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2004-01-06 Thread Tanya Mayer Photography
Amita said: "> I think most brides are just ignorant, and they're getting hit with so > much marketing and they have so many details to deal with that their > heads are spinning. They're mostly concerned about how they'll look and > with making sure everything and everyone matches. So something >

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2004-01-06 Thread Amita Guha
> Yeah, but the point is that in years to come, they will > discover that it was their choice of photographer that > enabled them to SHOW people what they looked like *when* they > looked great, everything matched etc... I agree completely! I was simply trying to come up with an answer to Frank

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2004-01-06 Thread tom
> -Original Message- > From: Amita Guha [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] > > > > I wonder how many engaged couples (or their families) try to > > bargain down > > the limosine company? Or the reception hall? (HA! try > that one!) > > I think most brides are just ignorant, and they're getting >

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2004-01-06 Thread William Robb
- Original Message - From: "Tanya Mayer Photography" Subject: Re: Cheap bastards? -was: Down off my "high-horse"... with a thump. > Yeah, but the point is that in years to come, they will discover that it was > their choice of photographer that enabled the

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2004-01-06 Thread mapson
Yeah, but the point is that in years to come, they will discover that it was their choice of photographer that enabled them to SHOW people what they looked like *when* they looked great, everything matched etc... tan. That is it! Photographers are there to show what they spent their $200

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2004-01-06 Thread Bob W
Hi, > If the divorce statisitcs in Oz are anything like they are here, there is a > 50:50 chance that they won't want to be reminded of that particular day. > Get yer money up front. I've had marriages end before the album is > delivered. > Hell, I had a marriage end just before the bride walks i

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2004-01-06 Thread Ryan K. Brooks
Tanya Mayer Photography wrote: Bill said: "> On the heels of the AF revolution came the "PJ" style of wedding photography, which to me requires as much skill as squishing a wounded bug." Jeez Bill, hope tv doesn't read that... Yeah, as a "tv" customer, I'd have to say I hired him fo

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2004-01-06 Thread Tanya Mayer Photography
11:29 AM Subject: Re: Cheap bastards? -was: Down off my "high-horse"... with a thump. > > >Yeah, but the point is that in years to come, they will discover that it was > >their choice of photographer that enabled them to SHOW people what they > >looked like *when* they lo

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2004-01-06 Thread graywolf
Back long ago when I sold real estate I had all these customers I showed around and very few sales. Then one day I woke up, and I did some figuring. I found that for someone to buy a house (and I mean the very cheapest house) in the area I was in they had to have an income of $50,000/year and $1

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2004-01-07 Thread John Coyle
; Sent: Wednesday, January 07, 2004 11:13 AM Subject: Re: Cheap bastards? -was: Down off my "high-horse"... with a thump. > > Get yer money up front. I've had marriages end before the album is > delivered. > Hell, I had a marriage end just before the bride walks into

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2004-01-07 Thread Len Paris
ards? -was: Down off my > "high-horse"... with a thump. > > > tvv's comment on paying someone $200 to $300 an hour is very > ironic. About > 1/2 of those people will, in not too many years time, be > paying another > professional $200 to $300 an hour, f

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2004-01-07 Thread b_rubenstein
In the local VFW hall? BR From: "tom" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> I'll do that. On a Tuesday. In February . tv

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2004-01-07 Thread Mark Roberts
"Len Paris" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: >...divorces are expensive because they are worth it. ;-) Absolutely brilliant! (But it still ain't gonna make the PDML famous quotations list!) -- Mark Roberts Photography and writing www.robertstech.com

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2004-01-07 Thread tom
dnesday, January 07, 2004 6:49 AM > To: [EMAIL PROTECTED] > Subject: RE: Cheap bastards? -was: Down off my > "high-horse"... with a > thump. > > > In the local VFW hall? > > BR > > From: "tom" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> > > I'll do that. On a Tuesday. > > In February . > > tv > > >

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2004-01-07 Thread Shel Belinkoff
What are "Hot Pockets?" tom wrote: > Anyway, I shoot the wedding, reception is at the VFW hall. Catered by > the VFW - frozen vegetables and those really nasty frozen chicken kiev > patties. Basically Hot Pockets, but not as good. Very inexpensive > wedding. >

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2004-01-07 Thread tom
IL PROTECTED] > Subject: Re: Cheap bastards? -was: Down off my > "high-horse"... with a > thump. > > > What are "Hot Pockets?" > > tom wrote: > > > Anyway, I shoot the wedding, reception is at the VFW > hall. Catered by > >

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2004-01-07 Thread Shel Belinkoff
Yuck! Probably loaded with chemicals and treated waste products. tom wrote: > Oh jeez, they have their own site - > > http://www.hotpockets.com/ > > Hot pocket dissection - > > http://www.cockeyed.com/science/hotpocket/hotpok1.html

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2004-01-07 Thread Leonard Paris
I think a lot depends upon the environment in which the photographer meets to discuss the booking. If the prospective clients come to the photographer's studio, they are influenced by what they see there. Pictures on the walls, diplomas, degrees, memberships in professional societies, the fur

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2004-01-07 Thread Leonard Paris
I told Rodney Dangerfield the story of my life many years ago and he made a fortune with it. Len --- * There's no place like 127.0.0.1 "Len Paris" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: >...divorces are expensive because they are worth it. ;-) Absolutely brilliant! (But it still ain't gonna make the PDML f

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2004-01-07 Thread Leonard Paris
Similar to "Lean Pockets", as advertised, ad nauseum, on the teli. Len --- * There's no place like 127.0.0.1 From: Shel Belinkoff <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> Reply-To: [EMAIL PROTECTED] To: [EMAIL PROTECTED] Subject: Re: Cheap bastards? -was: Down off my "high-horse"... w

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2004-01-07 Thread Shel Belinkoff
Yeah, I went to the site Tom mentioned. Never saw a "... Pockets" ad on the telly. Leonard Paris wrote: > Similar to "Lean Pockets", as advertised, ad nauseum, on the teli. >

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2004-01-07 Thread Leonard Paris
I must admit you are more ascetic than I. Len --- * There's no place like 127.0.0.1 From: Shel Belinkoff <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> Reply-To: [EMAIL PROTECTED] To: [EMAIL PROTECTED] Subject: Re: Cheap bastards? -was: Down off my "high-horse"... with a thump. Date: Wed, 07 Ja

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2004-01-07 Thread J. C. O'Connell
onnell.com -Original Message- From: Bob W [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] Sent: Wednesday, January 07, 2004 3:08 PM To: [EMAIL PROTECTED] Subject: Re: Cheap bastards? -was: Down off my "high-horse"... with a thump. Hi, I've been to Mormon weddings and inside Mormon temples, and I'

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2004-01-07 Thread Jeff Jonsson
oint, my brother (athiest) married a Mormon and they had a short but sweet marriage in a Ward house. Jeff Jonsson -Original Message- From: Bob W [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] Sent: Wednesday, January 07, 2004 1:08 PM To: [EMAIL PROTECTED] Subject: Re: Cheap bastards? -was: Down off my "hig

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2004-01-07 Thread graywolf
PROTECTED]> To: <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> Sent: Wednesday, January 07, 2004 8:53 PM Subject: RE: Re[2]: Cheap bastards? -was: Down off my "high-horse"... with a thump. Hey, around these parts (Utah) there are no photogs allowed in the LDS (Mormon) Temples. So all the pics the couple gets are

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2004-01-07 Thread Bob W
Hi, > Wow, must not be in Utah. France and England. When I was 14 I went with a school friend to stay with our pen-friends in Reims. We were looking forward to 2 weeks of binge-drinking and chasing French girls. Turned out our pen-friends' family was Mormon. We were very disappointed. They dragge

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2004-01-07 Thread Jeff Jonsson
k my brother. "Temple weddings" are what all of the faithful aspire to. Jeff Jonsson -Original Message- From: Bob W [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] Sent: Wednesday, January 07, 2004 1:52 PM To: [EMAIL PROTECTED] Subject: Re: Cheap bastards? -was: Down off my "high-horse"... w

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2004-01-07 Thread Mark Roberts
Cotty <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: >On 6/1/04, [EMAIL PROTECTED] disgorged: > >>Get yer money up front. I've had marriages end before the album is >>delivered. >>Hell, I had a marriage end just before the bride walks into the church. >>And that was one incredibly funny (to me, but I am a twited pig)

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2004-01-07 Thread frank theriault
anya Mayer Photography" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> Reply-To: [EMAIL PROTECTED] To: <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> Subject: Re: Cheap bastards? -was: Down off my "high-horse"... with a thump. Date: Wed, 7 Jan 2004 13:36:02 +1000 graywolf, I very rarely shoot the reception. I generally sho

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2004-01-07 Thread frank theriault
ist thinks this is the best of all possible worlds. The pessimist fears it is true." -J. Robert Oppenheimer From: "tom" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> Reply-To: [EMAIL PROTECTED] To: <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> Subject: RE: Cheap bastards? -was: Down off my "high-horse"...

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2004-01-07 Thread Len Paris
Frank, You don't have to be anyone that you aren't to do portrait photography. I really love shooting protraits of people I know. I try to capture an image that defines who they are, at least in my estimation. It's a very satisfying thing when you capture the essence of a friend. I never sell o

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2004-01-07 Thread frank theriault
ossible worlds. The pessimist fears it is true." -J. Robert Oppenheimer From: "Len Paris" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> Reply-To: [EMAIL PROTECTED] To: <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> Subject: RE: Cheap bastards? -was: Down off my "high-horse"... with a thump. Date: Wed, 7 Ja

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2004-01-08 Thread Kostas Kavoussanakis
On Wed, 7 Jan 2004, Cotty wrote: > Check this out: back in 1984 we had an assistant film editor who was > engaged but the marriage was called off a few days before as the groom > had decided he was gay and ran off with the best man. Beat that: wedding called off when the bride's father catches th

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2004-01-06 Thread mapson
hasn't gained the knowledge of photography was pretty poor. But with good P&S cameras and mini labs, the ability for anyone to create a passable snapshot has made them feel that the value of the item (photo) isn't very high. After all, all I did was press a button. I really didn't have to know

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2004-01-07 Thread Bruce Dayton
Hello Jeff, Gee, since I shoot quite of few of them, I term them both. The wedding is at the temple and the reception is somewhere else. In fact, I am shooting one tomorrow at the Oakland Temple. In this case, the wedding is tomorrow, but the reception is next week. -- Best regards, Bruce

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2004-01-07 Thread Bruce Dayton
No, they are not. There is no legal polygamy and those who practice polygamy are not Mormons. -- Best regards, Bruce Wednesday, January 7, 2004, 12:14:59 PM, you wrote: JCOC> Aren't the mormons the ones that engage in legal polygamy? JCOC> jco JCOC> --

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2004-01-07 Thread Bruce Dayton
Hello Bob, You may be mixing up Temples and regular church buildings. Based on your description, you went to a regular church, not a temple. -- Best regards, Bruce Wednesday, January 7, 2004, 12:51:31 PM, you wrote: BW> Hi, >> Wow, must not be in Utah. BW> France and England. When I was 1

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2004-01-06 Thread William Robb
- Original Message - From: "Bruce Dayton" Subject: Re[2]: Cheap bastards? -was: Down off my "high-horse"... with a thump. > > One real issue/problem is that the general percieved value of a > photograph has steadily declined as the ability to make/crea

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2004-01-06 Thread mapson
Why is it the Catholics, who have been around for a couple of thousand years, will allow me to shoot from the alter, as long as I don't make a spectacle, but some wannabe cult that was born last week makes my life miserable? Go figure. I don't get it. William Robb William, it depends on the pries

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2004-01-06 Thread Tanya Mayer Photography
Bill said: "> On the heels of the AF revolution came the "PJ" style of wedding > photography, which to me requires as much skill as squishing a wounded bug." Jeez Bill, hope tv doesn't read that... I totally disagree with you on that point. I am hopeless at PJ photography and I don't really lik

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2004-01-06 Thread Robert Chiasson
use that's when you make the money - and you don't have to lug 50 lbs of Mamiya gear around to do it. -- Robert - Original Message - From: "Bruce Dayton" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> To: "frank theriault" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> Sent: Tuesday, January 06, 2

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2004-01-06 Thread mapson
promised. Ceremony ends and priest "thanks" me for my assistance (?!?) and then congratulates me on a "job well done" I think some priests have had very bad experiences in the past and they prefer to be safe than sorry. We photographed a wedding where apart from us there were 7 or 8 other people

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2004-01-06 Thread William Robb
- Original Message - From: "Amita Guha" Subject: RE: Re[2]: Cheap bastards? -was: Down off my "high-horse"... with a thump. > The Presbyterian church where we got married (200 year old congregation) > didn't allow photography during the service, b

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2004-01-06 Thread tom
Bitch and moan, bitch and moan, wah, wah, wah. Just to counteract the horror stories... - I like most of my clients. Every once in a while I get hired by a twit, but generally they're very nice people who treat me well. In fact, most of them treat me like I'm doing them a favor. - I shoot what I

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2004-01-07 Thread David C Miers
Unless I missed it in this thread somewhere, I've seen no one comment on the staging of the ceremony afterwards to compensate for either the lack of flash during or no shooting at all during the ceremony. I've had pretty good success and complete cooperation from the clergy in this matter thus far

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2004-01-07 Thread Mark Roberts
"Jostein" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: >Oh, give'em a couple of centuries. They'll thaw up. > >Buddhism looks better...:-) Speaking of which: Has anyone ever photographed a Buddhist wedding? And if so, what form of Buddhism? (Tibetan, Zen, etc.) -- Mark Roberts Photography and writing www.roberts

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2004-01-07 Thread Paul Ewins
I've agreed to do the photography at a friends wedding this year. It still has no legal standing here, but the celebrant will still take their money and do a ceremony. I'm not sure at this stage how many of the traditional shots will still work without the girl in the white dress. Fortunately Micha

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2004-01-07 Thread Jeff Jonsson
Connell [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] Sent: Wednesday, January 07, 2004 1:15 PM To: [EMAIL PROTECTED] Subject: RE: Cheap bastards? -was: Down off my "high-horse"... with a thump. Aren't the mormons the ones that engage in legal polygamy? jco --

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2004-01-07 Thread Jeff Jonsson
Meager wedding experience (Was: Cheap bastards? -was: Down off my "high-horse"... with a thump.) For those about to venture into wedding photography, be careful and buy a few books on it. My wedding photos and planning was much better after some good reading. I also felt compelled to warn

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2004-01-07 Thread William Johnson
anuary 07, 2004 8:06 AM Subject: My Meager wedding experience (Was: Cheap bastards? -was: Down off my "high-horse"... with a thump.) Most of the big photo houses around Salt Lake

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2004-01-07 Thread Bill Owens
I don't, and won't, be the "official" photographer at a wedding. Since the only weddings we attend are those of friends and relatives, my wedding "gift" is a set of candids. I always clear what I'm doing with the pro, get his/her okay, and do my best to stay out of their way. I usually know most

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2004-01-07 Thread Kostas Kavoussanakis
On Wed, 7 Jan 2004, Bill Owens wrote: > I don't, and won't, be the "official" photographer at a wedding. Since the > only weddings we attend are those of friends and relatives, my wedding > "gift" is a set of candids. I always clear what I'm doing with the pro, get > his/her okay, and do my best

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2004-01-07 Thread Bob W
Hi, [...] > I also felt compelled to warn the client up front that > photography processes are not 100% reliable and there > is always a small chance of something going wrong. That > way if something did go wrong they would be more willing > to accept it. Also, when things went right ( they always

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2004-01-07 Thread Leonard Paris
Steve Sint's book is a nice starting place. Len --- * There's no place like 127.0.0.1 For those about to venture into wedding photography, be careful and buy a few books on it. My wedding photos and planning was much better after some good reading. I also felt compelled to warn the client up fr

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2004-01-07 Thread graywolf
Started to make a long comment to this then realized this definately is a religous/political issue. Not discussing such is one of the conscenses of the folks on this list. So I, and I hope everyone else, will forbare. -- Jeff Jonsson wrote: The official LDS church based in Salt Lake City does

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2004-01-07 Thread Len Paris
s? -was: > Down off my "high-horse"... with a thump. > > > Started to make a long comment to this then realized this > definately is a > religous/political issue. Not discussing such is one of the > conscenses of the > folks on this list. So I, and I hope everyone else, will forbare.

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2004-01-07 Thread Rob Studdert
On 7 Jan 2004 at 16:26, graywolf wrote: > Started to make a long comment to this then realized this definately is a > religous/political issue. Not discussing such is one of the conscenses of the > folks on this list. So I, and I hope everyone else, will forbare. I hope that we can get off weddi

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2004-01-07 Thread graywolf
ch part of our fore should we bare? Len * There's no place like 127.0.0.1 -Original Message- From: graywolf [mailto:[EMAIL PROTECTED] Sent: Wednesday, January 07, 2004 3:27 PM To: [EMAIL PROTECTED] Subject: Re: Getting way OT, Was: RE: Cheap bastards? -was: Down off my "h