Re: Conversation Topic - Abortion

2004-06-06 Thread BethF
"you" was generic! pro-choice doesnt' dictate anyone elses morality - calling abortion murder calls it that for all people - i.e. says its a wrong choice for more than just myself.   - Original Message -   From: dana tierney   To: CF-Community   Sent: Sunday, June 06, 2004 9:54 PM   Subj

Re: Conversation Topic - Abortion

2004-06-06 Thread dana tierney
I don't know if your "you" here" explicitly means me. If so, then I am not totally sure it would be murder, though I include that way. It's again a matter of definition. But I very carefully don't impose my views on others  when I say that my religious views are irrelevant to a discussion of social

RE: A question

2004-06-06 Thread Larry C. Lyons
Why, his dumbass decisions seem to do a good enough job. How many American casualties in his completely unnecessary war to date?  800 or so? >Repeat. > >Don't you have any new material to abuse Bush? >    > > > [Todays Threads] [This Message] [Subscription] [Fast Unsubscribe] [User Set

RE: A question

2004-06-06 Thread Andy Ousterhout
Repeat.   Don't you have any new material to abuse Bush? [Todays Threads] [This Message] [Subscription] [Fast Unsubscribe] [User Settings]

Re: Conversation Topic - Abortion

2004-06-06 Thread BethF
I am pro-choice - i think your choice to have a severely handicapped child is as valid as mine not to. By calling my choice "murder" (which is illegal) thats imposing your religious or moral views upon me.   - Original Message -   From: dana tierney   To: CF-Community   Sent: Sunday, Jun

RE: Conversation Topic - Abortion

2004-06-06 Thread Philip Arnold
> From: Monique Boea > > How about preventing pregnancy altogether if you're not ready? You do know that no contraception is 100% effective apart from abstinance, right? You can't expect every young person to abstain from sex in this day and age - the whole society would have to change, and that

RE: Conversation Topic - Abortion

2004-06-06 Thread Philip Arnold
> From: John Stanley > > If you are > pregnant and you choose to end the pregnancy by abortion, > then you are murdering your child. To me, life begins upon > conception. If you follow this logic through - if a woman has a miscarriage or a still birth, then they are responsible for the "death"

Re: Conversation Topic - Abortion

2004-06-06 Thread dana tierney
Tough call. Not sure what I would do. A lot would depend on the stage of the pregnancy and the stage of the cancer. I have been thinking about my own choices in pregnancy -- I was pretty committed to having the baby already when the issues showed up but had I said oh hell no I am pretty sure I wo

Re: Conversation Topic - Abortion

2004-06-06 Thread dana tierney
yes and there are people out there who think that it is. It breaks down of course when you realize that by this logic all women have a duty to stay pregnant at all times. Dana > By this logic a woman with an iud is murdering, because it doesnt' > prevent fertilization, just the egg from implanti

Re: Conversation Topic - Abortion

2004-06-06 Thread dana tierney
My friend Sam was once in this situation -- pregnant by a father who wanted a baby she did not. They had already broken up. She had the baby. He raised it. But the fact that they made it work doesnt mean that everybody could. If she had been unwilling to deal with being pregnant? The ethical issues

Re: Conversation Topic - Abortion

2004-06-06 Thread BethF
Its all her decision.   Its not my body, or my fetus. I recently watched a tv program where labor was induced early so the mother could begin chemotherapy.  It was a sad show.  She found out about the breast cancer after she concieved.   I personally would have aborted the fetus and started chemo

Re: Conversation Topic - Abortion

2004-06-06 Thread dana tierney
how so? > Except that the view that abortion is murder and should be illegal is > inherently imposed on others, I think. [Todays Threads] [This Message] [Subscription] [Fast Unsubscribe] [User Settings]

Re: Conversation Topic - Abortion

2004-06-06 Thread BethF
There is not equality in men and birth, Ken, I agree.  I do not see a fair solution, however.  So I choose not to have a strong opinion about it.     - Original Message -   From: Ken Ketsdever   To: CF-Community   Sent: Friday, June 04, 2004 8:57 AM   Subject: FW: Conversation Topic - A

Re: Conversation Topic - Abortion

2004-06-06 Thread dana tierney
'sok, just glad the confusion is cleared up. I wasn't sure, as I had said something similar. > I am sorry!! I didn't nmean to mis-attribute!!!    > - Original Message -    > From: dana tierney    > To: CF-Community    > Sent: Saturday, June 05, 2004 9:12 AM    > Subject: Re: Conversatio

Re: Conversation Topic - Abortion

2004-06-06 Thread dana tierney
> I believe in reserving the right of anti-abortionists to picket > abortion practicioners offices.  I think its fine and I also think it > offers the women who are going to have abortions some balance.   I agree even though they annoy me. Largely these are personal things - After a year and hal

Re: Conversation Topic - Abortion

2004-06-06 Thread BethF
"Bottom line is that all of our takes are good for us, but should not be imposed on others." Except that the view that abortion is murder and should be illegal is inherently imposed on others, I think.     - Original Message -   From: Michael Dinowitz   To: CF-Community   Sent: Friday,

Re: Conversation Topic - Abortion

2004-06-06 Thread BethF
"I'm sure that some people could take the "spilling of your seed" quote and run with it saying that masturbation should be illegal because sperm have the potential for creating life.  " By this logic a woman with an iud is murdering, because it doesnt' prevent fertilization, just the egg from impl

Re: Conversation Topic - Abortion

2004-06-06 Thread BethF
What about the other scenarios? What about the scenario where the mothers life is in danger?   - Original Message -   From: Monique Boea   To: CF-Community   Sent: Friday, June 04, 2004 7:05 AM   Subject: RE: Conversation Topic - Abortion   What about the rights of the baby?   I believ

Re: Conversation Topic - Abortion

2004-06-06 Thread BethF
I am sorry!! I didn't nmean to mis-attribute!!!   - Original Message -   From: dana tierney   To: CF-Community   Sent: Saturday, June 05, 2004 9:12 AM   Subject: Re: Conversation Topic - Abortion   Unless I have been sleep-posting while possessed by anti-abortion protesters :) I don't t

Re: Conversation Topic - Abortion

2004-06-06 Thread BethF
If you don't have a better solution, then perhaps you should keep your extremeist view to yourself until you do.  Not everyone who has an abortion did so because they were irresponsible.  Birth control methods FAIL. We are currently trying to have a kid.  One of the things I made very clear to my

Re: Conversation Topic - Abortion

2004-06-06 Thread dana tierney
He's an agnostic. Viability is a reasonable place to draw a line, if you want my opinion. You could quarrel with this if so inclined, but let's not. What, in your opinion, should happen post-viability if the mother wants an abortion or wants to do something that poses a risk to the baby? Chemothera

fraudulent drug information?

2004-06-06 Thread dana tierney
I don't know if this is of concern to anyone here but me, but apparently NY is suing the makers of Paxil over inaccurate information provided to doctors. http://www.ecommercetimes.com/story/34197.html I have a kid who was taking SSRI's last year -- not Paxil though -- and it would be really nice

Re: Conversation Topic - Abortion

2004-06-06 Thread BethF
I believe in reserving the right of anti-abortionists to picket abortion practicioners offices.  I think its fine and I also think it offers the women who are going to have abortions some balance.   I don't consider a fetus a child.  We are working on getting pregnant NOW and I assure you i will n

Re: Conversation Topic - Abortion

2004-06-06 Thread BethF
And John, do you have a religion? To me its common sense that a fetus that lives inside its mother and cannot live outside is NOT a baby.   - Original Message -   From: John Stanley   To: CF-Community   Sent: Saturday, June 05, 2004 3:48 PM   Subject: RE: Conversation Topic - Abortion  

Re: Harry Potter & Prisoner of Azkaban

2004-06-06 Thread ColdFusion Developer
As well I don't recall Hagrid's cottage being so far from the castle. If you recall in the first two it was right near by.   - Original Message -   From: Jeffry Houser   To: CF-Community   Sent: Sunday, June 06, 2004 11:13 AM   Subject: Harry Potter & Prisoner of Azkaban   I saw the new

survey results

2004-06-06 Thread Larry C. Lyons
In  a worldwide survey conducted by the UN, the only question asked was: "Would you please give your honest opinion about solutions to the food shortage in the rest of the world?"      THE SURVEY WAS A HUGE FAILURE:  In Africa they didn't know what "food" meant.  In Eastern Europe th

Re: A question

2004-06-06 Thread Greg Landers
>> Would you select colour film, or rather go with the simplicity of >> classic black and white? Colour definitely! hehe - Greg [Todays Threads] [This Message] [Subscription] [Fast Unsubscribe] [User Settings]

Re: A question

2004-06-06 Thread Maureen
At 12:37 PM 6/6/04, Larry wrote: >Would you select colour film, or rather go with the simplicity of >classic black and white? I'm a big fan of digital photography myself. [Todays Threads] [This Message] [Subscription] [Fast Unsubscribe] [User Settings]

A question

2004-06-06 Thread Larry C. Lyons
A friend forwarded this to me: -- This test only has one question, but it's a very important one. Please don't answer it without giving it some serious thought. By giving an honest answer you will be able to test where you stand morally. The test features an unlikely, completely fictional situ

Re: Conversation Topic - Abortion

2004-06-06 Thread dana tierney
Do you still volunteer on that crisis pregnancy line? You would know then if access is an issue. Even when it is not though, unwanted pregnancy is still a possibility, is all I am saying. Dana >Doug, I agree except contraception does the same thing so much better. >However, saying that a means of

Harry Potter & Prisoner of Azkaban

2004-06-06 Thread Jeffry Houser
I saw the new Harry Potter movie.   I think it was the best movie yet; definitely a must see for fans of the series.   While it touched on all the important plot points of the book, it felt like a lot of the little details were left out.  In many ways the movie flowed better than the previous t

RE: Controversial Topics

2004-06-06 Thread Larry C. Lyons
>  >As mentioned here's the URL to that gun control article: >  >http://www.cfc-ccaf.gc.ca/en/research/publications/reports/1990-95/reports/gab_rpt.asp#8.1%20Firearm%20Ownership%20in%20Canada >> >  >larry Here's an updated report that's a followup to the above research. http://www.cfc-ccaf.gc.ca/e

Re: Conversation Topic - Abortion

2004-06-06 Thread Doug White
Doug, I agree except contraception does the same thing so much better. However, saying that a means of contraception is 99% effective still means that someone gets to be the lucky 1% and then all my above comments apply. It's a decision that commits the mother for a minimum of nine months and more

RE: Controversial Topics

2004-06-06 Thread Larry C. Lyons
>As mentioned here's the URL to that gun control article: >http://www.cfc-ccaf.gc.ca/en/research/publications/reports/1990-95/reports/gab_rpt.asp#8.1%20Firearm%20Ownership%20in%20Canada > >larry >-- Sorry about that, forgot to include the tiny url for the wrap challenged: http://www.houseoffusion

RE: Controversial Topics

2004-06-06 Thread Larry C. Lyons
As mentioned here's the URL to that gun control article: http://www.cfc-ccaf.gc.ca/en/research/publications/reports/1990-95/reports/gab_rpt.asp#8.1%20Firearm%20Ownership%20in%20Canada larry -- Larry C. Lyons Life is Complex. It has both r

Re: Conversation Topic - Abortion

2004-06-06 Thread dana tierney
I am not sure the intention of the mother is a guide enough. What about the one who meant to have an abortion and waited too long? I feel pretty sorry for the kid, and hope she puts him up for adoption, but... at let's say the seventh month of pregnancy it isn't not a child because the mother prefe

Re: Conversation Topic - Abortion

2004-06-06 Thread dana tierney
Doug, I agree except contraception does the same thing so much better. However, saying that a means of contraception is 99% effective still means that someone gets to be the lucky 1% and then all my above comments apply. It's a decision that commits the mother for a minimum of nine months and more

Re: Conversation Topic - Abortion

2004-06-06 Thread dana tierney
>abortions were prohibited. But that is really a moot point, because it's a >seperate issue I guess. Well, no, it's not. Not if you are the mother. I think it is ok to have an emotional reaction; it's an emotional issue. But you (and I, and everyone else arguing from emotion here) have to realiz