Re: [silk] Imperialistic countries

2009-05-13 Thread Ravi Bellur
>
>
>
> WTF?
>  >
>
> To be frank: TF. :-)


Re: [silk] Imperialistic countries

2009-05-13 Thread Ravi Bellur
> Not debating you point, but you should try driving in Boston or NY. Not
> that
> it comes close to the Bangalore situation, but if the road infrastructure
> was as bad as it is here, you would see pretty much the same. Seattle is
> over-polite, I feel suffocated there with people being so nice to each
> other
> :)
>

True about the east coast of US. But those two cities are known as the worst
places to drive.

How about this underly-thought out point: The more nudity and pre-marital
sex and sexually liberated women -- the more successful the median person in
the country (because Saudi is pretty successful as God decided to put all
our oil under them, as they joke on American TV) -- e.g. Scandinavia,
Germany, France, etc.

I suppose I"m just being an agent provacateur, but why should Bonobashi have
all the fun? :-)


Re: [silk] Bangalore Meetup on May 16?

2009-05-13 Thread Ravi Bellur
When do they shut down the alcohol purveyors? thanks.


Re: [silk] Imperialistic countries

2009-05-13 Thread Ravi Bellur
On Wed, May 13, 2009 at 7:20 PM, Ravi Bellur  wrote:

>
>> I try to wait in a line here, and people try to drift past me like I'm
>> blind. No one does that in Stockholm -- they would be mortified. Q.E.D.
>>
>
> Keeping in mind that most everyone on this list is enlightened. I'm talking
> about the masses.


And keep in mind that the most sexist and least traffic law abiding
countries in Europe are the least successful in terms of per-capital
productivity and median quality of life.


Re: [silk] Imperialistic countries

2009-05-13 Thread Ravi Bellur
>
>
> I try to wait in a line here, and people try to drift past me like I'm
> blind. No one does that in Stockholm -- they would be mortified. Q.E.D.
>

Keeping in mind that most everyone on this list is enlightened. I'm talking
about the masses.


Re: [silk] Imperialistic countries

2009-05-13 Thread Ravi Bellur
>
>
> Low populations, female equality, courteous driving, and the assult of
> science over religion (The so-called Age of Reason when Europe rediscovered
> Ancient Greece and Rome) maybe helped.
>

In fact I think I made the point that the way people drive here is a
metaphor for the problem. No one gives a shit about anyone else -- everyone
tries to get ahead -- and the fastest anyone can go is 40KPH.

Even on a very crowded highway in the US, I drive 100-120KPH. Because if I
drove like they drive here, I'd be arrested -- most likely due to some other
driver calling the police and the police showing up.

Here's a thought experiment:

Imagine you've got 2 groups 50 people each.

Group A is blindfolded. Group B is charged with leading them though a maze.

In Trial 1, you tell Group A that 10% of Group B has been told to mislead
them, and the rest are supposed to take them though right. When those in
Group A think they're being misled, they should stop and take off their
blindfold.

No one takes off their blindfold.

Then in Trial 2, you tell Group A that 50% of Group B has been told to
mislead them, and the rest are supposed to take them through correctly. Same
deal.

Everyone takes off their blindfold.

Even the perception of corruption and the undermining of meritocracy is
enough to stall progress.

I try to wait in a line here, and people try to drift past me like I'm
blind. No one does that in Stockholm -- they would be mortified. Q.E.D.


Re: [silk] Imperialistic countries

2009-05-13 Thread Ravi Bellur
>
>
> Why are European countries like Germany, France, UK are developed well
> ? Because they were imperialistic or because of good governance after
> hitler rule in Germany and imperalistic rules in other places ? What
> is causing Bulgaria to develop well ? Poland which was under communist
> rule is developed country ? If these are developing rapidly why is it
> so ? Because of lesser conflicts compared to India ?
>

I think it would be obvious? Look how fair their skin is! If there's one
thing they seem to be communicating in the obnoxious commercials from Nivea
and Unilever, it's that whiter is better.

Low populations, female equality, courteous driving, and the assult of
science over religion (The so-called Age of Reason when Europe rediscovered
Ancient Greece and Rome) maybe helped. Also they got very good at killing
and conquering because of the frequent state of warfare that followed the
fall of Rome up until WW II. If a monkey messes with your stuff in America,
it gets caged and relocated or shot. No one would put but with the Jaipur
crap because they think these are Hanuman's soldiers.

But keep in mind this is all about the time in which we live. For most of
Europe's history they were backwards. We just happen to live now instead of
the time of Ashoka or Harrapa or Xanadu. We shouldn't take it so personally.
The West seems to be doing themselves in quite finely at the moment. Even we
Americans know that, hence the vociferous electoral expulsion of the
Republican party from government.


Re: [silk] Bangalore Meetup on May 16?

2009-05-11 Thread Ravi Bellur
>
> . Venky has kindly
> offered to stash some liquor and comestibles there, and we can all pitch
> in to cover costs for food and drink.
>
>
>

Count me in, both personally and pecuniarily...


[silk] America's Sri Ram Sena

2009-05-08 Thread Ravi Bellur
Like I said, we got 'em too. So concerned with repressive control that they
miss the essential points of their religions.

http://news.yahoo.com/s/ap/20090508/ap_on_re_us/us_school_dance_flap


Re: [silk] Another Incarnation (Book Review of 'The Hindus, An Alternate History')

2009-04-29 Thread Ravi Bellur
>
>
> There are so many brilliant episodes and scenes. But I think 
>  inferno is my favourite especially the scene where Steve tries
> to explain the plot at the table :)
>
> -- Vinayak
>


Ah, Lesbian Spank Inferno. Good one. But my favorite has to be the one with
the Israeli girl seen twice, each time from the perspective of only
understanding one of the languages (don't watch with Hebrew speakers or
it'll ruin it -- I have no idea what language Jeff speaks in the second
perspective part). "The Girl with Two Breasts" I think is the name of the
episode. Shadaym!!


Re: [silk] Another Incarnation (Book Review of 'The Hindus, An Alternate History')

2009-04-29 Thread Ravi Bellur
>
>  (hidden connections ala Seinfeld)
>

YES YES YES!! That's what's so brilliant -- how 3 or more seemingly indepent
plot lines end up dovetailing multiplicatively. You have made my day :-) I
wish my DVDs weren't on the other side of the world at the moment.

"I'm am Giselle, the French bitch! Wa-kish!"

"And I'm Dick Darlington!"


Re: [silk] Another Incarnation (Book Review of 'The Hindus, An Alternate History')

2009-04-29 Thread Ravi Bellur
>
>
>
>
> I would recommend Coupling[1] - the original UK version (not the US
> remake by NBC which was pretty lame)
>
> -- Vinayak
> 1. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Coupling_(UK_TV_series)
>

You could not be more right. I loved the UK Coupling, own every episode.
Jeff Murdoch is a prophet! :-)


Re: [silk] Another Incarnation (Book Review of 'The Hindus, An Alternate History')

2009-04-29 Thread Ravi Bellur
>
>
>
> Will someone please invent a USB breathalizer so I don't send things like
> this at times like now. :-)
>


And when I get ripped a new one for writing this, I'll assume its in good
humor, and savor the fact that the folks who tried to vote in their dream of
America being their "Christian Nation," got their asses handed to them last
November. They're welcome to make their homes a Christian Nation, but
America is a secular nation -- just look up Ben Franklin's, John Adam's (2nd
Pres of US), and Thomas Jefferson's (Polymath and 3rd US President) quotes
on Christianity (or religion in general). I just watched Bill Mahar's
documentary "Religulous" and it's amazing what some American Christians
think Jesus said that he never did say or mean. How convenient to them
though, huh? Seems to perfectly alighn with their own self-interests.


Re: [silk] Another Incarnation (Book Review of 'The Hindus, An Alternate History')

2009-04-29 Thread Ravi Bellur
>
>
> Visiting India in 1921, E. M. Forster witnessed the eight-day
> celebration of Lord Krishna’s birthday. This first encounter with
> devotional ecstasy left the Bloomsbury aesthete baffled. “There is no
> dignity, no taste, no form,” he complained in a letter home.


Brits were kinda uptight back then. See "The Family Guy" for the scene where
they depict British Porn (probably on You Tube). Hilarious.



> Recoiling
> from Hindu India, Forster was relieved to enter the relatively
> rational world of Islam. Describing the muezzin’s call at the Taj
> Mahal, he wrote, “I knew at all events where I stood and what I heard;
> it was a land that was not merely atmosphere but had definite outlines
> and horizons.”


Yeah, as an infidel. (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Infidel) -- welcome to
Monotheism: there can be only one

>
>
> The British Army captain who discovered the erotic temples
> of Khajuraho in the early 19th century was outraged by how “extremely
> indecent and offensive” depictions of fornicating couples profaned a
> “place of worship.” Lord Macaulay thundered against the worship, still
> widespread in India today, of the Shiva lingam. Even Karl Marx
> inveighed against how man, “the sovereign of nature,” had degraded
> himself in India by worshipping Hanuman, the monkey god.
>
Fornication rules. Watch the Animal Channel -- under our civilian vaneer we
are so much like our primate cousins that it's chilling.


>
> Repelled by such pagan blasphemies, the first British scholars of
> India went so far as to invent what we now call “Hinduism,” complete
> with a mainstream classical tradition consisting entirely of Sanskrit
> philosophical texts like the Bhagavad-Gita and the Upanishads. In
> fact, most Indians in the 18th century knew no Sanskrit, the language
> exclusive to Brahmins.


My ancestors were Brahmins -- both landlords and civil servants in recent
history. When I hear how they treated non-Brahmins, it makes me furious.
Egalitarianism isn't beneficient, it's protecting ones own freedom.


>
> And they found keen
> collaborators among upper-caste Indian scholars and translators. This
> British-Brahmin version of Hinduism — one of the many invented
> traditions born around the world in the 18th and 19th centuries


Everybody wants to rule the world. That should be the qualifiing test to
make sure that you're never allowed to.


>
> These mostly
> upper-caste and middle-class nationalists have accelerated the
> modernization and homogenization of “Hinduism.”


And in the US, rich people brandish Christianity while mocking Obama for
saying "We all do better when we share the wealth a little bit." What kind
of pinko commie would say that (Why... their own Jesus Christ). People with
money and power use whatever powers they can to hold their own positions and
enfranchise their children  to it.


>
>
>  Far from being a slave to mindless
> superstition, popular religious legend conveys a darkly ambiguous view
> of human action. Revered as heroes in one region, the characters of
> the great epics “Ramayana” and “Mahabharata” can be regarded as
> villains in another. Demons and gods are dialectically interrelated in
> a complex cosmic order that would make little sense to the theologians
> of the so-called war on terror.


Polemic thought makes everything easier. It makes hate and love so much more
passionate. Nevermind that it mirrors almost nothing in the natural world.
Brain hurt me think too hard, ugh.


>
>  As she puts it, “It’s not all about Brahmins, Sanskrit, the
> Gita.” It’s also not about perfidious Muslims who destroyed
> innumerable Hindu temples and forcibly converted millions of Indians
> to Islam.


It makes perfect sense to me that people disenfranchised by Hinduism would
willingly convert. Shovel your own nightsoil, Brahmins. BTW, Christianity
permeanted the Roman Empire in the same way -- blessed are the poor? One
life and then heaven? Where do I sign up?!? Can't blame 'em. I'd have done
the same.


>
> Happily, it will also serve as a salutary antidote to the fanatics who
> perceive — correctly — the fluid existential identities and commodious
> metaphysic of practiced Indian religions as a threat to their project
> of a culturally homogenous and militant nation-state.


I think they'd find any pretext for this. I'm somewhat surprised how violent
the empahtically indenfied Hindus are here.

Lets do some empericism.

Traits of the most economically successful countries with the highest
average level quality of life:
1) Not very religious
2) Highly egalitarian
3) Polite drivers who follow the rules
4) Low corruption
5) Alcohol consumption
6) High degree of women's rights, and promiscuity
7) Low or no abject poverty
8) Low violence and crime

(I'm not talking about the US on this -- mainly western Europe)

I dunno what it is but the countries that treat women like second class
citizens, are incredibly concerned about everyone elses sex life (and
limiting it), drive like thoughless m

Re: [silk] Another Incarnation (Book Review of 'The Hindus, An Alternate History')

2009-04-29 Thread Ravi Bellur
>
>
>
> Having said that, I wonder if there is any service that allows people
> at USA order books from Indian stores with delivery to the US listed
> addresses ?


The books I get here are WAY cheaper than the US, but they almost all
say "For sale only in India, Pakistan, Bangalesh, Sri Lanka, etc." Just like
region codes for DVDs, it's a scheme to base prices on the cost of living.
Fair enough, that's business.


Re: [silk] Bangalore Meetup on May 16?

2009-04-27 Thread Ravi Bellur
>
>
> > Anyone up for a drink
> > with Amit, myself, and whoever else turns up on that evening,
> > somewhere in the vicinity?
>

Hmmm spontaneously and with no outside influence, I think either of
these places look good: http://shiokfood.com  or http://mosslounge.com. :-)

As to how proximal they are to the bookstore, I'm too indolent at the moment
to suffer my Bangalore map book.


Re: [silk] Need some help

2009-04-25 Thread Ravi Bellur
Welcome to our western nightmare: men are the eye candy accessories.
http://omg.yahoo.com/news/melissa-rycroft-and-beau-make-red-carpet-debut-at-us-hot-hollywood-party/21664?nc

Sad that the wrong side won (instead of liberating women from superficial
oppression, we just subsumed men to the same thing... that said, the west is
full of single mom's raising the children of passion and looking for stable
men to do this. Nothing wrong with that, but from an evolutionary
perspective, what genes are being progenerated? Maybe that's why India seems
so nutty about controlling (and out of respect for this list, I'll walk away
from the obvious, latin based double entrendre) whom women are with.

That said, on the discovery channel, I'm watching a naked sadhu pull a jeep
with his penis. This is one crazy place -- and I mean that in the best and
worst ways, simultaneously.


Re: [silk] Disenfranchised Minorities?

2009-04-25 Thread Ravi Bellur
On Sat, Apr 25, 2009 at 8:16 PM, Srini RamaKrishnan wrote:

> (Bah, gmail on blackberry does not allow bottom posting)
>
> As someone once said, do not attribute to malice that which can be
> sufficiently attributed to stupidity.
>

Napolean Boneparte


Re: [silk] Disenfranchised Minorities?

2009-04-25 Thread Ravi Bellur
sic "lightening"

On Sat, Apr 25, 2009 at 6:51 PM, Ravi Bellur  wrote:

>   Don't forget the TV channels. All they want is a straw and they will
>> sensationalize it. Reminds of a recent sighting on News 9, a Bangalore
>> based local news channel. They were making a big hue and cry about a
>> program that was going to be aired later that night that was based on
>> the news that a woman was growing 'pot' in pots at home. The ad was
>> sounding as if it was a gruesome mass murder.
>>
>
> Hey, you need ratings to get Nivea and Garnier to sell their skin
> lightening products. Apparently no one believes the Western World when we
> say that Indians are good looking the way they are. And we'd like to be
> darker. I've been sunburned twice here already. It's unpleasant.
>
> But to quote Perry Farrell from "Jane's Addiction," -- "The news is just
> another show selling sex and violence" -- "Ted, Just Admit It" from the
> album "Nothing's Shocking"
>


Re: [silk] Disenfranchised Minorities?

2009-04-25 Thread Ravi Bellur
>
> Don't forget the TV channels. All they want is a straw and they will
> sensationalize it. Reminds of a recent sighting on News 9, a Bangalore
> based local news channel. They were making a big hue and cry about a
> program that was going to be aired later that night that was based on
> the news that a woman was growing 'pot' in pots at home. The ad was
> sounding as if it was a gruesome mass murder.
>

Hey, you need ratings to get Nivea and Garnier to sell their skin lightening
products. Apparently no one believes the Western World when we say that
Indians are good looking the way they are. And we'd like to be darker. I've
been sunburned twice here already. It's unpleasant.

But to quote Perry Farrell from "Jane's Addiction," -- "The news is just
another show selling sex and violence" -- "Ted, Just Admit It" from the
album "Nothing's Shocking"


Re: [silk] Need some help

2009-04-25 Thread Ravi Bellur
Thanks for this reply "." -- this was the kind of elucidation that helped me
understand things better. One of the many benefits of Silklist.

On the US election stuff, it vetted to the nation a lot of the gender
discrimination that still exists. There's plenty of discrimination that
persist, though things continue to improve.

I look to Western Europe mainly as the vanguard of human society. The US has
a way to go before we're there. But I blame them for sending all the
religious extremists here some several hundreds of years ago.

And I saw Goody Proctor consorting with the Devil!!! :-)


Re: [silk] Need some help

2009-04-21 Thread Ravi Bellur
On Wed, Apr 22, 2009 at 12:03 AM, .  wrote:

> On Tue, Apr 21, 2009 at 10:07 PM, Zainab Bawa 
> wrote:
> >>
> >>
> > Dear .
> > Discrimination in the rental housing market is not limited to religion.
> It
> > extends to caste, sex, nationality (and is there anything else under the
> > sun?).
>
> Yes, Gender.  Would it be wrong to say its the largest group being
> discriminated against in many different situations? To (re)cite an
> earlier experience, the landlord never asked me the woman's religion
> or age (both of which I didnt know) but her singular status and living
> alone upset him enough to claim that "single women are a big problem
> that no landlord wants".  Now that does get my goat (pun (un)intended)
> as I never understood what its supposed to imply or mean or was I
> reading too much into it. But he was not the first to say that so when
> 2 brokers echoed his s(ub)lim(e)y thoughts I realized how dangerous
> single women are, never mind that men speaking thus have daughters.
> The irony is befuddling!!
>
I must admit in my time here I am somewhat surprised at the bullshit women
have to put up with here, and that they seem to put up with it. If they want
this to end they need to fight back (metaphorically through many channels:
political, legal, community, self-defense, etc.). It can be done and there
will be conscientious people who may happen to have a Y chromosome who will
help, on principle.

I'm still trying to comprehend on what basis single women in an apartment
can be so nefariously dangerous. I don't think I get it (it being the
specious reason that these landlords believe). I come from a country where
almost everyone has premarital sex (men AND women), and with mutiple
partners in serial (sometimes in parallel for the kinky types) over time,
before they get married. Plenty of dating. And we're prudes compared to the
Europeans or Aussies. People make their choices of their free will with
their bodies and lives. If someone doesn't like it, they're welcome to
remain celebate. While I'm no lothario, I can't take my situation and make
it into some moral bullshit crusade and shove it down everyone's throat. The
respectable way is to mask my bitter jealousy over my salacious ineptitude
with alcohol and humor. :-)

Mating issues and such are big deals to most creatures, and the tactics used
are clever and brutal. Sorry, but usually the Animal Channel is the most
interesting thing on TV that I can understand during those times when I feel
chilling out in front of the tube. All this male obcession about who can
access which vagina when makes more sense when you see how our fellow
mammals behave. (but it doesn't make it right in a society that values
freedom)

Vervet monkeys in different troops, for example, alternate between trying to
get with the females from a different troop (smart -- don't interbreed) but
trying to stop males from other troops (violently) from getting with their
females. Both positive and negative competition exist. But in Meerkats, the
dominant female tries to stop other females in their group from having kids
-- she insists on being the only one. Our ancestry is sad and brutal --
unbecoming of an enlightened, sentient species.

Men can't blame women for the male sex drive and our need for self-control
-- which is what I think is some part of this repression -- as if they women
did something wrong to us because we feel a way that makes us uncomfortable
or competitive or bellicose. We need to take responsibility for how we are
and manage it. It can be done. There are entire parts of the world where
that's the norm (and those who violate it can get in some serious trouble
where they end up having many sexual partners of the same gender, against
their will, in a maximum security prison... ironic indeed).

If there's a way to do this other than the threat of law, I'd love to hear
it. Because for most cases of sufferage and equal rights, it's a nasty
battle that requires courage, legislation, and enforcement... at least until
the old people with unenlightened views shed their moral coil and become
some embarassing footnote in the history of humanity that kids years from
now look back and giggle at, like I do when I read about European doctors in
the middle ages bleeding people to treat them, or people not eating tomatoes
becuase they thought the red color meant they were poisonous...
http://homecooking.about.com/od/foodhistory/a/tomatohistory.htm

If anyone wants to merge this womans rights things with pedestrian rights,
you've got my support on that, too... :-)


Re: [silk] Need some help

2009-04-21 Thread Ravi Bellur
That was supposed to go to the thread that's numbering about 190+ entries.
dunno why it ended up here.


Re: [silk] Need some help

2009-04-21 Thread Ravi Bellur
On Tue, Apr 21, 2009 at 10:17 PM, Zainab Bawa wrote:

>  What makes you believe that Muslims
> shy away from capitalism?


True, and there's also that matter of the bazzillions we pay to Muslim
businessmen for oil (granted not in India, but remember that 17 of the 19
terrorists to whom 9/11 is attributed were Saudi Arabian). The west in
particular has made them some of the richest people in the world.

And to be honest, the west (and the US) has meddled extensively in that
region, mostly to dire results (not to mention counter to the values of
democracy and freedom that we ought to be prosetylizing in the world).

But that's just because they had the gall to be sitting on top of OUR oil!
(to be said in a Texan accent to best suitably mock those in American
businessmen who thought that way... who probably also ate a lot of steak,
but I doubt that was the root cause of their "moral flexibility").

Ask Salvador Allende what happens when you try to get in the way of our
bauxite! I don't know if George Washinton, Thomas Jefferson, or Ben Franklin
would have approved.


Re: [silk] Need some help

2009-04-21 Thread Ravi Bellur
>
> I'm not sure, but your suggestion seems to be that "quit[ting]
> drinking and smoking", "doing namaz religiously", and going to a
> temple every Friday is anti-"progressive".  Why?  "He avoided hanging
> out with us" seems to have more of a chance of being deemed
> un-progressive, but then I'd have to get to know you and your buddies
> better to take a call on that.
>
While this old friend has the right to do as he wants as long as he's not
harming others, there is, in spirit, a difference between, "I want to do
something different because it means something to me, but I still respect
your right to be you" versus, "We are better than you, we act in this way --
I cannot be with you because you are unclean infidel." The latter much more
condusive to intolerance and feeling ok in harming "outsiders" and I think
there are a small number of provacateurs who use that to get folks to take
that step. Or to feel it's ok to beat up Hindus celebrating a cricket win (I
can think of few more banal things to evoke violence than professional
sports). The fact is beating up anyone for that reason is criminal and
should be prosecuted. I don't care what the mentality is behind it.

I don't know much about folks "finding religion" as Muslims, but I can tell
you from experience that some "Born-Again Christians" become insufferably
patronizing and smugly superior-acting after their transformation --
apparently oblivious to Jesus' teachings on humility and loving others. And
cut themselves off from those not of the same beliefs, and shed their
"sinful" habits. Meh, if it makes 'em happy, let 'em. But if they think they
can violate others rights because of their pious position, well, they've got
another thing coming...


Re: [silk] Need some help

2009-04-21 Thread Ravi Bellur
>
> So, basically I don't get it. I don't think we can compare them to the
> Vikings. And I don't think this is just history repeating itself. And
> forcing change (through military or other means) from the outside might
> only
> result in making matters worse (as evidenced in recent efforts) and maybe
> if
> nurtured from within, it might have better results?
>
> Kiran
>

Yeah, it was somewhat flawed of an example. But lets say that radical
christians were able to get big funding and take over the US. It would be
pretty scary as well. And maybe they'd  be supporting christian martyrs
worldwide to protect christandom. If you watch the documentary "Jesus Camp,"
it's scary. Little kids chanting about how they were christian soldiers and
how they were in a religious war.

Thankfully we have government agencies that keep their eyes on those guys,
and most Americans, like most people in the world, I think, are moderate and
just wanna live and let live (except Paul McCartney when he was writing that
song for the James Bond movie...)

A lot of religions have that part where they are the chosen people and
everyone else is infidel shit. I think those who seize on that find it much
easier to do whatever they want to outsiders.

But ultimately, if it comes to crossing the street to avoid a perceived
risky group of people, or showing one is above such thing -- in the
individual case, I think we're programmed to err on the side of safety. It's
much easier to be an idealist (I find) in a safe environment. :-)


Re: [silk] Need some help

2009-04-21 Thread Ravi Bellur
>
>
> An appropriate reply would have been sent your way if you took the
> trouble to snip out the irrelevant parts of the conversation instead
> of top-posted vague statements which seem like fish bait ;)
> --


veg or non-veg fish bait? :-)


Re: [silk] Need some help

2009-04-21 Thread Ravi Bellur
On Tue, Apr 21, 2009 at 9:02 PM, sur...@hserus.net wrote:

> I've eaten camel in riyadh and kangaroo in perth. i just dont order meat
> when others at the table are vegetarian


I do cook special stuff just for them when I invite them over. Even when I
have a barbecue, in California you're going to have vegetarians coming,
religious, ethical, and/or health motivated.

And I use separate cooking utensils and pans and all that jazz. I know from
my own family how picky vegetarians want things done. It might be a little
annoying, but I respect it.

And I never expect them to cook meat for me. I've no problem eating veg.


Re: [silk] Need some help

2009-04-21 Thread Ravi Bellur
Oh, and I forgot one important point -- that playing up this "Muslim Threat"
has been politically expedient for a number of politicians around the world
(and definitely in the US). There's a different between the truth and the
"truthiness" that gets demagogues what they want.

And as far as whipping some young men up (especially when they're cut off
from women due to cultural prohibitions) into a passionate violent movement,
that's been going on forever, all over the world, and the leaders (almost
always older men) get their own demagoguery benefits, both psychological,
power, and fiduciary.

And getting a population angry at an outside enemy is a fantastic way to
distract them from domestic problems. And I don't think some of the guys in
the metal detector or 9mm automatic ammunition businesses (or Halliburton)
mind it too much either. Not to at all say they incite it, but I don't know
how strong their motivation to see it go away would be.

If there's no political motivation, then they just become gangs or skinheads
or whatever. I think there's too much focus on trying to uncover the
rationale rather than trying to measure the testosterone level. A bull
elephant during their "heat" with high testosterone levels is predisposed to
attack and dangerous to be around.


Re: [silk] Need some help

2009-04-21 Thread Ravi Bellur
During the crusades, I'd have rather taken my chances with Saladadin than
Richard the Lionhearted (the Europeans at that time were notoriously savage)
-- and if I was looking for science and culture, you'd want to head to
Baghdad not Paris.


I meant to spell "Salahadin" not "Saladadin" which sounds more like a witty
pun for a Middle Eastern style Salad on some chain restaurant's menu (ironic
slip given the vegitarian discussion earlier)


Re: [silk] Need some help

2009-04-21 Thread Ravi Bellur
>
> I didn't say I would pass judgment that he/she is a terrorist just on the
> basis of their Muslim name, just that I would be more wary. Since you've
> culled out other parts of my post - I'll restate. I didn't say I wouldn't
> rent to a Muslim, just not to somebody I didn't know at all or wasn't
> referred to me by somebody I know.
>
> Contrary to how you make it sound, I *don't* avoid Muslims like the plague.
> But neither do I want to be the open-minded stereotype-rejecting
> progressive-thinking idiot.


I find the best way to think of humans are a bunch of pretty much identical
scared little hairless monkeys who mostly can't tell the difference between
post-facto rationalized instinct and deliberate thought. We'll make great
uranium miners for our oppressive space-alien overlords who won't care who's
from what religion, family, color, or whatever -- no matter how much we
protest that we're different and special from the others. I look forward to
it. :-)

That said, in 988 AD if you saw a bunch of big blonde guys in a long boat,
you might wanna go the other way. In 1942 Europe, if you saw a swastika
flag, you shouldn't assume the place is a Yoga institute (The Yoga Institute
in Santacruz, Mumbai is full of swastikas). Were all Germans Nazis? The
party membership was in the single digit percentages at its height. During
the crusades, I'd have rather taken my chances with Saladadin than Richard
the Lionhearted (the Europeans at that time were notoriously savage) -- and
if I was looking for science and culture, you'd want to head to Baghdad not
Paris. Some say white people have never been slaves, but I assure you that
Germanians, Gauls, and Brittanians captured by Caesar's western campaign in
the 1st century BC came to Rome in chains and were sold.

And in the early 21st Century, chances are that a terrorist is going to be a
young Islamic male more than a middle aged Belgian woman. That's just the
historical timing at the moment. And a blonde male in a long boat will
elicit less fear. In fact the chance that the terrorist is going to be a
young male, or violence will come from one, is obviously more likely. Over
90% of the US prison population is male, and something like 50% are violent
offenders.

Before in the US the fear was anti-federal militia groups such as the
affinity of Tim McVey, a white christian who perpetrated the largest act of
terrorism on US soil (Oklahoma Federal Building, some 190 deaths including
children). The FBI had been raiding groups like that accumulating weapons.
That was part of McVey's espoused justification for his actions.

I never voted for Bush. I've been apologetic for the impression he's given
the world of Americans for 8 years. But I'm stuck with that stereotype. If I
walk into a store dressed up all "gangsta" I will have my picture ID checked
before I can use my credit card. If I'm wearing a nice suit, I won't be
checked.

However, if a US police officer pulls over a black person just for driving
in an neighborhood that has a low African-American population, that officer
is violating the civil rights of the person and is opened up to dismissal
and charges.

US officials and airport security are not supposed to profile. But as a
young man of swarthy description, I fit a profile. If they want to search
me, I don't mind. I've nothing to hide. And if there's anyone else who looks
like me getting on that plane, please, check them. It sucks that people who
happen to look somewhat like me were behind 9/11, but there's not much I can
do about it, much like a peaceful tall Blonde guy in 988AD might be killed
for being mistaken as a Viking.

However, the idea that Muslims should somehow be "cleaning their own house"
and taking care of these guys is stupid. I had no power to stop what was
going on in Gitmo. Hypothetically, had I gone down there and knocked on the
door with a letter telling them to stop, I'd have been thrown in the
slammer. A palenstinian living by some guys shooting off rockets at Israel
is going to get a bullet in the head or a rifle butt in the face if he goes
over there and tells them to stop. I don't take responsibility for what any
people who meet any of my demographic groups does. I'm a culture of one -- I
didn't ask to be born this way -- and I will shamelessly borrow and use the
best ideas of any and all groups of humans. I will not let retarded
supersticious idiots from hundreds of years ago force my behavior (although
if they had some good ideas, I'm game -- pick and choose).

So my point:
(1) I can understand someone being more worried that a young muslim man
might be a security risk than other folks.
(2) I still think it should be illegal to use such criteria to make
decisions about commerce, including renting.
(3) Treating women like second class citizens and beating up your family is
never ok -- I don't care who or what says otherwise -- it's wrong. (Unless,
of course a woman chooses to want to be treated that way, or if a family
member asks to be

Re: [silk] Need some help

2009-04-21 Thread Ravi Bellur
But no one's apologizing to me for the fact that steak is so delicious, damn
it! And don't even get me started on the wonder that is bacon...

And no one's apologizing to the person that may worship phallic objects who
is horrified at the treatment of carrots and cucumbers...  (although I
suppose that now impugns sausage)...

But possibly as a result of lesser demand, beef is cheaper here (by quite a
bit) than it is in the US. So the economist in me doesn't want to talk
anyone out of vegitarianism.

(I am trying to infuse some levity here, so please take it in that spirit. I
do acknowledge the ethical and ecological virtues of veg.)

On Tue, Apr 21, 2009 at 4:29 PM, Zainab Bawa  wrote:

> The other issue is also that I am made to feel apologetic about choosing to
> eat meat. That makes me feel worse!


Re: [silk] Need some help

2009-04-21 Thread Ravi Bellur
In Free Societies I think we believe there's large social benefit to
fairness and freedom. This includes access to enfranchisement in that
society. And a place to live, a place to work, etc. are elements of that.
Hence, in the US, there are Civil Rights laws that make certain
discrimination against people on the basis of race, religion, and gender
illegal -- all added in the 20th century after struggles.

I agree with personal choice; for example, I disagree with forcing a woman
to wear a headscarf and I disagree with attempts to force a woman not to be
able to wear a headscarf -- like some French schools tried to do. No one
forces them to rent out their places. But if they want to engage in what is
essentially commerce, for the greater societal welfare it needs to be
governed by fair rules as much as stock transactions should bar insider
information. For example, there is a list of information that a realtor
cannot provide a buyer in the US as its considered discriminatory:
http://law.freeadvice.com/government_law/civil_rights_law_ada/housing_protections.htm

That said, there's plenty hidden discrimination -- people who don't want to
rent to college kids fearing destructive parties. Condo communities that
don't allow children because it annoys the old folks. Fat people are often
discriminated against in the workplace. Sometimes it can be hard to prove.
As much as a huge liability the litigious nature of the US is, sometimes it
does end up scaring people into doing the ethical thing, simply to avoid
punishment.

But on a personal note, a vegetarian Hindu in India (mind you, that's what
my Indian side of the family has been for generations), who walks around
thinking themselves morally superior to a Swede who eats meat just makes me
laugh. In Sweden there is no such idea as a person being a "dalit." There
are no slums. Everyone can go to school. It is illegal to discriminate
against people based on color (they even have dark skinned women on TV,
which I almost never see here in India!), religion, race, gender, etc. There
is no eve-teasing, no police torture (and the police enforce the law), no
dowrys, no honor killing, very little violence and crime, you can cross the
street without cars trying to run you down, etc. When India starts taking
care of the human beings here, I'll stop eating meat. Priorities, please!

Two final points -- the US has plenty of poverty, corruption, and violence
(not to mention the reported torture in Gitmo)-- which many Americans find
shameful (and I also laugh at Americans who think we're the best because
we've got claim to so many superlatives, rather than contemplating rating us
on the life of the average person or plight of those least fortunate). And
second, there are *many* progressive and humanist Indians I've met who want
to change things for the better here (and things have been getting better
here in so many ways) -- the population is diverse here and I'm only talking
about that segment that acts in these intolerant ways. The conflict between
the "intolerati" (some of whom wouldn't want to rent to an Indian because
they don't want that "damned curry smell" in their rental unit --
fortunately that's illegal for them to do -- and some of whom would want all
Muslims in the US rounded up and put in camps, which again, is completely
unconstitutional and would never be done -- especially after the shame of
the Japanese internment during WWII) and the rest of Americans is one of the
reasons for the major regime change in 2008.

Because, to quote Michael Caine's character from the Austin Powers movie,
"There are two things I can't stand: people who are intolerant of other
people's cultures, and the Dutch!" :-)

On Tue, Apr 21, 2009 at 3:29 PM, Zainab Bawa  wrote:

> It is problematic when vegetarianism is imposed on my by force, in both
> subtle and not-so-subtle ways. That I am viewed as lowly, meat eating
> person, simply because some cultures believe that it is more moral and
> superior to eat vegetarian food. There are personal choices, social
> choices,
> ecological choices for eating vegetables over meat. That is fine as long as
> it is not imposed on me. There is a fundamental issue of freedom at stake
> here.


Re: [silk] On self-improvement

2009-04-13 Thread Ravi Bellur
Self-improvement, to some degree, requires self-awareness. Self-help books
try to bake some of this in, but I think ultimately having the ability to
see your "automatic thoughts" and understand their motivators. I think this
is the realm of cognitive psychology, and I think they use many tools from
that in self-help books -- but from what I've had recommended by
well-credentialed folks is "Feeling Good" (horribly trite title for a great
book) by David Burns. It describes itself as a therapy for depression, but
what it does is quite thoroughly and methologically lay forth the principles
of Cognitive Therapy as created by Dr. Aaron T. Beck at the University of
Pennsylvania. Burns was one of Beck's students (both MDs and clinical
researchers).

And obviously way before that there was Astanga Yoga where
self-awareness is a big part.

For Covey the Seven Traits of Highly Effective People might be obvious, but
as we deconstruct it, we see that he's a Mormon, and therefore may live a
fairly "idyllic" life free from of the vicissitudes (or fun) that some face,
simple and wholesome values, and with a lot of positive thinking going on
around. For those wondering why adopting those traits may be harder than
just "wanting to," I think self-awareness is key. Know thyself...

For example, I do not like fishsticks...


Re: [silk] Bangalore silk meet up

2009-04-10 Thread Ravi Bellur
I've got some pics, Bonobashi -- I'll upload them and put up a link... I
just have to photoshop myself to be better looking... I'll have to send to
LucasArts' ILM for that... :-)


Re: [silk] Bangalore silk meet up

2009-04-10 Thread Ravi Bellur
great meet up! good times meeting all of you -- thanks!


Re: [silk] Bangalore silk meet up

2009-04-08 Thread Ravi Bellur
>
> >  wrote:
> >> We're in for Friday. Shall we say 11:30 am?
> >>
> >> 1. Venkat
> >> 2. Usha
> >
> > 3. Udhay
> 4. Kiran

5. Ravi


Re: [silk] Indian Men Living in U.S. Strike Out

2009-04-06 Thread Ravi Bellur
>
>
> > Marriage has historically been an economic arrangement first and
> > foremost, a partnership to weather the rough waters of life. Ancient
> > Rome at the peak of its affluence saw a decline in marriages because
> > people saw no reason to marry. This led to the introduction of the tax
> > sop for married couples that most modern states continue to this day.
>
> Shot in the dark - skewed sex ratio apart, what about female life
> expectancy, infant mortality rates?
>
> If females had lower life expectancy and infant mortality was high,
> society as such would move to polygamy. Once female and male life
> expectancy got closer, and infant mortality rate was lower, given the
> need for a proper home for the child, society as a whole would have
> encouraged monogamy.
>
I watched a multi-part series about vervet monkeys on National Geographic.
It seemed to (savagely) explain why we are compelled to behave in certain
ways we think we are consciously choosing (oh, yes, there was blood). We
just invent the justifications post-facto.

In the 24th Century, Picard will remind us that we're better than this...
and we don't need Propecia or Rogaine.


Re: [silk] Indian Men Living in U.S. Strike Out

2009-04-06 Thread Ravi Bellur
>
>
> http://online.wsj.com/article/SB123896998996190775.html
>
>  For instance, he says some overseas Indians
> want a bride who is smart, fluent in English, and "simultaneously, docile
> in
> the house." He says such women are now harder to find, so he bumps up his
> fees for some searches."
>
> To be fair, there are some red-blooded, white-breaded American males
looking for such demure companions as well. Unsurprisingly, usually these
guys are conservative, christian, and Republican. The cartoon "Morel Orel"
on Adult Swim does a good job of satiring, in general, that group.

But I do agree (in my case happily) that they are a vanishing breed in the
US. Unless they want to be that way of their own free will and choice,
understanding they have options, in which case, by all means. It's the
"forcing" part that rubs my "Free-Society" fur the wrong way.


Re: [silk] Bangalore silk meet up

2009-04-06 Thread Ravi Bellur
re: Lunch

Ignorant of proximity issues, may I innocently recommend F &  B off of St.
Marks? I went there this past weekend with Udhay and it rocked!!


Re: [silk] Manning the barricades

2009-04-02 Thread Ravi Bellur
>
>
>
> Oh you poor guy! Getting an increment must have been a very painful part of
> your life then.
>
It's not completely berift of logic. If the opposite of incremental growth
is excremental fall, it could explain the economic shit storm the US is in.


Re: [silk] Manning the barricades

2009-04-02 Thread Ravi Bellur
Yeah, I've got my problems. I still think the opposite of "increment" is
"excrement"... :-)


Re: [silk] Yet another introduction (Venkat Inumella)

2009-04-02 Thread Ravi Bellur
Re: various interesting names

It would be hard to beat this one for irony, especially if you're cursed
with puerile sensibilties like me: the director of the WHO's dept on
HIV/AIDS is named Kevin De Cock.

http://www.who.int/hiv/mediacentre/news59/en/index.html

He actually looks like a pretty nice guy...


Re: [silk] Manning the barricades

2009-04-02 Thread Ravi Bellur
> Sic transit gloria mundi.

It means "so passes the world's glory" --

sic = "so" as in "so is it always for tyrants" which John Wilkes Booth said
before he shot Abraham Lincoln (Sic semper tyrannus).

transit = passes or goes (obviously they based the Latin word on our English
word, before inventing their time machine to go back 2500 years)

gloria = glory -- like the U2 song -- or glory to God in the highest (Gloria
in excelcious Dieu)... forgive all spelling errors which are cleverly
intentional as sublime satire... yeah... right... :-) -- much like Bono must
be short for Bonobashi :-)

mundi = like "spiritus mundi" from the opening track of Synchronicity by the
Police

Like many things, popular music has the answers. :-)


Re: [silk] Bangalore silk meet up

2009-04-02 Thread Ravi Bellur
Count me in, please!

On Thu, Apr 2, 2009 at 1:28 PM, Venkat Mangudi wrote:

> Kiran K Karthikeyan wrote:
> > OK. So lets say next Friday for dinner?
> >
> I'm game...
>
>


Re: [silk] Bangalore silk meet up previouslyTED India Registrations now open

2009-03-28 Thread Ravi Bellur
Another time perhaps?

I hear Cloud 9 is supposed to be the most enjoyable...

On Sat, Mar 28, 2009 at 1:39 PM, Venkat Mangudi's Silk Account <
s...@venkatmangudi.com> wrote:

> Sunday is out. Will be going to CloudCamp.
>
>
> On 3/26/09, Kiran K Karthikeyan  wrote:
> > 2009/3/26 Venkat Mangudi 
> >
> >> Kiran K Karthikeyan wrote:
> >> > Venkat, Ravi, and Myself so far. Anybody else?
> >> >
> >> Someone mentioned dinner on Friday or Saturday, both days are not good
> >> for me. Besides, I prefer the lunch at F&B. Can we get a date/time for
> the
> >> silk meetup?
> >
> >
> > That someone was yours truly. I just figured that were the best days.
> Lunch
> > on Sunday is fine as well, though I won't be able to make it to dinner.
> >
> > F&B is open for lunch from 11.30 to 3.45. Lets make it 1?
> >
> > Kiran
> >
>
> --
> Sent from my mobile device
>
>


Re: [silk] Introduction - New Member

2009-03-25 Thread Ravi Bellur
If there's one thing I've learned from Keanu Reeves, it's that there is no
spoon... :-)

On Wed, Mar 25, 2009 at 8:56 AM, lukhman_khan wrote:

> > Thanks Kiran. Udai is helping me as well --  but the more
> > help the better,especially at this beginning phase which
> > is about taking in the larger scene and seeing
> > what's out there.
>
> Shouldnt it be *less help the better*
>
> Too much of spoon feeding takes the fun out of the exploration.
>
> Lukhman
>
>
>


[silk] Saying "no" to moral policing in Bangalore

2009-03-25 Thread Ravi Bellur
I was heartened to read this piece:
http://in.news.yahoo.com/43/20090325/818/tnl-no-votes-for-moral-cops-say-bangalor.html

Even though I do find sleeveless t-shirts a bit lowbrow, with the usual
intent of showing off the "guns" to the relatively unmuscled public. Unless
it was a Def Leppard t-shirt, in which case, I believe sleeveless is the
desired configuration.

This may then help explain the abjectly low number of women walking around
on Brigade Rd and the surroundings on a Saturday afternoon. I'm not fooled
-- with 1.3 billion people, and women the gating factor for birthrate, they
have to be somewhere -- even if sequestered underground in some Chitty
Chitty Bang Bang fashion.

Not that I have any salacious intent that's being foiled -- I condemn
accosting anyone, women or men (for example, I don't want to take
a damned 20 rupee one hour ride around the city where the driver drops me at
some shopping place that he [I've never seen female autorickshaw driver --
are there any?] get kickbacks from so they can hard/guilt sell me some crap
so please stop following me for 2 blocks relentlessly, necessitating I be
rude with you to get the message across. Nor do I ever want to engage a
woman in such a fashion that she has to be rude to me to get the message
across. That's just troglodytic.) -- it was just starkly noticeable and
strange to me. For so many vegetarians who thought it'd be such a
sausage-fest.

Then again, when I heard about the rave and the of the 100 people arrested,
how it was such a disgrace that 22 were women, I completely agreed. You've
got to have a 50/50 ratio at least. I'm sure that was the reason for the
outrage. (But to be fair, they bust raves in the US all the time -- for
illegal drugs and unlicensed liquor serving and such -- fair enough, they
are breaking the law -- but "obscene dancing?" That said, there are
conservative nut-groups in the US who want to ban school dances and such, as
being immoral, so one can hardly argue the US is wholly progressive... But
if one hosted a party for young people in much of the so-called "Western
World" with 78 guys and 22 women, the host ought be prepared to be harangued
for months about it... unless it was like organized by the single women or a
gay party or something, in which case I think one would be rightfully
lauded.)

I don't think there's any ethical way to stop women from self-actualizing,
even if it bothers one for whatever reason. Better we accept this. (I'm no
lothario but I've learned to subjugate my anger at this ineptness the
respectable way -- with bitterness and alcohol  :-).  Given the number of
6-foot tall Valkyries in Scandinavia, they had to succumb early, lest the
men be soundly beaten, physically.

However, there is the "bored young men with too much testosterone and
retarded inter-gender social skills cause trouble" theory. Even without some
demagogue to hand down rationalizations, you've got well-armed gangs in the
US, frat boys, etc. I can only hope that one day there will be compassion
and perhaps treatment for that tragically afflicted legion with age-related
testosterone poisoning. I recall it wasn't an easy time.


Re: [silk] TED India Registrations now open

2009-03-24 Thread Ravi Bellur
I'm game!



>
> Why don't we have a silk meetup there since there have been some newcomers
> to the list (myself included)?
>
> Need the latest food guide for Bangalore.
>
> Kiran
>


Re: [silk] Introduction - New Member

2009-03-24 Thread Ravi Bellur
On Tue, Mar 24, 2009 at 7:03 PM, Bonobashi  wrote:

>
> 
>
> > > The answer is Samit Basu.
> >
> Trying too hard to be clever, I
> > thought.
>
> Just for that, nobody will pay attention to you
>

I only hope that's true -- I forgot Udai gave the caveat that this is
archived and available online. Therefore I deny all responsibility for the
former posts by someone with sureptitious access to my account that may have
offended hypocritical American feminists, Hindu conservatives who have
members who use violence to further their cause, Danish women, born-again
Baby Boomers, and people with good taste.

Because apparently the vogue on freedom of discussion is, if you are
offended, you try to punish the offender by censure and direct action to
deprive one of  economic means. Even if you're not a celebrity endorsor
who's violated some conservative social value.

Everyone's great, especially those most easily offended, and plain toast
with milk is the tastiest meal one can have...  (please don't hurt me,
people who research others online for some large paying entity...)

Timoriously and repentantly,
Ravi


Re: [silk] TED India Registrations now open

2009-03-24 Thread Ravi Bellur
I think they assume companies will pay it, and, at least in the US, they are
inured to such figures. But yeah, I think it's too much. I think they only
want people who don't think that. Remember: conferences are businesses. They
make money.

On Tue, Mar 24, 2009 at 7:18 PM, Mayank Dhingra wrote:

> Is it just me or $2,400 is a bit too much ?
>


Re: [silk] Introduction - New Member

2009-03-24 Thread Ravi Bellur
>
>
> Welcome to the asylum, and please wipe the razors clean of blood after use.
> Your courtesy will be appreciated by other users.
>
I have a theory to solve problems that I call "Occam's Razor-slashed
wrists," -- it states that whatever the most depressing explanation is,
that's the most likely one. I'll make sure to clean up after use. :-)


>
> PS: I happen to be a friend of the only fat Dane in Denmark. It started
> with pity and ended in friendship. I couldn't help feeling sorry for him; he
> married an Iyengar.
>
It's hard to beat the US for obesity (though the percentages vary quite a
bit from state to state). But there are corpulent Danes. Beer and pork can
add up, calorically.

I'm not sure what "marrying an Iyengar" means (I know of BKE Iyengar from
studying yoga, as well as the fact that the B stands for Bellur, which is
where he's from. That and a rupee will buy me some paan.). Can anyone
explain, so as to broaden my cultural knowledge?


Re: [silk] Introduction - New Member

2009-03-24 Thread Ravi Bellur
Scandinavian women in general are very sexually liberated (probably the most
in the world, although when it comes to being unshackled by "traditional"
views, the Aussies are supposed to be close if not more so, but I base that
solely on scuttlebutt). They are also very independent -- the most truly
"equal" in terms of gender relations I've seen -- like if you try to pick up
the check too often when "going out" (no one really "dates" there, in that
this formal courtship idea is viewed as somewhat anachronistic), you will
honestly anger the woman (as opposed to the "cake-and-eat-it-too" feminism
stage that I would argue is more the case in the US -- that battle is still
in the "who has the power" stage).

This openness is seen in examples such as the City of Copenhagen employing
topless women to hold speed limit signs to address a speeding problem in the
city. Paid for with taxpayer money. Or topless beaches. Or sexually explicit
content on TV. One might almost believe that the women there enjoy sex for
its own sake, and aren't afraid to want it. Shri Ram Sena would crap their
pants.

To spite the prognostications that "loose sexual morals" is a harbinger of
social distentegration, Scandinavia consistently scores as the highes
quality of living in the world. I dare say, looking at places that are
oppressive about sexuality, they are far further down on the list. I
wouldn't posit cause for coincidence, but it does make me picture Tyler
Durden leaning over to them on an airplane saying, "...so how's that working
out for you... being [so pure]" (N.B. my change to his original quote which
was "...being clever," after Edward Norton's character says something about
single-serving friends)...

I speak of today's generation though -- my mom's generation was more
conservative and such -- they were growing up during the aftermath of WWII
where there was plenty of deprivation and devistation that needed to be
remedied. Not terribly different than the Boomer generation (who are seeming
to find Jesus in large numbers, and obnoxiously prosetylizing their new
enlightenment as if to demonstrate their solipcism that has harmed the US in
many ways). The younger generations in the US are pretty different, and more
overtly salacious (thanks, Paris Hilton...)

Having been smitten by a number of nordic damsels, I will say that one of
the thing that is so strange is the sheer percentage of young women who are
simply gorgeous. I leave it to the cultural geneticists to explain...

That said, Danish pronunciation can be a bitch. Your vexation is quite
entitled. But it's only 5.5M people. That's like a rounding-error in India.
So, in aggregate, just in pure numbers, there must be far more sex going on
in India than in Denmark. How do you like them butter cookies, Danes?!? :-)

On Sat, Mar 21, 2009 at 10:32 AM, Tim Bray  wrote:

> On Fri, Mar 20, 2009 at 8:58 PM, Ravi Bellur  wrote:
> > I was born in the US to an Indian dad from Bangalore and a Danish mom.
>
> This is a true story.  One time I was in Helsingør, AKA Hamlet's
> hometown, at a technology conference, and I was single, and I met a
> comely young Danish woman, also single who looked at me That Way, and
> thought there might be something there, but I couldn't pronounce her
> first name and she didn't think that was cute, so I got nowhere.  I
> recognize that having a Danish mom doesn't make this your fault, but
> I'm still bitter.
>
>  -Tim
>
>


Re: [silk] Introduction - New Member

2009-03-24 Thread Ravi Bellur
Thanks Kiran. Udai is helping me as well --  but the more help the
better,especially at this beginning phase which is about taking in the
larger scene and seeing what's out there.

Best of luck on your job search as well.

Regards,
Ravi

On Sat, Mar 21, 2009 at 5:45 PM, Kiran K Karthikeyan <
kiran.karthike...@gmail.com> wrote:

> > I did product management and marketing stuff mainly,
>
> A fellow product manager! Welcome!
>
> And also on the job hunt, well best of luck! I've been at for a few months
> now.
>
> But do forward me your profile off-list and I can send it to some
> recruiters I have been talking to and some connections if you like.
>
> Kiran
>
>


Re: [silk] Prime Ministerial candidate

2009-03-23 Thread Ravi Bellur
Also I think the trance band "Enigma" named a song "Mea Culpa" which means,
"My fault" or "My blame" (the root of the word "culpable") in Latin.

Although it appears the local police may have tried to stop the party where
that music was played., lest there be "obscene dancing..." :-)

On Mon, Mar 23, 2009 at 9:24 AM, ss  wrote:

> On Monday 23 Mar 2009 9:11:34 am Biju Chacko wrote:
> >  where
> > the heck else would those of us who missed out on a classical
> > education have come across the word?
>


Re: [silk] Thanks for a warm welcome

2009-03-22 Thread Ravi Bellur
and to see if I can get an Earth English spell checker in next year's
budget, so I can correctly write, "assault." For a "universal language" of
the planet (note the quotes, and back off, Esperanto bitches)  there are far
too many crazy exceptions to this one, and I, for wun, have had enuf of
it... :-)

On Mon, Mar 23, 2009 at 12:40 AM, Ravi Bellur  wrote:

> I second that emotion. Thanks for the warm welcome. And the incisive
> interchange that I've been a voyeur to in the past few days. I'll tell my
> native species, from the planet where the sentient race is logical and fair,
> to send back the assult fleet -- there is, indeed, intelligence on this
> watery rock. And Rock, as well. :-)
>


Re: [silk] Thanks for a warm welcome

2009-03-22 Thread Ravi Bellur
I second that emotion. Thanks for the warm welcome. And the incisive
interchange that I've been a voyeur to in the past few days. I'll tell my
native species, from the planet where the sentient race is logical and fair,
to send back the assult fleet -- there is, indeed, intelligence on this
watery rock. And Rock, as well. :-)


[silk] Introduction - New Member

2009-03-20 Thread Ravi Bellur
Hi, all,

Udai and my cousin Bala are long time friends, from childhood. I met Udai
though him and after being subjected to my company on a number of occasions,
he invited me to join silklist. I thought it was a fan club for the soy milk
brand. But it's more likely a place to ask and discuss the larger questions,
such as why some people, perhaps out of some nefarious monosaccharide
racism, cannot tolerate a glucose and a galactose molecule getting together.

I was born in the US to an Indian dad from Bangalore and a Danish mom. I'm
currently in India, this being my 4th visit, and no visit every being less
than 6 weeks. Synthesizing the voiced input of my friends I think of myself
as a dilettante that is occasionally mistaken for a polymath.

I did a 5 year sentence at Stanford Maximum Security Educational
Institution, escaping from a sewage pipe into a rainstorm with a bachelors
in economics and a masters in industrial engineering. I then worked in tech
for some 12 years -- Intuit, Microsoft, some start-ups. So I lived in the
bay area for a while (though I went to Seattle for Microsoft).

I did product management and marketing stuff mainly, although I did run beta
testing and usability for Intuit for a while. Everything from working on
features with recalcitrant engineering teams to talking to press about new
products while being chaperoned by toothsome but vapid PR women dressed all
in black with yellow tinted spectacles that have no corrective power.

I love rock and roll, put another rupee in the jukebox baby -- I play
electric guitar and sing in a throw-together band. I also love things
epicurean (but hate looking up how to spell words like that), and somehow
was one of Zagat's top contributors for their 2008 bay area guide (touching
form letter I got from them, but at least it came with a free book and map).


Politically I've been a democrat for as long as I've been a voter, and with
a Danish mom, I find little wrong with being a liberal and considering
social programs for areas important to human dignity that are overlooked or
underserved by the private sector (there is a difference between whether
help is needed and whether the help currently given is working or not). In
general I look to South Park and the Daily Show for the most truthful news
-- paraphrasing Shaw, 'If you're going to tell people the truth, you had
better make them laugh. Otherwise they will kill you'

I'm currently in Bangalore (I've been in India since Jan 21st), taking a
break from the vibe in the states and soaking in all that's changed since I
was last here in the late '80s. As a person of Indian origin, I got one of
these very nifty "Person of Indian Origin" cards that connotes certain
benefits like not needing a visa, and being entitled to work. So I am very
seriously contemplating getting some remunerative endeavor (like a job) and
spending a prolonged time here.

Although with an 11:00 last call at bars, I'm thinking someone deconstructed
the name of the place and presumed it meant "ban galore" -- as in how much
can we ban. :-)

Eager to enjoy the effervescent edification of ebullient erudition.

Best,
Ravi