g_b Strasbourg, France and Strasbourg, Germany

[Tintin Mumbai India]

Hi

One of my NRI friends, who is from UK, is visiting Strasbourg, France and
Strasbourg, Germany (Both are actually same, but in between France and
Germany) for 3 days in the end of March.
He is keen to meet an Indian gay or any Indian friendly gay guy over a
coffee, during his trip.

I just thought of helping him out on the mission. Please reply if you are
in Strasbourg.

Thanks in advance,
Abhay

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Re: g_b Yesterday I had my first professional shoot.

[Tintin Mumbai India]

Male Models...

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On Fri, Feb 28, 2014 at 7:39 PM, asfan  wrote:

>
>
> Were the models male or female?[image: *:) happy]
>
>
>   On Thursday, 27 February 2014 11:53 AM, Tintin Mumbai India <
> tintin197...@gmail.com> wrote:
>
>
>  Hello Friends
>
> Yesterday, as a photographer, I had my first professional photoshoot.
>
> It was nothing obscene, erotic, or a shoot with gay angle.
>
> TO be on safe side, I have signed an MoU with the models, that I am doing
> this shoot for learning purpose, with no monetary benefits from the shoot,
> and that I will use the pictures taken on my blog, showing my work
> portfolio, and that I will share a smaller version of the pictures with
> them, and that I am paying an XYZ amount to the models as their wedges.
>
> *As I have said before, I have not clicked any obscene / illegal pictures,
> I would like to ask your opinion if I still need to worry on this matter?*
>
> Thanks w/ Regards
> Abhay
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g_b Bridegroom 2013

[Tintin Mumbai India]

What a movie...
I wish, someone could make this kind of gay theme movie in India...

Please show this movie on some GB event... I really want everyone to watch
this movie...


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g_b Yesterday I had my first professional shoot.

[Tintin Mumbai India]

Hello Friends

Yesterday, as a photographer, I had my first professional photoshoot.

It was nothing obscene, erotic, or a shoot with gay angle.

TO be on safe side, I have signed an MoU with the models, that I am doing
this shoot for learning purpose, with no monetary benefits from the shoot,
and that I will use the pictures taken on my blog, showing my work
portfolio, and that I will share a smaller version of the pictures with
them, and that I am paying an XYZ amount to the models as their wedges.

*As I have said before, I have not clicked any obscene / illegal pictures,
I would like to ask your opinion if I still need to worry on this matter?*

Thanks w/ Regards
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Re: g_b Is Honey?

[Tintin Mumbai India]

As much I know, honey does not contain sugar, or dissolved sugar.

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g_b Is Honey?

[Tintin Mumbai India]

1) Condom Friendly?
2) a lubricant?

I am planning to use Honey as lubrication while performing anal sex
So thought of taking opinion...

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Re: g_b Deleted Facebook photo of gay Sikh man kissing another man goes viral, sparks debate

[Tintin Mumbai India]

What would be our stand now?
Would we close our facebook accounts, because facebook is not supporting us
Or because facebook has blindly taken a step against a simple support
picture?
That is what my point was (when I talked about BJP's voice on SC's verdict)
that we should not get judgmental and get divided based on different
political views of the topic.
May be I have taken an unrelated context, but thought of explaining my
point from a different example.


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On Wed, Dec 18, 2013 at 1:12 PM, gay_bombay moderator <
modera...@gaybombay.in> wrote:

>
>
> Deleted Facebook photo of gay Sikh man kissing another man goes viral,
> sparks debate
> INDIA TODAY ONLINE  NEW DELHI, DECEMBER 18, 2013 | UPDATED 11:48 IST
>  Tweet 
>  Close on the heels of the Supreme Court giving the thumbs down to gay
> rights, protests erupted worldwide amid the Indian communities abroad. On
> Sunday, which was being called the Global Day of Rage, in more than 30
> cities across the world people gathered to protest the ruling that upheld
> Section 377 and criminalised homosexuality and to fight for India's LGBT
> community.
>
> Amid all the din that erupted worldwide, a photograph, that of Kanwar
> Anit singh Saini kissing another man, which he had posted on his Facebook
> Page, "Sikh Knowledge", went viral within hours of it being posted online.
>
>  This photograph of Kanwar Anit Singh Saini was removed by Facebook.
> Source Tumblr
>
>
> Within hours, it had amassed more than a 1,000 likes and had sparked off a
> debate on the social networking site. However, while most of the comments
> on his photograph were reportedly abusive and accused him of having
> betrayed his religion, others supported him.
>
> However, the photograph was removed by Facebook a few hours later saying
> that the photo had been removed as it "violates our terms and policies".
> Not just that, his account was also suspended for 12 hours.
>
> Refusing to taking it lying down, Saini shifted his focus to Twitter,
> Instagram and Tumblr where he posted the same photograph and questioned
> Facebook's screening policy.
>
> See his tweets here:
>
> Photo: Heres me stickin it to section 377…happily 
> #rage
>  http://t.co/WcC3b4GbEQ
> Sikh Knowledge (@sikhknowledge) December 15, 
> 2013
>
>  So #facebook  blocked
> me for the next 12 hours and removed this post of me kissing another man
> protesting #section377
>  pic.twitter.com/thdXQAE9CM 
> Sikh Knowledge (@sikhknowledge) December 16, 
> 2013
>
>  @facebook  u guys suck. Do you see how
> important my post was? Homophobic morons are being hateful and violent, why
> not delete their posts?
> Sikh Knowledge (@sikhknowledge) December 16, 
> 2013
>
>  @MadTatterFilms  i had a heated
> thread, but it was really interesting. So, for unknown violations, they
> removed it and banned me for 12 hours
> Sikh Knowledge (@sikhknowledge) December 16, 
> 2013
>
>  @SeanEPanjab  well, im not clear on why
> it violates their terms... I think more than one of my haters flagged it,
> and FB deleted it auto.
> Sikh Knowledge (@sikhknowledge) December 16, 
> 2013
>
>  @facebook  You guys are awful. What's this
> tap on the hand 12-hour suspension thing? I have 2 hours left like im on
> political parole.
> Sikh Knowledge (@sikhknowledge) December 17, 
> 2013
>
>  I cant even communicate with my fans 
> @facebook...You
> guys need to stop this automated post deletion and use some of ur $ to hire
> a screener
> Sikh Knowledge (@sikhknowledge) December 17, 
> 2013
>
>  Someone at Facebook is judging people for the way they look imo.
> http://t.co/aepHQnLvFkI'd like to know why my post was del'd. 
> @facebook
> ?
> Sikh Knowledge (@sikhknowledge) December 18, 
> 2013
>
>
>
>
>
> Here are some more photos of the Global Day of Rage in which people from
> more than 30 cities around the world participated.
>
> GLOBAL DAY OF RAGE TORONTO. 
> #377DayOfRage
>  #nogoingback 

g_b Play safe when u meet strangers at private place, specially if it is yours.

[Tintin Mumbai India]

Hi guys

Recently a close gay friend of mine met a person from PlanetRomeo. My
friend was visiting Chandigarh and hooked up with someone from PR.

My friend called this date at his hotel room and somehow this guy managdd
to lace the colddrink of my friend.

In the end my friend lost his mobile, some money and few important things.

My intention is not to bring the incidence in notice but to make others
aware that when you meet strangers at your place, please make sure:
1. Only entertain the profiles which are old enough ie the profiles with
1000 plus visits, though 8t is not a proof of genuine profile. Still a new
profile is risky. Always doubt why the profile is so new?
2. If u call someone at ur place, make sure that someone knows that u have
a strange visitor. This someone shud be ur wellwisher and someone who
really cares u and who can call u back incase u dont call him back after an
hour or so of the scheduled time.
3. Keep the number of this stranger saved anywhere else too besides on ur
phone. Your phone may be going to be stolen.
4. If u can trust ur wellwisher friend enough then share number of this
stranger with him too.
5. Dont accept any drink etc from stranger. U can use any excuse like u r
allergic to cold drinks, U have cold, u dont drink that flavor. Or just be
drama guy and play extra romantic and tell him that u want to drink from
his bottle only. Read his reactions on ur excuses and to ur romantic lines.
6. Dont leave ur valuables unattentive. If u have safe vault in ur hotel
room, keep ur valuables there.
7. Dont enter the bathroom alone if it does nt have intercom facilities or
if the bathroom can be locked from outside.
8. Show the stranger somehow that u r not alone in the hotel room and some
friend is there in other room or someone is waiting for u in the lobby.
9. Dont show off ur wealth or status or hifi job or so. These things
attract cheaters.

I would like other people who are serious on these matters and who like to
play advisor, to add their points of suggestions too.

Lets help to keep the society safe and secure.

Yours
Abhay

g_b Hidden Cameras

[Tintin Mumbai India]

Hello Guys

Though we all are sensible and aware of the surroundings, but still I
thought I should write a mail about my recent observations.

Now a days I am seeing lots of "Home made videos" on FB which show either
soft play, or even hardcore sex.

One thing I have noticed in those videos, that Camera is stand still
through out the video, which means, it has been mounted at some place.

Another thing, the angle of the scene suggests that the camera has been
placed at a location, which is really not a right place, if someone really
wants to make an amateur video.
What does this mean? Mostly it means, it is a hidden camera.

Another thing, in the videos, one of the participants will be always at the
angle that his face is not visible, while other guy's face will be clearly
visible.

What I have concluded so far, that such videos are made with some intention
and without knowledge / consent of all of the participants.
My conclusion may be partially or fully incorrect.

But if the conclusion is right, it is an alarming situation that someone
somewhere is being recorded without his permission and even if he is not
going to be blackmailed, he is very much prone to be exposed on the
internet, by such videos.

So far, I have not seen usage of sophisticated hidden cameras, and I have
seen people using camera phone etc.
So I think, we should all be alert when we go to meet someone at his place.

Before we start anything, we should look around all of the places where a
camera / mobile phone can be hidden. Even a laptop, which seems OFF, can be
potential recorder.
Try to change the place... if he says place X, then try to use place Y.
Try to do it in the night or in dark... as of now, thermal cameras are not
so common in India in general public.

Am I being over suspicious?

Abhay

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g_b Cant confess it anywhere else

[Tintin Mumbai India]

Hello Guys

I don't know what should I do, so I am confessing something here.
Yesterday, in night dreams (actually early morning dreams), I had all types
of sex with a minor. I dont know who was he (though it is said that in
dreams you see persons whom you know. Mind can't imagine unknown - unseen
faces in the dreams), but at least I don't remember who was the guy.
When I woke up, I had hard-on. I am feeling guilt now.
I know I have not committed any crime, but I am ashamed of it, thinking
that I have got attraction towards minors (even though it was in the
dreams).
I am afraid, that I may have stepped one inch towards being pedophile.

To be honest, I really don't want to think even about a minor.
I don't know how did it happen...

With Guilt, Abhay

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Re: Fw: g_b Mumbai Police - Prithviraj plays gay

[Tintin Mumbai India]

Finally I also saw the movie "Mumbai Police"...

Seems many of us could not notice, or forget to notice, but on the gay
angle, the movie also suggests that *You can loose your "Gay Tendencies",
"Inclination towards male 2 male sex", if you loose the memory...*

Besides not recognizing his gay friend, Prithvi treats his advances, as if
he does not have any likings towards Male 2 Male sex.
May be it is just my interpretation...

Though so far, I have found are Mallus are most OK guys for Male to Male
sex.

Abhay

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On Tue, Aug 6, 2013 at 6:04 PM, Nav Nav  wrote:

> **
>
>
> Yes, I saw the movie.
>
> We should wait till the climax seen, only then it is revealed that Prithvi
> is Gay. Unlike other movies, where gay characters doesn't have strong
> impact on the story line, this movie has a major twist bcoz the result of
> investigation which starts in the beginning of the movie will halt at a gay
> love story of Prithvi, who plays a lead roll in the movie.
>
> The story is well narrated and holds your interest till the end.
>
> Must try!!!
>
> Naveen
>   --
>  *From:* Vikram D 
> *To:* "gaybom...@yahoogroups.com" ; "
> movenp...@yahoogroups.com" ; "
> gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com" 
> *Sent:* Thursday, 1 August 2013 4:11 PM
> *Subject:* g_b Mumbai Police - Prithviraj plays gay
>
>
> Has anyone seen this Malayalam film Mumbai Police where the actor
> Prithviraj is one of the policemen of the title and also plays gay?
>
> Yes, you read that right, this is the same ridiculously hunky Prithvirajwho 
> was the lust object in the film Aiyyaa (written and directed, as it
> happens, by an openly gay director who clearly knew how to pick a proper
> object of lust).
>
> I haven't seen the film, but from the reviews and comments I've read it
> seems that, sadly, the idea of Prithviraj playing a gay character is pretty
> much the only good thing about the film from a gay point of view. But it
> would be good to get views from someone who has actually seen it. I
> certainly plan to, when the dvd is released later this month.
>
> The Mumbai Police of the title are not really policemen from Mumbai. They
> are three police guys from Kerala, but who worked with the force in Mumbai
> for a while and have picked up the nickname since. Prithviraj is one of
> them and has to investigate the murder of another one of the three, but is
> somewhat hampered by the fact he was in an accident and lost his memory.
>
> The links below will give more of an idea of the film, which apparently
> was a big hit in the Malayalam market. But if anyone has actually seen it,
> please mail in about what you thought about it, how Prithviraj handled
> being a gay character, how other gay characters, if any, were handled, and
> do you see the film as good or bad for lgbt rights?
>
> http://starscrutiny.wordpress.com/2013/05/12/mumbai-police-a-review/
>
> http://malayalamscinema.blogspot.com/2013/05/review-mumbai-police.html
>
>
> http://petalsfromtheheart.blogspot.in/2013/05/mumbai-police-movie-review-prithviraj.html\\
>
>
> http://articles.timesofindia.indiatimes.com/2013-05-19/news-and-interviews/39369368_1_character-mumbai-police-prithviraj
>
>
> http://www.rediff.com/movies/slide-show/slide-show-1-south-i-had-no-qualms-playing-a-gay-cop-prithviraj/20130528.htm
>
>
> http://www.rediff.com/movies/review/south-review-mumbai-police-is-impressive/20130506.htm
>
> Vikram
>
>
>
>
>
>
>   
>

g_b Re: Sexual Tension - Amazing Short Movie

[Tintin Mumbai India]

Errata: Actually it is "Sexual Tension: Volatile" of 2012

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On Fri, Aug 30, 2013 at 9:57 PM, Tintin Mumbai India  wrote:

> Hi Guys,
>
> Today I watched a short gay movie, "Sexual Tension" on FB.
> I dont know if it can be shared on the group or not, so I am not posting
> the link here.
>
> Amazing movie.
> Well made, well presented.
>
> I wish, I could make such small movies based on Gay themes.
> Just google for it (or ask me in personal replies).
> I am sure you will love it.
>
> Abhay
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g_b Sexual Tension - Amazing Short Movie

[Tintin Mumbai India]

Hi Guys,

Today I watched a short gay movie, "Sexual Tension" on FB.
I dont know if it can be shared on the group or not, so I am not posting
the link here.

Amazing movie.
Well made, well presented.

I wish, I could make such small movies based on Gay themes.
Just google for it (or ask me in personal replies).
I am sure you will love it.

Abhay


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g_b A Gay Survey was conducted, related to Planet Romeo. - Results are Amazing.

[Tintin Mumbai India]

Hi Guys,

I am not sure if the link attached here qualifies the group guidelines or
not, but assuming it does (moderators should decide on this), I am sharing
it here.

https://www.planetromeo.com/blog/data/2013/appsurvey/AppSurvey-EN.pdf

The link is about the results of a Survey conducted by www.PlanetRomeo.com,
a popular gay dating site, about users' views about BAN on its APP on Apple
& Android.
Seems Nokia did not ban it.

If not the survey, the results are really interesting, so I thought of
sharing those with you.

Abhay


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Re: g_b Re: [gb] Calendar Themes Invited

[Tintin Mumbai India]

Yes,
I am not doing it professionally, or for economic benefit purpose, so yes I
would circulate it if it comes out well.

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On Fri, Aug 9, 2013 at 9:39 AM, lenin Alagesein wrote:

> **
>
>
> ha, right said lets hope for a great collection.. and please
> distribute to us if possible... is it possible?
>
>   --
>  *From:* Aditya Bondyopadhyay 
> *To:* "gaybom...@yahoogroups.com" 
> *Cc:* gay_bombay ; B G <
> gaybom...@yahoogroups.com>
> *Sent:* Wednesday, August 7, 2013 4:56 PM
> *Subject:* g_b Re: [gb] Calendar Themes Invited
>
>
> To make the calendar popular, there is only one formula. Without crossing
> over into nudity, make sure there Re as little clothes as possible!!
>
> All the best, looking forward to the final product!!
>
> :))
>
> Sent from my iPhone
>
> On 06-Aug-2013, at 3:54 PM, Tintin Mumbai India 
> wrote:
>
>
> Hello Friends,
>
> I am planning to compose and compile a gay theme based photo calendar for
> year 2014.
> To be honest, I am not good in getting ideas. Hence I thought of asking
> for ideas from fellow gays.
>
> Just to add, it is not commercial at all, there is no monitory benefits
> from this.
>
> But yes, I am committed to give the full credits to the contributors.
>
> If you can help me on this, it would be great. I have time till end of
> Aug, before I start working on planning and execution. Please reply in
> person, so that we can save on the uniqueness of the theme.
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>

g_b Calendar Themes Invited

[Tintin Mumbai India]

Hello Friends,

I am planning to compose and compile a gay theme based photo calendar for
year 2014.
To be honest, I am not good in getting ideas. Hence I thought of asking for
ideas from fellow gays.

Just to add, it is not commercial at all, there is no monitory benefits
from this.

But yes, I am committed to give the full credits to the contributors.

If you can help me on this, it would be great. I have time till end of Aug,
before I start working on planning and execution. Please reply in person,
so that we can save on the uniqueness of the theme.

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Re: g_b A body to go crazy!

[Tintin Mumbai India]

Hi Peter,

Dont feel bad about it.
You are not the only one who thinks / assumes / has impression that India
is a country of Snake Charmers.

No matter how many Indian words have been registered in Oxford Dictionary,
No matter how many pages are there on Wikipedia about India,
No matter how many Indian people are working for different reputed
organisations & hospitals in  different "Developed countries";
No matter how many Indian professors are teaching at different universities
of different developed countries;
...
Unless one accesses these (Oxford dictionary / Wikipedia / Universities),
he/she would not come to know about India.
I have heard that most of population of USA (and other developed countries)
does not know even if India exists (and any other country from 3rd world).

So, dont feel bad about it.

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On Wed, Jun 19, 2013 at 12:14 PM, Peter P  wrote:

> **
>
>
> Hello boys:
>
> When you imagine a Hindu man, I imagine tunic, turban blowing a flute and
> hypnotizing
> snakes. What is less expected is find a huge body, handsome and hot  like
> this man.
> Personally few years ago I met an Indian guy who was so so handsome at
> all: His olive
> skin color, perfect teeth (and very white), with his hairy chest and
> perfectly proportioned.
> He looked like a Disney Prince!
> More about this actor, singer and model Hindu here>
>  
>
> 
> [image:
> http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-MwcXL4MOkT4/UPWek9jvj2I/Az0/f5lqbeZTUlM/s400/HRITHIK_ROSHAN_1.jpg][image:
> http://i967.photobucket.com/albums/ae156/sexyactors/Smile.jpg]
> [image:
> http://actor.bollysite.com/albums/hrithik-roshan/hrithik-roshan-028.jpg]
> A body to go crazy! 
>
>
>
> .
>
>  
>

g_b How to reduce pain element during Tatto process?

[Tintin Mumbai India]

Hello Guys,

When I read this chain about Anesthetic Lubricant, I thought of asking my
question also, on the flow...
Does such Lube work on other parts of skin too (for local anesthesia)?

I am planning to get a Tattoo on a sensitive area of body (no... not on
cock or so)...
And I have not got a tattoo before... So bit scared of pain...

And I am determined to get that Tattoo done, if it is done, on that part
only.

So any help on how to manage pain during the tattoo process?
Abhay

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Re: g_b Alternate lives scorch silver screens this season

[Tintin Mumbai India]

I heard of this movie from a mallu str8 friend of mine. but he did not
mention that there is a gay tint in the movie.
Anyways...
I would like to go for the movie with some mallu guy... (as I am huge fan
of Prithviraj Sukumaran). I heard there is no version of the movie with
English subtitles.

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> **
>
>
>
> Alternate lives scorch silver screens this season
>
> By Parvathy Nambidi | ENS - KOCHI
>
> 04th June 2013 11:46 AM
>
>-
>
> 
>
>
>-  [image: A still from the movie 'Mumbai Police']
> A still from the movie 'Mumbai Police'
>
> Over the years, Malayalam film viewers have grown up watching crimes,
> including murders and heinous rapes, onscreen. And, they have been
> accustomed to watching every possible human emotion, ranging from wild
> passion to vehement hatred to unruly violence, through these films. The
> contours of human psyche have always been a favourite topic for the
> directors. But curiously, our mainstream filmmakers have always shied away
> from helming films that speak about the life and relationships of
> homosexuals, while stories and articles about them frequently appear in
> newspapers and books.
>
> Except in Sancharam, a film by Ligy J Pullappally released in 2004 which
> portrays the story of two lesbian lovers, and some fleeting glimpses and
> indirect hints in some movies, the subject has rarely been a choice of our
> filmmakers. But, if indications are anything to go by, the trend in
> Malayalam films is definitely changing. Some of the recently released films
> like Mumbai Police and English chose to travel on different path. Though in
> totally different contexts, both these films have shown an audacity to give
> space to a subject which was hitherto considered a taboo.
>
> “Homosexuals have always been there in this society. But our film makers
> either don’t make films about such people, or picture them in a ridiculing
> way,” says director Shyamaprasad. The director who has shown glimpses of
> the lives of gay people in his two films, Ritu’ and English says, “I have
> not taken films that directly focus on the lives of homosexuals, but there
> are shades of such people here and there. It was not a deliberate attempt,
> but was added because of the requirement of the story. The existence of
> them is a social reality, but even if we don’t make film about them, we
> should at least stay away from jeering at them.” He says that it is a big
> social mistake to portray them as funny characters, indirectly mentioning a
> Malayalam movie that was about an effeminate man.
>
> Mumbai Police has been noticed for its audacity to introduce a gay hero
> for the first time in Malayalam cinema. Scenarist Sanjay, who scripted the
> film along with his brother Bobby says, they had zero per cent apprehension
> while thinking about such a climax. “After all ours is an industry that had
> welcomed films like Randu Penkuttikal and Deshadanakkili Karayaarilla,
> though in those movies the subject was discussed in a subtle way.”
>
> Discussing how the idea came their way, he says, “While penning the story
> of a policeman, we wanted to present him in a different way, unlike the
> usual cliched ruffian image. And that lead us to think about the reason
> behind the ferocity of men. According to the theory of Sigmund Freud, if a
> man shows extreme masculinity, he is concealing something about his
> character. We developed our character based on that theory and that was
> instrumental in shaping ‘Antony Moses’.”
>
> The scenarist says that Prithviraj who played ‘Antony Moses’ had no
> apprehension in playing such a character. “He was extremely excited after
> hearing the storyline. Both Prithviraj and Nihal Pillai, who enacted gay
> pairs in the film, had researched about such characters and enacted their
> roles brilliantly,” says Sanjay.
>
> While Shyamaprasad says that it will take  five to ten years for the
> Malayali society to accept such people and movies about them
> wholeheartedly, Sanjay says that a certain section of the society will
> never accept such themes.
>
> “We should make films based on our own convictions. There were people who
> were skeptical when we took Notebook based on the pregnancy issue of a
> teenage girl, and Ente Veedu Appoonteyum that was about a small boy who
> kills his younger brother.
>
> A section of people may never accept such themes, but film makers should
> have the courage to bring out realities.”
>
> Citing the example of 22 Female Kottayam, he says, “There are a bunch of
> directors who are ready to experiment, therefore, even if some attempts may
> be failure, more and more films with bolder themes will come out.”
>
> --
> *Email: modera...@gaybombay.in
>
> E Groups:
>
> http://groups.y

g_b Fwd: :D

[Tintin Mumbai India]

http://thoughtcatalog.com/2013/15-things-gay-men-need-to-stop-doing/

Someone shared it with me, so I am sharing it with you all... I found it
worth reading.

g_b Any Gym Instructor / Serious Gymer here?

[Tintin Mumbai India]

Hello Guys,

I dont get enough time to go to gym regularly, but still whatever time I
get, I try to utilize that in some exercise. Besides that, I also have a
small gym in my apartment, having dumb bells, bar bells etc. and as much I
know, these are enough to basic workout.

In the meantime, I always think if I get ask about my doubts, or basic
queries to some gym instructor or any serious gym going guy (who knows the
techniques).
Some of my doubts, I really find that I can not ask to straight gym guy /
gym instructor, unless I am friendly to him.
For Ex, "What should I do to get a firm round bum?". Atleast I cant ask
this question to any gym goer guy, even I know him.

So? Anyone there, to answer my queries?
Abhay

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Re: g_b hi there i am back and waiting for some one

[Tintin Mumbai India]

Dipika is transsexual???
Holy secret... it came to me now...

Now I know she is so tall...
;)
On 21 Apr 2013 18:02, "Kumar Mel"  wrote:

> **
>
>
> Hello Deepak,
>
> The name seems all wrong...u should be deepika..the love of my life...a
> person who acts feminine...dresses like one and bowls me over.
>
> I am looking for a lovely transsexual..., a lady with whom I can share the
> rest of my life.
>
> Are u the one ...If yes, send me ur contact no... I wil lcall call u and
> we will take it from there
>
> Take care of urself.
>
> Kumar
>
>*From:* deepak ram 
> *To:* "gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com" 
> *Sent:* Monday, April 15, 2013 10:25 PM
> *Subject:* g_b hi there i am back and waiting for some one
>  **
>
> hi i am living in bhandup and my status is 32 age 5.4 high 50 kg**wheatish
> looks slim decent romantic interested in a life partner who**is honest
> matured and can understand me very well. I am not a person**who is always
> after one thing but along with that the company of the**person is also
> very important doing outing, shopping, music, dance or**even a cup of tea
> should also be able to make the day. Both of us**should be computable to
> each physically and emotionally. My partner's**looks body type complexion
> are not important he can be avg looking to**handsome from well build to
> avg body and fair to wheatish but he**should not me fat or bulky. Do mail
> me at my id**I hope there will be some one waiting for me…**
>  
>   
>

Re: g_b Re: Shrimping and Snow balling mean ?

[Tintin Mumbai India]

Egg-Ject-Lee...

Talk to your str8 friend...
For him, kissing between two guys is Disgusting
Talk to an old fashioned str8 guy, he may say licking female cunt is
disgusting...

So... Chill... Just Chill...



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On Mon, Apr 8, 2013 at 5:24 PM, Aditya Bondyopadhyay wrote:

> **
>
>
> Friggin Snoot...who the F are you to decide what is disgusting and what is
> not? If you dont like it, dont do it...but to call a sex act disgusting is
> disgusting in itself, especially when it comes from a gay person. Forget
> not that all gay men and all gay sex has also been called disguting by the
> moral prudes of straight society...have the decency to not fall to their
> depths...
>
>
>
>
> On 5 April 2013 00:33, Samir S  wrote:
>
>> **
>>
>>
>> Disgusting practice - Yuk. One can have healthy Gay sex without these
>> actions.
>>
>>   *From:* f dok 
>> *To:* "gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com" 
>> *Sent:* Tuesday, April 2, 2013 11:06 PM
>> *Subject:* g_b Re: Shrimping and Snow balling mean ?
>> **
>>
>>   Thanks for adding to my knowledge! Though I really dont know if I
>> needed this!! ")
>> shrimping
>> colloq.**
>> To suck the semen out of someones ass with a straw!
>> Source: [2000]
>>
>> http://www.odps.org/glossword/index.php?a=term&d=8&t=11011
>>
>>  Snowballing (sexual practice)
>> From Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia
>>  Jump to: 
>> navigation,
>> search
>>   
>>  
>> Snowballing
>> *Snowballing* or 
>> *snowdropping*[1]is
>>  the
>> human  sexual practice in which one
>> takes someone else's semen  into
>> their mouth and then passes it to the mouth of the other (another), usually
>> through kissing 
>> .[2]
>> [3]
>> [4]
>> [5]
>>
>> http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Snowballing_%28sexual_practice%29
>>
>> Jai Google Baba!
>> 
>>
>>
>
>
> --
> --
> ADITYA BONDYOPADHYAY
> Development Sector Consultant
> Advocate (Regd. No. F-218/192 of 1997, Bar Council of W.Bengal, India)
>
> Website: http://adityabondyopadhyay.webs.com/
> 
> Notice to all recipients:
> Communication not intended for you but reaching you inadvertently needs to
> be treated as confidential and destroyed or deleted immediately. Use of
> such communication in a manner prejudicial to the interest of Aditya
> Bondyopadhyay and/or his principals, and/or his clients, and/or his agents
> respectively, may attract legal proceedings which may be of a civil or
> criminal nature.
>
> Aditya Bondyopadhyay and/or his principals, and/or his clients, and/or his
> agents respectively cannot be held liable or accountable for any and every
> communication reaching out through this email account that is an unaltered
> forward of another communication received by this email account, or a
> referred source available on the internet and accessible to the public.
>
>  
>

g_b Can anybody help me on hiring a photo studio?

[Tintin Mumbai India]

Hello friends,

It is not any professional call, so I assume the mail should be passed by
the moderators.

I am in learning photography and for some practice sessions, I want to hire
a photo studio, for few hours.
Can anyone (in Mumbai) help me on this?
I just need the details of the persons to contact with for this. And
obviously I want in-expensive ones... as I am in learning phase.

Abhay

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Re: g_b Totally inane shit, but funny

[Tintin Mumbai India]

Do you think, this is funny?
I suppose you got the intimation about the refund, by email or on some
online account.

In my case, IT Dept, sent me a NOTICE by SPEED POST (Cost Rs25) as I had
paid Re1 less for that FY.

Though, I dint take any action on that, but as you are a lawyer, I would
like to seek your opinion, if I should SUE the IT Dept to MISUSE the money
of the PUBLIC like this.
I mean, spending Rs25/- to claim Re1, is really ridiculous...

Abhay

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On Wed, Feb 27, 2013 at 1:07 PM, Aditya Bondyopadhyay
wrote:

> **
>
>
> Hey he he, I've got a refund of three (WHOLE FUCKING) Rupees from Indian
> Railways...Aditya B
>
> Refund processed
>
> Hi Aditya,
>
> We have processed a refund of Rs. 3 for your METUPALAIYAM-UDAGAMANDALAM
> one-way booking (Trip ID 1301087730). The refund should appear in your
> account in *15 to 20 working days*depending upon your bank. Here's how we
> computed the refund:
> DescriptionAmount ()Refund (+) 23.00IRCTC charges (–)20.00Cleartrip
> charges (–) 0.00Other charges (–)0.00*Total refund amount* *3*
> What next?
>
> Wait for the refund to appear in your account. Depending upon your bank
> and payment mode this may take anywhere from 15 to 20 working days.
>
> For any clarifications, just reply to this email.
>
> Need an invoice?
>
> Did you know you can print invoices online for all your bookings? Invoices
> include details about cancellations & refunds as well.
>
> Sent from my iPad
>
>  
>

Re: g_b Kisses from Henry

[Tintin Mumbai India]

Huggies???
No we have crossed that age bracket... and yet to enter in that 'other' age
bracket...

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On Mon, Jan 21, 2013 at 8:21 PM, Henry Sanders wrote:

> **
>
>
> Everyone its Monday morning here in America.Sunny and bright.
> So I'm sending you all huggies and kisses.
>
> Kiss, kiss.
>
> Huggies
> Henry Sanders
>
> --- On *Sat, 1/19/13, dunno76 * wrote:
>
>
> From: dunno76 
> Subject: g_b a healthy relationship
> To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com
> Date: Saturday, January 19, 2013, 9:30 PM
>
>
>
> *LOVE QUOTE OF THE DAY*
>
> A healthy relationship is one in which two people encourage each other to
> reach their respective goals while sharing each other's hopes and dreams. -
> Daisaku Ikeda (read more great quotes from *Daisaku 
> Ikeda
> *)
>
> [image: A healthy relationship is one in which two people encourage each
> other to reach their respective goals while sharing each other's hopes and
> dreams. - Daisaku Ikeda (read more great quotes by Daisaku Ikeda, president
> of Sōka Gakkai International:
> http://lovequotes.symphonyoflove.net/category/d/daisaku-ikeda) Photo
> Credit: 
> http://projectrewire.blogspot.com]
> (Click image for the full picture)
>
> _
>
> OTHER QUOTES & POSTS IN SYMPHONY OF LOVE
>
> 1. The beautiful journey of today can only begin when we learn to let go
> of yesterday. - Steve Maraboli (read more great quotes by *Steve 
> Maraboli
> *)
>
> [image: The beautiful journey of today can only begin when we learn to let
> go of yesterday. Steve Maraboli (read more great quotes by Steve Maraboli:
> http://lovequotes.symphonyoflove.net/category/s/steve-maraboli) Photo
> Credit: 
> http://alchemistharlot.tumblr.com]
> (Click image for the full picture)
>
> 2. Opportunities are usually disguised as hard work, so most people don't
> recognize them. - Ann Landers (read more great quotes by *Ann 
> Landers
> *)
>
> [image: Opportunities are usually disguised as hard work, so most people
> don't recognize them. - Ann Landers (read more great quotes by Ann Landers:
> http://lovequotes.symphonyoflove.net/category/a/ann-landers) Photo Credit:
> http://maninthemaze.blogspot.com]
> (Click image for the full picture)
>
> 3. Even if things don't unfold the way you expected, don't be
> disheartened or give up. One who continues to advance will win in the end.
>  - Daisaku Ikeda (read more great quotes by *Daisaku 
> Ikeda
> *)
>
> [image: Even if things don't unfold the way you expected, don't be
> disheartened or give up. One who continues to advance will win in the end.
> - Daisaku Ikeda (read more great quotes by Daisaku Ikeda:
> http://lovequotes.symphonyoflove.net/category/d/daisaku-ikeda) Photo
> Credit: 
> http://www.vladstudio.com]
> (Click image for the full picture)
>
> 4. No matter what happens, or how bad it seems today, life does go on,
> and it will be better tomorrow. - Maya Angelou (read more great quotes by
> *Maya Angelou
> *)
>
> [image: No matter what happens, or how bad it seems today, life does go
> on, and it will be better tomorrow. - Maya Angelou (read more great quotes
> by Maya Angelou:
> http://lovequotes.symphonyoflove.net/category/m/maya-angelou) Photo Credit:
> http://lovequotes.symphonyoflove.net/category/m/maya-angelou]
> (Click image for the full picture)
>
> 5. If you want to be happy, be. - Leo Tolstoy (read more great quotes by *Leo
> Tolstoy *)
>
> [image: If you want to be happy, be. - Leo Tolstoy (read more great quotes
> by Leo Tolstoy:
> http://lovequotes.symphonyoflove.net/category/l/leo-tolstoy) Photo Credit:
> http://abuseandtrauma-hope.blogspot.com]
> (Click image for the full picture)
>
> 6. You educate a man; you educate a man. You educate a woman; you educate
> a generation. - Brigham Young (read more great quotes by *Brigham 
> Y

Re: g_b Re: [gb] Have you ever asked your barber?

[Tintin Mumbai India]

No dude

I never said that everyone enjoy it.
Infact I planned to 'conduct' the poll in my way Rather than making the
opinion with limited thinking...

It is same like
Shh... No da, Dont ask what is masturbate... Baba Ramdev and my papa and
my... Said that it is harmful... No matter how educated we are... We dont
use common sense.

What is big deal if I asked ppl's opinion about my doubt?

Wake up dude...
Dont be a conservative 'da'...
Think hatke...
On Jan 8, 2013 12:06 AM, "uday krishnan"  wrote:

> **
>
>
> Ya Dude,
> Just like how you concluded that most would expect and enjoy !!! This
> is the problem with our fraternity, we wear a spectacles of our choice of
> color, and see everything in that color..
>
>
>   --
> *From:* Tintin Mumbai India 
> *To:* gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com
> *Sent:* Saturday, 5 January 2013 7:49 AM
> *Subject:* Re: g_b Re: [gb] Have you ever asked your barber?
>
>
> And Uday
> How did u confirm that most of people would not enjoy or expect it?
> You must be referring some ORG survey?
> Huh?
> On Jan 5, 2013 12:22 AM, "uday krishnan"  wrote:
>
> **
>
>  Hey there,
>
> The Cambridge English dictionary gives the meaning of the word perverse as
> " Disapprovingly strange and not what most people would expect or enjoy"
> ..... and so that is what I precisely meant, in the context
> under discussion
>
>
>   --
> *From:* Tintin Mumbai India 
> *To:* gay_bombay 
> *Sent:* Friday, 4 January 2013 12:34 PM
> *Subject:* Re: g_b Re: [gb] Have you ever asked your barber?
>
>
> Uday
>
> I am sorry to say "Grow up man".
> Do you go to a physician and think yourself pervert asking him that you
> have rashes in groin area?
>
> I am talking about checking the barber professionally.
> He shaves, he do hair cut, he razes hair from underarm. Where is the rule
> that he can't razes pubic hair?
>
> Have you not checked with your maid, who actually do Jhaadu Pauchha inside
> your flat only, if she / he can clean utensils for the day, because there
> is a cut in your finger?
>
> First of all, it is not act of perversion but it is just a TABOO to ask
> such questions.
> For me, it is as simple as asking some uncommon questions to strangers
> like "Is there any massage parlor nearby?" People may think it is act of
> Perversion, but I am just looking for body relax.
> You are being judgmental (learnt use of this from English Vinglish).
>
> Perversion would be, if I ask this question, and he agrees too, and then
> during the trimming I touch him here and there. And this was not my
> intention, as you can see my original mail.
>
>
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>
>
> On Wed, Jan 2, 2013 at 2:13 PM, uday krishnan  wrote:
>
> **
>
>  I think it is not fair to look at any profession in such a perverted
> sense, further if he feels offended and says an yes to  run the razor
> helter-skelter what would you tell your doctor, your handed your dick to a
> "barbarian"?
>
>
>   --
> *From:* Kris Bass 
> *To:* gaybom...@yahoogroups.com
> *Cc:* Gay Underscore 
> *Sent:* Wednesday, 2 January 2013 12:07 PM
> *Subject:* g_b Re: [gb] Have you ever asked your barber?
>
>
> Assuming we are talking about cosmetic/esthetic purposes and not about
> preoperative preparation: The whole point of going to a barber for scalp
> and facial hair styling is because you cannot see these parts, at least
> without using a mirror. Second, these are much denser and are aspects of
> personal grooming that is part of your dressing (appearance). So, unless
> you have extensive, dense pubic hair, your sight is impaired, and/or you
> wear your pubic hair in public, I would not see any reason to go to a
> barber.
> For erotic purposes, I would ask my partner to groom me while we both are
> naked.
> Kris
> On Jan 2, 2013 11:46 AM, "Tintin Mumbai India" 
> wrote:
>
> **
>
>  Hello Guys,
>
> Often this question comes to my mind, how my regular barber (or a new one)
> would react if I genuinely ask him if he can trim my pubic hair?
>
> I don't want to give him any hint, I dont want to lure him for any further
> action, it does not matter if he looks good or ugly.
> I just want professional service and at decent well deserved price.
>
> For Ex, I get Head Massage for 20-30mins with Navaratan Oil, at Rs50/-
> (Mumbai, Bangalore and many other cities), so that is decent price I think
> for someone's efforts for 30mins.
>
> Similarly, I would not like to go to HiFi salons for trimming services and
> pay big money there, just because of whatever reasons.
>
>
>
>
> So, my question to the group is:
> Has anyone ever tried asking his regular barber or a barber at totally new
> place if he would mind trimming pubic hair?
> If possible, I would like to know the reaction of the barber.
>
> Abhay
>
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>
>
>
>
>
>
>
>
>   
>

Re: g_b Hiding Bisexuality Increases Risk of Depression

[Tintin Mumbai India]

Deep
Chill
My line was said just in lighter way As 'Sympathy'.
Dint mean to ignite another discussion.

Also, aint we part of LGBT group?
On Jan 6, 2013 12:25 AM, "Deep"  wrote:

> **
>
>
> I am one of "these gays" who have been propositioned by bisexuals who
> pretend to be completely gay. Those lying bisexuals are heaped with scorn
> and abuse by the likes of me - without the slightest of remorse.
>
> My point is: Be upfront about your sexual orientation (bi/gay) when you
> are seeking to meet folks in the LGBT community. If my PlanetRomeo profile
> clearly mentions that I DO NOT want any interaction with bisexuals/married
> men/prostitutes/etc., I think bisexuals/../.. should respect that and keep
> off. Don't you think so TinTin?
>
> Deep
>
>
> --- In gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com, Tintin Mumbai India wrote:
> >
> > And on top of that
> > These gays call us double standarded bisexuals, cowards, and what not :(
> > On Jan 4, 2013 1:33 PM, "gay_bombay moderator"
> > wrote:
> >
> > > **
> > >
> > >
> > >
> > > Hiding Bisexuality Increases Risk of Depression
> > > By Rick Nauert PhD *Senior
> > > News Editor*
> > > Reviewed by John M. Grohol, Psy.D. on January 3, 2013
> > >
> > > [image: Hiding Bisexuality Increases Risk of Depression]Experts say
> > > bisexual men are less likely than gay men to come out of the closet and
> > > declare their sexuality.
> > >
> > > Researchers say this concealment is associated with more symptoms of
> > > depression and anxiety
> > > .
> > >
> > > Investigators from Columbia University's Mailman School of Public
> Health,
> > > examined bisexual men "on the down low," a subgroup of bisexual men who
> > > live predominantly heterosexual lives and do not disclose their
> same-sex
> > > behavior, a group that has not been studied to date.
> > >
> > > Specifically, the researchers studied 203 nongay-identified men in New
> > > York City, who self-reported being behaviorally bisexual and had not
> > > disclosed their same-sex behavior to their female partners.
> > >
> > > Study findings, published in the *Journal of Consulting and Clinical
> > > Psychology*, reveal that men who live with a wife or girlfriend, who
> > > think of themselves as heterosexual, and who have a lower frequency of
> sex
> > > with men, were more likely to conceal their same-sex behavior.
> > >
> > > Greater frequency of sex with women also correlated with greater
> > > concealment. Men with a household income of $30,000 or more per year
> > > reported greater concealment about their same-sex behavior than men
> with
> > > lower incomes.
> > >
> > > "Our research provides information on the factors that might
> contribute to
> > > greater concealment among this group of behaviorally bisexual men,"
> said
> > > Eric Schrimshaw, Ph.D., lead author.
> > >
> > > "Such information is critical to understanding which of these bisexual
> men
> > > may be at greatest risk for mental health problems."
> > >
> > > Nearly 38 percent of the men reported that they have not shared with
> > > anyone that they have sex with men. Only 41 percent reported that they
> had
> > > confided in a best friend or parent.
> > >
> > > Schrimshaw and colleagues found that greater concealment correlated
> with
> > > more symptoms of depression and anxiety and lower positive emotions.
> > > However, disclosure to a few close friends or family did not seem to
> help;
> > > disclosure to confidants was not associated with good mental health.
> > >
> > > "The fact that concealment, but not disclosure, was associated with the
> > > mental health of these bisexual men is critically important for the way
> > > therapeutic interventions are conducted in this population," said
> Karolynn
> > > Siegel, Ph.D., professor of sociomedical sciences and co-author.
> > >
> > > "Although disclosure may result in acceptance from family and friends,
> in
> > > other cases — particularly with female partners — disclosure may also
> > > result in rejecting reactions, which are adversely associated with
> mental
> > > health."
> > >
> > > Researchers believe the study offers reasons for why concealment was
> > > negatively associated with mental health.
&g

Re: g_b Re: [gb] Have you ever asked your barber?

[Tintin Mumbai India]

And Uday
How did u confirm that most of people would not enjoy or expect it?
You must be referring some ORG survey?
Huh?
On Jan 5, 2013 12:22 AM, "uday krishnan"  wrote:

> **
>
>
> Hey there,
>
> The Cambridge English dictionary gives the meaning of the word perverse as
> " Disapprovingly strange and not what most people would expect or enjoy"
> . and so that is what I precisely meant, in the context
> under discussion
>
>
>   --
> *From:* Tintin Mumbai India 
> *To:* gay_bombay 
> *Sent:* Friday, 4 January 2013 12:34 PM
> *Subject:* Re: g_b Re: [gb] Have you ever asked your barber?
>
>
> Uday
>
> I am sorry to say "Grow up man".
> Do you go to a physician and think yourself pervert asking him that you
> have rashes in groin area?
>
> I am talking about checking the barber professionally.
> He shaves, he do hair cut, he razes hair from underarm. Where is the rule
> that he can't razes pubic hair?
>
> Have you not checked with your maid, who actually do Jhaadu Pauchha inside
> your flat only, if she / he can clean utensils for the day, because there
> is a cut in your finger?
>
> First of all, it is not act of perversion but it is just a TABOO to ask
> such questions.
> For me, it is as simple as asking some uncommon questions to strangers
> like "Is there any massage parlor nearby?" People may think it is act of
> Perversion, but I am just looking for body relax.
> You are being judgmental (learnt use of this from English Vinglish).
>
> Perversion would be, if I ask this question, and he agrees too, and then
> during the trimming I touch him here and there. And this was not my
> intention, as you can see my original mail.
>
>
> --- Reuse Paper by Both Sided Printing 
>
>
> On Wed, Jan 2, 2013 at 2:13 PM, uday krishnan  wrote:
>
> **
>
>  I think it is not fair to look at any profession in such a perverted
> sense, further if he feels offended and says an yes to  run the razor
> helter-skelter what would you tell your doctor, your handed your dick to a
> "barbarian"?
>
>
>   --
> *From:* Kris Bass 
> *To:* gaybom...@yahoogroups.com
> *Cc:* Gay Underscore 
> *Sent:* Wednesday, 2 January 2013 12:07 PM
> *Subject:* g_b Re: [gb] Have you ever asked your barber?
>
>
> Assuming we are talking about cosmetic/esthetic purposes and not about
> preoperative preparation: The whole point of going to a barber for scalp
> and facial hair styling is because you cannot see these parts, at least
> without using a mirror. Second, these are much denser and are aspects of
> personal grooming that is part of your dressing (appearance). So, unless
> you have extensive, dense pubic hair, your sight is impaired, and/or you
> wear your pubic hair in public, I would not see any reason to go to a
> barber.
> For erotic purposes, I would ask my partner to groom me while we both are
> naked.
> Kris
> On Jan 2, 2013 11:46 AM, "Tintin Mumbai India" 
> wrote:
>
> **
>
>  Hello Guys,
>
> Often this question comes to my mind, how my regular barber (or a new one)
> would react if I genuinely ask him if he can trim my pubic hair?
>
> I don't want to give him any hint, I dont want to lure him for any further
> action, it does not matter if he looks good or ugly.
> I just want professional service and at decent well deserved price.
>
> For Ex, I get Head Massage for 20-30mins with Navaratan Oil, at Rs50/-
> (Mumbai, Bangalore and many other cities), so that is decent price I think
> for someone's efforts for 30mins.
>
> Similarly, I would not like to go to HiFi salons for trimming services and
> pay big money there, just because of whatever reasons.
>
>
>
>
> So, my question to the group is:
> Has anyone ever tried asking his regular barber or a barber at totally new
> place if he would mind trimming pubic hair?
> If possible, I would like to know the reaction of the barber.
>
> Abhay
>
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Re: g_b Hiding Bisexuality Increases Risk of Depression

[Tintin Mumbai India]

And on top of that
These gays call us double standarded bisexuals, cowards, and what not :(
On Jan 4, 2013 1:33 PM, "gay_bombay moderator" 
wrote:

> **
>
>
>
> Hiding Bisexuality Increases Risk of 
> Depression
> By Rick Nauert PhD  *Senior
> News Editor*
>  Reviewed by John M. Grohol, Psy.D. on January 3, 2013
>
> [image: Hiding Bisexuality Increases Risk of Depression]Experts say
> bisexual men are less likely than gay men to come out of the closet and
> declare their sexuality.
>
> Researchers say this concealment is associated with more symptoms of
> depression  and 
> anxiety
> .
>
> Investigators from Columbia University’s Mailman School of Public Health,
> examined bisexual men “on the down low,” a subgroup of bisexual men who
> live predominantly heterosexual lives and do not disclose their same-sex
> behavior, a group that has not been studied to date.
>
> Specifically, the researchers studied 203 nongay-identified men in New
> York City, who self-reported being behaviorally bisexual and had not
> disclosed their same-sex behavior to their female partners.
>
> Study findings, published in the *Journal of Consulting and Clinical
> Psychology*, reveal that men who live with a wife or girlfriend, who
> think of themselves as heterosexual, and who have a lower frequency of sex
> with men, were more likely to conceal their same-sex behavior.
>
> Greater frequency of sex with women also correlated with greater
> concealment. Men with a household income of $30,000 or more per year
> reported greater concealment about their same-sex behavior than men with
> lower incomes.
>
> “Our research provides information on the factors that might contribute to
> greater concealment among this group of behaviorally bisexual men,” said
> Eric Schrimshaw, Ph.D., lead author.
>
> “Such information is critical to understanding which of these bisexual men
> may be at greatest risk for mental health problems.”
>
> Nearly 38 percent of the men reported that they have not shared with
> anyone that they have sex with men. Only 41 percent reported that they had
> confided in a best friend or parent.
>
> Schrimshaw and colleagues found that greater concealment correlated with
> more symptoms of depression and anxiety and lower positive emotions.
> However, disclosure to a few close friends or family did not seem to help;
> disclosure to confidants was not associated with good mental health.
>
> “The fact that concealment, but not disclosure, was associated with the
> mental health of these bisexual men is critically important for the way
> therapeutic interventions are conducted in this population,” said Karolynn
> Siegel, Ph.D., professor of sociomedical sciences and co-author.
>
> “Although disclosure may result in acceptance from family and friends, in
> other cases — particularly with female partners — disclosure may also
> result in rejecting reactions, which are adversely associated with mental
> health.”
>
> Researchers believe the study offers reasons for why concealment was
> negatively associated with mental health.
>
> Bisexual men who were more concerned than others about concealing their
> same-sex behavior also tended to report lower levels of social support and
> more internalized homophobia – that is, negative attitudes toward their
> same-sex behavior.
> Researchers believe having adequate emotional support can overcome the
> perceived need to conceal same-sex behavior.
>
> Professionals who do therapeutic work with bisexual men may wish to focus
> instead on helping such men reduce their perceived need to conceal their
> same-sex behavior and accept their sexual orientation.
>
>
> --
> *Email: modera...@gaybombay.in
>
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>
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>
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>
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>
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>
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>
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>
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>
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>
> Orkut:
>
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>
> Blogs:
>
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>
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>  
>

Re: g_b Re: [gb] Have you ever asked your barber?

[Tintin Mumbai India]

Uday

I am sorry to say "Grow up man".
Do you go to a physician and think yourself pervert asking him that you
have rashes in groin area?

I am talking about checking the barber professionally.
He shaves, he do hair cut, he razes hair from underarm. Where is the rule
that he can't razes pubic hair?

Have you not checked with your maid, who actually do Jhaadu Pauchha inside
your flat only, if she / he can clean utensils for the day, because there
is a cut in your finger?

First of all, it is not act of perversion but it is just a TABOO to ask
such questions.
For me, it is as simple as asking some uncommon questions to strangers like
"Is there any massage parlor nearby?" People may think it is act of
Perversion, but I am just looking for body relax.
You are being judgmental (learnt use of this from English Vinglish).

Perversion would be, if I ask this question, and he agrees too, and then
during the trimming I touch him here and there. And this was not my
intention, as you can see my original mail.


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On Wed, Jan 2, 2013 at 2:13 PM, uday krishnan  wrote:

> **
>
>
> I think it is not fair to look at any profession in such a perverted
> sense, further if he feels offended and says an yes to  run the razor
> helter-skelter what would you tell your doctor, your handed your dick to a
> "barbarian"?
>
>
>   --
> *From:* Kris Bass 
> *To:* gaybom...@yahoogroups.com
> *Cc:* Gay Underscore 
> *Sent:* Wednesday, 2 January 2013 12:07 PM
> *Subject:* g_b Re: [gb] Have you ever asked your barber?
>
>
> Assuming we are talking about cosmetic/esthetic purposes and not about
> preoperative preparation: The whole point of going to a barber for scalp
> and facial hair styling is because you cannot see these parts, at least
> without using a mirror. Second, these are much denser and are aspects of
> personal grooming that is part of your dressing (appearance). So, unless
> you have extensive, dense pubic hair, your sight is impaired, and/or you
> wear your pubic hair in public, I would not see any reason to go to a
> barber.
> For erotic purposes, I would ask my partner to groom me while we both are
> naked.
> Kris
> On Jan 2, 2013 11:46 AM, "Tintin Mumbai India" 
> wrote:
>
> **
>
>  Hello Guys,
>
> Often this question comes to my mind, how my regular barber (or a new one)
> would react if I genuinely ask him if he can trim my pubic hair?
>
> I don't want to give him any hint, I dont want to lure him for any further
> action, it does not matter if he looks good or ugly.
> I just want professional service and at decent well deserved price.
>
> For Ex, I get Head Massage for 20-30mins with Navaratan Oil, at Rs50/-
> (Mumbai, Bangalore and many other cities), so that is decent price I think
> for someone's efforts for 30mins.
>
> Similarly, I would not like to go to HiFi salons for trimming services and
> pay big money there, just because of whatever reasons.
>
>
>
>
> So, my question to the group is:
> Has anyone ever tried asking his regular barber or a barber at totally new
> place if he would mind trimming pubic hair?
> If possible, I would like to know the reaction of the barber.
>
> Abhay
>
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g_b Have you ever asked your barber?

[Tintin Mumbai India]

Hello Guys,

Often this question comes to my mind, how my regular barber (or a new one)
would react if I genuinely ask him if he can trim my pubic hair?

I don't want to give him any hint, I dont want to lure him for any further
action, it does not matter if he looks good or ugly.
I just want professional service and at decent well deserved price.

For Ex, I get Head Massage for 20-30mins with Navaratan Oil, at Rs50/-
(Mumbai, Bangalore and many other cities), so that is decent price I think
for someone's efforts for 30mins.

Similarly, I would not like to go to HiFi salons for trimming services and
pay big money there, just because of whatever reasons.




So, my question to the group is:
Has anyone ever tried asking his regular barber or a barber at totally new
place if he would mind trimming pubic hair?
If possible, I would like to know the reaction of the barber.

Abhay

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g_b Re: [gb] Happy New Year

[Tintin Mumbai India]

A little more amendment...
"Of course. Where do you think attorneys/politicians/Rapists come from?"

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On Tue, Jan 1, 2013 at 10:50 AM, Samson D'Souza  wrote:

> **
>
>
> can we amend the the punch line with "Of course. Where do you think
> attorneys/politicians come from?"
>
>
>   --
> *From:* asfan 
> *To:* gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com; gaybom...@yahoogroups.com
> *Sent:* Tuesday, January 1, 2013 10:00 AM
> *Subject:* [gb] Happy New Year
>
>
>
>
>
>
> A woman went to her doctor for advice.
>
> She told him that her husband had developed a penchant for anal sex, and
> she was not sure that it was such a good idea.
>
> The doctor asked, "Do you enjoy it?" She said that she did.
>
> He asked, "Does it hurt you?" She said that it didn't.
>
> The doctor then told her, "Well, then, there's no reason that you
> shouldn't
> practice anal sex,  if that's what you like, so long as you take care not
> to get pregnant."
>
> The woman was mystified. She asked "You can get pregnant from anal sex?"
>
> The doctor replied, "Of course. Where do you think attorneys come from?"
>
> *Wishing all LGBTs and the whole wide world*
> *a very happy New Year.*
> *Asfan*
>
>
>   
>

Re: g_b Visiting Mumbai

[Tintin Mumbai India]

Times Matrimony?
I thought you were reading from PR-Sexmony.

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On Fri, Dec 28, 2012 at 10:18 AM, Aditya  wrote:

> **
>
>
> "I am looking out for a loving , smooth BOTTOM , Must be young , well
> educated , well settled, Looking fora very loving friendship. I am very
> passioinate, emotional and sensual too. Money seekers please stay away"
>
> Reads like an ad on Times-Matrimony
> :/
> Aditya B
>
>  
>

g_b Sarve Bhavantu Sukhin

[Tintin Mumbai India]

Hello Guys,

I just came across with this T-shirt on one of the Online Clothing Store,
Tsort.com. Link is given below, specifically to the T-Shirt I am talking
about.

http://www.teesort.com/t-shirt-design-sarve-bhavantu-sukhinah

The link says "Sarve Bhavantu Sukhin" and in addition it shows Symbols of
Hetero Pair (+ & -), Male Homo Pair (+ & +) and Lesbian Homo Pair (- & -).

I found it interesting, decent, discreet yet suggestive.

I would like to know if one would wear it on regular days? Not just in Gay
parties, not just on Parade Day?
Any Regular day...

What do you say?

Abhay


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Fwd: g_b Am I Okey?

[Tintin Mumbai India]

Hi Guys,
I hope you might not have forgotten the attached mail from me.
First of all, that a lot to everyone who bothered to reply on my anxiety on
the matter.

I would like to narrate about an incidence, recently happened with me, and
it was in same context, hence I am posting that here.
on 21/11, I was traveling from one of the Jet Connect flights, and as soon
as I boarded the plane, I noticed one very cute steward of the plane. So
obviously it was my duty to look at him regularly to appraise the beauty.
But more to that, as soon as sat at my seat (second last row and aisle
seat), I noticed him (from a good distance itself) that his manhood was
obscenely huge and semi hard (if not fully erect) and the outline was
clearly visible through the pants. It was not straightly downside placed
but sidewise, which was making it more visible.
Now the problem with me arose. For me, it was impossible (I am not even
saying very difficult) to keep my eyes away from HIS of him. And being at
location (last rows, aisle seat), I did not had to do anything extra to
look at the sight. Everytime he used to go to help someone, or to serve
water or so to guests, I had to see him while returning.

I suppose, he had noticed me noticing him.
Though I did not make any move, or any obscene act, or any try to exchange
the number even, but I am sure if he had noticed me, then he might not have
made a good opinion about me.

Next few days were too bad for me to pass. I even tried to search him on FB
with his first name.

I was not able to digest that feeling, so I thought of sharing it with you
all.
I hope, I have not offended anyone.

By the way, should I had tried to be friendly to him to get connected?
Abhay


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From: Tintin Mumbai India 
Date: Sat, Oct 13, 2012 at 7:40 PM
Subject: g_b Am I Okey?
To: B G , gay_bombay 


**


Hi Guys,

I am in doubt, so I am writing here.

For sometime, I feel I am overdoing it. I look at every male face, I look
(duration little less than stare) at almost every male crotch and every
male bum.

In my office, on the road, in the mall, at tourist places...
Old men to teens (I dont know their age)...

I 'rape' every male by my eyes... I used the word 'Rape' as I am not sure
if they would like me enjoying them sexually, even just in mind, in my
thoughts. I dont follow them, I dont try to touch them...
But yes, I undress them in my mind. My eyes 'see-through' their shirts,
kurtas, t-shirts, pants, jeans, dhotis and lungies.

Now a days, it seems, my eyes have their own mind and they know what to
do. And that is my biggest problem. Sometimes, I feel people follow, where
my eyes are going...

To be honest, I myself think, I am not doing right. But may be it is common
problem?
Am I Okey? or am I stepping towards being called 'pervert'?

Abhay

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g_b Few more Queries on HIV infection

[Tintin Mumbai India]

Hi Guys,

In continuation of the queries raised by Ran Raj, here are my queries too.

1) Someone (a gold medalist doctor by education and profession) told me
that "the skin inside mouth (and below tongue) is so thin that some
medicines (like medicine for heart problems for quick relief) can  be
absorbed into blood directly from the mouth."
*Does that mean, HIV virus too can be absorbed from semen taken in mouth
into blood from the mouth, even if there is no cut in mouth or throat or
abdomen?*

2) He also told me that besides Blood, Semen and Vaginal fluid there is one
more substance where HIV virus can survive, i.e. Mucus (
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mucus), a slippery secretion inside rectum. I
think this is the liquid which most bottoms feel being secreted when they
are into orgasm. If that is the case, Anal sex, even if there is no cut /
bruises inside bottom's rectum, is clear possibility of HIV infection.
*Do anyone have opinion on this?*

Can we discuss these queries like 'matures'? Can we have opinion of Medical
professionals too on this?

Abhay
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From: Ran Raj 
Date: Mon, Jul 9, 2012 at 8:38 AM
Subject: Re: g_b Unsafe sex between two HIV+ people
To: "gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com" 
Cc: "gaymanprou...@yahoo.co.in" 


**


thanks for the info,its mind opener ,i m reading and its very informative.
thanks yaar ,please keep us updated with health related information,can you
please tell me one thing-
1. is it OK to suck as many as possible .
2. Is there any harm of throat infection by sucking some 4-6 friends or
more ?
3 Kya chusna aur fir Semen Pina health ke liyea koi problem karega?
please answer and help me and my friends.
thanks
regards

  *From:* Deep 
*To:* gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com
*Sent:* Friday, July 6, 2012 10:02 PM
*Subject:* g_b Unsafe sex between two HIV+ people


There is at least one profile on PlanetRomeo which is calling for unsafe
sex between HIV+ guys.

I presume that the 20 year old who has created this profile is HIV+ himself
(or else he is a "bug-chaser" - an HIV negative man who desires to be
positive).

Well here's why you shouldn't ever have unsafe sex even if both you and
your sex partner are HIV+

http://aids.about.com/cs/safesex/a/reinfection.htm


Will medicos on this list add their opinions on this?


Deep




 

Re: g_b Re: [gb] Insurance nominee addition - any turnaround

[Tintin Mumbai India]

I am not sure about the lawyer's opinion but, last year or so, I visited to
ICICI prudential to change the nominees of my Life Term Policy.
They said, unless the WILL states something specific, they (ICICI PRU)
prefer to pay the claim to WIFE (in case of married person).
So I think, Insurance Co differ to Lawyer's opinion on Point #1.
> 1- the law gives precedence to the relatives of the deceased, even if
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On Tue, Nov 20, 2012 at 10:21 AM, Bharat  wrote:

> **
>
>
>
> a) I doubt whether "1)the law gives precedence to the relatives of the
> deceased, even if there is a will to the contrary" is correct. Though I
> agree statement 2 is correct. Yes the will can be challenged by the
> relatives, but it can be challenged
> even in a case where property has been bequeathed to some relatvies, other
> relatives can still challenge it.
> b) Mere nomination in insurance policy is not enough. Nomination gives
> nominee only the right to receive the money and not ownership of it. He
> becomes a trustee of the sum, to be passed on to the legal heirs. So one
> needs to make a will and mention clearly what is supposed to go to whom.
> Better get it witnessed and registered.
> c) One has a right to dispose off money earned by him, in any way one
> likes; but not inherited property, as you have not earned it.
> I am not a legal expert buy having worked in financial sector and dealt
> with death claims, had to refer to relevant parts of the law time and
> again. Still must clarify, that this is only my understanding
>
>
> --- In gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com, Manoj  wrote:
> >
> > This was one if the themed gb meets we had a couple of years back
> >
> > The legal view by the lawyer we had at the gb was as follows:
> > 1- the law gives precedence to the relatives of the deceased, even if
> there is a will to the contrary
> > 2- the relatives can always claim and fight legal battles ( though the
> birla case subsequent to the meet tilts the balance in favor of a non blood
> relative)
> > 3- the only sure way of ensuring that your partner gets your property is
> to will it and publicly disown your family with the adverts in newspapers
> --- not something one really likes to do :(
> >
> > The above is from the gb discussion which i remember, though i would
> also love an easier and better solution
> >
> > Regards
> > Manoj
> >
>
>  
>

g_b Am I Okey?

[Tintin Mumbai India]

Hi Guys,

I am in doubt, so I am writing here.

For sometime, I feel I am overdoing it. I look at every male face, I look
(duration little less than stare) at almost every male crotch and every
male bum.

In my office, on the road, in the mall, at tourist places...
Old men to teens (I dont know their age)...

I 'rape' every male by my eyes... I used the word 'Rape' as I am not sure
if they would like me enjoying them sexually, even just in mind, in my
thoughts. I dont follow them, I dont try to touch them...
But yes, I undress them in my mind. My eyes 'see-through' their shirts,
kurtas, t-shirts, pants, jeans, dhotis and lungies.

Now a days, it seems, my eyes have their own mind and they know what to
do. And that is my biggest problem. Sometimes, I feel people follow, where
my eyes are going...

To be honest, I myself think, I am not doing right. But may be it is common
problem?
Am I Okey? or am I stepping towards being called 'pervert'?

Abhay

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g_b Any Picnic this Monsoon?

[Tintin Mumbai India]

Guys,

Is there any GB picnic this Monsoon?
Eagerly waiting for a positive reply...

Abhay

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g_b Any Professional Chef here - for UK based Indian Restaurant.

[Tintin Mumbai India]

-- Forwarded message --
From: Tintin Mumbai India 
Date: Tue, 22 May 2012 10:50:09 +0530
Subject: Any Professional Chef here - for UK based Indian Restaurant.
To: B G 

Hello GB Members,

A friend of mine, who is from India and now settled in UK, is in need of
some help.

He has just setup an indian restaurant in UK, for which he is looking for
Professional Indian Chefs (2 - 3).
He is not in position to hire chefs in UK, neither can afford
hiring services from professional Job services sites.

So, he asked me if I can write mail to my friend circle. Hence I am writing
the mail to the group.

I know that GB is forum for Gay Things, Issues, and help to Gay People,
hence I am writing this mail to you as my friend is also one
of us.
He wants help from us, and It will be really appreciated if we can do the
same.

Pl reply back, if you or anyone from your group is interested in
the opportunity.

Sexual Orientation does not matter in selection process.

Hoping for the best,
Abhay

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Re: g_b party permits

[Tintin Mumbai India]

Just a serious query

Which are the places, other than officials, where one can get
temporary permits? One Day Permit?
and How much it costs?

Abhay

On 5/25/12, Bloot Fontaine  wrote:
> Sir, a few years ago, (say approximately five years ago) I could get a
> permit even from a wine shop without the queue etc. by paying double. I
> would go to a wine shop, pay six hundred rupees for three years and go away.
> As the shop was near my office, I went again on any Wednesday. That was the
> day the Excise Officer visited that particular wine shop. He would see me
> and give the permit right away.
> If you have the money, you can have the convenience of getting a permit
> through the wine shop, if this method is still prevalent. And yes, it is
> ENCOURAGING corruption. Sorry about that.
> Regards.
>
>
>
> 
>  From: Vikram D 
> To: "gaybom...@yahoogroups.com" 
> Cc: "gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com" 
> Sent: Wednesday, 23 May 2012 3:56 PM
> Subject: g_b party permits
>
>
>
> This report from the Times of India about the fall out from the rave party
> in Juhu today confirms what GB has been saying for a long time now, which is
> that if you are going regularly to parties it is best to get a permit.
>
> For those who don't know what this is, its a rather absurd document that
> originated in the days when prohibtion was taken seriously, but now is
> retained essentially as a money making racket for the excise department. It
> says that the person holding the permit is allowed to consume alcohol for
> health reasons - basically, saying that you are a licensed alcoholic!
>
> The permit is also used as a convenient way for the police to book people
> from parties. If they can't find any other way to book you, they can usually
> book you for not having a permit, since almost no one does. And the fact
> that you may not drink doesn't really make a difference, since they will
> argue you need to have a permit just to be in a place where alcohol is being
> served.
>
> Its an incredibly stupid and oppressive law, but this combined utility to
> excise and police means its not going to disappear anytime soon. So if you
> are going to parties regularly it is really best that you get one. You can
> get single day permits, and sometimes at GB we can arrange with restaurants
> to take care of this, but not all venues agree to do this, and in general
> its best that you have one (I carry mine with me all the time).
>
> Some big liquor shops will help you with this (usually the day permits), and
> if you're a member of a private club they often do this for members. If not
> you can go to any excise office and do it. You can get single, annual or
> lifetime permits and I think the latter cost around Rs1200/-, but if you can
> afford it, you should just do it. If a party does get raided and the police
> try booking people for not having permits, it might just help you to walk
> away.
>
>
> http://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/city/mumbai/Ravegoers-face-6-months-jail-for-drinking-liquor/articleshow/13402212.cms
>
> MUMBAI: The police have decided to invoke provisions of the Bombay
> Prohibition Act in the case of the Juhu rave. All those patrons proven to
> have consumed alcohol at the Sunday night party at Oakwood Premier Hotel
> will now be booked for drinking without permits. Further turning on the
> heat, the Juhu police have recommended the cancellation of the police
> licences granted to the hotel.
>
> Ninety-one partygoers were detained by the police from Oakwood on Sunday and
> sent to hospitals for collection of urine and blood samples. "The tests will
> confirm how many of the people attending the party were drunk. Our officers
> are scrutinizing the reports and those found positive will be slapped with
> the Bombay Prohibition Act," said deputy commissioner of police Pratap
> Dighavkar on Tuesday.
>
> Under the act, any person who consumes alcohol without a valid permit is
> punishable under section 66 (1)(b) and can face imprisonment of up to six
> months and/or a fine of Rs 10,000.
>
> "When the detainees were escorted to hospitals, they were asked to produce
> identity proof and liquor permits. But most of them did not have any
> permits," said Dighavkar.
>
>
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g_b Good Boys are Gud Boys?

[Tintin Mumbai India]

Hi Guys,
Past two days, I was thinking writing this mail...
For past two days I am attending a training, and tomorrow too I have to
attend the same training, under same trainer.
And this guy (trainer) speaks english with an ascent.
He mixes sounds of SH and S...
And besides many of such mistakes, he also pronounce good as gud...

Everytime he says "This is a good approach, and that is not a good
approach..." I actually hear, "This is a gud approach and that is not a gud
approach.."

So, now I am so much influenced by him, just in two days, that...
I started thinking, if
ALL THE GOOD GUYS ARE GUD GUYS???
and
THE NOT GOOD GUYS ARE NOT ACTUALLY GUD GUYS???


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Re: g_b gays just want good looking guys (mostly)

[Tintin Mumbai India]

Sorry that I did not read the mail, but the title itself was enough to
respond...
Have you seen a str8 girl, stating that she want to settle down with an
ugly looking guy, or if the guy is just so so looking, she would be OK with?
Have you seen a str8 guy, if given a choice, going for an average looking
girl?


So man, if looks are talked about, its common tendency to go for the
beauty...
(that is a separate issue that what is beauty for an individual)

And yes, very few people are there, who settle down based on
intellectuality, understanding, compatibility etc.

On the first go, almost everyone go for looks, richness, fashion quotient,
etc etc.
Now a days, if you throw attitude, you are hot...

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On Tue, Nov 8, 2011 at 3:00 PM,  wrote:

> Hi AllI do want to discuss an issue with all of you being members of this
> group though i think it is not appropriate to discuss personal issues in
> groups but as i think we all have a common agenda it may be appropriate to
> discuss it and may be get some suggestions from some of you. And may be
> decisively this may be my last communication on any gay forum.
>
> I am 23 years old   guy i am an average looking guy with 5/6 height with
> 55kgs weight and very average features. I am  an IT profession Student ,
> also belong to very reputed spiritual based  organization where once cannot
> afford to come out openly as a gay. Otherwise i am gentle  very loving
> however a little different from the mainstream rat race and career occupy a
> reasonable place in my life but they are not the be all and end all of
> everything.I generally have interest in
>
> Spiritual related activities but it does not mean i have no interest in
> other things ..i am very cool in everythingMy problem or what i have faced
> is with all my sensitivity sincerity and loving nature i have not able to
> find a life partner forget a life time partner not even someone who is
> ready to stay back for at least some years. And the reason that i could
> find out was that it was my looks.
>
> I am not saying that people should not go by looks everybody is attracted
> to good looking people, but then how much ever people may say in the gay
> world i think there is no hope for people like me to find a life partner. I
> am not ugly i am just plane  average looking guy(what i consider myself to
> be) and i am not expecting a 20 years guy to look my way but even the
> people of my age seem so obsessed with looks.
>
> In normal heterosexual relationship we so often find very good looking
> guys having love marriage with very average looking girls or vice versa but
> in the gay world i think it never happens . Some of you may say that the
> problem lies with me i have not looked for people who looked beyond looks
> but my dear friends i want to tell you that i have ultimately found that in
> a gay relationship looks are the most important thing.
>
> With all my efforts now i am tired and i have only two options one to
> become active sexually like so many gays and make my self empty emotionally
> or to just forget everything in this life about having a gay life partner
> and live a lonely life which i seem destined to live. I do not know what to
> do because i think it is high time i decide one or the other way.I think
> this is my last ever letter on any gay forum but then i do feel that if
> ever God makes someone gay he should not give him average looks looks
> Tarun
> Sent from BlackBerry® on Airtel
>
> 
>
>
> Email: modera...@gaybombay.in
>
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Re: g_b Re: ASL? Got place?

[Tintin Mumbai India]

ASL = Age Sex Location
It used to be relevant in the era, when Yahoo chat had just begun, and
people used to know others' basic details by ASL.

But seems, now in GAY world, it is no more relevant or 'S' must be SIZE (as
ppl are more interested in that)...
;)
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> **
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> What does "ASL" mean? Could somebody "decode" that for me :) ?
>
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Re: g_b Real achievement!

[Tintin Mumbai India]

Mike chill...
launda is just a word, not slang, used in western up for a guy (before
is is called man)... Like potta in hyd, and munda in punjabi...
Kal ke Launde = Someone who has recently started (doing something)...
Also, u can see that language and the mail was just a teaser...

I think, i need not to clarify more...
Often said, that if u can bear a joke, then dont tell either...



On 7/26/11, Mike Morea  wrote:
> Kalke launde ... not only bad taste, but bad mouth too
>
> What in the hell has my response has to do anything with age? So all
> youngsters
> here are DUMB !!?
>
> It seems you have forgotten what it is to be young and senility is setting
> in.
> Regardless of age, you should see driving a bus while intoxicated is not
> something anyone should do.
>
>
>
>
> ________
> From: Tintin Mumbai India 
> To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com
> Sent: Mon, July 25, 2011 2:54:53 PM
> Subject: Re: g_b Real achievement!
>
>
> Mike,
> Tumhaare joke joke... Aur doosre ke joke ka balaatkaar???
>
> Asfan,
> koi nahi...
> ye kal ke launde kya jaane, ki kitni sadiyon se tum, sorry aap, gb par
> hansi ki phuljhadiyaan bikherte aaye ho...
> Abhay, A die hard pankha of asfan jokes.
>
> On 7/25/11, Mike Morea  wrote:
>> Who was the lucky ones here? Others that cud have been in serious trouble?
>>
>> Morea
>>
>>
>>
>> 
>> From: asfan 
>> To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com; gaybom...@yahoogroups.com
>> Sent: Mon, July 25, 2011 2:06:31 AM
>> Subject: g_b Real achievement!
>>
>>
>>
>> I would just like to share an experience with you all, and it has to do
>> with
>> drinking and driving. As you know some of us have had brushes with the
>> authorities on our way home from the odd soiree over the years?
>>
>>
>> Well I for one have done something about it: Last night I was out for a
>> few
>> drinks with some fellow-gays and had way too many scotch's as well as
>> beers.
>>
>> Knowing full well I was sozzled, I did something I've never done before -
>> I
>> took
>> a bus home. I arrived home safely and without incident which was a real
>> surprise, since I had never driven a bus before
>>
>> asfan
>>
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Re: g_b Real achievement!

[Tintin Mumbai India]

Mike,
Tumhaare joke joke... Aur doosre ke joke ka balaatkaar???

Asfan,
koi nahi...
ye kal ke launde kya jaane, ki kitni sadiyon se tum, sorry aap, gb par
hansi ki phuljhadiyaan bikherte aaye ho...
Abhay, A die hard pankha of asfan jokes.

On 7/25/11, Mike Morea  wrote:
> Who was the lucky ones here? Others that cud have been in serious trouble?
>
> Morea
>
>
>
> 
> From: asfan 
> To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com; gaybom...@yahoogroups.com
> Sent: Mon, July 25, 2011 2:06:31 AM
> Subject: g_b Real achievement!
>
>
>
> I would just like to share an experience with you all, and it has to do with
> drinking and driving. As you know some of us have had brushes with the
> authorities on our way home from the odd soiree over the years?
>
>
> Well I for one have done something about it: Last night I was out for a few
> drinks with some fellow-gays and had way too many scotch's as well as beers.
>
> Knowing full well I was sozzled, I did something I've never done before - I
> took
> a bus home. I arrived home safely and without incident which was a real
> surprise, since I had never driven a bus before
>
> asfan
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Re: رد: Re: g_b Pls ban aditya from this site guys

[Tintin Mumbai India]

Jaao Pahle Unko Ban karke aao jinhone gays ko neechi najaron se dekhna
shuru kiya...
Jaao pahle unko ban karke aao jinhone FIRE movie dikhaane waale
theatres me todfod ki...
...
...
...
fir uske baad mere bhaai, tum jis jis ko ban karne ko kahoge, main ban
kar doonga...

On 6/25/11, Sanjay Lulla  wrote:
> Please consider to ban and ignore those who lead a double life (appear str8
> are married and have alternative ids, one 4 manhunt another 4 office fly
> ROW), those 4 whon frndshp relationships(other than romantic ones) mean
> nothing more than a penis/rectum, those who have no clue abt frndshp
> compassion. Those who are ashamed of what they r and use false ids.
> Blunt, straight forward analytical, one who scolds another out of an Utopian
>  dream, such a one atleast has a spine & a head to hold high!
>
> كتب cuteboy يوم السبت، 25 يونيو 2011 00:47 GST:
>
>>He is sick ... just ignore him
>>
>>--- On Fri, 24/6/11, menmen69 sheikh  wrote:
>>
>>From: menmen69 sheikh 
>>Subject: Re: g_b Pls bann aditya from this site guys
>>To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com
>>Date: Friday, 24 June, 2011, 4:00 PM
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>>From: boy_alone00 
>>Subject: g_b Pls bann aditya from this site guys
>>To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com
>>Date: Wednesday, June 22, 2011, 2:52 PM
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>> unemployed oversmart wakil of india. No work just comment on everyone
>> negatively. We gays r here to share ups n downs n this jerk feels he can
>> poke his nose everywhere.. Bann him guys he is..::
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g_b Look Ma, no pants! - Nudity is the newest nadir in the reality television world, with participants happily willing to drop it all

[Tintin Mumbai India]

Look Ma, no pants!
---
Nudity is the newest nadir in the reality television world, with
participants happily willing to drop it all


The stage is set, the rock band is ready, a bespectacled middle-aged man
wielding a paintbrush is waiting at an easel and the audience of roughly
3,000 Brazilian men and women is clamouring with impatience. Finally, Mohit
Saggar, a 20-year-old MTV Roadies contestant from Ludhiana, emerges from the
wings. He seems different today, no smug stares or cocky one-liners. He
looks around vacantly, closes his eyes and pulls the string of his white
bathrobe. The audience erupts with hoots, laughter and applause as cameras
frantically zoom in and out. And for ten long minutes, the artist renders a
sketchy version of Saggar’s vital statistics.
   Nudity is the newest nadir in the reality television world. Your manhood
is now the measure of how far you are willing to go on a reality show.
Beeped out words and lip locks are passé. The new TRP-ensuring mantra is to
go below the belt, literally. Pixelated vital organs, Brazilian waxing,
spanking and licking chilli sauce off skimpily-clad women — all are part of
the territory.
   “Izzat koi certificate nahi, jo mathe pe laga do,” says Saggar on the
show. “My mind was going blank that time. But I said, ‘to hell with it,
let’s go through with this’.”
   And he did. Like several other reality show contestants who will do
whatever it takes to shock and stay in the game. If Saggar and his
co-contestant Suchit Vikram Singh from Haryana went through with the full
monty for national television, Rishi Oberoi from Chandigarh stripped and
pole danced to impress his blind date’s mother on Channel V’s Date My Folks.
Oberoi, the self-proclaimed “playboy of Chandigarh”, invited a shaken Aunty
Kaur to his bedroom, complete with dim lighting and rose petals strewn on
the bed. He gifted her an ‘innocent’ hamper with handcuffs, an animal print
thong, a leash, chocolate body paint and other aphrodisiacal trivia. “Yeh
sab theek nahi laga, beta” mumbled poor Aunty Kaur, as Oberoi whipped out
his shirt, hung a feathery pink boa around his neck, splattered chocolate
sauce and started moving to ‘Zara Zara Touch Me’.
   Other reality shows that indeed got touchy include one in which male
contestants were caught with their pants down and getting a “Brazlian wax”
for every answer their partner got wrong and a twisted word builder episode
on Roadies. On the last show, semi-naked women, wearing only bikini tops,
are smothered in chillies. Female contestants are expected to lick the
chilli paste off and find alphabets while a male contestant has to perform
the same task on a man whose body hides vowels under chilli paste.
   “Reality TV is not only getting bolder but it is also getting more real,”
says VJ Andy, who hosts Channel V’s Dare to Date and Date My Folks. “The
immunity that the audience has for all the craziness that goes on is great.
The bolder you get, the more the audience wants.”
   Though, on the one hand, the boldness is helping shatter stereotypes of
India being a nation of cowherds and farmers, Andy says the Indian in him
feels a bit disillusioned with situations like the bedroom pole dancing
episode. “In fact, I asked the contestant if he was sure he wanted to go
ahead,” recalls Andy, likening the content of reality shows today to that of
the terror attacks. “Some images were just shocking.”
   According to Keith Alphonso, business head of UTV Bindass that airs
Emotional Atyaachar, the channel would prefer that the show be either loved
or hated strongly rather than be ignored. “The language you hear in a coffee
shop nowadays is more shocking than what you hear on a reality shows.
However, had we done this ten years ago, we don't know if we would've been
received well,” he says.
   We’re still not sure how well it’s being received. “It was embarrassing
to be caught watching this,” says Nitya Chaudhary, a twenty-something
college student. “I still can’t believe these men went naked on TV. I had to
change the channel because my grandparents were in the same room,” she adds.

   Prem Kamath, executive vice president of Channel V, says the idea is not
to consciously create shock value but to merely create variations in show
formats.
“Even on shows like Axe aur Ex (where pranks are conducted on ex
boyfriends/girlfriends), the channel needs a signed affidavit from both
parties. The tone of the shows is in jest and roughly 25% of what we shoot
isn’t aired because permission from the person who the prank has been played
doesn’t come through,” he says .
   Channel V, adds Kamath, strictly follows guidelines laid out by the
Information and Broadcasting ministry on offensive or objectionable content
and has an internal standards and practice department which filters every
show before it goes on air. “We have a responsibility towards our viewer and
while being wacky is okay, there are some things we will never do as a
channel.”
   Former 

g_b Watching pornography no offence: IPC and IT Act

[Tintin Mumbai India]

Just for information of fellow members, incase they did not have it.
May be you can save yourself, next time someone accuse you (and try to
extort the money) to have porn on your mobile, PC, Laptop.

http://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/india/Watching-pornography-no-offence-IPC-and-IT-Act/articleshow/8613854.cms


Manoj Mitta, May 28, 2011, 03.36am IST

NEW DELHI: Consumption of pornography is no offence. All that the law
forbids is its publication or transmission. If the railway police in
Mumbaicould still
terrorise an IITstudent, just by claiming that his mobile phone stored
pornographic video,
they were riding roughshod over his human rights.

For, even if his phone had contained porn clips, the police would have had
no leverage to extort money from the student. Consumption of pornography on
a personal device is frowned upon by neither the Victorian-vintage Indian
Penal Code (IPC) nor the 21st Century legislation on Information Technology
(IT).

Both laws, separated by over 130 years, are unsparing towards the producer
or supplier of obscene material. But when it comes to the consumer, neither
law offers any scope to the police to make out even the lesser charge of
abetting the alleged crime of obscenity.
  It is just as well that the laws are not prudish about consumption per
se because mobiles have of late emerged as a major medium for pornography
around the world, thanks to advances made by smart phone and 3G
technologies. Mobiles can now match the capability of laptops in showing
long videos of pornography, with the added advantage of offering greater
privacy.

The IT Act does, however, make the end user liable if it can be shown that
he had more than just consumed pornography. The consumer would fall foul of
the IT Act if he had shared the video with others. The three provisions
relating to pornography forbid not just publishing but also transmitting.

Section 67 of the IT Act imposes a penalty of imprisonment up to three years
for publishing or transmitting obscene material in electronic form. Section
67A prescribes imprisonment up to five years for the same offence if the
material in question contains "sexually explicit act or conduct". The
penalty under Section 67B too goes up to five years as this provision deals
with the aggravated offence of child pornography.

The consumer would be vulnerable to one or the other of these
pornography-related provisions even if he had shared the video only within
his circle of friends. The very act of transmitting constitutes the offence.
Thus, the consumer is safe so long as he is content receiving or downloading
pornographic material.


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g_b FM Par Dil ka Haal Bataao

[Tintin Mumbai India]

Hi All,

I am not much FM Listener, yet the other night, I switched on the FM on my
Phone, and it was kind of "Dil ka Haal Humein Bataao" type Section of the FM
Station.
People (Girls as well as Guys) were talking about their infatuations, about
their likings towards some friend, some colleague etc...

Then I thought, if they can talk about their infatuation, their likings, why
can not we?
At max, what would happen, the RJ will stop the conversation (though I think
he wont) in between as soon as he / she realises that one is talking about
same sex infatuation.

But incase, the talk is made on air, such decent same sex confessions will
make others to realise that we are just like others, and incase they have
similar feelings, then they are also not different (most of people in B
Class cities or other smaller cities assume that being gay is something
abnormal).

I suppose, there are multiple FMs in every city and almost all of those run
such programs in the night. May be their objective is to make the Program
spicy, but we can utilise the bandwidth to spread the awareness, specially
in B Class cities.

Now a days, everyone use a separate phone for Alternate liftstyle and use a
fake name for the same.
Same ways can be used here too.
I dont see any chance of being blackmailed or being harassed by anyone.



Serious Comments and discussion would be appriciated.

Abhay
No More in Mumbai. :(


my late friend, viraf doctor, did that couple of time.. he happily  recounted 
some instances of love and when the rj in mirchi or was it  radio city asked 
the name of his love. he gave  a guys name.. there was this spot seconds 
silence and the rj continued prattling. viraf ofcoursee made up the love 
incident while speaking to the rj but he wanted more listeners  to  be aware 
that same sex love is love too and needs to be spoken about.

regards

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g_b Re: [gb] request for photo submission for ICAAP.

[Tintin Mumbai India]

Hello All,
I had clicked the pix of QAM Mumbai 2011, on 29th Jan.
Some of those pix, I posted on my blog http://tintinspeaking.blogspot.com

Direct links of the Blog Pages are here:
1)
http://tintinspeaking.blogspot.com/2011/01/picture-set-1-from-pride-march-qam.html

2)
http://tintinspeaking.blogspot.com/2011/01/picture-set-2-from-pride-march-qam.html

3)
http://tintinspeaking.blogspot.com/2011/01/picture-set-3-from-pride-march-qam.html

4)
http://tintinspeaking.blogspot.com/2011/01/picture-set-4-from-pride-march-qam.html

5)
http://tintinspeaking.blogspot.com/2011/01/picture-set-5-from-pride-march-qam.html

6)
http://tintinspeaking.blogspot.com/2011/01/picture-set-6-from-pride-march-qam.html

7)
http://tintinspeaking.blogspot.com/2011/01/rainbow-butterflies-on-girgaum.html

8)
http://tintinspeaking.blogspot.com/2011/01/star-attraction-of-event-qam-mumbai.html

9)
http://tintinspeaking.blogspot.com/2011/01/banners-shown-in-pride-march-qam-mumbai.html

10)
http://tintinspeaking.blogspot.com/2011/01/wearing-rainbow-qam-mumbai-2011.html

11)
http://tintinspeaking.blogspot.com/2011/01/rainbow-on-earth-qam-mumbai-2011.html

12)
http://tintinspeaking.blogspot.com/2011/01/rainbow-on-earth-qam-mumbai-2011_30.html


So, if guys in the pix are comfortable with, Some of the pix of QAM can be
sent for the submission.

If you like the idea, please write back to me at tintin197...@gmail.com

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On Fri, Mar 25, 2011 at 3:45 PM, Aditya Bondyopadhyay
wrote:

> Dear friends,
> APCOM will host an exhibition @ ICAAP 10 in Busan on queer lives
> (emphasising the fact that these are ordinary lives like straight
> people). This does not carry any scholarship or other support, but
> credit will be given to photographers.
>
> For this we need some 10 to 12 photos from India. These have to be in
> high resolution i.e. Above 7 megapixels at least. If you wish to
> submit a photo, please send it to me as an attachment here before 1st
> of April 2011.
>
> One crucial requirement of submission is the fact that if faces are
> clearly shown, you must also send a letter signed by the person(s)
> whose faces are shown stating they have no objection to the photo
> being exhibited. This letter can be scanned and attached along with
> the photo.
>
> If more that 12 submissions are received, APCOM will decide which ones
> to exhibit. Hoping to hear from you all.
>
> Best regards,
> Aditya Bondyopadhyay
>
> On 3/25/11, Aditya Bondyopadhyay  wrote:
> > Well for one, it establishes that there is a natural basis for
> > preference for same sex (provided the research stands up to critical
> > scientific scrutiny), and that it is not a product of diabolical human
> > imagination that should therefore be controlled by use of criminal
> > laws. Much as one would not criminalise any other natural condition
> > (like left handedness).
> >
> > The risk is that the likes of Baba Ramdev can now jump up and claim
> > that all homosexuals should be injected with serotonin to cure them.
> > Therefore if the research is found to be critically scientifically
> > valid, we would have to shift our arguement to whether anyone else
> > have the right to determine for us if we need to change just to
> > conform to their idea of what is right and what is not. That is debate
> > shifts to our right to determine for ourselves how much interfarence
> > with our bodies we would/should allow.
> >
> > Best,
> > Aditya B
> >
> > On 3/25/11, Kris Bass  wrote:
> >> Dear all:
> >> I thought I might bring to your attention this potentially misleading
> >> article published on today's Tims of India.
> >>
> http://epaper.timesofindia.com/Default/Scripting/ArticleWin.asp?From=Archive&Source=Page&Skin=TOINEW&BaseHref=TOIM%2F2011%2F03%2F25&ViewMode=HTML&PageLabel=23&EntityId=Ar02306&AppName=1
> >> *Gay or straight? Brain chemical decides sexual preference**
> >> *
> >> *
> >> *London: Chinese researchers have identified a chemical in the brain
> that
> >> controls sexual preference in mice. They found that male mice lose their

g_b John's swinging now - Bombay Times / 25Mar2011 / Page 50

[Tintin Mumbai India]

*John's swinging now *


While John's relationship status still remains complicated, one things for
sure John's open to swinging! Yeah, you read that right, and if you still
dont believe us, hear it from the man himself: "I think its very normal for
men to express their sexuality. I'm flattered when a man hits on me",
confessed our dashing Johnny boy after he became the countrys gay icon
following his butt-baring act in Dostana. He further adds, I'm open and
available to everyone both men and women. He might be the hottest single man
available in town (after his reported breakup with long-time girlfriend
Bips), so we think he might just be sending out the wrong signals. So whats
it gonna be, Johnny boy We love you one way or the other.


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Hi Sam,
I think, there are places in Mumbai (I dont know if you will count those
places in Mumbai), where you can be naked...
Atleast for sometime, and if you hear someone coming, you can cover
yourself.
Abhay



On Fri, Mar 11, 2011 at 9:44 PM, Samson D'Souza  wrote:

>
>
> Dear Kris,
> Do u think anyone in mumbai can walk around naked outside their apartment?
>
> On Fri, 11 Mar 2011 20:44 IST Kris Bass wrote:
>
> >Does walking around in your apartment naked constitute nudism? If yes, i'm
> one!
> >
> >Kris
> >
> >On 3/10/11, Tintin Mumbai India  wrote:
> >> Hi Guys,
> >>
> >> Since a long, I had an attraction towards Nudism & Naturism.
> >>
> >> Recently I met few nudists, in person as well as on chat.
> >> Often the profiles, I come across on these sites, say, they are Male
> Nudist
> >> and looking for Other Male Nudists.
> >>
> >> When chatted with them, I found they are Gay or BI. Atleast till now, I
> have
> >> not met any Nudist, who says he is not into m2m things.
> >>
> >> Similarly, my experience with few Nudists (one with a person from South
> >> America and other with 2 indians) were like meets ended into sex.
> >>
> >> So, I wondered, is it like Male Nudists are Gay or Bi only?
> >> Or like Subset of Gays/Bis?
> >>
> >> As I know many gays or bis, who shade clothes only for sex, otherwise
> they
> >> hide themselves behind clothes.
> >>
> >> This topic was never talked about, I suppose, here, so I thought we
> should
> >> talk about it.
> >>
> >> Also, is there any group for Nudists in Mumbai?
> >>
> >> Abhay
> >>
> >>
> >>
> >>
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> >--
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> >
> >http://engayginglife.blogspot.com
> >
> >"Remember that if men were not meant to be sucked, their bodies
> >wouldn't have come with a nozzle!" - A Gay
>
>  
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Hello Sid,
Its really a good piece of information, atleast about the village in south
France.
Actually, this is what my purpose was, that what is opinion and knowledge of
individual... what an individual thinks...
I am still waiting to hear from other members of group.
Abhay.


On Fri, Mar 11, 2011 at 11:29 PM, sid parkar wrote:

> Hi!
>
> I attended a group of naturist men in London. They are gay or bi. They have
> meetings, meals etc in nude but there is no sex. There is also a nudist
> disco called 'Nudity' where men are completely naked have drinks, socialise,
> dance etc. The atmosphere is very friendly,pleasant, relaxed and enjoyable.
> In this there is an area where some men can be intimate if they wish to be.
>
> The naturists' heaven is in Cap D'adge village in South of France. Here
> everyone if fully naked. This place is visited by families.All, men and
> women, most of them straight, of all ages and shapes enjoy being nude in
> this beautiful place. People do their food,cloths etc shopping in nude. Go
> on streets, eating places in nude. This is ultimate fantasy fulfilment of a
> naturist. The beach  is vast, clean and has golden sand. Naked human body fo
> any age, shape or size is seen and can be seen as the most beautiful thing
> and not dirty or something to be ashamed of.
>
> To be naked is not always about sex but healthy attitude towards nudity and
> sex both can enhance pleasure of enjoying both.
>
> Sid
>
> --- On *Thu, 10/3/11, Tintin Mumbai India * wrote:
>
>
> From: Tintin Mumbai India <>
> Subject: g_b Nudists and Gays
> To: "B G" , "gay_bombay" <
> gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com>, gb...@yahoogroups.com
> Date: Thursday, 10 March, 2011, 8:19
>
>
>
>  Hi Guys,
>
> Since a long, I had an attraction towards Nudism & Naturism and this made
> me to be member of some Nudist / Naturist Groups like www.hangoutnude.comand
> www.ohNaturists.com <http://www.ohnaturists.com/>.
>
> Recently I met few nudists, in person as well as on chat.
> Often the profiles, I come across on these sites, say, they are Male Nudist
> and looking for Other Male Nudists.
>
> When chatted with them, I found they are Gay or BI. Atleast till now, I
> have not met any Nudist, who says he is not into m2m things.
>
> Similarly, my experience with few Nudists (one with a person from South
> America and other with 2 indians) were like meets ended into sex.
>
> So, I wondered, is it like Male Nudists are Gay or Bi only?
> Or like Subset of Gays/Bis?
>
> As I know many gays or bis, who shade clothes only for sex, otherwise they
> hide themselves behind clothes.
>
>
> This topic was never talked about, I suppose, here, so I thought we should
> talk about it.
>
> Also, is there any group for Nudists in Mumbai, where I can find other
> Nudists?
>
> Abhay
>
>
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g_b Nudists and Gays

[Tintin Mumbai India]

Hi Guys,

Since a long, I had an attraction towards Nudism & Naturism and this made me
to be member of some Nudist / Naturist Groups like www.hangoutnude.com and
www.ohNaturists.com.

Recently I met few nudists, in person as well as on chat.
Often the profiles, I come across on these sites, say, they are Male Nudist
and looking for Other Male Nudists.

When chatted with them, I found they are Gay or BI. Atleast till now, I have
not met any Nudist, who says he is not into m2m things.

Similarly, my experience with few Nudists (one with a person from South
America and other with 2 indians) were like meets ended into sex.

So, I wondered, is it like Male Nudists are Gay or Bi only?
Or like Subset of Gays/Bis?

As I know many gays or bis, who shade clothes only for sex, otherwise they
hide themselves behind clothes.


This topic was never talked about, I suppose, here, so I thought we should
talk about it.

Also, is there any group for Nudists in Mumbai, where I can find other
Nudists?

Abhay



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Re: g_b FW: Protest Against TV9 Hyderabad

[Tintin Mumbai India]

NO...
2nd YouTube video is still there as of 11:55AM 24/02/2011.
:(

Re: g_b Gay Census on India

[Tintin Mumbai India]

Just on Lighter Note:
According to the same report (I have not read it), its not *Hundreds* of
Millions of us.
But just *Hundred* of Millions of us.

Because, we (indians) are not yet 2 Billions / 200 Crores Still little
above 1 Billion / 100 Crore.
So, 10% of the number, comes to little more than 100 of Million OR 10
Crores.

He he he...

OK, I understand, I am talking Just like that... but just I observed it, so
I thought of saying it.

;)
Abhay




On Mon, Feb 21, 2011 at 8:04 PM,  wrote:

>
>
>  According to the Kinsey report, 10 percent of the population is gay.  So
> figure that out !!!  It's hundreds of millions of us !!!
>
> Gordon
>
>  In a message dated 2/20/2011 10:39:07 P.M. Mountain Standard Time,
> tjs...@yahoo.ca writes:
>
>
>
> Curious to know what could be the average gay Population in India? Any
> census done on that?
>
>  
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Sanjay,

I think it is a one sided opinion.
First of all, as much I could read the original mail, there was no
statement, that she want to marry some "Pressurized" gay.
It is like if a Gay TOO wants to marry a lesbian, what is big deal?
And obviously, both should spend time in courtship like other str8 (in
India) and gay and lesbian couple (abroad)  spend before their final "I DO".

So, its like, "Jab Miyaan Beewi Raazi, to Kya Kare Quazi"...

I also think, that every topic, every matter should be thought upon with a
separate, neutral,  "Start from Zero" thinking.

Definitely, it is possible that you have made your opinion with some live
stories, you have had seen around.

But, I strongly believe that if you can not break, try to bend it.
Try to turn the situations in your favor.

A fight is not always recommended.
Fight is always last option.

Again, like you.. it is JUST MY personal opinion, people may not agree with
me.

Abhay



On Mon, Feb 21, 2011 at 3:37 PM, Sanjay Lulla wrote:

>
>
> Kris I would suggest that she speak to a counselor. This could be because
> of some psychological reasons or some kind of trauma or some unfortunate
> event in very early childhood. Most of the cases are because of the above
> reasons. A psychiatrist would be able to help this girl more. Marriage to a
> "pressurized" gay would not be the right solution.
>
> Thanks
>
> little prince-Sanjay N Lulla
>
>
>  --
> *From:* Kris Bass 
> *To:* gaybom...@yahoogroups.com; Gay Underscore <
> gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com>; LGBT-India Forum ;
> queerker...@yahoogroups.com
> *Sent:* Sat, February 19, 2011 12:15:57 PM
> *Subject:* g_b A strange plea for help
>
>
>
> Hi everyone,
>
> I got this message from a friend of mine. It's about a friend (woman) of
> his who's finding it hard to come to term with her sexuality and sexual
> orientation. I'm pasting the contents of the message below.
>
> *"i know a very nice, homely, cool girl who is also highly qualified. She
> likes rock and roll and is a vocalist. she's 24. she's frigid...unable to
> have sex. family pressure to get married is mounting to a point where she
> might just decide to end it all. i think you understand better what a
> fragile situation this is...this is worse than rape.
> She wants to meet guys who are gay, but have similar pressures on them to
> settle down "with a girl". This way she can be helped...and someone from the
> male gay community can also breathe easy.
>
> I'm all for the "coming out of the closet" thing. But Kris i also know that
> there must be people out there who are struggling with gaining acceptance
> towards their sexuality. Maybe we can help 2 people...
>
> i have seen her state, man. imagine what she'll have to go through...it
> bought tears to my eyes...she is a very caring and loving person..." *
>
> I don't know what to tell my friend. Should I talk to her? Should I suggest
> that she speaks to some counsellor? Maybe someone at Humsafar trust? Do you
> think she can find someone gay who'll agree to forge a 'marriage' with her?
>
> Please advice!
>
> Kris
>
> --
> http://engayginglife.blogspot.com
>
> "Remember that if men were not meant to be sucked, their bodies wouldn't
> have come with a nozzle!" - A Gay
>
>  
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कमल खिले पानी में, / kamal khile paani me,
चाँद चढे आकाश... / chaand chadhe Akaash...
जो जिसको है चाहता, / jo jisko hai chaahta,
जाये उसी के पास... / jaaye usi ke paas...
(Nothing, just tried to translate it in Hindi)...
;)




On Thu, Feb 10, 2011 at 10:34 AM, Sanjay Lulla
wrote:

>
>
> kumodini jalhari base
> chanda base akashi
> jo jahi ke bhavta
> so tahi ke pasi
>
> is there strenght and unfalling conviction in your passion?
>
> little prince-Sanjay N Lulla
>
>
>  --
> *From:* Prem Nath 
> *To:* gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com
> *Sent:* Wed, February 9, 2011 6:39:36 PM
>
> *Subject:* Re: g_b Difficult to find a Partner
>
>
>
>   yes it is everyone's birth right to be happy and i want Hrithik Roshan
> and a billion dollars to be happy, and I guess that should now be a very
> legitimate want considering I have a birth right to be happy.
>
> btw Mr. Bean is available for someone who asked, he had been waiting for a
> little prince for a long long time, lets hope he gets his happiness.
>
> --- On *Wed, 2/9/11, Sanjay Lulla * wrote:
>
>
> From: Sanjay Lulla 
> Subject: Re: g_b Difficult to find a Partner
> To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com
> Date: Wednesday, February 9, 2011, 4:59 AM
>
>
>
>  Yes Cuteboy it is everyones birthright to be happy
>
> little prince-Sanjay N Lulla
>
>
>  --
> *From:* cuteboy 
> *To:* gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com
> *Sent:* Tue, February 8, 2011 7:24:59 PM
> *Subject:* Re: g_b Difficult to find a Partner
>
>
>
>   Darpan jhoot na bole
> lekin sabhi ke dil mein khush hone ki chaah hoti hain
>
>
>
>
>
> --- On *Mon, 7/2/11, Sanjay Lulla * wrote:
>
>
> From: Sanjay Lulla 
> Subject: Re: g_b Difficult to find a Partner
> To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com
> Date: Monday, 7 February, 2011, 2:11 PM
>
>
>
>  oh isnt Mr. Bean available anymore?? :p
>
> little prince-Sanjay N Lulla
>
>
>  --
> *From:* Prem Nath 
> *To:* gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com
> *Sent:* Mon, February 7, 2011 7:17:29 AM
> *Subject:* Re: g_b Difficult to find a Partner
>
>
>
>   we live in a world of fantasy, we all think we are elizabeth bennet and
> we often cry for why are we not meeting mr. darcy. even after looking at
> mirror a 1000 times a day, for some reason we cannot accept the fact that
> may be we are not elizabeth bennet but rather charlotte lucas or someone
> even more mundane, but thats not the sad part, the sad part is that we are
> not even half as wise as charlotte lucas was.
>
> let us look at ourselves first as to what we are and what are we ready to
> offer before complaining, if you are good looking- you would be taken (its a
> fact), if you are wise (again you would be taken - its a fact), but
> unfortunately if you are none of the above you may end up being single all
> your life waiting for mr. darcy. if you are above 25 its time to face the
> reality
>
> --- On *Sun, 2/6/11, Manoj * wrote:
>
>
> From: Manoj 
> Subject: Re: g_b Difficult to find a Partner
> To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com
> Date: Sunday, February 6, 2011, 5:17 PM
>
>
>
>
> Love the last line u wrote Sanjay.
>
> on the original topic --- u say u have written emails for finding the right
> patner. But then can one really hope to find some one to love over a forum
> list by soliciting a life partner?
> I think the ida of meeting someone over this calls for an exceptional
> stroke of luck..meet ppl at social events, interact, have frnds and
> there is a higher probability of hitting it with the right guy...coz in
> absence of above its difficult fo both of u to know if u are the right guys
> or not.
> Email, forum, online advt can typically serve little here.
> Manoj
> --- On *Sun, 6/2/11, Sanjay Lulla * wrote:
>
>
> From: Sanjay Lulla 
> Subject: Re: g_b Difficult to find a Partner
> To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com
> Date: Sunday, 6 February, 2011, 10:49 AM
>
>
>   no One can not generalise and it would be branding us. Love is not gay
> nor hetrosexual. its just love. True dedicated honest loyal love does exist.
> Many times we close our eyes and are blind to its existence. Our hard set
> standards and parameters act like blinkers. How do you think arranged hetro
> marraiges survive? Are we ready to adjust accomodate. We maybe rejecting
> someone who truly loves us cares for us just because he is not our type or
> maybe hes a t/b or some such bullshit. We fail due to our own idiocrancies
> and inaneities. Lets not find problem in others first let us beging with
> ourself.
>
> last but not the least if one is married then how can one do justice to
> both the parties? a wife kid and a BF? Own up to what ever decision you have
> taken and stick to it.
>
> Love is not a venture of the weak it is the privilige of the courageous.
>
> little prince-Sanjay N Lulla
>
>
>  --
> *From:* Adrian 
> *To:* gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com
> *Sent:* Sat, February 5, 2011 1:01:52 PM
> *Subject:* RE: g_b Difficult to find a Partner
>
>
>
> The sooner you 

Re: g_b Re: [gb] Wednesday's woe

[Tintin Mumbai India]

Just for Info...
Orgasm and Sperms do not have any relation...
A guy with "NO SPERMS" can attain very good orgasm, early, normal or
delayed...
SPERMS are not also related to the quantity and/or thickness of sticky
creamy liquid, coming out at the time of Orgasm (known as Cum) or before
that (Known as Pre-cum).
Most of the times, Pre-cum is very dilute, but still contain SPERMS (incase
the guy has his SPERM COUNT Regular).
Abhay



On Thu, Feb 3, 2011 at 12:22 PM, Bloot Fontaine wrote:

>
>
> Imagine what an itsy bitsy teensy weensy orgasm you would have with just
> one sperm yar! Regards!
>
> --- On *Wed, 2/2/11, Sanjay Lulla * wrote:
>
>
> From: Sanjay Lulla 
> Subject: g_b Re: [gb] Wednesday's woe
> To: gaybom...@yahoogroups.com, "G_B" 
> Date: Wednesday, 2 February, 2011, 10:48 AM
>
>
>
>   why are a million sperms produced when only one is necessary for
> conceiving? They are masculine they wont ask for directions and accidentally
> only one hits home.
>
> little prince-Sanjay N Lulla
>
>
>  --
> *From:* asfan 
> *To:* gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com; gaybom...@yahoogroups.com
> *Sent:* Wed, February 2, 2011 6:48:22 AM
> *Subject:* [gb] Wednesday's woe
>
>
>
> What do men and sperm have in common?
>
> They both have a one-in-a-million chance of becoming a human being.
>
>
>
>
>  
>



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g_b Videos from QAM Mumbai 2011 - On My Blog "TintinSpeaking.blogspot.com"

[Tintin Mumbai India]

Hi Guys,

Yesterday, I posted the pix of  QAM Parade.
I shot some videos too, and I have posted on Youtube and same Youtube links
have been posted on my Blog
TintinSpeaking.blogspot.com
 too.

Direct links of the Blog Page for the Videos is:
http://tintinspeaking.blogspot.com/2011/02/videos-of-pride-march-qam-mumbai-2011.html


*Direct Links of the Videos on YouTube:*

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=v-BNnKVN_kA
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MklBbJsVlg0
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=j4wDTYJU8rI
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=85mhIRtKdEI
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wd5uZKMSNw8
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZVpvg5mS7k4
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6YRDsdxMnuU
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PwwVAqyb2Eg
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VXQIVzqKD0Y
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PGQsSyPFpRo
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=y2_YJwBRbDM
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8mUHcvMZE_E
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=B2FtyGS6I6o

I hope you all enjoy these videos equally, like Parade Pix.
Abhay



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Hi Guys,

Yesterday, I was there in QAM Parade, from August Kranti Maidan to Girgaum
Chaupatty.
It was nice to click all of the pix during the Parade.

I have posted the pix on my Blog - TintinSpeaking.blogspot.com.

Direct links of the Blog Pages are here:
1)
http://tintinspeaking.blogspot.com/2011/01/picture-set-1-from-pride-march-qam.html

2)
http://tintinspeaking.blogspot.com/2011/01/picture-set-2-from-pride-march-qam.html

3)
http://tintinspeaking.blogspot.com/2011/01/picture-set-3-from-pride-march-qam.html

4)
http://tintinspeaking.blogspot.com/2011/01/picture-set-4-from-pride-march-qam.html

5)
http://tintinspeaking.blogspot.com/2011/01/picture-set-5-from-pride-march-qam.html

6)
http://tintinspeaking.blogspot.com/2011/01/picture-set-6-from-pride-march-qam.html

7)
http://tintinspeaking.blogspot.com/2011/01/rainbow-butterflies-on-girgaum.html

8)
http://tintinspeaking.blogspot.com/2011/01/star-attraction-of-event-qam-mumbai.html

9)
http://tintinspeaking.blogspot.com/2011/01/banners-shown-in-pride-march-qam-mumbai.html

10)
http://tintinspeaking.blogspot.com/2011/01/wearing-rainbow-qam-mumbai-2011.html

11)
http://tintinspeaking.blogspot.com/2011/01/rainbow-on-earth-qam-mumbai-2011.html

12)
http://tintinspeaking.blogspot.com/2011/01/rainbow-on-earth-qam-mumbai-2011_30.html

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g_b ... Main Tere Dar Pe Aaya, Leke Band Baaja ...

[Tintin Mumbai India]

Hi guys,
The other day, I was flipping the tv channels, when I came across the
promos of the movie HELLO DARLING, and there was a song clip from the
movie, having male words "Main tere dar pe aaya leke band baaja"...
In the song there was a guy in turben and beard, playing sikh and
dancing bhangra...

Do anyone know who is he??
It was just a glimpse of him... But I am already lusting for him... (oops)
Abhay

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That is called Andropause.
*http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Andropause


*
On Fri, Jul 16, 2010 at 4:28 PM, milin shah  wrote:

>
>
>
> http://www.dnaindia.com/mumbai/report_a-national-registry-for-male-menopause_1410377
>
>
>
> *Mumbai: *Men will be loathe to admit this. But they too go through
> menopause as women. The post-40 health blues, including reduced sex drive
> and depression, could be the result of andropause or male menopause.
>  A relatively unacknowledged phenomenon so far, andropause will soon be
> mapped and enumerated. In the first such exercise of its kind, the Indian
> Andropause Society (IAS) will prepare a national registry for men going
> through the physical condition. Besides keeping track of the statistical
> aspects, the national andropuase registry will draw up a detailed comparison
> between Indian males and their Western counterparts.
>  “The database will facilitate wider understanding of andropause among the
> general public as well as medical professionals. It will not merely consist
> of statistics, it will also offer an overall picture,” said Dr Narayana
> Reddy, president, IAS. The data compilation process for the registry is on
> since the past four years, he added.
> Members of the IAS collect patient data, which includes detailed medical
> history, hormone assessment reports, treatment offered and the final
> results. “Each city has one or more doctors associated with the IAS as point
> persons. The compiled data is tallied with cities within the country as well
> as Western countries,” said Reddy.
> Andropause means gradual reduction in the production of testosterone, an
> essential male hormone in men above 40 years of age. It is associated with
> depression, reduced libido and problems of heart, lungs and the brain. But
> in most cases, the patient lands up with a doctor seeking help for sexual
> problems.
> But andropause is left undiagnosed due to lack of awareness among medical
> professionals too. Testosterone therapy is generally offered as a treatment.
>
> “No man wants to know that he is weak. It is more of a social taboo,” said
> Dr Saroj Gumasthe, who is in charge of Mumbai city for the registry.
>
> --
> The dark side of terrorists revealed in MSN Internal Security Get it 
> now.
> 
>



-- 
--- Reuse Paper by Both Sided Printing 

g_b A Friend In Need.

[Tintin Mumbai India]

Hello Moderators,
I am not sure if the mail will go with guidelines of the group or not. Still
I am writing this mail to the group, as I really want to help a friend of
mine, in his difficult days.
If you find this mail to pass thru the group, then please remove this text,
written to you.

Hello Guys,

A friend of mine, who is currently facing financial crisis, is working on
few projects.

One of the Projects is a Seasonal Project, on Filing Income Tax Returns, for
which the last date is 31/July/2010.

He has requested me to inform my friends about his project, so they can
contact him (and their friends and colleagues as well) to file their Income
Tax Returns for this thru him, at nominal fee.

Unless, filed IT Returns by himself, one has to pay Minimum Rs100/- or so
for the same, to the service provider, Online or Offline.

So, if anyone on the group, belongs to HR Dept of his Organisations, or
willing to help my friend by providing client base (i.e. employees of his
organisation) by talking about it among friends or by posting Advertisement
on notice boards of the canteens, please come forward.

He can be contacted at *ezitr.mum...@gmail.com* .
(Phone Number has been avoided, as I am not sure if that would be correct.)

Members outside Mumbai can also contact him, as he has developed a very good
software for the purpose which can be executed at mass level handling huge
client base.

He is also planning to hire Part Time executives to collect the forms from
the companies, though he does not have the knowledge of this kind of people
management.


I hope, my mail will be taken in healthy way. If we can help him, it is well
otherwise it is his luck.
Abhay.

PS: By the way, he is straight and even does not know about me. So please do
not fear about your data being misused for anything else.
--- Reuse Paper by Both Sided Printing 

g_b Any Physiatrist here who is specialised in Understanding Problems of Children?

[Tintin Mumbai India]

Hi Friends,

I need your help again.

I have a friend whose daughter has changed her behaviour too differently.
Earlier she was very nice, talkative, chirpy... but now a days very quiet,
and into herself.

I was told about it, so I realised that we can consult some Physiatrist (if
possible some child Physiatrist) to know the reason.

Do we have any child physiatrist, or a Physiatrist specialised to children
problems?
Or
Do anyone here know any child physiatrist, or a Physiatrist specialised to
children problems?

Abhay
*(PS: Please ALSO Respond directly to me on tintin197...@gmail.com, so I can
get immediate reply from you.)*
=

see maya kriplani at jaslok.. she is good
regards
moderator

g_b Holi @ Juhu

[Tintin Mumbai India]

Hi Guys,
I am in mumbai for few years, but have not attended Gb Holi @ Juhu.
May be as I had no company to go with...

Is it happening this time too?
If so, can I have the details?

Abhay

Re: Fw: Re: g_b Am I At Risk? Leaving a Used Condom behind at Fun place

[Tintin Mumbai India]

As much I understand it,
Sodomy is not LEGALLY permitted i.e. No Law has been made that one can
indulge in peno-anal sex. (Though dictionary meaning of Sodomy includes
every kind of sex except sex done between a man & woman using their natural
genital organs).

But one can surely produce support of the Delhi HC Ruling about
decriminalisation of homosexual acts done under private places.

Hence, in general, one can say that NOW homosexual acts are PERMITTED.
Abhay



On Wed, Feb 17, 2010 at 4:41 PM, Asian Bottom wrote:

>
>
>
>
> --- On *Wed, 2/17/10, Vikram Kapoor * wrote:
>
>
> From: Vikram Kapoor 
> Subject: Re: g_b Am I At Risk? Leaving a Used Condom behind at Fun place
>
> To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com
> Date: Wednesday, February 17, 2010, 8:09 AM
>
>
>
>  You're in Mumbai, and as of now, sodomy is legally permitted.
> If you're worried about blackmail at a personal level, then just be safe
> with what guy you choose to meet - coz they could use pictures, CCTV footage
> etc against you to show your wife / parents / whoever you're scared of being
> exposed to. Semen is a far cry, and testing is expensive ;)
> If you're so paranoid, why not just do it yourself then?
>
>
>
>
>
> Sodomy is legally permitted?
>
>
>  
>

Re: g_b Funny Questions Straight People Ask

[Tintin Mumbai India]

Some from me:
1) So you like guys?
Yes... Dont you? Or do you just dislike your father, brother(s), Son(s),
Male Friends???

2) I do not know why you gays like sucking cocks or fucking arses?
Same, I also do not know why you heteros enjoy sucking female breasts and
licking clitoris and fucking in cunts...

3) Why you gays run behind every handsome hunk?
As if you heteros leave beautiful ladies alone...

4) Why you gays wear all trandy & fashionable cloths?
Why? I suppose looking good is not a crime.

Abhay



On Sun, Oct 25, 2009 at 11:51 AM, naughty confessions <
naughty_confessio...@yahoo.com> wrote:

>
>
> Since I came out I am an ambassador to the gay world for all the straight
> people. What's really funny is that straight people are curious and ask a
> lot of questions...and many many personal ones...here are some of the
> funnier ones and what i'd really like to say, but am too passive agressive
> to really say aloud.
>
> Does it hurt?
> *Do you really want to know, because I could explain in full detail how it
> all works!
>
> Are you the boy?
> *The point of being gay is there are two boys...and when two boys like each
> other very much they have gay sex!
>
> Are you sure you're gay?
> *Um...lets see...YES! Are you sure you're straight?
>
> When talking about love- "I thought being gay was just about sex"
> *Yes, being gay means we are all heartless and just hang around in bathroom
> stalls and alleys waiting to give bj's to random strangers"
>
> Can you give me tips on giving oral sex to my husband?
> *That's a given talent...if you aren't doing it right now...you're screwed"
>
> Does it bother you if I say homo?
> *Does it bother you if I call you hetero, or how about stupid ass?
>
> Wow...it feels good to get this off my chest...anyone else been asked crazy
> questions by straight people?
>  
>

Re: g_b Need Help [5 Attachments]

[Tintin Mumbai India]

Hi rahul
If you have used FILTERS of gmail, you can follow the steps mentioned in the
Images attached here...
Just click on links / buttons rectangled in images.
In Image#5, you have to enter different data, like filter conditions and
name for the filter.

I found filters of Yahoo, almost similar to Filters of Gmail...
Let me know, if you need more help...
Abhay

On Thu, Oct 8, 2009 at 4:17 PM, b m  wrote:

>
>
> Guys,
>
> i need to ask one question regarding yahoo mail.  Like GMAIL is there any
> option in yahoo where the mails go directly into the particular folder.
> otherwsie it is very difficult to click and drag mails into every folder
> everytime. plzz help.
>
> thnx
> r
>
>  
>

Re: g_b Male sex workers in Mumbai to get training in vocational courses .

[Tintin Mumbai India]

Is there anyway (or if someone knows the NGO) to join hands with the NGO?
I would like to devote some of my free time to them, to teach them in my
field.
By which they can earn a decent living...
Abhay

===
Contact Jasmir Thakur, Executive Offcer
Tel +91 982 023 8574
Email jas...@rediffmail.com
Web www.samabhavana.org

g_b Any Choreographer on the floor?

[Tintin Mumbai India]

Hi Guys,
Do we have a choreographer here? Not a professional one, but might be an
amateur one, or who do it for hobby?
Someone, who does not mind experiments or working on some strange themes?

Pl reply back individually @ tintin197...@gmail.com .
Abhay.

g_b Gay Participent on "khataron Ke Khilaadi - Season 2"

[Tintin Mumbai India]

Hi Guys,
Yesterday I was watching "Back to Back" episodes of "Khataron Ke Khilaadi -
Season 2" for first week, and all of sudden it happened.

The stunt was to collect the flags on platform, hanging in the air over the
sea and the platform was tilting left and right, increasing the angle with
each turn.
The contestents were Rupali Ganguli" and her partner (male).
The guy was very silent, so Akshay Kumar simply asked for the reason. He
asked, "koi problem? Girl friend issue? Boy friend se jhagda?"
And the guy replied, "koi jhagda nahin... boy friend ko to 2 saal pahale hi
chhod chuka hoon..."

Though there was no more talk on this, or on his answer, but I think, it was
known to Akshay Kumar and may be they wanted to highlight this issue, that
is why Akshay asked the question specifically using "Boy friend" thing.

I think, it was just highlighting, and without making it an issue, they
handled it in decent way...
Abhay

g_b Top / Bottom / Versatile >>> Zip Aage / Zip Peechhe / Zip Dono Taraf

[Tintin Mumbai India]

I received an SMS Joke just now, which was:
After Ruling upon Sc 377, a tailor asked a man about his trousers. "Saahab,
Pant me Zip kahaan lagaau? Aage, Peechhe Ya Dono Taraf?"


So Finally Terms have been changed...
Now you can ask T/B/V Question with "Do you wear pants with ZIP in Front /
Back / Both Sides?"
He he he...

g_b Want to contact the person from theatres, attended the GB Meet on 7 June 2009 at Bandra

[Tintin Mumbai India]

Hi All,
I attended this GB Meet  (Held on Sun June 7th, 2009 in Bandra).
There was a person from theatre (Who introduced himself as working for
theatres).
I dont know the name of the person.

I would like to request the person to replyback if possible (direct to me).
I have to talk to him to discuss some issues.
Abhay.

On Sat, Jun 6, 2009 at 6:03 PM, GayBombay Events wrote:

>
>
>  *GayBombay Sunday Meet*
>
> *Day, Date & Time:
> *Sunday 7 June 2009, between 6:00 to 6:30 pm
> (Note the change in timings)
>
> *Venue:
> *JATC (Just Around The Corner), Bandra.
> (We may then move to another venue close by for an informal chat)
>
> *Directions:*
> At Bandra Station, on the WEST side, take a rickshaw to Turner Road; at
> Turner Road take a right at Tawaa Restaurant (you will see ICICI Bank on
> your left after the turn). Keep going straight for about two minutes; you
> will see the big blue signboard of 'JUST AROUND THE CORNER' on the left.
>
> *Cover:*
> Free Entry
>
> *Note:*
> 1. Do get your friends along to help them gain access to a group especially
> if they are not netizens. You do not have to be "out" to the world to
> attend. This is a discreet event being held as a clean, safe & social
> get-together of a non-sexual nature. Hardly any of those attending are "out"
> as such.
>
> 2. You need to be at least 18 years of age to attend.
>
> 3. There may be many who will prefer being discreet or may be still be
> coming to terms with themselves hence a request that all be sensitive to
> this and act and dress accordingly.
>
> 4. Ensure that you get to JATC before 6:30 pm - the evening carries over to
> another gay-friendly place close by.
>
> 5. To identify the group look out for someone wearing a BLACK cap.
>
> 6. For queries, send a mail to eve...@gaybombay.org
>
>  --
>  This event is organised by: http://www.gaybombay.org
> Right of admission reserved.
>  
>

g_b What your Undies Say?

[Tintin Mumbai India]

Hi Moderator,
Again, and on same page, same paper, same Day...
Sunday June 7th, Page 39, Mumbai Edition, Times Life.

I liked the section, in the end (in bold) where they analyse the person on
the basis of undies he wear...

BRIEFS: If your man can’t think beyond briefs, he’s either too traditional
or too uptight. Such men are usually underconfident about their bodies,
shying away from too much skin show. Lacking in energy, he’s Mr Play Safe!

BOXER SHORTS: They’re hard to read and unpredictable. But once you’ve caught
the heart of a boxers kinda guy, you can ensure he’ll not fool around.

THONGS: He’s a risk taker. To keep up with him may be a challenge,
especially if you’re kinda laid-back.

I found it would be interesting to pull attention of the members...


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Abhay

g_b Kalikesh Narayan Singh Deo - A Cute Young Politician

[Tintin Mumbai India]

Hi Moderator,
I found this in Sunday Times of India of June 7th (Mumbai Edition, Times
Life, Page 39). I don't know if you will allow this to appear on the group
or not, but I think there is nothing wrong with the article, as per the
rules of the group.

I really wanted to share (or bring notice of members) about this young
politician... Such a cute smile...

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Abhay

Re: g_b Resquest for your personal point of view

[Tintin Mumbai India]

Hello Sunny,
I think there is no harm in shooting such video, as I think videography at
public places is not prohibited.
It is almost like those so called reality shows.
You can shoot and then a nice voice over can tell audience what is wrong and
what is right.

But to avoid it turning into really pink and yellow, if one can stick to the
objective (let people know about correct dressing sense) instead of making
nasty comments on someone's dressing, it would be really good.

Another thing, I think this video is genral video, and not specific to gays
or LGBT people. right?
So why to keep it there on only LGBT group only?
If you can not show it on a national news channel, put it on youtube.
By putting it only on LGBT, you would stamp the video for LGBT. Dont you
think so?
Abhay



On Sat, May 23, 2009 at 2:36 PM, sunny kapoor wrote:

>
>
> Dear Member,
>
> I am thinking to shoot a video which will focus on dressing sense of people
> in delhi(for now). I know it may be or can sound bitchy. But seriously this
> will be just for fun to show how horrible can people dress and think they
> are looking cool. Ofcourse i am not a fashion critic and this will be purely
> my point  of view on dressing sense.
> What you think guys its safe to shoot this kind of video ?
>
> PS : The video will be posted on LGBT Association of India yahoo group
> (Link mentioned below). So inorder to see this video and its comment I will
> appreciate the respective group.
> Well for me this group is no nonsence and provide valuable information
> about LGBT in india and worldwide and according to admin this groupwill be
> having more spices in future soon
>
> Love
> Sunny
>
> Join : LGBT Assocation of India (Pink Stone)
> http://uk.groups.yahoo.com/group/LGBT-Association-India/
>
>
>  
>

Re: g_b Please help I am cought by police on May 05 2009

[Tintin Mumbai India]

Dear Mr Subodh,
Which country you are in? As:
1) In India, the policemen never call you sir... unless you are a politician
or high profile guy.
2) In India, it IS illegal to have sex with a person of same sex.
You are sounding funny... (In the context of the current mail).

But yes, you are true, that if some one is confident in such situations,
problems can be reduced.
Abhay.


On Wed, May 6, 2009 at 4:24 AM, subodh_kumaar wrote:

>
>
> Perfect reply from Aditya, once I was making out with a 22 year old in the
> back of car in the parking lot of a mall, it was only our car in the parking
> lot then we heard a police car and a police bike, two police men then
> approached the car we hid ourselves well low inside the car to give them the
> impression that noone is inside, then they left and we started again, but
> after 15 minutes they came back now the guy I was with was scared to death,
> what will police ask? what will we answer? please lie down please dont speak
> all these things he kept murmuring to me.. I then said enough of all this..
> I opened the car door and said "what is it officer?".. he said "you will
> have to leave sir, the mall is closed".. and we left.. I then said to the
> guy, why are you scared we are both adults and its not illegal to have sex
> with the same sex in this country...
>
>
> --- In gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com , Aditya
> Bondyopadhyay  wrote:
> >
> > Consciously having sex with someone who is 16 YO qualifies as statutory
> > rape, and you qualify by your own confession therefore as a statutory
> > rapist. There are certain lines I draw and Child sexual Abuse and Child
> > Statutory Rape are those lines. I would rather leave you to face your own
> > devices. I hope you face the full wrath of the music of your own actions.
> >
> > Best and no best to you,
> >
> > Aditya Bondyopadhyay
> >
> >
> >
> >
> > 2009/5/5 Lemony Lime 
> >
> > >
> > >
> > >
> > > Please help I am cought by police on May 05 2009!
> > >
> > > I am Nikhil..I am 22
> > >
> > > I was in a Black Car and My Boy friend is 16 years old. He was giving
> me a
> > > blow job in my car. The cop saw him giving me a blow job and his shirt
> was
> > > fully open. We both are maharashtrians so we spoke to him and convinced
> him
> > > in marathi.
> > >
> > > But the fact is the cop didnt even ask me for papers of my car and
> didnt
> > > even took my driving liscence for checking. He blindly asked me for our
> > > mobile numbers, addresses and names and my car reg. number and told
> that he
> > > will call us tomorrow to the police station , file a case and charge us
> 1200
> > > rupees. He being 16 and a bottom would be free...but what about me. I
> am
> > > really scared about what to do now. I am not out to my parents! Is
> there any
> > > one who can help me..I dont know whats gonna happen tomorrow on May 6th
> in
> > > the police station...I am at home now and mailing this as I dont have
> any
> > > alternative as I am not out to any of my friends or family.
> > >
> > > If any ones online then please help me.
> > >
> > > My yahoo id is lime.lemony
> > >
> > > Thanks
> > >
> > > --
> > > Now surf faster and smarter ! Check out the new Firefox 3 - Yahoo!
> Edition
> > > * Click here!<
> http://in.rd.yahoo.com/tagline_firefox_1/*http://downloads.yahoo.com/in/firefox/?fr=om_email_firefox
> >
> > >
> > >
> > >
> >
> >
> >
> > --
> > Do not print this mail unless really necessary.
> > Save paper, save trees..!!
> >
> > If you loose your way while SCUBA diving, the safest direction to head
> for
> > is UP..!!!
> >
>
>  
>

Re: g_b Please help I am cought by police on May 05 2009

[Tintin Mumbai India]

Adi,
True that having sex with a minor, even with his conscious, is equal to rape
as per our law.
But, mind it, that it was just a blow job.
(Most of the times, penetration is comes under unnatural sex).

Nikhil,
Be confident.
The cop was alone, and he does not have any proof that you were doing sex.
You can anytime deny this.
Be confident, face him in the police station.
And I am sure, you can walk off without any trouble.
Abhay.


On Tue, May 5, 2009 at 11:06 PM, Aditya Bondyopadhyay
wrote:

>
>
> Consciously having sex with someone who is 16 YO qualifies as statutory
> rape, and you qualify by your own confession therefore as a statutory
> rapist. There are certain lines I draw and Child sexual Abuse and Child
> Statutory Rape are those lines. I would rather leave you to face your own
> devices. I hope you face the full wrath of the music of your own actions.
>
> Best and no best to you,
>
> Aditya Bondyopadhyay
>
>
>
>
> 2009/5/5 Lemony Lime 
>
>>
>>
>>
>> Please help I am cought by police on May 05 2009!
>>
>> I am Nikhil..I am 22
>>
>> I was in a Black Car and My Boy friend is 16 years old. He was giving me a
>> blow job in my car. The cop saw him giving me a blow job and his shirt was
>> fully open. We both are maharashtrians so we spoke to him and convinced him
>> in marathi.
>>
>> But the fact is the cop didnt even ask me for papers of my car and didnt
>> even took my driving liscence for checking. He blindly asked me for our
>> mobile numbers, addresses and names and my car reg. number and told that he
>> will call us tomorrow to the police station , file a case and charge us 1200
>> rupees. He being 16 and a bottom would be free...but what about me. I am
>> really scared about what to do now. I am not out to my parents! Is there any
>> one who can help me..I dont know whats gonna happen tomorrow on May 6th in
>> the police station...I am at home now and mailing this as I dont have any
>> alternative as I am not out to any of my friends or family.
>>
>> If any ones online then please help me.
>>
>> My yahoo id is lime.lemony
>>
>> Thanks
>>
>> --
>> Now surf faster and smarter ! Check out the new Firefox 3 - Yahoo! Edition
>> * Click 
>> here!
>>
>>
>
>
> --
> Do not print this mail unless really necessary.
> Save paper, save trees..!!
>
> If you loose your way while SCUBA diving, the safest direction to head for
> is UP..!!!
>  
>

Re: g_b Waxing

[Tintin Mumbai India]

Hi Friend,
Chest is OK but do not go for waxing on gorin area / pubic hair.
Wax is a painful procedure and affects best on tight skin like chest, hands,
legs, back etc.
Better to use trimmer on groin area / on pubic hair. Now a days many hair
dresser do trim hair from chest and pubic hair, on extra cost.
Abhay


On Sun, Apr 19, 2009 at 1:59 AM, Rahul Singhal  wrote:

>
>
> Is there anyone in DELHI who can do waxing especially chest and groin area?
>
>
>

Re: g_b Stories

[Tintin Mumbai India]

Hi Frudo
There is a yahoo group called hindigaygroup4 (
groups.yahoo.com/group/hindigaygroup4)
It is not totally like nifty, but there you can find gay stories in indian
context.
I have visited www.nifty.org as well, and I am also member of
hindigaygroup4.
Believe me there is no much difference.
Abhay.



On Mon, Apr 6, 2009 at 2:45 PM, Frodo Grifins wrote:

>   Hi,
>
> I've been hooked to stories on Nifty, and have always thought why don't I
> ever get to read stories with Indian characters in the lead. So imagine my
> surprise when I saw the link to Apar and Krish. I finished 6 chapers at one
> go! Its amazing!Here's the link:
>
> http://nifty.bunkhouse.com/nifty/gay/college/apar-and-krish/
>
> Hugs and Bye,
> Frodo.
>
> --
> *From:* Ash Ash 
> *To:* gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com
> *Sent:* Thursday, March 19, 2009 9:45:57 PM
> *Subject:* g_b Stories
>
>  Hi All,
>
> Why dont we have few gay stories written by the group or posted atleast.
> Gay stories can be a medium to pass a message that gay life is not only sex
> but has lot of love in it.
> I was part of garamjism community in yahoo which is obselete now, probably
> we can start with same kind of stories here.
>
> Regards,
> Ashwin
>
> --
> Add more friends to your messenger and enjoy! Invite them 
> now.
>
>  
>

Re: g_b Are you straight or gay?

[Tintin Mumbai India]

Why to think in this way...
May be they want to make ppl to feel that everyone is same, so do not feel
bad about what you are... and continue what you are...
Think Positive man...
Anay.


On Tue, Mar 3, 2009 at 8:21 PM, Ash Ash  wrote:

>   even i was straing and many of my friends got it straight
> i guess its a forum to make ppl in india feel that they are not gay and
> straight so that they can stop gayism in india what say
>

Re: g_b Room on Sharing Basis for one month Reqd.

[Tintin Mumbai India]

Hello Vikrant,
I agree with you that I should had gone to ADs on the Net or to a Property
Dealer.
But the thing is,
1) Person is Gay so if a gay can arrange the facility, it would be best for
him.
2) No one is ready professionally to put efforts for just 1 month tenure.
Hence, I thought if my friend can be helped by someone here, and that person
can share the expenses for a month period.
I hope, I did not agitated many...
Abahy.


On Wed, Feb 18, 2009 at 4:32 PM, vikrant mehra
wrote:

>   Hi,
> It is one of good option to put requirement here,but try through add on net
> or with the help of property dealer.
>
>  --
> *From:* Tintin Mumbai India 
> *To:* gb...@yahoogroups.com; gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com; B G <
> gaybom...@yahoogroups.com>
> *Sent:* Wednesday, 18 February, 2009 3:09:36 PM
> *Subject:* g_b Room on Sharing Basis for one month Reqd.
>
>  Hello Guys,
> A friend of mine (Indian) from UK is visiting Mumbai this may, for a month.
> And he does not like to stay in a hotel (may be as for a month it would be
> very costly).
> He is Gay and will have friends visiting him (not so often).
>
> His Requirement is "A Room with AC, Attached Bath & Toilet, with Basic
> amenities" either on individual basis or in a 2BHK as flat sharing basis.
> i.e. if someone:
> 1) Has one BHK available for Rent for a month, in May 2009.
> 2) Is staying in 2BHK, and ready to subletting (not in papers) one of the
> bedroom for a month in May 2009.
> Then it would be best.
>
> If anyone is interested in the offer, pl write back Personal Replies, so we
> can discuss the things further.
>
> Moderator,
> Pl let me know if there is any other group for such kind of requests.
>
> Abhay.
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g_b Room on Sharing Basis for one month Reqd.

[Tintin Mumbai India]

Hello Guys,
A friend of mine (Indian) from UK is visiting Mumbai this may, for a month.
And he does not like to stay in a hotel (may be as for a month it would be
very costly).
He is Gay and will have friends visiting him (not so often).

His Requirement is "A Room with AC, Attached Bath & Toilet, with Basic
amenities" either on individual basis or in a 2BHK as flat sharing basis.
i.e. if someone:
1) Has one BHK available for Rent for a month, in May 2009.
2) Is staying in 2BHK, and ready to subletting (not in papers) one of the
bedroom for a month in May 2009.
Then it would be best.

If anyone is interested in the offer, pl write back Personal Replies, so we
can discuss the things further.

Moderator,
Pl let me know if there is any other group for such kind of requests.

Abhay.

क्या 'जीबी' / 'जी_बी' पर हम अपनी मेल्स हिन्दी में लिख सकते हैं? / Can we write our mails on GB / G_B in Hindi Script?

[Tintin Mumbai India]

===
Hello Moderator & Hello Readers of GB / G_B,

I was planning to write this mail since a long, but today it could happen.

We have seen people from many nations, using their own language (Arabi,
Urdu, Japanease, Chinease, Russian) in their mails and mesengers. Even they
promote the same. But I dont know why we indians do not feel proud in same.
We either hesitate or feel backward using Hindi in mails / signatures /
messangers.
(Believe me, it is not true that most of the readers of the group do not
understand english. Only 5% or so indians understand english and same ratio
/ percentage is replicated in any other general group).

Anyways, is it possible that we promote mails written in Hindi on our GB /
G_B channels? In other words, if one wants to imote his feelings in his own
language / script, in his mails, articles, questions - answers, we
moderators allow the same to be posted on the group?

I dont say that I am disrespecting English or other languages, or writing in
those, or by allowing mails etc in Hindi script will degrade the mails
written in english.

If we talk technically, such mails (containing text in Hindi / Devnagri
Script) are just text in Unicode, so it is like anyother text, hence, there
would not be a threat of Spam, Virus, Spyware etc by these mails.

It is possible that people resist on these mails initially, it is also
possible that my idea flops or we (writers of the mails) have to write the
mail in both scripts, if we want to really communicate our matter.

And I am not asking for posting the main mails in Hindi, but only the
personal mails, and personal questions and replies to the questions.

In the end, I would like to know if there is any policy of GB / G_B, which
stops mails written in other scripts, from being posted on the group?

Thanks to Read my mail,
Abhay.

g_b "Pyaar Do Pyaar Lo" - Jaanbaaz

[Tintin Mumbai India]

Hi Guys
Today, being lazy, I was watching TV and while flipping the channels, I
stopped at "Zee Action" where the Song "Pyaar Do - Pyaar Lo" from the Movie
"Jaanbaaz" was being played.

What made me to stop at it, was its theme and the era it was picturised
in...

Surely when the song was picturised, the time was to show the female skin as
much as possible...
but opposite to that, the song was totally an Eye Treat for Gay and Girls...

During the whole sequence, In Background many well toned guys (they were
looking whites) guys were dancing in bare minimum cloths.
Infact I should not say they were wearing cloth.
They were wearing kind of G Strings (Yes, G Strings as when they did Cart
Wheel or Jumped showing their back, their butt cheeks were clearly visible).
Just to cover their crotch bulges and butt cheeks, they had additional layer
of febric, which was leaves like thing, made of some febric.


Shame on today's Bollywood movies, which are nowhere close to this...

Abhay

g_b Is it True? Symptoms of AIDS in early stage?

[Tintin Mumbai India]

Hi Guys,

There was a local discussion going on in my friend circle, and then it
turned to discussion on AIDS.
During that discussion, many things / myths were talked about and many of us
were not clear about few things.
Guys were simply floating the information which they thought is true.
Some of those I would like to get clarified on the group.
Here are those:

1) Are there any symptoms of HIV Infection in early stage, or like as soon
as a person is infected of HIV?
2) Do one start having cough and cold often and more regular, once he is HIV
infected?
3) Do one start facing dandruff problem more often after HIV infection?

Re: g_b Cruising places in Mumbai

[Tintin Mumbai India]

Hi Mile,
I would also like to suggest you cruising on:
www.guys4men.com
www.gaydar.co.uk
www.gaydia.com
www.gayromeo.com
(In order of popularity amoung Mumbai gays).
And if you are OK to attend the parties, then GB parties are also a good way
to interact other gays of Mumbai.
Abhay.


On Thu, Jan 15, 2009 at 5:03 PM, mmss_98in  wrote:

>   Hi,
>
> I am looking for safe cruising places in MumbaiI have tried CST
> station and churchgate station but didnt like it much. I heard that
> Andheri station platform 5 is also a good place specially the loo on
> the station to hook up with guys. Any experience one can share with me.
> Thanks
> Mile
>
> ==
>
> as much as i am for safe meeting places for lgbt in mumbai , i doubt if ANY
> place is safe. plz take precautions. i have heard horror stories about
> andheri/bandra and churchgate loos where predators have been preying on
> victims, often blackmailing them /extorting money etc. no loos are safe nor
> are the gardens.. i may be wrong about maheshwari udyan... it use to be
> decent meeting ground.. not sure how it is now
>
> please read
>
> www.gaybombay.in wesbite.. there is special section on such incidents.
>
> regards
>
> moderator
>  
>

Re: g_b Vote for Bigg Boss Inmate - Ashu (Gay Connection, Read On :))

[Tintin Mumbai India]

I wish, Julfi were...
Raja & Ashu are Hopeless...


On Thu, Nov 20, 2008 at 11:02 AM, Aham <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:

>   Zulfi Zulfi Zulfi!
>
> (correct?)
>

Re: g_b guy frm Indian horror movie Veerana

[Tintin Mumbai India]

He was shown in another movie "Devine Lovers".
He played a dumb model for an Idol Maker.
Many erotic scenes were shown in that movie between Hemant and Lead Acress
of the movie.
In one scene, the Idol Maker, in anger, holds the balls of Hemant and tries
to crush same... (Though it was not shown but depiction was same).
Abhay.


On Sat, Sep 20, 2008 at 10:49 PM, nicky b <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:

>   he is Hemant Birje
>
> Here is more of Mr. Hemant Birje (aka Tarzan)
>
> Tarzan My Tarzan:  http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UsrSSLbiuLQ
>
> TARZAN Captured:  http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OpBh9IALCDM
>
> Hemant Scene:   http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zf-ERn0qdlc
>
> Nick
>  - Original Message 
> From: nicky b <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>
> To: gb gb <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>; G_B ; g
> j <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>; Pak g <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>
> Sent: Saturday, September 20, 2008 7:47:56 PM
> Subject: g_b guy frm Indian horror movie Veerana
>
>   Hi...
>
> Check this video... he was the hotest guy in the indian flim industry.
>
>
> http://www.youtube. com/watch? 
> v=tVZ8-aGEfdc
>
> Nicky
>
>
>  
>

Re: g_b Freinds in NYC or Queens NY area?

[Tintin Mumbai India]

Hey Man,
Now a days, everyone knows that PAKI is a slang, which is almost banned from
any cultured conversation.
You use the word PAKI for a person whom you want to meet or chat, while
calling yourself "Great Blonde...".

Why did not prefer to call yourself BLONDE which is again well known as DUMB
GUYS?

I dont want to hurt anyone, but on the otherside, one should also respect
others.
You could use "Indian Origin" / South Asian, which is well accepted term for
people from India, Pakistan, Bangaladesh etc.

Abhay.



On Tue, Sep 9, 2008 at 1:00 AM, G GeoM <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:

>Just reaching out to any gay or bi indi or paki men in NYC or Queens
> NYC that would like to chat or meet up with a great blonde blue eyed NY'ker?
>
> please send a note direct to my email [EMAIL PROTECTED]
>
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g_b New Ad from Virgin Mobile for Yoyo Plan - Does Gay mean a Feminine Male?

[Tintin Mumbai India]

Hi Guys,

I dont know if you have noticed it or not. Incase the AD has not been
noticed, here is the scenario.

2 guys, friends, are in hospital with pastered limbs.

Guy1 when being attended by a female nurse gets ring from Guy2
(intentionally) and makes Nurse to check for his mobile phone in his pant
pockets, and hence to touch him.

Once Nurse leaves, he picks the call from his friend in another ward,
stating that its his turn now.

When Guy2's phone is made to ring, a male nurse enters to his room.

Now here is the point to be noted:
This male nurse is shown feminine by look, walk and feel.

I wanted to know wasnt it shown deliberately?
I can understand that they wanted to show PAKCHA / KLPD or whatever for
Guy2, when he was expecting same beautiful female nurse.

They could had shown an ugly fat female nurse, or like a bear tpye male
nurse, or simply a male nurse without any feminine act.

Dont know how it should be taken but for me, it is wrong way of portray for
a gay as a feminine male character.
Or is it simplest way to portray a gay?

Abhay.

g_b This time, it was Me. - Kurla Loo - Evening of Sept 13, 2008

[Tintin Mumbai India]

Hi Guys,

This Sat, it happened with me too.
But I dont feel ashamed of the incidence, just because I think, I can share
some of good and bad points from my experience.

It was about Evening of Sat Sept 13, 2008. and I was coming from Dadar to
Kurla.
Platform No I dont remember.
In the end of the Platform, there was a loo under dark, no lights.

Like any other normal gay, I too was tempted to visit the loo and found a
guy showing off.
Cutting it short, the point is I got tempted to touch him (his).

He left the loo and as soon as I came out, he was with another guy, and they
caught me.
I knew what is gonna go happen. One of those (the first one) held me from
collar of shirt (which I feel very offensive).

Before he could start something, I started shouting at both of those.
I started swearing at the level higher than their.
When they tried to threatened me that they are cops, and showed me the ID, I
shouted back, that I know what is that.
I also shouted that they have made it business and they net the innocent
guys in this way and rob them.

Believe me, before I started shouting and even after (even before they knew
that they have netted a wrong prey), they never spoke anything gay or like
that.
(Like gud hai too, ya, yahaan gaandu giri karne aata hai... etc etc).
My point is, they themselves do not talk about it very clearly.

Anyways, as soon as I started shouting, they found that I am a wrong prey
and better to leave.
They left in the warning mode, as if they are real cops.



Now:
Why I am telling you all about my stupidity?

I accept that it was a foolish act, but sometimes when you commit a mistake
it is better to handle it with quick calm mind, rather than falling deep
into net.
And it is also good to share the tips and tricks you did to come out of the
net, which may be useful to others too, in same or similar situation.
I dont know what it could had impacted and how heavily, if those were real
cops.
But Worst could be like I had been really blackmailed, and they had taken a
lot of money as bribe. But that was going to happen in anycase in this scene
too, if I had fallen soft as they wanted.

I know after seeing this mail from me, many of my friends over the group
will scold me.
But, I am ready to listen all that, I deserve that.
But it was also necessary to tell the group about it.

One more request to you guys:
If anything happens like this, when you are around, dont stay away assuming
"Thank God it was not me". It could be you too, if the god were not generous
to you.
Just like those blackmailers or false cops, we also can be grouped in same
situation.

If two guys could run away from the scene, just seeing me alone in fighting
mode, suppose what could be done if I had been supported there itself by
someone like me.
I am sure, if two of us were there at the scene, those blackmailers could be
taught a nice lesson.
(Dont know if that had been a nice handle for the situation or not).

Abhay.

Re: Fw: g_b olympics broze medal winner, indian boxer vijender.. cute guy:)

[Tintin Mumbai India]

And you know he is not shy to undress...
I mean, so many topless pix of Vijen... and so good body... our own india
made greek god...
I hope soon we get his more naughty pix...
Tintin.


On Sun, Aug 24, 2008 at 11:28 AM, nicky b <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:

>   He is hot!!!...
>
> Nick
>
> - Forwarded Message 
> From: gay_bombay moderator <[EMAIL PROTECTED]>
> To: gay_bombay@yahoogroups.com
> Sent: Saturday, August 23, 2008 11:37:26 PM
> Subject: g_b olympics broze medal winner, indian boxer vijender.. cute
> guy:)
>
>
>
>
>
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> www.gaybombay. info 
>
>  
>

g_b Any Professional Photographer here?

[Tintin Mumbai India]

Hi,

Hope this mail of mine does not trigger another chain of mails.

I have a friend, a straight guy, who is photographer.
He is inexperienced photographer, as much as assignments are
concerned. But he is full of enthusiasm and ideas and imaginations.

I am open to him and he also knows that I am member of some gay
groups, hence he wanted some help from me.

He has got some assignments from some aspiring models and the
assignments are mostly clicking them in sensual way, some topless or
some nudes even... (with light arrangements to hide their faces or
privates..)

Being a new comer, he is little worried about indian laws about
photography and publishing them.

So he wanted to know, if clicking nudes of a male and publishing them
(or keeping them with him) is an issue as per the law.

The reason to ask the query here is, the assignments are mostly for
male pictures, and mostly sensual in nature, nude or semi nude...

If anyone can provide some information, it would be great help.

A.

g_b Info on Vienna, Austria

[Tintin Mumbai India]

Hi All,
The mail "Info on Edinburg" made me to write this mail.

I am also planning to visit Vienna, Austria as tourist, may be this
weekend or next.
So if anyone can help me to know what to visit as a tourist and what
to visit as gay guy in Vienna, I would be grateful to you.
I will be there for 2 full days.
I will reach there on Friday night and will leave Monday morning.

A.

g_b Does Saliva at privates create any problem?

[Tintin Mumbai India]

Hi All,

Just being curious...
If one is licked, intensely, on his privates, Inner thighs, Arsehole
and around...
And left it just like that for few hours, unwashed until next bath,
does it create any problem?
I know it should be washed as soon as possible, but in winters just
being lazy one can delay that...

A.

Re: g_b Harsh becomes a gay designer!

[Tintin Mumbai India]

So Ridiculous...
As if all of the gays are funny only, no serious gay around?
Or as if being gay should be a characteristic which should be easily
visible by looking at a person, or like being gay can be noticed with
specific dress or attire...
If this article is true, then it was not expected from Madhur's House...
Abhay.

On Jan 10, 2008 9:21 AM, naughty confessions
<[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote:
>
>
>
>
>
>
>
>
>
>
> Harsh Chayya (TOI Photo)
>
>
>  Harsh becomes a gay designer!
> 6 Jan 2008,  hrs IST,TNN
>
>
>
> Director Madhur Bhandarkar has finally found his 'gay designer' for Fashion.
>
>
> And guess who's finalised for the role? Harsh Chhaya! Harsh, no doubt, is a
> good actor, but because of his serious image on screen, it does come as a
> surprise that he'll be playing a gay designer.
> "I put in a lot of effort to get this role," smiles Harsh. "I first read
> somewhere that Madhur was looking for an actor to play this character. I got
> in touch with him and told him I could do a very good job. But things didn't
> work out then. Later someone from his office told me there was nothing gay
> about me so maybe I didn't suit the role!"
>
> That's when Harsh planned a getup for himself. He bought a wig, some clothes
> to go with the look and screen-tested himself. "I edited it myself and made
> a 5-minute DVD which I gave Madhur along with some stills. I just told him
> to watch it for my sake. It did not matter if he cast me or not," says
> Harsh. In five days, he was finalised for the role!
>
> So why was he so keen on this particular role? "It's something totally
> different from what I have done so far. For an actor, it's the body of work
> that matters. I want to do varied roles. The roles I played in Laaga Chunari
> Main Daag and earlier Corporate were very different too. There's another
> film Mithiya where I play a gangster." He adds, "There are very few
> opportunities of this kind available to an actor in a span of his career. I
> saw one here and I had to at least try for it for my own sake."
>
> Apart from his own effort, Harsh also highlights the director's openness in
> giving him a chance. "Nowadays successful directors have no time for anyone
> and often they've already made up their mind about who to cast. But Madhur
> gave me the opportunity to put across myself. That's commendable about him."
> Meanwhile, Harsh continues to balance work on the big and small screen. On
> TV currently, he is seen in Ghar Ek Sapna and Love Story. And his effort to
> do different kinds of roles continues whichever the medium.
>
>  
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