[ozmidwifery] CROSS POST : signing off for a while

2003-02-23 Thread rem melissa bruijn
Title: CROSS POST : signing off for a while Well - I'm going off-air for a while...and I will miss you all. I have decided I need to commit more time to the lifestyle changes needed to get my fertility back on track. I have only had one period in the last year, and I am feeling the strain

Re: [ozmidwifery] mums community - Melbourne

2003-02-20 Thread rem melissa bruijn
Title: Re: [ozmidwifery] mums community - Melbourne Pinky - can I fly down to Melbourne every week for this? I am green with envy! Hey - maybe I can start up one here in Brisbane! -- Melissa Birthtalk : Sharing, Empowering, Celebrating Birth -- From: Pinky McKay [EMAIL PROTECTED]

Re: [ozmidwifery] Weekend Australian

2003-02-14 Thread rem melissa bruijn
Title: Re: [ozmidwifery] Weekend Australian Hi, Lynne - yes, saw the article (and have it online, if anyone wants it). That Dr Molloy...g. He's the one who , in an article in the C Mail, gave his reason for the increase in the cs rate in Aus...women's pelvises are getting smaller! Of course

[ozmidwifery] crosspost : Birthtalk February Meeting!

2003-02-11 Thread rem melissa bruijn
Title: crosspost : Birthtalk February Meeting! We would like to invite you to a meeting of birthtalk Sharing, Empowering, Celebrating Birth on Tuesday, Feburary 18th. February's Topic : Assessing Our Needs And How They Fit Within Our Maternal Health System We will offer some

[ozmidwifery] signing off till Tu

2003-02-05 Thread rem melissa bruijn
We are off to Sunny Melbourne till tuesday, so I am signing off so my Inbox doesn't collapse! See you all then! -- Melissa Birthtalk : Sharing, Empowering, Celebrating Birth -- This mailing list is sponsored by ACE Graphics. Visit http://www.acegraphics.com.au to subscribe or unsubscribe.

Re: [ozmidwifery] End of Caseload at The Angliss

2003-02-03 Thread rem melissa bruijn
Title: Re: [ozmidwifery] End of Caseload at The Angliss Dawn - not sure if this is what you are looking for, but I received team midwifery care at the RHW at Randwick's Birth Centre...and found it to be a flawed system of care. And ended up with a c/sec. I would be happy to outline why, as a

Re: [ozmidwifery] Birthtalk's First Birth

2003-02-03 Thread rem melissa bruijn
Title: Re: [ozmidwifery] Birthtalk's First Birth *sob* Tina...that made me cry! -- From: [EMAIL PROTECTED] To: [EMAIL PROTECTED] Subject: Re: [ozmidwifery] Birthtalk's First Birth Date: Mon, 3 Feb 2003 9:35 PM Hello Melissa and the women of 'birthtalk'. I was absolutely thrilled to

Re: [ozmidwifery] homebirth

2003-02-03 Thread rem melissa bruijn
melissa bruijn mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] To: [EMAIL PROTECTED] mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] Sent: Monday, February 03, 2003 4:30 PM Subject: Re: [ozmidwifery] homebirth Hi, Kim! Two friends (one who is a midwife and childbirth educator) and I facilitate a group in Brisbane called Birthtalk : Sharing

Re: [ozmidwifery] homebirth

2003-02-02 Thread rem melissa bruijn
Title: Re: [ozmidwifery] homebirth Hi, Kim! Two friends (one who is a midwife and childbirth educator) and I facilitate a group in Brisbane called Birthtalk : Sharing, Empowering, Celebrating Birth. We have about 10 women currently attending our Forums and Healing From Birth meetings. At least

Re: [ozmidwifery] lotus birth

2002-12-03 Thread rem melissa bruijn
Title: Re: [ozmidwifery] lotus birth Hi, Julie...there is a lot of info on the Birthlove website (www.birthlove.com). It is a pay site - not v expensive, and SO worthwhile - heaps of info on it. Leilah McCracken, who runs it, has 8 kids : the first 5 hospital births, incl one c/sec, and the

Re: [ozmidwifery] Signing off for a while

2002-12-03 Thread rem melissa bruijn
to contact me off the list if you like. Have a great break and enjoy it all. Aviva [EMAIL PROTECTED] mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] - Original Message - From: rem melissa bruijn mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] To: [EMAIL PROTECTED] mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] Sent: Tuesday, December 03, 2002 5:01 PM

Re: [ozmidwifery] Fw: Brisbane enthusiasm

2002-12-02 Thread rem melissa bruijn
Title: Re: [ozmidwifery] Fw: Brisbane enthusiasm Denise - it's Melissa here...I facilitate Birthtalk with Deb, my sister-in-law (who is the one who put the Question to Peter Beatty at Ipswich) and Karen (whose home birth story was mentioned in your friend's daughter's letter). I will not

[ozmidwifery] Signing off for a while

2002-12-02 Thread rem melissa bruijn
Title: [ozmidwifery] Signing off for a while Hi, all. Well, it's been really interesting and informative being on the Ozmid list...but I must sign off for a while. My family need me, and I get sidetracked keeping up with the Ozmid emails...'cos I love reading them! THank you for sharing your

[ozmidwifery] Pelvic u/s to determine pelvic size and birthing ability???

2002-11-28 Thread rem melissa bruijn
Can anyone help me with this? I have a close friend at the Gold Coast who wants a vbac, and has found a vbac-friendly OB...BUT...he has said he wants her to have an u/s at 34 wks to determine her pelvic size, so she doesn't have to go thru a long labour for nothing!!!!!! I have told her of

FW: [ozmidwifery] A follow thru journey.....when Sally met Harry....(Long)

2002-11-26 Thread rem melissa bruijn
Title: FW: [ozmidwifery] A follow thru journey.when Sally met Harry(Long) Tina - tonite I read your story as you wrote it, to our Birthtalk- Sharing, Empowering, Celebrating Birth group. It was heard by a group of 8 women. (6 have suffered traumatic c/sec births and 4 are pg) It was

Re: [ozmidwifery] follow through programme

2002-11-26 Thread rem melissa bruijn
Title: Re: [ozmidwifery] follow through programme I did not know this was even an option - thanks for sharing this info. Melissa -- From: Grant and Louise [EMAIL PROTECTED] To: Ozmidwifery [EMAIL PROTECTED] Subject: [ozmidwifery] follow through programme Date: Wed, 27 Nov 2002 9:44 AM

Re: [ozmidwifery] A follow thru journey.....when Sally met Harry....(Long)

2002-11-26 Thread rem melissa bruijn
Title: Re: [ozmidwifery] A follow thru journey.when Sally met Harry(Long) From: [EMAIL PROTECTED] Also Melissa...where are you all?? I would like to take this opportunity to invite these women to contact their local universities and enquire about their midwifery courses, particularly

Re: [ozmidwifery] Re Tina's response to Denise

2002-11-26 Thread rem melissa bruijn
Title: Re: [ozmidwifery] Re Tina's response to Denise While some of the midwives seem to embrace the whole responsibility/accountability thingmany do not...and would rather be seen in the handmaiden role in preference to accepting full responsibility for their midwife role. TIna - this

Re: [ozmidwifery] CPD WAS big baby fear?

2002-11-25 Thread rem melissa bruijn
Title: Re: [ozmidwifery] CPD WAS big baby fear? -- From: Sarah Slater [EMAIL PROTECTED] I just find it disheartening to hear someone say that they were glad that they had a c-section because their baby was 'large'. I mean fair enough if it was 12lb or something (although I have

Re: [ozmidwifery] A follow thru journey.....when Sally met Harry....(Long)

2002-11-24 Thread rem melissa bruijn
Title: Re: [ozmidwifery] A follow thru journey.when Sally met Harry(Long) -- From: [EMAIL PROTECTED] At the B Mid Student Collective...we are bantering around the possibility of putting a book together of our follow thru experiences 'with woman'..written by BMidders

Re: [ozmidwifery] birth and the power of the mind

2002-11-24 Thread rem melissa bruijn
Title: Re: [ozmidwifery] birth and the power of the mind From: Carolyn Donaghey [EMAIL PROTECTED] Why do women who avoid alcohol, panadol and soft cheese for 9 months suddenly become happy about ingesting drugs more powerful than any of these and any they are likely to take in their life?

Re: [ozmidwifery] big baby fear?

2002-11-22 Thread rem melissa bruijn
Title: Re: [ozmidwifery] big baby fear? I'll say it's a good week! Warms my heart and gives me hope to hear stories like this. THanks Judy Melissa -- From: Judy Chapman [EMAIL PROTECTED] To: [EMAIL PROTECTED] Subject: RE: [ozmidwifery] big baby fear? Date: Thu, 21 Nov 2002 8:09 PM

Re: [ozmidwifery] 'elective' cs

2002-11-22 Thread rem melissa bruijn
Title: Re: [ozmidwifery] 'elective' cs -- From: Jo Dean Bainbridge [EMAIL PROTECTED] To: [EMAIL PROTECTED] Subject: [ozmidwifery] 'elective' cs Date: Thu, 21 Nov 2002 12:56 PM I would suggest (perhaps incorrectly?) that the greatest culprits of the right to elective cs are women...

Re: [ozmidwifery] A follow thru journey.....when Sally met Harry....(Long)

2002-11-22 Thread rem melissa bruijn
Title: Re: [ozmidwifery] A follow thru journey.when Sally met Harry(Long) oh, Tina- I am bawling here! I can hardly see the screen...that is the MOSt AWESOME story - THANK YOU for sharing it here. Sniff sniff - it truly does the soul good to hear what a woman can do when she is

Re: [ozmidwifery] birth and the power of the mind

2002-11-20 Thread rem melissa bruijn
Title: Re: [ozmidwifery] birth and the power of the mind Fear must have an impact on labour length. Because fear produces adrenalin, and adrenalin inhibits the oxytocin, which is the hormone that works to make the uterus contract. In the Active Birth classes I did in Sydney, we learned that

Re: [ozmidwifery] adrenaline in labour WAS birth and the power of the mind

2002-11-20 Thread rem melissa bruijn
Title: Re: [ozmidwifery] adrenaline in labour WAS birth and the power of the mind -- From: Denise Hynd [EMAIL PROTECTED] I have not heard of burst of adrenaline with each contraction nor can I see the physiological sense of such. Rather when a woman is in labour the hormones that drive

Re: [ozmidwifery] birth and the power of the mind

2002-11-20 Thread rem melissa bruijn
On the topic of control...I love it when women say they want a cs cause they are more in controlgot news for them! Unless they are multi-skilled and dam flexible and have the scalpel in their own hands, they are in no way in control! Jo Bainbridge So right, Jo! Being pinned down and

Re: [ozmidwifery] ABC radio

2002-11-20 Thread rem melissa bruijn
Title: Re: [ozmidwifery] ABC radio Strength to you, Jo! I know what you mean re being scared...I was on ABC talkback radio chatting about attending our local NMAP launch rally with a group of c/sec women, and the effect it had on us all. I thought I was going to throw up afterwards! But that

Re: [ozmidwifery] Proved 'im wrong

2002-11-18 Thread rem melissa bruijn
Title: Re: [ozmidwifery] Proved 'im wrong Wow, Judy - you go, girl! This woman will probably never know how lucky she was to have met you. But we know. You may be proud of the woman, and with good cause, but I feel so much admiration for YOU for standing up for this woman's rights and providing

Re: [ozmidwifery] hurtful birth experiences

2002-11-13 Thread rem melissa bruijn
the validation. All I got after 2 CS for 'Failure to Progress' (ob impatience) was 'you should be thankful you have a healthy baby'. What about me, don't I get a chance to be healthy! It took about 24 years to come to terms with it. Judy From: rem melissa bruijn Subject: Re: [ozmidwifery] hurtful birth

Re: [ozmidwifery] what to say to traumatised woman WAS hurtful birth experiences

2002-11-13 Thread rem melissa bruijn
educated and Birth with a midwife I knew and trusted for starters. Melissa -- From: Judy Chapman [EMAIL PROTECTED] To: [EMAIL PROTECTED] Subject: [ozmidwifery] hurtful birth experiences Date: Mon, 11 Nov 2002 8:07 PM Judy From: rem melissa bruijn Subject: Re: [ozmidwifery] hurtful birth

Re: [ozmidwifery] hurtful birth experiences

2002-11-13 Thread rem melissa bruijn
that this is typical of rapees too. I think we ought to celebrate every woman who makes the steps to even begin to heal; and let's celebrate every step along the way. love to you all, aviva - Original Message - From: rem melissa bruijn To: [EMAIL PROTECTED] Sent: Wednesday, November 13

Re: [ozmidwifery] hurtful birth experiences

2002-11-10 Thread rem melissa bruijn
MArgie - just wanted to say THANK YOU for these words. The biggest thing I am finding for anyone who has been traumatised by their birth experience is GETTING VALIDATION. Everytime someone says It is not ok, as you have, it lets us hear that our pain is valid. We usually hear but you're fine

Re: [ozmidwifery] Gold Coast Midwife

2002-11-10 Thread rem melissa bruijn
Title: Re: [ozmidwifery] Gold Coast Midwife Hi, Tory, I am in Brisbane but know quite a few fantastic people on the Gold Coast who could support your sister-in-law (don't actually know any midwives, but these people I am recommending will - and support can come from all angles!). I hope it is

Re: [ozmidwifery] healing and connecting after c/sec WAS dimensions - violent birth

2002-11-10 Thread rem melissa bruijn
Title: Re: [ozmidwifery] healing and connecting after c/sec WAS dimensions - violent birth Something I like to do for Ceasarean born babies...and breech born too...is spend time massaging the babe from crown down the body to the toes, making sure every part of the body is stimulated...

Re: [ozmidwifery] introducing birthtalk

2002-11-07 Thread rem melissa bruijn
Title: Re: [ozmidwifery] introducing birthtalk Thank you to Aviva, and Liz for your comments and support. Aviva - I cannot agree more about the effectiveness of talking and writing to deal with trauma. And I am so sorry about what you had to go through to discover this - I will stand silent on

[ozmidwifery] introducing birthtalk

2002-11-06 Thread rem melissa bruijn
Title: introducing birthtalk Hi - I have been lurking for a little while now, and after all the discussion on Birth Trauma and c/secs etc, I felt I must come out of lurkdom and introduce myself! Firstly, for all the women who have been sharing their traumatic experiences (Rhonda, Jo) - I am