On Wed, May 3, 2023 at 2:08 PM Courtney <courtney.william...@gmail.com>
wrote:

> It's valid to ask for more specifics. You're right that "combative" just
> ends up being an alienating word.
>
> Here's an example that I think everyone can benefit from.
>
> When I see a comment that reflects a kind of tired, angry emotion about
> having to point out a mistake or breach of protocol yet again, I always
> flinch. This is because it is almost certainly the first time for the
> person who made the mistake. And, it seems unfair to burden them with the
> anger that comes from the mistakes of others who came before them. You can
> see that in some of the earlier comments in this thread.
>
> I see why people get worn out having to say things over and over,
> especially when they are documented in wikis, but there are other factors,
> most importantly that new people are joining the community every day.
>
> Compare a statement like this:
>
>  "I know you may be relatively new here, so to help you be successful,
> here are some ideas for how to structure for your project"
>
> Thanks Courtney, this is helpful, and actionable.  If there are other
things that you, or others can point out, it would further the journey to
better communication.

Mike

>
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