Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: compassion

2013-07-04 Thread Share Long
f The Conspirator about Mary Surrat played by Robin Wright who I like and starring James McAvoy as her lawyer who I really like. From: "doctordumb...@rocketmail.com" To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com Sent: Wednesday, July 3, 2013 11:20 AM Subject: [Fa

[FairfieldLife] Re: compassion

2013-07-03 Thread seventhray27
Hey, fair enough Jim. Whether I agree with them or not, I do think you make your points in a creative manner. (-: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, doctordumbass@... wrote: > > Its cool, Steve. No longer worth pursuing, on my end. I will, however, continue to treat Barry as if he is eternal

[FairfieldLife] Re: compassion

2013-07-03 Thread seventhray27
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Ravi Chivukula wrote: > > Yay Stevie - the charitable, blessed wisdom of the Heartland Retard !!! > > I would say Barry is expressing a "difference of opinion", he has a few > blind spots - am I right? He is working on a cutting-edge project for a > cutting-e

[FairfieldLife] Re: compassion

2013-07-03 Thread seventhray27
is it an art or a science, this Barryology you've developed? what have you discovered on different days of the week, or throughout the day? any moon phase correlations? sunspot activity? clue the rest of us in on what you've come up with? it seems fascinating! --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups

Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: compassion

2013-07-03 Thread Ravi Chivukula
doubly when it comes to family tragedies. *From:* Ann *To:* FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com *Sent:* Tuesday, July 2, 2013 7:53 PM *Subject:* [FairfieldLife] Re: compassion --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com <mailto:FairfieldLife%40yahoogroups.com>, turquoiseb wr

[FairfieldLife] Re: compassion

2013-07-03 Thread doctordumbass
Its cool, Steve. No longer worth pursuing, on my end. I will, however, continue to treat Barry as if he is eternal and universal, no matter what that may look like to you, or others. --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "seventhray27" wrote: > > I'm sorry Jim, I just don't follow you. > I me

Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: compassion

2013-07-03 Thread Ravi Chivukula
Yay Stevie - the charitable, blessed wisdom of the Heartland Retard !!! I would say Barry is expressing a "difference of opinion", he has a few blind spots - am I right? He is working on a cutting-edge project for a cutting-edge company - ergo happiest man, am I right? Anything else I missed

[FairfieldLife] Re: compassion

2013-07-03 Thread seventhray27
I'm sorry Jim, I just don't follow you. I mean your dislike of Barry is either 8 out of 10 or 10 out of 10. I usually don't comment until it gets above 8 out of 10. Sort of like Ravi, (and Judy for that matter), who seem astounded at the lows to which Barry can touch each week on a daily basis. I

Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: compassion

2013-07-03 Thread Ravi Chivukula
mmm..not really - these are Barry's usual tactics. When he is outrageously dishonest he makes several unrelated posts to create an illusion that he's the actual Judy, the truthful, disinterested one. That he's not the one who's dishonest, he's not the one who's sociopathic, he's not the one who

[FairfieldLife] Re: compassion

2013-07-03 Thread doctordumbass
FYI, if you haven't noticed, Barry's posts have returned to a semblance of civility. Mission accomplished, and yes, I accept your thanks. --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, doctordumbass@... wrote: > > "But Jim, feeling a little more peeved than usual at Barry about something, > felt the nee

[FairfieldLife] Re: compassion

2013-07-03 Thread doctordumbass
"But Jim, feeling a little more peeved than usual at Barry about something, felt the need to chime in with an "Amen"." Completely off the mark, Steve. I was merely trying to clear the air. I am curious why you keep harping on this boundary crossing of mine. I cannot help but ask you, now that

[FairfieldLife] Re: compassion

2013-07-03 Thread doctordumbass
Here's a tiny violin and a hanky. Perhaps you want to think as deeply about wantonly hurting others, instead of once again feeling sorry for yourself. --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Ravi Chivukula wrote: > > The level of your dishonesty is mind-boggling Barry. > > I'm glad to hear your

Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: compassion

2013-07-03 Thread Ravi Chivukula
The level of your dishonesty is mind-boggling Barry. I'm glad to hear your public gloating of this incident with your brother. If at all I had any doubts about your narcissistic, sociopathic, sadistic traits this narration of your tale clinched it, this cold, callous insensitivity to your brot

[FairfieldLife] Re: compassion

2013-07-03 Thread seventhray27
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "Ann" wrote: > Get the timeline and the events here straight Steve. Go back and have a look. Read what Barry has had to say about Jim and Jim's brother now and many posts ago and then draw some reasonable conclusions. Figure out which bandwagon you want to l

[FairfieldLife] Re: compassion

2013-07-03 Thread turquoiseb
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "Ann" wrote: > > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, doctordumbass@ wrote: > > > > My comments about Barry sharing the same DNA as his > > crazy brother were not meant to be all that funny, > > just a pointer to his unstable and antisocial > > tendencies

[FairfieldLife] Re: compassion

2013-07-03 Thread doctordumbass
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long wrote: > > Yikes, Doc! I did miss that. Actually I misinterpreted it, being totally > triggered by my own stuff about that kind of thing. Thanks for pointing it > out. My official diagnosis is Attachment Disorder No biggie, there is a lot of t

Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: compassion

2013-07-03 Thread Share Long
dnesday, July 3, 2013 11:06 AM Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: compassion   "I too have sent Barry birthday greetings, though he has never reciprocated." I think you missed this part. :-) --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long wrote: > > Ok, Doc, I think what I do

[FairfieldLife] Re: compassion

2013-07-03 Thread doctordumbass
> > > From: "doctordumbass@..." > To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com > Sent: Wednesday, July 3, 2013 7:56 AM > Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: compassion > > > >   > Hi Share, I am afraid you are possibly getting l

[FairfieldLife] Re: compassion

2013-07-03 Thread doctordumbass
I really do not care what anyone says about me, if they own their shit. He never does, so I think of him as a pussy and a coward. --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "Ann" wrote: > > > > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, doctordumbass@ wrote: > > > > I specifically targeted Barry, and h

[FairfieldLife] Re: compassion

2013-07-03 Thread Ann
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "seventhray27" wrote: > > > > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, doctordumbass@ wrote: > > > > I specifically targeted Barry, and his punching his brother in the > stomach, because I wanted to respond to him, as he does others, and get > his attention.

[FairfieldLife] Re: compassion

2013-07-03 Thread Ann
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, doctordumbass@... wrote: > > I specifically targeted Barry, and his punching his brother in the stomach, > because I wanted to respond to him, as he does others, and get his attention. > I would do exactly the same thing again, if necessary. Instead of get

Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: compassion

2013-07-03 Thread Share Long
ve crossed some lines too. Something else for me to be more conscious about. From: "doctordumb...@rocketmail.com" To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com Sent: Wednesday, July 3, 2013 7:56 AM Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: compassion   Hi Share, I am afra

[FairfieldLife] Re: compassion

2013-07-03 Thread Ann
go, something about making family off limits. > > I think this applies doubly when it comes to family tragedies. > > > ____ > From: Ann > To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com > Sent: Tuesday, July 2, 2013 7:53 PM > Subject: [Fairfield

[FairfieldLife] Re: compassion

2013-07-03 Thread Ann
go, something about making family off limits. > > I think this applies doubly when it comes to family tragedies. > > > ____ > From: Ann > To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com > Sent: Tuesday, July 2, 2013 7:53 PM > Subject: [Fairfield

[FairfieldLife] Re: compassion

2013-07-03 Thread doctordumbass
Works for me, Steve. Perhaps I am over the shock factor too, about much of this. I have experienced so much death of friends and family, that I see it more as part of life, now, than some scary finality. The temporary loss of a loved one remains real, though. --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.c

[FairfieldLife] Re: compassion

2013-07-03 Thread seventhray27
No problem Jim. Simply a matter of which boundaries to cross. I have what I feel to be appropriate boundaries that I wouldn't cross, and you have yours. If I feel someone is out of bounds, I will say something, and then move on. --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, doctordumbass@... wrote: >

[FairfieldLife] Re: compassion

2013-07-03 Thread doctordumbass
> > > From: Ann > To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com > Sent: Tuesday, July 2, 2013 7:53 PM > Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: compassion > > > >   > > > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb wrote: > > > > ---

[FairfieldLife] Re: compassion

2013-07-03 Thread doctordumbass
Give me a break, Steve. You have become so accustomed to Barry's lack of accountability and distortion, that you are coming after ME?? Yes, I always act with integrity, and if I sometimes communicate in a provocative way, that tramples boundaries, so be it. I have nothing to apologize for. As

[FairfieldLife] Re: compassion

2013-07-03 Thread seventhray27
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, doctordumbass@... wrote: > > I specifically targeted Barry, and his punching his brother in the stomach, because I wanted to respond to him, as he does others, and get his attention. I would do exactly the same thing again, if necessary. Instead of getting my

[FairfieldLife] Re: compassion

2013-07-03 Thread doctordumbass
I specifically targeted Barry, and his punching his brother in the stomach, because I wanted to respond to him, as he does others, and get his attention. I would do exactly the same thing again, if necessary. Instead of getting my point, the best be could do was criticize the fact that my brothe

[FairfieldLife] Re: compassion

2013-07-03 Thread seventhray27
ly when it comes to family tragedies. > > > > From: Ann awoelflebater@... > To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com > Sent: Tuesday, July 2, 2013 7:53 PM > Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: compassion > > > > Â > > > --- In Fairfield

Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: compassion

2013-07-03 Thread Share Long
think this applies doubly when it comes to family tragedies. From: Ann To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com Sent: Tuesday, July 2, 2013 7:53 PM Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: compassion   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb wrote: > > ---

[FairfieldLife] Re: compassion

2013-07-02 Thread Ann
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb wrote: > > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long wrote: > > > > turq, I'm sorry about your brother. It sounds like you > > cared about him a lot. Hope you all had some good times too. > > He was a funny guy, and yes, we had some good

[FairfieldLife] Re: compassion

2013-07-02 Thread Ann
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb wrote: > > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "Ann" wrote: > > > > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long wrote: > > > > > > Judy to Ann about Share: She ignored a bunch of the > > > questions I asked her too. Share replies: now wh

[FairfieldLife] Re: compassion

2013-07-02 Thread doctordumbass
Good God, Barry, Quit sucking your goddamned thumb. --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb wrote: > > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long wrote: > > > > turq, I'm sorry about your brother. It sounds like you > > cared about him a lot. Hope you all had some good times too

[FairfieldLife] Re: compassion

2013-07-02 Thread turquoiseb
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long wrote: > > turq, I'm sorry about your brother. It sounds like you > cared about him a lot. Hope you all had some good times too. He was a funny guy, and yes, we had some good times before the alcoholism got to him. It's a scary disease, and alcoh

Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: compassion

2013-07-02 Thread Share Long
turq, I'm sorry about your brother. It sounds like you cared about him a lot. Hope you all had some good times too. From: turquoiseb To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com Sent: Monday, July 1, 2013 9:09 AM Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: compassion   -

[FairfieldLife] Re: compassion

2013-07-02 Thread turquoiseb
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "Ann" wrote: > > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long wrote: > > > > Judy to Ann about Share: She ignored a bunch of the > > questions I asked her too. Share replies: now who's > > being juvenile and an obstinate child? I vote for Judy. > > As

[FairfieldLife] Re: compassion

2013-07-02 Thread Ann
uthfriend > To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com > Sent: Monday, July 1, 2013 11:27 PM > Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: compassion > > > >   > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "Ann" wrote: > > > > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long wr

Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: compassion

2013-07-02 Thread Share Long
_ From: authfriend To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com Sent: Monday, July 1, 2013 11:27 PM Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: compassion   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "Ann" wrote: > > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long wrote: > > > &g

Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: compassion

2013-07-02 Thread Share Long
miss sometimes. From: turquoiseb To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com Sent: Tuesday, July 2, 2013 1:48 AM Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: compassion   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "authfriend" wrote: > > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "Ann&qu

Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: compassion

2013-07-02 Thread Share Long
IMO Ann, this is about staying on track with a valid question between adults. YMMV From: Ann To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com Sent: Monday, July 1, 2013 10:01 PM Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: compassion   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share

[FairfieldLife] Re: compassion

2013-07-01 Thread turquoiseb
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "authfriend" wrote: > > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "Ann" wrote: > > > > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long wrote: > > > > > > Back to my original question: did you and your sister > > > ever engage in physical fighting? > > > > If

[FairfieldLife] Re: compassion

2013-07-01 Thread authfriend
h to try and beat me up. I was surprised that violence > could erupt so quickly but I think I deserved it for throwing that book at > her. In fact, I am sure I deserved every bit of it. > > > > > > > > From: authfriend > > To: FairfieldLif

[FairfieldLife] Re: compassion

2013-07-01 Thread Ann
deserved it for throwing that book at her. In fact, I am sure I deserved every bit of it. > > > > From: authfriend > To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com > Sent: Monday, July 1, 2013 11:06 AM > Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: compassion >

[FairfieldLife] Re: compassion

2013-07-01 Thread Ann
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, doctordumbass@... wrote: > > No, I don't mean Richard or Judy. I specifically meant you, Barry, when I > referred to 'mean people'. Your posts are often gratuitous jabs at others. > They create enmity, and tension, which you apparently enjoy, when it is ai

[FairfieldLife] Re: compassion

2013-07-01 Thread authfriend
uccessfully with adults anyway (as you should have realized long since). > > From: authfriend > To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com > Sent: Monday, July 1, 2013 11:06 AM > Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: compassion > > > >   > --- In Fairfiel

Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: compassion

2013-07-01 Thread Share Long
ome of his political/social ideas. Back to my original question: did you and your sister ever engage in physical fighting? From: authfriend To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com Sent: Monday, July 1, 2013 11:06 AM Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: compassion

[FairfieldLife] Re: compassion

2013-07-01 Thread authfriend
said that. I would say that it's you who is engaging in the "dirty fighting" you attribute to me here, except that you're obviously such a dimwit you don't even know that's what you're doing. > ____ > From: authfriend >

[FairfieldLife] Re: compassion

2013-07-01 Thread doctordumbass
I guess I am more practical than you are, Steve. You can get even the biggest asshole's attention, by criticizing something personal of theirs. Gotta speak their language, know your audience. Can't go to Germany, for example, and speak Swahili. --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "seventhra

[FairfieldLife] Re: compassion

2013-07-01 Thread doctordumbass
No, I don't mean Richard or Judy. I specifically meant you, Barry, when I referred to 'mean people'. Your posts are often gratuitous jabs at others. They create enmity, and tension, which you apparently enjoy, when it is aimed at others. Then, all the falsehoods and digs in the world can't stop

[FairfieldLife] Re: compassion

2013-07-01 Thread seventhray27
You know what Jim, I'm a pansy. I'm a 219 lb. weakling, because I tend to feel that, just like politics, it's best to leave ones family out of fray. --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, doctordumbass@... wrote: > > More to the point, Steve, as the motto says, "Mean People Suck". So for those who

[FairfieldLife] Re: compassion

2013-07-01 Thread Richard J. Williams
doctordumbass: > So, Barry punched his brother very hard in the stomach... > According to what I've read, Barry punched his brother in the solar plexus, but not very hard, to prove Barry's point about 'idealism'. The cognitive dissonance is when Barry later posted his belief in 'free will', wh

[FairfieldLife] Re: compassion

2013-07-01 Thread turquoiseb
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, doctordumbass@... wrote: > > More to the point, Steve, as the motto says, "Mean > People Suck". So for those who spew a lot, it is > helpful for them to shut their mouths, and swallow > their pride, once in awhile. It improves everybody's > digestion. Gee

[FairfieldLife] Re: compassion

2013-07-01 Thread doctordumbass
More to the point, Steve, as the motto says, "Mean People Suck". So for those who spew a lot, it is helpful for them to shut their mouths, and swallow their pride, once in awhile. It improves everybody's digestion. --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "seventhray27" wrote: > > > Pretty mean s

[FairfieldLife] Re: compassion

2013-07-01 Thread doctordumbass
Try me. :-) --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "seventhray27" wrote: > > > Pretty mean stuff. Does this mean you have reckless gay tendencies Jim? > > > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, doctordumbass@ wrote: > > > > Yep, DNA. > > > > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb no

[FairfieldLife] Re: compassion

2013-07-01 Thread doctordumbass
Barry. Put. Down. The. Shovel. --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb wrote: > > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, doctordumbass@ wrote: > > > > Yep, DNA. > > FFL is nothing if not instructive. For example, it's > always interesting to learn how the "enlightened" think, > based u

[FairfieldLife] Re: compassion

2013-07-01 Thread seventhray27
Pretty mean stuff. Does this mean you have reckless gay tendencies Jim? --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, doctordumbass@... wrote: > > Yep, DNA. > > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb no_reply@ wrote: > > > > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, doctordumbass@ wrote: > > > >

[FairfieldLife] Re: compassion

2013-07-01 Thread seventhray27
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Ravi Chivukula wrote: > > So - real funny huh - this incident with your brother? I suppose even > blood relations do not matter when it comes to making yourself look good > over others - narcissistic? sociopathic? sadistic? What needs to be done > to make you

[FairfieldLife] Re: compassion

2013-07-01 Thread seventhray27
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "authfriend" wrote: > Actually he would be much more likely to say > something like this: > > "It seemed like the right thing to do at the time, > but in retrospect it was very wrong. In fact, I > needed that punch a lot more than my brother did. > I was the o

Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: compassion

2013-07-01 Thread Share Long
> think I was talking about adults. I'd say it was dumb, since my sentence > read: My guess is we've all done wrong and or stupid stuff at some point in > our lives. At some point in our lives would include childhood and teen years, > now wouldn't it? > &

[FairfieldLife] Re: compassion

2013-07-01 Thread turquoiseb
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, doctordumbass@... wrote: > > Yep, DNA. FFL is nothing if not instructive. For example, it's always interesting to learn how the "enlightened" think, based upon those on this forum who have claimed to be in that state. Would that be the same "DNA" that makes

[FairfieldLife] Re: compassion

2013-07-01 Thread doctordumbass
Yep, DNA. --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb wrote: > > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, doctordumbass@ wrote: > > > > Interesting thread from the past, Richard: So, Barry > > punched his brother very hard in the stomach, to stop > > him from beating up a neighbor, after the

[FairfieldLife] Re: compassion

2013-07-01 Thread doctordumbass
Excellent - Yes, self-liberation is not about being NICE to everyone, or doing some complicated mental maneuver, where we separate the actions from the actor. Universal compassion is recognizing each of us as eternal, and acting appropriately, in terms of that recognition. --- In FairfieldLif

[FairfieldLife] Re: compassion

2013-07-01 Thread nablusoss1008
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, doctordumbass@... wrote: > > My approach is that if someone is being an asshole and they are in my way, I > will say, "Get out of the way, asshole". It is the asshole who creates > themselves that way, and identifies with that behavior, so it is entirely

Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: compassion

2013-06-30 Thread Ravi Chivukula
On 6/30/13 9:59 PM, turquoiseb wrote: --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com , Share Long wrote: > > No Judy, I wouldn't expect you to be at all interested > in any post that was about universal compassion. Your > compassion seems limited to one person i

Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: compassion

2013-06-30 Thread Ravi Chivukula
So - real funny huh - this incident with your brother? I suppose even blood relations do not matter when it comes to making yourself look good over others - narcissistic? sociopathic? sadistic? What needs to be done to make you see this reality of yours - this sickening sadistic, sociopathic st

[FairfieldLife] Re: compassion

2013-06-30 Thread authfriend
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, turquoiseb wrote: > > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, doctordumbass@ wrote: > > > > Interesting thread from the past, Richard: So, Barry > > punched his brother very hard in the stomach, to stop > > him from beating up a neighbor, after the brother be

[FairfieldLife] Re: compassion

2013-06-30 Thread turquoiseb
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long wrote: > > No Judy, I wouldn't expect you to be at all interested > in any post that was about universal compassion. Your > compassion seems limited to one person in particular > and maybe 2 or 3 others. Think "Despicable Me," Share. Judy only

[FairfieldLife] Re: compassion

2013-06-30 Thread turquoiseb
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, doctordumbass@... wrote: > > Interesting thread from the past, Richard: So, Barry > punched his brother very hard in the stomach, to stop > him from beating up a neighbor, after the brother beat > up his Dad. Then you have Barry with his anti-social > tend

[FairfieldLife] Re: compassion

2013-06-30 Thread authfriend
about adults. I'd say it was dumb, since my sentence > read: My guess is we've all done wrong and or stupid stuff at some point in > our lives. At some point in our lives would include childhood and teen years, > now wouldn't it? > > > > __

Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: compassion

2013-06-30 Thread Share Long
nt: Sunday, June 30, 2013 5:46 PM Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: compassion   --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long wrote: > > Jeez, what a saint you've been Judy. You mean to tell me > that you and your sister never got into any hair pulling > fights?! Oh, I thoug

[FairfieldLife] Re: compassion

2013-06-30 Thread authfriend
> From: authfriend > To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com > Sent: Sunday, June 30, 2013 2:40 PM > Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: compassion > > > >   > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long wrote: > > > > My guess is we&

[FairfieldLife] Re: compassion

2013-06-30 Thread doctordumbass
Interesting thread from the past, Richard: So, Barry punched his brother very hard in the stomach, to stop him from beating up a neighbor, after the brother beat up his Dad. Then you have Barry with his anti-social tendencies, who is only prevented from physical abuse, by the distance between hi

Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: compassion

2013-06-30 Thread Share Long
ciety's responsibility to put wrong doers in circumstances where they can't harm those weaker than them. From: authfriend To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com Sent: Sunday, June 30, 2013 2:40 PM Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: compassion   --- In F

[FairfieldLife] Re: compassion

2013-06-30 Thread Richard J. Williams
> > My guess is we've all done wrong and or stupid stuff at some point > > in our lives including lying and physically hurting others even > > those we love. So I vote for pragmatic and universal compassion. > > Just to be clear, by pragmatic compassion I don't mean the allowing > > of abuse. I m

[FairfieldLife] Re: compassion

2013-06-30 Thread authfriend
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Share Long wrote: > > My guess is we've all done wrong and or stupid stuff at some point > in our lives including lying and physically hurting others even > those we love. So I vote for pragmatic and universal compassion. > Just to be clear, by pragmatic compa

[FairfieldLife] Re: compassion

2013-06-30 Thread doctordumbass
My approach is that if someone is being an asshole and they are in my way, I will say, "Get out of the way, asshole". It is the asshole who creates themselves that way, and identifies with that behavior, so it is entirely appropriate to call them out, personally, for such behavior, and to dislik

[FairfieldLife] Re: Compassion (to Robin) - again

2012-01-20 Thread turquoiseb
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Emily Reyn wrote: > > Whoops - a few corrections and I forgot the simple poem. Ha. > > I'm nobody. Who are you? > Are you nobody too? > Then there's a pair of us. > Don't tell - they'd banish us, you know. > > How dreary to be somebody, > How public - like

Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Compassion (to Robin) - again

2012-01-20 Thread Emily Reyn
e To an admiring bog.     ~Emily Dickinson From: Emily Reyn To: "FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com" Sent: Friday, January 20, 2012 1:10 AM Subject: Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Compassion (to Robin)   Dear Robin: I very much appreciate your response as it

Re: [FairfieldLife] Re: Compassion (to Robin)

2012-01-20 Thread Emily Reyn
s again for taking the time to respond to my question.  ~Em From: maskedzebra To: FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com Sent: Tuesday, January 17, 2012 12:52 AM Subject: [FairfieldLife] Re: Compassion (to Robin) --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Emily Reyn wrote

[FairfieldLife] Re: Compassion (to Robin)

2012-01-17 Thread maskedzebra
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Emily Reyn wrote: Dear Robin: Can you explain this statement below? I cut it out of the post it was in, but think that it can stand on its own without the surrounding context of what you were discussing then (the SC quote) - however I may be wrong there

[FairfieldLife] Re: 'Compassion Vs. Detatchment...'

2005-07-30 Thread sparaig
Look to the physiology... --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Robert Gimbel <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > > Anyone want to take a stab at this issue. It seems that we are going for both attributes on the path to Self- Realization...Detachment is mentioned on the Buddha literature and dogma,

[FairfieldLife] Re: 'Compassion Vs. Detatchment...'

2005-07-30 Thread Robert Gimbel
---Well Said.. In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, "authfriend" <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > --- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Robert Gimbel <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> > wrote: > > > > Anyone want to take a stab at this issue. It seems that we are > going for both attributes on the path to Self- >

[FairfieldLife] Re : 'Compassion Vs. Detatchment...'

2005-07-30 Thread Jason Spock
       

[FairfieldLife] Re: 'Compassion Vs. Detatchment...'

2005-07-30 Thread authfriend
--- In FairfieldLife@yahoogroups.com, Robert Gimbel <[EMAIL PROTECTED]> wrote: > > Anyone want to take a stab at this issue. It seems that we are going for both attributes on the path to Self- Realization...Detachment is mentioned on the Buddha literature and dogma, and detachment seems to be a