Re: [TMIC] relationships with TM

2009-06-19 Thread jrushton
You are welcome as sunshine! j ---Original Message--- From: Catherine Date: 6/19/2009 12:00:45 PM To: jrushton Subject: Re: [TMIC] relationships with TM Thank you Jeanne. Since I have been reading the email regarding relationships and all that many of you have been through...my

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2009-06-18 Thread jrushton
with us better! But we're always here for you through the good and the bad. Jeanne ---Original Message--- From: Kevin Wolfthal Date: 6/12/2009 8:06:34 PM To: tmic-list@eskimo.com Subject: Re: [TMIC] Relationships Never having been married, but always wanting a family, TM took away

Re: [TMIC] relationships with TM

2009-06-18 Thread jrushton
You are in my prayers big time...both of you..Jeanne ---Original Message--- From: Catherine Date: 6/12/2009 6:59:49 PM To: ladyno...@aol.com Cc: Transverse Mylitis Group Subject: Re: [TMIC] Oh Naomi, My hearts hurts so bad for both of us. The physical rejection is more than anyone

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2009-06-18 Thread Janice
mother's life. I bet she is so proud. Janice - Original Message - From: jrushton To: Kevin Wolfthal ; tmic Sent: Thursday, June 18, 2009 8:23 PM Subject: Re: [TMIC] Relationships Oh, Kevin, I wish things were better for you. I don't know how old you

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2009-06-16 Thread Janice
: Re: [TMIC] Relationships I believe in Karma, but it makes me ask myself..did I do something bad and my Karma caused me to get TM? I've tried to live my life with the Golden Rule, but I've made lots of mistakes. Anyway..I figured out what John Lennon's song 'Instant Karma' meant, awhile

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2009-06-15 Thread LadyNotes
Kevin, I also believe in Karma and also tried to live my life according to the golden rule. Which makes me wonder, if I did something so bad to someone, that I would end up in this situation. If I made any mistakes that warrant this, I would remember. It's hard to say that people reap

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2009-06-15 Thread Lawrence King
I believe karma is strictly an interpersonal thing and that there are many factors in the world which are driven by the nature of our universe. Good and bad things happen with out regard to who it affects. Karma had nothing to do with the plague, the 2004 tsunami, the 1918 flu pandemic,

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2009-06-13 Thread Kevin Wolfthal
Dan, Bless you for your kind words. May you find the strength to get through this difficult time. You and your family remain in my thoughts and prayers. Kevin montzma...@aol.com wrote: oh kevin. i can not think of the words to speak to you. that's terrible. may god bless you to find

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2009-06-13 Thread Kevin Wolfthal
than me. I transfered and am much happier. --Original Message-- From: Kevin Wolfthal To: tmic-list@eskimo.com Subject: Re: [TMIC] Relationships Sent: Jun 12, 2009 8:06 PM Never having been married, but always wanting a family, TM took away even my desire for that. My relationships

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2009-06-13 Thread Kevin Wolfthal
Akua, I am sorry that you are going through these difficulties. I had to get my state involved to get a wheelchair curb cut put in front of my condo complex. The building resents me because it cost money, even though they were breaking the law. Kevin Akua wrote: My relationships, most

RE: [TMIC] Relationships

2009-06-13 Thread Patricia Cooley
AND NOT FOR THE BETTER. PATTTI - WISCONSIN - TIAD From: Todd Tarno [mailto:toddtm2...@sbcglobal.net] Sent: Friday, June 12, 2009 3:01 PM To: transverse myelitis; Janice Subject: Re: [TMIC] Relationships TM has made Billy mines relationship stronger. I did ask him when TM hit ( when we

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2009-06-13 Thread Jan Hargrove
myelitis; Janice Subject: Re: [TMIC] Relationships   TM has made Billy  mines relationship stronger.   I did ask him when TM hit ( when we knew it was going to be a long road to recovery ) and we had only been together for 5 years he hadn't signed up for this, Do you want to stay together

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2009-06-13 Thread Patricia Cooley
DAUGHTERS. TAKE CARE AND TIAD PATTI - WISCONSIN From: Jan Hargrove [mailto:jmh1...@sbcglobal.net] Sent: Saturday, June 13, 2009 12:24 PM To: 'transverse myelitis'; Patricia Cooley Subject: RE: [TMIC] Relationships Frank does so much..he makes certain I don't overdo, he's

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2009-06-13 Thread Kevin Wolfthal
Akua, The laws regarding handicapped parking don't go far enough imo, and there should be state inspections of buidings like mine, (a high-rise condo complex), to make sure they are meeting code. There is exactly ONE handicapped parking space on my street for approx. 200 condominiums. I

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2009-06-13 Thread kimr1999
Ok not the same issue but here one of my gripes I am in a wheel chair on a business trip in LA, the hotel puts me on the 16th floor in a ‘wheel char accessible room” ok now tell me how am I to get to the ground floor if something were to happen? Can’t use the elevator, hum am I supposed

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2009-06-13 Thread Janice
- From: kimr1...@bellsouth.net To: Kevin Wolfthal ; Akua ; tmic-list@eskimo.com Sent: Saturday, June 13, 2009 9:08 PM Subject: Re: [TMIC] Relationships Ok not the same issue but here one of my gripes I am in a wheel chair on a business trip in LA, the hotel puts me

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2009-06-13 Thread Akua
To date hotel has yet to make any kind of change in wheel chair accessible rooms I wrote a letter to the corporate office but never heard back from them. This sounds like a good one for the Disablity Coalition or Reeves Foundation to take on... Ok not the same issue but here one of my

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2009-06-13 Thread Janice
Hargrove' ; 'transverse myelitis' Sent: Saturday, June 13, 2009 2:04 PM Subject: RE: [TMIC] Relationships JAN I USE MINE TO CARRY ALSO. BUT, I ALSO HAVE A TRAY THAT I CAN PUT ON MY REGULAR WALKER TO CARRY STUFF. IN THE BEGINNING, I HAD TO SIT ON THE SEAT IF I WANTED TO DO ANY COOKING

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2009-06-13 Thread Janice
DO WITHOUT HIM AND MY DAUGHTERS. TAKE CARE AND TIAD PATTI - WISCONSIN From: Jan Hargrove [mailto:jmh1...@sbcglobal.net] Sent: Saturday, June 13, 2009 12:24 PM To: 'transverse myelitis'; Patricia Cooley Subject: RE: [TMIC] Relationships Frank does so much

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2009-06-13 Thread Janice
wolft...@optonline.net To: rj_ran...@yahoo.com; tmic-list@eskimo.com Sent: Saturday, June 13, 2009 6:05 AM Subject: Re: [TMIC] Relationships When TM hit me, I kept working until I no longer could. In fact I pushed myself even harder than before..probably a mistake. My boss said once, what's

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2009-06-13 Thread kimr1999
much grief ended up with worse problems. Wonder where that came from?! Janice - Original Message - From: "Kevin Wolfthal" <wolft...@optonline.net> To: <rj_ran...@yahoo.com>; <TMIC-LIST@ESKIMO.COM> Sent: Saturday, June 13, 2009 6:05 AM Subject: Re: [TMIC] Rela

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2009-06-12 Thread Todd Tarno
TM has made Billy  mines relationship stronger.   I did ask him when TM hit ( when we knew it was going to be a long road to recovery ) and we had only been together for 5 years he hadn't signed up for this, Do you want to stay together or not ?   He was so bad at me for even asking the

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2009-06-12 Thread Kevin Wolfthal
Never having been married, but always wanting a family, TM took away even my desire for that. My relationships, most friends disappeared. Relatives act like TM is contagious. Only my Mom has stayed constant. I help her the best I can, (she'll be 86 next week), and this has been a scary

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2009-06-12 Thread Akua
My relationships, most friends disappeared. For me, too and the few that stepped up flew in from far far away and couldn't stay. One saved my life. But so so so sad that she could fly across country to help and my family, in the same state, didn't. Those of you who have had family and