mbak, rasul memang tidak pernah memukul istrinya... paling istrinya yang berkomplot didiemin... ada yang membentak anaknya sendiri, malah dibales sama rasul dibentak juga...
Tapi Al-Quran bilang: "jika khawatir istrinya nusyuz (baru khawatir loh) silahkan pukul..." Lalu hadits malah nyuruh "mukul kalo anak nggak sholat" atau "njewer anak-anak yang makan anggur buat rasul" tapi rasul nggak pernah ngasih contoh... Jadinya gimana dong? ;-)) ----- Original Message ----- From: Tri Budi Lestyaningsih (Ning) To: wanita-muslimah@yahoogroups.com Sent: Wednesday, October 29, 2008 8:43 AM Subject: RE: [wanita-muslimah] Fatwa: Istri Korban KDRT, LAWAN! Apakah Rasul pernah memukul isterinya, mas ? -----Original Message----- From: wanita-muslimah@yahoogroups.com [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] On Behalf Of Ary Setijadi Prihatmanto Sent: Wednesday, October 29, 2008 9:36 AM To: wanita-muslimah@yahoogroups.com Subject: Re: [wanita-muslimah] Fatwa: Istri Korban KDRT, LAWAN! mbak, Ulama yang bilang begitu itu ulama liberal termasuk golongan sepilis Jadi jangan percaya begitu.... Bentar lagi mereka akan didemo FPI. Apakah diberi contoh oleh rasul? Apakah ummul mukminin memberi contoh? Dalam soal kekerasan model begini, bukankah contohnya itu malah istri Abu Sofyan yang membayar budak untuk membunuh hamzah dan memakan hatinya? jadi kelakuan orang kafir... soal pukul memukul, posisi yang syar'i itu laki-laki mukul.... perempuan yang dipukul... ;-) ----- Original Message ----- From: Trulee Khadija To: wanita-muslimah@yahoogroups.com Cc: [EMAIL PROTECTED] ; [EMAIL PROTECTED] Sent: Wednesday, October 29, 2008 5:38 AM Subject: Re: [wanita-muslimah] Fatwa: Istri Korban KDRT, LAWAN! Nah.. kalo udah baca artikel ini.. jadi tau kan, bahwa Islam SANGAT menghargai keberadaan wanita sebagai mahluk Allah yang HARUS diperlakukan secara pantas. Kadang saya suka miris dengan kaum feminis yang senang berteriak2 ttg kesetaraan gender. Apanya sih sebenarnya yang mereka tuntut? Apabila hukum Allah diterapkan, maka dunia akan menjadi tempat yg paling tenang bagi kaum wanita. PERCAYALAH :) On 10/28/08, Dwi Soegardi <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > Syekh Al-Azhar memfatwakan istri yang dianiaya oleh suami, berhak melawan. > Dipukul balas pukul. > > Sedangkan ulama Turki Fethullah Gulen melangkah lebih jauh, istri > berhak membalas penganiayaan suami plus bunganya. > Dipukul sekali balas pukul dua kali. > > http://www.arabtimesonline.com/kuwaitnews/pagesdetails.asp?nid=24044&cci d=18 > > Egypt sheikh backs women's right to beat husbands > > > CAIRO, Oct 27, 2008 (AFP) - Sunni Islam's highest authority has > approved a woman's right to fight back if her husband uses violence > against her, Egypt's Al-Masry al-Youm newspaper reported on Monday. > > The declaration by Sheikh Abdel Hamid al-Atrash, who heads Al-Azhar > University's committee for fatwas or religious rulings, comes after > similar rulings by religious leaders in Saudi Arabia and Turkey. > > 'A wife has the legitimate right to hit her husband in order to defend > herself,' Atrash was quoted as saying. > > 'Everyone has the right to defend themselves, whether they are a man > or a woman... because all human beings are equal before God,' he said. > > Over the last few days, Saudi Sheikh Abdel Mohsen al-Abyakan stressed > the fact that a wife should resort to 'the same kind of violence' as > her husband used against her, whether it be with a leather strap or a > wire cable, the paper said. > > Prominent Turkish Muslim preacher and writer Fethullah Gulen went one > step further and ruled that a woman should return the violence with > interest. > > 'She should give back two blows for each one received,' the paper > quoted him as saying. > > Rights groups quoted by Amnesty International say that 35 percent of > Egyptian women killed each year die as a result of domestic violence. > ---------------------------------------------------------- ------ No virus found in this incoming message. Checked by AVG. Version: 7.5.549 / Virus Database: 270.8.4/1751 - Release Date: 27/10/2008 22:44 [Non-text portions of this message have been removed] ------------------------------------ ======================= Milis Wanita Muslimah Membangun citra wanita muslimah dalam diri, keluarga, maupun masyarakat. Situs Web: http://www.wanita-muslimah.com ARSIP DISKUSI : http://groups.yahoo.com/group/wanita-muslimah/messages Kirim Posting mailto:wanita-muslimah@yahoogroups.com Berhenti mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] Milis Keluarga Sejahtera mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] Milis Anak Muda Islam mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] This mailing list has a special spell casted to reject any attachment ....Yahoo! Groups Links ------------------------------------------------------------------------------ No virus found in this incoming message. Checked by AVG. Version: 7.5.549 / Virus Database: 270.8.4/1751 - Release Date: 27/10/2008 22:44 [Non-text portions of this message have been removed]
