Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Analyzing the TMO using the "economic psychology" model

2012-04-12 Thread Emily Reyn
And, then there are the grammar issues that surface when I am stressed, tired, 
or in need of food.  I'm heading out for some meditative swimming.



 From: Emily Reyn 
To: "FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com"  
Sent: Thursday, April 12, 2012 4:09 PM
Subject: Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Analyzing the TMO using the "economic 
psychology" model
 

Richard, when I decided to comment point by point, I will use a different 
color.  But, bear in mind, what I say is not *that* important and often I 
comment off-the-cuff, so to speak, which doesn't require much effort or time.  
Remember, I don't have a serious background in meditation under any paradigm 
and I am so old, that even if I dedicated myself to any particular lineage, 
technique, or religious practice, or spiritual by the time I achieve "expert" 
status, I will likely be dead.  I don't speak with authority about much...

But, I am fascinated by what you slightly older farts contribute, in that your 
lives took very different paths then mine, and I was raised to respect my 
elders, so I try to listen up and enjoy, as time allows :) 



 From: Richard J. Williams 
To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
Sent: Thursday, April 12, 2012 9:35 AM
Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: Analyzing the TMO using the "economic psychology" 
model
 

  


authfriend:
> Emily, just ignore this. Your post was fine.
> 
Thanks for , now it's clear who
and what is being commented on. But, what's
with the lazy 'top-posting'?

> > > Geez, I almost missed this exchange. 
> > > Very interesting and Ann, I thought 
> > > you were pretty clear. 
> > >
> > What's not clear, Emily, is which part
> > of the thread are you commenting on?
> > 
> > If you would just  out the parts
> > you're NOT commenting on, and then
> > post a reply to what you ARE commenting
> > on, would be really helpful. 
> > 
> > That way, other respondents would be able 
> > to follow alnog the conversation better 
> > and post their reply. Or, is this just 
> > another general Barry-bash? If so, then
> > just key in at the top:
> > 
> > "It's all about Barry". Thanks.
> > 
> > Judy and Barry get this because they are 
> > professionals who work with text formatting 
> > every day, but this is a mess!
>


 

Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Analyzing the TMO using the "economic psychology" model

2012-04-12 Thread Emily Reyn
Richard, when I decided to comment point by point, I will use a different 
color.  But, bear in mind, what I say is not *that* important and often I 
comment off-the-cuff, so to speak, which doesn't require much effort or time.  
Remember, I don't have a serious background in meditation under any paradigm 
and I am so old, that even if I dedicated myself to any particular lineage, 
technique, or religious practice, or spiritual by the time I achieve "expert" 
status, I will likely be dead.  I don't speak with authority about much...

But, I am fascinated by what you slightly older farts contribute, in that your 
lives took very different paths then mine, and I was raised to respect my 
elders, so I try to listen up and enjoy, as time allows :) 



 From: Richard J. Williams 
To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
Sent: Thursday, April 12, 2012 9:35 AM
Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: Analyzing the TMO using the "economic psychology" 
model
 

  


authfriend:
> Emily, just ignore this. Your post was fine.
> 
Thanks for , now it's clear who
and what is being commented on. But, what's
with the lazy 'top-posting'?

> > > Geez, I almost missed this exchange. 
> > > Very interesting and Ann, I thought 
> > > you were pretty clear. 
> > >
> > What's not clear, Emily, is which part
> > of the thread are you commenting on?
> > 
> > If you would just  out the parts
> > you're NOT commenting on, and then
> > post a reply to what you ARE commenting
> > on, would be really helpful. 
> > 
> > That way, other respondents would be able 
> > to follow alnog the conversation better 
> > and post their reply. Or, is this just 
> > another general Barry-bash? If so, then
> > just key in at the top:
> > 
> > "It's all about Barry". Thanks.
> > 
> > Judy and Barry get this because they are 
> > professionals who work with text formatting 
> > every day, but this is a mess!
>


 

Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Analyzing the TMO using the "economic psychology" model

2012-04-12 Thread Emily Reyn
Sorry Richard, I was commenting on the post overall, not specifically.  Not a 
Barry bash - just an opinion :) 

I have noticed that on many occasions, snipping certain paragraphs or phrases 
out often changes the original context and then any subsequent comments on that 
snip may evolve into a completely different conversation than what was 
originally posted.  Hence all the posts with the same subject line that 
actually represent several different conversations - it can be kinda cool.  
Many angles and POVs emerge that way.  OTOH, sometimes it creates great 
confusion and misunderstanding of what the original poster actually said.  

Does this reply come across poorly?  I'm replying from Yahoo email.  Do I need 
to start hitting the enter/return button every 45 words or so?  I'm not sure 
that is going to happen.


 From: Richard J. Williams 
To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
Sent: Thursday, April 12, 2012 6:38 AM
Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: Analyzing the TMO using the "economic psychology" 
model
 

  


Emily Reyn:
> Geez, I almost missed this exchange. 
> Very interesting and Ann, I thought 
> you were pretty clear. 
>
What's not clear, Emily, is which part
of the thread are you commenting on?

If you would just  out the parts
you're NOT commenting on, and then
post a reply to what you ARE commenting
on, would be really helpful. 

That way, other respondents would be able 
to follow alnog the conversation better 
and post their reply. Or, is this just 
another general Barry-bash? If so, then
just key in at the top:

"It's all about Barry". Thanks.

Judy and Barry get this because they are 
professionals who work with text formatting 
every day, but this is a mess! 

 You are also an excellent writer and a joy to read, btw.  After reading 
this, I am reminded that Barry doesn't *hear* others' well, particularly if 
they challenge his viewpoint or correct any assumption he's made about them.  
> 
> 
> 
>  From: awoelflebater 
> To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
> Sent: Wednesday, April 11, 2012 7:39 PM
> Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: Analyzing the TMO using the "economic 
> psychology" model
> 
> 
>   
> Well at least ONE reader here knew what I was writing about. Granted, she is 
> smart, analytical, reasonable, meticulous and insightful. But surely the 
> average FFL'er could understand most of what I said. Of course, I also 
> realize most are not interested in this subject of mine but I was hoping 
> Barry could at least "grok" half of it. After all, I was "rapping" on about 
> it for him. (sigh)
> 
> --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "authfriend"  wrote:
> >
> > Earlier this morning I made a post in which I asked at
> > the end why anybody would consider anything Barry says
> > these days to be worthwhile. He's thoughtfully followed
> > up with another batch of even better examples of his
> > utter inanity:
> > 
> > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb  wrote:
> > >
> > > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, awoelflebater  wrote:
> > 
> > > > > > > > So there was an element of
> > > > > > > > sentimentality, because in the end the whole thing didn't
> > > > > > > > quite pan out with regard to MMY or even Robin's
> > > > > > > > enlightenment...
> > > > >
> > > > > Not to mention "in terms of reality." :-)
> > > > 
> > > > Oh, reality. Such a subjective and impossible-to-absolutely-define
> > > > concept. 
> > > 
> > > I don't actually see it as that difficult to define.
> > > 
> > > Reality is that which, after you die and cease to exist
> > > as an egoic entity, persists.
> > 
> > Is Barry suggesting he has died and ceased to exist as an
> > egoic entity? It would appear so, since he asserts above
> > that Robin's goals didn't pan out "in terms of reality." 
> > 
> > > > > With all due respect, Ann, what this sounds like to me
> > > > > is a bunch of moodmaking on *your* part, to "color" your
> > > > > memories such that *you* feel "noble."
> > > > 
> > > > Interesting that it comes across like this because this is 
> > > > not what I am about. 
> > > 
> > > I *get* that. Why I am commenting is that you're coming
> > > across as if that *was* what you were about.
> > 
> > Correction: This is how Barry perceives Ann to be coming
> > a

[FairfieldLife] Re: Analyzing the TMO using the "economic psychology" model

2012-04-12 Thread authfriend
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb  wrote:
>
> --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb  wrote:
> >
> > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, awoelflebater  wrote:
> > >
> > > Well at least ONE reader here knew what I was writing about. 
> > 
> > My bad. It never occurred to me that the word "heroics"
> > could be used to refer to the soap opera events you had 
> > just described.

She put the term in scare quotes, so obviously she didn't
think it was an appropriate term either:

"And I don't feel noble about any of the 'heroics' at the
end if that is what you're thinking."

She used it because Barry was accusing her of trying to
paint *herself* as "noble":

"...decades later you're still trying to 'ennoble' it and
make it sound different..."

On the other hand, to describe her whistle-blowing as
"soap opera events" is extraordinarily shallow and
uncompassionate. This was very serious, life-altering,
devastating business for the folks involved.

And let's not forget how many times Barry has presented
himself as a real stand-up guy for having occasionally
opposed the rigidity of the TMO.

> > I thought you were referring to something 
> > else from the annals of Robin lore, something you assumed 
> > I knew about.
> 
> I also apologize for trying to riff on your reply "real
> time" in a noisy cafe after a couple of Belgian beers
> with high alcoholic content. In retrospect, I guess all
> I was really trying to accomplish was to find out why
> you (or anyone) were so taken by Robin, either "back 
> in the day" or more recently, on FFL. 
> 
> Your occasional descriptions of him as "noble" confound
> me

"Occasional" = once only, in this very exchange with
Barry:

"I thought it was rather noble actually, his desire to
uphold what he felt was the best of who MMY was and what
the Movement could have stood for."

That's it, just that once. And she made it clear in her
followup that even this, as far as she was concerned,
wasn't very significant.

> because I never saw that in the things he wrote here,

She didn't use the term to describe what he wrote here.

> back when I was still trying to read them. To me it was
> pretty much all stuck-in-one's-head intellectual egobabble,
> with generous helpings of abuse and over-emotionalism 
> served up on the side. 

Of course, he never "abused" anybody who hadn't abused
him first. And to those who believe having, let alone
expressing, emotions is evidence of unevolved
"attachment," any size helping of emotion will appear
excessive.

> The only feeling I've ever gotten from you as to what 
> attracted you to him in the first place was that he 
> represented some kind of "adventure" for you. I guess 
> that's as close as I'm ever going to get to understanding
> what you saw/see in him, so I'll leave it at that.

She's said a lot more than that about what attracted her.

Since Barry claims he wants to know "why [Ann] (or anyone)
were so taken by Robin, either 'back in the day' or more
recently, on FFL," I'll take a stab at explaining why I
was so taken with Robin on FFL. (Of course Barry will
refrain from reading what follows; so much for his desire
to know the "why" in question.)

I wasn't around "back in the day," but I think it was
pretty damned "noble" for Robin to have had the
determination and courage to spend 25 years by himself
doing his best to figure out why he had made such a
horrendous mess of things and to root out the flaws that
he perceived in himself that had made him see himself in
such a deluded light, to the detriment of his followers.
I believe him when he says it was agonizing. How could
it not have been?

It also took tremendous courage for him to emerge from
that process to face people who knew of his history--
the very people who were most likely to see him in a
negative light--and to give them a no-excuses account
of himself.

That aside, although at first I wasn't willing to plow
through all of what Barry characterizes as "egobabble,"
after awhile I began to find much more than just that
in his posts and ended up reading every word of what he
wrote here, much of it more than once. I told him back
in December that as a former cult leader who used to be
in Unity Consciousness, to the folks at FFL he was a
"perplexing critter." He responded, in part:

"I am aware that some of my posts are provocative, ironic, 
and even in a certain sense abstruse: so I am bound to lose 
a few—maybe more than a few—readers. After all, there are 
the Alexes as well as the Barrys of this world; and with 
Alex I am an acquired taste that he knows he will never 
have. With Barry, well, you know in what consists his 
aversion to my posts. There is a difference.

"What concerns me in posting at FFL, Judy, is to meet every 
challenge head-on; and to test out my philosophy, my 
understanding, my experience as I go to express myself. I 
am here for self-metatherapeutic reasons. I am not here to 
make FFL readers believe in what I believe in

"But the w

[FairfieldLife] Re: Analyzing the TMO using the "economic psychology" model

2012-04-12 Thread Richard J. Williams


authfriend:
> Emily, just ignore this. Your post was fine.
> 
Thanks for , now it's clear who
and what is being commented on. But, what's
with the lazy 'top-posting'?

> > > Geez, I almost missed this exchange. 
> > > Very interesting and Ann, I thought 
> > > you were pretty clear. 
> > >
> > What's not clear, Emily, is which part
> > of the thread are you commenting on?
> >  
> > If you would just  out the parts
> > you're NOT commenting on, and then
> > post a reply to what you ARE commenting
> > on, would be really helpful. 
> > 
> > That way, other respondents would be able 
> > to follow alnog the conversation better 
> > and post their reply. Or, is this just 
> > another general Barry-bash? If so, then
> > just key in at the top:
> > 
> > "It's all about Barry". Thanks.
> > 
> > Judy and Barry get this because they are 
> > professionals who work with text formatting 
> > every day, but this is a mess!
>




[FairfieldLife] Re: Analyzing the TMO using the "economic psychology" model

2012-04-12 Thread authfriend
Emily, just ignore this. Your post was fine.



--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "Richard J. Williams"  wrote:
>
> 
> 
> Emily Reyn:
> > Geez, I almost missed this exchange. 
> > Very interesting and Ann, I thought 
> > you were pretty clear. 
> >
> What's not clear, Emily, is which part
> of the thread are you commenting on?
>  
> If you would just  out the parts
> you're NOT commenting on, and then
> post a reply to what you ARE commenting
> on, would be really helpful. 
> 
> That way, other respondents would be able 
> to follow alnog the conversation better 
> and post their reply. Or, is this just 
> another general Barry-bash? If so, then
> just key in at the top:
> 
> "It's all about Barry". Thanks.
> 
> Judy and Barry get this because they are 
> professionals who work with text formatting 
> every day, but this is a mess! 




[FairfieldLife] Re: Analyzing the TMO using the "economic psychology" model

2012-04-12 Thread awoelflebater

--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "Richard J. Williams"
 wrote:
>
>
>
> awoelflebater:
> > Raunchy, I have to acknowledge your kind post. Sometimes you just
want to give up on certain things, like trying to make unreasonable
people find reason. So, that is what I am going to do. That was my last
shot at that. At least now I know who is not either willing or able to 
open their minds let alone any other vital body part, like a heart, to
someone. At least I can check that one off my list.
> >
> So, it's all about Barry. Lazy 'top-posters'! Go figure.
No Richard, it's all about  me.
>
> > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "raunchydog" 
wrote:
> > >
> > >
> > >
> > > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, awoelflebater 
wrote:
> > > >
> > > > Well at least ONE reader here knew what I was writing about.
Granted, she is smart, analytical, reasonable, meticulous and
insightful. But surely the average FFL'er could understand most of what
I said. Of course, I also realize most are not interested in this
subject of mine but I was hoping Barry could at least "grok" half of it.
After all, I was "rapping" on about it for him. (sigh)
> > > >
> > >
> > > Hi Ann. I usually read Judy's post because she doesn't miss much
about anything that I might find interesting, otherwise I might have
missed your rap with Barry and his failure to understand a word of
anything you said and still less about you as a human being. I don't
have a "do not read list." I have a "usually read list" Judy, Em, Ann,
Lawson. Everyone else I glance at the topic and writer to see if I want
to chime in.
> > >
> > > What Barry fails to understand about you is your ability to
reflect honestly upon and express your feelings and motivations so
clearly, warts and all. I admire your courage and passion to seize the
moment. These are qualities I value in a friendship. My God! I would
have given anything to have seen you "storm the big house, grab your
best friend and throw his things into your horse trailer." What a gal!
If ever I'm in trouble, I'd want you on my side.
> > >
> > > Anyway, you gave it your best shot with Barry, but "pearls before
swine..." as they say.
> > >
> > > > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "authfriend" 
wrote:
> > > > >
> > > > > Earlier this morning I made a post in which I asked at
> > > > > the end why anybody would consider anything Barry says
> > > > > these days to be worthwhile. He's thoughtfully followed
> > > > > up with another batch of even better examples of his
> > > > > utter inanity:
> > > > >
> > > > > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb 
wrote:
> > > > > >
> > > > > > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, awoelflebater
 wrote:
> > > > > 
> > > > > > > > > > > So there was an element of
> > > > > > > > > > > sentimentality, because in the end the whole thing
didn't
> > > > > > > > > > > quite pan out with regard to MMY or even Robin's
> > > > > > > > > > > enlightenment...
> > > > > > > >
> > > > > > > > Not to mention "in terms of reality." :-)
> > > > > > >
> > > > > > > Oh, reality. Such a subjective and
impossible-to-absolutely-define
> > > > > > > concept.
> > > > > >
> > > > > > I don't actually see it as that difficult to define.
> > > > > >
> > > > > > Reality is that which, after you die and cease to exist
> > > > > > as an egoic entity, persists.
> > > > >
> > > > > Is Barry suggesting he has died and ceased to exist as an
> > > > > egoic entity? It would appear so, since he asserts above
> > > > > that Robin's goals didn't pan out "in terms of reality."
> > > > >
> > > > > > > > With all due respect, Ann, what this sounds like to me
> > > > > > > > is a bunch of moodmaking on *your* part, to "color" your
> > > > > > > > memories such that *you* feel "noble."
> > > > > > >
> > > > > > > Interesting that it comes across like this because this is
> > > > > > > not what I am about.
> > > > > >
> > > > > > I *get* that. Why I am commenting is that you're coming
> > > > > > across as if that *was* what you were about.
> > > > >
> > > > > Correction: This is how Barry perceives Ann to be coming
> > > > > across. And that perception is not subject to any
> > > > > modification.
> > > > >
> > > > > > > First of all, what Robin did or did not do during my time
around
> > > > > > > him doesn't reflect the slightest on me, what I was hoping
for
> > > > > > > or what I believed. He was pretty much guiding the ship
and we
> > > > > > > were all tossed about, including him.
> > > > > >
> > > > > > So you abdicate all responsibility for walking up the
> > > > > > plank and boarding that ship? Just asking.
> > > > > >
> > > > > > > Nobility is the least of it. I didn't give a dang about
his
> > > > > > > "enlightenment", the movement, TM or any of the other
spiritual
> > > > > > > trappings. I thought he was a wonderful shit disturbing
rebel
> > > > > > > with interesting ideas, he was attractive, smart and there
was
> > > > > > > never a dull moment around him (if you don't count the
chanting
> > >

[FairfieldLife] Re: Analyzing the TMO using the "economic psychology" model

2012-04-12 Thread turquoiseb
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, awoelflebater  wrote:
>
> Raunchy, I have to acknowledge your kind post. 

Just in case you failed to notice, Ann, it wasn't a "kind"
post, it was a "pile on Barry" post. :-)

> Sometimes you just want to give up on certain things, like 
> trying to make unreasonable people find reason. So, that 
> is what I am going to do. That was my last shot at that. 

You'll be the first here to manage that, if you pull
it off. Most just continue to cyberstalk for years.
Goodbye and good luck.





[FairfieldLife] Re: Analyzing the TMO using the "economic psychology" model

2012-04-12 Thread Richard J. Williams


awoelflebater:
> Raunchy, I have to acknowledge your kind post. Sometimes you just want to 
> give up on certain things, like trying to make unreasonable people find 
> reason. So, that is what I am going to do. That was my last shot at that. At 
> least now I know who is not either willing or able to  open their minds let 
> alone any other vital body part, like a heart, to someone. At least I can 
> check that one off my list.
>
So, it's all about Barry. Lazy 'top-posters'! Go figure.

> --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "raunchydog"  wrote:
> >
> > 
> > 
> > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, awoelflebater  wrote:
> > >
> > > Well at least ONE reader here knew what I was writing about. Granted, she 
> > > is smart, analytical, reasonable, meticulous and insightful. But surely 
> > > the average FFL'er could understand most of what I said. Of course, I 
> > > also realize most are not interested in this subject of mine but I was 
> > > hoping Barry could at least "grok" half of it. After all, I was "rapping" 
> > > on about it for him. (sigh)
> > > 
> > 
> > Hi Ann. I usually read Judy's post because she doesn't miss much about 
> > anything that I might find interesting, otherwise I might have missed your 
> > rap with Barry and his failure to understand a word of anything you said 
> > and still less about you as a human being. I don't have a "do not read 
> > list." I have a "usually read list" Judy, Em, Ann, Lawson. Everyone else I 
> > glance at the topic and writer to see if I want to chime in.
> > 
> > What Barry fails to understand about you is your ability to reflect 
> > honestly upon and express your feelings and motivations so clearly, warts 
> > and all. I admire your courage and passion to seize the moment. These are 
> > qualities I value in a friendship. My God! I would have given anything to 
> > have seen you "storm the big house, grab your best friend and throw his 
> > things into your horse trailer." What a gal! If ever I'm in trouble, I'd 
> > want you on my side. 
> > 
> > Anyway, you gave it your best shot with Barry, but "pearls before swine..." 
> > as they say.
> >  
> > > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "authfriend"  wrote:
> > > >
> > > > Earlier this morning I made a post in which I asked at
> > > > the end why anybody would consider anything Barry says
> > > > these days to be worthwhile. He's thoughtfully followed
> > > > up with another batch of even better examples of his
> > > > utter inanity:
> > > > 
> > > > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb  wrote:
> > > > >
> > > > > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, awoelflebater  wrote:
> > > > 
> > > > > > > > > > So there was an element of
> > > > > > > > > > sentimentality, because in the end the whole thing didn't
> > > > > > > > > > quite pan out with regard to MMY or even Robin's
> > > > > > > > > > enlightenment...
> > > > > > >
> > > > > > > Not to mention "in terms of reality." :-)
> > > > > > 
> > > > > > Oh, reality. Such a subjective and impossible-to-absolutely-define
> > > > > > concept. 
> > > > > 
> > > > > I don't actually see it as that difficult to define.
> > > > > 
> > > > > Reality is that which, after you die and cease to exist
> > > > > as an egoic entity, persists.
> > > > 
> > > > Is Barry suggesting he has died and ceased to exist as an
> > > > egoic entity? It would appear so, since he asserts above
> > > > that Robin's goals didn't pan out "in terms of reality." 
> > > > 
> > > > > > > With all due respect, Ann, what this sounds like to me
> > > > > > > is a bunch of moodmaking on *your* part, to "color" your
> > > > > > > memories such that *you* feel "noble."
> > > > > > 
> > > > > > Interesting that it comes across like this because this is 
> > > > > > not what I am about. 
> > > > > 
> > > > > I *get* that. Why I am commenting is that you're coming
> > > > > across as if that *was* what you were about.
> > > > 
> > > > Correction: This is how Barry perceives Ann to be coming
> > > > across. And that perception is not subject to any
> > > > modification.
> > > > 
> > > > > > First of all, what Robin did or did not do during my time around
> > > > > > him doesn't reflect the slightest on me, what I was hoping for 
> > > > > > or what I believed. He was pretty much guiding the ship and we 
> > > > > > were all tossed about, including him. 
> > > > > 
> > > > > So you abdicate all responsibility for walking up the 
> > > > > plank and boarding that ship? Just asking.
> > > > > 
> > > > > > Nobility is the least of it. I didn't give a dang about his 
> > > > > > "enlightenment", the movement, TM or any of the other spiritual 
> > > > > > trappings. I thought he was a wonderful shit disturbing rebel
> > > > > > with interesting ideas, he was attractive, smart and there was 
> > > > > > never a dull moment around him (if you don't count the chanting 
> > > > > > and manifestations). 
> > > > > 
> > > > > Cool. This is the most "real" I have yet heard you speak
> > > > > 

[FairfieldLife] Re: Analyzing the TMO using the "economic psychology" model

2012-04-12 Thread Richard J. Williams


Emily Reyn:
> Geez, I almost missed this exchange. 
> Very interesting and Ann, I thought 
> you were pretty clear. 
>
What's not clear, Emily, is which part
of the thread are you commenting on?
 
If you would just  out the parts
you're NOT commenting on, and then
post a reply to what you ARE commenting
on, would be really helpful. 

That way, other respondents would be able 
to follow alnog the conversation better 
and post their reply. Or, is this just 
another general Barry-bash? If so, then
just key in at the top:

"It's all about Barry". Thanks.

Judy and Barry get this because they are 
professionals who work with text formatting 
every day, but this is a mess! 

 You are also an excellent writer and a joy to read, btw.  After reading 
this, I am reminded that Barry doesn't *hear* others' well, particularly if 
they challenge his viewpoint or correct any assumption he's made about them.  
> 
> 
> 
>  From: awoelflebater 
> To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
> Sent: Wednesday, April 11, 2012 7:39 PM
> Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: Analyzing the TMO using the "economic 
> psychology" model
>  
> 
>   
> Well at least ONE reader here knew what I was writing about. Granted, she is 
> smart, analytical, reasonable, meticulous and insightful. But surely the 
> average FFL'er could understand most of what I said. Of course, I also 
> realize most are not interested in this subject of mine but I was hoping 
> Barry could at least "grok" half of it. After all, I was "rapping" on about 
> it for him. (sigh)
> 
> --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "authfriend"  wrote:
> >
> > Earlier this morning I made a post in which I asked at
> > the end why anybody would consider anything Barry says
> > these days to be worthwhile. He's thoughtfully followed
> > up with another batch of even better examples of his
> > utter inanity:
> > 
> > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb  wrote:
> > >
> > > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, awoelflebater  wrote:
> > 
> > > > > > > > So there was an element of
> > > > > > > > sentimentality, because in the end the whole thing didn't
> > > > > > > > quite pan out with regard to MMY or even Robin's
> > > > > > > > enlightenment...
> > > > >
> > > > > Not to mention "in terms of reality." :-)
> > > > 
> > > > Oh, reality. Such a subjective and impossible-to-absolutely-define
> > > > concept. 
> > > 
> > > I don't actually see it as that difficult to define.
> > > 
> > > Reality is that which, after you die and cease to exist
> > > as an egoic entity, persists.
> > 
> > Is Barry suggesting he has died and ceased to exist as an
> > egoic entity? It would appear so, since he asserts above
> > that Robin's goals didn't pan out "in terms of reality." 
> > 
> > > > > With all due respect, Ann, what this sounds like to me
> > > > > is a bunch of moodmaking on *your* part, to "color" your
> > > > > memories such that *you* feel "noble."
> > > > 
> > > > Interesting that it comes across like this because this is 
> > > > not what I am about. 
> > > 
> > > I *get* that. Why I am commenting is that you're coming
> > > across as if that *was* what you were about.
> > 
> > Correction: This is how Barry perceives Ann to be coming
> > across. And that perception is not subject to any
> > modification.
> > 
> > > > First of all, what Robin did or did not do during my time around
> > > > him doesn't reflect the slightest on me, what I was hoping for 
> > > > or what I believed. He was pretty much guiding the ship and we 
> > > > were all tossed about, including him. 
> > > 
> > > So you abdicate all responsibility for walking up the 
> > > plank and boarding that ship? Just asking.
> > > 
> > > > Nobility is the least of it. I didn't give a dang about his 
> > > > "enlightenment", the movement, TM or any of the other spiritual 
> > > > trappings. I thought he was a wonderful shit disturbing rebel
> > > > with interesting ideas, he was attractive, smart and there was 
> > > > never a dull moment around him (if you don't count the chanting 
> > > > and manifestations). 
> > > 
> > > Cool. 

[FairfieldLife] Re: Analyzing the TMO using the "economic psychology" model

2012-04-12 Thread awoelflebater
Raunchy, I have to acknowledge your kind post. Sometimes you just want to give 
up on certain things, like trying to make unreasonable people find reason. So, 
that is what I am going to do. That was my last shot at that. At least now I 
know who is not either willing or able to  open their minds let alone any other 
vital body part, like a heart, to someone. At least I can check that one off my 
list.

--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "raunchydog"  wrote:
>
> 
> 
> --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, awoelflebater  wrote:
> >
> > Well at least ONE reader here knew what I was writing about. Granted, she 
> > is smart, analytical, reasonable, meticulous and insightful. But surely the 
> > average FFL'er could understand most of what I said. Of course, I also 
> > realize most are not interested in this subject of mine but I was hoping 
> > Barry could at least "grok" half of it. After all, I was "rapping" on about 
> > it for him. (sigh)
> > 
> 
> Hi Ann. I usually read Judy's post because she doesn't miss much about 
> anything that I might find interesting, otherwise I might have missed your 
> rap with Barry and his failure to understand a word of anything you said and 
> still less about you as a human being. I don't have a "do not read list." I 
> have a "usually read list" Judy, Em, Ann, Lawson. Everyone else I glance at 
> the topic and writer to see if I want to chime in.
> 
> What Barry fails to understand about you is your ability to reflect honestly 
> upon and express your feelings and motivations so clearly, warts and all. I 
> admire your courage and passion to seize the moment. These are qualities I 
> value in a friendship. My God! I would have given anything to have seen you 
> "storm the big house, grab your best friend and throw his things into your 
> horse trailer." What a gal! If ever I'm in trouble, I'd want you on my side. 
> 
> Anyway, you gave it your best shot with Barry, but "pearls before swine..." 
> as they say.
>  
> > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "authfriend"  wrote:
> > >
> > > Earlier this morning I made a post in which I asked at
> > > the end why anybody would consider anything Barry says
> > > these days to be worthwhile. He's thoughtfully followed
> > > up with another batch of even better examples of his
> > > utter inanity:
> > > 
> > > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb  wrote:
> > > >
> > > > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, awoelflebater  wrote:
> > > 
> > > > > > > > > So there was an element of
> > > > > > > > > sentimentality, because in the end the whole thing didn't
> > > > > > > > > quite pan out with regard to MMY or even Robin's
> > > > > > > > > enlightenment...
> > > > > >
> > > > > > Not to mention "in terms of reality." :-)
> > > > > 
> > > > > Oh, reality. Such a subjective and impossible-to-absolutely-define
> > > > > concept. 
> > > > 
> > > > I don't actually see it as that difficult to define.
> > > > 
> > > > Reality is that which, after you die and cease to exist
> > > > as an egoic entity, persists.
> > > 
> > > Is Barry suggesting he has died and ceased to exist as an
> > > egoic entity? It would appear so, since he asserts above
> > > that Robin's goals didn't pan out "in terms of reality." 
> > > 
> > > > > > With all due respect, Ann, what this sounds like to me
> > > > > > is a bunch of moodmaking on *your* part, to "color" your
> > > > > > memories such that *you* feel "noble."
> > > > > 
> > > > > Interesting that it comes across like this because this is 
> > > > > not what I am about. 
> > > > 
> > > > I *get* that. Why I am commenting is that you're coming
> > > > across as if that *was* what you were about.
> > > 
> > > Correction: This is how Barry perceives Ann to be coming
> > > across. And that perception is not subject to any
> > > modification.
> > > 
> > > > > First of all, what Robin did or did not do during my time around
> > > > > him doesn't reflect the slightest on me, what I was hoping for 
> > > > > or what I believed. He was pretty much guiding the ship and we 
> > > > > were all tossed about, including him. 
> > > > 
> > > > So you abdicate all responsibility for walking up the 
> > > > plank and boarding that ship? Just asking.
> > > > 
> > > > > Nobility is the least of it. I didn't give a dang about his 
> > > > > "enlightenment", the movement, TM or any of the other spiritual 
> > > > > trappings. I thought he was a wonderful shit disturbing rebel
> > > > > with interesting ideas, he was attractive, smart and there was 
> > > > > never a dull moment around him (if you don't count the chanting 
> > > > > and manifestations). 
> > > > 
> > > > Cool. This is the most "real" I have yet heard you speak
> > > > about your time with Robin on this forum. That's what I
> > > > have been after.
> > > 
> > > IOW, Barry didn't read all the other posts in which she's
> > > said the same thing.
> > > 
> > > 
> > > > > I told you, nobility isn't in the picture, way too over 
> > > > > the top f

[FairfieldLife] Re: Analyzing the TMO using the "economic psychology" model

2012-04-12 Thread raunchydog


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb  wrote:
>
> --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb  wrote:
> >
> > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, awoelflebater  wrote:
> > >
> > > Well at least ONE reader here knew what I was writing about. 
> > 
> > My bad. It never occurred to me that the word "heroics"
> > could be used to refer to the soap opera events you had 
> > just described. I thought you were referring to something 
> > else from the annals of Robin lore, something you assumed 
> > I knew about.
> 
> I also apologize for trying to riff on your reply "real
> time" in a noisy cafe after a couple of Belgian beers
> with high alcoholic content. In retrospect, I guess all
> I was really trying to accomplish was to find out why
> you (or anyone) were so taken by Robin, either "back 
> in the day" or more recently, on FFL. 
> 

Actually, no. All Barry was trying to do was confirm his bias that Ann was 
moodmaking to "color" her memories of Robin to make herself feel "noble." Even 
after she explained "nobility isn't in the picture" he accuses her of lying, 
"I've told you and others here, I don't believe a word you say. I believe only 
what you do." That's not beer-fog talkn' folks. That's Barry's confirmation 
bias and his inability to have empathy for another human being. If anyone has 
any doubts about this, or as Emily says, "Barry doesn't *hear* others' well, 
particularly if they challenge his viewpoint or correct any assumption he's 
made about them," read Judy's comments about it:

http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/message/308250

> Your occasional descriptions of him as "noble" confound
> me because I never saw that in the things he wrote here,
> back when I was still trying to read them. To me it was
> pretty much all stuck-in-one's-head intellectual egobabble,
> with generous helpings of abuse and over-emotionalism 
> served up on the side. 
> 
> The only feeling I've ever gotten from you as to what 
> attracted you to him in the first place was that he 
> represented some kind of "adventure" for you. I guess 
> that's as close as I'm ever going to get to understanding
> what you saw/see in him, so I'll leave it at that.
>

Confirmation bias sure has its limitations, doesn't it?



[FairfieldLife] Re: Analyzing the TMO using the "economic psychology" model

2012-04-12 Thread nablusoss1008


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "raunchydog"  wrote:
>
> 
> 
> --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb  wrote:
> >
> > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb  > >
> 
> Move along folks, nothing to see. It was just the beer fog talkn'.


Drinking beer at 10 am could be potentially dangerous in the long run Turq. 
Useful adress here: 
http://www.aa-europe.net/countries/amsterdam.htm



[FairfieldLife] Re: Analyzing the TMO using the "economic psychology" model

2012-04-12 Thread raunchydog


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb  wrote:
>
> --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb  wrote:
> >
> > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, awoelflebater  wrote:
> > >
> > > Well at least ONE reader here knew what I was writing about. 
> > 
> > My bad. It never occurred to me that the word "heroics"
> > could be used to refer to the soap opera events you had 
> > just described. I thought you were referring to something 
> > else from the annals of Robin lore, something you assumed 
> > I knew about.
> 
> I also apologize for trying to riff on your reply "real
> time" in a noisy cafe after a couple of Belgian beers
> with high alcoholic content. In retrospect, I guess all
> I was really trying to accomplish was to find out why
> you (or anyone) were so taken by Robin, either "back 
> in the day" or more recently, on FFL. 
> 
> Your occasional descriptions of him as "noble" confound
> me because I never saw that in the things he wrote here,
> back when I was still trying to read them. To me it was
> pretty much all stuck-in-one's-head intellectual egobabble,
> with generous helpings of abuse and over-emotionalism 
> served up on the side. 
> 
> The only feeling I've ever gotten from you as to what 
> attracted you to him in the first place was that he 
> represented some kind of "adventure" for you. I guess 
> that's as close as I'm ever going to get to understanding
> what you saw/see in him, so I'll leave it at that.
>

Move along folks, nothing to see. It was just the beer fog talkn'.



[FairfieldLife] Re: Analyzing the TMO using the "economic psychology" model

2012-04-12 Thread raunchydog


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb  wrote:
>
> --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, awoelflebater  wrote:
> >
> > Well at least ONE reader here knew what I was writing about. 
> 
> My bad. It never occurred to me that the word "heroics"
> could be used to refer to the soap opera events you had 
> just described. I thought you were referring to something 
> else from the annals of Robin lore, something you assumed 
> I knew about.
>

Nice try, Barry...no cigar.



[FairfieldLife] Re: Analyzing the TMO using the "economic psychology" model

2012-04-12 Thread turquoiseb
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb  wrote:
>
> --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, awoelflebater  wrote:
> >
> > Well at least ONE reader here knew what I was writing about. 
> 
> My bad. It never occurred to me that the word "heroics"
> could be used to refer to the soap opera events you had 
> just described. I thought you were referring to something 
> else from the annals of Robin lore, something you assumed 
> I knew about.

I also apologize for trying to riff on your reply "real
time" in a noisy cafe after a couple of Belgian beers
with high alcoholic content. In retrospect, I guess all
I was really trying to accomplish was to find out why
you (or anyone) were so taken by Robin, either "back 
in the day" or more recently, on FFL. 

Your occasional descriptions of him as "noble" confound
me because I never saw that in the things he wrote here,
back when I was still trying to read them. To me it was
pretty much all stuck-in-one's-head intellectual egobabble,
with generous helpings of abuse and over-emotionalism 
served up on the side. 

The only feeling I've ever gotten from you as to what 
attracted you to him in the first place was that he 
represented some kind of "adventure" for you. I guess 
that's as close as I'm ever going to get to understanding
what you saw/see in him, so I'll leave it at that.




[FairfieldLife] Re: Analyzing the TMO using the "economic psychology" model

2012-04-12 Thread turquoiseb
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, awoelflebater  wrote:
>
> Well at least ONE reader here knew what I was writing about. 

My bad. It never occurred to me that the word "heroics"
could be used to refer to the soap opera events you had 
just described. I thought you were referring to something 
else from the annals of Robin lore, something you assumed 
I knew about.





Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Analyzing the TMO using the "economic psychology" model

2012-04-11 Thread Emily Reyn
Geez, I almost missed this exchange.  Very interesting and Ann, I thought you 
were pretty clear.  You are also an excellent writer and a joy to read, btw.  
After reading this, I am reminded that Barry doesn't *hear* others' well, 
particularly if they challenge his viewpoint or correct any assumption he's 
made about them.  



 From: awoelflebater 
To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com 
Sent: Wednesday, April 11, 2012 7:39 PM
Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: Analyzing the TMO using the "economic psychology" 
model
 

  
Well at least ONE reader here knew what I was writing about. Granted, she is 
smart, analytical, reasonable, meticulous and insightful. But surely the 
average FFL'er could understand most of what I said. Of course, I also realize 
most are not interested in this subject of mine but I was hoping Barry could at 
least "grok" half of it. After all, I was "rapping" on about it for him. (sigh)

--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "authfriend"  wrote:
>
> Earlier this morning I made a post in which I asked at
> the end why anybody would consider anything Barry says
> these days to be worthwhile. He's thoughtfully followed
> up with another batch of even better examples of his
> utter inanity:
> 
> --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb  wrote:
> >
> > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, awoelflebater  wrote:
> 
> > > > > > > So there was an element of
> > > > > > > sentimentality, because in the end the whole thing didn't
> > > > > > > quite pan out with regard to MMY or even Robin's
> > > > > > > enlightenment...
> > > >
> > > > Not to mention "in terms of reality." :-)
> > > 
> > > Oh, reality. Such a subjective and impossible-to-absolutely-define
> > > concept. 
> > 
> > I don't actually see it as that difficult to define.
> > 
> > Reality is that which, after you die and cease to exist
> > as an egoic entity, persists.
> 
> Is Barry suggesting he has died and ceased to exist as an
> egoic entity? It would appear so, since he asserts above
> that Robin's goals didn't pan out "in terms of reality." 
> 
> > > > With all due respect, Ann, what this sounds like to me
> > > > is a bunch of moodmaking on *your* part, to "color" your
> > > > memories such that *you* feel "noble."
> > > 
> > > Interesting that it comes across like this because this is 
> > > not what I am about. 
> > 
> > I *get* that. Why I am commenting is that you're coming
> > across as if that *was* what you were about.
> 
> Correction: This is how Barry perceives Ann to be coming
> across. And that perception is not subject to any
> modification.
> 
> > > First of all, what Robin did or did not do during my time around
> > > him doesn't reflect the slightest on me, what I was hoping for 
> > > or what I believed. He was pretty much guiding the ship and we 
> > > were all tossed about, including him. 
> > 
> > So you abdicate all responsibility for walking up the 
> > plank and boarding that ship? Just asking.
> > 
> > > Nobility is the least of it. I didn't give a dang about his 
> > > "enlightenment", the movement, TM or any of the other spiritual 
> > > trappings. I thought he was a wonderful shit disturbing rebel
> > > with interesting ideas, he was attractive, smart and there was 
> > > never a dull moment around him (if you don't count the chanting 
> > > and manifestations). 
> > 
> > Cool. This is the most "real" I have yet heard you speak
> > about your time with Robin on this forum. That's what I
> > have been after.
> 
> IOW, Barry didn't read all the other posts in which she's
> said the same thing.
> 
> 
> > > I told you, nobility isn't in the picture, way too over 
> > > the top for me.
> > 
> > And, as I think I've told you and others here, I don't
> > believe a word you say. I believe only what you do.
> 
> As has been pointed out to Barry before, there is no
> "doing" on this forum, only "saying." The distinction
> he attempts to make is just an excuse for calling people
> liars, as he does Ann above.
> 
> 
> 
> Now come the really interesting parts of Barry's response:
> 
> > > You forget or maybe never read that post but I was the 
> > > whistleblower at the end,
> > 
> > In my personal expe

[FairfieldLife] Re: Analyzing the TMO using the "economic psychology" model

2012-04-11 Thread raunchydog


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, awoelflebater  wrote:
>
> Well at least ONE reader here knew what I was writing about. Granted, she is 
> smart, analytical, reasonable, meticulous and insightful. But surely the 
> average FFL'er could understand most of what I said. Of course, I also 
> realize most are not interested in this subject of mine but I was hoping 
> Barry could at least "grok" half of it. After all, I was "rapping" on about 
> it for him. (sigh)
> 

Hi Ann. I usually read Judy's post because she doesn't miss much about anything 
that I might find interesting, otherwise I might have missed your rap with 
Barry and his failure to understand a word of anything you said and still less 
about you as a human being. I don't have a "do not read list." I have a 
"usually read list" Judy, Em, Ann, Lawson. Everyone else I glance at the topic 
and writer to see if I want to chime in.

What Barry fails to understand about you is your ability to reflect honestly 
upon and express your feelings and motivations so clearly, warts and all. I 
admire your courage and passion to seize the moment. These are qualities I 
value in a friendship. My God! I would have given anything to have seen you 
"storm the big house, grab your best friend and throw his things into your 
horse trailer." What a gal! If ever I'm in trouble, I'd want you on my side. 

Anyway, you gave it your best shot with Barry, but "pearls before swine..." as 
they say.
 
> --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "authfriend"  wrote:
> >
> > Earlier this morning I made a post in which I asked at
> > the end why anybody would consider anything Barry says
> > these days to be worthwhile. He's thoughtfully followed
> > up with another batch of even better examples of his
> > utter inanity:
> > 
> > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb  wrote:
> > >
> > > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, awoelflebater  wrote:
> > 
> > > > > > > > So there was an element of
> > > > > > > > sentimentality, because in the end the whole thing didn't
> > > > > > > > quite pan out with regard to MMY or even Robin's
> > > > > > > > enlightenment...
> > > > >
> > > > > Not to mention "in terms of reality." :-)
> > > > 
> > > > Oh, reality. Such a subjective and impossible-to-absolutely-define
> > > > concept. 
> > > 
> > > I don't actually see it as that difficult to define.
> > > 
> > > Reality is that which, after you die and cease to exist
> > > as an egoic entity, persists.
> > 
> > Is Barry suggesting he has died and ceased to exist as an
> > egoic entity? It would appear so, since he asserts above
> > that Robin's goals didn't pan out "in terms of reality." 
> > 
> > > > > With all due respect, Ann, what this sounds like to me
> > > > > is a bunch of moodmaking on *your* part, to "color" your
> > > > > memories such that *you* feel "noble."
> > > > 
> > > > Interesting that it comes across like this because this is 
> > > > not what I am about. 
> > > 
> > > I *get* that. Why I am commenting is that you're coming
> > > across as if that *was* what you were about.
> > 
> > Correction: This is how Barry perceives Ann to be coming
> > across. And that perception is not subject to any
> > modification.
> > 
> > > > First of all, what Robin did or did not do during my time around
> > > > him doesn't reflect the slightest on me, what I was hoping for 
> > > > or what I believed. He was pretty much guiding the ship and we 
> > > > were all tossed about, including him. 
> > > 
> > > So you abdicate all responsibility for walking up the 
> > > plank and boarding that ship? Just asking.
> > > 
> > > > Nobility is the least of it. I didn't give a dang about his 
> > > > "enlightenment", the movement, TM or any of the other spiritual 
> > > > trappings. I thought he was a wonderful shit disturbing rebel
> > > > with interesting ideas, he was attractive, smart and there was 
> > > > never a dull moment around him (if you don't count the chanting 
> > > > and manifestations). 
> > > 
> > > Cool. This is the most "real" I have yet heard you speak
> > > about your time with Robin on this forum. That's what I
> > > have been after.
> > 
> > IOW, Barry didn't read all the other posts in which she's
> > said the same thing.
> > 
> > 
> > > > I told you, nobility isn't in the picture, way too over 
> > > > the top for me.
> > > 
> > > And, as I think I've told you and others here, I don't
> > > believe a word you say. I believe only what you do.
> > 
> > As has been pointed out to Barry before, there is no
> > "doing" on this forum, only "saying." The distinction
> > he attempts to make is just an excuse for calling people
> > liars, as he does Ann above.
> > 
> > 
> > 
> > Now come the really interesting parts of Barry's response:
> > 
> > > > You forget or maybe never read that post but I was the 
> > > > whistleblower at the end,
> > > 
> > > In my personal experience, the "whistleblowers" from cults
> > > are among the *most attached* former members of those cults.

[FairfieldLife] Re: Analyzing the TMO using the "economic psychology" model

2012-04-11 Thread awoelflebater
Well at least ONE reader here knew what I was writing about. Granted, she is 
smart, analytical, reasonable, meticulous and insightful. But surely the 
average FFL'er could understand most of what I said. Of course, I also realize 
most are not interested in this subject of mine but I was hoping Barry could at 
least "grok" half of it. After all, I was "rapping" on about it for him. (sigh)

--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "authfriend"  wrote:
>
> Earlier this morning I made a post in which I asked at
> the end why anybody would consider anything Barry says
> these days to be worthwhile. He's thoughtfully followed
> up with another batch of even better examples of his
> utter inanity:
> 
> --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb  wrote:
> >
> > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, awoelflebater  wrote:
> 
> > > > > > > So there was an element of
> > > > > > > sentimentality, because in the end the whole thing didn't
> > > > > > > quite pan out with regard to MMY or even Robin's
> > > > > > > enlightenment...
> > > >
> > > > Not to mention "in terms of reality." :-)
> > > 
> > > Oh, reality. Such a subjective and impossible-to-absolutely-define
> > > concept. 
> > 
> > I don't actually see it as that difficult to define.
> > 
> > Reality is that which, after you die and cease to exist
> > as an egoic entity, persists.
> 
> Is Barry suggesting he has died and ceased to exist as an
> egoic entity? It would appear so, since he asserts above
> that Robin's goals didn't pan out "in terms of reality." 
> 
> > > > With all due respect, Ann, what this sounds like to me
> > > > is a bunch of moodmaking on *your* part, to "color" your
> > > > memories such that *you* feel "noble."
> > > 
> > > Interesting that it comes across like this because this is 
> > > not what I am about. 
> > 
> > I *get* that. Why I am commenting is that you're coming
> > across as if that *was* what you were about.
> 
> Correction: This is how Barry perceives Ann to be coming
> across. And that perception is not subject to any
> modification.
> 
> > > First of all, what Robin did or did not do during my time around
> > > him doesn't reflect the slightest on me, what I was hoping for 
> > > or what I believed. He was pretty much guiding the ship and we 
> > > were all tossed about, including him. 
> > 
> > So you abdicate all responsibility for walking up the 
> > plank and boarding that ship? Just asking.
> > 
> > > Nobility is the least of it. I didn't give a dang about his 
> > > "enlightenment", the movement, TM or any of the other spiritual 
> > > trappings. I thought he was a wonderful shit disturbing rebel
> > > with interesting ideas, he was attractive, smart and there was 
> > > never a dull moment around him (if you don't count the chanting 
> > > and manifestations). 
> > 
> > Cool. This is the most "real" I have yet heard you speak
> > about your time with Robin on this forum. That's what I
> > have been after.
> 
> IOW, Barry didn't read all the other posts in which she's
> said the same thing.
> 
> 
> > > I told you, nobility isn't in the picture, way too over 
> > > the top for me.
> > 
> > And, as I think I've told you and others here, I don't
> > believe a word you say. I believe only what you do.
> 
> As has been pointed out to Barry before, there is no
> "doing" on this forum, only "saying." The distinction
> he attempts to make is just an excuse for calling people
> liars, as he does Ann above.
> 
> 
> 
> Now come the really interesting parts of Barry's response:
> 
> > > You forget or maybe never read that post but I was the 
> > > whistleblower at the end,
> > 
> > In my personal experience, the "whistleblowers" from cults
> > are among the *most attached* former members of those cults.
> > They tend to persist in their attachments decades after 
> > the True Believers have moved on.
> > 
> > > ...the one who "outed" the whole thing to the city of Victoria 
> > > via the city paper in a 5 part series that ran over 5 weeks, 
> > > I was used as a source for Masters students researching cult 
> > > phenomena, I was interviewed on national radio (CBC). I ended 
> > > up getting some of the followers fired from their jobs because 
> > > of their involvement with Robin...
> > 
> > See above.
> > 
> > > ...I personally stormed the big house and grabbed my best 
> > > friend, throwing his things into my horse trailer. I sent 
> > > scathing letters to the group and Robin, I showed up at a 
> > > seminar to tell them how crazy it had all gotten. And
> > > that is just the tip of the iceberg. 
> > 
> > And all of this is supposed to convince me that you didn't
> > go more than a little "bunny boiler" on Robin? :-)
> > 
> > Attachment is attachment. How it is expressed is irrelevant.
> > 
> > > When it was over, it was over. No sentimentality there but 
> > > no regrets either. And I don't feel noble about any of the 
> > > "heroics" at the end if that is what you're thinking.
> > 
> > I have no earthly idea what y

[FairfieldLife] Re: Analyzing the TMO using the "economic psychology" model

2012-04-11 Thread raunchydog


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "authfriend"  wrote:
>
> Earlier this morning I made a post in which I asked at
> the end why anybody would consider anything Barry says
> these days to be worthwhile. He's thoughtfully followed
> up with another batch of even better examples of his
> utter inanity:
> 
> --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb  wrote:
> >
> > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, awoelflebater  wrote:
> 
> > > > > > > So there was an element of
> > > > > > > sentimentality, because in the end the whole thing didn't
> > > > > > > quite pan out with regard to MMY or even Robin's
> > > > > > > enlightenment...
> > > >
> > > > Not to mention "in terms of reality." :-)
> > > 
> > > Oh, reality. Such a subjective and impossible-to-absolutely-define
> > > concept. 
> > 
> > I don't actually see it as that difficult to define.
> > 
> > Reality is that which, after you die and cease to exist
> > as an egoic entity, persists.
> 
> Is Barry suggesting he has died and ceased to exist as an
> egoic entity? It would appear so, since he asserts above
> that Robin's goals didn't pan out "in terms of reality." 
> 
> > > > With all due respect, Ann, what this sounds like to me
> > > > is a bunch of moodmaking on *your* part, to "color" your
> > > > memories such that *you* feel "noble."
> > > 
> > > Interesting that it comes across like this because this is 
> > > not what I am about. 
> > 
> > I *get* that. Why I am commenting is that you're coming
> > across as if that *was* what you were about.
> 
> Correction: This is how Barry perceives Ann to be coming
> across. And that perception is not subject to any
> modification.
> 
> > > First of all, what Robin did or did not do during my time around
> > > him doesn't reflect the slightest on me, what I was hoping for 
> > > or what I believed. He was pretty much guiding the ship and we 
> > > were all tossed about, including him. 
> > 
> > So you abdicate all responsibility for walking up the 
> > plank and boarding that ship? Just asking.
> > 
> > > Nobility is the least of it. I didn't give a dang about his 
> > > "enlightenment", the movement, TM or any of the other spiritual 
> > > trappings. I thought he was a wonderful shit disturbing rebel
> > > with interesting ideas, he was attractive, smart and there was 
> > > never a dull moment around him (if you don't count the chanting 
> > > and manifestations). 
> > 
> > Cool. This is the most "real" I have yet heard you speak
> > about your time with Robin on this forum. That's what I
> > have been after.
> 
> IOW, Barry didn't read all the other posts in which she's
> said the same thing.
> 
> 
> > > I told you, nobility isn't in the picture, way too over 
> > > the top for me.
> > 
> > And, as I think I've told you and others here, I don't
> > believe a word you say. I believe only what you do.
> 
> As has been pointed out to Barry before, there is no
> "doing" on this forum, only "saying." The distinction
> he attempts to make is just an excuse for calling people
> liars, as he does Ann above.
> 
> 
> 
> Now come the really interesting parts of Barry's response:
> 
> > > You forget or maybe never read that post but I was the 
> > > whistleblower at the end,
> > 
> > In my personal experience, the "whistleblowers" from cults
> > are among the *most attached* former members of those cults.
> > They tend to persist in their attachments decades after 
> > the True Believers have moved on.
> > 
> > > ...the one who "outed" the whole thing to the city of Victoria 
> > > via the city paper in a 5 part series that ran over 5 weeks, 
> > > I was used as a source for Masters students researching cult 
> > > phenomena, I was interviewed on national radio (CBC). I ended 
> > > up getting some of the followers fired from their jobs because 
> > > of their involvement with Robin...
> > 
> > See above.
> > 
> > > ...I personally stormed the big house and grabbed my best 
> > > friend, throwing his things into my horse trailer. I sent 
> > > scathing letters to the group and Robin, I showed up at a 
> > > seminar to tell them how crazy it had all gotten. And
> > > that is just the tip of the iceberg. 
> > 
> > And all of this is supposed to convince me that you didn't
> > go more than a little "bunny boiler" on Robin? :-)
> > 
> > Attachment is attachment. How it is expressed is irrelevant.
> > 
> > > When it was over, it was over. No sentimentality there but 
> > > no regrets either. And I don't feel noble about any of the 
> > > "heroics" at the end if that is what you're thinking.
> > 
> > I have no earthly idea what you are talking about.
> > 
> > Really.
> 
> Is that amazing? She just finished describing the "heroics,"
> and Barry has no idea what she's referring to.
> 
> > What did you imagine? That it -- whatever "it" was -- was
> > all glorious, and deserving of the term "heroics?" And that 
> > everyone here would just know what you were referring to? 
> > Just asking.
> 
> Anybody who has read he

[FairfieldLife] Re: Analyzing the TMO using the "economic psychology" model

2012-04-11 Thread authfriend
Earlier this morning I made a post in which I asked at
the end why anybody would consider anything Barry says
these days to be worthwhile. He's thoughtfully followed
up with another batch of even better examples of his
utter inanity:

--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb  wrote:
>
> --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, awoelflebater  wrote:

> > > > > > So there was an element of
> > > > > > sentimentality, because in the end the whole thing didn't
> > > > > > quite pan out with regard to MMY or even Robin's
> > > > > > enlightenment...
> > >
> > > Not to mention "in terms of reality." :-)
> > 
> > Oh, reality. Such a subjective and impossible-to-absolutely-define
> > concept. 
> 
> I don't actually see it as that difficult to define.
> 
> Reality is that which, after you die and cease to exist
> as an egoic entity, persists.

Is Barry suggesting he has died and ceased to exist as an
egoic entity? It would appear so, since he asserts above
that Robin's goals didn't pan out "in terms of reality." 

> > > With all due respect, Ann, what this sounds like to me
> > > is a bunch of moodmaking on *your* part, to "color" your
> > > memories such that *you* feel "noble."
> > 
> > Interesting that it comes across like this because this is 
> > not what I am about. 
> 
> I *get* that. Why I am commenting is that you're coming
> across as if that *was* what you were about.

Correction: This is how Barry perceives Ann to be coming
across. And that perception is not subject to any
modification.

> > First of all, what Robin did or did not do during my time around
> > him doesn't reflect the slightest on me, what I was hoping for 
> > or what I believed. He was pretty much guiding the ship and we 
> > were all tossed about, including him. 
> 
> So you abdicate all responsibility for walking up the 
> plank and boarding that ship? Just asking.
> 
> > Nobility is the least of it. I didn't give a dang about his 
> > "enlightenment", the movement, TM or any of the other spiritual 
> > trappings. I thought he was a wonderful shit disturbing rebel
> > with interesting ideas, he was attractive, smart and there was 
> > never a dull moment around him (if you don't count the chanting 
> > and manifestations). 
> 
> Cool. This is the most "real" I have yet heard you speak
> about your time with Robin on this forum. That's what I
> have been after.

IOW, Barry didn't read all the other posts in which she's
said the same thing.


> > I told you, nobility isn't in the picture, way too over 
> > the top for me.
> 
> And, as I think I've told you and others here, I don't
> believe a word you say. I believe only what you do.

As has been pointed out to Barry before, there is no
"doing" on this forum, only "saying." The distinction
he attempts to make is just an excuse for calling people
liars, as he does Ann above.



Now come the really interesting parts of Barry's response:

> > You forget or maybe never read that post but I was the 
> > whistleblower at the end,
> 
> In my personal experience, the "whistleblowers" from cults
> are among the *most attached* former members of those cults.
> They tend to persist in their attachments decades after 
> the True Believers have moved on.
> 
> > ...the one who "outed" the whole thing to the city of Victoria 
> > via the city paper in a 5 part series that ran over 5 weeks, 
> > I was used as a source for Masters students researching cult 
> > phenomena, I was interviewed on national radio (CBC). I ended 
> > up getting some of the followers fired from their jobs because 
> > of their involvement with Robin...
> 
> See above.
> 
> > ...I personally stormed the big house and grabbed my best 
> > friend, throwing his things into my horse trailer. I sent 
> > scathing letters to the group and Robin, I showed up at a 
> > seminar to tell them how crazy it had all gotten. And
> > that is just the tip of the iceberg. 
> 
> And all of this is supposed to convince me that you didn't
> go more than a little "bunny boiler" on Robin? :-)
> 
> Attachment is attachment. How it is expressed is irrelevant.
> 
> > When it was over, it was over. No sentimentality there but 
> > no regrets either. And I don't feel noble about any of the 
> > "heroics" at the end if that is what you're thinking.
> 
> I have no earthly idea what you are talking about.
> 
> Really.

Is that amazing? She just finished describing the "heroics,"
and Barry has no idea what she's referring to.

> What did you imagine? That it -- whatever "it" was -- was
> all glorious, and deserving of the term "heroics?" And that 
> everyone here would just know what you were referring to? 
> Just asking.

Anybody who has read her post with any attention would
know exactly what she was referring to, since she just
got done describing it in some detail.

> > Actually, I feel really bad it had to come to that,,,
> 
> What? We have no idea what you're talking about. Really.
> That was part of *your* experience, not ours. 
> 
> In my estimati

[FairfieldLife] Re: Analyzing the TMO using the "economic psychology" model

2012-04-11 Thread turquoiseb
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, awoelflebater  wrote:
>
> Hi Barry! I'll try and answer some of your queries because I 
> think there are some interesting and valid ones here.

Thank you. I will impart to you the corresponding
respect of replying to your replies in real time, as
I first read them. Be warned. :-)

This makes it more fun for me. YMMV.

> --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb  wrote:
> >
> > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, awoelflebater no_reply@ wrote:
> > >
> > > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Vaj  wrote:
> > > >
> > > > On Apr 10, 2012, at 11:46 AM, awoelflebater wrote:
> > > >
> > > > > Ah, but I think you confuse moodmaker with someone who could
> > > > > appear egotistical, even a megalomaniac.
> > > >
> > > > I was tapping into his obvious use of drama and the need to
> > > > be both director and actor. Draaahma-maker = Moodmaker.
> > >
> > > No, they both have "maker"on the end but they are not equating
> > > for me. And I am not sure he created drama, I think he tapped
> > > into where life could be dramatic if you stirred the pot enough.
> > > >
> > > > > I believe his sentimentality was actually sincerity, as
> > > > > misguided about the movement as it may or may not have been.
> > > > > I thought it was rather noble actually, his desire to uphold
> > > > > what he felt was the best of who MMY was and what the Movement
> > > > > could have stood for. So there was an element of
> > > > > sentimentality, because in the end the whole thing didn't
> > > > > quite pan out with regard to MMY or even Robin's
> > > > > enlightenment...
> >
> > Not to mention "in terms of reality." :-)
> 
> Oh, reality. Such a subjective and impossible-to-absolutely-define
> concept. 

I don't actually see it as that difficult to define.

Reality is that which, after you die and cease to exist
as an egoic entity, persists. 

Do you disagree?  :-)

> Many philosophers with far greater minds than yours or mine
> have given it a shot and as far as I am concerned the verdict 
> hasn't appeared yet. For every individual reality is different. 
> If you have an ultimate definition for what it is in any one 
> moment let me know. All I could possibly speak about is what 
> is reality for me.
> >
> > > > > ...but his heart was in the right place.You have to
> > > > > admit he did believe in what he was doing and some of that
> > > > > was not to rip things apart with regard to TM but to produce
> > > > > a truer version of it. Not really what I would call a
> > > > > moodmaker. More like a misguided warrior.
> >
> > With all due respect, Ann, what this sounds like to me
> > is a bunch of moodmaking on *your* part, to "color" your
> > memories such that *you* feel "noble."
> 
> Interesting that it comes across like this because this is 
> not what I am about. 

I *get* that. Why I am commenting is that you're coming
across as if that *was* what you were about.

> First of all, what Robin did or did not do during my time around
> him doesn't reflect the slightest on me, what I was hoping for 
> or what I believed. He was pretty much guiding the ship and we 
> were all tossed about, including him. 

So you abdicate all responsibility for walking up the 
plank and boarding that ship? Just asking.

> Nobility is the least of it. I didn't give a dang about his 
> "enlightenment", the movement, TM or any of the other spiritual 
> trappings. I thought he was a wonderful shit disturbing rebel
> with interesting ideas, he was attractive, smart and there was 
> never a dull moment around him (if you don't count the chanting 
> and manifestations). 

Cool. This is the most "real" I have yet heard you speak
about your time with Robin on this forum. That's what I
have been after.

I can identify. Really. The times I spent hanging with the
weirdass Rama guy back in his "early days" were COOL. I 
wouldn't trade them for *anything*. 

On the other hand, I wouldn't repeat them for anything. :-)

> I was kind of an oddball in the group in this way. I
> never believed he was going to get me to enlightenment, I could 
> barely sit long enough to meditate let alone devote myself to 
> becoming a TM teacher or following other gurus, I had way more 
> important things to do and there was no "cause" for me - this 
> was just a really cool adventure.

And adventure is preferable to the same olde same olde 
daily grind. I get it.

> Part of the problem Barry, is that you don't know me at all. 
> That is not your fault. How could you? Your comments sometimes 
> entertain me because when you speak about me it is like I am 
> reading about somebody else. 

And you don't perceive that as a gift?  :-)

> I kind of wish we could spend a week together, you would be 
> surprised, I don't resemble who you describe here, trust me 
> on this. 

No. I really can't. You have so far given me no reason to 
do so. I am seeking to rectify this.

> To me nobility is an old fashioned term that doesn't apply 
> to anything in this 

[FairfieldLife] Re: Analyzing the TMO using the "economic psychology" model

2012-04-11 Thread awoelflebater
Hi Barry! I'll try and answer some of your queries because I think there
are some interesting and valid ones here.
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb  wrote:
>
> --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, awoelflebater no_reply@ wrote:
> >
> > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Vaj  wrote:
> > >
> > > On Apr 10, 2012, at 11:46 AM, awoelflebater wrote:
> > >
> > > > Ah, but I think you confuse moodmaker with someone who could
> > > > appear egotistical, even a megalomaniac.
> > >
> > > I was tapping into his obvious use of drama and the need to
> > > be both director and actor. Draaahma-maker = Moodmaker.
> >
> > No, they both have "maker"on the end but they are not equating
> > for me. And I am not sure he created drama, I think he tapped
> > into where life could be dramatic if you stirred the pot enough.
> > >
> > > > I believe his sentimentality was actually sincerity, as
> > > > misguided about the movement as it may or may not have been.
> > > > I thought it was rather noble actually, his desire to uphold
> > > > what he felt was the best of who MMY was and what the Movement
> > > > could have stood for. So there was an element of
> > > > sentimentality, because in the end the whole thing didn't
> > > > quite pan out with regard to MMY or even Robin's
> > > > enlightenment...
>
> Not to mention "in terms of reality." :-)
Oh, reality. Such a subjective and impossible-to-absolutely-define
concept. Many philosophers with far greater minds than yours or mine
have given it a shot and as far as I am concerned the verdict hasn't
appeared yet. For every individual reality is different. If you have an
ultimate definition for what it is in any one moment let me know. All I
could possibly speak about is what is reality for me.
>
> > > > ...but his heart was in the right place.You have to
> > > > admit he did believe in what he was doing and some of that
> > > > was not to rip things apart with regard to TM but to produce
> > > > a truer version of it. Not really what I would call a
> > > > moodmaker. More like a misguided warrior.
>
> With all due respect, Ann, what this sounds like to me
> is a bunch of moodmaking on *your* part, to "color" your
> memories such that *you* feel "noble."
Interesting that it comes across like this because this is not what I am
about. First of all, what Robin did or did not do during my time around
him doesn't reflect the slightest on me, what I was hoping for or what I
believed. He was pretty much guiding the ship and we were all tossed
about, including him. Nobility is the least of it. I didn't give a dang
about his "enlightenment", the movement, TM or any of the other
spiritual trappings. I thought he was a wonderful shit disturbing rebel
with interesting ideas, he was attractive, smart and there was never a
dull moment around him (if you don't count the chanting and
manifestations). I was kind of an oddball in the group in this way. I
never believed he was going to get me to enlightenment, I could barely
sit long enough to meditate let alone devote myself to becoming a TM
teacher or following other gurus, I had way more important things to do
and there was no "cause" for me - this was just a really cool adventure.
Part of the problem Barry, is that you don't know me at all. That is not
your fault. How could you? Your comments sometimes entertain me because
when you speak about me it is like I am reading about somebody else. I
kind of wish we could spend a week together, you would be surprised, I
don't resemble who you describe here, trust me on this. To me nobility
is an old fashioned term that doesn't apply to anything in this world
except perhaps a highly schooled horse performing effortlessly at Grand
Prix. I certainly has nothing to do with my life or how I would ever
classify myself.
>
> Another interpretation of the events you are creating a
> mood about is that you were just sucked into the psychic
> field of a charismatic narcissist,
I was definitely attracted to this charismatic narcissist alright - on
lots of levels.
   and now decades later
> you're still trying to "ennoble" it and make it sound
> different, so that you don't have to deal with the strong
> possibility that all that happened was that you had so
> little discrimination at the time that you were perfect
> fodder for a cult.
I told you, nobility isn't in the picture, way too over the top for me.
Anyone who knows me knows I am the last thing from "perfect fodder for a
cult". You're just going to have to trust me on this one too. You forget
or maybe never read that post but I was the whistleblower at the end,
the one who "outed" the whole thing to the city of Victoria via the city
paper in a 5 part series that ran over 5 weeks, I was used as a source
for Masters students researching cult phenomena, I was interviewed on
national radio (CBC). I ended up getting some of the followers fired
from their jobs because of their involvement with Robin, I personally
stormed the big house and grabbed my be

[FairfieldLife] Re: Analyzing the TMO using the "economic psychology" model

2012-04-11 Thread Richard J. Williams


> > With all due respect, Ann, what this sounds like to me
> > is a bunch of moodmaking on *your* part, to "color" your
> > memories such that *you* feel "noble." 
> > 
authfriend: 
> Tell me again why anybody here thinks Barry has
> anything worthwhile to say.
>
I've gave up on Barry, as far as factual information, years 
ago. My doubts began when he claimed to have read over 200 
books on the 'Cathars', but not a single book on the 
Gnostics! Sometimes Barry doesn't even make any sense.

Then, recently Barry got all mixed up on the arguments he 
made opposing 'determinism', thinking I guess, that meant 
'predestination', not realizing that in supporting 
'free-will', he thus set up an argument against 'karma', 
which he loudly proclaimed in another post!
 
> Nothing I pointed out above occurred to him even for a 
> second when he was writing his post. He actually thought 
> he was making insightful observations.
>
Go figure!



[FairfieldLife] Re: Analyzing the TMO using the "economic psychology" model

2012-04-11 Thread authfriend
This from the guy who gets all hot and bothered when
someone who was never around MMY dares make a comment
about him. Even though they've seen many hours of MMY
videotapes, but Barry has never seen so much as a
minute of video of Robin's seminars and wasn't even 
at MIU when Robin was doing his thing there.

--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb  wrote:

> With all due respect, Ann, what this sounds like to me
> is a bunch of moodmaking on *your* part, to "color" your
> memories such that *you* feel "noble." 
> 
> Another interpretation of the events you are creating a 
> mood about is that you were just sucked into the psychic
> field of a charismatic narcissist, and now decades later
> you're still trying to "ennoble" it and make it sound 
> different, so that you don't have to deal with the strong
> possibility that all that happened was that you had so
> little discrimination at the time that you were perfect
> fodder for a cult.

You'd think from what Barry writes that he'd actually
been there along with Ann, and that therefore his
interpretation of the events in question was at least
as valid as hers, wouldn't you?

> It's your near inability to see any other side of him
> *but* the "noble" side that makes me think you're
> mood-making. Still. All these years later.

Such as when she said Robin appeared to be a misguided,
egotistical megalomaniac?

> Did you see *nothing* "mood-makey" about Robin's brief
> performance here on FFL? I ask because I saw little else,
> and find it difficult to believe that someone as supposedly
> intelligent as yourself saw none of it.

And from this, you would hardly expect that Barry had
proclaimed loudly over and over that he didn't read
Robin's posts, would you?

Tell me again why anybody here thinks Barry has
anything worthwhile to say. Nothing I pointed out above
occurred to him even for a second when he was writing
his post. He actually thought he was making insightful
observations.




[FairfieldLife] Re: Analyzing the TMO using the "economic psychology" model

2012-04-11 Thread turquoiseb
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, awoelflebater  wrote:
>
> --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Vaj  wrote:
> >
> > On Apr 10, 2012, at 11:46 AM, awoelflebater wrote:
> >
> > > Ah, but I think you confuse moodmaker with someone who could 
> > > appear egotistical, even a megalomaniac.
> >
> > I was tapping into his obvious use of drama and the need to 
> > be both director and actor. Draaahma-maker = Moodmaker.
> 
> No, they both have "maker"on the end but they are not equating 
> for me. And I am not sure he created drama, I think he tapped 
> into where life could be dramatic if you stirred the pot enough.
> >
> > > I believe his sentimentality was actually sincerity, as 
> > > misguided about the movement as it may or may not have been. 
> > > I thought it was rather noble actually, his desire to uphold 
> > > what he felt was the best of who MMY was and what the Movement 
> > > could have stood for. So there was an element of 
> > > sentimentality, because in the end the whole thing didn't 
> > > quite pan out with regard to MMY or even Robin's
> > > enlightenment...

Not to mention "in terms of reality." :-)

> > > ...but his heart was in the right place.You have to
> > > admit he did believe in what he was doing and some of that 
> > > was not to rip things apart with regard to TM but to produce 
> > > a truer version of it. Not really what I would call a 
> > > moodmaker. More like a misguided warrior.

With all due respect, Ann, what this sounds like to me
is a bunch of moodmaking on *your* part, to "color" your
memories such that *you* feel "noble." 

Another interpretation of the events you are creating a 
mood about is that you were just sucked into the psychic
field of a charismatic narcissist, and now decades later
you're still trying to "ennoble" it and make it sound 
different, so that you don't have to deal with the strong
possibility that all that happened was that you had so
little discrimination at the time that you were perfect
fodder for a cult.

I am certainly willing to look at that interpretation of
my time with Rama. But I've never seen you deal with that
possible interpretation of Robin. It's as if you're still 
trying to impress him (assuming that he's lurking), and 
still hoping for the same "pat on the back" from him that 
you lived for at the time. 

It's your near inability to see any other side of him *but*
the "noble" side that makes me think you're mood-making.
Still. All these years later. 

Did you see *nothing* "mood-makey" about Robin's brief 
performance here on FFL? I ask because I saw little else,
and find it difficult to believe that someone as supposedly
intelligent as yourself saw none of it.




[FairfieldLife] Re: Analyzing the TMO using the "economic psychology" model

2012-04-11 Thread nablusoss1008


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "sparaig"  wrote:
>
> 
> 
> --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, nablusoss1008  wrote:
> >
> > 
> > 
> > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "sparaig"  wrote:
> > >
> > > 
> > > 
> > > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, nablusoss1008  wrote:
> > > >
> > > > 
> > > > 
> > > > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "iamyukta"  wrote:
> > > > >
> > > > > 
> > > > > I do not understand the term "mood maker"??  Could you please define 
> > > > > this for me.  
> > > > 
> > > > 
> > > > 
> > > > In most cases a mood-maker is someone who invents moods and and the mix 
> > > > it up with real experiences of substance.
> > > > 
> > > > Like when a Buddhists says he's "20 minutes without thoughts" but is 
> > > > unable to describe the experience. That's classical mood-making.
> > > >
> > > 
> > > 
> > > Er, I would expect that someone was 20 minutes (or one minute or 1 
> > > second) without thought to be unable to describe the experience.
> > 
> > 
> > So would I. The Turq has repeatedly made such claims and has been 
> > repeatedly challenged to give a report of his "experiences" but refuses to 
> > do so. One therefore draws the conclusion that he never had such 
> > experiences, that it's just more bragging.
> > 
> > 
> > > 
> > > How do YOIU describe 20 minutes without thoughts?
> > 
> > I have infact described such experiences as a newbie here several years 
> > ago. But I was drowned in so much sarcasm, cynicism and vile attacks from 
> > the "Buddhist's" here that I promised "never again".
> >
> 
> Well, if you really did try to describe 20 minutes of transcending, I'd be 
> pretty sarcastic too.
> 
> For one thing, how did you know it was 20 minutes?
> 
> 
> L.


"Such an experience" has nothing to do with 20 minutes or an hour. The "20 
minutes without thoughts at will" was claimed by the Turq, not me.



[FairfieldLife] Re: Analyzing the TMO using the "economic psychology" model

2012-04-10 Thread authfriend
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, awoelflebater  wrote:
> 
> --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Vaj  wrote:
> >
> > On Apr 10, 2012, at 11:46 AM, awoelflebater wrote:
> >
> > > Ah, but I think you confuse moodmaker with someone who
> > > could appear egotistical, even a megalomaniac.
> >
> > I was tapping into his obvious use of drama and the need
> > to be both director and actor. Draaahma-maker = Moodmaker.
>
> No, they both have "maker"on the end but they are not equating
> for me.

They aren't the same thing at all in the TM context, FWIW.



> And I am not sure he created drama, I think he tapped into
> where life could be dramatic if you stirred the pot enough.
> >
> > > I believe his sentimentality was actually sincerity, as 
> > > misguided about the movement as it may or may not have
> > > been. I thought it was rather noble actually, his desire
> > > to uphold what he felt was the best of who MMY was and
> > > what the Movement could have stood for. So there was an
> > > element of sentimentality, because in the end the whole
> > > thing didn't quite pan out with regard to MMY or even
> > > Robin's enlightenment but his heart was in the right
> > > place.You have to admit he did believe in what he was
> > > doing and some of that was not to rip things apart with
> > > regard to TM but to produce a truer version of it. Not
> > > really what I would call a moodmaker. More like a
> > > misguided warrior.
> >
> >
> > The one item that would be impossible for me to remove is his use of
> > manifestations. In these cases, he's clearly either inducing a mood
> > on the audience. I suspect a lot of that hinged on the suggestibility
> > of the audience, which was probably quite high.
> Funny, because I always hated those manifestations. They neither created
> a mood for me or were believable. My least favourite was the chanting
> and the manifestations were next to that on the rating scale. I loved
> the discussions, the things that were more relevant to my 'here and
> now'. Confrontations were always fascinating, among other things. But I
> just can't relate to the mood making angle. But each to his own.
> >
>




[FairfieldLife] Re: Analyzing the TMO using the "economic psychology" model

2012-04-10 Thread awoelflebater

--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Vaj  wrote:
>
>
> On Apr 10, 2012, at 11:46 AM, awoelflebater wrote:
>
> > Ah, but I think you confuse moodmaker with someone who could appear
> > egotistical, even a megalomaniac.
>
> I was tapping into his obvious use of drama and the need to be both
> director and actor. Draaahma-maker = Moodmaker.
No, they both have "maker"on the end but they are not equating for me.
And I am not sure he created drama, I think he tapped into where life
could be dramatic if you stirred the pot enough.
>
> > I believe his sentimentality was actually sincerity, as misguided
> > about the movement as it may or may not have been. I thought it was
> > rather noble actually, his desire to uphold what he felt was the
> > best of who MMY was and what the Movement could have stood for. So
> > there was an element of sentimentality, because in the end the
> > whole thing didn't quite pan out with regard to MMY or even Robin's
> > enlightenment but his heart was in the right place.You have to
> > admit he did believe in what he was doing and some of that was not
> > to rip things apart with regard to TM but to produce a truer
> > version of it. Not really what I would call a moodmaker. More like
> > a misguided warrior.
>
>
> The one item that would be impossible for me to remove is his use of
> manifestations. In these cases, he's clearly either inducing a mood
> on the audience. I suspect a lot of that hinged on the suggestibility
> of the audience, which was probably quite high.
Funny, because I always hated those manifestations. They neither created
a mood for me or were believable. My least favourite was the chanting
and the manifestations were next to that on the rating scale. I loved
the discussions, the things that were more relevant to my 'here and
now'. Confrontations were always fascinating, among other things. But I
just can't relate to the mood making angle. But each to his own.
>



[FairfieldLife] Re: Analyzing the TMO using the "economic psychology" model

2012-04-10 Thread sparaig


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, nablusoss1008  wrote:
>
> 
> 
> --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "sparaig"  wrote:
> >
> > 
> > 
> > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, nablusoss1008  wrote:
> > >
> > > 
> > > 
> > > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "iamyukta"  wrote:
> > > >
> > > > 
> > > > I do not understand the term "mood maker"??  Could you please define 
> > > > this for me.  
> > > 
> > > 
> > > 
> > > In most cases a mood-maker is someone who invents moods and and the mix 
> > > it up with real experiences of substance.
> > > 
> > > Like when a Buddhists says he's "20 minutes without thoughts" but is 
> > > unable to describe the experience. That's classical mood-making.
> > >
> > 
> > 
> > Er, I would expect that someone was 20 minutes (or one minute or 1 second) 
> > without thought to be unable to describe the experience.
> 
> 
> So would I. The Turq has repeatedly made such claims and has been repeatedly 
> challenged to give a report of his "experiences" but refuses to do so. One 
> therefore draws the conclusion that he never had such experiences, that it's 
> just more bragging.
> 
> 
> > 
> > How do YOIU describe 20 minutes without thoughts?
> 
> I have infact described such experiences as a newbie here several years ago. 
> But I was drowned in so much sarcasm, cynicism and vile attacks from the 
> "Buddhist's" here that I promised "never again".
>

Well, if you really did try to describe 20 minutes of transcending, I'd be 
pretty sarcastic too.

For one thing, how did you know it was 20 minutes?


L.




[FairfieldLife] Re: Analyzing the TMO using the "economic psychology" model

2012-04-10 Thread Buck
Vaj,. Really nice description below of how it has come for some spiritual folks 
here.  Thanks.  That is quite a valid description, included like in the second 
nite of TM 3-day checking in learning TM and also the culminating practice of 
patanjali too.   This is where it has gone for a lot of people in Fairfield.  
Is also a lot of what Master John Douglas brings in his practices that a lot of 
the TM movement does now. Like as a melding of effortless transcending wakeful 
mindfulness meditation beyond mantra.  

This is really an excellent description regardless of where it came from.  
Maharishi always fundamentally felt that people should practice for a lot 
longer than 20 minutes twice a day.  TM twice a day was an accommodation to 
placate householders and busy-businessmen with their obligations .   The Raja's 
program is actually a more ideal program towards cultivation of spiritual depth 
or like the Invincible America course schedule.  Practices with discipline and 
time taken to get the experience.  Certainly there's a lot of depth to 
spiritual silence.  

Best Regards, 

-Buck in FF 

--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Vaj  wrote:
>
> 

> > How do YOIU describe 20 minutes without thoughts?
> 
> 
> Since it takes about 3 hours to really settle down, I doubt there'd  
> be much worth commenting on at 20 minutes.
> 
> But if one is an expert at the practice of samadhi and attains it,  
> it's first marker is a dramatic shift in the nervous system often  
> experienced along with a brief sense of numbness at the top of the  
> head. After this, mental and physical pliancy ("flexibility") -  
> cheerfulness and a lightness of the body arises. There's the feeling  
> one could meditate for as long as one wants, at whatever level of  
> subtlety and that actually becomes a possibility. Physical and mental  
> bliss arise as well and are at first a little overwhelming, but that  
> rapture quickly fades, like a plane passing through the eyewall of  
> the hurricane. With the final achievement of samadhi one leaves the  
> world of meditative objects (mantras, various mental objects, etc.).  
> Only the aspects of the sheer awareness, clarity, and joy of the mind  
> appear, without the intrusion of any sense objects. Any thoughts that  
> arise are not sustained, nor do they proliferate; rather they vanish  
> of their own accord, like bubbles emerging from water. One has no  
> sense of one's own body, and it seems as if one's mind has become  
> indivisible with space.
> 
> While remaining in this absence of appearances, even though it is  
> still not possible for a single moment of consciousness to observe  
> itself, one moment of consciousness may recall the experience of the  
> immediately preceding moment of consciousness, which, in turn, may  
> recall its immediately preceding moment—each moment having no other  
> appearances or objects arising to it. Thus, due to the homogeneity of  
> this mental continuum, with each moment of consciousness recalling  
> the previous moment of consciousness, the experiential effect is that  
> of consciousness apprehending itself.
> 
> The defining characteristics of consciousness recollectively  
> perceived in that state are first a sense of clarity, or implicit  
> luminosity capable of manifesting as all manner of appearances, and  
> secondly the quality of cognizance, or the event of knowing. Upon  
> attaining samadhi, by focusing the attention on the sheer clarity and  
> the sheer cognizance of experience, one attends to the defining  
> characteristics of consciousness alone, as opposed to the qualities  
> of other objects of consciousness.
> 
> 
> That's one description of how it might be described.
>



[FairfieldLife] Re: Analyzing the TMO using the "economic psychology" model

2012-04-10 Thread turquoiseb
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, nablusoss1008  wrote:
>
> --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb  wrote:
> >
> > > Can you stop your thoughts at will and go into thoughtless
> > > samadhi for ten to twenty minutes at a time? If so, you
> > > have attained what would be considered the stage of "talented
> > > beginner" in many traditions. If not... well...
> > 
> > I may have missed something, but I don't believe that
> > Sir Nabs has ever answered the original question.
> 
> That's not the original question, as you know well.  

With all due respect, Nabs, it was. Otherwise, what
would you have had to base your followup question --
asking me to describe it -- on?


> > Nabby now claims (at the bottom of this post) that he has
> > not only experienced this (the ability to go into thought-
> > less samadhi at will for 10-20 minutes at a time), but 
> > that he has described what it was like for him to do so 
> > previously on this forum. 
> > 
> > He won't tell us where, or when, or under which of his many, 
> > many posting IDs here he said this stuff,
> 
> Oh, you must know more than I do. Many, many posting IDs 
> here ? Well that's news to me, I think my ID always had 
> Nablusoss of some sort and are max 2 during the years if 
> I remember correctly. 

You don't. Have you forgotten 'lupidus108'? And all 
of the many variants of 'nablus' you created because
you couldn't remember what numbers you affixed after
it the previous time, and thus created a new ID?

I won't follow in someone's footsteps here and call 
you a liar outright, just a mindless TM dweeb who
probably couldn't remember last week, much less 2006. :-)

> And again, since you seem to have trouble reading; unlike 
> you, I have never claimed the ability to go into thought-
> less samadhi AT WILL for 10-20 minutes at a time. 

What is it that you are claiming was pounced upon so
savagely by "Buddhists," then? A quick scan of your
earliest posts as 'lupidus108' reveals nothing even
remotely like you describing what it is like to 
experience 20 minutes of thoughtlessness, *much less*
anyone giving you shit about it. 

Methinks that you might just have to be a bit more
specific if you want even your "got yer back" buddies
here to support you on this one.

I mean, one would think you'd be *happy* to point us
to the posts in which the big, bad, evil Buddhists
gave you such a hard time for describing the 
indescribable.





Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Analyzing the TMO using the "economic psychology" model

2012-04-10 Thread Vaj


On Apr 10, 2012, at 11:46 AM, awoelflebater wrote:

Ah, but I think you confuse moodmaker with someone who could appear  
egotistical, even a megalomaniac.


I was tapping into his obvious use of drama and the need to be both  
director and actor. Draaahma-maker = Moodmaker.


I believe his sentimentality was actually sincerity, as misguided  
about the movement as it may or may not have been. I thought it was  
rather noble actually, his desire to uphold what he felt was the  
best of who MMY was and what the Movement could have stood for. So  
there was an element of sentimentality, because in the end the  
whole thing didn't quite pan out with regard to MMY or even Robin's  
enlightenment but his heart was in the right place.You have to  
admit he did believe in what he was doing and some of that was not  
to rip things apart with regard to TM but to produce a truer  
version of it. Not really what I would call a moodmaker. More like  
a misguided warrior.



The one item that would be impossible for me to remove is his use of  
manifestations. In these cases, he's clearly either inducing a mood  
on the audience. I suspect a lot of that hinged on the suggestibility  
of the audience, which was probably quite high.

[FairfieldLife] Re: Analyzing the TMO using the "economic psychology" model

2012-04-10 Thread nablusoss1008


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb  wrote:
>

> 
> > Can you stop your thoughts at will and go into thoughtless
> > samadhi for ten to twenty minutes at a time? If so, you
> > have attained what would be considered the stage of "talented
> > beginner" in many traditions. If not... well...
> 
> I may have missed something, but I don't believe that
> Sir Nabs has ever answered the original question.


That's not the original question, as you know well.  It was a way for you to 
slip away the real original question of "how do you experience 20 minutes 
without thoughts ?" Instead of answering a simply question you tried to 
sidetrack the discussion you so feverently wanted to avoid by asking a 
counter-question.

 All he 
> seems to have done is demonstrate that the question pushed 
> his buttons, big-time. 


No, it triggerred my curiosity. Could it really be that this beer-gulping 
egomaniac in Amsterdam actually had such experiences ? 
I didn't rule that out entierly, knowing quite a few freaks with interesting 
experiences myself, until later when it became obvious that the Turq wanted to 
avoid answering the question at all costs.

In how many posts has he obsessed
> over this throwaway line now?


Quite a few for the simple reason it is interesting that someone who claims to 
have "20 minutes without thoughts" refuses to describe the experience. Which 
again goes a long way in confirming that the two Buddhists on this forum are 
liers. 


> Nabby now claims (at the bottom of this post) that he has
> not only experienced this (the ability to go into thought-
> less samadhi at will for 10-20 minutes at a time), but 
> that he has described what it was like for him to do so 
> previously on this forum. 
> 
> He won't tell us where, or when, or under which of his many, 
> many posting IDs here he said this stuff,

Oh, you must know more than I do. Many, many posting IDs here ? Well that's 
news to me, I think my ID always had Nablusoss of some sort and are max 2 
during the years if I remember correctly. 
And again, since you seem to have trouble reading; unlike you, I have never 
claimed the ability to go into thought-less samadhi AT WILL for 10-20 minutes 
at a time. You did that.
Someone with such foolish desires is definitely not practising TM.

so that we could 
> look it up and see for ourselves the response to his descrip-
> tion he describes above, and how he was so mercilessly 
> pounced upon by evil Buddhists. 
> 
> C'mon Nabby. *Everybody* here loves a good gang fight.
> Share the links with us so that we can watch you getting
> beat up by big, bad Buddhists. 
> 
> I have no memory of such an event. I'm thinkin' that I'm 
> not alone here in that regard.
> 
> If you do, and are still holding onto that memory in the
> form of a grudge...all these years later, I'm doubting your
> claim to be able to stop thought at will even more than I
> did before. Just sayin'. 


The ability to "stop thoughts at will" is the still unsubstanciated claim of 
the Turq, not me. I've never made such a silly claim. 20 minutes of 
transcendence is something else.




> 
> --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, nablusoss1008  wrote:
> >
> > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "sparaig"  wrote:
> > >
> > > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, nablusoss1008  wrote:
> > > >
> > > > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "iamyukta"  wrote:
> > > > > 
> > > > > I do not understand the term "mood maker"??  Could you please define 
> > > > > this for me.  
> > > > 
> > > > In most cases a mood-maker is someone who invents moods and and the mix 
> > > > it up with real experiences of substance.
> > > > 
> > > > Like when a Buddhists says he's "20 minutes without thoughts" but is 
> > > > unable to describe the experience. That's classical mood-making.
> > > 
> > > Er, I would expect that someone was 20 minutes (or one minute or 1 
> > > second) without thought to be unable to describe the experience.
> > 
> > So would I. The Turq has repeatedly made such claims and has been 
> > repeatedly challenged to give a report of his "experiences" but refuses to 
> > do so. One therefore draws the conclusion that he never had such 
> > experiences, that it's just more bragging.
> > 
> > > How do YOIU describe 20 minutes without thoughts?
> > 
> > I have infact described such experiences as a newbie here several years 
> > ago. But I was drowned in so much sarcasm, cynicism and vile attacks from 
> > the "Buddhist's" here that I promised "never again".
>




[FairfieldLife] Re: Analyzing the TMO using the "economic psychology" model

2012-04-10 Thread awoelflebater

--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Vaj  wrote:
>
>
> On Apr 10, 2012, at 9:50 AM, awoelflebater wrote:
>
> > Vaj, I think you could have picked a much better example of a mood
> > maker, for goodness sake, Barry is more of a bliss ninny than Robin
> > ever was. Robin was the renegade, the upstart the guy who was the
> > very antithesis of that. You should remember, you'd get your ass
> > kicked for mooning around in some bliss ninny state around him. It
> > was all about what was happening right now, in that moment. No
> > syrupy layers on top, no sugar coating. You do remember all that
> > don't you? I still have the battle scars to show for it. I'll show
> > you mine if you show me yours.
>
> I see your point, but non-World Teacher Seminarians who were
> convinced to come to a seminar often experienced RWC as a "moodmaker"
> and I think I understand where they're coming from.
>
> Let's face it, how many people have:
>
> - their own stage?
> - the starring role in that stage production?
> - their stage performances all videotaped?
> - "Robin, by the Grace of God, will you manifest  of your choice>"-type events, daily or weekly? (the ride in Indra's
> chariot being a personal fave)
> - wore silk underwear to protect them from tamasic vibes?
> - claimed all-embracing unity but hated to touch people?
> - saw demons in people - and then put on a performance art act to
> remove them?
> - eschewed sentimentality, but was a rather sentimental initiator and
> storyteller?

Ah, but I think you confuse moodmaker with someone who could appear
egotistical, even a megalomaniac. I believe his sentimentality was
actually sincerity, as misguided about the movement as it may or may not
have been. I thought it was rather noble actually, his desire to uphold
what he felt was the best of who MMY was and what the Movement could
have stood for. So there was an element of sentimentality, because in
the end the whole thing didn't quite pan out with regard to MMY or even
Robin's enlightenment but his heart was in the right place.You have to
admit he did believe in what he was doing and some of that was not to
rip things apart with regard to TM but to produce a truer version of it.
Not really what I would call a moodmaker. More like a misguided warrior.
>



[FairfieldLife] Re: Analyzing the TMO using the "economic psychology" model

2012-04-10 Thread turquoiseb
One short troll, just thrown out for fun way at the 
bottom of a longer post about other topics, and Nabby 
is still obsessing about it 18 days later. :-)

> Can you stop your thoughts at will and go into thoughtless
> samadhi for ten to twenty minutes at a time? If so, you
> have attained what would be considered the stage of "talented
> beginner" in many traditions. If not... well...

I may have missed something, but I don't believe that
Sir Nabs has ever answered the original question. All he 
seems to have done is demonstrate that the question pushed 
his buttons, big-time. In how many posts has he obsessed
over this throwaway line now? 

Nabby now claims (at the bottom of this post) that he has
not only experienced this (the ability to go into thought-
less samadhi at will for 10-20 minutes at a time), but 
that he has described what it was like for him to do so 
previously on this forum. 

He won't tell us where, or when, or under which of his many, 
many posting IDs here he said this stuff, so that we could 
look it up and see for ourselves the response to his descrip-
tion he describes above, and how he was so mercilessly 
pounced upon by evil Buddhists. 

C'mon Nabby. *Everybody* here loves a good gang fight.
Share the links with us so that we can watch you getting
beat up by big, bad Buddhists. 

I have no memory of such an event. I'm thinkin' that I'm 
not alone here in that regard.

If you do, and are still holding onto that memory in the
form of a grudge...all these years later, I'm doubting your
claim to be able to stop thought at will even more than I
did before. Just sayin'. 

--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, nablusoss1008  wrote:
>
> --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "sparaig"  wrote:
> >
> > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, nablusoss1008  wrote:
> > >
> > > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "iamyukta"  wrote:
> > > > 
> > > > I do not understand the term "mood maker"??  Could you please define 
> > > > this for me.  
> > > 
> > > In most cases a mood-maker is someone who invents moods and and the mix 
> > > it up with real experiences of substance.
> > > 
> > > Like when a Buddhists says he's "20 minutes without thoughts" but is 
> > > unable to describe the experience. That's classical mood-making.
> > 
> > Er, I would expect that someone was 20 minutes (or one minute or 1 second) 
> > without thought to be unable to describe the experience.
> 
> So would I. The Turq has repeatedly made such claims and has been repeatedly 
> challenged to give a report of his "experiences" but refuses to do so. One 
> therefore draws the conclusion that he never had such experiences, that it's 
> just more bragging.
> 
> > How do YOIU describe 20 minutes without thoughts?
> 
> I have infact described such experiences as a newbie here several years ago. 
> But I was drowned in so much sarcasm, cynicism and vile attacks from the 
> "Buddhist's" here that I promised "never again".





[FairfieldLife] Re: Analyzing the TMO using the "economic psychology" model

2012-04-10 Thread iamyukta
So, it should not be taken as a compliment?? And one should consider the 
source??  I am not sure how i should take being referred as this by my teacher. 
  


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "sparaig"  wrote:
>
> A "mood maker" is someone who tries to behave like, or feel like, or 
> otherwise be like an enlightened person simply because they think 
> enlightenment is cool.
> 
> 
> L.
> 
> --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "iamyukta"  wrote:
> >
> > 
> > I do not understand the term "mood maker"??  Could you please define this 
> > for me.  
> > 
> >  
> > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "sparaig"  wrote:
> > >
> > > 
> > > 
> > > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Vaj  wrote:
> > > [...]
> > > > 
> > > > Esp. since, as I've stated several times before, I actually had a  
> > > > very good and clear experience with TM.
> > > > 
> > > 
> > > What the HELL is a "very good and clear experience with TM?"
> > > 
> > > The worst mood-makers say that kind of stuff. MMY very clearly said that 
> > > one could have muddy experiences for one's entire meditation career and 
> > > not experience transcending "clearly" until the very last meditation when 
> > > the last stress is released and CC becomes permanent.
> > > 
> > > 
> > > The test of TM's effectiveness is found outside TM, not during.
> > > 
> > > 
> > > Lawson
> > >
> >
>




[FairfieldLife] Re: Analyzing the TMO using the "economic psychology" model

2012-04-10 Thread nablusoss1008


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "sparaig"  wrote:
>
> 
> 
> --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, nablusoss1008  wrote:
> >
> > 
> > 
> > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "iamyukta"  wrote:
> > >
> > > 
> > > I do not understand the term "mood maker"??  Could you please define this 
> > > for me.  
> > 
> > 
> > 
> > In most cases a mood-maker is someone who invents moods and and the mix it 
> > up with real experiences of substance.
> > 
> > Like when a Buddhists says he's "20 minutes without thoughts" but is unable 
> > to describe the experience. That's classical mood-making.
> >
> 
> 
> Er, I would expect that someone was 20 minutes (or one minute or 1 second) 
> without thought to be unable to describe the experience.


So would I. The Turq has repeatedly made such claims and has been repeatedly 
challenged to give a report of his "experiences" but refuses to do so. One 
therefore draws the conclusion that he never had such experiences, that it's 
just more bragging.


> 
> How do YOIU describe 20 minutes without thoughts?

I have infact described such experiences as a newbie here several years ago. 
But I was drowned in so much sarcasm, cynicism and vile attacks from the 
"Buddhist's" here that I promised "never again".



[FairfieldLife] Re: Analyzing the TMO using the "economic psychology" model

2012-04-10 Thread iamyukta

Thank you for the informationit was helpful..

--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, nablusoss1008  wrote:
>
> 
> 
> --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "iamyukta"  wrote:
> >
> > 
> > I do not understand the term "mood maker"??  Could you please define this 
> > for me.  
> 
> 
> 
> In most cases a mood-maker is someone who invents moods and and the mix it up 
> with real experiences of substance.
> 
> Like when a Buddhists says he's "20 minutes without thoughts" but is unable 
> to describe the experience. That's classical mood-making.
>




Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Analyzing the TMO using the "economic psychology" model

2012-04-10 Thread Vaj


On Apr 10, 2012, at 9:50 AM, awoelflebater wrote:

Vaj, I think you could have picked a much better example of a mood  
maker, for goodness sake, Barry is more of a bliss ninny than Robin  
ever was. Robin was the renegade, the upstart the guy who was the  
very antithesis of that. You should remember, you'd get your ass  
kicked for mooning around in some bliss ninny state around him. It  
was all about what was happening right now, in that moment. No  
syrupy layers on top, no sugar coating. You do remember all that  
don't you? I still have the battle scars to show for it. I'll show  
you mine if you show me yours.


I see your point, but non-World Teacher Seminarians who were  
convinced to come to a seminar often experienced RWC as a "moodmaker"  
and I think I understand where they're coming from.


Let's face it, how many people have:

- their own stage?
- the starring role in that stage production?
- their stage performances all videotaped?
- "Robin, by the Grace of God, will you manifest of your choice>"-type events, daily or weekly? (the ride in Indra's  
chariot being a personal fave)

- wore silk underwear to protect them from tamasic vibes?
- claimed all-embracing unity but hated to touch people?
- saw demons in people - and then put on a performance art act to  
remove them?
- eschewed sentimentality, but was a rather sentimental initiator and  
storyteller?

[FairfieldLife] Re: Analyzing the TMO using the "economic psychology" model

2012-04-10 Thread awoelflebater

Vaj, I think you could have picked a much better example of a mood maker, for 
goodness sake, Barry is more of a bliss ninny than Robin ever was. Robin was 
the renegade, the upstart the guy who was the very antithesis of that. You 
should remember, you'd get your ass kicked for mooning around in some bliss 
ninny state around him. It was all about what was happening right now, in that 
moment. No syrupy layers on top, no sugar coating. You do remember all that 
don't you? I still have the battle scars to show for it. I'll show you mine if 
you show me yours.

--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Vaj  wrote:
>
> 
> On Apr 9, 2012, at 3:46 PM, iamyukta wrote:
> 
> > I do not understand the term "mood maker"?? Could you please define  
> > this for me.
> 
> 
> My dictionary has a little engraving of Robin Woodsworth Carlsen in  
> it, if that helps.
> 
> :-)
>




Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Analyzing the TMO using the "economic psychology" model

2012-04-10 Thread Vaj


On Apr 10, 2012, at 5:08 AM, sparaig wrote:




--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, nablusoss1008   
wrote:

>
>
>
> --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "iamyukta"  wrote:
> >
> >
> > I do not understand the term "mood maker"?? Could you please  
define this for me.

>
>
>
> In most cases a mood-maker is someone who invents moods and and  
the mix it up with real experiences of substance.

>
> Like when a Buddhists says he's "20 minutes without thoughts" but  
is unable to describe the experience. That's classical mood-making.

>

Er, I would expect that someone was 20 minutes (or one minute or 1  
second) without thought to be unable to describe the experience.


How do YOIU describe 20 minutes without thoughts?



Since it takes about 3 hours to really settle down, I doubt there'd  
be much worth commenting on at 20 minutes.


But if one is an expert at the practice of samadhi and attains it,  
it's first marker is a dramatic shift in the nervous system often  
experienced along with a brief sense of numbness at the top of the  
head. After this, mental and physical pliancy ("flexibility") -  
cheerfulness and a lightness of the body arises. There's the feeling  
one could meditate for as long as one wants, at whatever level of  
subtlety and that actually becomes a possibility. Physical and mental  
bliss arise as well and are at first a little overwhelming, but that  
rapture quickly fades, like a plane passing through the eyewall of  
the hurricane. With the final achievement of samadhi one leaves the  
world of meditative objects (mantras, various mental objects, etc.).  
Only the aspects of the sheer awareness, clarity, and joy of the mind  
appear, without the intrusion of any sense objects. Any thoughts that  
arise are not sustained, nor do they proliferate; rather they vanish  
of their own accord, like bubbles emerging from water. One has no  
sense of one’s own body, and it seems as if one’s mind has become  
indivisible with space.


While remaining in this absence of appearances, even though it is  
still not possible for a single moment of consciousness to observe  
itself, one moment of consciousness may recall the experience of the  
immediately preceding moment of consciousness, which, in turn, may  
recall its immediately preceding moment—each moment having no other  
appearances or objects arising to it. Thus, due to the homogeneity of  
this mental continuum, with each moment of consciousness recalling  
the previous moment of consciousness, the experiential effect is that  
of consciousness apprehending itself.


The defining characteristics of consciousness recollectively  
perceived in that state are first a sense of clarity, or implicit  
luminosity capable of manifesting as all manner of appearances, and  
secondly the quality of cognizance, or the event of knowing. Upon  
attaining samadhi, by focusing the attention on the sheer clarity and  
the sheer cognizance of experience, one attends to the defining  
characteristics of consciousness alone, as opposed to the qualities  
of other objects of consciousness.



That's one description of how it might be described.






Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Analyzing the TMO using the "economic psychology" model

2012-04-10 Thread Vaj


On Apr 9, 2012, at 3:46 PM, iamyukta wrote:

I do not understand the term "mood maker"?? Could you please define  
this for me.



My dictionary has a little engraving of Robin Woodsworth Carlsen in  
it, if that helps.


:-)

[FairfieldLife] Re: Analyzing the TMO using the "economic psychology" model

2012-04-10 Thread sparaig


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, nablusoss1008  wrote:
>
> 
> 
> --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "iamyukta"  wrote:
> >
> > 
> > I do not understand the term "mood maker"??  Could you please define this 
> > for me.  
> 
> 
> 
> In most cases a mood-maker is someone who invents moods and and the mix it up 
> with real experiences of substance.
> 
> Like when a Buddhists says he's "20 minutes without thoughts" but is unable 
> to describe the experience. That's classical mood-making.
>


Er, I would expect that someone was 20 minutes (or one minute or 1 second) 
without thought to be unable to describe the experience.

How do YOIU describe 20 minutes without thoughts?




[FairfieldLife] Re: Analyzing the TMO using the "economic psychology" model

2012-04-09 Thread sparaig
A "mood maker" is someone who tries to behave like, or feel like, or otherwise 
be like an enlightened person simply because they think enlightenment is cool.


L.

--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "iamyukta"  wrote:
>
> 
> I do not understand the term "mood maker"??  Could you please define this for 
> me.  
> 
>  
> --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "sparaig"  wrote:
> >
> > 
> > 
> > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Vaj  wrote:
> > [...]
> > > 
> > > Esp. since, as I've stated several times before, I actually had a  
> > > very good and clear experience with TM.
> > > 
> > 
> > What the HELL is a "very good and clear experience with TM?"
> > 
> > The worst mood-makers say that kind of stuff. MMY very clearly said that 
> > one could have muddy experiences for one's entire meditation career and not 
> > experience transcending "clearly" until the very last meditation when the 
> > last stress is released and CC becomes permanent.
> > 
> > 
> > The test of TM's effectiveness is found outside TM, not during.
> > 
> > 
> > Lawson
> >
>




[FairfieldLife] Re: Analyzing the TMO using the "economic psychology" model

2012-04-09 Thread nablusoss1008


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "iamyukta"  wrote:
>
> 
> I do not understand the term "mood maker"??  Could you please define this for 
> me.  



In most cases a mood-maker is someone who invents moods and and the mix it up 
with real experiences of substance.

Like when a Buddhists says he's "20 minutes without thoughts" but is unable to 
describe the experience. That's classical mood-making.



[FairfieldLife] Re: Analyzing the TMO using the "economic psychology" model

2012-04-09 Thread iamyukta

I do not understand the term "mood maker"??  Could you please define this for 
me.  

 
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "sparaig"  wrote:
>
> 
> 
> --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Vaj  wrote:
> [...]
> > 
> > Esp. since, as I've stated several times before, I actually had a  
> > very good and clear experience with TM.
> > 
> 
> What the HELL is a "very good and clear experience with TM?"
> 
> The worst mood-makers say that kind of stuff. MMY very clearly said that one 
> could have muddy experiences for one's entire meditation career and not 
> experience transcending "clearly" until the very last meditation when the 
> last stress is released and CC becomes permanent.
> 
> 
> The test of TM's effectiveness is found outside TM, not during.
> 
> 
> Lawson
>




[FairfieldLife] Re: Analyzing the TMO using the "economic psychology" model

2011-04-14 Thread sparaig


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Vaj  wrote:
>
> 
> On Apr 14, 2011, at 9:07 AM, sparaig wrote:
> 
> >> When people die because of it, "out of touch with reality" rather
> >> than "established in reality" makes a huge difference. Esp. when many
> >> assume you're the latter...any you're actually the former.
> >>
> >
> > /me shrugs. But that's different then implying that someone is a  
> > "disreputable yogi" because they believe what their cultural/ 
> > religious tradition (or what their own interpretation is) and were  
> > wrong.
> 
> Hmmm. You believe I was making that claim?
> 
> Seems odd, given his personal physician and the Vaidyas--who were  
> from the same cultural and religious tradition--told him these people  
> were terminal. I'd suspect, as did M's personal physician, that M was  
> a megalomaniac.
> 
> He didn't take advice from others simply because his ego was so damn  
> big. Seems to me merely a common trend in Asuriac gurus like Mahesh.
>

Does it really surprise you that MMY was more of a true believer than most?

L.



[FairfieldLife] Re: Analyzing the TMO using the "economic psychology" model

2011-04-14 Thread sparaig


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Vaj  wrote:
>
> 
> On Apr 14, 2011, at 9:07 AM, sparaig wrote:
> 
> >> When people die because of it, "out of touch with reality" rather
> >> than "established in reality" makes a huge difference. Esp. when many
> >> assume you're the latter...any you're actually the former.
> >>
> >
> > /me shrugs. But that's different then implying that someone is a  
> > "disreputable yogi" because they believe what their cultural/ 
> > religious tradition (or what their own interpretation is) and were  
> > wrong.
> 
> Hmmm. You believe I was making that claim?
> 
> Seems odd, given his personal physician and the Vaidyas--who were  
> from the same cultural and religious tradition--told him these people  
> were terminal. I'd suspect, as did M's personal physician, that M was  
> a megalomaniac.
> 
> He didn't take advice from others simply because his ego was so damn  
> big. Seems to me merely a common trend in Asuriac gurus like Mahesh.
>

Does it really surprise you that MMY was more of a true believer than most?

L.



Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Analyzing the TMO using the "economic psychology" model

2011-04-14 Thread Vaj


On Apr 14, 2011, at 9:07 AM, sparaig wrote:


When people die because of it, "out of touch with reality" rather
than "established in reality" makes a huge difference. Esp. when many
assume you're the latter...any you're actually the former.



/me shrugs. But that's different then implying that someone is a  
"disreputable yogi" because they believe what their cultural/ 
religious tradition (or what their own interpretation is) and were  
wrong.


Hmmm. You believe I was making that claim?

Seems odd, given his personal physician and the Vaidyas--who were  
from the same cultural and religious tradition--told him these people  
were terminal. I'd suspect, as did M's personal physician, that M was  
a megalomaniac.


He didn't take advice from others simply because his ego was so damn  
big. Seems to me merely a common trend in Asuriac gurus like Mahesh.

[FairfieldLife] Re: Analyzing the TMO using the "economic psychology" model

2011-04-14 Thread sparaig


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Vaj  wrote:
>
> 
> On Apr 14, 2011, at 1:11 AM, sparaig wrote:
> 
> >
> > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Vaj  wrote:
> >>
> >>
> >> On Apr 11, 2011, at 9:11 PM, Yifu wrote:
> >>
> >>> Right! Looks to me that Vaj hates TM, for one reason or another.
> >>> (re: somebody else's comment that he doesn't hate it).
> >>
> >>
> >> Whoa dude, huge non sequitur. The post was about Maharishi Ayurveda
> >> and disreputable "yogis" telling the dying they could save their
> >> lives, when really, they could not.
> >>
> >> Got agenda?
> >>
> >
> > EVerything I have heard suggests that MMY believed that things  
> > would turn out differently than they did. A Believer whose beliefs  
> > weren't confirmed by reality. How rare. How horrible.
> 
> 
> When people die because of it, "out of touch with reality" rather  
> than "established in reality" makes a huge difference. Esp. when many  
> assume you're the latter...any you're actually the former.
>

/me shrugs. But that's different then implying that someone is a "disreputable 
yogi" because they believe what their cultural/religious tradition (or what 
their own interpretation is) and were wrong.


Lawson



[FairfieldLife] Re: Analyzing the TMO using the "economic psychology" model

2011-04-14 Thread sparaig


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Vaj  wrote:
>
> 
> On Apr 14, 2011, at 1:05 AM, sparaig wrote:
> 
> >> Okay, nice clear explanation, although one that I don't think would
> >> matter to 99 out of 100 people.  But a real distinction nonetheless.
> >> Yea, I think "discursive" is a nice word for it.
> >>
> >
> > Except introducing the mantra is to happen after 30 seconds IF the  
> > mantra doesn't appear on its own, spontaneously. Sheesh. Get  
> > checked, folks. Pay attention this time.
> 
> 
> Exactly. IOW, it's a subtle but important distinction for TMers who  
> know how to meditate properly. It's an important distinction because  
> you realize that there are some people who will simply never have the  
> mantra appear on it's own! Others will have intention to sit, close  
> the eyes and pick the mantra up a very subtle, abstract level right  
> off and fall in the groove. If they've repeated it enough, that  
> groove will become automatic, spontaneous, sahaja.
>

Actually, since the old saying, which everyone I've ever met agrees with, is 
that it is impossible NOT to think about pink elephants if you have been 
instructed to not think about pink elephants, I suspect people just aren't 
thinking things through...

Given that it is impossible to NOT think about something when you are told not 
to think about it, how can you assert that people won't spontaneously think the 
mantra at some point if they have deliberately put themselves into a situation 
where thinking the mantra is at last some of the time is a given?

Its certainly possible that they don't understand what it means to "think the 
mantra" during TM practice, but as MMY points out, the thought OF the mantra is 
still the mantra. If you set yourself up to be thinking the mantra, then you 
already ARE on some level (as judy points out).

Or, to put it differently, the first thing that pops in your mind when asked 
the question "do you remember the person you met yesterday?" is the answer to 
that question. It doesn't matter what you remember or even if you DO remember, 
the fact that the question is there means there is some kind of answer.

Likewise, deliberately sitting with eyes closed in order to start thinking the 
mantra, IS thinking the mantra. It might be that you don't recognize your 
thoughts at this point as such and feel a need use some effort to introduce the 
mantra, but that only means that you are expecting the mantra to be of a 
certain quality of thought. There's nothing wrong with that, and in fact, we 
all do that, I am sure. Even so, whatever level of effort you find yourself 
using is always more than is needed. The nice thing about TM is that it is 
self-correcting. While TM practice is pretty much effortless, even at the most 
effortful, the nervous system changes over time to make the requirement of 
effort even less, if that is possible.

As long as one understands that effort is not needed, then whatever happens is 
perfectly good. Any attempt to make things less effortful isn't worth the 
effort. Any attempting make things MORE effortful is also not worth the effort. 
Making some distinction between the mantra appearing on its own or not 
appearing on its own is counterproductive. I mean, why does the mantra appear 
in the first place? Or... just who is it who is thinking that mantra, anyway?


Lawson









Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Analyzing the TMO using the "economic psychology" model

2011-04-14 Thread Vaj


On Apr 14, 2011, at 1:11 AM, sparaig wrote:



--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Vaj  wrote:



On Apr 11, 2011, at 9:11 PM, Yifu wrote:


Right! Looks to me that Vaj hates TM, for one reason or another.
(re: somebody else's comment that he doesn't hate it).



Whoa dude, huge non sequitur. The post was about Maharishi Ayurveda
and disreputable "yogis" telling the dying they could save their
lives, when really, they could not.

Got agenda?



EVerything I have heard suggests that MMY believed that things  
would turn out differently than they did. A Believer whose beliefs  
weren't confirmed by reality. How rare. How horrible.



When people die because of it, "out of touch with reality" rather  
than "established in reality" makes a huge difference. Esp. when many  
assume you're the latter...any you're actually the former.




Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Analyzing the TMO using the "economic psychology" model

2011-04-14 Thread Vaj


On Apr 14, 2011, at 1:05 AM, sparaig wrote:


Okay, nice clear explanation, although one that I don't think would
matter to 99 out of 100 people.  But a real distinction nonetheless.
Yea, I think "discursive" is a nice word for it.



Except introducing the mantra is to happen after 30 seconds IF the  
mantra doesn't appear on its own, spontaneously. Sheesh. Get  
checked, folks. Pay attention this time.



Exactly. IOW, it's a subtle but important distinction for TMers who  
know how to meditate properly. It's an important distinction because  
you realize that there are some people who will simply never have the  
mantra appear on it's own! Others will have intention to sit, close  
the eyes and pick the mantra up a very subtle, abstract level right  
off and fall in the groove. If they've repeated it enough, that  
groove will become automatic, spontaneous, sahaja.

[FairfieldLife] Re: Analyzing the TMO using the "economic psychology" model

2011-04-14 Thread nablusoss1008


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "sparaig"  wrote:

> Except introducing the mantra is to happen after 30 seconds IF the mantra 
> doesn't appear on its own, spontaneously. Sheesh. Get checked, folks. 


Couldn't have said it better myself :-)

Pay attention this time.
>




[FairfieldLife] Re: Analyzing the TMO using the "economic psychology" model

2011-04-13 Thread sparaig


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Vaj  wrote:
[...]
> 
> Esp. since, as I've stated several times before, I actually had a  
> very good and clear experience with TM.
> 

What the HELL is a "very good and clear experience with TM?"

The worst mood-makers say that kind of stuff. MMY very clearly said that one 
could have muddy experiences for one's entire meditation career and not 
experience transcending "clearly" until the very last meditation when the last 
stress is released and CC becomes permanent.


The test of TM's effectiveness is found outside TM, not during.


Lawson







[FairfieldLife] Re: Analyzing the TMO using the "economic psychology" model

2011-04-13 Thread sparaig


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "Xenophaneros Anartaxius" 
 wrote:

> The TMO and MMY have of course fostered the idea that an enlightened man
> makes no mistakes, but that is because in enlightenment nothing is
> perceived as a mistake. Everything is just as it is, and death from
> stupid medical decisions is one of the things that is.

My own take is that "mistakes" in this case refers to things that take you away 
from the state of enlightenment. Since, by definition, CC is a permanent state, 
this is really tautological since NOTHING (allegedly) can take you out of the 
state.

On a more practical level, I hope that as one grows towards higher states 
beyond CC (assuming that CC and higher states are anything remotely like what 
is advertised) that the naive reading of "enlightened man makes no mistakes" 
becomes more and more in-line with behavior of actual "enlightened" people. 
Someone who is fully in Unity, able to perform all sidhis, etc, etc, might well 
resemble this ideal "mistakeless" person. Others, not-so-much.

BTW, I do NOT believe that MMY was fully in Unity, though perhaps he was at 
least somewhat in CC. Even MMY's chosen successor has hinted that MMY is "with 
the angels" rather than in a state of perfect "no return."

Of course, this may just be because Abu-Nader was raised a Christian and dealt 
with MMY's death using rhetoric and symbolism from his childhood religion 
rather than towing the TM line about MMY's purported perfection.

Lawson



[FairfieldLife] Re: Analyzing the TMO using the "economic psychology" model

2011-04-13 Thread sparaig


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Vaj  wrote:
>
> 
> On Apr 11, 2011, at 9:11 PM, Yifu wrote:
> 
> > Right! Looks to me that Vaj hates TM, for one reason or another.  
> > (re: somebody else's comment that he doesn't hate it).
> 
> 
> Whoa dude, huge non sequitur. The post was about Maharishi Ayurveda  
> and disreputable "yogis" telling the dying they could save their  
> lives, when really, they could not.
> 
> Got agenda?
>

EVerything I have heard suggests that MMY believed that things would turn out 
differently than they did. A Believer whose beliefs weren't confirmed by 
reality. How rare. How horrible.

Lawson



[FairfieldLife] Re: Analyzing the TMO using the "economic psychology" model

2011-04-13 Thread sparaig
Ignoring the work of David Lynch and company...

We all do this: ignore facts that might counter our assessment of  reality in 
order to see the reality we would prefer rather than the reality that IS. Of 
course, no-one can claim that I am not guilty of this as well. 


Lawson

--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb  wrote:
>
> --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "wayback71"  wrote:
> >
> > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "Yifu"  wrote:
> > >
> > > Right! Looks to me that Vaj hates TM, for one reason or another. 
> > > (re: somebody else's comment that he doesn't hate it).
> > > 
> > >  Why?, possibly, out of jealousy.
> > 
> > I doubt that. I still do TM, but really, what's to be 
> > jealous of about TM or the TMO? Lot's of nasty stuff 
> > coming out about MMY and the org - and much poor 
> > quality research.  An organization in which the 
> > average age is continuing to rise since few new 
> > people learn.
> 
> Excellent point. At this point one would have
> to be pretty fuckin' out of it to be proud of
> being an On The Program TMer. :-)
> 
> 
> > I think Vaj genuinely believes that TM, MMY and  the 
> > siddhis are not legit in the sense that the tradition 
> > from which MMY came does not honor MMY, there is no 
> > understanding of how to help someone grow if they 
> > encounter some difficulties, and he thinks the whole 
> > technique is suspect. He seems to feel that TM can 
> > produce some significant problems for many people - 
> > and it may be having people close to him seriously 
> > injured while doing TM that is motivating him.  
> 
> I agree with your assessment of Vaj and what he
> seems to believe, and I agree with many of the
> points themselves. I think I'm less anxious to
> convince TMers that they've been taken to the
> cleaners than he is, but that's because I realize
> the futility of trying to change minds that can't
> be changed because over time they've become too 
> rigid and too attached *to* change. 
> 
> If there's a "theme" that I try to challenge in
> the TMO and in the modern-day hangers-on to a 
> dying movement, it's what's going on right now 
> on this forum -- "Pile on the TM critic." 
> 
> Having claimed only a few posts ago that she does
> *not* choreograph systematic group demonization
> of TM critics, Judy is doing exactly that. This
> particular "get Vaj fest" is all on her. She 
> started it, and now she's trying to perpetuate 
> it. I don't feel any need to "defend" or "stand up 
> for" Vaj because he's a big boy and can take care
> of himself. But I do feel the need to point out
> the feeding frenzy and who is leading it. And I
> do feel the need to point out that she has been
> doing this with TM critics or a regular basis 
> for seventeen years. It's just what Judy Stein
> DOES. That she can deny it is beyond belief.
>




[FairfieldLife] Re: Analyzing the TMO using the "economic psychology" model

2011-04-13 Thread sparaig


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "seventhray1"  wrote:
>
> > > Vaj: Care to elaborate, expand, or explain what you mean
> > > when you refer to the "discursive level"?
> >
> >
> > "Introducing" the mantra, 'as if any other thought', rather than
> > allowing the mantra to spontaneously (sahaja) begin on it's own.
> >
> > One involves discursive thought and a slight amount of effort, the
> > other is spontaneous and emerges from silence: like a bubble from the
> > bottom of the ocean, or froth from waves.
> >
> Okay, nice clear explanation, although one that I don't think would
> matter to 99 out of 100 people.  But a real distinction nonetheless. 
> Yea, I think "discursive" is a nice word for it.
>

Except introducing the mantra is to happen after 30 seconds IF the mantra 
doesn't appear on its own, spontaneously. Sheesh. Get checked, folks. Pay 
attention this time.



[FairfieldLife] Re: Analyzing the TMO using the "economic psychology" model

2011-04-13 Thread seventhray1
> > Vaj: Care to elaborate, expand, or explain what you mean
> > when you refer to the "discursive level"?
>
>
> "Introducing" the mantra, 'as if any other thought', rather than
> allowing the mantra to spontaneously (sahaja) begin on it's own.
>
> One involves discursive thought and a slight amount of effort, the
> other is spontaneous and emerges from silence: like a bubble from the
> bottom of the ocean, or froth from waves.
>
Okay, nice clear explanation, although one that I don't think would
matter to 99 out of 100 people.  But a real distinction nonetheless. 
Yea, I think "discursive" is a nice word for it.


[FairfieldLife] Re: Analyzing the TMO using the "economic psychology" model

2011-04-13 Thread raunchydog


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Vaj  wrote:
>
> 
> On Apr 13, 2011, at 1:07 PM, azgrey wrote:
> 
> >
> > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Vaj  wrote:
> >>
> >>
> >> On Apr 12, 2011, at 4:06 PM, turquoiseb wrote:
> >>
> >>> The fascinating thing is that none of this strikes her
> >>> as in the least obsessive, and as a multi-year, ongoing,
> >>> compulsive attempt to "get" someone who just coincident-
> >>> ally happens to be a TM critic.
> >>
> >>
> >> Apparently Judy missed the part in her instruction which says "we  
> >> always start with half a minute of silence".
> >>
> >> No wonder she's so messed up! She starts the mantra from the  
> >> discursive level. I "thought" so. ;-)
> >>
> >
> >
> > Vaj: Care to elaborate, expand, or explain what you mean
> > when you refer to the "discursive level"?
> 
> 
> "Introducing" the mantra, 'as if any other thought', rather than  
> allowing the mantra to spontaneously (sahaja) begin on it's own.
> 
> One involves discursive thought and a slight amount of effort, the  
> other is spontaneous and emerges from silence: like a bubble from the  
> bottom of the ocean, or froth from waves.
>

The "always" in General Point F is *only* for dunderheads who say they have not 
meditated regularly.  It doesn't say "always" anywhere else in the checking 
notes.  In checking you don't say "always start" to a person who meditates 
regularly or for whom the mantra comes spontaneously.

In TM there's no "trying" to introduce the mantra "as if any other thought."  
If the person is already experiencing effortless meditation, or if the mantra 
comes, there's no "introducing" anything.

"The purpose of checking is to give the experience of right meditation. For 
this, it is necessary to give the experience of the right start. To give the 
right start, first the meditator experiences how he thinks… Then indicate to 
him that thinking is a process that is effortless in that quietness."




Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Analyzing the TMO using the "economic psychology" model

2011-04-13 Thread Vaj


On Apr 13, 2011, at 1:07 PM, azgrey wrote:



--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Vaj  wrote:



On Apr 12, 2011, at 4:06 PM, turquoiseb wrote:


The fascinating thing is that none of this strikes her
as in the least obsessive, and as a multi-year, ongoing,
compulsive attempt to "get" someone who just coincident-
ally happens to be a TM critic.



Apparently Judy missed the part in her instruction which says "we  
always start with half a minute of silence".


No wonder she's so messed up! She starts the mantra from the  
discursive level. I "thought" so. ;-)





Vaj: Care to elaborate, expand, or explain what you mean
when you refer to the "discursive level"?



"Introducing" the mantra, 'as if any other thought', rather than  
allowing the mantra to spontaneously (sahaja) begin on it's own.


One involves discursive thought and a slight amount of effort, the  
other is spontaneous and emerges from silence: like a bubble from the  
bottom of the ocean, or froth from waves.





[FairfieldLife] Re: Analyzing the TMO using the "economic psychology" model

2011-04-13 Thread azgrey


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Vaj  wrote:
>
> 
> On Apr 12, 2011, at 4:06 PM, turquoiseb wrote:
> 
> > The fascinating thing is that none of this strikes her
> > as in the least obsessive, and as a multi-year, ongoing,
> > compulsive attempt to "get" someone who just coincident-
> > ally happens to be a TM critic.
> 
> 
> Apparently Judy missed the part in her instruction which says "we always 
> start with half a minute of silence".
> 
> No wonder she's so messed up! She starts the mantra from the discursive 
> level. I "thought" so. ;-)
>


Vaj: Care to elaborate, expand, or explain what you mean
when you refer to the "discursive level"?





[FairfieldLife] Re: Analyzing the TMO using the "economic psychology" model

2011-04-13 Thread nablusoss1008


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "Ravi Yogi"  wrote:
>
> Multi-year obsession for truth always beats multi-year obsession for falsity, 
> deception and slander.
> 
> You go girl!!!


Well put Ravi ! :-)



[FairfieldLife] Re: Analyzing the TMO using the "economic psychology" model

2011-04-12 Thread WillyTex
So, you're fascinated by Judy's posts!

turquoiseb:
> The fascinating thing is that none of this strikes her
> as in the least obsessive, and as a multi-year, ongoing,
> compulsive attempt to "get" someone who just coincident-
> ally happens to be a TM critic.
> 
> --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "authfriend"  wrote:
> >
> > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, azgrey  wrote:
> > > 
> > > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "authfriend"  wrote:
> > 
> > > > One of the fascinating things about Vaj's jihad against
> > > > TM is that whenever he's discussed the actual instructions
> > > > for practicing the technique, he's gotten them wildly
> > > > wrong. He hasn't done that in a while, perhaps because the
> > > > last time he tried, three TM teachers (Peter, raunchy,
> > > > and the do.rk) told him flatly that he didn't know what he
> > > > was talking about (echoed by moi, a trained but not
> > > > certified checker).
> > > 
> > > You have made this allegation several times in the past. 
> > > Can you please provide me with some message #'s so 
> > > that I may look them up and decide for myself the veracity
> > > of his claims.
> > 
> > Happy to. The big discussion, in August 2009, began with
> > this post from Vaj:
> > 
> > http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/message/226302
> > 
> > In that discussion, these are the posts from raunchy,
> > BillyG, and the do.rk disputing Vaj's description of
> > the instructions for TM:
> > 
> > http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/message/226335
> > (raunchy)
> > 
> > http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/message/226341
> > (BillyG)
> > 
> > http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/message/226350
> > http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/message/226359
> > (the do.rk)
> > 
> > (I'd forgotten BillyG--he makes *four* teachers who disputed
> > Vaj. I can't find Peter's post, but it's in there somewhere.
> > My analysis is in there too.)
> > 
> > The discussion was revived by Vaj in December 2010, here
> > (starting with my response, which quotes him; you can
> > track back to his post if you want to make sure I didn't
> > quote him out of context):
> > 
> > http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/message/263765
> > 
> > And a relevant follow-up from me:
> > 
> > http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/message/263767
> > 
> > I erred, BTW, in my earlier post when I said the teachers
> > had come down on him the *last* time he brought up the
> > instructions for TM. It was the time before that, in 2009,
> > but as you'll see the issues were identical. I believe
> > there were a couple of similar disputes even earlier, back
> > on alt.m.t. And there have been others who have expressed
> > doubt about Vaj's status as a TMer/teacher as well, in other
> > threads.
> > 
> > > Using raunchy as a source doesn't quite cut the mustard
> > > for me.
> > 
> > That's unfortunate, and rather perplexing given the
> > concurrence of the other three teachers.
> > 
> > > I have read Vaj's postings that he has practiced TM and 
> > > became an Initiator. I am also aware he has not publicly 
> > > stated which TTC he attended. There are possibly several
> > > valid reasons for not revealing that.
> > 
> > Sure, that in and of itself may or may not be significant
> > in this context. But getting the instructions for practice
> > wrong tends to put some weight on the "significant" side
> > of his refusal to say which TTC he went to.
> > 
> > > Thank you in advance. It would clear up some confusion.
> > 
> > You're welcome. Thank you for asking. It would be a good
> > thing, IMHO, to get this cleared up, if possible.





Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Analyzing the TMO using the "economic psychology" model

2011-04-12 Thread Vaj

On Apr 12, 2011, at 4:06 PM, turquoiseb wrote:

> The fascinating thing is that none of this strikes her
> as in the least obsessive, and as a multi-year, ongoing,
> compulsive attempt to "get" someone who just coincident-
> ally happens to be a TM critic.


Apparently Judy missed the part in her instruction which says "we always start 
with half a minute of silence".

No wonder she's so messed up! She starts the mantra from the discursive level. 
I "thought" so. ;-)

[FairfieldLife] Re: Analyzing the TMO using the "economic psychology" model

2011-04-12 Thread Ravi Yogi
Is it possible to donate posts for this charitable cause?? I don't mind 
donating 20 posts every week to Judy. Keep getting 'em Judy.

--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "Ravi Yogi"  wrote:
>
> Multi-year obsession for truth always beats multi-year obsession for falsity, 
> deception and slander.
> 
> You go girl!!!
> 
> --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb  wrote:
> >
> > The fascinating thing is that none of this strikes her
> > as in the least obsessive, and as a multi-year, ongoing,
> > compulsive attempt to "get" someone who just coincident-
> > ally happens to be a TM critic.
> > 
> > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "authfriend"  wrote:
> > >
> > > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, azgrey  wrote:
> > > > 
> > > > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "authfriend"  wrote:
> > > 
> > > > > One of the fascinating things about Vaj's jihad against
> > > > > TM is that whenever he's discussed the actual instructions
> > > > > for practicing the technique, he's gotten them wildly
> > > > > wrong. He hasn't done that in a while, perhaps because the
> > > > > last time he tried, three TM teachers (Peter, raunchy,
> > > > > and the do.rk) told him flatly that he didn't know what he
> > > > > was talking about (echoed by moi, a trained but not
> > > > > certified checker).
> > > > 
> > > > You have made this allegation several times in the past. 
> > > > Can you please provide me with some message #'s so 
> > > > that I may look them up and decide for myself the veracity
> > > > of his claims.
> > > 
> > > Happy to. The big discussion, in August 2009, began with
> > > this post from Vaj:
> > > 
> > > http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/message/226302
> > > 
> > > In that discussion, these are the posts from raunchy,
> > > BillyG, and the do.rk disputing Vaj's description of
> > > the instructions for TM:
> > > 
> > > http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/message/226335
> > > (raunchy)
> > > 
> > > http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/message/226341
> > > (BillyG)
> > > 
> > > http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/message/226350
> > > http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/message/226359
> > > (the do.rk)
> > > 
> > > (I'd forgotten BillyG--he makes *four* teachers who disputed
> > > Vaj. I can't find Peter's post, but it's in there somewhere.
> > > My analysis is in there too.)
> > > 
> > > The discussion was revived by Vaj in December 2010, here
> > > (starting with my response, which quotes him; you can
> > > track back to his post if you want to make sure I didn't
> > > quote him out of context):
> > > 
> > > http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/message/263765
> > > 
> > > And a relevant follow-up from me:
> > > 
> > > http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/message/263767
> > > 
> > > I erred, BTW, in my earlier post when I said the teachers
> > > had come down on him the *last* time he brought up the
> > > instructions for TM. It was the time before that, in 2009,
> > > but as you'll see the issues were identical. I believe
> > > there were a couple of similar disputes even earlier, back
> > > on alt.m.t. And there have been others who have expressed
> > > doubt about Vaj's status as a TMer/teacher as well, in other
> > > threads.
> > > 
> > > > Using raunchy as a source doesn't quite cut the mustard
> > > > for me.
> > > 
> > > That's unfortunate, and rather perplexing given the
> > > concurrence of the other three teachers.
> > > 
> > > > I have read Vaj's postings that he has practiced TM and 
> > > > became an Initiator. I am also aware he has not publicly 
> > > > stated which TTC he attended. There are possibly several
> > > > valid reasons for not revealing that.
> > > 
> > > Sure, that in and of itself may or may not be significant
> > > in this context. But getting the instructions for practice
> > > wrong tends to put some weight on the "significant" side
> > > of his refusal to say which TTC he went to.
> > > 
> > > > Thank you in advance. It would clear up some confusion.
> > > 
> > > You're welcome. Thank you for asking. It would be a good
> > > thing, IMHO, to get this cleared up, if possible.
> > >
> >
>




[FairfieldLife] Re: Analyzing the TMO using the "economic psychology" model

2011-04-12 Thread Ravi Yogi
Multi-year obsession for truth always beats multi-year obsession for falsity, 
deception and slander.

You go girl!!!

--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb  wrote:
>
> The fascinating thing is that none of this strikes her
> as in the least obsessive, and as a multi-year, ongoing,
> compulsive attempt to "get" someone who just coincident-
> ally happens to be a TM critic.
> 
> --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "authfriend"  wrote:
> >
> > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, azgrey  wrote:
> > > 
> > > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "authfriend"  wrote:
> > 
> > > > One of the fascinating things about Vaj's jihad against
> > > > TM is that whenever he's discussed the actual instructions
> > > > for practicing the technique, he's gotten them wildly
> > > > wrong. He hasn't done that in a while, perhaps because the
> > > > last time he tried, three TM teachers (Peter, raunchy,
> > > > and the do.rk) told him flatly that he didn't know what he
> > > > was talking about (echoed by moi, a trained but not
> > > > certified checker).
> > > 
> > > You have made this allegation several times in the past. 
> > > Can you please provide me with some message #'s so 
> > > that I may look them up and decide for myself the veracity
> > > of his claims.
> > 
> > Happy to. The big discussion, in August 2009, began with
> > this post from Vaj:
> > 
> > http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/message/226302
> > 
> > In that discussion, these are the posts from raunchy,
> > BillyG, and the do.rk disputing Vaj's description of
> > the instructions for TM:
> > 
> > http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/message/226335
> > (raunchy)
> > 
> > http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/message/226341
> > (BillyG)
> > 
> > http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/message/226350
> > http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/message/226359
> > (the do.rk)
> > 
> > (I'd forgotten BillyG--he makes *four* teachers who disputed
> > Vaj. I can't find Peter's post, but it's in there somewhere.
> > My analysis is in there too.)
> > 
> > The discussion was revived by Vaj in December 2010, here
> > (starting with my response, which quotes him; you can
> > track back to his post if you want to make sure I didn't
> > quote him out of context):
> > 
> > http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/message/263765
> > 
> > And a relevant follow-up from me:
> > 
> > http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/message/263767
> > 
> > I erred, BTW, in my earlier post when I said the teachers
> > had come down on him the *last* time he brought up the
> > instructions for TM. It was the time before that, in 2009,
> > but as you'll see the issues were identical. I believe
> > there were a couple of similar disputes even earlier, back
> > on alt.m.t. And there have been others who have expressed
> > doubt about Vaj's status as a TMer/teacher as well, in other
> > threads.
> > 
> > > Using raunchy as a source doesn't quite cut the mustard
> > > for me.
> > 
> > That's unfortunate, and rather perplexing given the
> > concurrence of the other three teachers.
> > 
> > > I have read Vaj's postings that he has practiced TM and 
> > > became an Initiator. I am also aware he has not publicly 
> > > stated which TTC he attended. There are possibly several
> > > valid reasons for not revealing that.
> > 
> > Sure, that in and of itself may or may not be significant
> > in this context. But getting the instructions for practice
> > wrong tends to put some weight on the "significant" side
> > of his refusal to say which TTC he went to.
> > 
> > > Thank you in advance. It would clear up some confusion.
> > 
> > You're welcome. Thank you for asking. It would be a good
> > thing, IMHO, to get this cleared up, if possible.
> >
>




[FairfieldLife] Re: Analyzing the TMO using the "economic psychology" model

2011-04-12 Thread turquoiseb
The fascinating thing is that none of this strikes her
as in the least obsessive, and as a multi-year, ongoing,
compulsive attempt to "get" someone who just coincident-
ally happens to be a TM critic.

--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "authfriend"  wrote:
>
> --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, azgrey  wrote:
> > 
> > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "authfriend"  wrote:
> 
> > > One of the fascinating things about Vaj's jihad against
> > > TM is that whenever he's discussed the actual instructions
> > > for practicing the technique, he's gotten them wildly
> > > wrong. He hasn't done that in a while, perhaps because the
> > > last time he tried, three TM teachers (Peter, raunchy,
> > > and the do.rk) told him flatly that he didn't know what he
> > > was talking about (echoed by moi, a trained but not
> > > certified checker).
> > 
> > You have made this allegation several times in the past. 
> > Can you please provide me with some message #'s so 
> > that I may look them up and decide for myself the veracity
> > of his claims.
> 
> Happy to. The big discussion, in August 2009, began with
> this post from Vaj:
> 
> http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/message/226302
> 
> In that discussion, these are the posts from raunchy,
> BillyG, and the do.rk disputing Vaj's description of
> the instructions for TM:
> 
> http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/message/226335
> (raunchy)
> 
> http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/message/226341
> (BillyG)
> 
> http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/message/226350
> http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/message/226359
> (the do.rk)
> 
> (I'd forgotten BillyG--he makes *four* teachers who disputed
> Vaj. I can't find Peter's post, but it's in there somewhere.
> My analysis is in there too.)
> 
> The discussion was revived by Vaj in December 2010, here
> (starting with my response, which quotes him; you can
> track back to his post if you want to make sure I didn't
> quote him out of context):
> 
> http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/message/263765
> 
> And a relevant follow-up from me:
> 
> http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/message/263767
> 
> I erred, BTW, in my earlier post when I said the teachers
> had come down on him the *last* time he brought up the
> instructions for TM. It was the time before that, in 2009,
> but as you'll see the issues were identical. I believe
> there were a couple of similar disputes even earlier, back
> on alt.m.t. And there have been others who have expressed
> doubt about Vaj's status as a TMer/teacher as well, in other
> threads.
> 
> > Using raunchy as a source doesn't quite cut the mustard
> > for me.
> 
> That's unfortunate, and rather perplexing given the
> concurrence of the other three teachers.
> 
> > I have read Vaj's postings that he has practiced TM and 
> > became an Initiator. I am also aware he has not publicly 
> > stated which TTC he attended. There are possibly several
> > valid reasons for not revealing that.
> 
> Sure, that in and of itself may or may not be significant
> in this context. But getting the instructions for practice
> wrong tends to put some weight on the "significant" side
> of his refusal to say which TTC he went to.
> 
> > Thank you in advance. It would clear up some confusion.
> 
> You're welcome. Thank you for asking. It would be a good
> thing, IMHO, to get this cleared up, if possible.
>




[FairfieldLife] Re: Analyzing the TMO using the "economic psychology" model

2011-04-12 Thread authfriend
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, azgrey  wrote:
> 
> --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "authfriend"  wrote:

> > One of the fascinating things about Vaj's jihad against
> > TM is that whenever he's discussed the actual instructions
> > for practicing the technique, he's gotten them wildly
> > wrong. He hasn't done that in a while, perhaps because the
> > last time he tried, three TM teachers (Peter, raunchy,
> > and the do.rk) told him flatly that he didn't know what he
> > was talking about (echoed by moi, a trained but not
> > certified checker).
> 
> You have made this allegation several times in the past. 
> Can you please provide me with some message #'s so 
> that I may look them up and decide for myself the veracity
> of his claims.

Happy to. The big discussion, in August 2009, began with
this post from Vaj:

http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/message/226302

In that discussion, these are the posts from raunchy,
BillyG, and the do.rk disputing Vaj's description of
the instructions for TM:

http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/message/226335
(raunchy)

http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/message/226341
(BillyG)

http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/message/226350
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/message/226359
(the do.rk)

(I'd forgotten BillyG--he makes *four* teachers who disputed
Vaj. I can't find Peter's post, but it's in there somewhere.
My analysis is in there too.)

The discussion was revived by Vaj in December 2010, here
(starting with my response, which quotes him; you can
track back to his post if you want to make sure I didn't
quote him out of context):

http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/message/263765

And a relevant follow-up from me:

http://groups.yahoo.com/group/FairfieldLife/message/263767

I erred, BTW, in my earlier post when I said the teachers
had come down on him the *last* time he brought up the
instructions for TM. It was the time before that, in 2009,
but as you'll see the issues were identical. I believe
there were a couple of similar disputes even earlier, back
on alt.m.t. And there have been others who have expressed
doubt about Vaj's status as a TMer/teacher as well, in other
threads.

> Using raunchy as a source doesn't quite cut the mustard
> for me.

That's unfortunate, and rather perplexing given the
concurrence of the other three teachers.

> I have read Vaj's postings that he has practiced TM and 
> became an Initiator. I am also aware he has not publicly 
> stated which TTC he attended. There are possibly several
> valid reasons for not revealing that.

Sure, that in and of itself may or may not be significant
in this context. But getting the instructions for practice
wrong tends to put some weight on the "significant" side
of his refusal to say which TTC he went to.

> Thank you in advance. It would clear up some confusion.

You're welcome. Thank you for asking. It would be a good
thing, IMHO, to get this cleared up, if possible.




[FairfieldLife] Re: Analyzing the TMO using the "economic psychology" model

2011-04-12 Thread Yifu
Vaj's question: why not go right to the gems, avoiding the crap. That's the 
whole crux of the matter, isn't it? In order to discern, one must actually do 
the Coke/Pepsi taste test, not prematurely judge one or the other on the basis 
of supposed "authenticity". 

--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Vaj  wrote:
>
> 
> On Apr 12, 2011, at 8:23 AM, seventhray1 wrote:
> 
> > Vaj, you fault just about everything regarding TMO from the git  
> > go.  But, another perspective might be that there was a generation  
> > of people that had a "seeker mentality".  In many cases this  
> > seeking was misdirected. Someone came along and said, "hey consider  
> > this technique".  Many took him up on his offer, and in many, cases  
> > their lives got on a more productive track.
> >
> > Now you come along and want to nullify this result by saying the  
> > technique and the teacher didn't have the right bonifides?  I am  
> > not sure if many care about that.  In fact, it has a strong elitist  
> > tone.
> >
> > You will say, that right from the outset he misrepresented himself  
> > and his tradition.  You have presented evidence that you feel  
> > supports that position.  Likely some of it is accurate, and some  
> > open to differneces of opinion.
> >
> > There is no doubt that in my mind that in many ways the movement  
> > got off track.  But you would seem to negate much of the positive  
> > because you feel his lineage and documentation are not in proper  
> > order.
> >
> > Do I have this right?
> >
> No. But it's a common reaction.
> 
> I think there's a lot you're forgetting. You don't think saying "His  
> Holiness Maharishi Mahesh Yogi came from the Himalayas with a  
> technique for the modern world from His Divinity Swami Brahmananda  
> Saraswati, Jagadguru and Shankaracharya of Jyotir Math" doesn't sound  
> elitist (never mind that it's not true)?
> 
> I always like Rick's insight from Amma--not because it came from  
> Amma--but because it jives with my own experience: take the gems from  
> the shit and leave the shit behind.
> 
> But at the same time, why bother handing someone a platter of shit  
> and ask them to "sort it out", when you could have simply handed them  
> a pile of gems in the first place?
>




[FairfieldLife] Re: Analyzing the TMO using the "economic psychology" model

2011-04-12 Thread azgrey





--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "authfriend"  wrote:
>
> --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "Yifu"  wrote:
> >
> > right...not the TMO, I believe he hates TM because it works.
> > His family is a group of elitists with preconceived but
> > ill-founded notions of authenticity who (like the Son);
> > were offended by the introduction of TM into the world by
> > a "Mc-Guru" not fitting into their model.
> 
> One of the fascinating things about Vaj's jihad against
> TM is that whenever he's discussed the actual instructions
> for practicing the technique, he's gotten them wildly
> wrong. He hasn't done that in a while, perhaps because the
> last time he tried, three TM teachers (Peter, raunchy,
> and the do.rk) told him flatly that he didn't know what he
> was talking about (echoed by moi, a trained but not
> certified checker).


You have made this allegation several times in the past. 
Can you please provide me with some message #'s so 
that I may look them up and decide for myself the veracity
of his claims. Using raunchy as a source doesn't quite cut 
the mustard for me. 

I have read Vaj's postings that he has practiced TM and 
became an Initiator. I am also aware he has not publicly 
stated which TTC he attended. There are possibly several
valid reasons for not revealing that. 

Thank you in advance. It would clear up some confusion.
 

> 
> raunchy, as I recall, was flabbergasted when I informed
> her that Vaj claimed to have been a TM *teacher* when he
> pretty clearly didn't know how TM was practiced.
> 
> He's also said some extremely dubious things about how
> the TM-Sidhis were practiced.
> 
> And then there was his (inadvertent?) comment recently
> about how fortunate he was that information about MMY's
> alleged lack of authenticity always seemed to be
> instantly available to him when he asked--even though
> it appears he wasn't fortunate enough (despite his
> parents' view of MMY) to think to ask before he'd
> spent years and $$$ doing TM, TTC, and the TM-Sidhis.
> 
> All of which leads one to wonder about his actual TM
> background.
> 
> 
> > But that's the way life is from generation to generation, and why nobody 
> > has been successful at predicting the future. Events turn out to be 
> > radically different than what people expect; with all of the molds broken 
> > and progress made by the radical, creative pioneers.
> > http://www.startlingart.com/Viewer.asp?ImageSource=fine_art&FileName=The_Reality_of_Nothing
> 
> 
>



[FairfieldLife] Re: Analyzing the TMO using the "economic psychology" model

2011-04-12 Thread whynotnow7
Hi Ravi, yeah it was fun to set the scene and play all the parts mentally to 
get the voices right. I have been enjoying your stuff too. 

--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "Ravi Yogi"  wrote:
>
> :-), Thanks for the laughs - all of them are bald?..LOL..
> --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "whynotnow7" 
> wrote:
> >
> > Scene: Away up north and east, in the New England panhandle, 
> somewhere in Kobatsu Malone Country, a family is sitting down to dinner.
> They are buddhists.  All of them are bald. The dinner is tofurkey:
> >
> > Vaj Sr.: Now dammit son, you were ten minutes late today for your
> Allow-No-Other-Religion-Other-Than-The-True-Religion mindfulness
> studies. Here we go again slacker!
> > Vaj Jr: But dad, it was...yeah the narakas, I understand...no, I
> don't want to go there... but it was a long time ago, and I didn't even
> learn TM...dad!!
> > Vaj Sr: You are gonna walk that eight fold path son, or so help me
> Avalokokitevara...!
> > Vaj Mom: Honey...visualize non-violence, whirled peas, remember your
> breathing...
> > Vaj Jr: OK...ok...Look, I promise tomorrow, no one, I mean no one is
> gettin' anything on me - I'm gunna rip that MMY a new one, him an' his
> posse!!
> > Vaj Sr.: That's my bodhi!
> > Vaj Mom: That's funny, I thought MMY was...? oh nevermind.
> >
> >
> > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "authfriend" jstein@ wrote:
> > >
> > > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Vaj  wrote:
> > > 
> > > > He keeps low on the radar since. Indians need to be extra
> > > > careful if they're still in India or have family there.
> > >
> > > More of the same crap, only worse, because he's made it so
> > > nonspecific you can't call him on it or ask for documentation.
> > >
> > > What he wants you to *infer* is that the doctor is afraid he
> > > or his family will be hurt or killed by evil TMO forces in
> > > retaliation.
> > >
> > > How is this not the tactic of a hater?
> > >
> >
>




[FairfieldLife] Re: Analyzing the TMO using the "economic psychology" model

2011-04-12 Thread nablusoss1008


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "authfriend"  wrote:
>
> --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "Yifu"  wrote:
> >
> > right...not the TMO, I believe he hates TM because it works.
> > His family is a group of elitists with preconceived but
> > ill-founded notions of authenticity who (like the Son);
> > were offended by the introduction of TM into the world by
> > a "Mc-Guru" not fitting into their model.
> 
> One of the fascinating things about Vaj's jihad against
> TM is that whenever he's discussed the actual instructions
> for practicing the technique, he's gotten them wildly
> wrong. He hasn't done that in a while, perhaps because the
> last time he tried, three TM teachers (Peter, raunchy,
> and the do.rk) told him flatly that he didn't know what he
> was talking about (echoed by moi, a trained but not
> certified checker).
> 
> raunchy, as I recall, was flabbergasted when I informed
> her that Vaj claimed to have been a TM *teacher* when he
> pretty clearly didn't know how TM was practiced.
> 
> He's also said some extremely dubious things about how
> the TM-Sidhis were practiced.
> 
> And then there was his (inadvertent?) comment recently
> about how fortunate he was that information about MMY's
> alleged lack of authenticity always seemed to be
> instantly available to him when he asked--even though
> it appears he wasn't fortunate enough (despite his
> parents' view of MMY) to think to ask before he'd
> spent years and $$$ doing TM, TTC, and the TM-Sidhis.
> 
> All of which leads one to wonder about his actual TM
> background.


He doesn't have one. 
His and Barry's hate of everything pertaining to TM and the TMO is because it 
actually works and challenges conventional wisdom.
While their "Buddhism" remains, for the most part, in the books.



[FairfieldLife] Re: Analyzing the TMO using the "economic psychology" model

2011-04-12 Thread authfriend
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb  wrote:

> If there's a "theme" that I try to challenge in
> the TMO and in the modern-day hangers-on to a 
> dying movement, it's what's going on right now 
> on this forum -- "Pile on the TM critic." 
> 
> Having claimed only a few posts ago that she does
> *not* choreograph systematic group demonization
> of TM critics, Judy is doing exactly that.

Right, Bar. Hope you noticed, Sal is one of my goons now.
I directed her to make the first negative comments on
Vaj's "practicing medicine without a license" MMY-bashing.
(Had to do it via telepathy because she doesn't read my
posts.) Eager to please me, she actually followed up with
*three more* posts dissing Vaj. I'm so proud of her. I
even got her to tell Vaj he was losing it!

Now, *that's* choreography. You could learn a thing or
three from me; your attempts to choreograph systematic
group demonization of TM supporters don't seem to be
doing so well.







Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Analyzing the TMO using the "economic psychology" model

2011-04-12 Thread Vaj


On Apr 12, 2011, at 8:23 AM, seventhray1 wrote:

Vaj, you fault just about everything regarding TMO from the git  
go.  But, another perspective might be that there was a generation  
of people that had a "seeker mentality".  In many cases this  
seeking was misdirected. Someone came along and said, "hey consider  
this technique".  Many took him up on his offer, and in many, cases  
their lives got on a more productive track.


Now you come along and want to nullify this result by saying the  
technique and the teacher didn't have the right bonifides?  I am  
not sure if many care about that.  In fact, it has a strong elitist  
tone.


You will say, that right from the outset he misrepresented himself  
and his tradition.  You have presented evidence that you feel  
supports that position.  Likely some of it is accurate, and some  
open to differneces of opinion.


There is no doubt that in my mind that in many ways the movement  
got off track.  But you would seem to negate much of the positive  
because you feel his lineage and documentation are not in proper  
order.


Do I have this right?


No. But it's a common reaction.

I think there's a lot you're forgetting. You don't think saying "His  
Holiness Maharishi Mahesh Yogi came from the Himalayas with a  
technique for the modern world from His Divinity Swami Brahmananda  
Saraswati, Jagadguru and Shankaracharya of Jyotir Math" doesn't sound  
elitist (never mind that it's not true)?


I always like Rick's insight from Amma--not because it came from  
Amma--but because it jives with my own experience: take the gems from  
the shit and leave the shit behind.


But at the same time, why bother handing someone a platter of shit  
and ask them to "sort it out", when you could have simply handed them  
a pile of gems in the first place?







[FairfieldLife] Re: Analyzing the TMO using the "economic psychology" model

2011-04-12 Thread seventhray1

Vaj, you fault just about everything regarding TMO from the git go. 
But, another perspective might be that there was a generation of people
that had a "seeker mentality".  In many cases this seeking was
misdirected. Someone came along and said, "hey consider this technique".
Many took him up on his offer, and in many, cases their lives got on a
more productive track.

Now you come along and want to nullify this result by saying the
technique and the teacher didn't have the right bonifides?  I am not
sure if many care about that.  In fact, it has a strong elitist tone.

You will say, that right from the outset he misrepresented himself and
his tradition.  You have presented evidence that you feel supports that
position.  Likely some of it is accurate, and some open to differneces
of opinion.

There is no doubt that in my mind that in many ways the movement got off
track.  But you would seem to negate much of the positive because you
feel his lineage and documentation are not in proper order.

Do I have this right?


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Vaj  wrote:
>
>
> On Apr 12, 2011, at 12:17 AM, seventhray1 wrote:
>
> > Well, I will say that he seems really dialed in to this
> > authenticity thing.
>
> And what "authenticity thing" is that? That he came from a legit line
> of the Shank of the North? Guru Dev instructed him in yoga and
> devised TM in the Bat Cave?
>
> > He just doesn't come off the documentation tack. My thinking is
> > that he rebelled as a youth and sought out his own path, but
> > eventually came back to the family business. I kind of envision
> > the Vajs' in a wood paneled library with leather arm chairs
> > sipping cognac in crystal snifters discussing the lineage of their
> > particular line of teachers. Good times!
>
> I just love history. The history of the TM movement is particularly
> interesting. I just don't take fawning students with much
> seriousness, let alone the ones still handing out the cyanide punch.
> Most haven't done any independent verification, so don't add much to
> the true history.
>
> That the actual history is/was truly bizarre, certainly isn't my
fault.
>




Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Analyzing the TMO using the "economic psychology" model

2011-04-12 Thread Vaj


On Apr 11, 2011, at 11:31 PM, wayback71 wrote:




--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "Yifu"  wrote:


Right! Looks to me that Vaj hates TM, for one reason or another.  
(re: somebody else's comment that he doesn't hate it).


 Why?, possibly, out of jealousy.


I doubt that.  I still do TM, but really, what's to be  
jealous of about TM or the TMO?


Esp. since, as I've stated several times before, I actually had a  
very good and clear experience with TM.


  Lot's of nasty stuff coming out about MMY and the org - and much  
poor quality research.  An organization in which the average age is  
continuing to rise since few new people learn.  Many more people  
are interested in Buddhism and various mindfulness techniques these  
days - it is much more mainstream than TM and has many really  
together  scientists and therapists advocating for it, and doing so  
while speaking plain old English without TM like jargon.  They  
teach mindfulness in hospitals nationwide.


True.



I think Vaj genuinely believes that TM, MMY and  the  
siddhis are not legit in the sense that the tradition from which  
MMY came does not honor MMY, there is no understanding of how to  
help someone grow if they encounter some difficulties, and he  
thinks the whole technique is suspect.  He seems to feel that TM  
can produce some significant problems for many people - and it may  
be having people close to him seriously injured while doing TM that  
is motivating him.


Of course, part and parcel of that is if you have TM diksha and enjoy  
TM, without side effects and use good common sense, it's probably  
best to stick with your TM.




   However, some of what he objects to in TMO is the same crap  
that you find in just about any spiritual organization, including  
Buddhism.   It's the nature of the beast and of human nature.  
Power, sex, money, groupies, needing to convince others of your  
way, idealizing the teacher and putting your own common sense on  
hold, etc etc. And he sometimes compares TM with Buddhism when the  
comparison can't be made - since he holds up Buddhism as the  
template and then points out where TM doesn't measure up.


I try to compare TM to my own experiences with Shank order gurus and  
lines, rather than across ways of seeing--but sometimes the  
inevitable "side-by-side" comparison is helpful, esp. re: meditation  
science.




Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Analyzing the TMO using the "economic psychology" model

2011-04-12 Thread Vaj


On Apr 12, 2011, at 12:17 AM, seventhray1 wrote:

Well, I will say that he seems really dialed in to this  
authenticity thing.


And what "authenticity thing" is that? That he came from a legit line  
of the Shank of the North? Guru Dev instructed him in yoga and  
devised TM in the Bat Cave?


   He just doesn't come off the documentation tack. My thinking is  
that he rebelled as a youth and sought out his own path, but  
eventually came back to the family business.  I kind of envision  
the Vajs' in a wood paneled library with leather arm chairs  
sipping  cognac in crystal snifters discussing the lineage of their  
particular line of teachers.  Good times!


I just love history. The history of the TM movement is particularly  
interesting. I just don't take fawning students with much  
seriousness, let alone the ones still handing out the cyanide punch.  
Most haven't done any independent verification, so don't add much to  
the true history.


That the actual history is/was truly bizarre, certainly isn't my fault.

Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Analyzing the TMO using the "economic psychology" model

2011-04-12 Thread Vaj


On Apr 11, 2011, at 9:11 PM, Yifu wrote:

Right! Looks to me that Vaj hates TM, for one reason or another.  
(re: somebody else's comment that he doesn't hate it).



Whoa dude, huge non sequitur. The post was about Maharishi Ayurveda  
and disreputable "yogis" telling the dying they could save their  
lives, when really, they could not.


Got agenda?

[FairfieldLife] Re: Analyzing the TMO using the "economic psychology" model

2011-04-12 Thread PaliGap


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Vaj  wrote:
> 
> If you want to know the doc, contact me off list. 
> 
> He keeps low on the radar since. Indians need to be
> extra careful if they're still in India or have family
> there.

>From The Idiots Guide To Being A Confidante:

"Your secret's safe with me doctor. I'll only tell one
person at a time!"



[FairfieldLife] Re: Analyzing the TMO using the "economic psychology" model

2011-04-12 Thread Ravi Yogi
I have to say I really admire the way you have constantly, even amongst
much opposition with such a beautiful, loving and dedicated way,
continually endeavored yourself to the task of removing the stubborn
decadent age-old boundaries between truth and falsity, sincerity and
deception.
The magic you weave is just amazing !!!
You are an inspiration to anyone who ever wants to slander others. No
longer will the crooked and crafty suffer in ignominy. Tricksters,
fraudsters, double dealing duplicitous deceptive dishonest crooks
rejoice and bow down to the Vaj Guru, the proponent of the Parama Vakra
Gita.(Mighty twisted scripture).
Bravo !!! Hats off !!! Continue the good work !!!
Aah..the tears of joy...


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Vaj  wrote:
>
>
> On Apr 11, 2011, at 6:20 PM, wayback71 wrote:
>
> > Can you say which personal physician?  Or the names of anyone who
followed this advice and lost a loved one?  I don't disbelieve you on
this, just wondered who we are talking about.
> >
>
>
> If you want to know the doc, contact me off list.
>
> He keeps low on the radar since. Indians need to be extra careful if
they're still in India or have family there.
>



[FairfieldLife] Re: Analyzing the TMO using the "economic psychology" model

2011-04-11 Thread Ravi Yogi

--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Vaj  wrote:
>
>
> On Apr 11, 2011, at 6:20 PM, wayback71 wrote:
>
> > Can you say which personal physician?  Or the names of anyone who
followed this advice and lost a loved one?  I don't disbelieve you on
this, just wondered who we are talking about.
> >
>
>
> If you want to know the doc, contact me off list.
>
> He keeps low on the radar since. Indians need to be extra careful if
they're still in India or have family there.
>

I have to say I really admire the way you have constantly, even amongst
much opposition with such a beautiful, loving and dedicated way,
continually endeavored yourself to the task of removing the stubborn
decadent age-old boundaries between truth and falsity, sincerity and
deception.
The magic you weave is just amazing !!!
You are an inspiration to anyone who ever wants to slander others. No
longer will the crooked and crafty suffer in ignominy. Tricksters,
fraudsters, double dealing duplicitous deceptive dishonest crooks
rejoice and bow down to the Vaj Guru, the proponent of the Parama Vakra
Gita.(Mighty twisted scripture).
Bravo !!! Hats off !!! Continue the good work !!!
Aah..the tears of joy...


[FairfieldLife] Re: Analyzing the TMO using the "economic psychology" model

2011-04-11 Thread turquoiseb
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "wayback71"  wrote:
>
> --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "Yifu"  wrote:
> >
> > Right! Looks to me that Vaj hates TM, for one reason or another. 
> > (re: somebody else's comment that he doesn't hate it).
> > 
> >  Why?, possibly, out of jealousy.
> 
> I doubt that. I still do TM, but really, what's to be 
> jealous of about TM or the TMO? Lot's of nasty stuff 
> coming out about MMY and the org - and much poor 
> quality research.  An organization in which the 
> average age is continuing to rise since few new 
> people learn.

Excellent point. At this point one would have
to be pretty fuckin' out of it to be proud of
being an On The Program TMer. :-)


> I think Vaj genuinely believes that TM, MMY and  the 
> siddhis are not legit in the sense that the tradition 
> from which MMY came does not honor MMY, there is no 
> understanding of how to help someone grow if they 
> encounter some difficulties, and he thinks the whole 
> technique is suspect. He seems to feel that TM can 
> produce some significant problems for many people - 
> and it may be having people close to him seriously 
> injured while doing TM that is motivating him.  

I agree with your assessment of Vaj and what he
seems to believe, and I agree with many of the
points themselves. I think I'm less anxious to
convince TMers that they've been taken to the
cleaners than he is, but that's because I realize
the futility of trying to change minds that can't
be changed because over time they've become too 
rigid and too attached *to* change. 

If there's a "theme" that I try to challenge in
the TMO and in the modern-day hangers-on to a 
dying movement, it's what's going on right now 
on this forum -- "Pile on the TM critic." 

Having claimed only a few posts ago that she does
*not* choreograph systematic group demonization
of TM critics, Judy is doing exactly that. This
particular "get Vaj fest" is all on her. She 
started it, and now she's trying to perpetuate 
it. I don't feel any need to "defend" or "stand up 
for" Vaj because he's a big boy and can take care
of himself. But I do feel the need to point out
the feeding frenzy and who is leading it. And I
do feel the need to point out that she has been
doing this with TM critics or a regular basis 
for seventeen years. It's just what Judy Stein
DOES. That she can deny it is beyond belief.





[FairfieldLife] Re: Analyzing the TMO using the "economic psychology" model

2011-04-11 Thread Ravi Yogi

--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "seventhray1" 
wrote:
>
>
> --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "Yifu" yifuxero@ wrote:
> >
>   His family  were offended by the
> introduction of TM into the world by a "Mc-Guru" not fitting into
their
> model.
> Well, I will say that he seems really dialed in to this authenticity
> thing.He just doesn't come off the documentation tack. My thinking
> is that he rebelled as a youth and sought out his own path, but
> eventually came back to the family business.  I kind of envision the
> Vajs' in a wood paneled library with leather arm chairs sipping 
cognac
> in crystal snifters discussing the lineage of their particular line of
> teachers.  Good times!
>

Family business huh?..LOL..at least he seems to have temporarily stopped
his daily discourses on his Parama Vakra Gita.


[FairfieldLife] Re: Analyzing the TMO using the "economic psychology" model

2011-04-11 Thread Ravi Yogi
:-), Thanks for the laughs - all of them are bald?..LOL..
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "whynotnow7" 
wrote:
>
> Scene: Away up north and east, in the New England panhandle, 
somewhere in Kobatsu Malone Country, a family is sitting down to dinner.
They are buddhists.  All of them are bald. The dinner is tofurkey:
>
> Vaj Sr.: Now dammit son, you were ten minutes late today for your
Allow-No-Other-Religion-Other-Than-The-True-Religion mindfulness
studies. Here we go again slacker!
> Vaj Jr: But dad, it was...yeah the narakas, I understand...no, I
don't want to go there... but it was a long time ago, and I didn't even
learn TM...dad!!
> Vaj Sr: You are gonna walk that eight fold path son, or so help me
Avalokokitevara...!
> Vaj Mom: Honey...visualize non-violence, whirled peas, remember your
breathing...
> Vaj Jr: OK...ok...Look, I promise tomorrow, no one, I mean no one is
gettin' anything on me - I'm gunna rip that MMY a new one, him an' his
posse!!
> Vaj Sr.: That's my bodhi!
> Vaj Mom: That's funny, I thought MMY was...? oh nevermind.
>
>
> --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "authfriend" jstein@ wrote:
> >
> > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Vaj  wrote:
> > 
> > > He keeps low on the radar since. Indians need to be extra
> > > careful if they're still in India or have family there.
> >
> > More of the same crap, only worse, because he's made it so
> > nonspecific you can't call him on it or ask for documentation.
> >
> > What he wants you to *infer* is that the doctor is afraid he
> > or his family will be hurt or killed by evil TMO forces in
> > retaliation.
> >
> > How is this not the tactic of a hater?
> >
>



[FairfieldLife] Re: Analyzing the TMO using the "economic psychology" model

2011-04-11 Thread authfriend
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "Yifu"  wrote:
>
> right...not the TMO, I believe he hates TM because it works.
> His family is a group of elitists with preconceived but
> ill-founded notions of authenticity who (like the Son);
> were offended by the introduction of TM into the world by
> a "Mc-Guru" not fitting into their model.

One of the fascinating things about Vaj's jihad against
TM is that whenever he's discussed the actual instructions
for practicing the technique, he's gotten them wildly
wrong. He hasn't done that in a while, perhaps because the
last time he tried, three TM teachers (Peter, raunchy,
and the do.rk) told him flatly that he didn't know what he
was talking about (echoed by moi, a trained but not
certified checker).

raunchy, as I recall, was flabbergasted when I informed
her that Vaj claimed to have been a TM *teacher* when he
pretty clearly didn't know how TM was practiced.

He's also said some extremely dubious things about how
the TM-Sidhis were practiced.

And then there was his (inadvertent?) comment recently
about how fortunate he was that information about MMY's
alleged lack of authenticity always seemed to be
instantly available to him when he asked--even though
it appears he wasn't fortunate enough (despite his
parents' view of MMY) to think to ask before he'd
spent years and $$$ doing TM, TTC, and the TM-Sidhis.

All of which leads one to wonder about his actual TM
background.


> But that's the way life is from generation to generation, and why nobody has 
> been successful at predicting the future. Events turn out to be radically 
> different than what people expect; with all of the molds broken and progress 
> made by the radical, creative pioneers.
> http://www.startlingart.com/Viewer.asp?ImageSource=fine_art&FileName=The_Reality_of_Nothing





[FairfieldLife] Re: Analyzing the TMO using the "economic psychology" model

2011-04-11 Thread seventhray1

--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "Yifu"  wrote:
>
  His family  were offended by the
introduction of TM into the world by a "Mc-Guru" not fitting into their
model.
Well, I will say that he seems really dialed in to this authenticity
thing.He just doesn't come off the documentation tack. My thinking
is that he rebelled as a youth and sought out his own path, but
eventually came back to the family business.  I kind of envision the
Vajs' in a wood paneled library with leather arm chairs sipping  cognac
in crystal snifters discussing the lineage of their particular line of
teachers.  Good times!


[FairfieldLife] Re: Analyzing the TMO using the "economic psychology" model

2011-04-11 Thread Yifu
right...not the TMO, I believe he hates TM because it works. His family is a 
group of elitists with preconceived but ill-founded notions of authenticity who 
(like the Son); were offended by the introduction of TM into the world by a 
"Mc-Guru" not fitting into their model.
...
But that's the way life is from generation to generation, and why nobody has 
been successful at predicting the future. Events turn out to be radically 
different than what people expect; with all of the molds broken and progress 
made by the radical, creative pioneers.
http://www.startlingart.com/Viewer.asp?ImageSource=fine_art&FileName=The_Reality_of_Nothing


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "wayback71"  wrote:
>
> 
> 
> --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "Yifu"  wrote:
> >
> > Right! Looks to me that Vaj hates TM, for one reason or another. (re: 
> > somebody else's comment that he doesn't hate it).
> > 
> >  Why?, possibly, out of jealousy.
> 
> I doubt that.  I still do TM, but really, what's to be jealous of 
> about TM or the TMO?  Lot's of nasty stuff coming out about MMY and the org - 
> and much poor quality research.  An organization in which the average age is 
> continuing to rise since few new people learn.  Many more people are 
> interested in Buddhism and various mindfulness techniques these days - it is 
> much more mainstream than TM and has many really together  scientists and 
> therapists advocating for it, and doing so while speaking plain old English 
> without TM like jargon.  They teach mindfulness in hospitals nationwide.
> 
> I think Vaj genuinely believes that TM, MMY and  the siddhis are not 
> legit in the sense that the tradition from which MMY came does not honor MMY, 
> there is no understanding of how to help someone grow if they encounter some 
> difficulties, and he thinks the whole technique is suspect.  He seems to feel 
> that TM can produce some significant problems for many people - and it may be 
> having people close to him seriously injured while doing TM that is 
> motivating him.  
> 
>However, some of what he objects to in TMO is the same crap that you 
> find in just about any spiritual organization, including Buddhism.   It's the 
> nature of the beast and of human nature. Power, sex, money, groupies, needing 
> to convince others of your way, idealizing the teacher and putting your own 
> common sense on hold, etc etc. And he sometimes compares TM with Buddhism 
> when the comparison can't be made - since he holds up Buddhism as the 
> template and then points out where TM doesn't measure up. 
> 
> Also, his actions are inconsistent with Buddhism since according to the 
> "Expedient Means" chapter of the Lotus Sutra, Buddhists should use any 
> expedient means to assist people in getting extricated from the clutches of 
> material existence. TM is simply another expedient means, which people are 
> not forced to practice; nor are people forced to take the Ayurvedic products.
> > ...
> > I can easily envision the day when large numbers of Buddhists embrace the 
> > practice of TM. It's completely compatible with any religion, or no 
> > religion.
> > ...
> > http://www.fantasygallery.net/hampton/art_6_FireElemental.html
> > 
> > 
> > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "authfriend"  wrote:
> > >
> > > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Vaj  wrote:
> > >  
> > > > He keeps low on the radar since. Indians need to be extra
> > > > careful if they're still in India or have family there.
> > > 
> > > More of the same crap, only worse, because he's made it so
> > > nonspecific you can't call him on it or ask for documentation.
> > > 
> > > What he wants you to *infer* is that the doctor is afraid he
> > > or his family will be hurt or killed by evil TMO forces in
> > > retaliation.
> > > 
> > > How is this not the tactic of a hater?
> > >
> >
>




[FairfieldLife] Re: Analyzing the TMO using the "economic psychology" model

2011-04-11 Thread wayback71


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "Yifu"  wrote:
>
> Right! Looks to me that Vaj hates TM, for one reason or another. (re: 
> somebody else's comment that he doesn't hate it).
> 
>  Why?, possibly, out of jealousy.

I doubt that.  I still do TM, but really, what's to be jealous of about 
TM or the TMO?  Lot's of nasty stuff coming out about MMY and the org - and 
much poor quality research.  An organization in which the average age is 
continuing to rise since few new people learn.  Many more people are interested 
in Buddhism and various mindfulness techniques these days - it is much more 
mainstream than TM and has many really together  scientists and therapists 
advocating for it, and doing so while speaking plain old English without TM 
like jargon.  They teach mindfulness in hospitals nationwide.

I think Vaj genuinely believes that TM, MMY and  the siddhis are not 
legit in the sense that the tradition from which MMY came does not honor MMY, 
there is no understanding of how to help someone grow if they encounter some 
difficulties, and he thinks the whole technique is suspect.  He seems to feel 
that TM can produce some significant problems for many people - and it may be 
having people close to him seriously injured while doing TM that is motivating 
him.  

   However, some of what he objects to in TMO is the same crap that you 
find in just about any spiritual organization, including Buddhism.   It's the 
nature of the beast and of human nature. Power, sex, money, groupies, needing 
to convince others of your way, idealizing the teacher and putting your own 
common sense on hold, etc etc. And he sometimes compares TM with Buddhism when 
the comparison can't be made - since he holds up Buddhism as the template and 
then points out where TM doesn't measure up. 

Also, his actions are inconsistent with Buddhism since according to the 
"Expedient Means" chapter of the Lotus Sutra, Buddhists should use any 
expedient means to assist people in getting extricated from the clutches of 
material existence. TM is simply another expedient means, which people are not 
forced to practice; nor are people forced to take the Ayurvedic products.
> ...
> I can easily envision the day when large numbers of Buddhists embrace the 
> practice of TM. It's completely compatible with any religion, or no religion.
> ...
> http://www.fantasygallery.net/hampton/art_6_FireElemental.html
> 
> 
> --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "authfriend"  wrote:
> >
> > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Vaj  wrote:
> >  
> > > He keeps low on the radar since. Indians need to be extra
> > > careful if they're still in India or have family there.
> > 
> > More of the same crap, only worse, because he's made it so
> > nonspecific you can't call him on it or ask for documentation.
> > 
> > What he wants you to *infer* is that the doctor is afraid he
> > or his family will be hurt or killed by evil TMO forces in
> > retaliation.
> > 
> > How is this not the tactic of a hater?
> >
>




[FairfieldLife] Re: Analyzing the TMO using the "economic psychology" model

2011-04-11 Thread wayback71


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Vaj  wrote:
>
> 
> On Apr 11, 2011, at 6:20 PM, wayback71 wrote:
> 
> > Can you say which personal physician?  Or the names of anyone who followed 
> > this advice and lost a loved one?  I don't disbelieve you on this, just 
> > wondered who we are talking about.
> > 
> 
> 
> If you want to know the doc, contact me off list. 
> 
> He keeps low on the radar since. Indians need to be extra careful if they're 
> still in India or have family there.
>

I do see.  It's ok, I don't need to know the name, I was just curious.  




[FairfieldLife] Re: Analyzing the TMO using the "economic psychology" model

2011-04-11 Thread whynotnow7
Scene: Away up north and east, in the New England panhandle,  somewhere in 
Kobatsu Malone Country, a family is sitting down to dinner. They are buddhists. 
 All of them are bald. The dinner is tofurkey:

Vaj Sr.: Now dammit son, you were ten minutes late today for your 
Allow-No-Other-Religion-Other-Than-The-True-Religion mindfulness studies. Here 
we go again slacker!
Vaj Jr: But dad, it was...yeah the narakas, I understand...no, I don't want 
to go there... but it was a long time ago, and I didn't even learn 
TM...dad!!
Vaj Sr: You are gonna walk that eight fold path son, or so help me 
Avalokokitevara...!
Vaj Mom: Honey...visualize non-violence, whirled peas, remember your 
breathing...
Vaj Jr: OK...ok...Look, I promise tomorrow, no one, I mean no one is gettin' 
anything on me - I'm gunna rip that MMY a new one, him an' his posse!!
Vaj Sr.: That's my bodhi!
Vaj Mom: That's funny, I thought MMY was...? oh nevermind.


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "authfriend"  wrote:
>
> --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Vaj  wrote:
>  
> > He keeps low on the radar since. Indians need to be extra
> > careful if they're still in India or have family there.
> 
> More of the same crap, only worse, because he's made it so
> nonspecific you can't call him on it or ask for documentation.
> 
> What he wants you to *infer* is that the doctor is afraid he
> or his family will be hurt or killed by evil TMO forces in
> retaliation.
> 
> How is this not the tactic of a hater?
>




[FairfieldLife] Re: Analyzing the TMO using the "economic psychology" model

2011-04-11 Thread Yifu
Right! Looks to me that Vaj hates TM, for one reason or another. (re: somebody 
else's comment that he doesn't hate it).

 Why?, possibly, out of jealousy. Also, his actions are inconsistent with 
Buddhism since according to the "Expedient Means" chapter of the Lotus Sutra, 
Buddhists should use any expedient means to assist people in getting extricated 
from the clutches of material existence. TM is simply another expedient means, 
which people are not forced to practice; nor are people forced to take the 
Ayurvedic products.
...
I can easily envision the day when large numbers of Buddhists embrace the 
practice of TM. It's completely compatible with any religion, or no religion.
...
http://www.fantasygallery.net/hampton/art_6_FireElemental.html


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "authfriend"  wrote:
>
> --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Vaj  wrote:
>  
> > He keeps low on the radar since. Indians need to be extra
> > careful if they're still in India or have family there.
> 
> More of the same crap, only worse, because he's made it so
> nonspecific you can't call him on it or ask for documentation.
> 
> What he wants you to *infer* is that the doctor is afraid he
> or his family will be hurt or killed by evil TMO forces in
> retaliation.
> 
> How is this not the tactic of a hater?
>




[FairfieldLife] Re: Analyzing the TMO using the "economic psychology" model

2011-04-11 Thread authfriend
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Vaj  wrote:
 
> He keeps low on the radar since. Indians need to be extra
> careful if they're still in India or have family there.

More of the same crap, only worse, because he's made it so
nonspecific you can't call him on it or ask for documentation.

What he wants you to *infer* is that the doctor is afraid he
or his family will be hurt or killed by evil TMO forces in
retaliation.

How is this not the tactic of a hater?




[FairfieldLife] Re: Analyzing the TMO using the "economic psychology" model

2011-04-11 Thread seventhray1

I think partly because it''s not "trying" that produces enlightenment. 
(assuming that you even buy int0 the concept).  It's more a function of
grace.  Kind of like being easier for a camel to go through the eye of a
needle that a rich man to go to heaven, only it's not effort that gets
the job done, but more of a letting go.  That's my take on the issue.


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "authfriend"  wrote:
>
> --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "PaliGap" compost1uk@ wrote:
> 
> > So, why doesn't the extraordinary mental and physical
> > discipline of Golf, at least comparable to the practice
> > of most of the great yogis here on FFL and elsewhere,
> > why doesn't that practice produce more "enlightenment"?
>
> Because the disciplines are practiced in the context
> of competition, maybe?
>




Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Analyzing the TMO using the "economic psychology" model

2011-04-11 Thread Vaj

On Apr 11, 2011, at 6:20 PM, wayback71 wrote:

> Can you say which personal physician?  Or the names of anyone who followed 
> this advice and lost a loved one?  I don't disbelieve you on this, just 
> wondered who we are talking about.
> 


If you want to know the doc, contact me off list. 

He keeps low on the radar since. Indians need to be extra careful if they're 
still in India or have family there.

[FairfieldLife] Re: Analyzing the TMO using the "economic psychology" model

2011-04-11 Thread seventhray1


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "authfriend"  wrote:
> Um. I don't know that one can complain about people
> who went on courses having psychotic breaks, and at
> the same time complain that people who were receiving
> psychiatric treatment weren't allowed on courses.


Very good point.



[FairfieldLife] Re: Analyzing the TMO using the "economic psychology" model

2011-04-11 Thread wayback71


--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "Xenophaneros Anartaxius" 
 wrote:
>
> Vaj wrote:
> ...that he [MMY] was directly responsible for encouraging people to take
> an ayurvedic approach to life threatening diseases, and then these same
> people died because of that "enlightened" advice...
> ...To them he wasn't merely stating an opinion, it was the word, the
> promise of an omniscient sage...  ...Practicing medicine without a
> license is a fairly serious charge.
> Sal Sunshine  wrote:
> Since when does magical thinking make someone
> else responsible for that person's decisions?
> 
> 
> But if giving an opinion when asked
> constitutes "practicing medicine without a license"
> we should all be in jail.  Vaj, no offense or anything,
> but in your zeal to accuse MMY of something, anything,
> I think you're sort of losing it here.
> authfriend  wrote:
> Sorry, but advising people to avoid modern medicine and
> do Ayurveda instead, no matter how much you disagree with
> it, no matter what kind of esteem these people held him
> in, isn't even *remotely* "practicing medicine without a
> license."
> That's simply absurd, and to claim it's the case is either
> profoundly ignorant or profoundly disingenuous.
> 
> Many people die from western medical practice, many people die from
> substituting a medically ineffective alternative to medicine. Even
> intelligent people make mistakes in reasoning, how more so those less
> inclined to think. If you give away your self-authority for decision
> making to others you are asking for it. I believe that on the forms for
> M-ayurveda, you basically sign off on a phrase that basically states
> that for all legal purposes, the treatment one is about to get does not
> work. You sign away all recourse to redress to have a treatment that has
> zero guarantee. Generally physicians in western medicine do not have to
> do that, but many procedures here also have no firm guarantee of
> success, such as certain treatments for cancer etc., and there may be
> legal documents of a similar nature, but usually there is evidence that
> success may be possible, but failure cannot be eliminated.
> 
> The TMO and MMY have of course fostered the idea that an enlightened man
> makes no mistakes, but that is because in enlightenment nothing is
> perceived as a mistake. Everything is just as it is,

Actually, this rings true - and I think it is an important point.  I suspect 
this is exactly as it is for the Enlgihtened - not sense of guilt or 
responsibility, it just is what happened.

 and death from
> stupid medical decisions is one of the things that is. For those who
> sign away their mythical soul to another in the state of ignorance is
> begging for problems. Of course knowing that dim-witted followers will
> misinterpret these things is the sign a scam is in the making, and
> fostering the belief that an ineffective treatment will save you is a
> primary concern for a con artist or for a self-deluded practitioner. The
> idea that an enlightened person should not delude the ignorant can be
> interpreted many ways. And if a person is deluded, however, how can they
> be made to understand since everything they think is tinged with
> delusion? Perhaps in this situation, even conventional deluded honesty,
> for all its defects, is best. But the TMO certainly does not give much
> evidence it knows was this is, since it fosters the idea that these
> treatments work, wink, wink, even when you sign away your life.

I think some people only did Ayurveda and abandoned western treatments.  Others 
combined them - never giving up the standard western approach while still 
trying to the ayurvedic thing. Obviously, some would have died no matter what.  
 
> 
> Lack of critical thinking skills is promoted by politics, religion, and
> unnervingly absent from education, etc., a labyrinth of intertwined
> influences whose combined effect makes us dim indeed. Critical thinking
> skills were certainly not part of my education, and it seems to be
> getting worse in these times. People in spiritual movements seem to have
> double burden with regard to thinking, since there is a tendency to
> reject intellectually what one has previously learned as having been in
> error, in favor of new concepts which one thinks are true, even though
> there is no vetting to discover if that is really what one has got.
>




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