>>>>>>>>> > >>>>>>>>>> > >> *Think, I know you can!* >>>>>>>>>> > >>>>>>>>>> > >> On 10/1/10, THE ANNOINTED ONE <[email protected]> wrote: >>>>>>>>>> > >>>>>>>>>> > >>> Tommy, >>>>>>>>>> > >>>>>>>>>> > >>> One may first want to ask exactly what was so embarrassing >>>>>>>>>> and >>>>>>>>>> > >>> repugnant on the tape that the young man was willing to take >>>>>>>>>> his own >>>>>>>>>> > >>> life and why it was so to him. >>>>>>>>>> > >>>>>>>>>> > >>> That which made him jump came from within his own mind. >>>>>>>>>> > >>>>>>>>>> > >>> Since when is it governments job to legislate fortitude and >>>>>>>>>> love of >>>>>>>>>> > >>> ones self ??? >>>>>>>>>> > >>>>>>>>>> > >>> On Sep 30, 6:23 pm, Tommy News <[email protected]> >>>>>>>>>> wrote: >>>>>>>>>> > >>> > *Take Action: Send A No More Suicides Letter to President >>>>>>>>>> Obama and >>>>>>>>>> > >>> Congress >>>>>>>>>> > >>> > * >>>>>>>>>> > >>> > *Tell them to introduce and pass The American Equality >>>>>>>>>> Bill, to amend >>>>>>>>>> > >>> the >>>>>>>>>> > >>> > Civil Rights Act of 1964 to include sexual orientation and >>>>>>>>>> gender >>>>>>>>>> > >>> identity.* >>>>>>>>>> > >>> > ** >>>>>>>>>> > >>> > < >>>>>>>>>> > >>> >>>>>>>>>> http://parenting.blogs.nytimes.com/2010/09/30/suicide-and-the-internet/ >>>>>>>>>> > >>>>>>>>>> > >>> > Tyler Clementi Jumped off the George Washington Bridge in >>>>>>>>>> New York >>>>>>>>>> > >>> after his >>>>>>>>>> > >>> > same-sex romantic encounter was secretly filmed and posted >>>>>>>>>> on the >>>>>>>>>> > >>> internet >>>>>>>>>> > >>> > by his college roomate. At least three other youths have >>>>>>>>>> killed >>>>>>>>>> > >>> themselves >>>>>>>>>> > >>> > due to homophobic bullying. Stop The Hate! >>>>>>>>>> > >>>>>>>>>> > >>> > From our friend Tif: >>>>>>>>>> > >>>>>>>>>> > >>> > -- THE LETTER BELOW WAS WRITTEN by Jonathan W, of >>>>>>>>>> Brooklyn, NY and >>>>>>>>>> > >>> really >>>>>>>>>> > >>> > captures the heart of the matter it seems. >>>>>>>>>> > >>>>>>>>>> > >>> > Please SEND IT as a comment to the White House at: >>>>>>>>>> > >>>>>>>>>> > >>> >http://www.whitehouse.gov/contact >>>>>>>>>> > >>> > ... >>>>>>>>>> > >>> > And LET THEM HEAR US SAY: >>>>>>>>>> > >>>>>>>>>> > >>> > *** Mr. President PLEASE SPEAK OUT LOUDLY about >>>>>>>>>> homophobia, school >>>>>>>>>> > >>> bullying >>>>>>>>>> > >>> > and equal civil rights for LGBTQ people -- no more suicide >>>>>>>>>> letters. *** >>>>>>>>>> > >>>>>>>>>> > >>> > To President Obama, >>>>>>>>>> > >>> > All of us are horrified by the tragedy of Tyler Clementi, >>>>>>>>>> the young man >>>>>>>>>> > >>> who >>>>>>>>>> > >>> > committed suicide after his sexual encounter with another >>>>>>>>>> man was >>>>>>>>>> > >>> posted on >>>>>>>>>> > >>> > the internet. We share anger and disgust at the 2 students >>>>>>>>>> accused of >>>>>>>>>> > >>> this >>>>>>>>>> > >>> > despicable act. But if our outrage stops there, we will be >>>>>>>>>> doing a >>>>>>>>>> > >>> grave >>>>>>>>>> > >>> > disservice to the millions of young gay men and women in >>>>>>>>>> this country >>>>>>>>>> > >>> who >>>>>>>>>> > >>> > live with shame and fear everyday and who have a 4 times >>>>>>>>>> greater risk >>>>>>>>>> > >>> of >>>>>>>>>> > >>> > suicide than their straight counterparts. >>>>>>>>>> > >>> > Most people would be embarrassed and angered at having >>>>>>>>>> their private >>>>>>>>>> > >>> sexual >>>>>>>>>> > >>> > acts secretly recorded and posted on the internet, but it >>>>>>>>>> seems >>>>>>>>>> > >>> unlikely >>>>>>>>>> > >>> > that Mr. Clementi would have been driven to suicide if >>>>>>>>>> this had been a >>>>>>>>>> > >>> > heterosexual encounter. A young heterosexual man would not >>>>>>>>>> likely >>>>>>>>>> > >>> experience >>>>>>>>>> > >>> > the shame and fear that Mr. Clementi must have felt. >>>>>>>>>> > >>> > Yes, the 2 students accused of this crime must be held >>>>>>>>>> accountable for >>>>>>>>>> > >>> their >>>>>>>>>> > >>> > actions, but as a society we must all share responsibility >>>>>>>>>> for creating >>>>>>>>>> > >>> an >>>>>>>>>> > >>> > environment that drives young gay people to suicide. This >>>>>>>>>> country has >>>>>>>>>> > >>> come a >>>>>>>>>> > >>> > long way toward acceptance of gay people in the last few >>>>>>>>>> decades, but >>>>>>>>>> > >>> we >>>>>>>>>> > >>> > still have a long way to go. Young gay people still face >>>>>>>>>> bullying and >>>>>>>>>> > >>> abuse >>>>>>>>>> > >>> > at home and at school; many experience ostracism by family >>>>>>>>>> and friends; >>>>>>>>>> > >>> > discrimination in school, work, housing and social >>>>>>>>>> services; and >>>>>>>>>> > >>> isolation >>>>>>>>>> > >>> > from supportive communities of peers, as well as anti-gay >>>>>>>>>> violence in >>>>>>>>>> > >>> public >>>>>>>>>> > >>> > and private. It's no wonder that the shame and fear of >>>>>>>>>> 'coming out' can >>>>>>>>>> > >>> be >>>>>>>>>> > >>> > fatal. >>>>>>>>>> > >>> > In the cyber world we now live in, there will undoubtedly >>>>>>>>>> be more cases >>>>>>>>>> > >>> of >>>>>>>>>> > >>> > invasions of privacy on the internet. They can be >>>>>>>>>> punished, but not >>>>>>>>>> > >>> > prevented. It is up to all of us in this society to make >>>>>>>>>> sure that >>>>>>>>>> > >>> young gay >>>>>>>>>> > >>> > people feel safe, secure and accepted, so that shame and >>>>>>>>>> fear never >>>>>>>>>> > >>> again >>>>>>>>>> > >>> > result in death. >>>>>>>>>> > >>>>>>>>>> > >>> > Sincerely, >>>>>>>>>> > >>>>>>>>>> > >>> -- >>>>>>>>>> > >>> Thanks for being part of "PoliticalForum" at Google Groups. >>>>>>>>>> > >>> For options & help seehttp:// >>>>>>>>>> groups.google.com/group/PoliticalForum >>>>>>>>>> > >>>>>>>>>> > >>> * Visit our other community athttp:// >>>>>>>>>> www.PoliticalForum.com/ <http://www.politicalforum.com/>< >>>>>>>>>> http://www.politicalforum.com/> >>>>>>>>>> > >>> * It's active and moderated. 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