Re: Thoughts on gay marriage?

2004-02-15 Thread Trent Shipley
The gay marriage debate has caused me to reconsider government sponsorship of straight marriage. Marriage is a religious concept and government laws about _per se_ marriage violate the no-establishment clause. Government does need to regulate child custody, inheritance and so forth.

Canaan Colonies (was Tg Territories)

2004-02-15 Thread Trent Shipley
GU2 Defines them as Horst and Deemi. We could probably add Easter to this list. ___ http://www.mccmedia.com/mailman/listinfo/brin-l

Re: Canaan Colonies

2004-02-15 Thread Alberto Monteiro
Trent Shipley wrote: GU2 Defines them as Horst and Deemi. Yack! That escaped my grep! It's in Uplift War, Chapter 6 We could probably add Easter to this list. Maybe. Or maybe not. Canaan bears the meaning of a fertile place _after_ a desert. It would be a good name for colonies that Earth

Re: Canaan Colonies

2004-02-15 Thread Alberto Monteiro
I wrote: GU2 Defines them as Horst and Deemi. Yack! That escaped my grep! It's in Uplift War, Chapter 6 But then it contradicts Heaven's Reach, where the Canaan Colonies were taken by the Soro and Horst by the Tandu :-/ [another item for my list of contradictions...

Re: Thoughts on gay marriage?

2004-02-15 Thread Jim Sharkey
Tom Beck wrote: It's the word marriage that appears to have some mystical, totemic meaning for some lamebrained lazyminded easily stampeded credulous dolts (i.e., most of the American public). Well, add me to list of dolts then, Tom. I find myself in that very boat; I believe gays should

This Is Spinal Ta-, er, Metallica

2004-02-15 Thread Jim Sharkey
I know we have some music fans here, and I thought this might interest you: http://www.timesonline.co.uk/article/0,,7948-1000282,00.html An excerpt: A documentary about a heavy metal band, even one that has sold 90 million albums since 1991, is hardly steak and chips for the art-house

Re: Thoughts on gay marriage?

2004-02-15 Thread Erik Reuter
On Sun, Feb 15, 2004 at 09:43:12AM -0500, Jim Sharkey wrote: But the idea of calling it marriage does make me uncomfortable on some vague level I can't really explain. Product of my environment, Why should we care about your vague feeling? What gives you the right to take your vague feeling

Re: Thoughts on gay marriage?

2004-02-15 Thread Michael Harney
From: Jim Sharkey [EMAIL PROTECTED] Tom Beck wrote: It's the word marriage that appears to have some mystical, totemic meaning for some lamebrained lazyminded easily stampeded credulous dolts (i.e., most of the American public). Well, add me to list of dolts then, Tom. I find myself in

Re: Thoughts on gay marriage?

2004-02-15 Thread Jim Sharkey
Erik Reuter wrote: Why should we care about your vague feeling? Where did I say you should? What gives you the right to take your vague feeling of uncomfortable that you can't explain and impose it on someone else? And when did I do that? What makes your vague feeling more important than

Re: Thoughts on gay marriage?

2004-02-15 Thread Doug Pensinger
Jim wrote: But the idea of calling it marriage does make me uncomfortable on some vague level I can't really explain. Product of my environment, I suppose. I know the feeling, I used to feel that way. But after going over the feeling again and again in my head and being unable to come up

Re: Thoughts on gay marriage?

2004-02-15 Thread TomFODW
Well, add me to list of dolts then, Tom.  I find myself in that very boat; I believe gays should have the right to official unions.  Hell, why shouldn't *they* have to have the prospect of giving up half their stuff and arguing over who gets the coffee table if they break up same as

Re: Thoughts on gay marriage?

2004-02-15 Thread Robert Seeberger
- Original Message - From: Michael Harney [EMAIL PROTECTED] To: Killer Bs Discussion [EMAIL PROTECTED] Sent: Sunday, February 15, 2004 9:46 AM Subject: Re: Thoughts on gay marriage? From: Jim Sharkey [EMAIL PROTECTED] Tom Beck wrote: It's the word marriage that appears to

Re: Thoughts on gay marriage?

2004-02-15 Thread Jim Sharkey
Tom Beck wrote: I can't stop you feeling what you feel, but you need to ask yourself why you are so important that your feelings should be permitted to ruin the lives and happiness of people you don't even know. Is there some bizarre meme that's infected the members of this list that

Re: Thoughts on gay marriage?

2004-02-15 Thread TomFODW
Is there some bizarre meme that's infected the members of this list that dictates that every single person who dislikes something would *automatically* impose his will on others because of it?  Do you all simply have that low of an opinion of everyone else that you assume that no one on the

RE: Thoughts on gay marriage?

2004-02-15 Thread Mike Lee
Bryon Daly said: That said, while the MA SJC ruling is an amazing breakthrough, I wonder if it will in some ways harm the gay marriage cause almost as much as help it. I've thought about this too, and I've come down on the side of So what? Would Rosa Parks have sat tight if she'd

Re: Thoughts on gay marriage?

2004-02-15 Thread Jim Sharkey
Tom Beck wrote: Sorry if we misread you. But most people weighing in on the anti- gay marriage side of things appear that they very much WOULD impose their views on the world. Fair enough, Tom. But I'm not one of those people. Recall from my first message that my sister's been in a comitted

Re: Thoughts on gay marriage?

2004-02-15 Thread Ronn!Blankenship
At 10:31 AM 2/15/04, Jim Sharkey wrote: There are a number of laws and concepts that I don't heartily agree with that I also do not oppose, since I realize any difficulties with it are my problem. A*** comes immediately to mind. It's not something I think everyone ought to be doing in

Re: Thoughts on gay marriage?

2004-02-15 Thread Gautam Mukunda
=-- [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: It's the word marriage that appears to have some mystical, totemic meaning for some lamebrained lazyminded easily stampeded credulous dolts (i.e., most of the American public). Gee, Tom, and to think that sometimes I wonder why I'm a conservative. But I can

Re: Thoughts on gay marriage?

2004-02-15 Thread Erik Reuter
On Sun, Feb 15, 2004 at 11:31:25AM -0500, Jim Sharkey wrote: Honestly, the fact that I don't *like* something doesn't mean automatically that I would stop others from doing it. Place some weights on your knees so that they won't jerk so quickly next time. Place a button on your lip (or a tie

Re: Thoughts on gay marriage?

2004-02-15 Thread Bemmzim
In a message dated 2/15/2004 10:43:18 AM Eastern Standard Time, [EMAIL PROTECTED] writes: Why should we care about your vague feeling? What gives you the right to take your vague feeling of uncomfortable that you can't explain and impose it on someone else? What makes your vague feeling more

Re: Thoughts on gay marriage?

2004-02-15 Thread Bemmzim
In a message dated 2/15/2004 10:46:06 AM Eastern Standard Time, [EMAIL PROTECTED] writes: Somehow, I don't think their divorce statistics will be any worse than those of heterosexual marriages, but even if they are, so what? ___

Re: Thoughts on gay marriage?

2004-02-15 Thread Ronn!Blankenship
At 11:31 AM 2/15/04, Erik Reuter wrote: On Sun, Feb 15, 2004 at 11:31:25AM -0500, Jim Sharkey wrote: Honestly, the fact that I don't *like* something doesn't mean automatically that I would stop others from doing it. Place some weights on your knees so that they won't jerk so quickly next

Re: Thoughts on gay marriage?

2004-02-15 Thread Bemmzim
In a message dated 2/15/2004 10:46:06 AM Eastern Standard Time, [EMAIL PROTECTED] writes: Somehow, I don't think their divorce statistics will be any worse than those of heterosexual marriages, but even if they are, so what? My bet would be that lesbian marriages would last longer and

Re: Thoughts on gay marriage?

2004-02-15 Thread Bemmzim
In a message dated 2/15/2004 11:58:06 AM Eastern Standard Time, [EMAIL PROTECTED] writes: Sorry if we misread you. But most people weighing in on the anti-gay marriage side of things appear that they very much WOULD impose their views on the world

Re: Thoughts on gay marriage?

2004-02-15 Thread Bemmzim
In a message dated 2/15/2004 11:58:06 AM Eastern Standard Time, [EMAIL PROTECTED] writes: Sorry if we misread you. But most people weighing in on the anti-gay marriage side of things appear that they very much WOULD impose their views on the world Sorry for the inadvertent send. I can't

RE: This Is Spinal Ta-, er, Metallica

2004-02-15 Thread Travis Edmunds
From: Jim Sharkey [EMAIL PROTECTED] Reply-To: Killer Bs Discussion [EMAIL PROTECTED] To: [EMAIL PROTECTED] Subject: This Is Spinal Ta-, er, Metallica Date: Sun, 15 Feb 2004 10:14:16 -0500 (EST) A documentary about a heavy metal band, even one that has sold 90 million albums since 1991, is

Re: FOOLish

2004-02-15 Thread Travis Edmunds
From: Robert Seeberger [EMAIL PROTECTED] Reply-To: Killer Bs Discussion [EMAIL PROTECTED] To: Killer Bs Discussion [EMAIL PROTECTED] Subject: Re: FOOLish Date: Sat, 14 Feb 2004 15:12:43 -0600 - Original Message - From: Travis Edmunds [EMAIL PROTECTED] To: [EMAIL PROTECTED] Sent: Saturday,

Re: Is my father-in-law Jewish?

2004-02-15 Thread Bemmzim
And what are they doing with the Palestinians every day? They're killing them. They're doing the same thing that was done to them It's exactly like what Hitler did to the Jews. Thsi guy is being investigated for anti-semtic remarks and will most likely lose his job. However, how

Re: Good and evil (was Re: Reviews for Mel Gibson's The Passion of the Christ)

2004-02-15 Thread Travis Edmunds
From: Nick Arnett [EMAIL PROTECTED] Reply-To: Killer Bs Discussion [EMAIL PROTECTED] To: Killer Bs Discussion [EMAIL PROTECTED] Subject: Re: Good and evil (was Re: Reviews for Mel Gibson's The Passion of the Christ) Date: Fri, 06 Feb 2004 08:04:58 -0800 Travis Edmunds wrote: Travis Edmunds

Re: Thoughts on gay marriage?

2004-02-15 Thread TomFODW
This was an honest expression of concern and confusion that is shared by many. I suspect and hope that over time people will get used to the idea but for now it does not do the cause of gay union any good to sharply casitgate someone for honestly expressed feelings. If you don't

Re: Thoughts on gay marriage?

2004-02-15 Thread Erik Reuter
On Sun, Feb 15, 2004 at 01:04:47PM -0500, [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: Sorry for the inadvertent send. I can't see how you could have misread Jim's post in this way. It was clear to me what he meant. It was clear he knew it was irrational. We need to allow people to describe their feelings

Re: Thoughts on gay marriage?

2004-02-15 Thread Dan Minette
Personally, I favor the idea of gay marriage. From my perspective, it strengthens the concept of marriage by extending it. By accepting, one broadens the acknowledgement of the lifetime commitment made by two people (yea I know the commitment is often broken). Different types of families are

Re: Thoughts on gay marriage?

2004-02-15 Thread Ronn!Blankenship
At 12:32 PM 2/15/04, Tom Beck [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: It doesn't have to be vicious or rancorous, Unfortunately, referring to most of the American public as lamebrained lazyminded easily stampeded credulous dolts comes across as vicious and rancorous, whether that was your intention or not.

Re: Thoughts on gay marriage?

2004-02-15 Thread Erik Reuter
On Sun, Feb 15, 2004 at 12:57:32PM -0500, [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: In a message dated 2/15/2004 10:43:18 AM Eastern Standard Time, [EMAIL PROTECTED] writes: Why should we care about your vague feeling? What gives you the right to take your vague feeling of uncomfortable that you can't

RE: This Is Spinal Ta-, er, Metallica

2004-02-15 Thread Damon Agretto
-Travis it's all about the Guns and the Roses Edmunds Eeee!!! Damon. = Damon Agretto [EMAIL PROTECTED] Qui desiderat pacem, praeparet bellum. http://www.geocities.com/garrand.geo/index.html Now Building:

Re: Thoughts on gay marriage?

2004-02-15 Thread Jim Sharkey
Erik Reuter wrote: Fine, he is entitled to his opinion, but I am damn well going to reply sharply to people who make posts implying that their unexplainable feeling of uncomfortable has any bearing on what others should or should not be allowed to do. Your interpretation of my initial

Re: Thoughts on gay marriage?

2004-02-15 Thread Michael Harney
From: Jim Sharkey [EMAIL PROTECTED] And Michael Harney wrote: You say you can't explain why you feel that way... then doesn't that lend you to think that your belief is likely an irrational one. No offense intended, but should we bend towards an irrational belief simply to make holders of

RE: This Is Spinal Ta-, er, Metallica

2004-02-15 Thread Travis Edmunds
From: Damon Agretto [EMAIL PROTECTED] Reply-To: Killer Bs Discussion [EMAIL PROTECTED] To: Killer Bs Discussion [EMAIL PROTECTED] Subject: RE: This Is Spinal Ta-, er, Metallica Date: Sun, 15 Feb 2004 10:55:30 -0800 (PST) -Travis it's all about the Guns and the Roses Edmunds Eeee!!!

Re: Thoughts on gay marriage?

2004-02-15 Thread Jim Sharkey
Erik Reuter wrote: I have yet to see a clear statement from him that Although I have irrational feelings about gay marriage, by my words and actions I do NOT support anti-gay marriage laws or constitutional amendments. This was not sufficiently clear? I've always been a believer in people's

Re: Thoughts on gay marriage?

2004-02-15 Thread Erik Reuter
On Sun, Feb 15, 2004 at 01:11:26PM -0600, Dan Minette wrote: From: Erik Reuter [EMAIL PROTECTED] If my questions were sharp castigation, then his statement was a lot more than an expression of concern. Nah. Yah. You are applying a double-standard. Literally, I was asking questions.

Re: Thoughts on gay marriage?

2004-02-15 Thread Erik Reuter
On Sun, Feb 15, 2004 at 02:03:13PM -0500, Jim Sharkey wrote: However, since those who have responded have been about evenly divided in their interpretation of my statement, I will concede that despite my own read of my words, it is possible to interpret it as the vehement opposition to gay

Re: Thoughts on gay marriage?

2004-02-15 Thread Jim Sharkey
Michael Harney wrote: There is a possibility that the issue of gay marriage may be presented before the citizens of the United States for a vote. In such a situation it doesn't take a big leap from not feeling comfortable with gay marriages to voting against gay marriages. If you really

Re: Thoughts on gay marriage?

2004-02-15 Thread Dan Minette
- Original Message - From: Erik Reuter [EMAIL PROTECTED] To: Killer Bs Discussion [EMAIL PROTECTED] Sent: Sunday, February 15, 2004 1:15 PM Subject: Re: Thoughts on gay marriage? On Sun, Feb 15, 2004 at 01:11:26PM -0600, Dan Minette wrote: From: Erik Reuter [EMAIL PROTECTED]

Re: Sloan3D Store Update -- Black shirts now available

2004-02-15 Thread Steve Sloan II
Julia Thompson wrote: I don't know what's common these days. Do the dark colors include one somewhere between green and blue? :) (And would that color be available in XL?) I can certainly look. Last time I was in the local Hobby Lobby, a few weeks ago, they had some XL shirts in some

Re: Thoughts on gay marriage?

2004-02-15 Thread Erik Reuter
On Sun, Feb 15, 2004 at 02:10:59PM -0500, Jim Sharkey wrote: Erik Reuter wrote: I have yet to see a clear statement from him that Although I have irrational feelings about gay marriage, by my words and actions I do NOT support anti-gay marriage laws or constitutional amendments. This was

Re: Thoughts on gay marriage?

2004-02-15 Thread Erik Reuter
On Sun, Feb 15, 2004 at 01:32:45PM -0600, Dan Minette wrote: Read what he wrote that was unacceptable to you. He literally said he had no right to impose his feelings, but that wasn't good enough for you. You're the one that needs to read more carefully. This is what I was concerned about:

Re: Thoughts on gay marriage?

2004-02-15 Thread Erik Reuter
On Sun, Feb 15, 2004 at 02:19:53PM -0500, Jim Sharkey wrote: I would vote against a law or Constitutional Amendment banning gay marriage. But I will be honest with you. It would not necessarily be a vote in favor of gay marriage per se, but it would be a vote against telling people what

RE: This Is Spinal Ta-, er, Metallica

2004-02-15 Thread Jim Sharkey
Travis Edmunds wrote: Metallica fan eh? Care to divulge any other bands you like? Sure. I'd say my all-time favorite bands are Rush, TOOL, Metallica, Yes, Iron Maiden, Red Hot Chili Peppers, Pearl Jam and Queensryche. I dig some of the current bands like Disturbed, Outkast, and No Doubt; I

Re: Thoughts on gay marriage?

2004-02-15 Thread Dan Minette
- Original Message - From: Erik Reuter [EMAIL PROTECTED] To: Killer Bs Discussion [EMAIL PROTECTED] Sent: Sunday, February 15, 2004 1:27 PM Subject: Re: Thoughts on gay marriage? On Sun, Feb 15, 2004 at 01:32:45PM -0600, Dan Minette wrote: Read what he wrote that was unacceptable

Re: Thoughts on gay marriage?

2004-02-15 Thread Erik Reuter
On Sun, Feb 15, 2004 at 01:42:57PM -0600, Dan Minette wrote: Whenever I disagree with you? No, when you are irrational and do not realize it, which occasionally occurs when religion is part of the discussion. -- Erik Reuter http://www.erikreuter.net/

Re: Thoughts on gay marriage?

2004-02-15 Thread Erik Reuter
On Sun, Feb 15, 2004 at 01:42:57PM -0600, Dan Minette wrote: Right, the problem would be that Jim would be uncomfortable. That is a problem, because she is his sister. And if he has a problem with his sister, who he has just said (or strongly implied) that he has good feelings for, one must

Re: Thoughts on gay marriage?

2004-02-15 Thread Bemmzim
In a message dated 2/15/2004 1:34:58 PM Eastern Standard Time, [EMAIL PROTECTED] writes: many. I suspect and hope that over time people will get used to the idea but for now it does not do the cause of gay union any good to sharply casitgate someone for honestly expressed feelings.

Re: Thoughts on gay marriage?

2004-02-15 Thread Erik Reuter
On Sun, Feb 15, 2004 at 03:03:08PM -0500, [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: But you did jump all over someone who expressed personal discomfort with the notion of gay marriage at the end of a post that strongly supported gay unions. No. The post did NOT strongly support gay unions. It would be closer

Re: Thoughts on gay marriage?

2004-02-15 Thread Bemmzim
In a message dated 2/15/2004 2:05:12 PM Eastern Standard Time, [EMAIL PROTECTED] writes: However, since those who have responded have been about evenly divided in their interpretation of my statement, I will concede that despite my own read of my words, it is possible to interpret it as the

Re: Thoughts on gay marriage?

2004-02-15 Thread Trent Shipley
On Sunday 2004-02-15 12:19, Jim Sharkey wrote: Michael Harney wrote: There is a possibility that the issue of gay marriage may be presented before the citizens of the United States for a vote. In such a situation it doesn't take a big leap from not feeling comfortable with gay marriages to

Re: Thoughts on gay marriage?

2004-02-15 Thread Jim Sharkey
Erik Reuter wrote: Dan Minette wrote: Right, the problem would be that Jim would be uncomfortable. That is a problem, because she is his sister. And if he has a problem with his sister, who he has just said (or strongly implied) that he has good feelings for, one must at least wonder, if not

Re: Thoughts on gay marriage?

2004-02-15 Thread Trent Shipley
I always imagined that at some point Charlene and I would face some questions from the kids about why they live together, etc., but it hasn't happened yet. Possibly because we don't treat their relationship any differently than anyone else's, or possibly because even though our oldest is

Re: Thoughts on gay marriage?

2004-02-15 Thread Julia Thompson
Jim Sharkey wrote: Gay divorce is sure to follow Maru Hm. I wonder what the gay divorce rate will be compared to the straight divorce rate in 30 years. I imagine it'll be lower for awhile if gay marriages are permitted. Not sure when it would catch up. And I wonder how it would compare for

Re: Thoughts on gay marriage?

2004-02-15 Thread Erik Reuter
On Sun, Feb 15, 2004 at 03:23:57PM -0600, Julia Thompson wrote: Yes, but it can be done somewhat more gently than how it was done on this list earlier today. And doing it more gently will get you a more positive reaction than immediately jumping down their throat will. Enough gentle prods

Re: Thoughts on gay marriage?

2004-02-15 Thread Ronn!Blankenship
At 03:43 PM 2/15/04, Erik Reuter wrote: On Sun, Feb 15, 2004 at 03:23:57PM -0600, Julia Thompson wrote: Yes, but it can be done somewhat more gently than how it was done on this list earlier today. And doing it more gently will get you a more positive reaction than immediately jumping down

Re: Thoughts on gay marriage?

2004-02-15 Thread Dan Minette
- Original Message - From: Ronn!Blankenship [EMAIL PROTECTED] To: Killer Bs Discussion [EMAIL PROTECTED] Sent: Sunday, February 15, 2004 3:55 PM Subject: Re: Thoughts on gay marriage? At 03:43 PM 2/15/04, Erik Reuter wrote: On Sun, Feb 15, 2004 at 03:23:57PM -0600, Julia Thompson

Re: Thoughts on gay marriage?

2004-02-15 Thread Erik Reuter
On Sun, Feb 15, 2004 at 03:55:58PM -0600, Ronn!Blankenship wrote: I agree with Julia. Boring. As far as evidence goes: the next time you have a disagreement with your spouse, try the strong statement method. Then, the next time after that, try the soft answer approach. Assuming there is

Re: Thoughts on gay marriage?

2004-02-15 Thread Erik Reuter
On Sun, Feb 15, 2004 at 04:32:36PM -0600, Dan Minette wrote: - Original Message - From: Erik Reuter [EMAIL PROTECTED] To: Killer Bs Discussion [EMAIL PROTECTED] Sent: Sunday, February 15, 2004 4:13 PM Subject: Re: Thoughts on gay marriage? Yawn. You try it, I've got better

Re: Thoughts on gay marriage?

2004-02-15 Thread Doug Pensinger
Gautam wrote: =-- [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: It's the word marriage that appears to have some mystical, totemic meaning for some lamebrained lazyminded easily stampeded credulous dolts (i.e., most of the American public). Gee, Tom, and to think that sometimes I wonder why I'm a conservative. But I

Re: Thoughts on gay marriage?

2004-02-15 Thread Julia Thompson
On Sun, 15 Feb 2004, Erik Reuter wrote: On Sun, Feb 15, 2004 at 03:23:57PM -0600, Julia Thompson wrote: Yes, but it can be done somewhat more gently than how it was done on this list earlier today. And doing it more gently will get you a more positive reaction than immediately jumping

Re: Thoughts on gay marriage?

2004-02-15 Thread John D. Giorgis
At 03:21 PM 2/15/2004 -0600 Julia Thompson wrote: And I wonder how it would compare for the first 10 years with the rate of divorces among the fundamentalists who are most loudly decrying it now? Of course, there is no way of knowing this.Since it is not a priori true that a given

Re: Thoughts on gay marriage?

2004-02-15 Thread John D. Giorgis
At 03:20 PM 2/15/2004 -0500 Jim Sharkey wrote: I apologize if this seems like I'm putting forth my tolerance bona fides here, but I've had a lot of accusations flung at me today that I felt were unfair, and I thought maybe a little more information might give some of you a better picture of me.

Political Baiting Re: Thoughts on gay marriage?

2004-02-15 Thread John D. Giorgis
At 02:29 PM 2/15/2004 -0800 Doug Pensinger wrote: Gautam wrote: =-- [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: It's the word marriage that appears to have some mystical, totemic meaning for some lamebrained lazyminded easily stampeded credulous dolts (i.e., most of the American public). Gee, Tom, and to

Re: Thoughts on gay marriage?

2004-02-15 Thread Julia Thompson
John D. Giorgis wrote: At 03:21 PM 2/15/2004 -0600 Julia Thompson wrote: And I wonder how it would compare for the first 10 years with the rate of divorces among the fundamentalists who are most loudly decrying it now? Of course, there is no way of knowing this.Since it is not a

Re: Thoughts on gay marriage?

2004-02-15 Thread Dan Minette
- Original Message - From: John D. Giorgis [EMAIL PROTECTED] To: Killer Bs Discussion [EMAIL PROTECTED] Sent: Sunday, February 15, 2004 4:50 PM Subject: Re: Thoughts on gay marriage? At 03:21 PM 2/15/2004 -0600 Julia Thompson wrote: And I wonder how it would compare for the first 10

Re: Political Baiting  Re: Thoughts on gay marriage?

2004-02-15 Thread TomFODW
For whatever it is worth, it is a common meme among conservatives that liberals consider themselves to be smarter than conservatives. I don't consider myself necessarily smarter than anyone else. What I would say is that liberals are much nicer people in their politics than conservatives

Re: Thoughts on gay marriage?

2004-02-15 Thread Erik Reuter
On Sun, Feb 15, 2004 at 03:18:46PM -0800, Gautam Mukunda wrote: common among conservatives. We don't know The One Truth. Ha! that would be a good start. If John ever did the same (and I don't think he ever would, because he's a _lot_ more polite than the people on this list who abuse him

Re: Political Baiting Re: Thoughts on gay marriage?

2004-02-15 Thread Ronn!Blankenship
At 04:52 PM 2/15/04, John D. Giorgis wrote: At 02:29 PM 2/15/2004 -0800 Doug Pensinger wrote: Gautam wrote: =-- [EMAIL PROTECTED] wrote: It's the word marriage that appears to have some mystical, totemic meaning for some lamebrained lazyminded easily stampeded credulous dolts (i.e., most of

Re: Thoughts on gay marriage?

2004-02-15 Thread Julia Thompson
Erik Reuter wrote: On Sun, Feb 15, 2004 at 04:48:57PM -0600, Julia Thompson wrote: It has been my experience that given a choice between one massive hitting-over-the-head kind of confrontation Although that would be an exaggeration of what I am talking about... Yes, but in

Re: Political Baiting  Re: Thoughts on gay marriage?

2004-02-15 Thread Kevin Tarr
At 05:59 PM 2/15/2004, you wrote: For whatever it is worth, it is a common meme among conservatives that liberals consider themselves to be smarter than conservatives. I don't consider myself necessarily smarter than anyone else. What I would say is that liberals are much nicer people in

Changes in moral culture (was Thoughts on gay marriage?)

2004-02-15 Thread Trent Shipley
On Sunday 2004-02-15 16:07, Dan Minette wrote: - Original Message - From: John D. Giorgis [EMAIL PROTECTED] To: Killer Bs Discussion [EMAIL PROTECTED] Sent: Sunday, February 15, 2004 4:50 PM Subject: Re: Thoughts on gay marriage? At 03:21 PM 2/15/2004 -0600 Julia Thompson wrote:

Re: Political Baiting  Re: Thoughts on gay marriage?

2004-02-15 Thread Dan Minette
- Original Message - From: [EMAIL PROTECTED] To: [EMAIL PROTECTED] Sent: Sunday, February 15, 2004 4:59 PM Subject: Re: Political Baiting Re: Thoughts on gay marriage? For whatever it is worth, it is a common meme among conservatives that liberals consider themselves to be smarter

Communitcation tactics(was Thoughts on gay marriage?)

2004-02-15 Thread Trent Shipley
On Sunday 2004-02-15 15:48, Julia Thompson wrote: On Sun, 15 Feb 2004, Erik Reuter wrote: On Sun, Feb 15, 2004 at 03:23:57PM -0600, Julia Thompson wrote: Yes, but it can be done somewhat more gently than how it was done on this list earlier today. And doing it more gently will get you a

Re: FOOLish

2004-02-15 Thread Robert Seeberger
- Original Message - From: Travis Edmunds [EMAIL PROTECTED] To: [EMAIL PROTECTED] Sent: Sunday, February 15, 2004 12:20 PM Subject: Re: FOOLish From: Robert Seeberger [EMAIL PROTECTED] Reply-To: Killer Bs Discussion [EMAIL PROTECTED] To: Killer Bs Discussion [EMAIL PROTECTED]

Re: Political Baiting  Re: Thoughts on gay marriage?

2004-02-15 Thread Ronn!Blankenship
At 05:59 PM 2/15/04, you wrote: At 05:59 PM 2/15/2004, you wrote: For whatever it is worth, it is a common meme among conservatives that liberals consider themselves to be smarter than conservatives. I don't consider myself necessarily smarter than anyone else. What I would say is that

Re: Thoughts on gay marriage?

2004-02-15 Thread Erik Reuter
On Sun, Feb 15, 2004 at 05:46:09PM -0600, Julia Thompson wrote: But being in-your-face on an e-mail list doesn't work well, either. Sometimes it does. At least as well as... If I make 50 posts in a 6-month period that touch on X, and someone is opposed to my position on X, there's a better

Re: Communitcation tactics(was Thoughts on gay marriage?)

2004-02-15 Thread Ronn!Blankenship
At 06:14 PM 2/15/04, Trent Shipley wrote: Is there a conflict between standards for honesty and truth on the one hand and satisfying relationships on the other. Be honest: Does this dress make me look fat? Yes I've Appeared Onstage In Drag But You Know What I Mean Maru -- Ronn! :)

Re: Thoughts on gay marriage?

2004-02-15 Thread Jim Sharkey
Erik Reuter wrote: For example, even before I read your post I would have said the reserved approach would be more successful on you (Julia). Alas, not everyone is like Julia! ;-) If they were, the accumulated niceness might just choke me. :) Jim

Re: Thoughts on gay marriage?

2004-02-15 Thread Julia Thompson
Jim Sharkey wrote: Erik Reuter wrote: For example, even before I read your post I would have said the reserved approach would be more successful on you (Julia). Alas, not everyone is like Julia! ;-) If they were, the accumulated niceness might just choke me. :) Aw, heck, if everyone

Re: Thoughts on gay marriage?

2004-02-15 Thread Julia Thompson
Erik Reuter wrote: On Sun, Feb 15, 2004 at 05:46:09PM -0600, Julia Thompson wrote: But being in-your-face on an e-mail list doesn't work well, either. Sometimes it does. At least as well as... If I make 50 posts in a 6-month period that touch on X, and someone is opposed to my

Re: Thoughts on gay marriage?

2004-02-15 Thread Robert Seeberger
- Original Message - From: Ronn!Blankenship [EMAIL PROTECTED] To: Killer Bs Discussion [EMAIL PROTECTED] Sent: Sunday, February 15, 2004 3:55 PM Subject: Re: Thoughts on gay marriage? At 03:43 PM 2/15/04, Erik Reuter wrote: On Sun, Feb 15, 2004 at 03:23:57PM -0600, Julia Thompson

Re: Thoughts on gay marriage?

2004-02-15 Thread Ronn!Blankenship
At 06:15 PM 2/15/04, Erik Reuter wrote: On Sun, Feb 15, 2004 at 05:46:09PM -0600, Julia Thompson wrote: But being in-your-face on an e-mail list doesn't work well, either. Sometimes it does. At least as well as... If I make 50 posts in a 6-month period that touch on X, and someone is opposed

Re: Thoughts on gay marriage?

2004-02-15 Thread Robert Seeberger
- Original Message - From: John D. Giorgis [EMAIL PROTECTED] To: Killer Bs Discussion [EMAIL PROTECTED] Sent: Sunday, February 15, 2004 4:48 PM Subject: Re: Thoughts on gay marriage? At 03:20 PM 2/15/2004 -0500 Jim Sharkey wrote: I apologize if this seems like I'm putting forth my

Re: Thoughts on gay marriage?

2004-02-15 Thread Jim Sharkey
Robert Seeberger wrote: What is really bizarre about this thread is that everyone seems to basically agree about Gay Marriage. This focus on microscopic points of difference is amazingly like a Monty Python sketch. Maybe the listname should be changed to The Argument Clinic. No it

Re: Thoughts on gay marriage?

2004-02-15 Thread Erik Reuter
On Sun, Feb 15, 2004 at 06:40:28PM -0600, Ronn!Blankenship wrote: And keep in mind that just because someone does not agree with you on a topic does not mean that s/he has not thought about the topic, perhaps at least as much as you have. I believe it was Dan who mentioned that issues in

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2004-02-15 Thread Doug Pensinger
Gautam wrote: Done with it? I certainly didn't _start_ it. Not only did you start it, but that between the two of us, you're the only one that has engaged in it. But more characteristic? Certainly. That sort of arrogant contempt for most Americans is far less common among conservatives.

Re: Thoughts on gay marriage?

2004-02-15 Thread John D. Giorgis
At 06:47 PM 2/15/2004 -0600 Robert Seeberger wrote: What is really bizarre about this thread is that everyone seems to basically agree about Gay Marriage. That's only because the responses have been flying too fast for me to collect my thoughts on the subject. That, and the fact that Shrek is

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2004-02-15 Thread Trent Shipley
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Re: Thoughts on gay marriage?

2004-02-15 Thread Dan Minette
- Original Message - From: Gautam Mukunda [EMAIL PROTECTED] To: Killer Bs Discussion [EMAIL PROTECTED] Sent: Sunday, February 15, 2004 5:18 PM Subject: Re: Thoughts on gay marriage? Done with it? I certainly didn't _start_ it. But more characteristic? Certainly. That sort of

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2004-02-15 Thread Doug Pensinger
Sorry about the lack of a subject line. My email bombed on me and I had to copy the text from a backup and I forgot to title it. 8^P -- Doug ___ http://www.mccmedia.com/mailman/listinfo/brin-l

Re: Thoughts on gay marriage?

2004-02-15 Thread Robert Seeberger
- Original Message - From: John D. Giorgis [EMAIL PROTECTED] To: Killer Bs Discussion [EMAIL PROTECTED] Sent: Sunday, February 15, 2004 7:06 PM Subject: Re: Thoughts on gay marriage? At 06:47 PM 2/15/2004 -0600 Robert Seeberger wrote: What is really bizarre about this thread is

Re: Thoughts on gay marriage?

2004-02-15 Thread Doug Pensinger
John wrote: That's only because the responses have been flying too fast for me to collect my thoughts on the subject. Well don't keep us in the dark - I'd very much like to refu... I mean _hear_ your side of the arguement. 8^) That, and the fact that Shrek is on TV tonight :-) Good movie,

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2004-02-15 Thread Robert Seeberger
- Original Message - From: Trent Shipley [EMAIL PROTECTED] To: Brin-L [EMAIL PROTECTED] Sent: Sunday, February 15, 2004 7:16 PM Subject: SciFi site Does anyone else like Orion's Arm? http://www.orionsarm.com/main.html I'm on their List. Been there for about a year. Very OnTopic

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2004-02-15 Thread Damon Agretto
Does anyone else like Orion's Arm? http://www.orionsarm.com/main.html IIRC didn't someone on the list go fishing for RPG ideas for this? Were you that person? Damon, looks familiar... = Damon Agretto [EMAIL PROTECTED] Qui

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2004-02-15 Thread Medievalbk
In a message dated 2/15/2004 6:23:45 PM US Mountain Standard Time, [EMAIL PROTECTED] writes: Sorry about the lack of a subject line. My email bombed on me and I had to copy the text from a backup and I forgot to title it. 8^P -- Doug A possible subject line. It relates to What

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