[FairfieldLife] P*rsian guy in BB!

2007-10-06 Thread cardemaister

One of this year's contestants in Finnish Big Brother
is Farbod from Irran.

http://www.kuvaboxi.fi/bb/julkinen/279oi+big-brother-farbod.html

He's been living in Finland for 8 years now.
He told the other participants that he can't drink
or smoke because of his religion.

He's rather silent, but otherwise quite a funny feller.
I was rather surprised when he told that visiting
a ho*ker led him to not having an er*ction for a week,
because to his surprise there was already another guy
with a s*hlong of some 27 cm (10.629 inches),
having a bl*w-job from the ho*ker that had huge
sillycon bo*bies. 

Well, perhaps there ain't actually no reason to 
be surprised. He also quite often uses words
like 'vittu' (= cvnt; means 'fvck!')...




[FairfieldLife] Re: Bad news for Bevan

2007-10-06 Thread suziezuzie
I've always been a skinny 170 lbs. until around four months ago, I
started binging for some reason and gained over 30 pounds breaking 200
which was a lot for me. At around 200 lbs., I always felt bloated,
dull, tired, had to nap all the time, no energy, depressed, couldn't
move or walk properly, my heart started back firing and I generally
felt like sh-t. Then I came across a picture of a friend of mine who
has always been the picture of perfect health, looking not a day over
35 at the age of 56. He had such a powerful influence on me as a kid,
being the perfect all around athlete, that at that moment of seeing
his picture, something clicked in my brain and I lost all desire to
binge. So, I went back to two small balanced meals a day, nothing in
between, lots of liquids, but most important, I started listening to
my stomach that clearly now says, ENOUGH and if that means that I'm
not hungry at the second meal in the evening, then I don't eat, but do
keep the liquids going. I can tell that I'm starting to loose weight
but most important, I've gained back the energy and general feeling of
well being that I had before gaining the weight. 

There's no question that fat contributes nothing but needs everything
for it's 
maintenance. Unlike muscle which contributes so much for the bodies
functioning, fat on the other hand requires fat nutrients and gives
back nothing, burdening the body, leading to disease. Fat is
constantly sending 'fat' messages to the brain, feed me more fat.
Muscle sends messages to the brain, feed me more protein. So by
exercising, the muscle mass increases, and therefore the messages
start changing in the brain from feed me more fat to feed me more
protein. The body will figure out what it needs if a person focuses
on exercise as well as the diet. One of the main problems with the TMO
are the sedentary routines. Combine that with the diets rich in fat
and carbs and that spells F-A-T.


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, bob_brigante [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, MDixon6569@ wrote:
 
   
  In a message dated 10/4/07 11:12:04 P.M. Central Daylight Time,  
  [EMAIL PROTECTED] writes:
  
  I'm glad  it worked out for you, and your health has greatly 
 improved. 
  I guess as a  last resort Bevan could go under the knife, but I 
 would 
  prefer to see him  locked in his room and handed 1500 calories of 
 rice 
  and dahl a  day...
  
  
  
 
 
  He can't do it. Otherwise he would have by now. It requires too 
 much  
  discipline and a struggle with a lot of *inner  demons*.
 
 
 
  ** 
 
 And outer demons, too. I've met many TM/MUM officials and they're 
 pretty creepy people for the most part, so Bevan is not only 
 representative of that low life, but constrained and surrounded by it 
 in every way, that makes his breaking out of bad habits unlikely 
 until the pundits free up his atmosphere by creating a more evolution-
 and-happiness- friendly environment.





[FairfieldLife] Re: Pushing Pushing Daisies

2007-10-06 Thread TurquoiseB
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Stu [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

  Nice color enhancement.  Are you responsible for that too? 
 
 Its a new box called the Luster.  The DP, Michael Weaver locked
 ourselves in a bay for 18 hours played around.  We were adding 
 shadows on walls, changing the specific colors, and hiding face 
 blemishes. Its amazing.  I think they used it on 300.

Neat.

Stu, as a lifelong movie freak, but one who has
no real understanding of the magic that goes into
films from the developers' point of view, I was
wondering if you could rap a bit about what you
consider good editing. What's an example that
really stands out for you -- in classic films
(or TV) or in more modern ones?

I understand the *effect* of good editing -- 
being able to preserve or create the pace of
a scene or a film, adding value to the work
that the actors and the cinematographers put 
into it, but it would be fun to hear about that
process from an insider's point of view. If you
feel like it and have the time, of course.

One of my favorites in terms of editing was Don
Juan de Marco, the way he created transitions 
from one scene (and, given the plot, one reality)
to another. For example, Marlon Brando would be
sitting at the dinner table while his wife is
talking about the events of the day, but the 
soundtrack music is still the music from old
Mexico, where his mind obviously still is after
his first session with Don Juan. Then she 
notices that he's not paying attention and
asks him directly, Where *are* you? and the
music just stops, in mid-note. Very effective.

And these days editing involves so much more
than just simple cutting, like all the post-
production work on Amelie. At the time, I think
that film contained more post-processed and
manipulated (in terms of color, removing 
things digitally, adding others digitally, etc.)
than any other film. But in the audience, the
first time you see it, you really don't notice
all the enhancements...you just notice that the
film *works* for you.





[FairfieldLife] Re: P.S. to Turq, I think you're a predator

2007-10-06 Thread TurquoiseB
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues
[EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 others extol the fun of one-night-stands
 
 Who was doing this?  

Exactly. I can't speak about others, but I have
written about such an event (and, to tell the
truth, experienced one) only once on this forum,
and that was long before Bronte ever arrived.

People project what they want to see onto what 
they see. And what they want to see becomes a
kind of reality for them. And that's fine in
one sense, because that's the nature of percep-
tion itself, but IMO one shouldn't confuse what
one projects onto, say, a work of art with what
the artist intended.

My favorite example of this is Dylan. There are
any number of people who have developed compli-
cated, extensive theories of the symbolism of
his songs. And yet from his side, Dylan insists
that he has never once in his life utilitzed
symbolism. He use *imagery*. He just paints odd,
abstract word art, and allows people to project 
onto it whatever they want.

Remember the scene with Steve Martin looking at
the painting in the museum in L.A. Story? The
camera is pointed at him and the people with him
as he describes what he sees in the painting:
I like the relationships. I mean, each character 
has his own story. The puppy is a bit too much, 
but you have to overlook things like that in 
these kinds of paintings. The way he's *holding* 
her...it's almost...filthy. I mean, he's about 
to kiss her and she's pulling away. The way the 
leg's sort of smashed up against her...Phew... 
Look how he's painted the blouse sort of 
translucent. You can just make out her breasts 
underneath and it's sort of touching him about 
here. It's really...pretty torrid, don't you 
think? Then of course you have the onlookers 
peeking at them from behind the doorway like 
they're all shocked. They wish. Yeah, I must 
admit, when I see a painting like this, I get 
emotionally...erect.

The camera angle shifts and we see that he has
been describing a painting of a red rectangle.

'Nuff said...





[FairfieldLife] The Outlaw Path To Enlightenment

2007-10-06 Thread TurquoiseB

Last night I rapped for a little while about outlaws 
and why I like them, and the flack they sometimes get
from others for living by no rules but their own. But
there is another reason why I love outlaws. For me
they are the perfect metaphor for the pathway to
enlightenment.

In my considered opinion, *most* of the men and women 
in human history who have realized their enlightenment 
have done so by being outlaws. At some point in their
lives they decided to stop following the advice or the
laws of others, and follow only their own.

You need look no further than the Buddha for an example.
Yeah, he studied with a few teachers during his early
days. But he rejected them all, and in the end wound
up studying only with the Self. And that was all that
was needed to realize the Self. That is essentially his
message, and in my opinion it is still true, all these
centuries later.

Many in the spiritual community are *offended* by the
idea of DIY (Do It Yourself). They come up with all sorts
of intellectual arguments for how it isn't possible for
a self to realize Self all by itself. They repeat the
stuff they've been told (and, more often than not, *sold*)
by teachers who told them that they *needed* a teacher to
realize who they are. They go on and on like Ron does
about how a guru is essential, and how doing exactly what
he or she says is essential to become enlightened.

Well, to echo Cuba Gooding, Jr. in Jerry Maguire, Show
me the enlightenment!

We were all told for years or decades within the TM move-
to Just Follow Instructions. Do what we tell you to do
and you'll become enlightened. Yeah, right. We all know
how many people in the TM movement *that* worked for.

And then I look at other spiritual traditions and what I
see is that the guys and gals who get written about *as*
enlightened beings are the ones who *didn't* follow
instructions, who *didn't* do exactly what they were 
told to do. For the most part, the people whom history
records as the enlightened were outlaws. For a while
they tried doing things Somebody Else's Way, but in the 
end the thing that enabled them to realize their enlight-
enment was finding Their Own Way.

I could go on and on and on, listing the enlightened of
the past whose life stories suggest that they were outlaws. 
It's pretty easy to do; there are far more of them than
there are stories about people who realized enlightenment
by doing what they were told.

But instead, since I know that this is going to push
some buttons, I'll ask those who still believe that one
*can* become realized by doing what you're told to do
(or that that's the *only* way you can realize enlight-
enment) to provide some examples of this. Show me the
enlightenment! Trot out some examples of someone follow-
ing Someone Else's Path and getting enlightened by 
doing what he or she was told to do.

We've certainly seen Ron trying to do this here, and I
think we've all seen how believable his claims that all
these people are poppin' into enlightenment are. I would
suspect that there is not one person here who believes it.
But *Ron* believes it, and obviously believes firmly
that if he does everything he is told to do, for long
enough, that enlightenment will be the result.  

Different strokes for different folks, I guess. I'm not
convinced. I think there is great value in the moment
in which one *rejects* doing what one has been told, 
and does Something Else instead. 

That moment often is referred to by the enlightened as 
the pivotal moment in their lives in which the seed of 
realization was planted. It may not have actually been 
*doing* the Something Else that caused realization, 
but just making that decision to no longer be reliant 
on Someone Else's Path in almost every case revealed 
their *own* path to them. And that path led them home.





[FairfieldLife] Re: P.S. to Turq, I think you're a predator

2007-10-06 Thread authfriend
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Bronte Baxter [EMAIL PROTECTED] 
wrote:
snip
   Another thought on all this. Edg sings the joys of being really 
intimate with one person while others extol the fun of one-night-
stands. Maybe what's right for one isn't what right's for another 
person -- different needs from relationships, sex, etc.

I've done both, and I wouldn't have missed
any of 'em. In my experience, they're
fulfilling in different ways, at different
times. It may be that one *or* the other is
exclusively right for some people, but I
have the sneaking suspicion that for many
who hew to one and eschew the other, they've
limited themselves unnecessarily.




[FairfieldLife] Re: P.S. to Turq, I think you're a predator

2007-10-06 Thread TurquoiseB
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, TurquoiseB [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues
 curtisdeltablues@ wrote:
 
  others extol the fun of one-night-stands
  
  Who was doing this?  
 
 Exactly. I can't speak about others, but I have
 written about such an event (and, to tell the
 truth, experienced one) only once on this forum,
 and that was long before Bronte ever arrived.

Correction. I discovered that I recently wrote a 
*reminiscence* of the magic of one-night stands 
back in the 70s and 80s when I lived in Malibu. 
Great times...before AIDS and before the resurgence
of guilt and fear as lifestyle. And yes, those days
and those one night stands were fun. 

Are they still? I really couldn't tell you,
because I'm so slow and plodding when it comes
to romance that by the time I've gotten around
to having sex with someone, it's really not
worth it to waste all that prep time on just
one night.  :-)

Will the love affair, when I finally get around
to it, last forever and be true love? Don't
know and don't care. I'm not *looking* for forever
and true love. I don't need them in my life to
feel fulfilled. If they happen, that's way cool.
If they don't, I have more than enough happiness
going on already to not miss them.





[FairfieldLife] Re: P.S. to Turq, I think you're a predator

2007-10-06 Thread authfriend
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, curtisdeltablues 
[EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 others extol the fun of one-night-stands
 
 Who was doing this?

If nobody else was, I will. Not as the *only*
rewarding relationship modality, by any means,
but something very much worth doing in the
right circumstances. And over time, in my
experience, short-term and long-term
relationships (not at the *same* time!) tend
to enhance each other.




[FairfieldLife] This is what men do in bars to women

2007-10-06 Thread Duveyoung
http://www.wcsh6.com/news/article.aspx?storyid=71741

The above is exactly the issue of suckering others by a con-job.

These valiant soldiers have been screwed.

Edg



[FairfieldLife] Curtis, are you a predator? (Re: Turq, I think you're a predator)

2007-10-06 Thread authfriend
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Duveyoung [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:
snip
 If you rail about George Bush invading a country, why is it
 allowed for Turq to walk into a bar and use all his powers
 just because he can?  It is allowed, yes, because it would
 be so hard to police, but where is Turq's moral authority --
 who can look in a mirror and say with a clear conscience,
 Heh heh, I got that stupid short-bus guy to buy this lemon
 car from my shady used-car dealership.  Or, That girl is
 so stupid, it's like she's permanently drunk, so that'll be my
 easy-lay for tonight!

Edg, stop.  Just stop.

Barry's said explicitly that he was just enjoying
the conversation with this woman, not trying to 
get into her pants:

And yeah, she is 'way cute, and I would be the
luckiest guy on earth if I were fortunate enough
to be hittin' that. But that really wasn't on my
mind.

What was on my mind was the rarity of finding a
kindred soul on this blue-green ball in black space
-- in the most unlikely of locations (a basement
Irish bar) and in the most unlikely of bodies. I
can tell already that this young girl and her sister
and I are going to become really good friends. And I
don't develop really good friends that easily.

So to those of you who have fallen for all the
'poking the near-dead to see if they've still got a
spark of life in them' language I sometimes use on
this forum, and have been convinced that I'm just a
lowlife scum without morals...well...you're probably
right. But I *do* have ethics, and my ethics would
never allow me to do *anything* to harm this cute
young thing in any way.

While it might be really enjoyable to ball the 19-
year-old's sweet little buns off -- or even those of
her slightly older sister -- that's almost certainly
not going to happen. What *might* happen is that
we'll have *great* conversations. And if anything I
can say in them can help to keep these two as OPEN to
life, and as ALIVE as they are now, and not let that
aliveness get all worn down and OLD by interfacing
with the world, I will be content.

I don't trust Barry any further than I could throw
him, and *I* believe him when he says that's all
he was doing--as nauseatingly juvenile as I find
his ostentatious self-congratulation.

All your rants against him on this topic have been
based on a premise that *you made up*.

Either come up with some really solid reasons why
we should assume he was lying, or *get the hell
off him*.

Rant all you want about men's sexual predations on
women, but stop personalizing it to Barry.




[FairfieldLife] Re: The Outlaw Path To Enlightenment

2007-10-06 Thread jim_flanegin
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, TurquoiseB [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:
 That moment often is referred to by the enlightened as 
 the pivotal moment in their lives in which the seed of 
 realization was planted. It may not have actually been 
 *doing* the Something Else that caused realization, 
 but just making that decision to no longer be reliant 
 on Someone Else's Path in almost every case revealed 
 their *own* path to them. And that path led them home.

The dynamic occurred for me as you describe it, only I wouldn't call 
it a decision by me, more of a complete exhaustion, and surrender, 
that I ever knew what I was doing in the first place, that all the 
stress and strain of trying was gone, that all and any attempts to 
align myself with anything at all, be it a belief, or a way of doing 
things, or a description of enlightenment, all vanished in less than 
an hour, washed away by a blissful torrent of tears, and here I am, 
ever since, completely empty. Just me.:-)



[FairfieldLife] Curtis, are you a predator? (Re: Turq, I think you're a predator)

2007-10-06 Thread TurquoiseB
I lied. I did read something Edg wrote, because
I was curious as to whether he had regained his
sanity. It appears that he has not, therefore
in the future he goes back on the Don't Bother
To Read List until this passing coup de foudre
has passed.

And I won't address his demands for me to explain
and deny his fantasy accusations, for two reasons.
One is that they are fantasies. The second, and
far more important, is that I owe him or anyone 
else no explanation or justification for anything 
I've ever done in my life. None. If you want a 
cinema reference for why I feel this way, see the 
fine film The Contender. Joan Allen's character
in that film personifies my philosophy.

But I do need to address a few things he said,
because they slander a place he clearly knows 
nothing about, and is mistaking for dark places 
that exist inside his mind.

--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Duveyoung [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 But, to me, a 60 year old guy
 looking to get laid by a 25 year old barmaid in a 
 country -- where it is understood that a woman 
 found out and about without a man nearby is asking 
 to be raped ...
 ...
 Curtis, would you suggest that a woman walk alone 
 at night in Spain? Probably not -- why?  Cuz men 
 have dicks and can man-handle most women, right?, 
 and in Spain, well, better for women to stay inside
 their casa-burkas, right?

This cannot be allowed to pass.

Clearly Edg has not been to Spain in recent
decades. Any woman, young or old, can safely
walk the streets of Sitges at any time day or
night, with almost zero fear of being hassled,
much less raped. In my time here I have seen 
almost *no* examples of the macho or misogynist
male mindset he claims is omnipresent here. The
lack of it shocks even me. I would characterize
the Spain that I live in -- as opposed to the
fantasy Spain that Edg sees in his mind -- as
far less misogynistic than, say, Australia or
Mexico or even parts of the United States. 

As for a woman being able to safely walk the
streets alone without fear of being raped, I 
would say that Sitges is probably a great deal
safer than the town that Edg lives in in the
United States, wherever that may be. In gen-
eral Europe is a far safer place for women
than the United States, and in specific Sitges
is far safer than Paris. And I've heard intel-
ligent, world-savvy women I know describe Paris
as the safest city they've ever experienced.

As for women needing to be protected, I'm sorry,
but Edg needs to stop going out with those 
rubber blow-up dolls you get from the porno 
shops. *They* need to be protected from the
world because, like many fantasies, one quick
puncture and poof!, they're gone.

But real women aren't like that. The women I
have met and observed here in Spain are energetic,
alive, intelligent, self-possessed, and they don't
take no shit off *anybody*, male or female. If
someone thinks that they've got to be protected,
and that he's just the man to do the protecting,
well I wish him luck tilting at his *next*
windmill.

Spain is not like Edg's fantasy Spain. Women are
not like Edg's fantasy women. And I'm not like
his fantasies of me, either. 

May he wake up from this current bad dream soon.





[FairfieldLife] Re: The Outlaw Path To Enlightenment

2007-10-06 Thread Ron
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, TurquoiseB [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 
 Last night I rapped for a little while about outlaws 
 and why I like them, and the flack they sometimes get
 from others for living by no rules but their own. But
 there is another reason why I love outlaws. For me
 they are the perfect metaphor for the pathway to
 enlightenment.
 
 In my considered opinion, *most* of the men and women 
 in human history who have realized their enlightenment 
 have done so by being outlaws. At some point in their
 lives they decided to stop following the advice or the
 laws of others, and follow only their own.
 
 You need look no further than the Buddha for an example.
 Yeah, he studied with a few teachers during his early
 days. But he rejected them all, and in the end wound
 up studying only with the Self. And that was all that
 was needed to realize the Self. That is essentially his
 message, and in my opinion it is still true, all these
 centuries later.
 
 Many in the spiritual community are *offended* by the
 idea of DIY (Do It Yourself). They come up with all sorts
 of intellectual arguments for how it isn't possible for
 a self to realize Self all by itself. They repeat the
 stuff they've been told (and, more often than not, *sold*)
 by teachers who told them that they *needed* a teacher to
 realize who they are. They go on and on like Ron does
 about how a guru is essential, and how doing exactly what
 he or she says is essential to become enlightened.
 
 Well, to echo Cuba Gooding, Jr. in Jerry Maguire, Show
 me the enlightenment!
 
 We were all told for years or decades within the TM move-
 to Just Follow Instructions. Do what we tell you to do
 and you'll become enlightened. Yeah, right. We all know
 how many people in the TM movement *that* worked for.
 
 And then I look at other spiritual traditions and what I
 see is that the guys and gals who get written about *as*
 enlightened beings are the ones who *didn't* follow
 instructions, who *didn't* do exactly what they were 
 told to do. For the most part, the people whom history
 records as the enlightened were outlaws. For a while
 they tried doing things Somebody Else's Way, but in the 
 end the thing that enabled them to realize their enlight-
 enment was finding Their Own Way.
 
 I could go on and on and on, listing the enlightened of
 the past whose life stories suggest that they were outlaws. 
 It's pretty easy to do; there are far more of them than
 there are stories about people who realized enlightenment
 by doing what they were told.
 
 But instead, since I know that this is going to push
 some buttons, I'll ask those who still believe that one
 *can* become realized by doing what you're told to do
 (or that that's the *only* way you can realize enlight-
 enment) to provide some examples of this. Show me the
 enlightenment! Trot out some examples of someone follow-
 ing Someone Else's Path and getting enlightened by 
 doing what he or she was told to do.
 
 We've certainly seen Ron trying to do this here, and I
 think we've all seen how believable his claims that all
 these people are poppin' into enlightenment are. I would
 suspect that there is not one person here who believes it.
 But *Ron* believes it, and obviously believes firmly
 that if he does everything he is told to do, for long
 enough, that enlightenment will be the result.  
 
 Different strokes for different folks, I guess. I'm not
 convinced. I think there is great value in the moment
 in which one *rejects* doing what one has been told, 
 and does Something Else instead. 
 
 That moment often is referred to by the enlightened as 
 the pivotal moment in their lives in which the seed of 
 realization was planted. It may not have actually been 
 *doing* the Something Else that caused realization, 
 but just making that decision to no longer be reliant 
 on Someone Else's Path in almost every case revealed 
 their *own* path to them. And that path led them home.

When sincere seekers are there , the universe offers a choice. Probably when 
the sincerety 
is kept up, more choices come along the way and the time frame is eternity so 
no need to 
worry.

It looks like out of the 6 billion people on the planet, not many follow a 
Guru, this is their 
choice, that is what free will  is about.

Hridaya



[FairfieldLife] Re: Judy's remark on Curtis, are you a predator?

2007-10-06 Thread Bronte Baxter
And Edg, if Barry's worst critic says it, you know it's got to be true. You say 
deal with the issues but you're questioning someone's personal integrity and 
demanding they defend it, which it's not their job to do here. Barry is 
avoiding getting triggered and drawn into a fight. He might have debated with 
you had you not made it personal. 
   
  While you're not flaming in the literal sense of name-calling, you're 
questioning his personal moral fiber, which is not far from flaming. If you 
want to debate your four points, go for it. But to keep sticking Barry in the 
middle of it is both unfair and counterproductive to your purpose. 
   
  Your moral ideas are good ones IMO, and debating such matters causes 
everyone's consciousness to be expanded or raised. You play a part, through 
such thoughtful posts, in social evolution. It just focuses readers off the 
concepts and into hurt and bickering when you make the issue of a forum 
member's integrity the middle of an otherwise well-reasoned argument. 
   
  - Bronte 

  
authfriend [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Duveyoung [EMAIL PROTECTED] 
wrote:
snip
 If you rail about George Bush invading a country, why is it
 allowed for Turq to walk into a bar and use all his powers
 just because he can? It is allowed, yes, because it would
 be so hard to police, but where is Turq's moral authority --
 who can look in a mirror and say with a clear conscience,
 Heh heh, I got that stupid short-bus guy to buy this lemon
 car from my shady used-car dealership. Or, That girl is
 so stupid, it's like she's permanently drunk, so that'll be my
 easy-lay for tonight!

Edg, stop. Just stop.

Barry's said explicitly that he was just enjoying
the conversation with this woman, not trying to 
get into her pants:

And yeah, she is 'way cute, and I would be the
luckiest guy on earth if I were fortunate enough
to be hittin' that. But that really wasn't on my
mind.

What was on my mind was the rarity of finding a
kindred soul on this blue-green ball in black space
-- in the most unlikely of locations (a basement
Irish bar) and in the most unlikely of bodies. I
can tell already that this young girl and her sister
and I are going to become really good friends. And I
don't develop really good friends that easily.

So to those of you who have fallen for all the
'poking the near-dead to see if they've still got a
spark of life in them' language I sometimes use on
this forum, and have been convinced that I'm just a
lowlife scum without morals...well...you're probably
right. But I *do* have ethics, and my ethics would
never allow me to do *anything* to harm this cute
young thing in any way.

While it might be really enjoyable to ball the 19-
year-old's sweet little buns off -- or even those of
her slightly older sister -- that's almost certainly
not going to happen. What *might* happen is that
we'll have *great* conversations. And if anything I
can say in them can help to keep these two as OPEN to
life, and as ALIVE as they are now, and not let that
aliveness get all worn down and OLD by interfacing
with the world, I will be content.

I don't trust Barry any further than I could throw
him, and *I* believe him when he says that's all
he was doing--as nauseatingly juvenile as I find
his ostentatious self-congratulation.

All your rants against him on this topic have been
based on a premise that *you made up*.

Either come up with some really solid reasons why
we should assume he was lying, or *get the hell
off him*.

Rant all you want about men's sexual predations on
women, but stop personalizing it to Barry.



 

   
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Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: The Outlaw Path To Enlightenment

2007-10-06 Thread Bronte Baxter
   Ron wrote:
  When sincere seekers are there , the universe offers a choice. Probably when 
the sincerety is kept up, more choices come along the way and the time frame is 
eternity so no need to worry.

It looks like out of the 6 billion people on the planet, not many follow a 
Guru, this is their choice, that is what free will is about. - Hridaya
   
  Bronte writes:
  Ron, this is the part of you I like. There is a sweet person underneath all 
that need to proseletyze and the apparent judgmentalness. 


   
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Re: [FairfieldLife] Curtis, are you a predator? (Re: Turq, I think you're a predator)

2007-10-06 Thread Sal Sunshine

On Oct 6, 2007, at 11:10 AM, curtisdeltablues wrote:


It is not about women; it is about more endowed persons taking
advantage of lesser endowed persons.


Dude are you serious?  Then you missed my point completely.  Perhaps
Sal can fill you in on how wack this is. I tried.


I'd be glad to try, Curtis, if I had any idea what his point was at 
this juncture.  (Interesting choice of words, BTW, on Edg's part 
above.)


This latest series of monologues seems to have been triggered by 
something Barry said a while back, calling Edg old,   which Edge has 
been reacting rather strongly to ever since, to put it really mildly.   
While most seem to have learned to brush off internet remarks that we 
feel are misrepresentative, Edg takes much of it very personally, and 
this is the unfortunate result.


Edg, whatever is really bothering you, this isn't the forum to take it 
out on.  All this is doing is making you come across as someone so 
obsessive as to be almost scary.  I would say it's high time to get a 
grip and deal with the real issues, whatever they are.  JM2C.


Sal


[FairfieldLife] Curtis, are you a predator? (Re: Turq, I think you're a predator)

2007-10-06 Thread nablusoss1008
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Sal Sunshine [EMAIL PROTECTED] 
wrote:

 On Oct 6, 2007, at 11:10 AM, curtisdeltablues wrote:
 
  It is not about women; it is about more endowed persons taking
  advantage of lesser endowed persons.
 
  Dude are you serious?  Then you missed my point completely.  
Perhaps
  Sal can fill you in on how wack this is. I tried.
 
 I'd be glad to try, Curtis, if I had any idea what his point was at 
 this juncture.  (Interesting choice of words, BTW, on Edg's part 
 above.)
 
 This latest series of monologues seems to have been triggered by 
 something Barry said a while back, calling Edg old,   which Edge 
has 
 been reacting rather strongly to ever since, to put it really 
mildly.   
 While most seem to have learned to brush off internet remarks that 
we 
 feel are misrepresentative, Edg takes much of it very personally, 
and 
 this is the unfortunate result.
 
 Edg, whatever is really bothering you, this isn't the forum to take 
it 
 out on.  All this is doing is making you come across as someone so 
 obsessive as to be almost scary.  I would say it's high time to get 
a 
 grip 

and deal with the real issues, whatever they are.  JM2C.
 
 Sal

Might I suggest to get a checking ? ;-)




[FairfieldLife] Not A Pretty Girl

2007-10-06 Thread TurquoiseB
All this talk about women and the need to protect
them got me remembering the best song I've ever heard
on the subject. It's by Ani DiFranco, and in the world
of women's music it's considered nigh unto an anthem.

I think you can listen to the whole song here (but I'm
not sure because it won't play for me from outside the
US):  

http://www.rhapsody.com/anidifranco/notaprettygirl

Here are the lyrics:


I am not a pretty girl
that is not what I do
I ain't no damsel in distress
and I don't need to be rescued
so put me down punk
maybe you'd prefer a maiden fair
isn't there a kitten stuck up a tree somewhere

I am not an angry girl
but it seems like I've got everyone fooled
every time I say something they find hard to hear
they chalk it up to my anger
and never to their own fear
and imagine you're a girl
just trying to finally come clean
knowing full well they'd prefer you
were dirty and smiling

And I am sorry
I am not a maiden fair
and I am not a kitten stuck up a tree somewhere

And generally my generation
wouldn't be caught dead working for the man
and generally I agree with them
trouble is you gotta have yourself an alternate plan
and I have earned my disillusionment
I have been working all of my life
and I am a patriot
I have been fighting the good fight

And what if there are no damsels in distress
what if I knew that and I called your bluff?
don't you think every kitten figures out how to get down
whether or not you ever show up?





[FairfieldLife] Re: Not A Pretty Girl

2007-10-06 Thread TurquoiseB
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, TurquoiseB [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 All this talk about women and the need to protect
 them got me remembering the best song I've ever heard
 on the subject. It's by Ani DiFranco, and in the world
 of women's music it's considered nigh unto an anthem.
 
 I think you can listen to the whole song here (but I'm
 not sure because it won't play for me from outside the
 US):  
 
 http://www.rhapsody.com/anidifranco/notaprettygirl

Worried that the above link wouldn't work,
I searched YouTube and found to my dismay
that there weren't any videos of Ani doing
this song. Or at least I couldn't find any.
I *did* find a number of very interesting
covers of this song by women all over the
world who were moved enough by it to do 
their own version. If you don't know Ani,
and would like a taste, try 32 Flavors, 
another of her songs that says a great 
deal IMO about how a strong woman sees
being a strong woman:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DsP2TheK0iQ

This video is the incarnation of everything
I've been talking about re the magic of young
women. This is my idea of an interesting woman.
Others, also on YouTube, include:

Joni Mitchell, For Free:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QQM1JkiQgoc

Norah Jones, She (Gram Parsons cover):
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=37W0W9M6IjQ

Tori Amos, Smells Like Teen Spirit (Nirvana Cover):
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wcHNZVrxEts

These are the kinds of women I'm using as 
a 'measuring rod' for comparison when I refer
to one of the women I've had a conversation
with as interesting.





[FairfieldLife] Re: Not A Pretty Girl

2007-10-06 Thread new . morning

Good one.

I have not listened to her in some time. Perhaps time to again.


 I ain't no damsel in distress
 and I don't need to be rescued

 seems to well sum up a prevailing mind-set of some.

On a tangental topic, 

her line

 and I am a patriot
 I have been fighting the good fight

struck me. As quite an interesting take on patriot.

I am sick of jingoists hyjacking the term. I grew up on the Sons of
Liberty theme, Johnny Trumain, and all. Beyond childhood heros, I
know patriotism is a much deeper than the shallow way it is used by
some today as a shiny (as in hollow) badge of honor. 

I think back to the war resisters of many wars. As an example, to me,
they are generally far more patriotic than those haughtingly and
dismissively wearing an american flags on their lapels. 

War resisters,  or anyone passionately furthering a cause -- fighting
for a cause they are committed to, to make the their country, but more
important, to make the world a better place. Perhaps a better, newer
word needs to be struck for patriots of the world and humandkind. But
deFranco gets at that: 

 and I am a patriot
 I have been fighting the good fight

She is not talking about country, but about causes. America in 1775
was a cause. Today, in ways its a sad characture of itself. Like Denny
 Crane -- for Boston Legal fans (as endearing as Denny is in his
crusty way).

patri -- must be the same root at partiarch. Fight for he FatherLand.

How about fight for the Humanland? Or the Natureland  -- not to
discriminate and ignore our animal brothers and sisters. A Natriot?
A Lifriot? A Oneriot? A Lovriot? Sounds like Love Riot. (not to be
confused with a Love Orgy I suppose.)













--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, TurquoiseB [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 All this talk about women and the need to protect
 them got me remembering the best song I've ever heard
 on the subject. It's by Ani DiFranco, and in the world
 of women's music it's considered nigh unto an anthem.
 
 I think you can listen to the whole song here (but I'm
 not sure because it won't play for me from outside the
 US):  
 
 http://www.rhapsody.com/anidifranco/notaprettygirl
 
 Here are the lyrics:
 
 
 I am not a pretty girl
 that is not what I do
 I ain't no damsel in distress
 and I don't need to be rescued
 so put me down punk
 maybe you'd prefer a maiden fair
 isn't there a kitten stuck up a tree somewhere
 
 I am not an angry girl
 but it seems like I've got everyone fooled
 every time I say something they find hard to hear
 they chalk it up to my anger
 and never to their own fear
 and imagine you're a girl
 just trying to finally come clean
 knowing full well they'd prefer you
 were dirty and smiling
 
 And I am sorry
 I am not a maiden fair
 and I am not a kitten stuck up a tree somewhere
 
 And generally my generation
 wouldn't be caught dead working for the man
 and generally I agree with them
 trouble is you gotta have yourself an alternate plan
 and I have earned my disillusionment
 I have been working all of my life
 and I am a patriot
 I have been fighting the good fight
 
 And what if there are no damsels in distress
 what if I knew that and I called your bluff?
 don't you think every kitten figures out how to get down
 whether or not you ever show up?





Re: [FairfieldLife] Curtis, are you a predator? (Re: Turq, I think you're a predator)

2007-10-06 Thread Bronte Baxter
Nabloss:
  Might I suggest to get a checking ? ;-)
   
  Bronte:
  Your mantra, applied quite humorously here. Nabby, you crack me up.  

nablusoss1008 [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Sal Sunshine [EMAIL 
PROTECTED] 
wrote:

 On Oct 6, 2007, at 11:10 AM, curtisdeltablues wrote:
 
  It is not about women; it is about more endowed persons taking
  advantage of lesser endowed persons.
 
  Dude are you serious? Then you missed my point completely. 
Perhaps
  Sal can fill you in on how wack this is. I tried.
 
 I'd be glad to try, Curtis, if I had any idea what his point was at 
 this juncture. (Interesting choice of words, BTW, on Edg's part 
 above.)
 
 This latest series of monologues seems to have been triggered by 
 something Barry said a while back, calling Edg old, which Edge 
has 
 been reacting rather strongly to ever since, to put it really 
mildly. 
 While most seem to have learned to brush off internet remarks that 
we 
 feel are misrepresentative, Edg takes much of it very personally, 
and 
 this is the unfortunate result.
 
 Edg, whatever is really bothering you, this isn't the forum to take 
it 
 out on. All this is doing is making you come across as someone so 
 obsessive as to be almost scary. I would say it's high time to get 
a 
 grip 

and deal with the real issues, whatever they are. JM2C.
 
 Sal

Might I suggest to get a checking ? ;-)



 

   
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[FairfieldLife] Re: Not A Pretty Girl

2007-10-06 Thread TurquoiseB
 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, TurquoiseB no_reply@ wrote:

 Joni Mitchell, For Free:
 http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QQM1JkiQgoc

This video was Joni in her youth. I've been 
traveling and working so much that I haven't
had a chance to pick up her new album (the
first in ten years), but I hope to soon. 
Here is the promo for it, and for two other
of her projects this year.

I ran into Joni Mitchell a couple of times.
Once is written up in one of the stories in
Road Trip Mind. The other was at a gathering
with Yaqui medicine man Grandfather Cachora.
The smoking and all of her numerous chronic
ailments (she had childhood polio, and that
has repercussions later in life) have left 
their share of wear and tear on her body 
and her face and her aura, but she's still 
one interesting woman:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xGa4spIe1-E





[FairfieldLife] Re: The Outlaw Path To Enlightenment

2007-10-06 Thread Robert Gimbel
 (snip)

 That moment often is referred to by the enlightened as 
 the pivotal moment in their lives in which the seed of 
 realization was planted. It may not have actually been 
 *doing* the Something Else that caused realization, 
 but just making that decision to no longer be reliant 
 on Someone Else's Path in almost every case revealed 
 their *own* path to them. And that path led them home.


This is good stuff- It is true you eventually have to 'find' it for 
yourself- basically this is the philosophy of the 12-step programs- 
that you need to find: 'Your own 'Higher Power'.
Jesus claimed the same: Search within...
Maharishi teaches the same: It's all within...

Then there's the idea of 'old soul, young soul'...
Some people aren't the least bit interested in any of this stuff of 
enlightenment, as they are caught up in the more material side of 
things: survival, position, possessions, not much time left for 
anything spiritual.
Then there's the one's that need to just follow one of the various 
dogmas, of one the religions...
Only problem is: all of the religions are generally based in a figure-
head who was enlightened, but as was said, you can't get there, by 
just being a 'Parrot'...quack, quack...

Then there's the 'Jacobs Ladder Principle'...
Have you ever noticed when you are speaking to someone,
About some ecsorteric stuff, that they just sort of 'blank out',
And didn't hear a word you said; have you ever noticed that for 
yourself, at times: someone will have told you something, and you 
completely blank out on what was said.
Sometimes your not ready to hear what is being said.
You can't skip steps in the Soul's evolution, it comes in steps, 
lessons, trials and tribulations, pain, and joy.

It's great to find a teacher, a guru, to hang with, and learn from.
Especially if one has the good fortune to meet an enlightened one.
Being around someone who is enlightened is contagious, as they are 
vibrating the vibration of one who is beyond the ego- very rare.
It's called Darshan in India, and to be in the darshan of a high 
being, is an honor and a blessing.

But eventually, if you are to become enlightened yourself,
You have to take the final leap, yourself.
And if you have a good guru, he or she will push you, when you are 
ready.




[FairfieldLife] Joni Mitchell, my idol

2007-10-06 Thread Bronte Baxter
 
  Turq:
  I ran into Joni Mitchell a couple of times. Once is written up in one of the 
stories in
Road Trip Mind. The other was at a gathering with Yaqui medicine man 
Grandfather Cachora.
   
  Bronte:
  Joni MItchell was an icon of my youth. My idol. I memorized 90 percent of her 
song lyrics. I've only seen her in concert but she has always fascinated me. Is 
Road Trip Mind a book you wrote? I'd love it if you shared your experiences 
with her on the two occasions you met her, and your impressions of her. She 
came across in her songs as a lady of all heart yet great strength. She was the 
writer of Both Sides Now which Judy Collins made famous. Mitchell's words are 
sheer poetry. Here are some of my favorite lines from her lyrics, that I still 
remember by heart:
   
  From Chelsea Morning:
   
  Woke up, it was a Chelsea morning, and the first thing that I heard
  Was a song outside my window, and the traffic wrote the words.
  It came ringing up like Christmas bells and rapping up like pipes and drums!
  Won't you stay, we'll put on the day and we'll wear it til the night comes.
   
  Woke up, it was Chelsea morning, and the first thing that I saw 
  Was the sun through yellow curtains, and a rainbow on my wall.
  Blue red green and gold to welcome you, crimson-crystal beads to beckon!
  Won't you stay, we'll put on the day -- there's a sun show every second.
   
  Woke up, it was a Chelsea morning, and the first thing that I knew
  There was milk and toast and honey, and a bowl of oranges, too.
  And the sun poured in like butterscotch and stuck to all my senses!
  Won't you stay, we'll put on the day, and we'll talk in present tenses.
   
   
  Or how about her song Michael:
   
  Michael wakes you up with sweets. He takes you up streets, and the rain comes 
down.
  Sidewalk markets locked up tight, and umbrellas bright on a grey background.
  There's oil in the puddles in taffeta patterns that run down the drain
  In colored arrangements that Michael will change with a stick that he found.
   
  Michael takes you to a park. He sings, and it's dark, and the clouds come by.
  Yellow slickers up on swings like puppets on strings hanging in the sky.
  They'll splash home to suppers in wallpapered kitchens. Their mothers will 
scold.
  But Michael will hold you to keep away cold til the sidewalks are dry.
   
  Michael leads you up a stair. He needs you to care, and you know you do.
  Cats come crying to the key, and dry you will be, in a towl or two.
  There's rain in the window, there's sun in the painting that smiles on the 
wall.
  You want to know all, but his mountains have called, so you never do.
   
  Michael from mountains, go where you will go to. Know that I will know you.
  Someday I may know you very well.
   
  Okay, I'm getting carried away, but anyone who's read this far you may like 
to read more, so I'll type a couple more. How's this for an image conveying a 
world of meaning:
   
  Just before our love got lost, you said, I am as constant as a Northern 
Star,
  And I said, Constantly in the darkness. Where's that at? 
  If you want me, I'll be in the bar. 
  On the back of a cartoon coaster, in the blue TV-screen light
  I drew a map of Canada, with your face sketched on it twice.
  You're in my blood, you're my holy wine. You taste so bitter, and so sweet.
  Oh, I could drink a case of you, darlin',
  And still be on my feet. You know, I'd still be on my feet.
   
   
  Then there's this gem about a priest:
   
  The priest sat in the airport bar, 
  He was wearing his father's tie.
  And his eyes looked into my eyes so far 
  Whenever the words ran dry.
  Past the lash and the circle blue --  
  He looked as only a priest can: through.
  And his eyes said me, 
  And his eyes said you.
  And my eyes said, let us try.
   
  He said, You wouldn't like it here, no it's no place you could share.
  The roof is ripped with hurricanes and the room is always bare.
  He said, I need the wind and I seek the cold. 
  He reached past the wine for my hand hold.
  And he saw me young, 
  And he saw me old. 
  And he saw me sitting there.
   
  Well, now the trials are trumpet-scored, oh will we pass the test?
  Or just as one loves more and more, will one love less and less?
  Oh, come let's run from this ring we're in
  Where the Christians clap and the Germans grin --
  Crying let them lose, crying let them win.
  Oh, make them both confess.
   
   
  

TurquoiseB [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:
   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, TurquoiseB no_reply@ wrote:

 Joni Mitchell, For Free:
 http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QQM1JkiQgoc

This video was Joni in her youth. I've been 
traveling and working so much that I haven't
had a chance to pick up her new album (the
first in ten years), but I hope to soon. 
Here is the promo for it, and for two other
of her projects this year.

I ran into Joni Mitchell a couple of times.
Once is written up in one of the stories in
Road Trip Mind. The other 

Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: The Outlaw Path To Enlightenment

2007-10-06 Thread Bronte Baxter
  
snip
  But eventually, if you are to become enlightened yourself,
You have to take the final leap, yourself.
And if you have a good guru, he or she will push you, when you are 
ready.

   
  Well, nobody pushed Siddhartha. He broke with the gurus and found the flaw in 
what they were teaching. For that the world turned him into the Buddha and 
started a whole new dogmology based on him. Typical of the follower-type mind. 
  - Bronte
   

   
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[FairfieldLife] Re: P*rsian guy in BB!

2007-10-06 Thread bob_brigante
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, cardemaister [EMAIL PROTECTED] 
wrote:

 
 One of this year's contestants in Finnish Big Brother
 is Farbod from Irran.
 
 http://www.kuvaboxi.fi/bb/julkinen/279oi+big-brother-farbod.html
 
 He's been living in Finland for 8 years now.
 He told the other participants that he can't drink
 or smoke because of his religion.
 
 He's rather silent, but otherwise quite a funny feller.
 I was rather surprised when he told that visiting
 a ho*ker led him to not having an er*ction for a week,
 because to his surprise there was already another guy
 with a s*hlong of some 27 cm (10.629 inches),
 having a bl*w-job from the ho*ker that had huge
 sillycon bo*bies. 
 
 Well, perhaps there ain't actually no reason to 
 be surprised. He also quite often uses words
 like 'vittu' (= cvnt; means 'fvck!')...





Well, thank goodness that he's not one of those non-existent Iranian 
gays:

http://hamjens.com/



[FairfieldLife] Re: Joni Mitchell, my idol

2007-10-06 Thread TurquoiseB
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Bronte Baxter
[EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

  Turq:
  I ran into Joni Mitchell a couple of times. Once is written 
  up in one of the stories in Road Trip Mind. The other was at 
  a gathering with Yaqui medicine man Grandfather Cachora.

  Bronte:
 Joni MItchell was an icon of my youth. My idol. I memorized 
 90 percent of her song lyrics. I've only seen her in concert 
 but she has always fascinated me. Is Road Trip Mind a book 
 you wrote? I'd love it if you shared your experiences with 
 her on the two occasions you met her, and your impressions 
 of her. She came across in her songs as a lady of all heart 
 yet great strength. 

It's easier to see the strength these days. She
tends to keep her heart a little more hidden. In
the video I posted about Shine, you really see it
only in the last interview segment, about being
irrational. Triple Scorpio. Very intense. The RTM 
story is at: 

http://ramalila.net/RoadTripMind/rtm26.html

The evening with Cachora also got written up into 
a story, but it isn't on the Net. You no doubt know
her song Don Juan's Reckless Daughter? Suffice it
to say Joni had an affinity for Castaneda and his
vision of Yaqui spirituality. So she was curious
and outspoken when talking with one of the brujos
that Castaneda had actually studied with. It was
interesting to see that even though she clearly
considered him knowledgeable, she never took any-
thing he said as gospel; she was always ready to
challenge any statement that didn't seem right
to her. Interesting woman.





[FairfieldLife] Sam Harris on athiesm and mysticism

2007-10-06 Thread coshlnx
http://www.tinyurl.com/2q9oem

But certain people, for whatever reason, are led to suspect that there 
is more to human experience than this. In fact, many of them are led 
to suspect this by religion—by the claims of people like the Buddha or 
Jesus or some other celebrated religious figures. And such a person 
may begin to practice various disciplines of attention—often 
called meditation or contemplation—as a means of examining his 
moment to moment experience closely enough to see if a deeper basis of 
well-being is there to be found. 





Re: [FairfieldLife] Not A Pretty Girl

2007-10-06 Thread Bronte Baxter
Good song. But kittens don't always figure out how to get down. Some of them do 
starve in the tops of trees. Damsels sometimes are in distress, and heros 
sometimes rescue them. Remember Pretty Woman? Great story. She and he rescued 
each other. 
   
  As a woman who's been on my own a long time in the world, I relate to both 
sides of the equation. I can be one tough broad when I need to be. I kick ass. 
I'm the union steward, the defender of the underdog. I get my way. People don't 
mess with me. But there's another side, a vulnerable side, that doesn't often 
get to be expressed. Only when something tender is in the environment, making 
the atmosphere soft and safe, does that tender side come out.
   
  Edg is the kind of man who brings out that side in women. He once said to 
someone who wanted me off the forum, What if Bronte is the butterfly that will 
light on the idea-flowers of your mind? What a touching image, and one I don't 
deserve or live up to, but that Edg could think of a woman as potentially being 
like that touched my heart. It reminded me of that ethereal part of me that the 
kick-ass persona guards and hides. It is in every woman, even us liberated 
types. 
   
  In a world where women know they can't rely on anyone but themselves, we have 
learned to be tough as any man. But our hearts long for the kind of man who 
sees through the armour, who can honor and cherish the innocent little girl 
that never disappeared, that lives inside us, often forgotten even by us. I saw 
an embroidered pillow the other day that said Grandmas are just grown-up 
little girls. As Edg would say, like that.
   
  Edg is the old-fashioned prince-type, a hero without a respectable cause in 
this world that makes fun of causes and rescuings. To place oneself in his camp 
is to invite ridicule, as he is the subject of ridicule himself for his 
protective ways. He senses the sensitive, and the world tells him that doesn't 
exist. He's living in the Middle Ages. Women aren't like that anymore. But Edg 
is right. And the man who can see and value the softness in a woman, even the 
kick-ass ones, is the man who can win any woman's heart. 
   
  I once had a boyfriend who saw this in me for a limited period of time. He 
got scared of his powerful feelings, so he closed down his heart, and then his 
intuitive vision ebbed, naturally. He became an average guy, and we started 
having average-type problems. In time we broke up. But while our hearts were 
open, we had this wonderful vision of each other: that tenderest part of 
another's personhood, that level of the soul, the first sprouting of 
individuality. He and I called it the bear in each other. As in teddy bear. 
The bear became our symbol. 
   
  Because I've experienced this level, which is not universal ego but also not 
anything dependent on worldly content -- a spiritual entity in itself, a pure 
innocent personhood -- that's why I'm so adamant about the individual 
existing as whole and eternal and divine and good, a pure spirit within the 
mind of God. I'll never forget how that man made me feel, or how I felt about 
him. It was the realest, purest thing I've ever known. And losing it was the 
greatest loss of my life.
   
  So if Edg wants to tilt at windmills and stand up for delicate damsels that 
most people say don't exist, we women hear him and a tear wells up in our eye 
because we understand. I am not surprised he enjoys a relationship on the 
level of ritam with a woman, them finishing each other's sentences and 
experiencing one another's thoughts arising before they're spoken. A man with 
his vision of the tenderest side of human nature is capable of that kind of 
union and that kind of love. 
   
  Truly, as he says, the rest of us don't know jack about intimacy. And for 
all the glories of individual freedom, the glees of kicking ass and being 
independent, the delights of discovering nubile young folks half our age who 
show an interest in us -- nothing beats being loved for who you are by a person 
who will love you long after the dripping shakti of youth has dried up and 
left. 
   
  I saw The Nanny Diaries the other day, a movie partly about gorgeous women 
who marry the most prized men, and what happens to these folks. The men they 
married loved them for their youthful shakti. When it fades, the men look for 
their shakti somewhere else. I always envied these perfect women, but the 
film gave me a new perspective. I came to see their glory as short-lived, how 
they wind up as hurting as much as anyone else. 
   
  They thought they were loved by the best, so their love would last. But no 
one ever saw or loved their inner tender person. These poor women get tossed on 
the garbage heap by the time they're 40, as their husbands seek out and 
purchase a new and improved model of the same. I'll bet that never happens with 
Edg's girlfriend. As it never happens in those wonderful relationships we all 
admire, where the old man and old 

Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Joni Mitchell, my idol

2007-10-06 Thread Bronte Baxter
  Bronte wrote:
  She came across in her songs as a lady of all heart yet great strength. 

  Turq wrote:
It's easier to see the strength these days. She tends to keep her heart a 
little more hidden. 
   
  Bronte writes:
  Yeah. That started around the time she turned from writing folk to writing 
jazz. An edge, a hardness, came into her work that didn't resonate with me. I 
liked the soft center. For years I continued to buy her new albums, always 
being disappointed, then gave up and lost interest. But I understand the 
hardness. I've been there, too. It's just not the part of myself I like 
reflected in the music I listen to. Music is a way for me to find my own soft 
center, ya know?
   
  Turq wrote:
  The evening with Cachora also got written up into a story, but it isn't on 
the Net.
   
  Bronte writes:
  Any way of our seeing it?
   
  Truq wrote:
  You no doubt know her song Don Juan's Reckless Daughter? Suffice it to say 
Joni had an affinity for Castaneda and his vision of Yaqui spirituality. So she 
was curious and outspoken when talking with one of the brujos that Castaneda 
had actually studied with. It was interesting to see that even though she 
clearly
considered him knowledgeable, she never took anything he said as gospel; she 
was always ready to challenge any statement that didn't seem right to her.
   
  Bronte writes:
   
  Yes. Not surprising. Very cool. A self-made woman. I didn't know about the 
Castanada connection til you told me of it, though. (I went through a 
Castandada period, too.) I've spent the last couple hours catching up on Joni 
Mitchell, thanks to you. I LOVED your Road Trip story! Talk about being in the 
groove! Your friend Dakota sounds amazing. 
   
  But does he (do you) ride the wave of Tao with these synchronicities or are 
you creating the events by expecting them? The latter wouldn't be the case in 
instances like the girl who you gave the key to, as you didn't expect it, you 
just went somewhere on a hunch. But even in that case, was it she, in her need, 
who created the event? Dakota's certainty that he would run into Joni Mitchell 
could be explained as expectation creating reality. I wrote a ten-lesson course 
on that subject: Imaginate Your Way to a Better Life. 
   
  I don't deny the reality of Tao-surfing, though. If we create reality (and I 
think we do), we create it on those waves. All hail to the Tao and the magic of 
the moment! Thanks for some wonderful reading, Turq. 
   
  - Bronte 
   

   
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Re: [FairfieldLife] Sam Harris on athiesm and mysticism

2007-10-06 Thread Samadhi Is Much Closer Than You Think -- Really! -- It's A No-Brainer. Who'd've Thunk It?
Thank you very much for this. :-)

It demonstrates the eternal vigilance to hold to our
sincerity and doubt to assure both the personal and the
impersonal Ishvara are more fully reflected in our
thoughts, words and deeds and our attention is focused on
that Ishvara so that our efforts, socially expressed, do
not deteriorate into the very antithesis of progressing
toward subtler realms and the probable desideratum of all
life in the universe.

Many atheists constitute some of the most magnanimous
hearts and minds I've ever met.  Further forensics into the
lives of atheists and the continuum of atheism in the
myriad lives of each person who subscribes to it will
demonstrate that a period of atheism in their lifetime, for
many believers of nonbelief, will show that such periods
are as fasting from the extroversive ostentations that have
gone astray and substituted for true spiritual experience,
often substituting regressive, oppressive, suppressive and
repressive impostoring imitations of spirituality in the
sanctimonious theater of religiosity while camouflaging
predatious psycho-social cannibalizations of humanity.

While myopic minds and Muladhariis the world over may
belligerently bark their minimitis towards their perceived
ideological adversaries, the universe is a singular whole
complete within itself with truths, satya, that pervade all
things.  Moments of atheism in the evolution of beings is
just an exercise in discipline in pursuit of that same
satya to hold fast to their heart of sincerity and
veracity.

Even for those of us who trust in, if not certain of a
singularity pervading the universe, and for those of us who
have actually experienced samadhi and know the answer for
sure, we must respect the sincerity of these atheists and
the driving force they provide to keep society true and on
track towards more sublime thresholds of evolutionary
excellence for humanity and the world at large.

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On 10/6/07, coshlnx [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 http://www.tinyurl.com/2q9oem

 But certain people, for whatever reason, are led to suspect that there
 is more to human experience than this. In fact, many of them are led
 to suspect this by religion—by the claims of people like the Buddha or
 Jesus or some other celebrated religious figures. And such a person
 may begin to practice various disciplines of attention—often
 called meditation or contemplation—as a means of examining his
 moment to moment experience closely enough to see if a deeper basis of
 well-being is there to be found.





[FairfieldLife] Re: The Outlaw Path To Enlightenment

2007-10-06 Thread Ron
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Robert Gimbel [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

  (snip)
 
  That moment often is referred to by the enlightened as 
  the pivotal moment in their lives in which the seed of 
  realization was planted. It may not have actually been 
  *doing* the Something Else that caused realization, 
  but just making that decision to no longer be reliant 
  on Someone Else's Path in almost every case revealed 
  their *own* path to them. And that path led them home.
 
 
 This is good stuff- It is true you eventually have to 'find' it for 
 yourself- basically this is the philosophy of the 12-step programs- 
 that you need to find: 'Your own 'Higher Power'.
 Jesus claimed the same: Search within...
 Maharishi teaches the same: It's all within...
 
 Then there's the idea of 'old soul, young soul'...
 Some people aren't the least bit interested in any of this stuff of 
 enlightenment, as they are caught up in the more material side of 
 things: survival, position, possessions, not much time left for 
 anything spiritual.
 Then there's the one's that need to just follow one of the various 
 dogmas, of one the religions...
 Only problem is: all of the religions are generally based in a figure-
 head who was enlightened, but as was said, you can't get there, by 
 just being a 'Parrot'...quack, quack...
 
 Then there's the 'Jacobs Ladder Principle'...
 Have you ever noticed when you are speaking to someone,
 About some ecsorteric stuff, that they just sort of 'blank out',
 And didn't hear a word you said; have you ever noticed that for 
 yourself, at times: someone will have told you something, and you 
 completely blank out on what was said.
 Sometimes your not ready to hear what is being said.
 You can't skip steps in the Soul's evolution, it comes in steps, 
 lessons, trials and tribulations, pain, and joy.
 
 It's great to find a teacher, a guru, to hang with, and learn from.
 Especially if one has the good fortune to meet an enlightened one.
 Being around someone who is enlightened is contagious, as they are 
 vibrating the vibration of one who is beyond the ego- very rare.
 It's called Darshan in India, and to be in the darshan of a high 
 being, is an honor and a blessing.
 
 But eventually, if you are to become enlightened yourself,
 You have to take the final leap, yourself.
 And if you have a good guru, he or she will push you, when you are 
 ready.

I supose I can talk about my own experience. I was on my own because the way 
things 
were is not really like having a Guru compared to now. So this is new and the 
experience is  
good, There was rapid evolution this past year.

I am already old enough and enlightenment is not there, but now it looks 
possible and I 
can grasp the situation. I am more relaxed, and actually out of the dogma which 
I was in. I 
put myself there by non the less it was uncomfortable.

But about the doing it on your own, I have now been on both sides of the fence, 
the first 
side was 47 years, how much longer do i have to wait? the opportunity came up 
to be with 
a Guru and i gave it a shot.

I could care less about public opinion, I just took sanyas, shaved my head for 
the 
ceremony, was walking around LA in an orange dress and shirt- does that sound 
like one 
that is concerned with public opionion?

Why is it though that if I say it is the prebirth right that each person has 
this 
enlightenment, all would agreee, but if I say that also a Guru can come from 
any country 
and their dharshan would  be the same- oh n, it has to be indian or it cant 
be?

You know , i think most of the sadakas in my path are happy to have the Guru 
all to 
ourselfs because we know about the transformation and evolution that took 
place. The are 
like 15 sadakas reporting in , and one after the other talking about a stilled 
mind, etc.

Well, we know it is not right to hog the guru to ourselfs, so we offer it up 
all over the 
place, mostly it is rejected. The honest truth is I dont care. I am really 
happy to have this 
individual attention. I also am happy if people are interested but either way 
is quite fine.

Hridaya



RE: [FairfieldLife] Re: Joni Mitchell, my idol

2007-10-06 Thread Rick Archer
Just for the record, Henry Louie was Joni’s manager (or was it recording
engineer, Turq?). Henry and his wife Nadine were close to MMY in the early
days. I once heard a story that some starry-eyed fan got close enough to
Joni (who learned TM at some point) to say “Jai Guru Dev” and that Joni’s
response was “Fuck you.”


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[FairfieldLife] Re: Sam Harris on athiesm and mysticism

2007-10-06 Thread authfriend
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, coshlnx [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 http://www.tinyurl.com/2q9oem
 
 But certain people, for whatever reason, are led to suspect that 
 there is more to human experience than this. In fact, many of them
 are led to suspect this by religion—by the claims of people like 
 the Buddha or Jesus or some other celebrated religious figures. And 
 such a person may begin to practice various disciplines of 
 attention—often called meditation or contemplation—as a means 
 of examining his moment to moment experience closely enough to see 
 if a deeper basis of well-being is there to be found.

The talk from which this is taken is titled
The Problem with Atheism, and his discussion
of mysticism takes most of the second half of
it; I get the distinct sense it's what he most
wanted to convey.

He leads into the discussion very cleverly, in
such a down-to-earth, practical way that even
the most hard-core atheist rationalist materialist,
I suspect, would have a hard time objecting to it.
It's worth a read just to see how he does it (and
interestingly, his approach has much in common 
with the TM intro lecture).

Then toward the end, he writes:

As advocates of reason, we know that mystery is going to be with us 
for a very long time. Indeed, there are good reasons to believe that 
mystery is ineradicable from our circumstance, because however much 
we know, it seems like there will always be brute facts that we 
cannot account for but which we must rely upon to explain everything 
else. This may be a problem for epistemology but it is not a problem 
for human life and for human solidarity. It does not rob our lives of 
meaning. And it is not a barrier to human happiness. 

We are faced, however, with the challenge of communicating this view 
to others. We are faced with the monumental task of persuading a myth-
infatuated world that love and curiosity are sufficient, and that we 
need not console or frighten ourselves or our children with Iron Age 
fairy tales. I don't think there is a more important intellectual 
struggle to win; it has to be fought from a hundred sides, all at 
once, and continuously; but it seems to me that there is no reason 
for us to fight in well-ordered ranks, like the red coats of Atheism.

He comes *so close* in this essay to bridging
the gap between personal mystical experience
via meditation/contemplation and religion, but
in the end he refuses to make the leap,
dismissing religion as Iron Age fairy tales.

If only one of his hundred sides of this
intellectual struggle could involve a close study
of religious dogma *alongside* the reports of
mystical experience, to the point where it becomes
clear that the dogma in many if not most cases is
a metaphorical rendering of that very mystical
experience rather than Iron Age fairy tales
dreamed up in a vacuum.

Bottom line, once the real nature of the fairy
tales is understood, there will no longer be any
need to dismiss and disparage them.




Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: 5,000 years of religion in 90 seconds

2007-10-06 Thread Samadhi Is Much Closer Than You Think -- Really! -- It's A No-Brainer. Who'd've Thunk It?
I agree, Turquoise, though what about efforts to vanquish Buddhism, and what
about any lack of wars in the geography covered by Buddhism?  Surely we have
more to learn.


On 10/4/07, TurquoiseB [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, do.rflex [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:
 
  Animated Map - 5,000 years of religion in 90 seconds:
 
  http://mapsofwar.com/ind/history-of-religion.html

 Neat. I guess my only nitpick with it is the
 category they placed it in, Maps of War.

 To my knowledge (and someone can correct me
 if they think I'm wrong), the which animal
 doesn't fit with the others entry on this
 map is Buddhism. I don't think they've *ever*
 fought a war to spread Buddhism.



[FairfieldLife] Re: 5,000 years of religion in 90 seconds

2007-10-06 Thread Richard J. Williams
TurquoiseB wrote:
 I don't think they've *ever*
 fought a war to spread Buddhism.

Maybe not, but there have been wars in
Buddhist countries - India, Tibet, Sri 
Lanka, Vietnam, Burma, Thailand, Japan,
China, Java, Indonesia, Afghanistan,
Pakistan, and Korea. 



Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Joni Mitchell, my idol

2007-10-06 Thread Vaj


On Oct 6, 2007, at 7:37 PM, Rick Archer wrote:

Just for the record, Henry Louie was Joni’s manager (or was it  
recording engineer, Turq?). Henry and his wife Nadine were close to  
MMY in the early days. I once heard a story that some starry-eyed  
fan got close enough to Joni (who learned TM at some point) to say  
“Jai Guru Dev” and that Joni’s response was “Fuck you.”



Not surprising since one of her friends, Alan Ginsberg had discovered  
and exposed the Maharishi's phoniness many years ago (and IIRC  
correctly, Ginsberg published it in a newspaper).

[FairfieldLife] Re: 5,000 years of religion in 90 seconds

2007-10-06 Thread Richard J. Williams
 Animated Map - 5,000 years of religion in 90 seconds:
 
 http://mapsofwar.com/ind/history-of-religion.html

You need to get some smarts. There's no historical 
evidence that a 'Krishna' was born in India in 3000 
B.C. There's no evidence that an 'Abraham' gave birth 
to a tribe that invaded and conqured Canaan in 2000 
B.C. And, there's no historical evidence that a 
'Jesus' died in the year Zero. 

In fact, most wars are caused by tyrants who have 
no religion at all. It may be true that thousands 
of people in 5,000 years have died as a result of 
religious zealots, but that number is like nothing 
compared to the millions and millions of people who 
died at the hands of fanatics like Adolf Hitler, 
Joseph Stalin, Saddham Hussien or Pol Pot, in just 
a recent single century of modern history.



[FairfieldLife] Re: 5,000 years of religion in 90 seconds

2007-10-06 Thread authfriend
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Samadhi Is Much Closer Than 
You Think -- Really! -- It's A No-Brainer. Who'd've Thunk It? 
[EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 I agree, Turquoise, though what about efforts to vanquish Buddhism, 
and what
 about any lack of wars in the geography covered by Buddhism?  
Surely we have
 more to learn.
 
 
 On 10/4/07, TurquoiseB [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:
 
  --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, do.rflex do.rflex@ 
wrote:
  
   Animated Map - 5,000 years of religion in 90 seconds:
  
   http://mapsofwar.com/ind/history-of-religion.html
 
  Neat. I guess my only nitpick with it is the
  category they placed it in, Maps of War.
 
  To my knowledge (and someone can correct me
  if they think I'm wrong), the which animal
  doesn't fit with the others entry on this
  map is Buddhism. I don't think they've *ever*
  fought a war to spread Buddhism.

No, in fact Buddhism fits on this map just fine.

Maps of War isn't a category they placed that
map in; it's the name of the Web site. The category
the map was placed in is History of Religion
(which you can tell by looking at the URL).

The intro to the map says:

How has the geography of religion evolved over the centuries, and 
where has it sparked wars? Our map gives us a brief history of the 
world's most well-known religions: Christianity, Islam, Hinduism, 
Buddhism, and Judaism. Selected periods of inter-religious bloodshed 
are also highlighted.

Nowhere, of course, does the map show any
war fought to spread Buddhism (or Hinduism,
for that matter).

Always a good idea to look at something before
you start criticizing it.










[FairfieldLife] Re: The Outlaw Path To Enlightenment

2007-10-06 Thread Richard J. Williams
TurquoiseB wrote:
 Last night I rapped for a little while about outlaws 
 and why I like them, and the flack they sometimes get
 from others for living by no rules but their own. But
 there is another reason why I love outlaws. For me
 they are the perfect metaphor for the pathway to
 enlightenment.

Who are you running from? 
 
 In my considered opinion, *most* of the men and women 
 in human history who have realized their enlightenment 
 have done so by being outlaws. At some point in their
 lives they decided to stop following the advice or the
 laws of others, and follow only their own.

How would you be knowing about most of the men and women 
in human history when you've only lived Spain for two months? 
Sure, Socrates maybe broke the law by siding with the oligarchs,
but was he enlightened when he composed the Republic? I think 
not. And he drank the hemlock - a stupid thing to do if you're 
enlightened.
 
 You need look no further than the Buddha for an example.
 Yeah, he studied with a few teachers during his early
 days. But he rejected them all, and in the end wound
 up studying only with the Self.

Did the historical Buddha believe in a Self? 

 And that was all that was needed to realize the Self. 
 That is essentially his message, and in my opinion it 
 is still true, all these centuries later.
 
Can you cite any evidence that the historical Buddha 
believed in and taught the existence of a Self?
Surely you have read all the Buddha's recorded sermons.
Otherwise why would you make such a claim?

 Many in the spiritual community are *offended* by the
 idea of DIY (Do It Yourself). 

Guffaww!!! Yoga is the original DIY!

 They come up with all sorts of intellectual arguments 
 for how it isn't possible for a self to realize Self 
 all by itself. They repeat the stuff they've been told 
 (and, more often than not, *sold*) by teachers who told 
 them that they *needed* a teacher to realize who they 
 are. They go on and on like Ron does about how a guru 
 is essential, and how doing exactly what he or she says 
 is essential to become enlightened.

Barry, you need to stop the BS. You've spent almost your
entire adult life in and out of cults studying with one 
teacher after another. First it was Lobsang Rampa,
then the Marshy, then the Zen Master Rama - who knows
what cult you belong to today.
 
 Well, to echo Cuba Gooding, Jr. in Jerry Maguire, Show
 me the enlightenment!
 
 We were all told for years or decades within the TM move-
 to Just Follow Instructions. Do what we tell you to do
 and you'll become enlightened. Yeah, right. We all know
 how many people in the TM movement *that* worked for.
 
Weren't you the guy who handed out all the flyers promising
enlightenment in 5-7 years? What's up with that? 

 And then I look at other spiritual traditions and what I
 see is that the guys and gals who get written about *as*
 enlightened beings are the ones who *didn't* follow
 instructions, who *didn't* do exactly what they were 
 told to do. For the most part, the people whom history
 records as the enlightened were outlaws. For a while
 they tried doing things Somebody Else's Way, but in the 
 end the thing that enabled them to realize their enlight-
 enment was finding Their Own Way.

Like who? Most of the Buddhist teachers I've known or
read about all followed the teachings of the Buddha. I
guess you could call Chogyam Trungpa an outlaw, but he 
died at a premature age from riotous living - hardly a 
role model. But it's not against the law to drink a quart 
of whiskey and smoke two packs of Marlboro every day.
 
 I could go on and on and on, listing the enlightened of
 the past whose life stories suggest that they were outlaws. 
 It's pretty easy to do; there are far more of them than
 there are stories about people who realized enlightenment
 by doing what they were told.
 
'The Collected Works of Chögyam Trungpa'
Volume 5: Crazy Wisdom-Illusion's Game-The 
Life of Marpa the Translator (excerpts)-
The Rain of Wisdom (excerpts)-Mahamudra 
(excerpts)-Selected Writings
by Chogyam Trungpa
Shambhala, 2004 

 But instead, since I know that this is going to push
 some buttons, I'll ask those who still believe that one
 *can* become realized by doing what you're told to do
 (or that that's the *only* way you can realize enlight-
 enment) to provide some examples of this. Show me the
 enlightenment! Trot out some examples of someone follow-
 ing Someone Else's Path and getting enlightened by 
 doing what he or she was told to do.
 
The historical Buddha?

 We've certainly seen Ron trying to do this here, and I
 think we've all seen how believable his claims that all
 these people are poppin' into enlightenment are. I would
 suspect that there is not one person here who believes it.
 But *Ron* believes it, and obviously believes firmly
 that if he does everything he is told to do, for long
 enough, that enlightenment will be the result.  
 
 Different strokes for different folks, I guess. I'm not
 

[FairfieldLife] Re: TM in SF schools and others

2007-10-06 Thread off_world_beings
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Dick Mays [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote:

 Check out how still these middle-school students look during 
 meditation in the first link below, a 7-minute video.  To me it's 
 beautiful!
 
 
 The principal of an American public high school in San Francisco, 
 California has been awarded the prestigious title 'Principal of the 
 Year'. 

Is this a National top award for this Principal, or just a local 
thing?

OffWorld


The award was presented following a nationwide competition 
 encompassing principals from 30,000 schools. The students and 
faculty 
 at that school practice Transcendental Meditation, with daily group 
 meditations held during school hours. The comprehensive benefits of 
 the Transcendental Meditation Programme for students at all levels 
of 
 education have been extensively documented by scientific research.
 
 Applauding the principal's achievement, Dr John Konhaus, 
 Administrator of the Global Country of World Peace in California, 
 commented that his success would pave the way for the introduction 
of 
 Consciousness-Based Education throughout California. 
 
 
http://www.stressfreeschools.org/video/california_school.htmlhttp://
www.stressfreeschools.org/video/california_school.html 
 is a pretty cool video on the TM program at that school, and others.
 
 http://sfgate.com/cgi-bin/article.cgi?
f=/c/a/2007/09/29/BA6MSGFG3.DTLhttp://sfgate.com/cgi-bin/article.cgi?
f=/c/a/2007/09/29/BA6MSGFG3.DTL is 
 the newspaper article.





[FairfieldLife] Re: Off Done

2007-10-06 Thread off_world_beings
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, off_world_beings [EMAIL PROTECTED] 
wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Rick Archer rick@ wrote:
 
 Hey Off, 
Not trying to censor you, but you're up to 38 posts for the week.
You wasted a lot on those little one-liners. Please don't post any more 
until after Friday midnight.


Ok, no problem, the flamers Lurk, Turq, Kirk, Burt, Curt, and Squirt, 
have crumbled finally.

OffWorld




[FairfieldLife] Joni Mitchell's transmission of enlightenment

2007-10-06 Thread Vaj
There was some discussion a while back about Joni Mitchell  lyrics  
to Refuge of the Road. She captures very nicely the description of  
the state called in Tibetan, rigpa tsel wang, the transmission of the  
state of enlightenment, where the state of enlightenment is directly  
passed on to the student. In Joni's case, it lasted several days the  
first time, which is quite good--although not surprising coming from  
a Mahasiddha like Trungpa. But in any event, the song captures that  
state very accurately and poetically.  I found an interview in which  
she discusses several meetings with Trungpa  crazy wisdom POV:


Joni Mitchell
by Dimitri Ehrlich
Interview Magazine April 1991


How's the art world treating you?
Well, the thing about the art world is that everyone wants to  
pigeonhole the artists. And the problem I've run into is that to  
align my myself with a gallery means to really curtail my freedom. I  
paint in, like, four different styles, but they want you to get a  
recognizable style going, like Lichtenstein or something. But in a  
way, everything you appreciate goes into you and comes out sooner or  
later. It creates the mulch for later work.


I like that idea. Chogyam Trungpa, the Tibetan lame, once said that  
everything in life is fertilizer: you scatter it on the field of  
awakening. Rather than saying that everthing you hate about yourself  
is shit and that you're going to get rid of it.


He loved the word shit, didn't he?


Trungpa did some very weird things.
Oh, yeah. He was the bad boy of Zen. I wrote a song about a visit I  
made to him called Refuge of the Road. I consider him one of my  
great teachers, even though I saw him only three times. Once I had a  
fifteen-minute audience with him in which we argued. He told me to  
quit analyzing. I told him I couldn't - I'm an artist, you know. Then  
he induced into me a temporary state where the concept of I was  
absent, which lasted for three days.


Wow, that's very rare. Immediate transmission.
Immediate, and from then on it was my decision whether to make that  
my life. But you can't function from there as an artist.


Did you ever tell him how much you learned from him?
Yes. At the very end of Trungpa's life I went to visit him. I wanted  
to thank him. He was not well. He was green and his eyes had no  
spirit in them at all, which sort of stunned me, because the previous  
times I'd seen him he was quite merry and puckish - you know, saying  
shit a lot. I leaned over and looked into his eyes, and I said,  
How is it in there? What do you see in there? And this voice came,  
like, out of a void, and it said, Nothing. So, I want over and  
whispered in his ear, I just came to tell you that when I left you  
that time, I had three whole days without self conscious-ness, and I  
wanted to thank you for the experience. And he looked up at me, and  
all the light came back into his face and he goes, Really? And then  
he sank back into this black void again.


How would you sum up Trungpa's effect on your life?
Well, who knows? His particular lineage uses a teaching device that  
involves shocking you. Trungpa stopped me in my tracks. Made a space.  
Wham. He pushed back all this stuff, and it stayed pushed back for  
three days.


I once asked a Tibetan lama about duality. He just took my head in  
his hand and smacked our heads together. It was, like, bonk. He said,  
'You think too much.


You are a bright cookie, you know that? Your questions have almost  
been too cerebral for me.

Sorry. They have been a bit dense.
But on the other hand, I like what most might consider stupid questions.
As in, What's it like to be a singer?
Um, that's not a bad one. I could answer that.

Full interview cached at:  http://72.14.203.104/search? 
q=cache:KALBJTqVOXkJ:www.jmdl.com/articles/view.cfm%3Fid%3D132+Joni 
+Mitchell+Chogyam+Trungpahl=en





[FairfieldLife] Joni Mitchell's transmission of enlightenment

2007-10-06 Thread Vaj
There was some discussion a while back about Joni Mitchell  lyrics  
to Refuge of the Road. She captures very nicely the description of  
the state called in Tibetan, rigpa tsel wang, the transmission of the  
state of enlightenment, where the state of enlightenment is directly  
passed on to the student. In Joni's case, it lasted several days the  
first time, which is quite good--although not surprising coming from  
a Mahasiddha like Trungpa. But in any event, the song capture that  
state very accurately and poetically.  I found an interview in which  
she discusses several meetings with Trungpa  crazy wisdom POV:


Joni Mitchell
by Dimitri Ehrlich
Interview Magazine April 1991


How's the art world treating you?
Well, the thing about the art world is that everyone wants to  
pigeonhole the artists. And the problem I've run into is that to  
align my myself with a gallery means to really curtail my freedom. I  
paint in, like, four different styles, but they want you to get a  
recognizable style going, like Lichtenstein or something. But in a  
way, everything you appreciate goes into you and comes out sooner or  
later. It creates the mulch for later work.


I like that idea. Chogyam Trungpa, the Tibetan lame, once said that  
everything in life is fertilizer: you scatter it on the field of  
awakening. Rather than saying that everthing you hate about yourself  
is shit and that you're going to get rid of it.


He loved the word shit, didn't he?


Trungpa did some very weird things.
Oh, yeah. He was the bad boy of Zen. I wrote a song about a visit I  
made to him called Refuge of the Road. I consider him one of my  
great teachers, even though I saw him only three times. Once I had a  
fifteen-minute audience with him in which we argued. He told me to  
quit analyzing. I told him I couldn't - I'm an artist, you know. Then  
he induced into me a temporary state where the concept of I was  
absent, which lasted for three days.


Wow, that's very rare. Immediate transmission.
Immediate, and from then on it was my decision whether to make that  
my life. But you can't function from there as an artist.


Did you ever tell him how much you learned from him?
Yes. At the very end of Trungpa's life I went to visit him. I wanted  
to thank him. He was not well. He was green and his eyes had no  
spirit in them at all, which sort of stunned me, because the previous  
times I'd seen him he was quite merry and puckish - you know, saying  
shit a lot. I leaned over and looked into his eyes, and I said,  
How is it in there? What do you see in there? And this voice came,  
like, out of a void, and it said, Nothing. So, I want over and  
whispered in his ear, I just came to tell you that when I left you  
that time, I had three whole days without self conscious-ness, and I  
wanted to thank you for the experience. And he looked up at me, and  
all the light came back into his face and he goes, Really? And then  
he sank back into this black void again.


How would you sum up Trungpa's effect on your life?
Well, who knows? His particular lineage uses a teaching device that  
involves shocking you. Trungpa stopped me in my tracks. Made a space.  
Wham. He pushed back all this stuff, and it stayed pushed back for  
three days.


I once asked a Tibetan lama about duality. He just took my head in  
his hand and smacked our heads together. It was, like, bonk. He said,  
'You think too much.


You are a bright cookie, you know that? Your questions have almost  
been too cerebral for me.

Sorry. They have been a bit dense.
But on the other hand, I like what most might consider stupid questions.
As in, What's it like to be a singer?
Um, that's not a bad one. I could answer that.

Full interview cached at:  http://72.14.203.104/search? 
q=cache:KALBJTqVOXkJ:www.jmdl.com/articles/view.cfm%3Fid%3D132+Joni 
+Mitchell+Chogyam+Trungpahl=en





[FairfieldLife] Re: TM in SF schools and others

2007-10-06 Thread bob_brigante
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, off_world_beings [EMAIL PROTECTED] 
wrote:

 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Dick Mays dickmays@ wrote:
 
  Check out how still these middle-school students look during 
  meditation in the first link below, a 7-minute video.  To me it's 
  beautiful!
  
  
  The principal of an American public high school in San Francisco, 
  California has been awarded the prestigious title 'Principal of 
the 
  Year'. 
 



 Is this a National top award for this Principal, or just a local 
 thing?
 
 OffWorld
 


National, but for middle schools, not high schools as reported by 
TM's Global Good News:
http://abclocal.go.com/kgo/story?section=localid=5683935



[FairfieldLife] 'Lies, lies, lies, yeah-...'

2007-10-06 Thread Robert
  The Killing Silence of Alan Greenspan 
  by William Hughes
  (Wednesday, October 3, 2007) 
  
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  The Bush-Cheney Gang lied the country into the Iraq War. Now, Alan 
Greenspan, the ex-Chairman of the Board of Governors of the Federal Reserves, 
has admitted: “’Everyone’ knows the Iraq War was largely about oil!” Greenspan 
should be forced to testify, under oath, before a Grand Jury and/or the House 
Judiciary Committee about this amazing disclosure. The American people are 
entitled to the truth and the liars should be punished. 

  
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“Our lives begin to end the day we become ‘silent’ about things that 
matter.” 
  -- Martin Luther King, Jr. 
  He held one of the highest positions that can be bestowed on a public 
servant. I’m referring to Alan Greenspan, the former Chairman of the Board of 
Governors of the Federal Reserve (1987-2006). After leaving office, he penned a 
tell-all book that filled his pockets with mega-greenbacks. It’s entitled, “The 
Age of Turbulence.” In it, he made this shocking statement: “It is politically 
inconvenient to acknowledge what ‘everyone’ knows: the Iraq War is largely 
about oil.” Translation: Greenspan consciously chose to remain silent about 
what he now reveals was one of the true reasons for the Iraq War--oil! Why 
didn’t he resign his office and come clean with the American people that a 
massive fraud, a war based on serial lies, was being perpetrated on them by the 
Bush-Cheney Gang? [1] As of today’s date, 3,808 U.S. troop have died in that 
conflict. 
  Is Greenspan also suggesting that his fear of feeling “politically 
inconvenient,” was more important to him than exposing the cover story of the 
Bush-Cheney Gang’s rush to war as a lie? What did Greenspan mean, too, when he 
wrote that “everyone” knows that the Iraq War is “largely about oil?” Who in 
this present administration didn’t know the conflict was “largely about oil?” 
Were President George W. Bush, V.P. Dick Cheney, Donald Rumsfeld, Colin Powell, 
Condi Rice, John Bolton and Paul Wolfowitz all in the loop? Greenspan should be 
subpoenaed before a Federal Grand Jury and/or the House Judiciary Committee and 
required to give testimony under oath with respect to his amazing disclosure. 
It is a federal crime for President Bush, (and his V.P. Cheney, too), to lie to 
the U.S. Congress. Both of them have insisted repeatedly that the war in Iraq 
was about Saddam Hussein having WMDs, ties to al-Qaeda, and a connection to the 
9/11 tragedy. We now know their cover story was a
 smokescreen and a lie. (1) So, what were the real reasons for the war? The 
American people are entitled to straight answers and the liars deserve to be 
severely punished. 
  In fact, H. Res. 333, authored by Rep. Dennis J. Kucinich (D-OH), which calls 
for the impeachment of the grossly callous Cheney, now has 21 sponsors. In 
Article 1 of that historic document, it is charged that Cheney, Halliburton’s 
favorite gofer, deliberately fabricated “a threat of Iraqi weapons of mass 
destruction” in order to justify the invasion, destruction and occupation of 
that beleaguered country. [2] It is estimated that a million Iraqis have died 
in that blood stained conflict and that another 3.7 million have been made 
refugees. It is arguable that the Iraq War is a “War of Aggression” under the 
holdings of the Nuremberg Tribunal, and that it constitutes a “War Crime.” [3] 
  Rep. Kucinich has also attacked the dastardly scheme of the Bush-Cheney Gang 
to “privatize” Iraq’s huge oil reserves. Under the plot, about 65 percent of 
Iraq’s oil would go to the global oil companies, especially the U.S. and the 
British-based ones. He has labeled it “a theft” and a “War Crime.” [4] Rep. 
Kucinich has been supported in his efforts to block this skullduggery by many 
Iraqi Oil Workers, the AFL-CIO and U.S. Labor Against the War. [5] 
  Back to Greenspan. If he is required to testify under oath--and I think he 
should be--and if his testimony shows that Cheney was one of the culprits who 
knew the war was “largely about oil,” it could begin a steamroll in the House 
of Representatives for the V.P.’s impeachment, and eventual removal from public 
office for committing “High Crimes and Misdemeanors.” Cheney, after his ouster, 
might also face a criminal indictment, and if convicted, imprisonment. If 
anything, the House’s passage of “Article of Impeachment” against Cheney could 
stop this criminally reckless administration from nuking Iran and starting 
WWIII. [6] 
  Another question comes up: How could Greenspan sleep at night knowing that so 
much death and mayhem in Iraq was happening, not because of a purported need 
for “regime change,” but because a Special Interest, “Big Oil,” wished to 
enrich its bottom line? And, what exactly did Greenspan mean when he said the 
Iraq War was “largely” about oil? What else did he know it was about? When I 
mention Special Interests, 

[FairfieldLife] Gordon Michael Scalllion on the next president

2007-10-06 Thread m2smart4u2000
CK: Who will be the next U.S. President?

GMS:If there are no new entries into the field then Lincoln shall 
return and occupy the White House again.

CK:Do you want to tell us who Lincoln is?

GMS: Obama