[FairfieldLife] Re: Acedia Fairfield

2010-06-07 Thread authfriend
I received the following email from Ken Hassman: Judy and m2smart492000, I am only a lurker so I can't post directly and would be happy for you to post this if you felt it was relevant. One of my brothers, now 56 years of age, is bipolar and his story with medication is a lot different than

[FairfieldLife] Re: Acedia Fairfield

2010-06-07 Thread Buck
is it possible to have good meditations and be on anti-D's? Wondering too if any the buddhas at the gas pump might have insight in their experience on this. Awakened while on anti-D's? By experience. Would be helpful in the community to know it could be okay. I chatted about

Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Acedia Fairfield

2010-06-06 Thread Ravi Chivukula
Dear, No one touted me as anything on the batgap list, it was me who declared that to the list - if at all they were listening to my experiences and sharing their experiences, opinions and cautioning me on the pitfalls - so this is a completely false conclusion. And again I have just heard about

Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Acedia Fairfield

2010-06-06 Thread ditzyklanmail
. From: TurquoiseB no_re...@yahoogroups.com To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com Sent: Sat, 5 June, 2010 1:25:45 AM Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: AcediaFairfield --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, ditzyklanmail carc...@... wrote: Yes, it was life threatening. ...and maybe still

[FairfieldLife] Re: Acedia Fairfield

2010-06-05 Thread TurquoiseB
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, ditzyklanmail carc...@... wrote: Yes, it was life threatening. ...and maybe still is. The hospital let the young person out this week. The hospital weaned the person from klonopin over a week's time which I hear is not long enough time. Then the

[FairfieldLife] Re: Acedia Fairfield

2010-06-05 Thread Buck
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, TurquoiseB no_re...@... wrote: I have no reason to believe that taking anti-depres- sants is bad for one's spiritual progress. I have a few friends whose spiritual well-being and sense of balance skyrocketed after having them prescribed for them.

[FairfieldLife] Re: Acedia Fairfield

2010-06-05 Thread TurquoiseB
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Buck dhamiltony...@... wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, TurquoiseB no_reply@ wrote: I have no reason to believe that taking anti-depres- sants is bad for one's spiritual progress. I have a few friends whose spiritual well-being and sense

[FairfieldLife] Re: Acedia Fairfield

2010-06-05 Thread Hugo
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Buck dhamiltony...@... wrote: Is it possible to be on anti-D's have nice meditations? Anybody have experience with that? Yes, but you need to be stable on them. What this means is that when you start taking an SSRI (strategic seratonin re-uptake

[FairfieldLife] Re: Acedia Fairfield

2010-06-05 Thread Hugo
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Hugo fintlewoodle...@... wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Buck dhamiltony2k5@ wrote: Is it possible to be on anti-D's have nice meditations? Anybody have experience with that? Yes, but you need to be stable on them. What

[FairfieldLife] Re: Acedia Fairfield

2010-06-05 Thread authfriend
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Hugo fintlewoodle...@... wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Buck dhamiltony2k5@ wrote: Is it possible to be on anti-D's have nice meditations? Anybody have experience with that? Yes, but you need to be stable on them. What this means

[FairfieldLife] Re: Acedia Fairfield

2010-06-05 Thread Hugo
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend jst...@... wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Hugo fintlewoodlewix@ wrote: The big question for us is why are so many people who meditate regularly having to take mind altering drugs? Or seeking other talk-based help. I say

Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Acedia Fairfield

2010-06-05 Thread Bhairitu
TurquoiseB wrote: These drugs are powerful psychotropics. They replace or supplement the endorphins that allow us to feel good -- about ourselves, about life, about everything. But as far as I can tell from my limited reading, the body is lazy, and when these endorphins are supplied

[FairfieldLife] Re: Acedia Fairfield

2010-06-05 Thread authfriend
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Bhairitu noozg...@... wrote: snip They actually have little idea how these work but have some effect mainly on raising the bottom line for pharmaceutical companies. Lithium was brought up here Bad example. Lithium is a naturally occurring substance and

Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Acedia Fairfield

2010-06-05 Thread Bhairitu
authfriend wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Bhairitu noozg...@... wrote: snip They actually have little idea how these work but have some effect mainly on raising the bottom line for pharmaceutical companies. Lithium was brought up here Bad example. Lithium is a

[FairfieldLife] Re: Acedia Fairfield

2010-06-05 Thread cardemaister
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Hugo fintlewoodle...@... wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Hugo fintlewoodlewix@ wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Buck dhamiltony2k5@ wrote: Is it possible to be on anti-D's have nice meditations? Anybody

[FairfieldLife] Re: Acedia Fairfield

2010-06-05 Thread authfriend
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Bhairitu noozg...@... wrote: authfriend wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Bhairitu noozguru@ wrote: snip They actually have little idea how these work but have some effect mainly on raising the bottom line for pharmaceutical

[FairfieldLife] Re: Acedia Fairfield

2010-06-05 Thread Buck
Turq, thanks. Thoughtful and sensitive replies on the thread, is it possible to have good meditations and be on anti-D's? Wondering now too if any the buddhas at the gas pump might have insight in their experience on this. Awakened while on anti-D's? By experience. Would be helpful in the

[FairfieldLife] Re: Acedia Fairfield

2010-06-04 Thread Buck
Does taking Anti-depressants preclude spiritual experience? Just wondering given the recent experience of exulted experiences and suicide. Exulted transcendental experiences and depressed. Does taking anti-depressants also shut off the spiritual experience? Get in the way of

[FairfieldLife] Re: Acedia Fairfield

2010-06-04 Thread Buck
Is it possible to be on anti-D's have nice meditations? Anybody have experience with that? Does taking Anti-depressants preclude spiritual experience? Just wondering given the recent experience of exulted experiences and suicide. Exulted transcendental experiences and

[FairfieldLife] Re: Acedia Fairfield

2010-06-04 Thread MinP
family. There is nothing spiritual about clutching a knife and razors. From: Buck dhamiltony...@... To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com Sent: Thu, 3 June, 2010 8:35:34 PM Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: AcediaFairfield In the news

[FairfieldLife] Re: Acedia Fairfield

2010-06-04 Thread m2smart4u2000
I was once married to someone who is bipolar and he has taken meds. for many years.The crucial point to me was that the patient needs a really good psychiatrist who can find the right medicine. There have been great advances in medicine for depression and I'm sure that many of them do not hurt

[FairfieldLife] Re: Acedia Fairfield

2010-06-04 Thread authfriend
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, m2smart4u2000 no_re...@... wrote: snip With bipolar illness, a person may seem very enlightened with the high (or is it manic depression?)... Same illness, different terms for it. Great post. One thing's for sure, if a person is clinically depressed

[FairfieldLife] Re: Acedia Fairfield

2010-06-04 Thread m2smart4u2000
My X manages his bipolar very well. Because we have kids together and it is often inherited, we have educated them on the disease. He recently felt the depression coming on again so he made an urgent appt with his doctor and his meds were adjusted. His depression improved with the adjustment.

Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Acedia Fairfield

2010-06-04 Thread ditzyklanmail
Sent: Fri, 4 June, 2010 3:11:30 PM Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: AcediaFairfield Xanax detox is a life threatening event, it must be done medically supervised. One needs to be supervised as one winds down the dosage, there's really no two ways about it. --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com

[FairfieldLife] Re: Acedia Fairfield

2010-06-04 Thread authfriend
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, m2smart4u2000 no_re...@... wrote: My X manages his bipolar very well. Because we have kids together and it is often inherited, we have educated them on the disease. Oh, wow, that must not be real comfortable for any of you, but you're doing just the right

[FairfieldLife] Re: Acedia Fairfield

2010-06-04 Thread shukra69
Do you find that the prozac negatively affects your meditation or YFing? --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, It's just a ride bill.hicks.all.a.r...@... wrote: On Sun, May 30, 2010 at 10:46 AM, Vaj vajradh...@... wrote: IME the dark night is widely valued and promoted by this (and

[FairfieldLife] Re: Acedia Fairfield

2010-06-03 Thread Buck
In the news, a young person of the meditating community put an end to his life this last week. http://preview.tinyurl.com/34a3rnz Does taking Anti-depressants preclude spiritual experience? Just wondering given the recent experience of exulted experiences and suicide. Exulted

Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Acedia Fairfield

2010-06-03 Thread ditzyklanmail
. It is usually the answer to the friend's family. There is nothing spiritual about clutching a knife and razors. From: Buck dhamiltony...@yahoo.com To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com Sent: Thu, 3 June, 2010 8:35:34 PM Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: AcediaFairfield

[FairfieldLife] Re: Acedia Fairfield

2010-06-02 Thread authfriend
Oh, and BTW... --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, TurquoiseB no_re...@... wrote: snip I'm seeing more of the echo chamber effect I wrote about earlier, back when Ravi was being touted as the latest realized being by this *same* group of discerning seers. From an earlier post of Barry's:

RE: [FairfieldLife] Re: Acedia Fairfield

2010-06-02 Thread Rick Archer
From: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com [mailto:fairfieldl...@yahoogroups.com] On Behalf Of authfriend Sent: Wednesday, June 02, 2010 9:21 AM To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: Acedia Fairfield Oh, and BTW... --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com mailto:FairfieldLife

Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Acedia Fairfield

2010-06-02 Thread Sal Sunshine
On Jun 2, 2010, at 10:36 AM, Rick Archer wrote: The reason I booted Ravi from BatGap is that there are different ground rules there than here. Almost anything is tolerated here. It's like a boxing match as opposed to a tea party. I expect more cordial behavior over there, and if someone

RE: [FairfieldLife] Re: Acedia Fairfield

2010-06-02 Thread Rick Archer
From: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com [mailto:fairfieldl...@yahoogroups.com] On Behalf Of Sal Sunshine Sent: Wednesday, June 02, 2010 10:45 AM To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com Subject: Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Acedia Fairfield On Jun 2, 2010, at 10:36 AM, Rick Archer wrote: The reason I

[FairfieldLife] Re: Acedia Fairfield

2010-06-02 Thread WillyTex
Vaj: But believe me core TB's believe you have so much ama collecting in your synapses you'd need PK just to resume some normalcy from the disease that you use the Prozac for... Introducing Pranic Healing Methods she says, Western allopatic medicine holds to the view that disease is

[FairfieldLife] Re: Acedia Fairfield

2010-06-01 Thread TurquoiseB
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Buck dhamiltony...@... wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Bhairitu noozguru@ wrote: Buck wrote: Actually, does anybody remember what Charlie Lutes said about suicide? His stories. I seem to remember Charlie talking about how

[FairfieldLife] Re: Acedia Fairfield

2010-06-01 Thread authfriend
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, TurquoiseB no_re...@... wrote: snip I perceive a real danger in the *myth* about enlightenment that says it's a state in which one's very thoughts and perceptions and decisions and actions are reflections of The Truth. Believing that is true to some

RE: [FairfieldLife] Re: Acedia Fairfield

2010-06-01 Thread Rick Archer
From: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com [mailto:fairfieldl...@yahoogroups.com] On Behalf Of Buck Sent: Monday, May 31, 2010 10:51 PM To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: Acedia Fairfield Different story. A friend here re-tells hearing Charlie Lutes getting a phone call

RE: [FairfieldLife] Re: Acedia Fairfield

2010-06-01 Thread David Hawthorne
Test (posting) From: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com [mailto:fairfieldl...@yahoogroups.com] On Behalf Of Rick Archer Sent: Tuesday, June 01, 2010 9:11 AM To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com Subject: RE: [FairfieldLife] Re: Acedia Fairfield From: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com

Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Acedia Fairfield

2010-06-01 Thread Vaj
On May 30, 2010, at 2:40 PM, It's just a ride wrote: On Sun, May 30, 2010 at 10:46 AM, Vaj vajradh...@earthlink.net wrote: IME the dark night is widely valued and promoted by this (and other FF) groups. However it was never clear if the people who had 'passed thru their dark night of

Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Acedia Fairfield

2010-06-01 Thread It's just a ride
On Tue, Jun 1, 2010 at 9:11 AM, Rick Archer r...@searchsummit.com wrote: *From:* FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com [mailto: fairfieldl...@yahoogroups.com] *On Behalf Of *Buck *Sent:* Monday, May 31, 2010 10:51 PM *To:* FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com *Subject:* [FairfieldLife] Re: Acedia

RE: [FairfieldLife] Re: Acedia Fairfield

2010-06-01 Thread Rick Archer
From: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com [mailto:fairfieldl...@yahoogroups.com] On Behalf Of It's just a ride Sent: Tuesday, June 01, 2010 7:24 PM To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com Subject: Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Acedia Fairfield I always wondered why everyone took Charlie Lutes so seriously. He

[FairfieldLife] Re: Acedia Fairfield

2010-06-01 Thread Buck
Was a large memorial today. 400 or so people. Lots of folks as speakers. Lots of very heady speechifying and spiritual reflection. Lots heady and some common grief. Only a couple speakers saying the suicide is unacceptable. One of them was from the MUM President's Office, a guy who knew

[FairfieldLife] Re: Acedia Fairfield

2010-06-01 Thread Buck
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Buck dhamiltony...@... wrote: Was a large memorial today. 400 or so people. Lots of folks as speakers. Lots of very heady speechifying and spiritual reflection. Lots heady and some common grief. Only a couple speakers saying the suicide is

[FairfieldLife] Re: Acedia Fairfield

2010-05-31 Thread Buck
How should a community be supporting people 20-30 years old to keep them from committing suicide? IOW, how has Fairfield been failing them? Regardless of age grouping, Two things, as I ask around. One is cultural, they (the TM movement) don't teach much by way of ethics generally. Mostly

[FairfieldLife] Re: Acedia Fairfield

2010-05-31 Thread TurquoiseB
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Buck dhamiltony...@... wrote: In to that vein, the TM movement programs were never set up to really accommodate. Hence it is not really a place to safely talk about personal issues if you would like to participate. In design, the school and programs

[FairfieldLife] Re: Acedia Fairfield

2010-05-31 Thread authfriend
Yesterday morning, it was all, I feel your pain, let it all hang out, I won't rag on you, this isn't a platform from which to score points. This morning...not so much. --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, TurquoiseB no_re...@... wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Duveyoung

[FairfieldLife] Re: Acedia Fairfield

2010-05-31 Thread authfriend
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Buck dhamiltony...@... wrote: How should a community be supporting people 20-30 years old to keep them from committing suicide? IOW, how has Fairfield been failing them? Regardless of age grouping, Two things, as I ask around. Doesn't really answer

[FairfieldLife] Re: Acedia Fairfield

2010-05-31 Thread seventhray1
I don't see it that way at all. That fact of the matter is, that we know a lot more now, than we did 24 hours ago. And there is no impugning of the deceased or his family. More just the the circumstances and environment surrounding his death, as I see it. Hopefully in this way, his death

Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Acedia Fairfield

2010-05-31 Thread Vaj
On May 30, 2010, at 9:22 PM, seventhray1 wrote: Sal Sunshine salsunsh...@... wrote: And also along these lines, I found this link on Rick's chat group: http://rorygoff.com/open/the-observatory/dan-swartz/ Thanks for posting this. This was helpful is seeing who he was, hearing him

[FairfieldLife] Re: Acedia Fairfield

2010-05-31 Thread authfriend
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, seventhray1 steve.sun...@... wrote: I don't see it that way at all. That fact of the matter is, that we know a lot more now, than we did 24 hours ago. And there is no impugning of the deceased or his family. Right, just, in this case, impugning Edg and

[FairfieldLife] Re: Acedia Fairfield

2010-05-31 Thread seventhray1
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Vaj vajradh...@... wrote: I think you're right, he was a talker. We tried talking a couple of times, but I found he took himself not only way too seriously, but he jumped to the wildest conclusions about his own inner states and was quick to claim the most

[FairfieldLife] Re: Acedia Fairfield

2010-05-31 Thread seventhray1
Ok, I'm going to take a step that may cross a line I probably oughten cross. Edg just posted something on BATGAP where he hints, that had he had more information on Daniel, he might have reigned in his exchanges with him a little. Or that's how I interpet it. For me, when I read his

[FairfieldLife] Re: Acedia Fairfield

2010-05-31 Thread seventhray1
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend jst...@... wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, seventhray1 steve.sundur@ wrote: I don't see it that way at all. That fact of the matter is, that we know a lot more now, than we did 24 hours ago. And there is no impugning of the

[FairfieldLife] Re: Acedia Fairfield

2010-05-31 Thread authfriend
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, seventhray1 steve.sun...@... wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, authfriend jstein@ wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, seventhray1 steve.sundur@ wrote: I don't see it that way at all. That fact of the matter is, that we know

[FairfieldLife] Re: Acedia Fairfield

2010-05-31 Thread Duveyoung
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, TurquoiseB no_re...@... wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Duveyoung no_reply@ wrote: Dan was special -- way wise beyond his age. Not that he was a guru one would seek, but that it was he who sought -- sought hearts to engage -- and pushed

[FairfieldLife] Re: Acedia Fairfield

2010-05-31 Thread seventhray1
This puts a lot of things in perspective for me. Thanks --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Duveyoung no_re...@... wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, TurquoiseB no_reply@ wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Duveyoung no_reply@ wrote: Dan was special -- way wise

[FairfieldLife] Re: Acedia Fairfield

2010-05-31 Thread TurquoiseB
Edg, since you have taken upon yourself the mantle of being the chronicler of Daniels' life, please repost for us the instances on BATBAP in which he said some- thing a little off and was called on it by other forum participants, including yourself. Thanks in advance. --- In

[FairfieldLife] Re: Acedia Fairfield

2010-05-31 Thread Duveyoung
I'll do this, but it'll take some slogging. I've got some other stuff first to do, but it's on my list. Edg --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, TurquoiseB no_re...@... wrote: Edg, since you have taken upon yourself the mantle of being the chronicler of Daniels' life, please repost for

Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Acedia Fairfield

2010-05-31 Thread Bhairitu
Buck wrote: Actually, does anybody remember what Charlie Lutes said about suicide? His stories. I seem to remember Charlie talking about how suicide is looked upon as a bad thing in Indian philosophy but if suffering from cancer he could see why a person my want a way out. In Indian

[FairfieldLife] Re: Acedia Fairfield

2010-05-31 Thread Duveyoung
Here's an exchange that shows that Dan and David and manoj_menon had some challenging dynamics. From Dan: Re: Where I'm At For what it's worth, in my experience witnessing IS a predecessor to Enlightenment. But I don't want to say that it HAS to be that way, because I don't know. Witnessing

[FairfieldLife] Re: Acedia Fairfield

2010-05-31 Thread Duveyoung
Just a quickie -- here's David confronting Ravi -- it's not a Dan example, but it shows how BATGP was not just a push over for all claims. Edg --- In buddhaatthegasp...@yahoogroups.com, David dfb...@... wrote: Hi Ravi Sorry, but those are the words of an addict. Under stating, long term,

[FairfieldLife] Re: Acedia Fairfield

2010-05-31 Thread authfriend
We all need to realize that we are all to be held accountable for anything we say that Barry disagrees with. (The reverse, of course, is not the case.) --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Duveyoung no_re...@... wrote: I'll do this, but it'll take some slogging. I've got some other stuff

Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Acedia Fairfield

2010-05-31 Thread Vaj
On May 31, 2010, at 1:00 PM, Duveyoung wrote: Lack of ego (i.e. disppearance of the individual) seems to come as a natural result on getting clear about the relationship between onself and the infinite. Witnessing seems to be an initial stage of that, which blossoms into the whole picture.

Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Acedia Fairfield

2010-05-31 Thread Sal Sunshine
On May 31, 2010, at 9:12 AM, seventhray1 wrote: Pretty much the only perspective you're getting from BATGAP is that a great luminary has left the scene. And that if only I knew . And yet evidently he did talk to others about his problems. But of course, I don't think it is easy for anyone

[FairfieldLife] Re: Acedia Fairfield

2010-05-31 Thread Alex Stanley
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Bhairitu noozg...@... wrote: Buck wrote: Actually, does anybody remember what Charlie Lutes said about suicide? His stories. I seem to remember Charlie talking about how suicide is looked upon as a bad thing in Indian philosophy but if

[FairfieldLife] Re: Acedia Fairfield

2010-05-31 Thread seventhray1
Can you provide a link? --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Sal Sunshine salsunsh...@... wrote: On May 31, 2010, at 9:12 AM, seventhray1 wrote: Pretty much the only perspective you're getting from BATGAP is that a great luminary has left the scene. And that if only I knew . And yet

[FairfieldLife] Re: Acedia Fairfield

2010-05-31 Thread Alex Stanley
http://www.facebook.com/diswartz2 --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, seventhray1 steve.sun...@... wrote: Can you provide a link? --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Sal Sunshine salsunshine@ wrote: On May 31, 2010, at 9:12 AM, seventhray1 wrote: Pretty much the only

Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Acedia Fairfield

2010-05-31 Thread Sal Sunshine
On May 31, 2010, at 3:45 PM, seventhray1 wrote: Can you provide a link? http://bit.ly/bdB1Ym --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Sal Sunshine salsunsh...@... wrote: On May 31, 2010, at 9:12 AM, seventhray1 wrote: Pretty much the only perspective you're getting from BATGAP is that a

[FairfieldLife] Re: Acedia Fairfield

2010-05-31 Thread Buck
So my question was more, what can *any* community be said to have failed to do to keep its adult members from committing suicide? Is that even a community's responsibility? Or perhaps, is the TMO/MUM ethos so powerful that it afflicts the *entire* Fairfield community, including those

[FairfieldLife] Re: Acedia Fairfield

2010-05-31 Thread Buck
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Bhairitu noozg...@... wrote: Buck wrote: Actually, does anybody remember what Charlie Lutes said about suicide? His stories. I seem to remember Charlie talking about how suicide is looked upon as a bad thing in Indian philosophy but if suffering

[FairfieldLife] Re: Acedia Fairfield

2010-05-30 Thread Buck
In the news, a young person of the meditating community put an end to his life this last week. http://preview.tinyurl.com/34a3rnz From the end of the earth I call; My heart is faint. -Psalm 61:13 `Tristitia' seems to be a sadness caused by adversity and trial in social

[FairfieldLife] Re: Acedia Fairfield

2010-05-30 Thread Buck
In the news, a young person of the meditating community put an end to his life this last week. http://preview.tinyurl.com/34a3rnz From the end of the earth I call; My heart is faint. -Psalm 61:13 `Tristitia' seems to be a sadness caused by adversity and trial

[FairfieldLife] Re: Acedia Fairfield

2010-05-30 Thread raunchydog
Rest in peace, dearest Daniel. I am so sad for your family. God bless. --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Buck dhamiltony...@... wrote: In the news, a young person of the meditating community put an end to his life this last week. http://preview.tinyurl.com/34a3rnz

[FairfieldLife] Re: Acedia Fairfield

2010-05-30 Thread TurquoiseB
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Buck dhamiltony...@... wrote: I knew Daniel well and have a little different take than some others. this is what my perception was knowing what was going on. Had I known the last 2 months he told so many people his pain was too great and he was

[FairfieldLife] Re: Acedia Fairfield

2010-05-30 Thread Alex Stanley
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, TurquoiseB no_re...@... wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Buck dhamiltony2k5@ wrote: I knew Daniel well and have a little different take than some others. this is what my perception was knowing what was going on. Had I known the last 2

[FairfieldLife] Re: Acedia Fairfield

2010-05-30 Thread seventhray1
I have been following a thread at Buddha at the Gas Pump, but as nothing was posted here, I didn't want to comment. I do know his parents, or at least who they are. I did not want to register at the Fairfield Ledger, so if someone could post the full obituary, it would be appreciated. Daniel

[FairfieldLife] Re: Acedia Fairfield

2010-05-30 Thread seventhray1
-- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Buck dhamiltony...@... wrote: FW; I knew Daniel well and have a little different take than some others. this is what my perception was knowing what was going on. Had I known the last 2 months he told so many people his pain was too great and he was thinking

[FairfieldLife] Re: Acedia Fairfield

2010-05-30 Thread Buck
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Alex Stanley j_alexander_stan...@... wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, TurquoiseB no_reply@ wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Buck dhamiltony2k5@ wrote: I knew Daniel well and have a little different take than some

[FairfieldLife] Re: Acedia Fairfield

2010-05-30 Thread Duveyoung
I'm trying to grasp this, trying to get this to gel, but even these few words here have me bawling. I never knew Dan personally, but I spent a couple hundred hours writing to him, and that part of me cannot but weep and my breath right now is coming in heaves. Rick asked me to pick some of

Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Acedia Fairfield

2010-05-30 Thread Vaj
On May 30, 2010, at 8:26 AM, Buck wrote: In the news, a young person of the meditating community put an end to his life this last week. http://preview.tinyurl.com/34a3rnz From the end of the earth I call; My heart is faint. -Psalm 61:13 `Tristitia'

[FairfieldLife] Re: Acedia Fairfield

2010-05-30 Thread seventhray1
Thanks for the reply. People keep referring to his pain, saying they didn't realize how intense it was. I wonder what the pain is they are referring to. Some comments on the other site also attempt to put the suicide in the perspective that he was needed elsewhere. I don't know if I buy

[FairfieldLife] Re: Acedia Fairfield

2010-05-30 Thread TurquoiseB
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, seventhray1 steve.sun...@... wrote: Thanks for the reply. People keep referring to his pain, saying they didn't realize how intense it was. I wonder what the pain is they are referring to. Some comments on the other site also attempt to put the

[FairfieldLife] Re: Acedia Fairfield

2010-05-30 Thread Buck
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, seventhray1 steve.sun...@... wrote: Thanks for the reply. People keep referring to his pain, saying they didn't realize how intense it was. I wonder what the pain is they are referring to. Some comments on the other site also attempt to put the

Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Acedia Fairfield

2010-05-30 Thread Sal Sunshine
On May 30, 2010, at 8:09 AM, seventhray1 wrote: I have been following a thread at Buddha at the Gas Pump, but as nothing was posted here, I didn't want to comment. I do know his parents, or at least who they are. I did not want to register at the Fairfield Ledger, so if someone could

Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Acedia Fairfield

2010-05-30 Thread Vaj
On May 30, 2010, at 11:09 AM, Buck wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, seventhray1 steve.sun...@... wrote: Thanks for the reply. People keep referring to his pain, saying they didn't realize how intense it was. I wonder what the pain is they are referring to. Some

[FairfieldLife] Re: Acedia Fairfield

2010-05-30 Thread WillyTex
...how responsible are Rick and Thom themselves with this young man for this outcome? Vaj: Hopefully this will be a wake up call of a different kind for these groups that pretend to dispense wisdom, but instead delve in an area where they really have little expertise. You

Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Acedia Fairfield

2010-05-30 Thread Sal Sunshine
On May 30, 2010, at 10:32 AM, Sal Sunshine wrote: This is at least the third in 1.5 years here. We are failing our young people. Along those lines, Rick, did anyone in your group ever suggest, either to the group or privately to you--that Daniel might be going through something a bit more

Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Acedia Fairfield

2010-05-30 Thread ditzyklanmail
Subject: Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: AcediaFairfield On May 30, 2010, at 8:26 AM, Buck wrote: In the news, a young person of the meditating community put an end to his life this last week. http://preview. tinyurl.com/ 34a3rnz From the end of the earth I call; My heart

RE: [FairfieldLife] Re: Acedia Fairfield

2010-05-30 Thread Rick Archer
From: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com [mailto:fairfieldl...@yahoogroups.com] On Behalf Of Buck Sent: Sunday, May 30, 2010 10:09 AM To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: Acedia Fairfield --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com mailto:FairfieldLife%40yahoogroups.com

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2010-05-30 Thread It's just a ride
On Sun, May 30, 2010 at 10:46 AM, Vaj vajradh...@earthlink.net wrote: IME the dark night is widely valued and promoted by this (and other FF) groups. However it was never clear if the people who had 'passed thru their dark night of the soul' (and then promoted such experiences as valuable

[FairfieldLife] Re: Acedia Fairfield

2010-05-30 Thread seventhray1
Ok, one other question. In way manner did he end his life? --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Buck dhamiltony...@... wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, seventhray1 steve.sundur@ wrote: Thanks for the reply. People keep referring to his pain, saying they didn't realize

[FairfieldLife] Re: Acedia Fairfield

2010-05-30 Thread seventhray1
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, TurquoiseB no_re...@... wrote: The issue nailed in the quote Buck posted is an inter- esting one to ponder in my opinion. If you've outed yourself as enlightened, and thus associated yourself with many of the *myths* about enlightenment I've been

[FairfieldLife] Re: Acedia Fairfield

2010-05-30 Thread seventhray1
Sal Sunshine salsunsh...@... wrote: This is at least the third in 1.5 years here. We are failing our young people. Ok, going out on a limb here. I knew Fred from my days at MIU. Always enjoyed interacting with him, the little that I did. He was an instructor. But he never struck me as

[FairfieldLife] Re: Acedia Fairfield

2010-05-30 Thread seventhray1
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Rick Archer r...@... wrote: I wish I had been in a position to be more responsible. He hadn't been to the meetings in several weeks, which was unusual for him. The last time I went, I asked where he was, and someone said he was going through a lot. I've

[FairfieldLife] Re: Acedia Fairfield

2010-05-30 Thread Buck
This is at least the third in 1.5 years here. We are failing our young people. Sal I would hope they are pulling professionals in to the schools (MSAE MUM) by first class after this weekend. Dr. Pete?

Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Acedia Fairfield

2010-05-30 Thread Sal Sunshine
On May 30, 2010, at 3:35 PM, Buck wrote: This is at least the third in 1.5 years here. We are failing our young people. Sal I would hope they are pulling professionals in to the schools (MSAE MUM) by first class after this weekend. Dr. Pete? The public schools have long since had

[FairfieldLife] Re: Acedia Fairfield

2010-05-30 Thread authfriend
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Sal Sunshine salsunsh...@... wrote: On May 30, 2010, at 3:35 PM, Buck wrote: This is at least the third in 1.5 years here. We are failing our young people. I would hope they are pulling professionals in to the schools (MSAE MUM) by first class

[FairfieldLife] Re: Acedia Fairfield

2010-05-30 Thread Buck
exulted mentally ill,, FW,, paste I think a lot of people are shocked and confused esp the young people here. Wondering if suicide is a okay method to move on, if things are rough. Rick Archer gave this moving talk of love about the depth of Daniel's exp and with all the talk of how he was

RE: [FairfieldLife] Re: Acedia Fairfield

2010-05-30 Thread Rick Archer
From: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com [mailto:fairfieldl...@yahoogroups.com] On Behalf Of Buck Sent: Sunday, May 30, 2010 7:27 AM To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: Acedia Fairfield FW; I knew Daniel well and have a little different take than some others. this is what

RE: [FairfieldLife] Re: Acedia Fairfield

2010-05-30 Thread Rick Archer
From: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com [mailto:fairfieldl...@yahoogroups.com] On Behalf Of seventhray1 Sent: Sunday, May 30, 2010 8:10 AM To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: Acedia Fairfield I have been following a thread at Buddha at the Gas Pump, but as nothing

Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Acedia Fairfield

2010-05-30 Thread Sal Sunshine
On May 30, 2010, at 5:13 PM, Rick Archer wrote: FW; I knew Daniel well and have a little different take than some others. this is what my perception was knowing what was going on. Had I known the last 2 months he told so many people his pain was too great and he was thinking of killing

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