Re: Workplace bullying or mobbing

2010-08-21 Thread denstar
Saying unions are bad is like saying government is bad. It ignores the underlying problem for the sake of an easy answer. Seems like a cop-out to me. :Den -- For truly it is to be noted, that children's plays are not sports, and should be deemed as their most serious actions. Michel de Montai

Re: Workplace bullying or mobbing

2010-08-21 Thread denstar
On Sat, Aug 21, 2010 at 7:02 AM, Cameron Childress wrote: > > On Sat, Aug 21, 2010 at 1:28 AM, denstar wrote: >> Dilbert is a funny cartoon. >> >> Probably funnier to some than to others. > > Very.  And illustrated many points about Corporate America very well. Based on a true story... ;-) :den

RE: Workplace bullying or mobbing

2010-08-21 Thread Eric Roberts
, August 20, 2010 1:15 PM To: cf-community Subject: Re: Workplace bullying or mobbing On Fri, Aug 20, 2010 at 1:05 PM, trish simon wrote: >  Why so much hate for unions? They serve a useful purpose, a bit > radical and political at timesbut very useful. Is this addressed to me? I couldn&

RE: Workplace bullying or mobbing

2010-08-21 Thread Eric Roberts
fter they talked to the DOL, I got a check for the wages owed to me. Eric -Original Message- From: Erika L. Rich [mailto:elr...@ruwebby.com] Sent: Friday, August 20, 2010 1:05 PM To: cf-community Subject: Re: Workplace bullying or mobbing Do you know how many states are "at will&qu

Re: Workplace bullying or mobbing

2010-08-21 Thread Erika L. Rich
Only to you my dear ... only to you :) xoxox On Fri, Aug 20, 2010 at 2:35 PM, Scott Raley wrote: > > No you're not but I'm wondering if you are a bully??? > > ~| Order the Adobe Coldfusion Anthology now! http://www.amazon.com

Re: Workplace bullying or mobbing

2010-08-21 Thread Larry C. Lyons
The people I worked with were all full time Federal employees. What you're repeating is just some propaganda. If you look at the productivity stats put out by the Bureau of Labor Statistics, you will see that the productivity of the average Fed is about the same as someone in the private sector d

Re: Workplace bullying or mobbing

2010-08-21 Thread Cameron Childress
On Sat, Aug 21, 2010 at 1:27 AM, denstar wrote: > How many large organizations have you worked for?  Full time, of course.  ;) 2 -Cameron . ~| Order the Adobe Coldfusion Anthology now! http://www.amazon.com/Adobe-Coldfusion-A

Re: Workplace bullying or mobbing

2010-08-21 Thread Cameron Childress
On Sat, Aug 21, 2010 at 1:28 AM, denstar wrote: > Dilbert is a funny cartoon. > > Probably funnier to some than to others. Very. And illustrated many points about Corporate America very well. -Cameron ... ~| Order the Adobe

RE: Workplace bullying or mobbing

2010-08-21 Thread Scott Raley
No you're not but I'm wondering if you are a bully??? -Original Message- From: Erika L. Rich [mailto:elr...@ruwebby.com] Sent: Friday, August 20, 2010 1:42 PM To: cf-community Subject: Re: Workplace bullying or mobbing I'm not a lawyer. Nor am I a politician. Or a co

Re: Workplace bullying or mobbing

2010-08-20 Thread denstar
On Fri, Aug 20, 2010 at 11:33 AM, Cameron Childress wrote: ... > It's interesting to watch Mad Men episodes and see the men chasing > women around the office.  Totally unacceptable today, and it should > be.  But I wonder how far we go to protect people?  If I ask someone > to stay late and work o

Re: Workplace bullying or mobbing

2010-08-20 Thread denstar
On Fri, Aug 20, 2010 at 11:26 AM, Cameron Childress wrote: > > I suspect you are misinterpreting what I am saying.  I quit the > corporate world because I hated it.  In my experience there are alot > of corporate people who are just really bad at their jobs.  They might > meet someone's checklist

Re: Workplace bullying or mobbing

2010-08-20 Thread denstar
On Fri, Aug 20, 2010 at 8:48 AM, Eric Roberts wrote: > > Yes and no...HR is there for the company by ensuring that the rules are > followed in regards to how the employees are treated.  So in doing so, they > are also looking out for the employees. Maybe in a small business, with 50 - 100 employe

Re: Workplace bullying or mobbing

2010-08-20 Thread Erika L. Rich
As bad a rap as they have, and as many I've seen and dealt with that are sh*t, it's too bad that's what I would do first in a bad situation as well, speak to a lawyer. They can be scum sucking sharks for good reason. :) But it definitely helps if you are friends or have em in the family - because

Re: Workplace bullying or mobbing

2010-08-20 Thread Robert Munn
I'm jumping in late ;-). If I were a member of a union, I would definitely go to the union first. If you have a weapon, use it - that's what I learned in the corporate world. Especially if you are dealing with sh!t-heads who have influence over your career. Having said that, I'm not one to join a

Re: Workplace bullying or mobbing

2010-08-20 Thread Cameron Childress
On Fri, Aug 20, 2010 at 6:56 PM, Larry C. Lyons wrote: > I spent the last 9 months working as a contractor in DC. Not once did > I see this in the agency where I was working. I've talked with others > who have noted the same thing. See, *thar's* your problem. You need to be a full timer to full

Re: Workplace bullying or mobbing

2010-08-20 Thread Larry C. Lyons
Really? I spent the last 9 months working as a contractor in DC. Not once did I see this in the agency where I was working. I've talked with others who have noted the same thing. I really wish this piece of well fermented trip would die. Its simply a lie. On Fri, Aug 20, 2010 at 6:49 PM, Camero

Re: Workplace bullying or mobbing

2010-08-20 Thread Cameron Childress
On Fri, Aug 20, 2010 at 1:43 PM, Erika L. Rich wrote: > That particular bit I agree with you on. I think it's over the top and not > exactly conducive. > > But again. Let's pick one piece and ignore the rest. > > > > Do you at all get our points here? If you don't why don't you move on? Because

Re: Workplace bullying or mobbing

2010-08-20 Thread Cameron Childress
On Fri, Aug 20, 2010 at 2:43 PM, trish simon wrote: > "...you can sit at your desk all day playing on facebook, browsing > flickr, replying to cf-community" > > Cameron: > > How can I get your old job? Really!! > > When I worked in the corporate sector it was nothing like that! The easiest p

Re: Workplace bullying or mobbing

2010-08-20 Thread Larry C. Lyons
is is a little depressing. :( Sorry. > > Came across this Facebook page after doing a bit of research on the topic of > "workplace mobbing": > http://www.facebook.com/pages/Bellingham-WA/Healthy-Workplace-Bill/338636856649 > > Seems over 37% of the American Workforce are

Re: Workplace bullying or mobbing

2010-08-20 Thread Cameron Childress
On Fri, Aug 20, 2010 at 1:42 PM, Erika L. Rich wrote: > The US Government has come up with plans for other ridiculous stupid crap I have little faith in the Federal Govt making anything they are involved in better, but that's a personal viewpoint. In fact it's virtually impossible to get fired

Re: Workplace bullying or mobbing

2010-08-20 Thread trish simon
"...you can sit at your desk all day playing on facebook, browsing flickr, replying to cf-community" Cameron: How can I get your old job? Really!! When I worked in the corporate sector it was nothing like that! On 8/20/10, Erika L. Rich wrote: > > When it turns someone suicidal after de

Re: Workplace bullying or mobbing

2010-08-20 Thread Erika L. Rich
That particular bit I agree with you on. I think it's over the top and not exactly conducive. But again. Let's pick one piece and ignore the rest. Do you at all get our points here? If you don't why don't you move on? :P On Fri, Aug 20, 2010 at 1:40 PM, Cameron Childress wrote: > > On Fri,

Re: Workplace bullying or mobbing

2010-08-20 Thread Erika L. Rich
When it turns someone suicidal after decades on the job, giving 100% of themselves, and it's proven company wide that they are trying to push out the old timers and make them quit ... then YEAH. There should be some sort of legislation or bill in place to prevent it. When it sends them into thera

Re: Workplace bullying or mobbing

2010-08-20 Thread Cameron Childress
Certainly, your mileage may vary... -Cameron On Fri, Aug 20, 2010 at 1:17 PM, Erika L. Rich wrote: > Only according to you. Yes. > > In some cases, and it's proven by other coworkers, HR is NOT the first place > to go. > > On Fri, Aug 20, 2010 at 1:15 PM, Cameron Childress wrote: >> So in my op

Re: Workplace bullying or mobbing

2010-08-20 Thread Cameron Childress
On Fri, Aug 20, 2010 at 1:21 PM, Erika L. Rich wrote: > Here's some good reads: > > http://www.workplacebullying.org/targets/solution/three-step-method.html I am curious about this article, which states that when bullied, you should take a few days off, gather your forces, then attack and try to

Re: Workplace bullying or mobbing

2010-08-20 Thread Cameron Childress
On Fri, Aug 20, 2010 at 1:24 PM, Erika L. Rich wrote: > You're taking a serious subject and saying "ahh BS. People need to ball up > and move on." Sometimes, this is totally true. > In MY opinion. :) > > Change it. I also see situations where people get picked on at work. I have seen the bull

Re: Workplace bullying or mobbing

2010-08-20 Thread trish simon
"...can be fired for any reason..." That is why the federal EEOC is overwhelmed with complaints. The first union rep told me to file a complaint with EEOC, as leverage... It's a sad situation, but it's also important to stand up to these workplace bullies...just we would tell our kids. On 8/2

Re: Workplace bullying or mobbing

2010-08-20 Thread Cameron Childress
I suspect you are misinterpreting what I am saying. I quit the corporate world because I hated it. In my experience there are alot of corporate people who are just really bad at their jobs. They might meet someone's checklist of qualifications, but they were only highly skilled at being excepti

Re: Workplace bullying or mobbing

2010-08-20 Thread Erika L. Rich
If this was all about promotions, I would have titled it different. You keep picking at one spot for some reason. *THAT* I do not understand. I think I know the difference between deserving and not deserving. I don't need to be told that, and this thread isn't about that. You're taking a serious

Re: Workplace bullying or mobbing

2010-08-20 Thread Erika L. Rich
Here's some good reads: http://www.workplacebullying.org/targets/solution/three-step-method.html http://www.bullyonline.org/workbully/myths.htm ~| Order the Adobe Coldfusion Anthology now! http://www.amazon.com/Adobe-Coldfusio

Re: Workplace bullying or mobbing

2010-08-20 Thread Erika L. Rich
Only according to you. Yes. In some cases, and it's proven by other coworkers, HR is NOT the first place to go. On Fri, Aug 20, 2010 at 1:15 PM, Cameron Childress wrote: > > So in my opinion you did things exactly in the right > order. > ~~~

Re: Workplace bullying or mobbing

2010-08-20 Thread Erika L. Rich
You still don't get it. I know you are intelligent. Not sure why you are toeing this corporate line you got going. On Fri, Aug 20, 2010 at 1:12 PM, Cameron Childress wrote: > > Qualifying for a promotion and deserving the promotion are two > different things. Many corporate environments I h

Re: Workplace bullying or mobbing

2010-08-20 Thread Cameron Childress
On Fri, Aug 20, 2010 at 1:05 PM, trish simon wrote: >  Why so much hate for unions? They serve a useful purpose, a bit > radical and political at timesbut very useful. Is this addressed to me? I couldn't tell. I think that we agree one this - they do server a useful purpose at times, and a

Re: Workplace bullying or mobbing

2010-08-20 Thread Erika L. Rich
I'm glad you did both. Your experience is almost exactly what happened to several people I know, in one way or another. I know not everyone likes to read, but the links I sent - are priceless. When you have a bit of time, I would at least read this one: http://www.mediate.com/articles/davenport.

Re: Workplace bullying or mobbing

2010-08-20 Thread Cameron Childress
On Fri, Aug 20, 2010 at 1:02 PM, Erika L. Rich wrote: > Of COURSE there's people who "think" they are being mobbed or bullied who > actually arent - but there's people on welfare that don't need it either, > yet they get it. > > This is however a VERY real issue. I agree that it exists. > It ca

Re: Workplace bullying or mobbing

2010-08-20 Thread Erika L. Rich
That is fantastic Hatton ... that's what I was hoping for. Since our lives center around working ... and it makes up the majority of our existence ... making sure that part of our psyche and soul is nurtured, has to be very very important. I hope they take it to heart. Those websites had a lot o

Re: Workplace bullying or mobbing

2010-08-20 Thread Erika L. Rich
Do you know how many states are "at will" states? Means that you can be fired for any reason whatsoever. Know how many people have complained to an HR department, and then subsequently been fired not too long afterward? Even WITH "whistleblower" laws in effect? The number would astound us I ass

Re: Workplace bullying or mobbing

2010-08-20 Thread trish simon
Why so much hate for unions? They serve a useful purpose, a bit radical and political at timesbut very useful. On 8/20/10, trish simon wrote: > I went to human resources when I returned from sick leave, when the > first sign of a problem began. I knew the director of H.R. from a > previous

Re: Workplace bullying or mobbing

2010-08-20 Thread Cameron Childress
Sounds like you did everything you could before going to the union... I just wasn't clear on that from your initial posting. It's rough out there sometimes - glad you finally found resolution! -Cameron On Fri, Aug 20, 2010 at 11:52 AM, trish simon wrote: > > I went to human resources when I re

Re: Workplace bullying or mobbing

2010-08-20 Thread Erika L. Rich
Wish it always worked that way. On Fri, Aug 20, 2010 at 10:48 AM, Eric Roberts < ow...@threeravensconsulting.com> wrote: > > Yes and no...HR is there for the company by ensuring that the rules are > followed in regards to how the employees are treated. So in doing so, they > are also looking ou

Re: Workplace bullying or mobbing

2010-08-20 Thread Erika L. Rich
I'm only talking about people that have actually been affected by this. Of course in any situation ANYWHERE for ANY subject, there are differences of opinion... Of COURSE there's people who "think" they are being mobbed or bullied who actually arent - but there's people on welfare that don't need

Re: Workplace bullying or mobbing

2010-08-20 Thread Erika L. Rich
ROFLMAO!! LOL!!! /me wipes tears from eyes Seriously though. I wish that were the case in every company. But guess what. HR dept's work for the company. And in ACTUALITY - most BIG corporations have corrupt HR departments. I wish I were a millionaire right now. Because I'd give

Re: Workplace bullying or mobbing

2010-08-20 Thread trish simon
I went to human resources when I returned from sick leave, when the first sign of a problem began. I knew the director of H.R. from a previous job, and I approached her as a friend. She knew my record was impeccable, but she also agreed that seeking another job was a good idea, at least out of my

Re: Workplace bullying or mobbing

2010-08-20 Thread C. Hatton Humphrey
> Came across this Facebook page after doing a bit of research on the topic of > "workplace mobbing": > http://www.facebook.com/pages/Bellingham-WA/Healthy-Workplace-Bill/338636856649 > > Seems over 37% of the American Workforce are subjected to "workplace >

Re: Workplace bullying or mobbing

2010-08-20 Thread Cameron Childress
On Fri, Aug 20, 2010 at 10:39 AM, Jacob wrote: > HR is there for the company, not the employee. If you come to HR and tell them someone is harassing you, and they do nothing about it, you can sue the crap out of the company. They may be employed by the company, but they are not strictly there o

Re: Workplace bullying or mobbing

2010-08-20 Thread C. Hatton Humphrey
> HR is there for the company, not the employee. Technically true, however HR is there to make sure the company follows the rules as well. These include things like FMLA, Worker's Comp, Unemployment, coaching, warnings and termination. Until Later! C. Hatton Humphrey http://www.eastcoastconserv

Re: Workplace bullying or mobbing

2010-08-20 Thread Eric Roberts
ployee. > > > -Original Message- > From: Cameron Childress [mailto:camer...@gmail.com] > Sent: Friday, August 20, 2010 7:04 AM > To: cf-community > Subject: Re: Workplace bullying or mobbing > > > Out of curiosity, did you contact the HR department of your company? > T

RE: Workplace bullying or mobbing

2010-08-20 Thread Jacob
HR is there for the company, not the employee. -Original Message- From: Cameron Childress [mailto:camer...@gmail.com] Sent: Friday, August 20, 2010 7:04 AM To: cf-community Subject: Re: Workplace bullying or mobbing Out of curiosity, did you contact the HR department of your company

Re: Workplace bullying or mobbing

2010-08-20 Thread Cameron Childress
For each item on this list I can recall an example of someone at a workplace who thought this was happening to them but they were flat out wrong. They wanted credit for something they didn't really contribute to. The thought they were owed a promotion due to seniority when in fact they were inco

Re: Workplace bullying or mobbing

2010-08-20 Thread Cameron Childress
Out of curiosity, did you contact the HR department of your company? This isn't mentioned at all in your post so it's unclear if you attempted to do so. Unions are not the first line of defense for this sort of thing and neither is quitting your job. Contacting HR would be my first step. Alot o

Re: Workplace bullying or mobbing

2010-08-20 Thread C. Hatton Humphrey
> Sorry Trish, according to the peeps on this list, the unions are all evil > organizations > bent on destroying free market capitalism.  Please rephrase your story to > comply > with this view. ;) Ready for a double-take Zaps? You're not *entirely* correct with your generalization. When doin

Re: Workplace bullying or mobbing

2010-08-20 Thread Zaphod Beeblebrox
Sorry Trish, according to the peeps on this list, the unions are all evil organizations bent on destroying free market capitalism. Please rephrase your story to comply with this view. ;) On Aug 19, 2010, at 11:23 PM, trish simon wrote: > > > After 11 years of employment at this place I nev

Re: Workplace bullying or mobbing

2010-08-19 Thread trish simon
This is very real! I went through a horrible abusive situation with my supervisor last year. Under normal circumstances I would have quit and took another job. However, I was recovering from surgery (likely the reason for the harassment), and in this job market finding another job in my situatio

Workplace bullying or mobbing

2010-08-19 Thread Erika L. Rich
ing": http://www.facebook.com/pages/Bellingham-WA/Healthy-Workplace-Bill/338636856649 Seems over 37% of the American Workforce are subjected to "workplace bullying or mobbing" which includes: [list] Mental Harassment Yelling Put downs Demotions for no reason Write-ups for no reason No cred